My Coming Out Story

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Luke Betts

Luke Betts

11 жыл бұрын

Comin' out da closet. How it got done. / rhydont

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@aaroncarson1770
@aaroncarson1770 5 жыл бұрын
I wish a guy like this had been in my school when I was questioning.
@MRO1970
@MRO1970 Жыл бұрын
Same here, it would have made it easier to talk about.
@ravenst1709
@ravenst1709 5 жыл бұрын
You had more strength then me, I didn't have the nerve to tell my mom until I was 32. The funny thing is she knew from the time I was 11 and she saw me kissing a guy friend of mine but figured I'd tell her when ready. All the best to you and stay proud of self and keep true
@azerothdss
@azerothdss 3 жыл бұрын
Hey. I'm planning to come out soon. How did it go after?
@ravenst1709
@ravenst1709 3 жыл бұрын
@@azerothdss for me it went well but I'm not gonna lie and say it will be ok for you as it will depend on your life and the people in it, but I've noticed most coming outs are better in the long run then hiding ones true self
@azerothdss
@azerothdss 3 жыл бұрын
@@ravenst1709 I agree so far. I came out to one of my colleague and it went well. Thanks!
@jamesthompson248
@jamesthompson248 3 жыл бұрын
WOW! You’re beautiful and believe in yourself and be happy with your choices and your life! Avoid the negative influences, 100% - FOREVER!!!! Many blessings and positive vibes, sweetie. ❤️🌈😢
@stephenveldhoen8388
@stephenveldhoen8388 5 жыл бұрын
I am proud of you Luke that you came out to your family. You have nothing to worry about your family and friends will always be there for you. I came out to my family, friends and cousin's, aunt's and Uncles last year at 49 years old. I was in the closet since I was 25 years old. I knew I was gay then because I was attracted to guys. Not attracted to women. Couldn't tell my family because my parents are Dutch and are war children. They were born during World War 2. My Father is a very conservative man but when I came out to them last year. I was told they accepted me for who I am and still love me no matter what and support me and just want me to be happy. Luke you have a friend in me and you can talk to me on Facebook messenger. Just send a friend request and I will accept it. You have my support all the way.
@GlynRobinson
@GlynRobinson 5 жыл бұрын
I’m 49 now and I just can’t do it.
@dwcasey13
@dwcasey13 3 жыл бұрын
Happy Coming Out!
@LaurenceMartin4pix
@LaurenceMartin4pix 10 жыл бұрын
glad it went well with your dad . . . . hope you gave him a good hug !
@edgarmayorga8419
@edgarmayorga8419 3 жыл бұрын
When you think about it, it a part of you that you just know.
@SeanShimamoto
@SeanShimamoto 5 жыл бұрын
Such a sweet story. Nice to see people who are comfortable in their skin and I’m glad that you made it clear to your mom that it’s just how we’re born. I’ve always thought it was weird that people think that it’s a choice...that we’d CHOOSE to be social outcasts. I’m so glad that things have progressed significantly from when I was in my early-20s, back in 1993-1994, ‘cause it’s so much more accepted now. 😁
@Mikerochip1
@Mikerochip1 2 жыл бұрын
A lot of folks were helped by this video, Luke. It's been 8 years now, so how is life going for you? I've been out for 50 years and have had an exciting and wonderful life. I hope yours is just as good.
@MRO1970
@MRO1970 11 ай бұрын
What I appreciate about his story is his intensity of expression that he has a story to tell and that is what I love about this young man
@billTO
@billTO 3 жыл бұрын
Luke, tomorrow will be 8 years since you recorded your video. I'd love to know about your life since then.
@erinwalter132
@erinwalter132 Жыл бұрын
Agreed, +1.
@philrose7716
@philrose7716 Жыл бұрын
I think he went back in the closet
@michaelrobertson2671
@michaelrobertson2671 10 жыл бұрын
best of luck on having a happy life.
@finigantheodore1644
@finigantheodore1644 2 жыл бұрын
You seem like a very responsible and respectable person. I wish you the best of luck.
@strafrag1
@strafrag1 2 жыл бұрын
Great story, Luke. Best wishes!
@BrownsBacker
@BrownsBacker 3 жыл бұрын
I hope you are doing well and happy 8 years later...if you care to update us, I, for one, would love to hear your story.
@philliprumans753
@philliprumans753 5 жыл бұрын
I know I'm a little late to the game responding but this is the first time I saw your video and I just wanted to say how cool it was that your dad was more concerned that he hurt you with his words in the past rather than it being about him. He was more concerned about you. That really shows a good person that can go above and beyond how they were brought up or where they were brought up and become or be a better person.
