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My Girlfriend Wants to Buy a Brand New Car!
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@natalielinden
@natalielinden 4 жыл бұрын
I almost bought a new 30K SUV because I "needed" it for our family or 7. Instead I spent $900 to fix our 12 year old van. I avoided 30K in debt because of Dave Ramsey.
@dannyv2230
@dannyv2230 4 жыл бұрын
Natalie Linden great call always good to be smart with your money. If you need a brand new car to impress your friends, you need new friends.
@user-tb7rn1il3q
@user-tb7rn1il3q 4 жыл бұрын
John Lester Except next month there will $2000 in repairs. It’s cheaper to buy a whole car than every part individually. Putting money into an old car is throwing good money after bad. If a car needs more than $750 worth of repairs get rid of it and buy a better car. You could buy a $10k car instead of a new $30k car.
@natalielinden
@natalielinden 4 жыл бұрын
@@user-tb7rn1il3q the $10K car would also need repairs. The car we have has been reliable with minimal cost. It really depends on the car, of course.
@superbros1690
@superbros1690 4 жыл бұрын
@@natalielinden Get a Toyota and your set.
@twincherry4958
@twincherry4958 4 жыл бұрын
Yay!
@webbie1891
@webbie1891 4 жыл бұрын
A new girlfriend is cheaper than a new car lol
@LivingLifeWithDeeDee
@LivingLifeWithDeeDee 4 жыл бұрын
Aww that’s so mean 🤣
@gamecity223
@gamecity223 4 жыл бұрын
Is it though?....
@LivingLifeWithDeeDee
@LivingLifeWithDeeDee 4 жыл бұрын
Black Assassin Just a little because he cares about her. It’s not good to just cancel people. I believe if he has a conversation with her again like Dave suggested, she will turn around. If not, he will probably marry her at his discretion.
@skunkycatog
@skunkycatog 4 жыл бұрын
A fleshlight is cheaper than both 😂😂😂😂😂😂🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️
@jordondraggon1459
@jordondraggon1459 4 жыл бұрын
@@LivingLifeWithDeeDee better to be harsh now then have him 10 years in the future riddled with debt, having to pay alimony over a divorce, and having no financial freedom for the rest of his life.
@prestonlaw
@prestonlaw 4 жыл бұрын
This is exactly why I’m single. My ex was a princess living off her parents dime at 30. And she was an alcoholic. Leaving her was the best thing I ever did
@shutupandeatasmr4498
@shutupandeatasmr4498 4 жыл бұрын
Chuuch!!! Live and learn
@Irene-gq4jr
@Irene-gq4jr 4 жыл бұрын
Never try to change someone. People only change if they want to, and even then it isn't easy. Find someone who is on the same page. It's worth the wait.
@babbs128
@babbs128 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@anitaknight3915
@anitaknight3915 4 жыл бұрын
Very well said!!! People expect someone to change after marriage
@robertwhite6203
@robertwhite6203 3 жыл бұрын
Good point !
@violetsabrewing7938
@violetsabrewing7938 3 жыл бұрын
Perfectly put 👌🏻
@zachscheel3784
@zachscheel3784 4 жыл бұрын
“Been dating quite some time” ...”about a year”. Lol
@sassouusasoo3607
@sassouusasoo3607 4 жыл бұрын
Hahahah...i know right ....come on !!!..
@Simon-oy7kf
@Simon-oy7kf 3 жыл бұрын
A year is a long time
@whitegoodman7465
@whitegoodman7465 3 жыл бұрын
nowadays thats a long time, sadly.
@kenyattaknox5163
@kenyattaknox5163 3 жыл бұрын
Zach Scheel 😂😂😂
@anitaknight3915
@anitaknight3915 3 жыл бұрын
@@whitegoodman7465 lol exactly that is a long term relationship making it nowadays. People want a fast food relationship of instant gratification then bounce.
@ew2645
@ew2645 4 жыл бұрын
If you want to marry this woman, she’s going to have to understand that her father and brother in law are not the men in her life once she’s married or there will be too many people in the marriage.
@Elizabethatthebeach
@Elizabethatthebeach 4 жыл бұрын
Definitely true.. but he's gotta earn that right first with a ring.. Being the boyfriend doesn't earn it...
@ew2645
@ew2645 4 жыл бұрын
love 4leggers totally agree.
