Jordan B Peterson Clips Why try try to fight the system? I think society is biased against men in general, there is no point.

Taking up the sword seems really good but how do you do it in time to allow the current people at their 20's and 30's to have at least a decent deal with commitment?

Mateus Reis You can't. Gynocentrism is too deeply engrained in society.

No, commitment isn't necessary. Why risk giving up half your asset when the marriage is over? And it will be at some time.

not to be too positive, but I also thought trump wouldn't be able to be president due to corruption of the process.

Lil Dragon trying that with my wife right now. She acts like I am trying to get her to join a cult... I WILL get her to clean her room!

Lil Dragon what is it that makes a woman who finds Dr. Peterson interesting different than a woman who doesn't better suited for a relationship?

Michael B I got my wife interested by showing her a JBP clip about the childrens story "There's no such thing as a Dragon". Before she saw that vid, she thought I was weird for always listening to him.

**** **** A woman who finds Jordan Peterson interesting is, in my opinion, more likely to stay and address problems you both have together rather than ignoring them or outright running away.

Ex girlfriend refused to listen to anything Jordan Peterson related, now she's the ex lmfao

Imagine how his wife felt after saying that

That's about my take on it !

Socrates was a brave man.

Or a New Jordan Peterson

@@guruprasadf07 he is also a philosopher. A bad one, but a philosopher

the same would go for seeing if a man is husband material.

Helena Kilp I agree.

the same would go for seeing if a non-binary is "what material?" //joking I never thought I wanted to have kids, but man, its thew best thing to happen in my life, now they are my life and for the first time they come first and not my self. They are more important than me and I do everything I can for them more than myself.

Abu Hassan Al Hashimi Shut the fuck up. The man isn't a lab rat. And fuck off with your alpha tag. If a man can't keep his fucking room organized, how can he keep a family organized? You're talking about highly situational incidents you moron. Also if someone keeps their room clean, he is weak and stingy? You're moronic beyond measure, get the fuck off here.

Abu Hassan Al Hashimi hahah!! Anyone whom cares enough to clean up their surroundings, especially their home, shows character, from giving of themselves to benefit those in and around their life. You're talking some weird brainwashed shit that makes 0 sense.

Find a good looking guy, then steal his clothes.

Jonathon Frazier lol. Just try to smell more symmetrical

Lolllllllllllllllllllllllll

Don’t worry you’re not alone.

Lol

I think think the big question though that most people don't think or ask is this; what do they or even you consider to be a good partner? What do you think is a good partner?

In other words, be rich?

Very good

Women are mostly at fault.

feminismm and sjw bullshit killed off everything.

@@speedgnom agree

am not perfect, but women are weird...

@@jhonnycultura4455 Hahaha. Not weird. They've just overplayed their hand and a lot of men aren't willing to put up with it anymore.

Guess that’s not working out for me

​@@awaisaurelius6745yeah me neither! Or is it? Michael v sauce music

1. Facebook yourself 2. Delete the out 3. Sort Gym

1. Sort the gym out. 2. Facebook yourself. 3. Hit Delete.

Face the book Fire the book Walk away and enjoy life.

This sounds like a solid plan, pal.

Ivan Figueroa seems like a good plan lol

Rachel Dunzweiler your whole post is a lie isn't it. Tell the truth.

Ryan no I literally decided to only tell the truth. I told my bf "I'm only going to tell the truth from now on," and have been consciously not lying ever since. Telling the truth when it seems hard makes you realize just how much better it always is to tell the truth rather than lie, because the outcome is almost never as bad as you anticipate.

The fact that you needed someone to tell you to tell the truth in order for you to realize the merits of doing so pretty blatantly implies that you're at least kind of a piece of shit.

You should be ashamed of yourself for making such a comment.

Jordan B Peterson Maybe I "should be," Dr. Peterson, but I'm not. She even mentions in her initial post that prior to following your advice, she was "knowingly corrupting existence." I hope you'll pardon the language I used, but please explain to me how "knowingly corrupting existence," at least with regards to the time span in which a person is doing so, doesn't make that person an objectively bad person? I have more respect for you than I can quantify, sir, but why you are willing to excuse the the knowingly evil/destructive actions of some people, when other people have never had any problems doing the right thing in this regard? Does the fact that she's changed undo the damage she has inevitably done via her lying in the past? Don't you think that doing the right thing should be EXPECTED of us, rather than PRAISED?

