We should take stand and fight against this pathetic culture that has ruined hundreds of generations.

True

Ye youth abi ma bap bny gy...inko pta hona chahiye k apny bachy kese paly

To Sahaba jehad bh krte the or rozi bh kamate the, deen ki tabligh bh krte the mgr parents k ghar me nh rehte th. Wo kya sara din khidmat krte th? Nh na.. To khud ko jhooti tassali dena chor den. Aurat ko itne haqeer kam k lye bnaya h Allah ne k bs kitchen se bahir nh aaye? Aurat ki zimedari nasal tyar krna h jo Allah k deen ko phelayen us k lye lare. Agr sara din maa saas susar ki khidmat kre g to bachon pr kab tawaja de gi? Yehi waja h k aaj kal Muhammad bin qasim nh tiktokers paida ho rh hn. Tarbiyat ka waqt or himmat nh th maaon k pas.

u r on right track and sahil has totally ignored it.

Agr parents galat hon to alag hoajan chaye agr achay to ni hona

dono responsibilities ALLAH Pak ne mard ke zimay di hen, or ALLAH PAK insan ki haisiyat se zyada usper bojh nahi dalte

Mard ki fazilat b isi Liye he k Kam ziada krny hn usko warna qanoon me to dono mrd aurat brabr hn... Ikhtiyar or fazilat chahiye to zimmedari or Kam b double kry

The whole world is able to afford only Indian subcontinent people has this problem.

@@zshoaib86 if you can afford live seperate

Sensible view point...

@@gharkibatein I am a teacher and I face this problem everyday because the children behavior is very abnormal most of them always try to bulley those who are respectful towards others and I am 200℅ shure that this behavior comes from the behavior of Tayi chachi and taya chacha along with whom they love in a joint family system because husband wife don't do this in front of their children. And there are privacy issues when you share the space with others. So it's not about just me and you. And true relatives supports each other mostly when lives far apart those who lives together mostly destroy each other both mentally and financially. Do some research on it.

YESSS I feel the same for example Mr Sahil want his children to respect and take of parent now father is out for work and mother is not doing any thing she is continously using mob Masi come to house to cook to clean and do laundry and that lady is using the house eating dress g doing every thing NOW my question what children are learning and top of that these people are telling girls you have no responsibility expect except sleeping with husband and having children what kind of society we are developing 🤬🤬🤬🤬 I'm out of Pakistan so we have to work in office and then we cook as well take care of children other national specially Indians wives they are a very good example for us to learn

Who gonna cook for your old parents if your wife can’t do that for you and your old parents , when what is the point to get Married if we have to work outside 24/7 , cook for old parents and take care of wife and our homes , and we can’t afford servants coz of high cost . I don’t agree with this point of sahib adeem . Someone have to take care of old and sick parents and man can’t do that because they have to stay out and work 24/7 to fulfill the needs of family and house .

There is no compulsion in serving husband parent...rest all social issue need to look in true picture...Islam has no restriction living together or seperately ...there r certain restriction of Mahram etc...try to understand in true perspective bro

@@alijaffer8766 there are no compulsions but it is necessary to maintain the livelihood of home. If one doesn’t do that home will be more than hell for a single man who is working out , yes there are rights for wives in different situations but we can’t fit one word for all the situations that in-laws don’t have to do . If that so then we don’t need wives if they can’t be helpful to us and make us work like animals. There is no compulsions but in such scenarios it’s necessary. Imagine yourself as an old dad with only one son living separately with his wife and you are old , weak and sick can’t do anything by yourself and you wait the whole day with hunger for your son to return home then cook and feed you because his wife can’t do that or don’t wanna do that , then you will understand that one word cannot be fitted in every situation.

@@Applesonthefl00r these are just scoring theire points

@@Applesonthefl00r its not wife problem…its thag husband headache to manage time for his father. Dont look for free maids.

Absolutely right

@binte gulzar did sahaba throw parents out of the house nauzubillah if they kept their wives in separate hujrat?

Jab Islam ne aik rule Bata diya tumko phir bhi Tum apni chit leke Bethe huye ho tum aadha Islam aur aadha culture loge tou sirf nuksaan hi hoga kisi sahaba ne apni maa ki zimmedari apni biwi pe nhi daali aur Aap sallallahu alahi wasallam khud 9 biwian alag gharon me rakhin Hain aur konsa mufti hai Jo ye BAAT batata hai k 4 biwian aur 1 maa ko aik hi chat ke neeche rakho jab nikah karoge Tou khud hi barkat hogi alag Ghar rakho aur Allah pe bharosa karo sab hojayega

But internally they are not.