@joseph_p
@joseph_p 4 жыл бұрын
Yea, it’s a tough situation, because we also don’t know how she feels about marriage in the nearish future. If it’s too early, bringing this up might make him seem more controlling, rather than just that he cares, and he doesn’t want it to be both of their problems in the future.
@johndone8045
@johndone8045 3 жыл бұрын
This guy gonna figure out a way to. Many everyone happy
@Satans_Financial_Advisor
@Satans_Financial_Advisor 4 жыл бұрын
Correction. "My girlfriend wants me to get a new Girlfriend".
@u.s.navyvietnamvetanddynam821
@u.s.navyvietnamvetanddynam821 4 жыл бұрын
🤣👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
@MrFleur0116
@MrFleur0116 4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@yaydog2702
@yaydog2702 4 жыл бұрын
Guys you never get any action , will do anything once they find it
@dpborn2721
@dpborn2721 4 жыл бұрын
Boom!!!! Haha
@dianer8881
@dianer8881 4 жыл бұрын
Buying a new car is the worst mistake. We bought a 1996 pick up truck for $3300 in 2012. With regular maintenance, it runs great!
@bassfishingnewjersey9826
@bassfishingnewjersey9826 4 жыл бұрын
“He gets into debt like it’s his day job” that was pretty funny😂😂
@christopherrosas2738
@christopherrosas2738 3 жыл бұрын
That's the point he has to make to the girlfriend....... he's up to his eyeballs in debt, are you sure that's someone you really want to take advice from
@JogBird
@JogBird 4 жыл бұрын
the longterm issue is the brother in law, he's not gonna go away anutime soon
@patrickjordan2233
@patrickjordan2233 4 жыл бұрын
He's coaching her to be the ultimate CONSUMER..Because that's what the brother-in-law is...& he's just hasn't seen the repercussions of that mentality YET.
@TheKalbo789
@TheKalbo789 4 жыл бұрын
That can be arranged 😈
@babbs128
@babbs128 4 жыл бұрын
No, the BIL isn't the issue. He's a symptom.
@janeta3509
@janeta3509 4 жыл бұрын
Seeing yourself marrying someone and knowing that person is feeling the same way because you discuss your future are two different things. She may not be riding on the same train.
@madarchermoto4955
@madarchermoto4955 4 жыл бұрын
Let’s not forget 30 years down the road when the brother-in-law has to try and live off of him and his sister because of his life long poor financial choices.
@schmittytrucker3845
@schmittytrucker3845 4 жыл бұрын
I was that lazy guy who got into a relationship. It took one kid and another on the way, homeless, sleeping in a church basement, to wake me up. That was 2011. In 2017, I was able to buy a house and my wife has been a stay at home mom to our 3 daughters since 2014. People can change.
@edgehodl4832
@edgehodl4832 4 жыл бұрын
Stop teaching young men to be simps please
@pierrehenry3483
@pierrehenry3483 4 жыл бұрын
Of course people can change but you’re advocating the hard way. You are the exception not the rule and therefore prove the rule. Many people who are unambiguous and homeless for majority of their life usually stay that way or have been so unprepared or unlucky that they never get a another real opportunity at life to correct those wrongs. They are clearly referring to likelihood
@schmittytrucker3845
@schmittytrucker3845 4 жыл бұрын
@@edgehodl4832 what do you mean by your comment?
@tonyunderwood9438
@tonyunderwood9438 4 жыл бұрын
I tend to agree. It can go the other way as well. Somebody can be good looking and a hard worker and once they get married turn into a lazy slob. The important thing is to find somebody you enjoy being with that you can take on life with. It's going to go up and it's going to go down, but if you're a solid team you can handle anything!
@schmittytrucker3845
@schmittytrucker3845 4 жыл бұрын
@@pierrehenry3483 in not advocating the hard way. In saying that it can be overcome. Also, as long as someone has breath, they have opportunity. It's so easy to make money in America and there's no good excuse for most people to just exist in poverty forever
@ethannaka1822
@ethannaka1822 4 жыл бұрын
People saying sell the gf? She’s in debt.. she has no value to sell 😂
@kerbytheslayer6181
@kerbytheslayer6181 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@codorin
@codorin 3 жыл бұрын
well than make her work it and pay it.
