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@mattm597
@mattm597 5 ай бұрын
Let's face it. The reason many of us click on these Ramsey clips is to reconfirm to ourselves that there are people more screwed than we are. 😂
@westbccoast
@westbccoast 5 ай бұрын
100%
@esmyval8948
@esmyval8948 5 ай бұрын
Yup 😂
@PN-ve9lf
@PN-ve9lf 5 ай бұрын
Why? Why do you have to read my mind, lol
@metoon3092
@metoon3092 5 ай бұрын
🤗@@PN-ve9lf
@wolfie71231
@wolfie71231 5 ай бұрын
amen
@zybard01
@zybard01 5 ай бұрын
She has a $33k/yr job and student loans of $110k.... college is not for everyone And All degrees are not good
@ykook7000
@ykook7000 5 ай бұрын
Americans don't understand that
@o0usf0o
@o0usf0o 5 ай бұрын
It blows my mind how many 50yo+ are in 100k student loan debts.
@andidede3653
@andidede3653 5 ай бұрын
@@o0usf0o A lot of that is interest accrual, that is the problem. When you graduate the monthly payment you pay should be paying your loan down but the issues are with the compounding interest that your payment doesn't even cover and some are worse than others. This is predatory and vicious and this I think is what needs to be taken out of Student Loans. Graduating with 100K of loans should not yield a higher loan balance 10 years later after making all the payments correct and on time. Ramsey's should try talking about this elephant in the room not just telling people, simply pay it off as soon as you can as most cannot this is the reality and must be addressed. They need to address the other issues as well as the system is not going to change and people will always need loans to go to school. Its one thing not to pay it and it hits you but the majority are paying and simply cannot get their balances down.
@econdude3811
@econdude3811 5 ай бұрын
She literally paid $100,000 for a chance to get a $15/hour job
@TheDoggmom
@TheDoggmom 5 ай бұрын
Dude! I know 65 year olds paying off student loans! These are people who got a masters degree in their 50’s. Ya know that Presidential candidate Cornell West, 70 years old, recently cited his “student loans “as a major factor in his money troubles. These people are insane.
@o0usf0o
@o0usf0o 5 ай бұрын
“My husbands the problem! How could he be $18k in debt 😭! Anyway, I have $110k in student loan debt but that’s neither here nor there 🤗”
@Ilzaza2
@Ilzaza2 3 ай бұрын
Lmao
@RupertMDoc
@RupertMDoc 3 ай бұрын
To be fair to the lady, credit card debt burns a lot hotter than most student loan debt.
@o0usf0o
@o0usf0o 2 ай бұрын
@@RupertMDoc she’ll carry that student loan to her grave in all likelihood
@politcallycorrect5816
@politcallycorrect5816 18 күн бұрын
student loans are from investing in your education, credit card debt is from bad spending
@o0usf0o
@o0usf0o 18 күн бұрын
@@politcallycorrect5816 maybe… I do know people from when I went to college who bought home entertainment systems and motorcycles with private student loans
@joyt458
@joyt458 5 ай бұрын
Bro $110k in student loans, graduated in 2009, and making less than $40k?! No way. Shes got to get serious and fast.
@zachking7182
@zachking7182 3 ай бұрын
Yeah very true, if you’re gonna do college do something that is marketable and actually work, it sounds like she started and never finished, such a waste of time
@sblijheid
@sblijheid 5 ай бұрын
She calls to complain about her husband's 18k in credit cards, but her debt burden is seven times that! Talk about being full of crap!
@LittleMopeHead
@LittleMopeHead 3 ай бұрын
That's the problem. People treat student loan debt like it's optional or low priority, you know, like someone at the White House will magically remove it someday.
@amyj4438
@amyj4438 2 ай бұрын
No, but the difference is she is trying to fix it. I think they can once they get it together, but at least she had a goal to pay it off.
@countessstevens63
@countessstevens63 5 ай бұрын
She has children, was divorced, had 110k in students loan then met a “jobless” man and decided to marry him?! Huh? WHY
@obi-wantpastrami8745
@obi-wantpastrami8745 5 ай бұрын
He's probably tall lol
@marknewton6984
@marknewton6984 4 ай бұрын
Huh????
@truckerman9112
@truckerman9112 2 ай бұрын
Tall handsome and good in bed. She was dickmatized😅
@xavil6341
@xavil6341 2 ай бұрын
you know, people don't look for spouses as a source of income... maybe you do though
@probablyworking3905
@probablyworking3905 2 ай бұрын
@@xavil6341 I think mentioning the joblessness is an appropriate inclusion to address relationship compatibility (shared goals and lifestyle). Unfortunately, the caller doesn’t recognize that she actually did choose someone who matches her fundamental financial standards.
@jeremylewis5154
@jeremylewis5154 5 ай бұрын
18k on 22 credit cards can be cleaned up pretty quickly by getting organized. It's the 110k in student loan debt making 33k that's going to be challenging. I would be defensive as well if I was the husband. Why are you worried about my little 18k in cc debt when you owe a 100k+ in your mid 40s on a student loan. They got to get on the same page.
@chattingman6777
@chattingman6777 5 ай бұрын
I agree his first step should be to get a divorce. Her debt is crazy as hell.
