You are not alone simon,i once passed through this in a marriage of 7yrs but later i quited and moved on,as i speak am happily married.i thanks God for rescueing me from the jaws of death

Simon represents so many men in the society with such issues and challenges but lacks a platform to pour their hearts out.

"Ugiona igikaya Nima ni nume"Such a brave man, definitely she was not your lib.Take heart

I feel for simon 🙂🙂 ladies if your man is responsible try to be humble, I learnt something and from today I will also change 🤗

I wish he's my husband.. God bless me with my own husband in Jesus name Amen

Lesson: Never force issues or love, kama mtu ni wako then it won't be that hard and stressful. Leave at the earliest notice that you two are not headed anywhere. Doesn't matter if you are married in church or have a kid. I left my ex with a 9mnth old baby and av never regretted, I would have been miserable. Now 5yrs later am with someone who truly loves me

I wish this married women know how us single ladies are praying daily to bless us with responsible man. You don't know an importance of someone until you loose him or her. Am a hard working lady, but I always meet men who only want what I've achieved and not me or my kids. I would rather be single than go through hard marriage. Take heart simon, God is with you always.

My own brother went through the same.He married the most beautiful woman in east Africa but🤦🤦🤦most nagging,laziiiiest, immoral...I thank God he is doing well with his kids..I wish he has such courage to speak out

After listening to all this, Simon you may seek for DNA of your son. Just to be sure before taking responsibilities

This interview is sad but hilarious 😂😂. Though am a Kikuyu, I've always found Kikuyu language to be very funny when it comes to love talks...maybe it was only meant for business...lakini keki mwauga ndingiriio na utheri yendaga nduma kari gani🤣

There r difficult people on Earth.Unakubali kuolewa shingo upande na si kulazimishwa.this man is strong.

If you are not the problem in a relationship, move on and don't allow guilt in your heart, you are not responsible for someone else choices and actions.

I know that man he my churchmate aki ni mpoa alafu dedicated to God

I fail to understand..why good people go through alot like this.most of the time in a marriage one partner is willing to build the family while the other not.may God heal your soul

Wish I can get this man,,soo humble man

The fact that she was hesitant to tell you about the pregnancy might be because you, Simon are not the father. Do a test to confirm.

This is so courageous for..a man to share his story.People do not judge...

Muthoni ni waganwo................Halafu can we agree that most pretenders are hiding in the church

I feel you Simon, may God help you heal. Muthoni you will once regret mistreating Simon, I wish you knew how many women are out there looking for such husbands.

So sorry for what you went through Mr. Simon, May the Lord who gave us the grace to heal and move on visit you at this point in time. May you heal in Jesus name

So sorry Simon for what you went through in the hands of a woman you called your wife. When you tell this story, I thought you were telling my story. I went through exactly what you went through until it reached a time when I said Enough is enough. You are not alone brother. Take heart and move on. You are supposed to be a father of 2 or 3 but look, just one. Get yourself a wife as soon as possible.

Pole Sana Kioi.... God is still on your side. I know you even before you came to marry that lady. You are good n a church man.

I was a member at Mukinyi PCEA until 2015. We were in the same District with Simon he was very active in church... sorry for everything

I can remember this man from Mukinyi PCEA when I was member of that church around 2011, he was a very active member especially kwa 🎶 hapo youth,Hope he will find another loving woman.

Thanks Simon for speaking out.....a problem spoken is halfway solved...I wish my neighbor would be bold like you after going through the same instead of committing suicide...God will see you through. Watching from Ajman UAE

Before you start loving someone ask them if they want to be loved… to avoid disappointment and one side energy:efforts.

I once passed this too marriage of 6 yrs with out love and humiliatio, but I thank God am okay now single life, waiting for God to do new thing in ma life🙏💯

This is courage. God bless you. You spoke no behalf of so many men who are facing this. Some women take advantage of good men especially when they know you won't go to anther woman. That cake you will get it once a month if lucky.