@mynameisbetty1767
@mynameisbetty1767 3 жыл бұрын
He can take a personal loan to cover the loss
@QuestionEverythingButWHY
@QuestionEverythingButWHY 4 жыл бұрын
“Before you criticize someone, walk a mile in their shoes. That way, you'll be a mile from them, and you'll have their shoes.” -- Jack Handey
@TheQuickyouknow
@TheQuickyouknow 4 жыл бұрын
What's your point?
@QuestionEverythingButWHY
@QuestionEverythingButWHY 4 жыл бұрын
@@TheQuickyouknow point [noun] : the tapered, sharp end of a tool, weapon, or other object. Source: Google.
@TheQuickyouknow
@TheQuickyouknow 4 жыл бұрын
@@saulgoodman2018 Doesn't look like it lol
@QuestionEverythingButWHY
@QuestionEverythingButWHY 4 жыл бұрын
@@saulgoodman2018 Quotes are concise and says a lot in few words. Better than I can explain. On top of that, I can reword the essence of the quote and take credit of other words, as most people do. I think there are no thoughts that hasn't been spoken yet. But If you're curious whether my thought is any good then I've few contents and then you can pass a judgement if you want to.
@QuestionEverythingButWHY
@QuestionEverythingButWHY 4 жыл бұрын
@@TheQuickyouknow same msg for you too. Quotes are concise and says a lot in few words. Better than I can explain. On top of that, I can reword the essence of the quote and take credit of other words, as most people do. I think there are no thoughts that hasn't been spoken yet. But If you're curious whether my thought is any good then I've few contents and then you can pass a judgement if you want to.
@Michelle.05
@Michelle.05 4 жыл бұрын
When "family" is in your business more than their own, there's a problem with boundaries! Obviously the girlfriend doesn't think their relationship is as solid as he does, so he needs to think twice about her being his future wife. Great guy for being concerned but he should move on.
@robertwhite6203
@robertwhite6203 3 жыл бұрын
Good point ! In laws have no business in other family’s business . Some are just plain nosy .
@anitaknight3915
@anitaknight3915 3 жыл бұрын
@@robertwhite6203 yep too controlling and overbearing. We hear about this with in laws but it's even more stupid a brother in law involved.
@MR3DDev
@MR3DDev 4 жыл бұрын
Oh you do not want to marry into this, you'd be controlled by them too.
@bertnl530
@bertnl530 4 жыл бұрын
Sitting both on the couch with brother in law right in the middle.
@NT-bz5nh
@NT-bz5nh 4 жыл бұрын
100% true
@robertwhite6203
@robertwhite6203 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a mess !
@anitaknight3915
@anitaknight3915 3 жыл бұрын
@@robertwhite6203 yep this family could interfere overstepping boundaries in other areas too if they stay together. And it's weird lol, typically we hear about in laws or sibling being controlling but not a brother in law.
@MrOccyc
@MrOccyc 4 жыл бұрын
As the boyfriend, don’t make other people’s problems, your problem.
@debbie12346
@debbie12346 4 жыл бұрын
If he plans on marrying her than it will become his problem (as they mentioned marriage)
@bukIau
@bukIau 3 жыл бұрын
My sister bought a brand new Nissan Altima, leather interior, back up cam etc. Overall, it’s a really nice car. She got it for $32k and paid it off in under 2 years. Truly proud of her work ethic. She is a true workaholic just like my mom! It comes down to your discipline. Goodluck
@actuallyterry
@actuallyterry 4 жыл бұрын
Why is she putting so much faith in what her brother in law says but she doesnt even want to hear her boyfriend out? Suspish
@LunarVamp
@LunarVamp 4 жыл бұрын
Her brother in law hitting her cheeks 😴
@dannyv2230
@dannyv2230 4 жыл бұрын
I think every guy who has seen too many sibling in law “videos” will assume something is going on.
@bobbyweirddick6556
@bobbyweirddick6556 4 жыл бұрын
Daniel Veira probably is. Your partner is suppose to have the most influence in your life not some relatives.
@ethannaka1822
@ethannaka1822 4 жыл бұрын
NoSpark sweet home .....
@NorthernCold
@NorthernCold 4 жыл бұрын
NoSpark more like destroying her gutz!
@BernadetteTeachesMusic
@BernadetteTeachesMusic 4 жыл бұрын
Empower her with financial knowledge. 💪🏼 Do Financial Peace University together. If she still doesn’t get it, then you know this isn’t the best person for you and you just saved yourself a lifetime of financial problems. If she jumps on board with FPU, then she will have her own decision-making power and you will have a great partner.