Un. Maa Baap ki khidmat Sahil sahib karain ga🤔🤔

اسلام نے یہ کہا ہے کہ بیوی کی اپنی ذاتی زندگی ہونی چاہیے جو ایک گھر میں رہ کر بھی پوری ہو سکتی ہے لیکن بیوی کا یہ کام نہیں ہے کہ وہ آپ کے ماں ، باپ کو وقت پر ناشتہ کھا نا دے ، اُن کے کپڑے دھوئے ۔ خدمت اور علامی میں فرق ہوتا ہے۔

He is talking about Islamic Family system. How one can add those things in Islam which are not the part of Islam. He is not teaching to disobeying parents but he is clearly saying that taking care of your parents is your duty

I'm not agree with him we are not living in Saudi Arabia we are in India and Pakistan.

@@khansaulathanif2016 are u Muslim or Hindu ?

Ye b islam me hi he beta hi kry ga... fazilat di hui he mard ko qk Kam ziada diye hn...suhaba read krlien

Sirf lecture day sktay hain apna ghr chalanay k liye

Yeh monafik log hain yeh khod joint family system may rehtay hain or dosro ko lecture day rahay hotay hain

Baat mokammal Keh is trah lurka biwi ki wo khowahishaat bhi pori krta ha Jo shariat nay nahi likhi waha to nai boltay ladies ko ku husband say shariat k ilawa hakook maang rahi ho

,@@aiyshasafdar2195 Then you tell what a wife is supposed to do if she doesn't want to work outside and pay the bills? Does she want everything for free and let her husband do all the work?

​@@b201aman6kiaa bachon ki zimmedari aur Aapke liye khaana pakana aur Ghar ka khayal rakhna Kam hai

faraiz and huquq can be sen by shariat.... In Islami sharia each things are defined.

Aisa nhi h Sahil adeem sir ki bt Hmary state of mind se alag zaroor hoti hain pr sari btein 100% thk hoti hain

@@malikalishan777نہیں کبھی بھی جانچنا ہو تو قرآن کا ترجمہ کرنے والے انسان کے آداب پر غور کریں ۔۔۔۔ قرآن حدیثیں ہمیں بہت کچھ سیکھاتی ہیں جس میں پوری ۔معاشرتی۔ زندگی بھی شامل ہے لیکن بلکل صیحیح العقیدہ ۔۔راست گو۔۔شریعت کا پابند ۔علماء حق اور سچ کی بات کرنے والے سے سیکھیں دین ہے کوئ مزاق نہیں

Masla ye hai k jiska sath do wohi apney rights ka ghalat istemal krny lagta hai ..agr parents ko right dia jaey to wo phr poorey khandan ki khidmat ka zimma bahu ko de dety hain..aur agr larki ko right dia jary to wo phr kehti hai k chahy tumhary maa baap bhook se mar jaein mai to unko khana deny ki zimedar nhi hun...karein to kya karein

Islam ka ABC b pata hai ya nahi???.. moulana Tariq Jameel ki Zubani suno ki khidmat ki k zimay hai oor khandani system kya hota hai...

@@kashurmath497 اسلام میں اے بی سی نہیں ہوتا

Zarori to nahi hai 70% khandan yahi karte hain aap un 30% logon ko na gine har ghar ki yahi kahani hai

Or na e vo in aurton ki baat kr raha h vo baat e Muslim aurto ki kr raha h jo Islamic system m hoti h or apna role proper play kr rhi hoti h Same for men Jab tum ho e ni us system m to ro q rhy ho Itni b smjh ni h pta ni shadia kr k ksy bthy ho thoda to dimagh use kro

Madam aap ki bahu hai kia?

True. Many things goes with our culture and tradition. Husband does more than farz as well for wives. Then husband should do farz only as well?

@@aiyshasafdar2195 you want to say k iss door main Banda alaag gher afford Kar skta hai ....... Her 1 key itni amdun Nahi Hoti ....Rahi Jannat key baat Tu phir theak hai apnay leyeh na Sahi apnay shohar k leyeh he itni Tu effort key ja skti hai k voh Jannat kama lay ... Her 1 main itni manage karnay key takat nai hoti ... Barhul ... Jo is dunya main boi ga us nay iss dunya main b Katna hai...

@@aiyshasafdar2195 ager Islam allow nai karta family system Tu phir discussion he end hai

@@aiyshasafdar2195 ye kaha mana hai in islam please give reference

she can also work, wtf she isn’t married to ur parents why she should take care of them

Saas hain aap? Ya nand hain kisi ki?