@ykook7000
@ykook7000 5 ай бұрын
She can always get a higher paying job he obviously is a loser forever If she is 46 how old is he Why diminish his debt and go hard on her She at least has some substance to build on he doesn't
@OhYeaMista
@OhYeaMista 5 ай бұрын
@@ykook7000 lol they both suck. She is 46 with 6 figure student loan debt making nothing, and he’s a 50 year old door dasher who doesn’t want a real job. They deserve each other
@taz24787
@taz24787 5 ай бұрын
@@ykook7000 Her degree is WORTHLESS if she's not wanting to use it. And after 15 years out of the market, it will be EXTREMELY hard for her to get into anything in that profession even if she wanted. So yeah, her debt is MUCH worse than his.
@AmukaAkuma
@AmukaAkuma 5 ай бұрын
@@ykook7000 If it's that easy, why doesn't she get a higher paying job? She is not exactly a spring chicken. We don't know if the degree is even relevant. An unused degree is normally considered outdated if one has not been employed in ones field for 5+ years. She is only making roughly half of the median salary for her age group, and is $100K plus in the hole. Who is the loser here.
@MrPopples72843
@MrPopples72843 5 ай бұрын
When she said 22cc I thought she was gonna say like $90k+
@westbccoast
@westbccoast 5 ай бұрын
Exactly, most people have 1 or 2 CC and 18K. 22 is insane, not sure how you even go about applying for than many and getting approved.
@metoon3092
@metoon3092 5 ай бұрын
@@westbccoast I wonder if his credit(score) only approves small limit cc's ?
@cameronbaker7959
@cameronbaker7959 5 ай бұрын
@@westbccoastevery store has a card they’d love to approve you for
@rvog6584
@rvog6584 Күн бұрын
@@westbccoast all it takes is answering every piece of junk mail :-)
@davidtree2511
@davidtree2511 3 ай бұрын
Dave's reaction when she just causally mentioned (she wasn't going to mention it otherwise) that she has $110,000 in student loan debt got me laughing. She calls in saying the problem is her husbands 22 credit cards with $18,000 balance (and that is a big problem), but somehow having 6 TIMES that amount in debt is something we can ignore for the moment?
@frequentlycynical642
@frequentlycynical642 5 ай бұрын
$110,000 for a bachelor's degree? These people have so many obviously bad decisions in their lives. It's hard to believe they need to talk to Dave about their situation.
@keithbellair9508
@keithbellair9508 4 ай бұрын
Worst decision was having 3 kids with a bum / loser.
@katydid917
@katydid917 3 ай бұрын
@@keithbellair9508She’s a loser too.
@danielrn133
@danielrn133 5 ай бұрын
I don't feel bad for her. She just married this guy and did zero checks prior. The dude hardly works. He has 22 credit cards. He won't get a real job. She is an adult and she made this decision. She borrowed 110K for student loans and doesn't use it at all. The bad decisions have to stop.
@joycewright5386
@joycewright5386 5 ай бұрын
He might not work but he only has $18,000 in debt. She still has $110,000 student loans!
@choicemeatrandy6572
@choicemeatrandy6572 5 ай бұрын
Meh its not the guy's fault. He makes $4k a month and we don't know his family situation
@akinakin2858
@akinakin2858 4 ай бұрын
The guy is making $1200 a week, if he's tracking his miles he will be paying negligible taxes , with 52 weeks a year, he will be pulling in about 60k per year, the guy is doing ok and making twice what she makes, as long as he can continue to work he is not the problem
@atdepaulis
@atdepaulis 4 ай бұрын
Ya they both need two jobs right now since her kids are out of the house.. pay this off so you can retire debt free and have some peace
@karenadams2512
@karenadams2512 3 ай бұрын
She sure wasn't very smart her being a phycologist got hooked up with dis function now she's really gonna go on a psych ride now
@Lapetak
@Lapetak 5 ай бұрын
Dave facepalm is hilarious at 3:44
@reneew9125
@reneew9125 Ай бұрын
Defeated😭😭
@MichaelSBowen
@MichaelSBowen 5 ай бұрын
When Dave did his facepalm, he was saying "Even I can't help this girl get out of debt" Dave met his match with this one.
@Mr.Boring_Man
@Mr.Boring_Man 5 ай бұрын
Her:Look at his $18K and 22 credit cards!!! What's your debt? Her:$110K in student loan debt. With that income, why not work in the public sector. Would've probably had a pension as well.
@LilWoppo
@LilWoppo 5 ай бұрын
I just paid off my first credit card and cut the card up. Never going back!
@francesjuntunen4234
@francesjuntunen4234 5 ай бұрын
@liloppo Me too! Congratulations!!!!❤❤❤
@DJRiyzen
@DJRiyzen 5 ай бұрын
Nice! I paid my CC off in 2014, and never got another one.
@MrJimmy3459
@MrJimmy3459 5 ай бұрын
But your missing out in 2% return and $100 annual fee
@jeffb.6642
@jeffb.6642 5 ай бұрын
@@MrJimmy3459 the 2% return can add up if you pay your balances every month before interest is applied, but the annual fees are bullshit
@kathys1285
@kathys1285 5 ай бұрын
@@MrJimmy3459 lol 😂
@DIAPERJOE
@DIAPERJOE 5 ай бұрын
Husband probably doesn’t want to drug test for a job.