@tomaszstarzZz
@tomaszstarzZz 4 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@choreomaniac
@choreomaniac 3 жыл бұрын
I was going to say this but you said it better. “Honey, you are going to be making a lot of money for the first time in your life. You have some big financial decisions to make in the near future. That’s why I got us two Financial Peace University classes for us. The leading cause of divorce is not being in the same page financially.” You should educate not dictate.
@notreallyaghost
@notreallyaghost 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly why I broke up w my ex girlfriend at 18, not willing to work, lazy, sometimes annoying family, no ambition for the future. Best decision of my life so far. Thanks for making me feel even better of that decision.
@swampcrawlerls1267
@swampcrawlerls1267 4 жыл бұрын
Please research divorce statistics before marriage. I'm not saying to not marry necessarily, but you need to know the risks before jumping out of that plane with a parachute that has a 50% chance of opening.
@u.s.navyvietnamvetanddynam821
@u.s.navyvietnamvetanddynam821 4 жыл бұрын
Very well said !!
@jkpiii4513
@jkpiii4513 4 жыл бұрын
That's the worst marriage advise I've ever heard. It's not to research statistics. It's to research the reasons why people divorce and fully understand the purpose of marriage. If people based their decisions on statistics, then they'll never get married.
@random-nz7dy
@random-nz7dy 4 жыл бұрын
I think it's great that Dave said he couldn't say it nicer and then literally formulated the perfect response.
@LivingLifeWithDeeDee
@LivingLifeWithDeeDee 4 жыл бұрын
Lol “that’s why I’m still single” @Anthony 🤣🤣🤣
@oliver18754oliverwarders
@oliver18754oliverwarders 3 жыл бұрын
Don’t co-sign with anyone, simple. There’s no need especially when nothing is guaranteed.
@Shinobifoxx
@Shinobifoxx 4 жыл бұрын
Sell the gf.
@1jw298
@1jw298 4 жыл бұрын
If you said rent, I might be interested
@TheLuxeTraveler702
@TheLuxeTraveler702 4 жыл бұрын
If you marry her be prepared to be the number 3 guy in her life 😬 you will never come first and your voice won't be heard until she confirms with daddy and brother in law. 🥴
@veronicaperez8462
@veronicaperez8462 4 жыл бұрын
He pointed out daddy is dead
@yamamancha
@yamamancha 4 жыл бұрын
0:17: Joe: "I've been dating this girl for a long time" 1:35: Dave: "So, how long have you been dating." Joe: "For about a year" This conversation is not going to end well...
@Larrydastooge
@Larrydastooge 4 жыл бұрын
He is so naive. Thinking he is more into the relationship than she is.
@leathelandlady
@leathelandlady 4 жыл бұрын
Long is relative. Maybe this is his longest relationship. He needs to keep looking.
@LG123ABC
@LG123ABC 4 жыл бұрын
@Shorty Uh, he's smart enough to seek out advice before moving forward. Meanwhile, you're home jerking it, "alpha" boy.
@peter1062
@peter1062 4 жыл бұрын
Better get a brand new girlfriend.
@alison4610
@alison4610 4 жыл бұрын
When your brand new car’s back tires roll off the pavement of the car lot, you’ve lost $3k in value and now own a used car. STUPID!!
@patty109109
@patty109109 4 жыл бұрын
Truth :(
@krecikowi
@krecikowi 4 жыл бұрын
I just got 6 years old car for 7.5k with 30k miles on it that person payed 28k when new. With taxes 8k vs. 31k.... 6 year loan would cost about 4k...35k dollar car for 7.5k ☺️
@laneblount9888
@laneblount9888 3 жыл бұрын
But if you keep it 8-10 years it will be worth it
@kickandblock
@kickandblock 3 жыл бұрын
@@krecikowi must not be a good car if it lost that much value in that short of time.
@flisfinance5680
@flisfinance5680 4 жыл бұрын
When you get married you get the whole family as well so make sure you make the right decision before committing to crazy
@michaelwoods4495
@michaelwoods4495 3 жыл бұрын
"If you marry someone who's lazy..." I'm lazy and I know it. So to get what I want for what I'm willing to do, I have to learn to do something that's really valuable in the marketplace. That's the key. -- Marine Naval Aviator, CPA, MBA.-- Just like anything else, put together a salable package.
