This is the issue sometimes when trying to do good things for other people. Other people will see the kindness you are giving to people that aren't them and expect the same, like they have "their turn" coming up.

Idk why they think they entitled to your money that you and your husband worked hard for. You already did a lot for them as is and they're pushing it and wanting to take advantage of your money. They have jobs of their own and can work for themselves. So i don't see why they think they're entitled to your money when they're grown adults with their own lives. I can understand you wanted to only support your closest family members but the others can very well support themselves because you're not their mother or anything to offer them all your money when they pretty much never respected the work you do and now that you earn a whole lot, they want. Like the first commenter stated, they're way too delulu thinking they've any right to your money when its only your money and not theirs to throw tantrums over. Good thing you drew a line to where your kindness goes because those aunts, uncles and cousins as well as SIL and BIL are parasites or leeches to your money. They can go work for themselves and pay their own mortgages. You're not their piggy bank

Biggest dululu person on the earth😂