Ray Davis Hear hear.

To really know a woman, beat into submission.

I would broaden that to pay attention, otherwise, I completely agree.

You just heard JP say that you shouldn't underestimate the importance of attraction. Seems like you didn't actually listen after all.

If my lover didnt look at me id be pretty sad

Whats this? A non cynical comment? I don't believe it lol

Raavan Reloaded I looked up Joshua Project. By all accounts it seems like you're not part of it.

Because Christianity usually demands that the bible be taken as a historical document which is literally and factually true in all details. This demand acts as a filter to keep out the higher IQ's and the more authentic personalities. Why the hell would a reasonable person with a good education accept on faith the premises of virgin births, life after death, and eternal hell as punishment simply for using the very intelligence that "God" gave us? The answer is that they wont. So as time goes on it is more and more being left to the less intellectually gifted to make the bulk of the evangelical communities.

Jacob011 I believe like most people they do it for looks and hey I'm Christian other than what they really believe. Alot of people do things for appirance and not because that's what they believe.

Hunter Powers If everything (because there are a lot of things that are “logical”) about God could be understood by our extremely tiny brains, He wouldn’t be much of a God, would He?

Robert Buchanan Sick burn, I’m sure JPB’s losing sleep over that one.😒

Grandpa's Place thank you for this

You are welcome. ;)

+Natasel some women are into swapping/polyamory. maybe that's the type of wife for you?

Hopefully, you said that before you got married, Natasel. Being handcuffed to you is probably not for every woman.

This seems correct. Once committed, there is a lot more at stake than just with someone one is only dating. It seems ideal for many people that the lover and partner are one and the same, though. Although not the most important thing, it would probably be a mistake to choose a partner one found physically unattractive.

Dennis T. Nedry until globalization renders your skills useless and the wife comes looking for money to buy shit at the pottery Barn and you ain't got none. Next thing you know she is sending the divorce papers and you sitting on your ass watching the price is right addicted to hydrocodone.

How did you know I like the Price is Right?

Ryan this comment made my morning hahaha

Yeah, my 19 yr. old daughter is dating one of these that hasn't figured life out. He is 27, already has 2 kids from a failed relationship (not marriage), can't hold a job. My husband & I are beside ourselves. We modeled, encouraged, and educated for them to pick men that have goals, perseverance, faith, steadiness. I don't even care how much $ the guy makes - just show me you are committed to improving yourself, that you are on a path and will not deviate. My daughter is very goal oriented & driven. I cannot understand attaching a millstone to your neck & I worry about him dragging her down. Not happy.

Thank You.

DoorM4n there is to many layers of dried cum underneath my desk where my computer sits and the carpet is starting to corrodes. The paint is peeling off the wall. The smell is incredible. I'm afraid no amount of cleaning will ever fix my room.

Ryan it might or it might not, but you have a ironclad guarantee nothing will happen if you do nothing. Don't overwork yourself though. Clean the mess you generate each day, and then spend an additional amount of time, based on how much you feel you can handle. :)

Ryan Your room is an extension of your psyche, and I'd hate to be your therapist

@@bodbn 2 steps for irreparable disasters. 1 Burn it. 2 Start over. Then you don't have to clean it you can just keep it clean.

Stfu

Amen.

lol

Is he an alcoholic?

@@MrSimonw58 no just racist.

MrSnoozle puff Nah, those are facts.

And I'm still waiting to get ordered..

The Observant Servant nice part about that is you're more likely to find a girl if you're not focused on it... They can smell desperation and it's a repellant

ever try to find out WHY girls don't like you?