@nick000002
@nick000002 4 жыл бұрын
With just 800 miles on the clock I saved 9k and a wait for my Car. Don’t buy new buy nearly new.
@stuartclubb4302
@stuartclubb4302 4 жыл бұрын
"Hyundai Palisade"???. So she has kids right? SIMP away Joe. SIMP away.
@conservativepersonnel8458
@conservativepersonnel8458 4 жыл бұрын
Ahh the American princesses who live to impress others, rather than themselves
@armandol1826
@armandol1826 4 жыл бұрын
it's the world we live in. I'm 21 and realized that everyone on instagram and other medias count everything from likes to views, but not what really matters.
@anitaknight3915
@anitaknight3915 3 жыл бұрын
@@armandol1826 very wise!!! They are living from their egos not soul purpose striving to impress others with fake lifestyles.
@ugladden
@ugladden 3 жыл бұрын
Leave bro! Her family is wayyyyyyy to overbearing
@kakusei3672
@kakusei3672 4 жыл бұрын
"quite sometime" ... 1 year. 🤦‍♂️ That's not long at all.
@TheLuxeTraveler702
@TheLuxeTraveler702 4 жыл бұрын
Right!! 🤣🤣🤣
@MiddlemistOne
@MiddlemistOne 4 жыл бұрын
Kakusei - Yes, but they have been friends for years before they started dated. I think in his mind he is adding all that up. Which would make it "seem" much longer then they have actually dated.
@sassouusasoo3607
@sassouusasoo3607 4 жыл бұрын
What he meant: they were play buddies for years ...She recently gave him a chance..So they are now official...😄😄
@dboucher26
@dboucher26 3 жыл бұрын
My wife wanted to buy a brand new car when we first met and I asked her what was wrong with her current car. I told her not to get a new car because it wouldn’t be a smart financial decision on her part. She ended up getting her dream car later, and I helped her find it, but it took time and patience before she was ready. She listened to me and still thank me to this day for being honest with her. We have no car payments.
@shyrusangoluan5509
@shyrusangoluan5509 4 жыл бұрын
1 year in relationship? nahhhh you gotta let her go
@Elizabethatthebeach
@Elizabethatthebeach 4 жыл бұрын
Boyfriend has no say whatsoever... Brother-in-law and father will be there... Boyfriend can leave tomorrow... Unless he commits, he can make suggest, but really has no say..🤫
@rminitials
@rminitials 4 жыл бұрын
He literally acknowledges and says this himself
@LG123ABC
@LG123ABC 4 жыл бұрын
Why should he commit before he finds out if she will listen to reason?
@rminitials
@rminitials 4 жыл бұрын
@@LG123ABC this^
@fsmoura
@fsmoura 4 жыл бұрын
correction: my girlfriend wants *(me)* to buy *(her)* a brand new car
@glorymanheretosleep
@glorymanheretosleep 4 жыл бұрын
If you can afford it, why not?
@James-vj5hz
@James-vj5hz 4 жыл бұрын
@@glorymanheretosleep A girlfriend...? That's why.
@scuba535
@scuba535 4 жыл бұрын
glorymanheretosleep don’t buy a girlfriend a new car. That’s stupid. Buy your wife a car.
@LG123ABC
@LG123ABC 4 жыл бұрын
@@scuba535 Buy your wife a used car with cash and invest the difference.
@jamescadzow9545
@jamescadzow9545 4 жыл бұрын
Get her a book on how to have healthy boundaries and tell her you thought she would love it. Let her figure out this simple puzzle for herself without your input, while observing her actions. 2 Possible Outcomes will occur 1. She will either never learn from her mistakes, then you should dump her 2. She will learn how to say NO and stand up for herself, then Marry her..
@midkort
@midkort 4 жыл бұрын
Yup, I think that's the best way to do it. If he tells her what to do, how does know if she really understood the underlying problems?
@jamescadzow9545
@jamescadzow9545 4 жыл бұрын
@@midkort I'm sure he's told her 100 x already, so it doesn't seem to sink in. It's called the definition of insanity: doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. She's got to figure this out on her own. Common and sense and simple logic is not simple or common for 80% of humans.