Ukisema communication Mimi naelewa kabisaaa is the reason I left my hubby,tunaishi pamoja but Mimi Niko dunia yangu

I'm a presbyterian. I have never joined women's guild because of the experiences l have had with some of these women.

Simon you are a great man of God I pray that be able to move on you took a strong step to speak up, that will not make you a lesser man be strong God on your side

Following this story, I think the Lord was giving you a warning sign on the wedding day not to marry her due to the inconveniences that happened, but you did not or anyone else realise it. And this girl had not made up her mind, hence, not committed to loving you and marriage. It appears like she was double dealing and just wanted to use and take advantage of your innocence. That is so cruel and she will pay for it here on earth. You could have called the wedding off when you realised it was not working. I feel sorry for you, Simon, but you can always start again. Blessings

I find it wrong for someone to take advantage of a pure soul,kama hupendi mtu why waste his time😭😭😭simon move on and take our your kid

Maya maundu Monica 😄😄 watching from Saudi Arabia

Laughing and feeling sorry for him at the same time 🤭😂🤔🥺🥺Kai gûthiaga atîa hihi

Metha ya kagoni,nduhi uyu atueke muthuri wakwa, I have been suffering alot to find true love, some women are lucky but they spoiled it, may God remember you Mr Simon, I wish I had a man like this one

Why is it that mwanaume akikuja hapa the comment are very disrespectful aki watu izo comments apana what if angekuwa a lady 🤔 mgekuwa hapa na hugs mummy aki earth is hard don't you know if its true huyu mwanaume vile anaongea anaweza pata depression let's be nice to everyone be it a woman of man

Kangoni pliz hook me up with this one in a million angle I will make him happy.

Simon you are brave and you have represented a percentage of many who are suffering in silence. I hope thru your interview many will have the courage to face their fears and do the necessary for the safety of their health and lives. It's so shameful how many hypocrites we have especially in church. Protecting their image in church and in society, yet their homes a smelling garbage. Homes where there is no peace or love. It's time watu wakubali kujipenda. Once you are not happy in marriage, no external intervention will make you be. Once the two of you can't solve you issues whether small or big. Choose life.

Mr Simon, you're not alone, i passed through hell from 2004 to 2017 when i decided to leave my house and search for peace of mind, am now am happily married...(ona ucio waria wakwa ari wa guild 😏😏🙄)

Men should know that talking out their problems is not a weakness,, Simon that ex wife never loved you,, kiura ruuga don't waste your precious time on the wrong pple

Yes men go through a lot the same way with women I remember one man who was going through situation like this he even used to clean even her daughter clothes but unfortunately he passed away....so let give men ears to speak out

She didn't love you Never force yourself where you weren't born

It is ethically wrong to manipulate someone's emotions when you are fully aware that you cannot fulfill their needs. We must cease marrying for the wrong reasons and taking those who love us for granted, causing them immense pain. Heartbreaks can have devastating effects on the individuals who experience them. It is crucial to marry someone whom you genuinely love. If you realize that the person you are with is not the one you truly want to be with, it is better to let them go rather than stringing them along and ultimately disrespecting them, as Muthoni has done to this man. Furthermore, I am astonished by the fact that many people who share their stories of heartbreak are "born again" or actively involved in church. We must understand that merely hiding in the church and using terms like "SAVED" and "BORN AGAIN" do not automatically make someone a good person. We should remember that character is defined by who we truly are, and changing poor character requires significant effort. Additionally, those who believe that active church members are inherently good individuals need to overcome this mindset. We are all human, and while the word of God serves as a guide, being involved in church does not exempt anyone from sin. It is important to conduct proper due diligence on a person before entering a relationship or marriage. Understanding their family background can provide valuable insights. Lastly, praying to God for guidance in making the right choices is crucial. Sometimes we rush into relationships and marriages due to external pressures from parents, friends, or societal expectations. However, marriage is not a competition. It is far better to delay and eventually settle down with the right person than to end up with broken hearts and damaged families. Finally, I pray that the gentleman seeks counseling and moves forward in his life. However, I strongly advise him not to rush into another relationship until he has healed from the pain he endured. Otherwise, he may find himself hurting someone else and ultimately repeating the same cycle. May God guide him on his journey of healing.