@lynnebucher6537
@lynnebucher6537 3 ай бұрын
Or has a criminal record. Nowadays that's career suicide as far as a W-2 job is concerned. I wish they would inform high school students just how much it counts against them.
@Muller_Andr
@Muller_Andr 4 ай бұрын
Recently my wife and I just sold two real estate properties for a total sum of $800k. We plan to purchase a new house next year, the cash is just sitting in our joint savings account. What do you recommend we do? I will appreciate any suggestions.
@simone_maya
@simone_maya 4 ай бұрын
Certain stocks and commodities are a good hedge against inflation, however you need to know what the heck you're doing or better still, seek help from a money coach/invt-advisor
@EmmaFritz90
@EmmaFritz90 4 ай бұрын
Concurred. was way easier for me to navigate the markets not until 2020 stock market crash, I had to source for an Advsr to revamp my entire portfolio and hedge against inflation. Concisely, I’ve pulled off around 850k after subsequent investments, since using a coach two years and counting
@Muller_Andr
@Muller_Andr 4 ай бұрын
this is huge! can you be kind enough with info on the coach that guides you please? I’m in dire need of one as I approach retirement
@EmmaFritz90
@EmmaFritz90 4 ай бұрын
Doing your research will save you a lot of hassle. Monica Mary Strigle is her name and she is licensed.
@Muller_Andr
@Muller_Andr 4 ай бұрын
thanks for saving me hours of researching, I curiously looked up Monica Mary Strigle on my browser and came across her website, I hope I can allows interview Monica myself.
@Astro95Media
@Astro95Media 5 ай бұрын
Another big reason I got out of debt before I married my wife. I didn't want any of that on her shoulders.
@karenjensen2345
@karenjensen2345 5 ай бұрын
My ex had about 20 credit cards in my name and it took me an additional 10 years after our divorce, to pay all them off. He maxed them all out. It was rough. However, my 2nd husband and I have been married 10 years and are completely debt free including our house is paid for and no vehicle loans whatsoever, zero debt. We are living well. 😅
@UTP504
@UTP504 4 ай бұрын
Why did you let him do that??
@lynnebucher6537
@lynnebucher6537 3 ай бұрын
Geez, he should have been assigned some of that debt.
@caliopeknows844
@caliopeknows844 2 ай бұрын
This is fallout from bad moral decisions. Divorce and adultery is not a blessing. This is the "REAL" elephant in the room. Admit it lady - you married him thinking he would save you financially and he married you thinking you would save him financially. You two need to admit this, undo this relationship, and change your thinking.
@BrianW211
@BrianW211 5 ай бұрын
Why does nobody ever address the issue of people racking up 6-figure student loan debt on degrees that lead to careers with low pay and minimal opportunities for advancement?
@amberbiggs
@amberbiggs 5 ай бұрын
Yep, the problem is many degrees aren't meant to be terminal degrees, but foundational degrees to lead into further education, like law school or a Masters.
@greggpurviance7252
@greggpurviance7252 5 ай бұрын
6 figure student loans for anything is nuts. Yes many are foundational. But if you don't go further, you are in trouble
@BrianW211
@BrianW211 5 ай бұрын
​@@greggpurviance7252 Yeah, I agree, but potential students should at least do an ROI analysis. The cost of obtaining any 4-year degree from a specific university is virtually identical. Yet, you can get a degree that lands you a job earning a median starting salary of around $80K with high income growth potential (e.g., chemical engineering or computer science), or you could get a degree that would land you a job earning a median starting salary around $40K with low income growth potential (e.g., psychology or social services).
@ykook7000
@ykook7000 5 ай бұрын
It is addressed cos every 3rd caller on this show demonstrates it But it's the systems fault remember 🙄🤦
@greggpurviance7252
@greggpurviance7252 5 ай бұрын
@@ykook7000 just a comment on fault. When there are government backed loans, there is serious inflation and management bloat. That being said, the government doesn't sign up for that loan. No one has to do a buy in to the disaster. That's on the student & parents.
@Lady.Luck.
@Lady.Luck. 5 ай бұрын
"doesn't like working for someone else". This guy thinks he has all the answers and is probably uncoachable. Sounds very stubborn and committed to his ways
@chattingman6777
@chattingman6777 5 ай бұрын
That isn't the problem he married someone with 110 thousand in student debt is moronic. She should have been nothing more than a side chick or girlfriend at best. He isn't the problem she is under working for decades.
@Lady.Luck.
@Lady.Luck. 5 ай бұрын
@@chattingman6777 I did actually write that comment a bit early before I found out she was 100k in debt for psychology. I honestly feel like her part is probably worse!
@Rome1017Lights
@Rome1017Lights 5 ай бұрын
​@@chattingman6777let's just come to the correct conclusion... they're both morons
@sblijheid
@sblijheid 5 ай бұрын
Why? Not everyone likes to say yay boss. In light of cronyism, do you know how common it is for people to work for incompetent bosses, who makes their lives hell on earth?
@289Mustang67
@289Mustang67 5 ай бұрын
@@sblijheid If you don't like having a boss, then you need to have a viable alternative to support yourself the rest of your life.