@umairahmad4711
@umairahmad4711 4 жыл бұрын
Waiting for your dream car to depreciate for the price is the best feeling for a car guy like me . 💰🤣
@expectthabest951
@expectthabest951 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Joe.... Look up the Word “SIMP” and read the definition to yourself 10x’s....🤷‍♂️😂
@Josh-py9rq
@Josh-py9rq 4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@shutupandeatasmr4498
@shutupandeatasmr4498 4 жыл бұрын
💯
@rjii3264
@rjii3264 4 жыл бұрын
A simp is a man who beckons to a woman’s every need. Key words “every need”
@edgehodl4832
@edgehodl4832 4 жыл бұрын
Lolollo so true
@Mr._X84
@Mr._X84 4 жыл бұрын
He's the exact opposite of that. He's actually smart for seeking the advise of others on a potential relationship issue. I bet you use that word a lot to describe other men, but it never applies to you.
@1.5Koreans0.5American
@1.5Koreans0.5American 4 жыл бұрын
I can see that he cares about her
@LG123ABC
@LG123ABC 4 жыл бұрын
@Shorty And you're a jag off. What's your point?
@dianer8881
@dianer8881 4 жыл бұрын
With marriage, their debt is your debt. You can't control anyone. Don't get married! Marriage is a liability.
@VegasMilgauss
@VegasMilgauss 2 жыл бұрын
Disobedience from a woman is sickening!
@ludens1526
@ludens1526 4 жыл бұрын
Don’t date people in debt. It’s hard to get through to someone who is in debt and doesn’t know any better. They’ll think you’re “showing off”
@glorymanheretosleep
@glorymanheretosleep 4 жыл бұрын
And that life is necessary to live without actual means. Those people-and there's a lot of them-will never accumulate enough to be safe.
@AutoMotoCha9L
@AutoMotoCha9L 4 жыл бұрын
I just bought 2005 Mustang for 2k it's new for me
@jeanlenor1858
@jeanlenor1858 4 жыл бұрын
If you're wondering why your kid college fund isn't funded. Take a look in your driveway! You are driving it.
@scarpfish
@scarpfish 4 жыл бұрын
A kid's college fund should be funded...by that kid. Mom and Dad should worry about retirement.
@greyhound-t3k
@greyhound-t3k 4 жыл бұрын
They also want the prestigious college decal on the back of that fancy car!
@rustyscrapper
@rustyscrapper 4 жыл бұрын
She isnt buying the car. She is borrowing money to drive the bank's car. Unless its paid off, its not really your car.
@dans3718
@dans3718 4 жыл бұрын
"I'm not known for sugar-coating things..." see entry for "understatement" in dictionary
@MsLucky443
@MsLucky443 3 жыл бұрын
Need to get to know someone. Do not move in with girlfriend/boyfriend. If it does not feel right, getting pushed into things financially you know is wrong.
@alexmitchell5651
@alexmitchell5651 9 ай бұрын
My girlfriend bought a $62K car before I met her and said I “need” it for my future kids. She’s 30, living at home, broke, and has no kids.
@4everyoung869
@4everyoung869 3 жыл бұрын
Leave her if she buys a new car.
@deanalbertson7203
@deanalbertson7203 4 жыл бұрын
Since he has not stepped up and married her, he does not get a vote. She is a single adult and can decide for herself.
@walden0220
@walden0220 4 жыл бұрын
It's been one year. It is not been long enough to see a person's true intentions in a situation like this will help show it
@deanalbertson7203
@deanalbertson7203 4 жыл бұрын
@@walden0220 He can give his opinion, and leave it at that. But since they are not married, he does not get a vote. If she wants to buy a new car, that's her choice.
@MsArtemis01
@MsArtemis01 4 жыл бұрын
Ex-girlfriend I hope. Just dump the whole family. Don't do it son. Run away now. Save yourself.
@JesusCervantes-vl4mb
@JesusCervantes-vl4mb 3 жыл бұрын
Just tell her bro to think twice before buying the car bye
@debfryer2437
@debfryer2437 4 жыл бұрын
Perfect counsel! If they do it while you’re dating, they’ll do it worse when you’re married! That goes for ALL bad behavior.