Maybe you are called to be a philosopher, I suppose. The most important thing is to find happiness though. Are you truly happy and fulfilled? Some people have social skill problems that are chemically and rooted deep in one's psyche. It's not as easy as some think, as many Peterson fans are ignorant of medicine...you can't just necessarily be socially skilled. Sometimes it is rooted in brain function. Therapy and medicine can help, but sometimes people are just born that way sadly. It's a human condition. Autism, for example, has no cure, and people think magic can fix someone with Asperger's. Not that you have it, but Peterson fans don't understand things in their alpha obsessed complex, which unlike Asperger's syndrome, is a mental illness. However, both are treated under psychiatry, and seeing a doctor, no matter what, is worth it. Only idiots are against therapy. People who think it is weakness are the most insecure. Your problem may be anything from social anxiety to autism. An obsessive element can also create problems. We note this on the other end of Peterson fans who always talk about the alpha male and are saying there are no good women anywhere...the problem is, they are so self-absorbed, the problem might be more in themselves. If you look too hard, sometimes you overlook, for one thing. You also cannot expect perfection and one's own weakness has to be acknowledged. I reccomend seeing a doctor, and not because there is anything bad about you, but because you are human, and a doctor might help. It's a very healthy, manly thing to do.

Why are you rejected?

Nobody can answer this but you. How bad do you want it and how hard are you willing to work on yourself?

Fuck them. They are not worth it. The "love" is shallow and on a % basis you are way more likely to get betrayed. When people get but ed, they never again trust the flame. They know its nature.

Leona Byzantium Not really about most of the women I asked out. One from an online dating site I think stopped messaging me because I wasn't geeky enough. Eharmony rejected me after taking their test (3 times. Also cheated on the test a few time to sneak into the site lol) because my personality was unable to be matched with. They use the big 5 basically. After over 15 years of reading various books/articles and watching videos about dating. The only thing I can think of is my low confidence/self esteem (made worse from lack of experience), lack of drinking and doing drugs, being very introverted, being a nerd/geek, inept social skills (could also have Asperger, but I haven't been tested), and have depression (lack of sex and/or intimacy possibly making worse, but not enough evidence to confirm that). Also where I live sucks (Pa) for when it comes to people like me meeting a woman.

Josh NoneYa. I would like to experience a relationship at least one even at the risk of betrayal. I only have this life to satisfy my curiosities before returning to nothingness. I would like to know if it is something I really want or if it's just a waste of time like Rick says. Even though my imagination is pretty damn good, it's limited. I need more experience and data before I can make that call. And if worse comes to worse. I die anyway in the end.

LOL. Man up? I would tell your husband to get DNA tests on those kids

@@ConstantChinner redpill moment

VASILIKI same

VASILIKI Peterson is a hack. he bathes in the cult like status he has. He believes in the flying spaghetti monster. Pass

Ryan Fuck off.

Liam Cronin Dude, there are literally billions of people on the planet, there is absolutely no possible way you aren’t attractive to someone.

@@CaliburovX4 Lack of confidence is a massive killer. Underestimate it at your peril. And @Liam Cronin ? By the looks of your profile pic (if that is indeed you)- I doubt women don't find you attractive. Unless you're the uninterested party?......

If that was all that mattered, yeah.

Liam Ashton Don't worry, I'm sure that you have a highly varied MHCII profile. Just get close enough that the ladies can smell you before they look at you ;)

It just means you might have to settle for an asymmetrical woman, is all. it goes both ways.

DimensionZombie Clearly you are randomly grabbing a parachute. If you check over everything that makes the parachute safe prior to accepting to use it, you can almost guarantee that it will open. Same for marriage. If the divorce rate is 50%, not enough people are doing the due diligence to ensure that the marriage works. And THAT is what this video is giving as useful advice. Being attracted to someone is mysterious, but being honest is simple. But simple is not necessarily east, and in the case of being open and honest with another person, it's really freaking hard for the vast majority of people. Especially when many, many people aren't even honest with themselves

Hawley Rigsby people are checking over everything. What do you do when you find no parachute worth grabbing?

What's the chance of the plane crashing? But that's not included in your statistical thinking. Acting is risky. Not acting is risky. Pick your poison.

Why is not acting risky?