@ulikemykungfu3995
@ulikemykungfu3995 5 ай бұрын
Was out of work for a while because things slowed down at my job. We got down to 2 months savings then my car got totaled because someone ran a red light and hit me. And of course she had no insurance. Thankfully I have uninsured motorists. We bought a $1500 beater for now because we want to get a better car than what the payout will get. I quit my job for a new one. Started at $25 an hour. Trying to save emergency funds back up and need a new car. But was just glad we didn’t plunge into debt.
@grantv2313
@grantv2313 5 ай бұрын
I love how people survey the job market in the area they apparently want to live in, AFTER going to college and acquiring the debt. Oh there’s just no jobs for this. I guarantee you somebody could give her the masters degree and she still wouldn’t have a job doing what she went to school for. In the end not going to college has value compared to this. You can’t afford to lose if the career doesn’t come with it. I swear college is sold to people as a false hope in the future. Funded with government backed loans that private banks wouldn’t give out in a million years.
@lynnebucher6537
@lynnebucher6537 3 ай бұрын
Underachieving is a personality trait. And yes my college roommate never looked into what jobs with her degree would pay before she was about to graduate. I researched that before I chose my computer science major.
@claven3608
@claven3608 3 ай бұрын
​@@lynnebucher6537 Exactly same. Wife and both have finance and accounting degrees largely because they aren't terribly difficult and pay well with just bachelor. With annual merit increase and even a few promotions most make 6 figures by 40's and can easily be double that Degree you chose has even better opportunities. Basically never Incur any debt (particularly kind you cannot absolve in bankruptcy) without incredibly high expected returns. Folks like her doing exactly opposite is insanity.
@benr918
@benr918 5 ай бұрын
Husband is lazy, wife has no ambition, doomed to stay where they are if they don't get it together.
@angel-ij4xv
@angel-ij4xv 5 ай бұрын
this is why i stay away from credit cards
@musicman7297
@musicman7297 5 ай бұрын
And think about how this generation will be when they hit old age.
@tracyd2598
@tracyd2598 5 ай бұрын
destitute..@@musicman7297
@francosantoro1986
@francosantoro1986 5 ай бұрын
Then you have the guy who has lamborgnis and has to pay his wife for everything or she will divorce him
@timgibney5590
@timgibney5590 5 ай бұрын
@@angel-ij4xv even with no credit cards you can't make a living with Uber. It is a teenager job or part time extra after a full time job.
@ChillClay
@ChillClay 5 ай бұрын
I know being a teacher is tough these days, but get that certificate and double your income overnight.
@andrewlayton9333
@andrewlayton9333 4 ай бұрын
I just retired from teaching and all I can say is "F" that idea.
@atdepaulis
@atdepaulis 4 ай бұрын
🙌 this right here!! Forget the masters but use your degree for something!
@xsgtxbigboy1655
@xsgtxbigboy1655 5 ай бұрын
I like how she bashed her husband starting off when she has 10x the debt but she started off with 22 credit cards to sound worse
@motoryzen
@motoryzen 5 ай бұрын
Exactly that is one sign of a feminazi
@KathleenMcNe
@KathleenMcNe 5 ай бұрын
I'm a recently retired marketing professional and would not have hired someone whose sole academic credential was a Psychology degree.
@captainkrunch6372
@captainkrunch6372 5 ай бұрын
May as well be Left Handed Underwater Basket Weaving😅😅😅😂😂😂😂
@cindymann3673
@cindymann3673 4 ай бұрын
Maybe coupled with hard skills from jobs?
@butimbobbywitdatool
@butimbobbywitdatool 2 ай бұрын
@@cindymann3673Speaking as a recent Psychology graduate, they do not give a fuck about that degree unless you are going into counseling or therapy. So the hard skills you gain from research assistantships and mental health care positions are ultimately the biggest benefit
@JazChapmanTV
@JazChapmanTV 5 ай бұрын
Why are we shaming the husband's choice of work when he makes almost $60k a year with $18k debt. The wife makes $33k with $110k of student loans! Car maintenance would not be nearly as much $60k 🙄. He needs to pay off those credit cards in a year. She needs to start doing some Doordash to bring in more income!
@thomaspiscitello7330
@thomaspiscitello7330 5 ай бұрын
He may make 60k but 25k is gas, insurance, and wear and tear.
@TheTbabylati
@TheTbabylati 5 ай бұрын
He Makes 33k after gas and taxes
@Joce123
@Joce123 5 ай бұрын
ABSOLUTELY
@Joce123
@Joce123 5 ай бұрын
​@thomaspiscitello7330 He would have car insurance expense whether he drove for doordash or not so that's a nonitial and your numbers are way off concerning the amount of gas. And wear and chair on the vehicle . You're also not taking in consideration tax rate offs.
@JazChapmanTV
@JazChapmanTV 5 ай бұрын
​@@TheTbabylati She makes $33k, not him.
@mistiinseattle
@mistiinseattle 5 ай бұрын
If you want to feel better about your financial situation, listen to Dave Ramsey
@13ikea
@13ikea 5 ай бұрын
Now ma’am you should’ve known better than to marry that. 🤦🏾‍♀️
@marknewton6984
@marknewton6984 4 ай бұрын
Marriage is a drug.
@rebeccaoprea9917
@rebeccaoprea9917 5 ай бұрын
We repeat what we don’t repair.
@timgibney5590
@timgibney5590 5 ай бұрын
Man. I feel bad and feel like a loser. Then I hear a story like this and all of the sudden feel alot better
@americafirst9144
@americafirst9144 5 ай бұрын
Don't even think about defining yourself that way. You are descended from the heavens. You get to choose how you will proceed in life.