@De_BOSS95
@De_BOSS95 2 жыл бұрын
Dave knocked this out the park
@IamtheGL
@IamtheGL 4 жыл бұрын
I got this one Dave: to the caller, AMS The Four Horsemen of game podcast
@Rooot-username
@Rooot-username 4 жыл бұрын
Yes lol
@Je.rone_
@Je.rone_ 4 жыл бұрын
Fthts😂
@thecatnextdoor12
@thecatnextdoor12 4 жыл бұрын
Dusty male strategies.
@TheePrettyGirlSwag
@TheePrettyGirlSwag 3 жыл бұрын
I swear this is 2 calls in a row with a boyfriend trying to save someone. Y’all gotta stop trying to save people. One thing you can’t do is tell grown people what to do. Let her do it. She’ll regret it.
@financiallift6185
@financiallift6185 4 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend wants to do something and make choices in her life! Oh dang we can't have that happen. Shut it down, SHUT IT DOWN!
@Galomortalbr
@Galomortalbr 4 жыл бұрын
If she want it she can get a job lol, and pay it herself
@Simon-oy7kf
@Simon-oy7kf 3 жыл бұрын
I can think of so many more fun things to do than buy a car I can't afford. I mean you could buy nice bike and ride your bike every now and then instead of the car and it wouldn't haunt you with debt
@dannyv2230
@dannyv2230 4 жыл бұрын
Ayy CT represent! Also never get a new car unless you wanna throw away your money.
@Argedis
@Argedis 4 жыл бұрын
The caller needs to listen to red pill content. He sounds young and the girlfriend is actually considering getting into debt with the Hyundai Palisade which is essentially the Korean Cadillac Escalade lol
@jonathanmoore5114
@jonathanmoore5114 3 жыл бұрын
This guest dude is hilarious 😂😂
@thatmoneyguy7630
@thatmoneyguy7630 4 жыл бұрын
I believe the best thing to do would be to be understanding of her situation, trying to explain your side but approach it with kindness and not anger/mockery. The best thing you can do is try and be as helpful as possible!
@thatmoneyguy7630
@thatmoneyguy7630 4 жыл бұрын
JoeAceJR I didn’t say there was, but I don’t think beating a dead horse is a constructive counter argument.
@thatmoneyguy7630
@thatmoneyguy7630 4 жыл бұрын
JoeAceJR I think you misunderstand me, I am agreeing with you %100 however there have been many times where someone has asked the advice of another and gone and done the complete opposite. It sounds like this is yet another instance.
@joechang8696
@joechang8696 3 жыл бұрын
Hyundai Palisade, 8-passenger SUV, starts at 32K - probably not a good choice as a starter car for someone on a budget, other wise nice vehicle for a solid career person with 3+ kids. Marina? At 291HP, could probably tow a recreational boat? towing capacity 5000lb?
@lvluptoaverage52
@lvluptoaverage52 4 жыл бұрын
Don’t tell utube. But I smell red pill. Dave is changing. Spread the word. Brother
@Argedis
@Argedis 4 жыл бұрын
Dave is not red pill at all, but a lot of guys in the comments are...
@lvluptoaverage52
@lvluptoaverage52 4 жыл бұрын
Valor_X true that. lol true that
@MickeyR6
@MickeyR6 4 жыл бұрын
How old is the girl? That plays a huge role.
@deangelocapron3406
@deangelocapron3406 6 ай бұрын
Kinda seemed like Anthony was going in a different direction until Dave gave his opinion then Anthony hopped on that
@robbyleonard1092
@robbyleonard1092 4 жыл бұрын
when he marries her thats his debt
@daft_wizard
@daft_wizard 4 жыл бұрын
Dave Ramsey is so wise
@PInk77W1
@PInk77W1 3 жыл бұрын
Simple You want a new car ? Fine. I refuse to have a gf with debt.
@gm92845
@gm92845 4 жыл бұрын
This guy is jumping the gun trying to marry this girl after only a year of dating. He definitely doesn't think rationally.
@tomd815
@tomd815 3 жыл бұрын
at 34 i've never felt more understood than Anthony's comment of knowing in 10 minutes if it will work or not on a date.
@mac3490
@mac3490 4 жыл бұрын
Brother in laws 😂 Father in laws 😂 It’s brothers-in-law and fathers-in-law.
@MM-cb6fz
@MM-cb6fz 4 жыл бұрын
Boundaries in Dating by Cloud and Townsend a good read.
@Crohns_journey
@Crohns_journey 4 жыл бұрын
Learning tact is a great thing.
