My Family Rejected Me Because I Married An African Man|| Black in China || Part 1

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King Asare

King Asare

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In this episode, Esther a Chinese woman married to a African man from Cameroon in Africa shares her experiences about marriage life with her African husband in China. The have been married for 10 years
What challenges did Esther face from her family and friends before and after her marriage ?
She narrates how her family rejected and disowned her for marrying her husband . What was her motivation for marrying her husband ? She also talks about her motivation for marrying the man of her dreams, he cultural differences they face and how they have raised their Mix-Race Child in China
bring you a mind a very sad and blowing story of a Chinese Woman who has been married to an African man
( A Cameroonian) for 10 years .
What happened next ? Did she give up on the love of her lifer ?
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Black in China, Being Black in China, Living in China, Inter-racial marriages , Blasian Family, Blasian kids, Mixed Raced Kids. Life in China . Blessy’s World , Chinese woman Married to African man, Africans in China . African Marriages. Busola Deborah, Jane Benat, Kojo films. TAKASHii from Japan
00:00 Introduction
01:34 Esther introduces herself and family
02:49 How did you meet your husband ?
05:02 How would you describe your marriage with your African Husband?
05:55. Did your parents accept your relationship with a Black man ?
07:21. Were you worried/bothered when your parents kicked you out of the house for dating a Black man ?
10:30 Challenges of raising a Mixed Race kid in China

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@Yuppers20
@Yuppers20 Жыл бұрын
I pray that there’s no more discrimination, racism & hate whatever nationality we are into. Respect & love for each other!🙏🏻❤️
@winson-vu8kz
@winson-vu8kz Жыл бұрын
This is not about racism. This is about "genetic continuity" in China. Even if he is a rich white guy, her parents will still not accept him.
@afrkleaks4991
@afrkleaks4991 Жыл бұрын
Jeppe love has no borders line that being said african making politic with china or west i am opposed to that because nothing good will come out there for African but about love if chinese woman love African 100% that you are more than welcome , love is love, i am black African European i saw chinese in Europe i always look at them not with hate but love not all Chinese i love but i have not hate like racism in my mind and black people don't just hate people like that.
@JoseGarcia-qb1qu
@JoseGarcia-qb1qu Жыл бұрын
Only under God's kingdom.
@jamesmathebula2323
@jamesmathebula2323 Жыл бұрын
Not in real world Racism will not end anytime soon for as long as parents continue to brainwash their children
@CoolNumber1
@CoolNumber1 Жыл бұрын
To be fair, there are more men in China than women. The gender imbalance is not helping either. Funny no one talk about this and immediatly assumed it's racism, smh.
@KINGKWESI
@KINGKWESI 2 жыл бұрын
I love people who are persistent and chose to be with the love of their life. Great story
@kingasare3137
@kingasare3137 2 жыл бұрын
Yes Persistence is the key ! That’s the power of love . You would have to be persistent to make it successful. Thanks for watching bro
@kojofilms
@kojofilms 2 жыл бұрын
Wow.. this is a beautiful story. It’s good to know how interracial marriage looks like. I like the fact that she was persistent to be with him considering him being a good man and not where he comes from. May God bless them with happiness 🙏🏿
@kingasare3137
@kingasare3137 2 жыл бұрын
Where there is true love, racism can’t survive . She’s got a very beautiful story with her African husband
@felnluvwithyou505
@felnluvwithyou505 Жыл бұрын
He has a great character and it earn him the respect he deserved.
@citizenm9590
@citizenm9590 Жыл бұрын
I'm Chinese and my dad said same thing to me aftrr he found out i was pregnant he came to apologize to me he said it was nothing but his insecurity. My kids are mixed look so beautiful and exotic my kids are tall and my son got my dad frames not skinny.
@reshilalldhanraj7216
@reshilalldhanraj7216 11 ай бұрын
Who would like that .I would never accept that
@reshilalldhanraj7216
@reshilalldhanraj7216 11 ай бұрын
U look phaaaalll
@babyghost78
@babyghost78 Жыл бұрын
I don't care who you married to your kid is freaking beautiful
@leedza
@leedza Жыл бұрын
She is cute.
@sharoneastwood.1025
@sharoneastwood.1025 Жыл бұрын
🥰🙏💯 YESSSS LOVE IS LOVE.