@SycaShow
@SycaShow 5 ай бұрын
I think that’s why so many people watch this stuff to feel better about themselves
@timgibney5590
@timgibney5590 5 ай бұрын
@@americafirst9144 Yes on new cars and credit cards. I need Dave Ramsey ... but thankfully do not owe as much and have more income without a 100k student loan. That still does not make my actions mature
@esmyval8948
@esmyval8948 5 ай бұрын
😂
@Steve-lk1eb
@Steve-lk1eb 3 ай бұрын
The number of credit cards doesn’t matter. It’s whether you pay them off or not.
@JadenZeCreator
@JadenZeCreator 3 ай бұрын
Agreed but 22? I can see maybe 4-5 but 22 is nuts. I wouldn’t be able to remember or keep track of them all
@Bob-yh7ir
@Bob-yh7ir 5 ай бұрын
Wow, could not afford to put a battery in his car? Just sad. She is terrible with picking men to spend her life with. Picking the wrong person will destroy your life.
@megalodon1726
@megalodon1726 5 ай бұрын
She destroyed her own life with $100K in student loans to get a low wage job, and letting those loans linger for 15 years and accumulate interest.
@miketheyunggod2534
@miketheyunggod2534 5 ай бұрын
He probably got a discount for signing up to a credit card like Lowe’s, Home Depot, Kohl’s , etc.
@ST-rj8iu
@ST-rj8iu 5 ай бұрын
She knew what he was making when she met him. I have no sympathy. At least there was no bait and switch.
@garrett21
@garrett21 5 ай бұрын
He’s losing money doing uber and doordash? Then why do you recommend it to every broke person that calls in?
@NightTrainRides
@NightTrainRides 5 ай бұрын
I think they recommend it as a second income or a temporary job.
@John-bd9fj4435
@John-bd9fj4435 4 ай бұрын
investing requires good experience and knowledge to carry out a good and successful trade, I have lost a lot trying to trade all by myself May I ask which investments are good?
@John-bd9fj4435
@John-bd9fj4435 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for the efforts you put in these. I found her and i leave her a message i await a response
@katydid917
@katydid917 3 ай бұрын
Scam
@tokenblkguy00
@tokenblkguy00 5 ай бұрын
HIGHLY doubt she’d find a 90k job with her degree, background, and age
@DoctorSmartyPants
@DoctorSmartyPants 5 ай бұрын
And drive.
@taz24787
@taz24787 5 ай бұрын
YEAP, WAY too many years out of market. Her degree is almost worthless if she doesn't update with a masters.
@catherinewilke5583
@catherinewilke5583 5 ай бұрын
Sounds like neither of them has much ambition . Good luck with that people 😂
@privacyplease1556
@privacyplease1556 5 ай бұрын
She married an Uber driver and he married a woman with $100 in student loans making $30k. Two clueless people who undoubtedly going to be broke in retirement. Sad.
@MotivationSucces247
@MotivationSucces247 5 ай бұрын
Somehow they found each other 😉 this is a good example law of attraction, right 😉 I hope they figure the issue out. They need a financial advisor. I see a business opportunity here
@user-dr1ev6fg4y
@user-dr1ev6fg4y 5 ай бұрын
110k student loan and she doesn't have a masters. How do you owe 18k on 22 cards?
@dannylengyel5830
@dannylengyel5830 5 ай бұрын
How do you have 22 cards?
@marknewton6984
@marknewton6984 4 ай бұрын
I don't get it!?😮
@bigcahuna42366
@bigcahuna42366 5 ай бұрын
How can anyone in their right mind be able to manage and coordinate the monthly bills on 22 cards?
@socco
@socco 5 ай бұрын
Autopay, an app that aggregates all your accounts, and enough financial responsibility that you're not living paycheck-to-paycheck.
@JustinCase780
@JustinCase780 5 ай бұрын
He's a helluva juggler!
@gailrodgers3079
@gailrodgers3079 5 ай бұрын
At one point I was married to a guy somewhat like this only thankfully not 23 cards. Within one year of marrying him along with a mortgage and a car we had $42K in credit card debt. The harder I worked at paying them off the more he charged. When the monthly minimum payment was $1100/month (I was bring home $1800/month and his fluctuated but on average about $1500/month) I told him he could not use any of the cards and he wined about me emasculating him. I decided to divorce him as I saw no future with a man who didn't care about the rest of the family, he wanted what he wanted. I got divorced and was able to pay off all cards that had my name on them. He didn't bother paying off his debt, he went and bought a motorcycle that I don't think he ever got it going!
@DoctorSmartyPants
@DoctorSmartyPants 5 ай бұрын
That's what I was wondering.
@taz24787
@taz24787 5 ай бұрын
It's called autopay.
@PN-ve9lf
@PN-ve9lf 5 ай бұрын
She also said she want to buy a house. It's worse when you don't know what you don't know.
@lizh4933
@lizh4933 5 ай бұрын
Ellie Mae was so desperate for a man she didn't think through the whole process. Perhaps she should of counselled herself first.
@AmukaAkuma
@AmukaAkuma 5 ай бұрын
He married a woman with $100K debt, who is the desperate one here?