@mnola4742
@mnola4742 4 жыл бұрын
Dave is concerned for his cohost lol
@GabrielHernandez-zf2ys
@GabrielHernandez-zf2ys 4 жыл бұрын
Domino's please sign Dave to be an ambassador for you
@carlosmartinezz3022
@carlosmartinezz3022 4 жыл бұрын
Buy her the car Joe. She will love you more. - Car Salesman😂
@edkennedy7952
@edkennedy7952 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my God, a new car? How ridiculous.
@chadhanson4369
@chadhanson4369 3 жыл бұрын
Buy a fun car that you can sell for nearly what you paid for it. Get a Jeep Wrangler 29mpg and you barely loose any $ in depreciation
@eddier2k9
@eddier2k9 4 жыл бұрын
CT! Let’s go!
@bk_deltor9155
@bk_deltor9155 4 жыл бұрын
Got this friend at work. Got a girlfriend 3 months ago and in that time hes financed a 70K warlock, and he and her are moving in to an apartment together with her sister.
@joshmatthew4125
@joshmatthew4125 4 жыл бұрын
Dave's right you need to be on the same page. In-laws will effect your finances if you let them.
@christianarcos4333
@christianarcos4333 4 жыл бұрын
Keyword is girlfriend
@unicrontheunicorn8972
@unicrontheunicorn8972 4 жыл бұрын
Liabilities have this thing about them that makes you love them more than you do reason.
@clarifyingquestions
@clarifyingquestions 4 жыл бұрын
"I want you to have a good life, not just a good car". Nicely put, but he is just the b.f., so I think he should just have the Peace University/Baby step conversation and let her make her own decision!!!
@noahehler3541
@noahehler3541 4 жыл бұрын
NEVER buy a brand new car...best advice out there
@JK20239
@JK20239 4 жыл бұрын
If no one buys a new car, where do you get the used one from?
@noahehler3541
@noahehler3541 4 жыл бұрын
Very valid haha! Leave that to the people who don’t follow the advice
@LG123ABC
@LG123ABC 4 жыл бұрын
I'd say the one exception to that would be if you can pay cash and plan on driving it until the wheels fall off. I have a 2005 Chevy Suburban that still runs and looks great that I'm hoping to get another 5 years out of. If you keep a car for 20 years I think you can afford to buy new.
@noahehler3541
@noahehler3541 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@robertwhite6203
@robertwhite6203 3 жыл бұрын
Good point ! One reason some lose there depreciation value once it leaves the dealers lot . Some vechicles hold there value . Depending on the make & model .
@ilikeshroomgals
@ilikeshroomgals 4 жыл бұрын
Do I want to buy a new car. Those are my favourite talk em out of it!!
@steelcastle5616
@steelcastle5616 4 жыл бұрын
Is this guy the boyfriend or Daddy? Until she gets to tell you what to do with your money, don't think you can tell her what to do with hers. Bring it up, discuss it once and let it go...you are a boyfriend (she may want to get the car and ditch you).
@ChrisMFlorida
@ChrisMFlorida 4 жыл бұрын
Maybe both..
@steelcastle5616
@steelcastle5616 4 жыл бұрын
@@ChrisMFlorida YUCK!
@dolf7014
@dolf7014 3 жыл бұрын
@@steelcastle5616 don't be serious you'd simp out to a woman in no time the way you keep commentating on here lol.
@steelcastle5616
@steelcastle5616 3 жыл бұрын
@@dolf7014 Not everyone is like you.
@barrygarfield2203
@barrygarfield2203 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t know as they are only dating a year and not engaged , and she doesn’t have a father so her brother in law is trying to help. Cars are always a depreciating asset and a pre-owned would be the way to go but not sure how much say he has till he puts a ring on her finger. And if she’s going to have a great job- how much will she be making and would you rather her have a reliable car that will keep her safe or a car for the cash she has which might be one or two thousand? Tough situation
@jacqueline8566
@jacqueline8566 3 жыл бұрын
Anthony got that summer glow! We see you
@trashpageant7861
@trashpageant7861 4 жыл бұрын
Time to mosey on down to the comments...
@petecheng1
@petecheng1 4 жыл бұрын
if she doesn't listen to you now, do you think she will listen to you when you get married?
@adamandracheloconnor2920
@adamandracheloconnor2920 3 жыл бұрын
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