Absolutely agreed. There's no way that I would bring a kid into the world if I couldn't provide a decent environment, and I certainly wouldn't try to do so if with someone who I couldn't connect with on a deeper level. And yeah the world's pretty much going to shit anyway The generalisations really put me off too, especially being accused of "not being oriented properly psychologically," and the implications of being trash because of it. Like damn, pardon me for suffering a bit, jfc, no compassion at all, thanks for the preaching though I guess (not) It's also been interesting in the comments seeing a lot of men voicing their pain about how women have hurt them in the past. And it's hard to remember but a lot of women have been hurt by men in the past as well. It seems like there are just way too many burnt and jaded people out there that it's a miracle any form of meaningful social interaction is happening

I love the thoughtfulness Lisa. Thank you for bringing that in.

Do not listen to a woman about this. Although she is correct that you want to make more time away from the children, that is not all there is to it. If you want to keep everything stable, you need to strive for excellence in all things, never betray weakness (which doesn't mean being stupidly bull headed), and to make her feel protected. You also need to LEAD the relationship. Women do not respect a man who doesn't lead. All of this should be done in the context of inclusion. In other words, make decisions, but seek her input. Do not allow her to overrule you more often then 50% of the time, and then only when it makes sense, or doesn't make a difference. Be open with her, but not about your feelings.. except as they pertain to making her feel protected. Argue with her and hold your ground, but not in a heated way so as to be aggressive. Show up with flowers and a weekend plan that includes the kids being taken care of by your or her parents so that she has to do nothing to facilitate it except to come along, or to help pack. Date night is nice, but it isn't enough. Be overtly grateful for the things she does for you and the family, but only for a moment. Don't go on and on about it. Be sparing with your praise, but very clear with it. Women have a "switch" that will get thrown if you persist in weak and conciliatory behavior. You have to have your own things going on, your own hobbies and interests, as well.. otherwise you will become a shell of a man, unable to bring anything to the table except money. And she can get that from The State, or from another man. Don't become interchangeable. You have to be her hero, and it has to be as 24/7 as you can manage it. If you need to talk, go to a therapist, or go out with your male friends. Never, EVER talk to your or her relatives about any difficulties you might be having. Don't talk to her about your emotional conflicts, or your difficulties at work. Give the appearance of strength to her, and use your friends and professionals to handle your down time. Never, ever tell your wife these things. You don't have any guarantees around your marriage, since it is so easy for a woman to get a divorce. That means you are only married today, and maybe not tomorrow, so act like thats a possibility every day you are alive, otherwise it could happen very easily.

taxes

That's not enough though, you have to ask that with a legitimately open mind. If you don't you'll only reach the conclusion that you want to.

I actually have never had any strong desire to

@Rollo Larson if someone thinks that's all marriage solves.. I mean don't get married right lol save everyone the heartache.

@@nightfighter7452 that's fair, not for everyone. It has its perks though man, hope you considered seriously.

Rollo Larson ahh I must have misheard, thanks mate!

Did you guys have sex during those 9 years ? Or did you wait until marriage

You are just a lucky jerk - and maybe a liar. But that's for the female you've molded into your image of a wife to assess., if she can. Best advice I've heard is: "Love your spouse more than you love yourself."

If someone can't handle you at your worst. Who cares about your best? Like, if you're being a toxic narcissistic jerk and you use that line of logic, you can self justify being a toxic narcissistic jerk. That's a miserable road for everyone to walk down. I get where the thought comes from, but think it can be extremely misleading.

You sound like someone who would get rich and never get married or in a relationship because , according to your logic, the woman would not deserve the rich you WITHOUT having been there for the financially struggling you? 😂

I really don't think it would take 7 YEARS to get to know someone. Especially since most of that time you were childless. Being a parent totally changes your relationship & often it is well into THAT experience that you see someone at their 'worst'. I think we try to date for way too long in this culture & then wonder why it isn't like 'dating' anymore when we get married/have kids. I dated my husband for 3 months, got pregnant & married before the year was up. We didn't do it in the right order, but we KNEW we were for each other. We have now been married for almost 20 yrs. My grandparents knew each other for 10 DAYS, got married - had 16 kids & stayed married until her untimely death at 51. It depends on the couple & I don't see why it should take 7-10 years to get to know someone. We dilly dally in this culture, but it doesn't actually cement the relationship. I have known couples that dated for more than a decade, married, & were divorced in less than 5. When you prolong the 'not really committed' part, the marriage/committed/til death do us part chafes.