@karunadasta2840
@karunadasta2840 2 жыл бұрын
Actualy you is very brave luke, hoping you always happy with your life luke
@AnthonyAgee
@AnthonyAgee 6 жыл бұрын
Just keep being you... :)
@Lorenzo11281
@Lorenzo11281 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you I’m so. Happy for you
@aramax1001
@aramax1001 10 жыл бұрын
Luke, you are such a cutie!! Don't let anyone get you down. You have friends here who love and care about you. I'll gladly stand by you. A friend, Mikey.
@dakotagunter
@dakotagunter 4 жыл бұрын
Brilliant video. Thanks.
@BrownsBacker
@BrownsBacker Жыл бұрын
Please update us!!! Let us know that you are ok.
@avi7278
@avi7278 3 жыл бұрын
You have the cutest nose. I donno, just something about it. And eyes... and face... and voice. and shoulders... ah hell, ur just cute.
@terrystrahl6006
@terrystrahl6006 Жыл бұрын
You just be happy and proud of who you are and don't allow other negative people put you down, your a good guy soooooo enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy all that you have-😘
@Shankarees
@Shankarees 10 жыл бұрын
Hugs.
@dyinteriors
@dyinteriors Жыл бұрын
I liked your coming out story very much. You seem like a really nice and honest person. These are wonderful qualities in a pretty crazy world. I just found you on you tube. What has happened in your life in the last 9 years and where are you now?
@localman12
@localman12 5 жыл бұрын
My god...are you cute, make more videos please.
@leondaniels1660
@leondaniels1660 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you buddy I'm still Afraid to come out
@hunsbergermatt
@hunsbergermatt 3 жыл бұрын
Very relateable bud....cheers
@steveocampo4122
@steveocampo4122 5 жыл бұрын
Steve Ocampo love you too.
@edwelty
@edwelty 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Luke for sharing your story. How are you now? Hugs from Colorado.?
@glenntremblay5406
@glenntremblay5406 2 жыл бұрын
It does matter what people say but you cant do anything about that...all you can do is surround yourself with good people that support you. Good luck young man on your journey through life....I think you'll do just fine
@ronbarr279
@ronbarr279 10 жыл бұрын
Great story and thanks for sharing :)
@ronbarr279
@ronbarr279 10 жыл бұрын
hey man how are you doing?
@thomaseagan7880
@thomaseagan7880 6 жыл бұрын
Good job.
@bruceweber8097
@bruceweber8097 3 жыл бұрын
This was/is good.
@jamesthompson248
@jamesthompson248 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful young man!!! ❤️😘🌈
@jamesrandolphmason2288
@jamesrandolphmason2288 4 жыл бұрын
ALL THAT JAZZ!! YOUR MOTHER'S WORDS ARE FROM ONE OF THE BIGGEST ICONIC GAY FAVORITES OUT THERE BRO!! LOVED YOUR OUT STORY DUDE! RESPECTFULLY YOURS JAMES R MASON BIG RIVER,CALIFORNIA
@belamoure
@belamoure 4 жыл бұрын
You are great enjoy life work hard get goals all is all right.
@MichaelAndersxq28guy
@MichaelAndersxq28guy 4 жыл бұрын
Hi. Thanks for sharing. What's been going on for the last seven years?
@johnlondonbimeetup7961
@johnlondonbimeetup7961 5 жыл бұрын
Some people do use bi identity for a while then later gay/lesbian. Others are gay first then bi later. There are many many people who have always been bi (statistics say largest part of LGBT community are multi gender attracted)
@cedricksamaniego9146
@cedricksamaniego9146 Жыл бұрын
Mothers always know but many pretend to not know
@chrisyoung3082
@chrisyoung3082 3 жыл бұрын
Sending love out to you. ...❤
@terryroberts7647
@terryroberts7647 4 жыл бұрын
Be your self Luke, u done better then me, I been I'm closet all my life still not out I didn't even tell my parents they both is past away, I did till me brother he said oh well u ok be your self I still love u and u still my brother wish I told my parents now but it be ok 👌
@woodythecow73
@woodythecow73 2 жыл бұрын
You are braver than I was. I grew up in the 70s. We didn't talk about it in those days.
@user-gp5ot2xb7t
@user-gp5ot2xb7t 5 жыл бұрын
sweet
@holzkatz1
@holzkatz1 5 жыл бұрын
I didn’t know what I was at 14. I always looked at other guys but, didn’t know I was gay.
@ronsmith2241
@ronsmith2241 Жыл бұрын
Give it time
@opuscat999
@opuscat999 3 жыл бұрын
8 YRS ago. Would like to hear how you are doing today. 2021
@nealdillon7812
@nealdillon7812 Жыл бұрын
Awesome. You’re absolutely a mature guy
@ajmiller7102
@ajmiller7102 3 жыл бұрын
I hope all has gone well for you. It must have been a great relief to have that weight off your shoulder. And, it was good that your friends accepted you for what your were, not dependent on your sexual orientation.