@smart127
@smart127 5 ай бұрын
* Should have 😉
@k.c.marshall921
@k.c.marshall921 5 ай бұрын
"Should've".
@MotivationSucces247
@MotivationSucces247 5 ай бұрын
In general, this is a reminder for all of us to stay away from credit cards and bank loans. Use to have a mortgage. Now I live mortgage free for 4 years already, and I tell you that feels awesome❤❤ find a way to get rid of the mortgage asap. Half of my income was going to the bank :( and I was fed up with that and took action. I wish everybody the same and debt free in you lives.
@lifestylehomestead
@lifestylehomestead 5 ай бұрын
I'm astonished that people can rack up that much student loan debt. I wonder what the thought process was....unbelievable.
@marknewton6984
@marknewton6984 4 ай бұрын
My little sister is like that: $150 k in student loans. Good Luck!
@CarnivoreStork
@CarnivoreStork 5 ай бұрын
$110, 000 in student loans 🤦🏻‍♀️
@leex1347
@leex1347 5 ай бұрын
And only making $33,000!
@dudeorduuude5211
@dudeorduuude5211 5 ай бұрын
For an undergraduate degree only!!
@ykook7000
@ykook7000 5 ай бұрын
Groundhog day This happens all the time Yet it's the systems fault apparently 🙄🤦
@bres9977
@bres9977 5 ай бұрын
He likes to do it on his own but he’s not on his own anymore. He got remarried so what he does affects THEM.
@ds5651
@ds5651 5 ай бұрын
I have 8 credit card and $5,000 of free vacations each year. 4 rentals, 600k in retirement at 42. Love my career. Don't run with scissors.
@UTP504
@UTP504 4 ай бұрын
You’re killing it💯👍🏾
@AstonM6
@AstonM6 3 ай бұрын
Now I understand why some people ask to see a credit report on a person they are in a serious relationship with.
@Tap354
@Tap354 5 ай бұрын
This was refreshing to hear! Welcome to the real America people 😅
@norwegianblue2017
@norwegianblue2017 5 ай бұрын
That averages out to less than $1000/card. This isn't as bad as it sounds. Just start paying off the ones with the lowest balance first and never eat out or go to Starbucks.
@donaldlyons17
@donaldlyons17 5 ай бұрын
You don't think he has an income issue? Why use the cards when one already has money?
@chcarroll5164
@chcarroll5164 3 ай бұрын
"Why is he nor working?" because Door Dash is not a job. And her $30K is what an entry job at Kroger pays.
@jimmyToyota1
@jimmyToyota1 5 ай бұрын
Had to check to make sure it wasn’t my wife. 😅
@Debora.14
@Debora.14 5 ай бұрын
Reminder to self: 'Don't settle for just anyone just because you desire a relationship/marriage. Even better reason to wait it out for the right partner, God's best!
@AmukaAkuma
@AmukaAkuma 5 ай бұрын
You are absolutely right, unfortunately some men have to settle for underemployed women with $100K plus student debt. God bless.
@k.c.marshall921
@k.c.marshall921 5 ай бұрын
Better yet, just dont get married. Problem solved.
@naca1553
@naca1553 4 ай бұрын
I certainly wouldn't have picked him for a husband. I'd I was a man, I def wouldn't have picked her
@davidk6482
@davidk6482 3 ай бұрын
110k in SL but only making 30k in salary. Horrible ROI on this. And dude needs to get a real job asap
@tugboat2030
@tugboat2030 5 ай бұрын
"From his previous marriage" lol. So he's been charging credit cards for a LONG time. 😅😅
@josephmendozajr8993
@josephmendozajr8993 3 ай бұрын
Match made in heaven they both have no drive to do better their lives
@MattyLiam333
@MattyLiam333 5 ай бұрын
There's nothing wrong with doordashing. Just don't do it full-time. It's a side hustle not a way of life
@andrewlayton9333
@andrewlayton9333 4 ай бұрын
Even as a side hustle, it needs to be treated as a business.
@portlandrestaurants
@portlandrestaurants 5 ай бұрын
Marketing is a super competitive field
@LilWoppo
@LilWoppo 5 ай бұрын
Dave’s the man!!
@westonselna5892
@westonselna5892 5 ай бұрын
"Is he currently using credit cards?" Hahah, it's a drug. Gonna learn about debt in DARE class now.
@TheBeard411
@TheBeard411 5 ай бұрын
“Single mother of three” it was at that moment I knew things were not going well.
@DoctorSmartyPants
@DoctorSmartyPants 5 ай бұрын
Agreed. Of course, single means not married. It doesn't mean she does not have help raising the children. They have a father.
@summerforever6736
@summerforever6736 5 ай бұрын
NEVER MIND ...GET A NEW TRUCK!!
@johncameron4194
@johncameron4194 5 ай бұрын
Daves look says it all
@TRC19999
@TRC19999 5 ай бұрын
She really knows how to pick em. An Uber driver who can barely afford his life while being critically in debt. Good job!
@walters2405
@walters2405 5 ай бұрын
Ikr 😂😂😂
@alicef128
@alicef128 5 ай бұрын
Makes me wonder if he married her for a place to stay.
