My entitled stepmonster got herself banned from my wedding #reddit #redditupdate #redditrelationship
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@nevaehhamilton34939 ай бұрын
The stepmonster is abusive in every sense of the word. She's no longer family. In fact, she never was family to begin with.
@Ueiwbwowheoeho9 ай бұрын
Father is worse.
@lmusima32759 ай бұрын
She never was family to begin with
@Ryushi_Gachatuber9 ай бұрын
Ye she said like isn't in the family no he is bc jane married to get in this family and like is her baby brother or smth (bc jane got accepted) the step mom didn't so she isn't in the family so why is she acting like a total bitch😂
@anakatsukifangirl29447 ай бұрын
@@Ueiwbwowheoeho Father is an enabler, but the stepmother is definitely worse for thinking she can get away with hitting a freaking toddler
@DukerGamerzАй бұрын
@@anakatsukifangirl2944 Father is worse because he chose his wife over his son and grandkids.
@theinsaneone_9 ай бұрын
“She only hit him one time.” And that was one time too many. We teach kids when they are in preschool to not hit people when they don’t get their way, I would have thought a grown adult would have known that, especially since it feels like this was because the preschooler didn’t see her as family. If you still don’t feel like family after all this time then maybe you’re not the right person for the family.
@blackqueen16009 ай бұрын
NTA. Geez the dad needs to get a grip and let that monster go. He's willing to ruin his own relationship with his children and grandchildren.....pathetic
@nevaehhamilton34939 ай бұрын
If he's going to be taking the abuser's side, then he's no longer family either. That's life.
@dedbros94219 ай бұрын
i don't think this is r/AITA
@greasybumpkin16619 ай бұрын
"she only hit him once!" "k, can I hit you & her once?"
@f687sNFM9 ай бұрын
The dad gets laid, thats why he simps
@Wumbology3789 ай бұрын
The sad thing about this is OPs dad kinda reminds me of mine. My dad will not take any accountability for his actions and when people get mad at him about stuff he thinks they're over reacting. So I imagine OPs dad like that and there is no getting through to a man like that since to them their experience with their spouse is what everyone's experience should be so they refuse to see the bad. (Even with clear evidence of it)
@Mernom9 ай бұрын
Wait, she hates the kids, and still has thr gall to demand planning rights for the wedding? The nerve of some people.
@chessieray14659 ай бұрын
The father and the step-monster are birds of a feather and deserve each other.
@LordBison989 ай бұрын
Child abusers are never welcome in the family, so I'm glad stepmonster is feeling unwelcome
@chantheman23089 ай бұрын
It kinda sounds like OP had one foot out the door on his Father’s family before this incident. And this was just the straw that broke the camel’s back. Either way best outcome aside from a conviction.
@richardgossman77379 ай бұрын
I truly hope that they recover from their trauma, and I hope they live good lives. Your a great parent, and I just know they will have an at least good childhood.
@SapphireExile9 ай бұрын
The dad made his choice to no longer be a dad or grandpa when he picked the stepmonster. OP did right by telling him that, too.
@ill_steal_your_pbj73639 ай бұрын
Father is weak, and no matter the situation, he needs to get out of there. I don't understand how an abusive woman who is not the mother of any of your children is more important than your son. He has to have been severely manipulated or emotionally abused by her. Either that or he is too scared to be alone.
@shabo7478 ай бұрын
I think the sex must simply be AMAZING. because there's no other logical explanation.
@Cheios-Demiose9 ай бұрын
it sounds like the father is no different than the step mother. defending evil makes you just as evil.
@dorn05318 ай бұрын
100% true
@dakotahsmith83208 ай бұрын
Sounds like when he started dating her he became her little cuck yes man
@thepetrarcticwar27788 ай бұрын
I don't know, I think she's definitely abused and manipulated him into submission.
@CrimpyPlate9 ай бұрын
Seeing stories like this makes me more grateful for the parents i have
@chantellecollogan7278 ай бұрын
Same
@tsyf19 ай бұрын
Once you become a parent, your responsibility is towards your child and your child only. You no longer have the luxury of giving second chances. This mother understands this.
@therarestphoenix52548 ай бұрын
NGL, my "honor and respect" your father would've gone right out the window the moment he said," she only hit him once!"
@kumikor33929 ай бұрын
Nope. Stepmom is uninvited and dad is too. I would've pressed charges, and she can go to hell. If they want problems, then they got it
@malayshamorgan39189 ай бұрын
Ngl I wouldve had some pretty graphic choice words after he excused that she hit a CHILD one time.
