Going to my first appointment tomorrow and opting for the pills . I’m nervous scared but honestly I have a 4 year old and went through a horrible experience with my son. I know I’m making the right decision.

I recently had an abortion & the emotions I felt are indescribable. I wanted this baby so bad but I knew that I couldn’t give the baby the life that it deserves. I did keep a copy of the scan & I feel like seeing it made me even more emotional. Some may feel like this is an easy decision but for most women it’s the hardest decision you’ll ever make in life. I plan to celebrate the babies (predicted due date) birthday every year privately on my own. I will always love my baby & I pray that when the time is right God will bless me with another opportunity to be a mother.

There's such a stigma around abortions and women's reproductive health in general. It's difficult to talk about but I'm thankful for you and every other woman who shares their stories and struggles with anything that deals with fertility or abortion. We all need to know we're not alone and that it's okay to talk about these things.

Thank you for sharing this with us, it’s important that people know they aren’t alone in this. 💙♥️

Thank you so much for sharing your story. It’s so important for women facing this decision to know that they aren’t alone, and that life moves forward. You made the best decision you could and that is so strong of you. Thank you!

It’s wild how much a relate to your story. I worked at Ulta, was going through an awful custody dispute and had to make the choice to go through with an abortion recently. I already have twin toddlers and I knew I couldn’t be the best mom or provide a quality life if I were to bring another baby to this world. However knowing all that it doesn’t negate the pain 😞 thank you for sharing your story ❤️

I haven't even started watching this ... but I wanted to say thank you. Thank you for posting this. Thank you for posting this for all us ladies out there who feel ashamed by the stigma and feel scared to talk about it. It's so hard to find support for this because nobody talks about it. The people who have an issue with it or have something negative to say ----- thats a problem within THEMSELVES. Nothing to do with us

If it's what you needed to happen, that's fine 💛 not every pregnancy is a blessing in my opinion. I've never had one, but I've had one scare where I thought I was pregnant and was fully prepared to get an abortion. To each their own.

You’re brave for telling your story. I went through the same, I was sad about it. But it was for the best.

when u said u didn’t wanna go thru something for 9 months jus to give it to someone else. is exactly how i’m feeling right now ,

I feel this 100% . I had a child before and was going through court with my ex and I felt this was the best decision I made too. It’s hard having to go through something like this.

I know this video was filmed awhile ago now, but I loved hearing your story as I literally take the pills that start the bleeding and cramping tomorrow and I am quite terrified of the pain I might go through. This decision isn’t something that you just make based off of one thing. Many factors go into why someone isn’t able to bring another life into the world. It can be a lot.

When did you begin cramping? Thanks for sharing your story, I am currently going through the same situation & this is so helpful.

Thank you so much for sharing your story, just curious though. I’ve been watching lots of videos on this and someone said that bleeding for more than 2 days is considered a concern. Did you go back to get checked or was it normal to bleed for that long?

I'm so confused and emotionally in pain I don't have anything of my own live with my mom am 19 found out I was pregnant my soul says keep it my mind says I'm not ready what do u think is child birth easier then abortion will I ever forgive myself if I get one

Thank you for sharing this and explaining the process. You seem super sweet. 🤍

Been watching your channel for about 10 years now, before you were even pregnant with Rylee! My heart goes out to you and I pray you continue to heal from this difficult decision. I intend no judgment when I ask this, but rather I ask purely to gain some perspective. I am curious as to why you didn’t opt for a more effective birth control? I personally never wanted to take the pill because I knew I would forget to take it at the same time every day. I ended up qualifying for some kind of government program and was able to get an IUD at Planned Parenthood, cost fully covered. It’s a huge relief that I don’t have to worry about maintaining it daily. What is it about the pill that made you stick with it even with the risks? Did the other options induce too many side effects? Too expensive? I’m hoping that understanding why birth control fails and/or why it’s not accessible will help everyone figure out how to better prevent unwanted pregnancy so that women aren’t forced to make such a hard choice.

Thank you so much for sharing 💛💛💛

Thank You for saving a child from being born in this trash world. Also to all the women wanting to have an abortion always remember that if Roe V Wade gets overturned you can cause a miscarriage. No one can stop abortions. You can easily fall off your bed on your side. There was already a Texas lady who was arrested for self induced abortion and charges were dropped. No one can stop a purposeful miscarriage. Remember that and thank you for saving a child from this world.

How far did you bleed was it bad? & what did you do to help your body stop bleeding?