@bradwarfield8265
@bradwarfield8265 3 жыл бұрын
Yes Luke you are cute. I came out in 2017 after 16 years of marriage.
@philrose7716
@philrose7716 Жыл бұрын
Luke when was your first experience?
@netanyamusic
@netanyamusic 3 жыл бұрын
2:10 ohhh that reminds me of that bill nye cartoon that would come out four years after this video was posted.
@johnlondonbimeetup7961
@johnlondonbimeetup7961 5 жыл бұрын
Same-sex attracted people can still have kids! All sorts of options including surrogacy, adoption.
@robbieanson1218
@robbieanson1218 3 жыл бұрын
Can I ask you to tell the full story if you take video request I would like to know the full story just some thing is not adding up for me right now with your video here So can I ask you to do elaborate in I’ll go more in depth about it I would like to ask you that if you don’t mind telling the full story
@jamestruesdale1
@jamestruesdale1 Ай бұрын
My Mother had the same reaction and she thought I had gotten a girl pregnant too. She adjusted to me being gay but she really didn’t quite get over it. She just couldn’t understand why she hadn’t seen it in me and took this a failure on her part. James T 😊
@jameshernandez2210
@jameshernandez2210 4 жыл бұрын
ur fly
@michaelmichaelfordloverman8332
@michaelmichaelfordloverman8332 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Luke for your story how are you now I'm gay your story helps me in so many ways keep being you your awsome
@headlights4395
@headlights4395 3 жыл бұрын
Knowledge is power! If family, religion, or culture makes coming out difficult for someone, the following blog post about homosexuality may provide valuable help: “Homophobia: To the Community” homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html
@jameskantor0459
@jameskantor0459 4 жыл бұрын
I hope you with do more videos.
@stevenwilgus5422
@stevenwilgus5422 Жыл бұрын
Being homosexual and being left handed are similar. I have always been responsible for adjusting to the majority perspective.( I am both.) The advantage gained actually comes from being an outsider. We are the ones who see that "the Emperor has no clothes."
@amberharmsen2497
@amberharmsen2497 3 жыл бұрын
hey its the wwyd kid
@Dako108
@Dako108 4 жыл бұрын
Luke is the perfectly normal example and reason that many people don't believe it when people come out as Bisexual. Many gay men use bisexual as a transition label going into recognizing that they are fully gay and there is nothing that can be done about it, because you cannot blame them for either not-knowing they are fully gay, or for being too afraid of admitting they are are not interested in women at all. This is a harsh reality for people who are actually totally bisexual, but you really cannot blame anyone for their predicament. Bisexual people exist in a grey area of sexual identity and that cannot really be helped, but I do sympathize with them.
@prestige2000rider
@prestige2000rider 5 жыл бұрын
Lots of truth man, Nice
@robbieanson1218
@robbieanson1218 3 жыл бұрын
I want you to know right now that I am struggling with this COVID-19 coronavirus and the seclusion and this is affecting me dating wise and I don’t know if you were to take the video request or not if you do then I want you to know that I feel very much secluded and isolated from the world because of those COVID-19 coronavirus plague paranoia and I feel really much isolated here and it is affecting me and with me and playing coming out stories is actually helping me out a lot and I can relate to those of you that had to go through this was out those social isolation seclusion And I am having trouble to deal with it and I don’t know how to deal with it according to dating guy or a girl that is where I am mixed up I don’t know if I’m gay or not I don’t know if I am in straight or not those might situation right now and if you do take a video request that is if you do them
@ajmiller7102
@ajmiller7102 3 жыл бұрын
All will work out. Yes, isolation is hard to deal with, but one must do something they enjoy to occupy the mind. Turning to nature is always a good way to sort things out and having someone to talk with, or just listen without judgement helps. Hope all goes well for you....
@liljoker2716
@liljoker2716 Жыл бұрын
Hi how are you doing today and how old are you and where are you from 😍
@bryanjohnson5621
@bryanjohnson5621 Жыл бұрын
That boy messed up
@MrChristerj
@MrChristerj 5 жыл бұрын
You should not turn the other cheek if bullied
@alex8pearl
@alex8pearl 4 жыл бұрын
hey dude you are cute
@zackjohnson6906
@zackjohnson6906 6 жыл бұрын
Love you. Yes yes yes yes yes 😘😍😘😘😍😍
@zackjohnson6906
@zackjohnson6906 6 жыл бұрын
Robert Brolo 😉😍😍😍😍😍
@jameshernandez2210
@jameshernandez2210 5 жыл бұрын
You cute
@donaldedward4951
@donaldedward4951 5 жыл бұрын
You don`t mention siblings. Parents are concerned about: a) grandchildren and b) reputation in the community. Luke, could you please cover those questions. Re the ice cream comment. Mums cling into the hope that none of "bad" stuff is going to happen. YOU appear to heterosexual in every way and you will find that an advantage. Good luck! BTW I am het and hate any mention of bullying.