@betrihaki3884
@betrihaki3884 Жыл бұрын
5:49 we need more people like you, people with good heart. You are an African sister and Chinese, no doubt about that. God bless you because you are a pure hearted human. SELAM to you from ERITREA ASMARA
@teresajorge5533
@teresajorge5533 Жыл бұрын
You have proved your parents that you married a good man. You have a beautiful family so you should cherish your husband and children ❤
@Adm9464
@Adm9464 Жыл бұрын
No one cares what your parents think. You are an adult who can make his/her decisions. It’s always great to do what’s right for you not what others think . One thing I am requesting from the brother who married this woman please respect and support her to the best till death. It’s not right someone to lose the support of their family and not get the support of their spouse. So cherish, love and give all you have to this courageous woman who sacrificed for you.
@slashsaussier
@slashsaussier Жыл бұрын
U don’t know what ur talking abt , in china family means everything,and parents means a lot for the kids, that’s the culture there ,so don’t come here and try to give lecons. She did chose her man and that’s all matter for her I guess.
@Adm9464
@Adm9464 Жыл бұрын
@@slashsaussier keep your racist culture to your self , if you guys are that biased , others will do the same friend
@bjmt1585
@bjmt1585 Жыл бұрын
Easy said than done. Culture plays a huge part in most Chinese families where most females don't have a voice of themselves. It's sad in many ways, and it's a living proof that some families and cultures will never consider women's feelings, opinions, and own choices. They don't realize and refuse to accept how their ways of life can impact women. Lack of education and upstanding is the problem here. But I'm clad this woman stood tall for herself and strong enough to think of herself first than anything or anyone else. Good on her
@yvonneachieng6742
@yvonneachieng6742 11 ай бұрын
Very true. She has created a family with her husband and children. This is her new nuclear family. She deserves all the support from him and his wider family. It is such a pity that her parents are losing the relationship with her nuclear family.
@slashsaussier
@slashsaussier 11 ай бұрын
@@yvonneachieng6742 what u mean by Nuclear family? Stop saying non sens sh…..t
@patriciajohnson4393
@patriciajohnson4393 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. So proud of this woman for being true to her self and living bravely. What a beautiful child and faithful husband. ❤
@shereem3291
@shereem3291 Жыл бұрын
You must tell your daughter to ignore people telling her about color because people are ignorant ,continue spreading LOVE
@timfoinc.6879
@timfoinc.6879 Жыл бұрын
This lady is strong as rock mountain Buddha statue. I respect her deeply. Her daughter looks cute & smart to overcome any obstacles!!
@joelpayne1193
@joelpayne1193 Жыл бұрын
Man, this china lady is nice and makes interesting chat about love and family 👪 I can't understand why her parents were against her married. I believe love can overcome racism ✨❤
@celianeher7637
@celianeher7637 Жыл бұрын
As someone in the very same situation I can understand it but done condone it. For some parents it is the fear that their children would suffer and that their children in turn.
@nmg1909
@nmg1909 Жыл бұрын
The problem is the father is too tight on his custom and not willing to have a transracial family. It could also be the racist sentiment.
@terefetafesebezuneh9214
@terefetafesebezuneh9214 Жыл бұрын
What a great love story. I appreaciate the commitment level from both of them. If you are commited enough for your love, you will have a successful and nice marriage. May God bless this family.
@patrickjensen5602
@patrickjensen5602 Жыл бұрын
Let me say this here and now: being rejected by your family is one of the greatest blessings ever, only if you're independent and strong enough to live without them, you'll be so happy they rejected you.
@sharoneastwood.1025
@sharoneastwood.1025 Жыл бұрын
💯🙏🤗 YESSSS ITS THEIR LOSS.
@sikedude5160
@sikedude5160 Жыл бұрын
Bullshut i would never leave my 2 brothers and parents for anyone. How you cucks think otherwise I don't understand.
@dorcielngonda4537
@dorcielngonda4537 Жыл бұрын
Great video. I hope that couple stays together for many more years. Big challenges will bring them together as a family.
@everyonesview
@everyonesview Жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful love story. Love conquers all, indeed.
@akuaserwaa2526
@akuaserwaa2526 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely amazing!!!!👐🏻🙌🏻..keep up the good work dear
@kingasare3137
@kingasare3137 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching
@larissastalczynski7813
@larissastalczynski7813 Жыл бұрын
Great conversation King Asare. First time on your channel and I love it!!❤
@margaretimukuka3326
@margaretimukuka3326 Жыл бұрын
Indeed true love matters. After all God created us as one despite race. We all one in God's sight
@techwork...
@techwork... Жыл бұрын
Love conquers all things.... One love keep us together 💝💝💝...