I’ve been subscribed to you since you started your channel many many years ago. I’ve always felt like i could relate to you in so many ways. This video just made me appreciate your presence 100x more. I’ve gone through this 3 times. 2 surgical and one with the pills. I took each one of them so hard, i felt so ashamed and hated myself. and still to this day, many years later, i feel guilty. My husband and i are trying to conceive because i am finally ready, and with the right man to bring a baby into the world with. But i still harbor so much guilt in my heart. After watching this video it made me realize that i am not the only one that has been through this. I am not the only one that had to make that decision. Thank you so much for talking and opening up about a subject like this. And making people like me not feel so alone. You’re an amazing woman Lib ❤️

Thank you for sharing your story❤️

I have a non-verbal autistic son and my second kid seemed fine until I got pregnant again, then we found out was autistic too. It was such a hard decision but I finally got a surgical abortion..

I was so called pro life and was challenged to watch videos by those who had an abortion.Your video really gave me a lot of insight into what goes into this decision and really flipped me on abortion. I really agreed with your decision after reflecting on what you said. It was not selfish to have an abortion considering your feelings and I saw that as courageous of you and to do otherwise would have been flat out wrong.Thank you for having the courage to make this video and I hope your video helps others to make the right choice.

Thank you for sharing your story💖

My own similar experience in about to take place a week from today on the 3rd….as much as I know that I have to do it, I don’t want to do it. But regardless of whatever people say, I have to do it. It doesn’t matter what I read or what I hear, I know it won’t change what I HAVE TO DO, but personal experiences do help ❤️

Thank you so much for sharing ! This helped me so much I went through an abortion over the summer and personally I’m really struggling right now . But I’m trying ! This Makes me feel less alone 💞💞💞

Thank you for sharing your story!!

Thank you for being brave and speaking about this. We all support you and whatever decision you make, Im glad you made the decision you thought was best. You're beautiful and strong and brave. I am a senior in high school studying the abortion pill for my Senior Project and I'm lookig at women's stories and taking notes as a way of research. I hope you are doing well. Thank you for being brave :)

I just found out I was pregnant today. My boyfriend and I just broke up about 3 weeks ago due to a domestic violence situation. Now Im stuck with a difficult decision to make. Im not sure if I should keep my baby or not. I have a nice condo, nice car, & decent job. I work hard to support myself & I know having a baby will make it hard for me to support all my bills & the baby. The father said he respect whatever decision I make. And honestly if we hadnt gone through this domestic violence situation I probably wouldnt even be contemplating not keeping it but now Im just lost because my family & friends dont want me to have anything to do with him because of the situation but now Im pregnant for him & despite our fight I know he’ll be a good dad

Is there any way i can talk to you. I’m currently 4 weeks and some days pregnant and i’m looking into getting a termination, I have some questions i want to ask you to see which procedure is right for me

Don’t worry about work hun, your health comes first 100% so you did the right thing. For you. At any point did they tell you to go to the hospital for the bleeding? Also, you will find a suitable job again and one you enjoy. Thinking of you x

Hello, just wanna know how many wks/months u had your period after the abortion?

was it really painful? I’m going through it right now because I miscarried:(

It’s been almost three weeks after mine and I’m still bleeding and passing big blood clots 😭 I just want this whole process to be over with. I’m missing so much work too.

I dont want to regret my decision to have an abortion, but at the same time if I am even still slightly religious I hope it's with my mom if that makes sense, I'm happily married and my husband was willing to do whatever I wanted and would have been happy to have a baby now even unplanned and was supportive of whatever I wanted to do but I'm too selfish and the little bit of pregnancy I was experiencing I couldn't handle, I'm 25 and still dont have my drivers license, my husband and I dont make a lot and dont have health insurance and I couldn't handle pregnancy or giving birth but I am still wondering of what it would have been like if I would have continued it, I did a surgical suction abortion which was easier than I expected and didnt have any bad or horrible side effects and now I haven't had sex yet and I'm just waiting to get my next period and after that I'm going to get on birth control.

I'm in the same spot too. I'm 21 and have a 4 month old, it wasn't in my plans at all for this to happen but it did. My husband and I have chosen to go this route together as we aren't in the best part financially to sustain another kid. I'm scared about the process and just trying to hear other peoples stories and remember that I'm human and that I'm not alone..I have an appointment on the 16 of this month and they will see how far along I am, I'm terrified they are going to tell me I'm farther along than I think I am and will have to go the surgical way

I’m scared to take a pill because I’m mild anemic is surgical way better I’m 6 weeks right now and it was not plan and me my husband decide and both agree to terminate.