Sorry for what you went through , you are a strong man to come out and speak out.what a toxic woman

You can file a divorce on grounds of adultery and desertion. Even if she does not show up it will be undefended cause. You can file at Ruiru or Thika Court.

May our good Lord have mercy on you man of God, it's well in Jesus Name

Kagoni I like the way you ask questions, Very professional, may God see Simon thru.

Icio niciarega Jano ndeto, I'm sure Ata huyo mtoto sio wake, DNA is important after he file divorce

God will encourage you but move on many are praying for a husband...like me

Simple! There was no love, no attraction, people should stop forcing issues.

Weuweee, Symon you are strong and very courageous, in the right time God will see you through.

It's not how big the house is But how happy the home is, that truly matters.

Pole sana Simon. I admire your courage to speak out coz many men are unable to do this. Infact men are committing suicide when faced with such challenges as their ego hold them back from speaking out. My prayer is that God may heal yr heart from the betrayal and enable you to move on as He has good plans for you. Jer. 29:11

Mr.simon you have done well to speak out coz many are going through what you have gone through but most importantly that is the first step of healing. Therapy session will also help and pray. All the best Mr. Simon

From the story; this woman is somehow sick in the head.Simon get someone who can make you happy.

Huyu ni mpooooole Sana,,,hajachanuka viile,,,I guess the lady ni hawa mayoyooo😄😄wamechanuuuka hawange vibe,,,,uyu anataka mtu 38 39 or 40.a mature woman who is ready to build a home.

No one should ever ever limit your happiness, either a wife or husband, I hate how couples pretend everything is fyn na excuse ya watoto ,whereas ground ni fire , Mimi ata kichwa mtu hawezi fanya iniume ati juu ya ndoa

YOU ARE A STRONG MAN SIMON. THKS kagoni

It takes a great person to speak out. God is protecting you from the worst . Infidelity in marriage is killing the other person who is innocent. May God give you favors and peace.

And what i know you Simon for many years ago you are a humble,forget about the past wake up bro and move on to your destiny

this is what majority of men go through in marriages... fortunately, we have ladies outside here who embrace such men, give them what they lack in their marriages, and life goes on. May our good Lord bless such understanding women who provide the oasis of comfort in the middle of the desert.

Very true simon nimefanya kazi kwanyumba kama hio mzee alikuwa analala kwa kiti huko ruda;aki wazee hutia mengi kwahizi manyumba kwanza watu wenye wako na pesa wakiwa wawili mungu awasaidie sana; aki wazee wahulusiwe wawe wanaoa mabibi watatu aki divyo akipewa stress na mmoja anakibilia kwa mwingine stress sinabungua aki

We were in the same church ,same time with this couple as youths and it’s sad to know it dint work out. We need to hear Muthoni’s side of the story

Why is it so hard to love back when loved right?This is a loving and God fearing man.God will bless you again, with someone who will reciprocate your love

This man is soft spoken that's why the woman took advantage of him. He should roar like a lion...brrrrrooo🦁

Simon please don’t ignore what many people have advised you; do a DNA please before you commit to take care of the child. Truth may hurt you but will set you free

Simon : don't worry Simon, in this life we meet people to build us some to diminish and some are bridges to greater future ahead. From my view you are blessed, conqueror, lifted from grass to grace by God. From far you've come and far you're going in Jesus name.