@RobertoLopez-ew6ly
@RobertoLopez-ew6ly 5 ай бұрын
He was making $1200 a week driving uber. She makes $33k a year and has over $100k in debt. Makes me wonder if she married him for a place to stay.@@alicef128
@user-bi2ep9ig9z
@user-bi2ep9ig9z 5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@FrankS111
@FrankS111 5 ай бұрын
Noooooo you cannot hold women responsible for their poor choices in partners!!! It’s all a big surprise to them and it’s always the man’s fault! Don’t you know anything?!
@Jane5720
@Jane5720 5 ай бұрын
So why did you marry him? shaking my head
@marknewton6984
@marknewton6984 4 ай бұрын
??????????😂
@zingzing6550
@zingzing6550 5 ай бұрын
This is why one should NEVER share economy. NEVER. Each one pays for him- or herself. Married or not.
@meateater4life551
@meateater4life551 3 ай бұрын
She wants her husband to pay for her student loans. Good job dude, stay minimally employed or you'll end up paying off her loans and she'll dump you after the last payment has been made.
@brandonyoung5037
@brandonyoung5037 5 ай бұрын
46 with 110k in student loans is unhinged.
@AceTheDragon
@AceTheDragon 5 ай бұрын
I did not realize there was a speed running category to get so many credit cards. Idk if he got the world record, but wow, that's crazy. I'm shocked he does not have more debt.
@actuallyterry
@actuallyterry 5 ай бұрын
I'm pretty sure I saw a Ramsey video where a person had 30+ credit cards, years ago.
@actuallyterry
@actuallyterry 5 ай бұрын
I think it's called "I have 35 credit cards, how do I pay them off." The video is like 7 years old.
@AceTheDragon
@AceTheDragon 5 ай бұрын
Sheesh...I thought 22 was a lot
@lynnebucher6537
@lynnebucher6537 3 ай бұрын
I had a good 15-20 cards due to shifting my husband's debt to the next one offering zero interest for a year or so. Back then there was little to no cost to transfer the balance. I never allowed him to add anymore debt but it was a long 4 years getting him to pay them off. I closed most of them after.
@anhbarker
@anhbarker 5 ай бұрын
How do you have a Bachelors in Psychology and have $110k in student loans!?!?! My husband has his LPC and he took out less than $20k between his Bachelors AND Masters!!
@lkj0822g
@lkj0822g 5 ай бұрын
Exhibit A on what happens when bad decisions stack up....
@andybungert
@andybungert 5 ай бұрын
Yiiiikes. Can't wait to hear how this goes
@James_Hough
@James_Hough 5 ай бұрын
We can blame the "system" all we want, but this student loan thing comes back to people signing on the bottom line to take out loans. There are several ways to never go into debt and several more to minimize debt. However, they all take planning- acting rather than reacting. Military (I did this and paid for undergrad), community college (also did a bit of this and my daughter is doing it now), putting off college to work save or sitting out a year to work and save (my sister did this). Trade school rather than college (my son is doing this) There are plenty more beyond this. I did take out some loans for law school, but in the end, it was the equivalent of a base model Camry (which was paid off quickly) while my cohorts were taking out McMansion-sized loans. We dig our own holes, but we don't have to.
@gailrodgers3079
@gailrodgers3079 5 ай бұрын
I worked my way through 4 years of college doing on campus jobs for the college as well as typing term papers for guys, etc. But that was almost 50 years ago.
@donaldlyons17
@donaldlyons17 5 ай бұрын
@@gailrodgers3079 Well but that is part of the problem. The further back we go the more affordable some thing were. I was able to pay my 35K loan off in 5 years from 2009 to 2013 but today making 40K which is twice what I made back then I can't currently pay of 35K!!!!!
@3ddiEdotcom
@3ddiEdotcom 5 ай бұрын
I feel ya, Dave. I'm head-palming the more I hear this. 😖
@Kysen10
@Kysen10 5 ай бұрын
3:44 I burst out laughing at that reaction. Dave is the funniest.
@Coffee4commonsense
@Coffee4commonsense 2 ай бұрын
Every person I know with a psychology degree is a middle age woman who is still paying on her student loan debt and working in a field that doesn’t require a degree.
@IndigoStarrAz
@IndigoStarrAz 4 ай бұрын
$110,000 in student loans and working in fast food.
@kyaramonique420
@kyaramonique420 5 ай бұрын
I made 33k when I was 22. Can't imagine being 46 still making that. I was making 100k+ by time I was 30 with no degree. She needs a career change and a husband who's motivated to work and provide for his family.
@Mz.ScorpioSexy76
@Mz.ScorpioSexy76 5 ай бұрын
@kyaramonique385 That's Fantastic! What kind of work do you do? 😇
@birdseye2239
@birdseye2239 5 ай бұрын
Only choice is sell the house and everything you have and move somewhere she can use her degree for income. Her husband has 22 credit cards and turns out she has the bigger baggage
@Joseph-en7gx
@Joseph-en7gx 5 ай бұрын
You married a rockstar!!!🎉
@taz24787
@taz24787 5 ай бұрын
Well, she's a lazy groupie.
@Greenbearls
@Greenbearls 3 ай бұрын
Dave's final reaction is basically what I would do.
@Gumby6583
@Gumby6583 3 ай бұрын
I’m tired of grown dudes making zero money saying “I just want to work on my own.” But not have any money
@mle011
@mle011 4 ай бұрын
She makes no money and he has no work ethic and too big an ego to “work for someone else”. That’s a bigger problem than 22 credit cards.