@jklmnoqr
@jklmnoqr 11 ай бұрын
🌺💐Their daughter is beautiful! What a beautiful love story. It definitely was meant to be. #1. They already had a lot in common.#2. They both are serious people. #3.They dated for 3 years, a very decent amount of time. I pray for the best for them.💝🌞🌺
@wahiawabound808
@wahiawabound808 Жыл бұрын
I really love this story im filipino black and yes older generation usually prefer marriage within the same race especially Chinese, Japanese, Korean, but that's why it's really important for more Africans go to Asian countries and mingle and gain their trust most of the older generations look at blacks bad because of the movies they see on television and myths. I really appreciate all my African brothers for going to those countries and treating them with love and respect I want to marry an Asian woman one day.
@jlau979
@jlau979 Жыл бұрын
People are so dam dumb to judge a whole race of people by watching some stupid movie. They just hate Black people because of the color of their skin. I don't know why they think their skin looks any better.
@wahiawabound808
@wahiawabound808 Жыл бұрын
@@jlau979 yeah true that I guess another thing that plays an important role is the history with the whole blacks are only good for being slaves so older generation tend to follow the trend then comes gangs sex and drugs which they see on television so automatically it puts a mark on blacks it's a sad sight but that's what was fed to the world.
@wahiawabound808
@wahiawabound808 Жыл бұрын
Yes true I appreciate & respect your comment🙏🏽
@Flower-ck2bs
@Flower-ck2bs Жыл бұрын
Why asian? This about a true love. It is not for sale. You can find a sincere woman in all races. Anyway still to see mixed couples is something still so different in many people eyes. For me both the mixtures accross races are beautiful and the mixture within the same race too.
@wahiawabound808
@wahiawabound808 Жыл бұрын
@@Flower-ck2bs if you read my comment again it states why. It's about Asians trusting blacks and that we're not bad like how media and television puts us out to be. It's really not about love It's about trust.
@vidaessel1534
@vidaessel1534 2 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful love story... Great job done .
@kingasare3137
@kingasare3137 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching dear
@yohaneaboagye8986
@yohaneaboagye8986 Жыл бұрын
A must watch interview. Great work brother
@niiadjeteyedmundadjei5095
@niiadjeteyedmundadjei5095 2 жыл бұрын
Welcome back Bro. Beautiful interview
@kingasare3137
@kingasare3137 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so so much for watching Mr.Adjei
@MyConfession__
@MyConfession__ Жыл бұрын
Gracious words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the body. Proverbs 16:24 ESV
@bamdingayan3906
@bamdingayan3906 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@margieescarsega2842
@margieescarsega2842 Жыл бұрын
Love knows no color ❤
@comfortosunsami7780
@comfortosunsami7780 Жыл бұрын
People should be able to marry whoever they love. She is a lovely, strong and determined woman. Their daughter is Beautiful and I wish her and her husband the best in life. ❤
@annejecop2892
@annejecop2892 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful story ❤️ blessings to you and your family.
@blacksinthephilippines9476
@blacksinthephilippines9476 Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful story.. That's why I also love sharing black experience in the Philippines.
@ackack9419
@ackack9419 Жыл бұрын
What a lucky couple 😊. May our Creator and ancestors bless you.
@tochika3598
@tochika3598 Жыл бұрын
This is a real mature Chinese woman very sincere lady
@joethakidddhk83
@joethakidddhk83 2 жыл бұрын
new subscriber...salute the brother for these videos
@palokeyz2987
@palokeyz2987 2 жыл бұрын
Very Educative.. Enjoyed everybit of it
@kingasare3137
@kingasare3137 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks man
@paulinbill1568
@paulinbill1568 Жыл бұрын
A great experience, wow they made a beautiful family: What a cute daughter…..!!
@ramishrambarran3998
@ramishrambarran3998 Жыл бұрын
That is a wonderful, sensible woman !
@imjunyd686
@imjunyd686 Жыл бұрын
Your daughter is beautiful!
@jeanvillefittness1763
@jeanvillefittness1763 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful story ❤
@bellohadiza9414
@bellohadiza9414 Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful couple love is very good for everybody period.
@royal1tv464
@royal1tv464 2 жыл бұрын
This is a very good enlightenment video King Asare . But next time , try to make the video longer enough . I like the fact she’s helping Chinese people to change the negative narratives Chinese people have about Black people. Well done King
@kingasare3137
@kingasare3137 2 жыл бұрын
Ok , I will make it longer in the next episode. Thanks for watching
@eugenefreeman5590
@eugenefreeman5590 2 жыл бұрын
That's nice ..I love watching you
@nafisaramjee403
@nafisaramjee403 2 жыл бұрын
Wow it’s amazing how the Chinese culture works ..very educative video .. thank you for sharing this video !!! Thumbs up !!!