Simion is very patient , may God give him peace and may he get a submissive and caring wife

Before you even think of finalizing your divorce,do a DNA test with your “child” there’s high chances you’re not the Father.Pole sana sometimes I really feel bad good people are always treated the worst but in the end they actually do win

We should excommunicate this man from our next men conference, may the soul of our pioneer chairman rest in peace, even if it's illegal to expose men's problems in public, I sympathize with him.

Thank you for bringing this story to us. May the man get better and back to his feet again

Am a kamba but I know Kikuyu as a second language by the lord's grace

Divorce is mourning someone when they are still alive💔💔

Just move on ,she wasn't meant to be your wife .Ten years now down the since I was sent home to my mother with four kids ,I just picked myself up .Am happy God came through and helped me

Pole sana! Dedication song Utarudishiwa miaka yote iliyokuliwa na nzinge by Gloria Muriro.May you receive healing and get a DNA test cause there are so many red flags. Serious single women here this is a God man.

Am a presbyterian,n also a woman's guild member ,mucii ndwakagwo ni Elders or church members or best couple,coz hao woote wako na mashida zao , Soo when such issues arises,be a gentleman n handle it firmly from day one.

Simon, you might want to do a DNA on the young man...just saying. You are a humble man, God has better plans for you 🙏

Simon🙏Ngai wa thayu arogucerera🙏tihahuthu naninjui niugeretie. I was there with alot of pain and six down the line am totally healed. Sorry to say that, you need a DNA with your son. May God heal you as soon as from now

aky ni kama kuna pepo humaliza marriage at 10yrs...Only God can heal him.. I have also drunk from this cup but God is faithful.

May peace be with you Simon.

Pole Simon for what you've gone through may Almighty God heal your heart and give please of mind to be able to move on. Also had ulcers and it was not easy. Because of almost a similar case.

You've been patient enough. May God remember you.

Simon may you heal and move on in Jesus Mighty Name 🙏. It's my prayer

It's always vise versar, ukipewa mume mzuri, unakuwa shetani kwake, ukipewa mke Mwema, unakuwa shetani kwake; Jamani Maisha hainanga balance🙆, I rest my case, Father Lord give your people peace in any case 🙏❤️

Ngai na vile nimetafta mzee nasipati, ngai hii Dunia ni kubwa wee take heart bro God is in control

I feel your pain, sorry for what you went through Simon

Mr Simon take heart for whatever u have gone through they is alway light at the end of the tunnel and this the tunnel and the light is bright and shinning get well soon and God is in control stay blessed

Niurenda mundu kana ACA am not taken stillwater am present

Sikatai Saimon alipitia but kuna vile hii story yake haileweki....Monicah tutafutie Muthoni tusikie

Monica I like the way u listen to your guests. U engage them well. U r the best. Pole kwa huyu handsome. May God see u through

God will see you through continue praying and serving God. It is also good to seek legal advice so that you can be able to move forward God will give a good wife

may God see you through simon

This is a sad story of a narcissistic woman. But Simon, you are so 😂😂😂😂😂. Thanks for sharing. God will bless you with a good wife who will comfort you. But famous words .." take time to know her ."

Some of church going, committed members are worse than the people we meet in bars. Atleast walevi are not hypocrites.

I love you Simon ulikua chairman wa harusi yangu but pole kwa hayo unayapitia kwa maisha yako God be with you bro

Clearly this marriage was toxic right from the get go,red flags were all over but Simon being a gentleman and kindhearted thought his wife was going to change. it's like his wife was suffering from some type of depression or she's a super narcissist individual... healing is a process and he has taken a bold step to open up and share his story... wishing him all the best.

Waah! Earth is hard kweli,that woman was so blessed mimi nilipewa mtu opposite na Simon na bado tunasonga.kai guthiaga atia? Mzee mpole hivi mwenye kila mwanamke anawezataka.

It was a very painful experience but Simon take heart knowing there is a tomorrow. Take courage and move on. Somebody out there loves you. This sharing is your first step to your healing..

Wah the pain of this man is written all over his face ,may our almighty God Heal his pain.