@AlexWatts-hj9el
@AlexWatts-hj9el 5 ай бұрын
Getting out of that much debt given their backgrounds, will be difficult to do just by themselves. Some encouragement, direction and guidance from a group will be huge for them. My only concern would be the husband, will he put his ego aside and work for someone else
@sblijheid
@sblijheid 5 ай бұрын
She could doordash at night herself.
@lynnebucher6537
@lynnebucher6537 3 ай бұрын
​@@sblijheid if I eas her, I would, at least until I could get a better paying day job.
@Jasonshelton-
@Jasonshelton- 5 ай бұрын
The United States is grappling with the challenging combination of inflation and recession. An alarming aspect of this recession is the surge in consumer credit card debt. In April alone, credit card debt escalated by 20%, and rates have doubled within a year. Inflation has reached such heights that consumers are resorting to debt for essential life necessities. The signs of a collapse are evident, and the prospect of more layoffs looms. This is why I am considering entering the market now, anticipating a recovery in the economy. I am in the process of constructing a $600k portfolio. Do you have any recommendations for stocks in this scenario?
@Dave_East
@Dave_East 5 ай бұрын
Focus on two primary goals. Firstly, prioritize your safety by understanding the opportune moments to sell stocks, aiming to minimize losses and maximize gains. Secondly, prepare to capitalize on market shifts. I recommend seeking advice from a Certified Financial Planner (CFP) or another professional to guide you in achieving these objectives.
@captainkrunch6372
@captainkrunch6372 5 ай бұрын
Shut up scammer
@GersderaNioer
@GersderaNioer 4 ай бұрын
Accurate asset allocation is crucial, and some individuals use hedging strategies or allocate part of their portfOlio to defensive assets for market downturns. Expert guidance is vital for achieving this. This approach has helped me stay finan-cially secure for over five years, yielding nearly $1 million in returns on invest-ments.
@ben_dukeson
@ben_dukeson 4 ай бұрын
Please can you leave the info of your lnvestment advsor here? I’m in dire need for one
@GersderaNioer
@GersderaNioer 4 ай бұрын
Amanda Kathryn Sachs is the licensed advisor I use. Just search the name. You’d find necessary details to work with to set up an appointment.
@laurarose6829
@laurarose6829 5 ай бұрын
I’ve taught my kids that debt is to be avoided. Credit cards are the worst of all of the debt choices. Why haven’t parents all caught on to this thought yet?
@tylerhair9067
@tylerhair9067 5 ай бұрын
Amen! I preach this to our kids
@Kayla-hs9rt
@Kayla-hs9rt 5 ай бұрын
Well it’s good to have to build credit. You just need to able to manage it properly and try not to overspend with it
@RichardPatrick84
@RichardPatrick84 5 ай бұрын
​@Kayla-hs9rt credit is nothing. It allows you to get in debt and nothing more. Pay for things, don't borrow and pay.
@Gsta1544
@Gsta1544 5 ай бұрын
Which is why I pay them all in full as soon as they post​@@RichardPatrick84
@andrew8168
@andrew8168 5 ай бұрын
Is it any shock that the people who set-up this crap system arent smart enough to manage their money?
@thehungrywolf69
@thehungrywolf69 5 ай бұрын
I’m praying for them 🙏✝️💯
@prateekagraw
@prateekagraw 3 ай бұрын
That amount of student debt, for what? She didn't even follow through and is working in customer service which is near the lowest paid field on average. I am in IT and graduated without debt. That college took advantage of her charging her that much for a degree that doesn't pay without Masters, and she let being taken advantage of.
@rdmineer1
@rdmineer1 4 ай бұрын
I have one CC only for online purchases, and pay them off soon as they post. You don't have to wait for the statement. The single purpose is to protect banking and debit card info. I am very disciplined, if I don't have the cash, I don't buy.
@terridibella5100
@terridibella5100 5 ай бұрын
If Dave spoke to me that way, I would begin calculating splitting all assets. Bye Felicia
@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303
@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 5 ай бұрын
You would not figure this out BEFORE you called Dave?
@terridibella5100
@terridibella5100 5 ай бұрын
@@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 his rant at the end. I would not be in that situation. I would not tolerate that behavior.
@adams8830
@adams8830 5 ай бұрын
The aye-aye-aye took me OUT. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@rebeccaoprea9917
@rebeccaoprea9917 5 ай бұрын
They make it seem like people who go to college are smarter and well off but these calls prove otherwise.
@ykook7000
@ykook7000 5 ай бұрын
Not in America everyone goes to college remember it's normal Stupid people are in all walks of life regardless of education status
@OrionHunterOfTheStars
@OrionHunterOfTheStars 3 ай бұрын
She spent $100,000 on college and didn’t even get a masters??? Something is up here, why did she overpay this insanely for a bachelors degree?
@philipgerry5228
@philipgerry5228 5 ай бұрын
It’s like boating on the river. You’re headed for the waterfall, do you turn around or crash the boat over the waterfall? Change the debt direction to less debt now.
@virgierutledge3004
@virgierutledge3004 4 ай бұрын
Psychology majors are often, wackadoodles.
@budgetingdaddyuk6761
@budgetingdaddyuk6761 5 ай бұрын
Wow, 22 credit cards is crazy.
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