😂😂​@@abby1AB

Aap ko wsa kis na kha diya hai aap zindagi main maza lutna aye hui hain

mostly her sas sussar ARE one of the hardships of her life, you can settle in when they become old, but when you're newly wed, no need to ruin your relationship with your husband because of the constant chik chik between inlaws

dono zimedaryan ALLAH Ta'ala ne admi ko di hen, or biwi us had tak khush ho ker karti he jab tak wo zulm na ban jaye, deveron ko mot farmaya gaya hai or usko sar pe lake khara kar dete hen, ajeeb

Islam ny jb 1 cheez ko galat keh dia hy Tw koi factors matter ni krty

Islam ny jb 1 cheez ko galat keh dia hy Tw koi factors matter ni krty

Shadi insan apni zarurat halal tareeke se puri karne ke liye karta hai ..apne maa baap ke liye free mulazma dhoondne ke liye nahi..hamare mulk main jaisd bahu ko kutta bana ker treat kia jata hai woh sab ko pata hai

@@abby1AB kal jab Tum Baap bno gay or burhay, kamzoor or beemar ho jao gay or tumhara aik he baita ho jo apni bivi ko lay kr chala jay or Tum akailay bistar par paray rho intzar krtay kay tumhara baita rat ko kam say wapis a kr khana bna kr tumko khilay or pani pilay. Q Islam ko zalim bna rhay ho aisi cheez keh rhay ho jiska Islam ma hukam he nahi. Bivi ko haqooq daina banta hai jahan usko haq na mil rha hon jahan joint family hon, jahan us par dusray ziadti krtay hon, lekin har situation ma tum aik he cheez fit kr rhay hon, har Banda itna nahi kamata kay Mulazim rakh kr day ghr ma or dusray ghr ka rent bhe day . Deen ma Kahan likha hai aurat saas or susar ki khidmat nahi kray ge, to ghr ko jannat kon bay ga . Ya galat tariqay say deen ko bayan kr kay Kahan ja rhay ho tum sub. 10 batain achi kr kay aik bat ko ghooma daitay hain sub.

@@Applesonthefl00r to bv ke maa baap nahi hote ? Ya woh kabhi boorhe nahi hote ? Ya har aurat ka bhai hota hai ? kia aap maid dhoondne ke liye shadi karte hain ? Shadi ka main maksad halal tarreeke se apni physical aur emotional zarurat puri karna hai. Bv ko to apne maa baap se milne bhi nahi dia jata aur shohar ki saari family ajati hai aur bv sab ki khidmat karahi hoti hai to sab khush. Kia yeh insaniyat hai? Islam aur culture ko ek sath na milayen..islam joint family support nahi karta to kia pehle ke zamane main maa baap nahi hote they ? aap apne maa baap ki khidmat karen unhen kharcha den lekin bv ko gadha na banayen.

Aur ji haan shadi na kare kiyunke huzoor saw ke zamane main jo admi shadi afford nahi karsakta tha financially to usay roza rakhne ka hukm dia jata tha..ya phir sahaba karam mil ker shadi aur alag rihaish ka bandobast kardete the . so if you cant afford then fast but dont make someone’s daughter your slave

@@abby1AB O bhai ma nay kab kaha joint family ma bivi sub ki khidmat kray , bV kay rights bhe hain , jo usko milnay chaheyain ma nay aik separate situation bta di hai , ap q aik he jaga sub kuch fit kr rhay ho , ma nay bta dia hai jo akaila baita hai , Apka Dimag to kam krta hai na , Ap phr usko 10 bando wali family pa fit kr rhay ho. Jahan family ma 10 banday hain waha. BV kay rights hain or usko milmay chaheyay, hum musalman hain kafir nahi hain lekin ya aik he chez har jaga q fit kr rhay ho , pehlay he feminism nay tabah Kia hoa hai , uper say point clear krnay ki bjay misunderstanding paida krtay ja rhay hain ya log . Youth ko tabah krnay pa lgay hoay hain . Ma nay kab kaha BV 10 bando ka khana bnay or Baki koi kam na krain , Ma nay misal day kr bat ki hai lekin ap phr waheen a jatay ho . Thori aqal istemal kro

Islam main joint system nahi hai..woh hindu culture hain..hindu ki sunei ya islam ki?

Not every parent is old and sick. Please stop this nonsense. Most of the parent are able to do their work.

are you assuming a man's maa baap are burhe when he's getting married? Pffft, yeah right

Joint family system is not islamic…khayal kare lekin beta…not bahu.