I feel like they make you see it purposely. I also said no I didn’t want to see it and a minute later she flashed me the pic when showing me something else and it felt very purposeful

I am so scared. Me and my husband have a 6 yr old. We use birth control because I have a rare pregnancy disorder that basically leaves me bedridden. I went thru it 6 years ago. Despite this I cannot put myself thru that again. I found out I’m 4 weeks on Monday so almost 5. I hate myself and body for not being able to naturally sustain. But I also feel selfish because I actually am growing attached already. I hate it all. The whole process. Even my husband kinda. How did you mentally deal with this? There are other reasons, like I’m graduating and going to law school. Also I wanna travel and have plans. Idk I feel confused and selfish. But guilty, sad and scared of pain. I worked hard for my mental stability. I’m lying to my parents who are deathly religious about keeping the fetus. Even though they saw me almost die multiple times last time. My mother when I mentioned it, called me selfish and just made me feel horrible. How did you mentally prepare for this. I get my pills here in a week.

you made a good decision and thank you for sharing

I’m going threw the same thing rn . I’m not at the right momment rn for a baby n my bf . I been crying sooo much and also I didn’t wanna see the ultra sound I left that place crying so much . But I know god knows I wasent ready . It’s such a scary thing to go threw.

Thanks for sharing its good to not feel alone

You are loved.

Thank you for sharing.

I haven't watched this video. I just wanted to say That you matter and you deserve love and to be happy. Im struggling with the concept of abortion but I cant wait to watch this video and here your story.

im going to go through abortion next week. im so scared never had this in my 38 years life. wish one day i can be a mom.

How bad was the cramping between 1-10?

I’m going through it right now, I found out I was pregnant yesterday. And I don’t want to go on with this process. I called today and it’s $700 here in Arkansas. I already have a 9 month old baby I don’t want to have another one, I’m not stable and I can’t afford one. I feel so much weight on my shoulders, idk how to explain it. I need to find this money and I need to go through with it, I wanna cry every 5 minutes because I wish it was over with ... 😔

I wish there was a way to connect young women dealing with unintended pregnancies to the older women who waited too long or just can't conceive, because I have to believe that there are many of us who would financially support a young lady through her pregnancy and arrange to legally adopt the baby. Private adoptions are one of the only ways to be able to adopt in a reasonable timeframe. Many women like me would do anything to have the gift of motherhood, but the adoption and foster systems are stacked against us. There really are not any babies or even young children available for adoption in my area in the U.S. If anyone reading this knows of a resource that connects adoptive parents to pregnant women and girls, please let me know. So far, my attempts to navigate this have been futile.

how far long were you?

I'm currently having same thoughts about abortion.Im pretty old at 33 its just but perfect that I'm pregnant but I'm just not that healthy person anymore there would just be a lots of complications and I dont know what it will be for the baby.Im scared for the baby and me bcoz I'm not complete.

Ok I was going to take the medical route but now know think I might go surgical

Was it painful?

I get mine today but I’m 14 weeks and I’m so afraid

All of the women in my family besides me have had an abortion its really common

Ugh I wish I had someone to talk to. Idk what to do I want to get an abortion but I’m so scared. Scared of the procedure. Scared of the guilt. I already have a 1 year old that I get no help with. My mom died I have no family at all. We live paycheck to paycheck too. I’m 5 weeks and I’m so scared.

I’m scared to watch abortion stories because I’m scared it’s going to hurt me more than it does now. I’m 23 and I just found it last Friday that I’m pregnant. No symptoms at all, I was bloated for the months of December and the first week of this month and thought I needed to detox but I went into the doctor to get something checked out bc my lower stomach would hurt a lot. She comes back and says I’m pregnant. I scheduled an appointment with the obgyn and my boyfriend came and we saw it and I am 13 weeks and 6 days (I had it yesterday) I scheduled the abortion on Friday as well after I came home and talked to my boyfriend. And I won’t get the chance for the pill since I’m this far...I’m just so scared. It is for the best for me and him, but I can’t believe how far I am

Jeez you took middle child syndrome to the extreme. Lol Why did you choose not to abort your next child? Do you ever think about your abortion at family events like Christmas etc, like did you ever consider it as a person or family member before or after you terminated it? Sorry if that's too personal, just curious, I don't think we often get told the truth about that side of it.

Wow..

Hey, thanks so much for the video. You are a wonderful person to share this. I was going to ask if you're still active here? I will try to write to you on instagram, I'm very stuck and would love to get your advice.