How disgusting is this dad. Accusing her of ruining the family when he groomed a teenager, being a deviant and cheater. Sickening. He belongs in jail.

Unfortunately, when Amy turns 22 years old, she's going to find out she'll be "too old" for Paul. That's when reality will kick in.

So he's a groomer. He needs to be in jail

This story is horrifying. The most scary part is that the husband groomed Amy since their son was a freshman in high school.

Here is what most people are missing. She said that they were married for 20 years and that she is 41, while he is 48. If we add some period of dating prior to their marriage that means she was likely less than 20 years old maybe as low as 18 when they first started dating while he was 25+. The wife was just his first victim.

I feel so bad for eric I think he's not confessing his feelings to his mom because he sees how much she's suffering already and doesn't want her to feel worse, and at the same time I feel like he must be keeping his feelings to himself because he's now a man and he can't cry when his family needs him the most

He groomed her, period. He’s not in love with her, he’s in love with control. Hope he ends up in prison honestly. Also I’ve seen cases like this on the ID channel.

“How I’ve aged poorly?” Did the husband tell her that?

The way the dad was acting. This started when the girl was a minor! I won’t believe anything else!

I would've destroyed my father if I was in that situation. Eric is going through a lot of pain. I have listened similar stories, so I don't know why people believe that is impossible or unrealistic.

i think while yes amy was probably groomed that doesn't mean she's completely innocent, saying stuff like that about OP means she's probably a mean girl. Doesn't mean she isn't a victim of grooming because what happened is not ok, but that doesn't excuse her other behavior.

The fact that she's telling this story so calmly without calling names and being mean but with lots of empathy shows that she has lots of grace and strength

Literally most of the girls I know that have either attended all girl schools, or catholic schools have been groomed or in abusive relationships where they don’t fully realize what’s happening to them is wrong. Like these schools should really have a freaking program in place that helps teach them what grooming is so they can avoid groomers at all costs.

The husband definitely going to get his karma. Amy was groomed for sure. I understand she’s young and thinking this man really love her. She honestly couldn’t live in my house telling me how grown she is. Since she canmake her own choices, I hope she makes a choice to get a job to support herself and her lover.

I definitely think Eric is putting his feelings in the back seat for his mom’s sake. Also loving Mary’s incredibly valid rage lol

*me being more interested in the story of the background than the actual one*

Amy is gonna learn a hard lesson...

What a psychotic narc. Like not only did he cheat, but he cheated with his sons most likely og underage gf. Like yeah the kids 100% should be taken away from him.

Your husband’s betrayal is devastating, especially with someone your family trusted. Stay strong, and consider seeking support from loved ones or a counselor.

The father should be in jail!

Why do People demans from the Womab to care for Amy? Amy has a Mother! The OP should focus on herself and her Kids and not playing Saviour for Amy. Its her Mothers responsibility

Wow... this is bonkers. I can't believe stuff like this actually happens. What a slime ball.

Who is sending you hateful messages? I swear people rather be mean than believe evil is real.

This sounds horrifying

It’s the random narrating that makes this story seem fake. “Her voice laced with frustration and worry” why on earth are you poetically describing one of the most traumatic events in your family’s life

Finance, trust fund? 6'5? Blue eyes? 0:15

when you're in a lying competition and your opponent is OP

poor girl. the brick called "reality" will hit her in a few years. I'd have to appluad OP and Amy's mom from doing everything they can but a rebelling 18's old is hard to handle that most just give up. She also have no father so daddy-issue might also be a thing. Paul might even get away with it. Its just so sad 😢

chat is this drake??

Has there been any updates to the story?

Neither amy or paul are victims in this situation and especially amy Don't make excuses for Cheaters

All girl catholic high school, this explains a lot

Of course he works in finance 😬

Amy is not a victim. I'm tired of this bs that young women are not held responsible or accountable for the shit they do. She is old enough to know how messed up what she is doing is and is choosing to do it anyway. Stop enabling bad behavior.

the last update was four months ago and there no current updates

I really do think this is fake. @12:40 when Amy was threatening to run away and then alerting the authorities of everything. The authorities aren't going to care if an 18 year old runs away with a 48 year old. Amy is right that she's 18 and can do anything she wants in that. She also focuses on 18 too much. This could actually be true in some states but majority in US it's lower by a couple years. But it COULD still be true where OP is but she keeps clamoring on the most assumed number out there. But the usage of authorities also makes me think it could be overseas which a good portion of countries have it lower than 18. But not as telling ino as her running away and telling the "police." Also when she calls out people for saying it's fake. Well it does have an air around it that does sound like a fictional story as stated above. But the part that makes me question it here is when"people claim" she was trying to make money. Huh? Is it possible to make money on a Reddit post? I mean i guess someone might come out of the woodwork i suppose and donate money? But it just seems like a lot of work to make $5. But i digressed. Just makes it ring even more false in my ears. If it is real, then I'm not sure if there is any law on grooming itself. It would probably be a pretty hard case to prosecute in the first place. Id call it hella creepy to "groom" then go in when they turn 18 but not sure if the legality. And all of the daughters friends seem to say the same story that he seemed creepy to them but only after they probably learned of the affair. Maybe they just didn't want to speak up about it maybe? Idk but I'd say if anything he probably waited for 18 since he really didn't try anything besides looking at the other girls. Or maybe he was just selective? But idk this story has one minor detail that makes me question the validity. @12:40 others are explained away a little easier. Edit: not condining actions. Legal doesn't always mean not creepy.

What I don't understand is why didn't you and your son warm his behind when you found hout? Why did Mary not warm Amy's already hot behind too? If you all want Amy to see the light, then she needs to be kicked out of the home. She will go to him and when she is rebuffed, because this is not a full time thing for him, she will have no choice but to accept reality.

Who cares about Amy

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People think this is fake because of decorated language which sounds like fiction novel like I sat there and their laugh echoing in my ears etc.

Why did U read more than 1 text 1 is plenty U read that U cut up his clothes toss him out let's c how interested in him when he's homeless and has to give u half his mny

I like the cakes way better.

So whats wrong with you that your husband cheated and kept secrets?

I do genuinely feel bad for the op, but i couldnt help to look at this part of the background a lot of tines 😭 6:01

Women typically stop taking care of themselves once they get the ring and it shows