Hollow Delta look at the video on youtube where he talks about the most influential books he has read. The gulag archipelago is his favourite

Carl Gustav Jung. One of the founding fathers of psycoanalysis. One of great minds of the 20th century. Archetypes and the collective unconscious - structures in primordial, mythological consciousness that we are all wired into.

mytubeaccount in that very Q&A original video someone asked JBP your exact question. He really didn't give any satisfactory answer, he said it was a very tough question.

mytubeaccount Camille Paglia seeks to have good advice for women.

mytubeaccount make babies ;)

Exactly. There is never any onus on women. In this video he talks about handcuffs but as we know a woman can walk out at any time (no-fault divorce does not require a reason) and get a windfall to sweeten the deal. The whole question is a one way gynocentric program to just get men to do things for women and limit their happiness while women follow their unsatiable need for more more more at the drop of a hat.

mytubeaccount I can look back on my life and realize that I was at my bitchiest when I had a bit too much male attention. I suppose it can result from some sort of evolutionary mechanism to make it clear for men I personally didn't desire to gtfo; pure speculation, so evolutionary psychologists - help me out. So how not be a bitch: acknowledge this^ could be the/(one of the) reason(s) why and find a more dignified way to reject people. That's advice number 1. The list is very long though, so let me give you just one more piece of advice: constantly work on critical thinking skills - a more rational woman is more in control of her emotions, which helps a lot when arguing with anyone. Hope those help, sorry for the half-assing.

Hilarious. We had the same life! I studied abroad and am still out of shape. Just haven't found any solid women. Wish I hit on more girls in college. That was the time. Hard to find them now.

What's the alternative? Bitter loneliness? Failure to engage in the reconciliation of differences, personal and political alike, between modern men and women? Because that's failure to engage in life.

Jordan B Peterson Clips the alternative is Mgtow or an agreed upon, non legally binding relationship until laws are more just. Considering how rigged family court is against men in the USA, I am an attorney by the way, do you think it is morally correct to advise men to buy into a system rigged against them?

He says that a third of your life is marriage, a third is raising kids. The other third would be the part were youre a child being raised and or beginning to court. So perhaps ages 0-25 being raised and courting. 25-50 raising your children. 50-75 devoted to the rest of the marriage. Or something along those lines

ratoneJR Are you willing to mandate that men who become fathers must take the same time off as the mothers?

The patriarchy doesn't exist.

@@hawleyrigsby3123 "must"? Not sure what you mean by "must". Women are not legally mandated to take time off at child birth.

Bcuz we are being taught that making money and being famous is success - believe the guy who is hates by the press

Having children reveals your weaknesses to you. It causes you to lay down YOUR life, so to speak, in order to support another's. It teaches you compassion, how to pause your own interests in order to fulfill a much more vulnerable person's, how to not take yourself so seriously (you kids will reveal your quirks) and laugh at yourself, how to let go of someone who is a part of you (when they grow up), how to deal with someone who is either A. just like you or B. the complete opposite of you. All of this causes you to struggle with your own selfish desires, learn to delay gratification, put others first. this then prepares you to take care of someone you love when they become elderly. That is the best way I can define it. I have several older friends that chose to remain childless. They are having an incredibly hard time taking care of their 90 yr. old parents. Not physically having a hard time; belly aching about the emotional/mental/logistical hard time. I have pointed out to them, quite bluntly, that they have only lived for themselves. They have no idea how to subjugate their own interests to do what is necessary & compassionate for their elderly/dependent/vulnerable parents. Their emotional babyishness is quite cruel and they have put it on display in a very unflattering way. If we are LUCKY, we all get old. It beats the alternative. And that means that our peers, siblings, spouses, etc...get old along with us. In my opinion, raising children gives you the practice run for the end of your life.