@stephanien62379 ай бұрын
Seems like the OP should post the true story and the arrest record for this witch to the extended family. You don’t have to post the photos of the child-just the child abuse charges which should be public record. The truth is the best defense!
@itzghally13119 ай бұрын
Reddit has shown me that there are people who don't deserve a hint of chances
@CrystalPheonix9 ай бұрын
Nta. Press charges and get ur step monster in jail.
@williamb.87629 ай бұрын
This dad is like Will Smith on steroids
@mill27129 ай бұрын
As far as we know...
@charlotteoliver99838 ай бұрын
“Only hit him once” one time too many. My friend’s stepdad did that to his daughter. My friend kicked his ass. Cops arrested SD. Female cop sat with his daughter and wife to comfort them and ask questions. My friend was never charged and SD went to jail for child abuse for like 6 months. Not a lot of time, but I guess inmates found out what he did and got beat up a few times. Also during that time my friend’s mom filed for divorce.
@georgidimitrov8367 ай бұрын
That vile woman made me mad, but the spineless dad made me madder.
@lmusima32759 ай бұрын
When I saw the word “Stepmonster” I just had to laugh my head off. From her atrocious behaviour she sounds like a monster 👿
@JDLupus8 ай бұрын
Far from the worst thing being described here, but what kind of Redditor demands that the pictures of the kid's bruised face / the video of him benig struck gets posted, for any reason? That's kinda fucked-up in and of itself.
@lorrz7 ай бұрын
What an awfull father you have, no wonder the wife, one for each other. Get away from them and any person who reject Luke, all those are very bad people.
@thelegend21466 ай бұрын
It’s easy to be included in a family blended Don’t be an asshole
@respectultimate289 ай бұрын
what is the music in the backgrou
@replacableVessel9 ай бұрын
Nice ambience music! Can you pass me the name of the music/link?
@respectultimate289 ай бұрын
tell me if u get it
@frogsarecool61359 ай бұрын
NTA, your SM is a massive B and your father really needs to take the reins of his own life, he's ruining his relationship with his kids and grandkids, it's very pathetic.
@Virallabb9 ай бұрын
Song?
@adventurerwithacoolhat25319 ай бұрын
What's the background music?
@StoryLoungeOfficial9 ай бұрын
Ambient emocional piano tiktok
@thebestkiller13249 ай бұрын
Where do you find these jump maps plssss
@Palaniru9 ай бұрын
4th
@AECH_CH9 ай бұрын
I don't get why one would take all of this "all or nothing" approaches. Like ok, exclude the stepmother, but the dad didn't do much, which is an issue of his own (he's a huge simp), but why couldn't he be arround the kids with your supervision? I don't think that's sensible and a good solution. The friend of your enemy doesn't have to be your enemy - so I'd handle that differently. EDIT: Yeah no, now that I've finished the story, I still don't agree with the way they treat their dad. Just don't let the stepmother into their lifes, if dad likes her or Hitler or whoever isn't of any concern regarding the childrens safety - dad might be an old man that doesn't want to die alone and tbh, the kids don't seem like the type to visit parents often anyway.
@gangrrrl9 ай бұрын
the dad would let his wife hit a child in the face. even if he wouldnt hurt a kid himself, he still let it happen and defends it. that makes him a piece of shit, end of story. being an abuse apologist means any right to be in your grandchildrens lives is effectively revoked
@AECH_CH9 ай бұрын
@@gangrrrl I simply disagree... He didn't do much (positive and negative) towards their children and should be allowed to have a normal role in their life, without his abusive wife. Treating him like he was the one hitting the kids and blaming him for not wanting to die alone is absurd. Some people mean it when they marry, even if that means sticking through the ugliest sides of their partner - and that's to respect imho. It's also to respect that they want their kids to be safe and thus exclude their stepmother - No issues with that. But the dad still hasn't done anything to justify this type of treatment... She hit the child once, never gets to see him again and that's more than enough action taken here. Denying the children a relationship to their grandfather that didn't do anything isn't beneficial for the children at all.
@gangrrrl9 ай бұрын
@@AECH_CH i wouldnt let you near kids either lol. you're both abuse apologists
@AECH_CH9 ай бұрын
@@gangrrrl Ok...
@sophiecolin98109 ай бұрын
She hit a child hard enough to split his lip. Have you ever had a split lip ? And he was watching everything and did nothings For a stupid reason. I would tell my wife that she was wrong and she needs to apologize. But instead he keeps defending her. My mum did the same with my uncle abuses and I never forgave her for defending him and agreeing that he didn’t have to apologize.