@JerichoMile4
@JerichoMile4 2 жыл бұрын
Luke looks like Matt Damon...chocolate or vanilla ice cream ?? Accent sounds Canadian !
@CT-vm4gf
@CT-vm4gf 2 жыл бұрын
So she must have tried chocolate and vanilla to know, right!? 🤷🏽‍♂️
@codywong4400
@codywong4400 6 жыл бұрын
Yes, Ice cream method
@garricksaro1380
@garricksaro1380 5 жыл бұрын
No it doesn’t matter that you’re gay. It doesn’t matter if your parents reject you for being gay. While it may really hurt, why don’t you do a video about Mathew Shepard and really educate people.
@kevintangney1849
@kevintangney1849 5 жыл бұрын
Today it's relatively easy to be LGBT and Christian. Just find a Congregational church that's "Open and Affirming." Congregational churches are often collectively referred to as "The United Church of Christ."
@donaldedward4951
@donaldedward4951 5 жыл бұрын
I am happy to hear that even though I am not gay. I was raised in the Congregational Church and am now a Quaker. We hate any kind of discrimination and of course war.
@dannystamps7294
@dannystamps7294 2 жыл бұрын
Your lucky. When I was growing up gay you had to keep it hush or take a big risk of being killed. That sounds unbelievable but that's the way it was. Glad kids can come out now days without that. Thanks for sharing your story
@zagonde
@zagonde 10 жыл бұрын
you get a dog yet? (:
@Dako108
@Dako108 4 жыл бұрын
Doggo
@hotrod9199
@hotrod9199 3 жыл бұрын
I'm gay myself I'm 47 years old I feel inbearsed myself
@muhammadmuhaiminhisham7387
@muhammadmuhaiminhisham7387 4 жыл бұрын
Peace be upon you, as a member of a sharing and caring community, you're obviously need to listen to me, I just want to say that:- If you got anyone in your life that ever said to you ''how did it come to this'' in the unkind ways, you know what I mean. This is what you tell them, you look at straight into their eyes and you saying: 1. Nobody should ever feel belittled for whoever they love. 2. I believe that God will please, and embraces with ours' kind and loving spirits. 3. Whenever you come close yourself to God, He will never judge you based on your sexual orientation, He will judges and look at you, by what kind of a person you are. 4. Humanity is about as long as we bring ourselves to loves someone else, no matter what colour, no matter what race, no matter what religion, and no matter what gender. Humanity just want us to be loved, and to be able to love somebody back. 5. And in God's eyes kindness and love are what it’s all about.
@robbieanson1218
@robbieanson1218 3 жыл бұрын
Shit she told him I want you to know I don’t really care straight or homosexual why should it matter it should not matter at all it’s normal to question sexuality but at least you’re honest in this video but other than that I want you to know I am fine with it I don’t care that’s not me I’m straight and I’m fine with that too And not just that I have a disability mine is down syndrome I’m fine with that too so yes I want you to know that and if you make videos I’ll be more than likely to check in to your channel as often as I can but I want you to know it’s normal to question sexuality and I need you to know that and My name will show up in your comment section you’re free to say my name if you like but if you give me a shout out I want you to know that I want you to know that it is very much normal to question society it’s important to everybody
@margaretperston5543
@margaretperston5543 8 ай бұрын
Well when i frist came out to partys i injoy ed too go out seance my fourth brithday ya and i havnt seen any body seace the fourth brithday and know its over fourty and living the rest of my life over the age of fourty know yes i am ok thanks ya i am ok how are you good i never get in to trouble seance the fourth brithday ya ok it is know over the age of fourty know ya but i am not guy or anything like that ok i always come out ok
@yahyazouine8982
@yahyazouine8982 4 жыл бұрын
Omg why does a gay guy like this doesn't study in my college
@jameshernandez5529
@jameshernandez5529 3 жыл бұрын
Ur cuteaf
@virginmary7989
@virginmary7989 5 жыл бұрын
Repent
@donaldedward4951
@donaldedward4951 5 жыл бұрын
YOU SOUND LIKE A VERY UNHAPPY MAN WHO IS TRYING TO BE A CHRISTIAN. Try harder; Jesus will help you.
@redhood8141
@redhood8141 4 жыл бұрын
@@donaldedward4951 lol You sure told them 😁 Anyway, hope you are doing well, you have my total respect
@virginmary7989
@virginmary7989 3 жыл бұрын
@Joe B The Pope says gay is OK so maybe we won't burn in hell.
@virginmary7989
@virginmary7989 4 жыл бұрын
Repent you sinner
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