@kingasare3137
@kingasare3137 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching this episode. Remember to each the next episode next week Saturday
@akumawuena1409
@akumawuena1409 2 жыл бұрын
Awwww very touching story.
@vvvccc8820
@vvvccc8820 Жыл бұрын
WOW!! .GOD BLESS YOU 🙌 🙌 🙌 THE LOVE ❤️ IT'S VERY VERY IMPORTANT...... NOT COLOR!!! LOVE ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
@Flower-ck2bs
@Flower-ck2bs Жыл бұрын
Their daughter is beautiful🥰
@susankoroma3870
@susankoroma3870 Жыл бұрын
Amazing I really love this story
@nsambastevennickel6186
@nsambastevennickel6186 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for not discriminating dear I also wanted to marry a foreigner, I'm black African from uganda single and searching for a serious woman.
@jeandedieubangui2617
@jeandedieubangui2617 Жыл бұрын
Respecting older people is the root of African Culture. What you husband is doing to his stepfamily is just natural to him. When you can understand African culture, you can love Africans.
@Flower-ck2bs
@Flower-ck2bs Жыл бұрын
Not all africans. It is more common in Africa but it depends from person to person. Her husband is doing it because he loves his wife and respect her family.
@KIRSTYVALENTYN
@KIRSTYVALENTYN Жыл бұрын
Gd bless your family and may your love last so long for life
@gideonlord-adem
@gideonlord-adem Жыл бұрын
YES BLACK COLOUR IS NOT THE PROBLEM. IT IS THE MINDSETS
@CoolNumber1
@CoolNumber1 Жыл бұрын
China has more males than females though. It's a problem because it's causing gender imbalance.
@thefriendlypsychopath3894
@thefriendlypsychopath3894 Жыл бұрын
RACE IS THE PROBLEM SHORTBUS.
@myrnabonafede5258
@myrnabonafede5258 Жыл бұрын
absolutely
@lenoraramos777
@lenoraramos777 Жыл бұрын
So TRUE
@Dina-dx4qk
@Dina-dx4qk Жыл бұрын
I jxt subscribed because of her story,, coz i wanna b part of their family Lov u guys 💓 💗 💛 💖
@ebenezerenyimbir1196
@ebenezerenyimbir1196 2 жыл бұрын
Insightful Blood 😘😘
@kingasare3137
@kingasare3137 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks bro
@thetruth8280
@thetruth8280 Жыл бұрын
God Bless this Family
@itiamekimbui722
@itiamekimbui722 Жыл бұрын
Wooow it's nice and exciting to see a black Chinese with camera eyes😂❤
@tsegaberhane8690
@tsegaberhane8690 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful family God bless you 🙏 ❤ 💖 ♥
@kingtiger3058
@kingtiger3058 Жыл бұрын
I'm Brazilian married to a Japanes, I have four beautiful, smart engineers girls. I had great in laws in Tokyo that I missed a lot because now they are with the Lord in heaven.
@kingasare3137
@kingasare3137 Жыл бұрын
That’s a beautiful Story sir . However I’m very sorry for the demise of your in-laws . Indeed , they are resting with the Lord
@BlaqRaq
@BlaqRaq Жыл бұрын
Grandchildren always kill the grandparents. Who can relate? If they have any hint of love in their hearts, the grandchildren will just melt them.
@castrolee8189
@castrolee8189 Жыл бұрын
Nice one there
@user-ti5um5ek1t
@user-ti5um5ek1t Жыл бұрын
That’s a smart Chinese woman
@obiyaabridget3723
@obiyaabridget3723 2 жыл бұрын
Waoow🤭😍Interesting
@kingasare3137
@kingasare3137 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching
@loideblessing
@loideblessing Жыл бұрын
Eish look to the very very beautiful daughter for them..is good blessings from above .
@citizentvgh4935
@citizentvgh4935 2 жыл бұрын
Love overrides everything.
@kingasare3137
@kingasare3137 2 жыл бұрын
Yes 🙌 yea
@sikazwejerry4620
@sikazwejerry4620 Жыл бұрын
Forgive them and move on. Making decisions in family settings is always difficult.
@tellmeastory2323
@tellmeastory2323 Жыл бұрын
It's good you followed your heart
@Cleobonny6
@Cleobonny6 2 жыл бұрын
Man I got to know your Channel through Kojo King
@DoreenNitusiima
@DoreenNitusiima Жыл бұрын
Esther is beautiful. Lovely
@Lighted_Path
@Lighted_Path Жыл бұрын
She was thinking he is responsible, good man/great with kids and she can make a life with him. Those were her first reason for dating and considering marriage. The basics
@ileenehewitt7132
@ileenehewitt7132 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤ love comes from the heart
@willielee5253
@willielee5253 Жыл бұрын
❤God bless and be more blessed ❤
@jimcarroll7829
@jimcarroll7829 Жыл бұрын
A man who loves you and a beautiful daughter......thats your family right there.please have a wonderful life.your previous family are the ones who are losing our if they never meet your child!!!!!