To aap chahti hain ke bv ko gadha bana len…uska islami haq hai ke privacy ka aur alag rishaish ka…

Effort nahi kar sakte ho to shadi hi naa kare aise ladke... Apne maa baap ki khidmat karen 😂😂😂

Nahi us p lazim nahi h tum usy keh skty ho many na many vo us p h. Tumhary bacho k lye Maa h vo tumhry maa baap k lye nhi. Apny paas s Shohar ki itaa't daal k islam m na dalo. Islam m hukum vohi h jo dia gya h ya roka gya h . Vo ek Insaan h khud b uski apni b zindagi h apny maamlaat hain many na many us ki marzi h is p Islam nahi lgta

Mard q doosry tariqo s zimmedari nibhaey khud ko choot dy rho ho or aurat ko phansa rhy ho ajeeb mard ho

Allah ne bv ko khidmat karne ka nahi kaha bete ko kaha hai…husband se bara Allah hai to aap apna hukum apne pas rakho kiyunke mard ko Allah ne banaya hai aur usi Allah ne aurat ko paband nahi kia sasural ki khidmat karne ka

@@aneeq.q6614 To fir husband bhi mana karsakta hai aurat ki daily cheezon ke liye. Agar vo uske basic hukook pure kare, example teen vakt ka khana. Uske alava shopping, jewellery, aur fizool ke kharche, gifts, mobile phone, makeup, ye sab bhi husband mana kar sakta hai kyunki Islam mai in sab ke baare mai nahi bola gya.

@@abby1AB To Allah ne husband ko bhi uske biwi ke basic hukook pure karne ko kaha hai bas. Biwi ki extra 100 tarah ki khwaishon ko bhi husband mana kar sakta hai fir( according to Islam).

Ya Naya concept nahi hai.. ya Islam hai... Pakistan k anpad insaano...

@@kashurmath497 bhai ya Islam ma Kahan likha hoa hai kay shadi kay bad bivi nay kisi ghr kay kam ko hath nai lagana or shohar kay old parents kay liay kuch nai krna jab uska shohar bahr rizq ki talash ma gea hoa ha ,I understand kay forcefully sub kam bivi nay he nai krna but that doesn’t mean kay bivi nay kuch b nahi krna or Banda he bahr bhe or Ghar bhe a kar kam kray , har Banda to servant afford nahi kr sakta . IT Doesn’t make any sense or ma khud Islam study krta hon mjhay q nai mil rha aisa kuch kay bivi nay koi ghr kay ya shohar kay waldain ki koi khidmat nahi krni even if they are sick or old . Ya Kia naya darama shuru ho rha hai , pehlay he feminism nay tabah kr dia hai aurat ko baki kasar ap puri krdo Islam kay nam par jo kay Islam ma sabit bhe nahi hai , I didn’t even get a single logic from Islamic point of view about this , kahania Sunna rhay sahi bhai bhe is mamlay ma dusray molvio ki trha , we aren’t deaf or blind to blindly follow sahi adeem , hadees or Quran say sabit kro ya bat , kahania q karwa rhay ho public ko .

@@Applesonthefl00r pehlay tou tum tameez sey baat karo tumari himmat kaisay huvi ya kehnay ki "ya kya drama laga rakha hai"... Tum Muslim ho ya hindu? Jo aurat ko ghr ki noukrani samaj rahay ho?? . Oor ya bolo ki Kahan nahi likha hai.... Quran o Hadees iss sey bara pada hai... Particularly shohar k walidein oor Bhai beheno ki khidmat.... Koyi aik b jagah iss ka hukum nahi hai... Haan apnay maa baap ki khidmat ka hukum hai... Oor drama vo mard kr Raha hai jo ya kehta hai ki ghr k kaam karoun ya bahar k.... Lakin auratoun ney kr k dikhaya dounou kaam... Oor aik tamacha hai tum jaisay na-mardoun pr... Kyu ki aurat job b karti hai oor ghr ka saara kaam b karti hai.... . Oor yahi nahi... Islam kehta hai ki agr bivi khana pakanay sey b inkaar kardey tou shohar ko ous ko khilana hai chahay khud pakayai ya bahar sey layai... Itna hi nahi... Agr bivi khud apnay bachay ko doud pilanay k paisay maangay tou Islam ma ya ous ka haqq hai ... . Kis duniya ma rehtay ho... Pakistan k jahilo... Kon sey Islam pada hai tum ney??? . Ja k aalimou sey pouch... Ki kya masla hai.... . Oor ya koyi kahani Shareef nahi deen hai... Deen e Islam hai....

@@Applesonthefl00r oor haan logic ko apnay ghr ma rakho... Ya Allah ka hukum chalta ha....

@@Applesonthefl00r aik chhoti si misal deta houn... Rasoolallah s.a.w. ney ya faramaya ki nahi ki hr bivi ka alag ghr ous ka haqq hai?? . Quran oor hadith ma aik b jagah nahi aaya ki saas oor susur ki khidmat karni hai oor na hi ya understood hai.... Agr koyi cheez understood hoti tou vo maa baap ki khidmat hoti lakin ous k liye ALLAH ney Puri Puri aayatain utari.... Oor saas sasur k liye koyi aayat hai??? . Ya koyi hadees hai jahan pa ya milta ho ki kisi suhabi ki bivi ney ous ki maa ki khidmat nahi ki... Ya Bahu ney saas sasur ki khidmat kr k jannat payi ho?