@Toneclark-kk6kt
@Toneclark-kk6kt Жыл бұрын
its sad in 2023 we are still having these conversation seems a bit old school lol good for them moving on
@TheRJRabbit23
@TheRJRabbit23 Жыл бұрын
This is beautiful
@conzellaamanda
@conzellaamanda Жыл бұрын
I just wish I understood why people from other cultures from around the world look at us like we're less than dirt. If you aren't black plz don't come over here being dismissive & saying I'm playing the race card because I'm not. It's very painful. I'm a very proud black woman. Wouldn't want it any other way.
@nsambastevennickel6186
@nsambastevennickel6186 Жыл бұрын
Am happy for that dear 🙏
@beatriceowusuachaw6210
@beatriceowusuachaw6210 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful story
@beatricemensah1817
@beatricemensah1817 Жыл бұрын
Well come home my beautiful daughter in-law I'm a 73yrs old ghanaian and by the traditional you are my daughter in-law and I love you (RESPECT ALWAYS)AKWABA ❤❤❤❤
@BlaqRaq
@BlaqRaq Жыл бұрын
Respect was one of the African traits in history. We, as African descendants need to bring it back to the forefront of our lives and culture. I am not telling anyone to let themselves be trampled by anyone, use the intelligence with the respect. That was how the Africans traversed the world without sparking genocide and extending diplomatic relationships all over the globe. We need to get back there.
@timfoinc.6879
@timfoinc.6879 Жыл бұрын
I did not miss hearing he gave her his bank account. It is important raising family.
@martinkibet4074
@martinkibet4074 Жыл бұрын
I'm your new sub from Uganda, and you
@nsambastevennickel6186
@nsambastevennickel6186 Жыл бұрын
Sounds good dear
@piokasekende9214
@piokasekende9214 Жыл бұрын
He is cute. Great choice🎉🎉🎉
@tombimashri8149
@tombimashri8149 Жыл бұрын
The Bro her husband is representing Cameroonian Bro s very well.
@TheMightyKingzuru
@TheMightyKingzuru Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful baby!!
@rubenreyes4477
@rubenreyes4477 Жыл бұрын
Love conquers all… ❤❤
@yvettebrown9126
@yvettebrown9126 Жыл бұрын
Lovely woman.
@MISS_SHERRY
@MISS_SHERRY Жыл бұрын
God will Bless you
@vonversace
@vonversace Жыл бұрын
Idk how many times I hear this. It’s like they would prefer their love ones miserable with one of their own, instead of being genuinely happy with with another race, sad a lot of us do this.
@agmcroom2374
@agmcroom2374 Жыл бұрын
She has very beautiful personality
@newtonpeart8573
@newtonpeart8573 Жыл бұрын
What a sweet little girl
@user-ti5um5ek1t
@user-ti5um5ek1t Жыл бұрын
I had a similar story with a Cameroonian man
@Kof_Believer
@Kof_Believer Жыл бұрын
Just subscribed
@laguerremanoucheca3911
@laguerremanoucheca3911 Жыл бұрын
Wow!!!
@ryanheinig7975
@ryanheinig7975 Жыл бұрын
Have a beautiful daughter ❤️
@cedrickana9311
@cedrickana9311 Жыл бұрын
Cameroon 🇨🇲 is number 1 🎉 welcome to Cameroon 🇨🇲
@TheCritic101
@TheCritic101 11 ай бұрын
Beautiful couple
@Mecca188
@Mecca188 Жыл бұрын
This happens a lot everywhere ,it’s common in Jamaica for blacks and Asians to mix and when it happens the Asians face discrimination form there own and are outcasted for reproducing with black Jamaicans
@jofreysinchenje1995
@jofreysinchenje1995 Жыл бұрын
Great
@mirriamduma4959
@mirriamduma4959 Жыл бұрын
LOVE conquer all
@BashiyrDouglas
@BashiyrDouglas 2 жыл бұрын
We are Global African Indigenous people!! Love and Unity is the best key for us all together!!💯Also Giving thanks to the Great Mother's/Goddesses and Great Father's/Gods and the Ancestors and Guardians!! Saying from Snefer aka Bashiyr!!👸🏿🤴🏿
@kingasare3137
@kingasare3137 2 жыл бұрын
Well Said ! Love Unite us together as people . Thanks for watching bro
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