My husband's advice to the "chronically single"

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The Comments Section with Brett Cooper

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@Christine.Dodson Ай бұрын

The way she smiles while he's talking. So sweet!

@201lad7 Ай бұрын

@@Definitelynotrilona deservingly

@theenglishartist3794 Ай бұрын

@@Definitelynotrilona it's a commentary channel. It's purpose is kinda just criticism, i think the biggest difference is that, being run by the daily wire, their political views are public. But they're not just trying to put down other people, more that they're saying these are the kinds of things that don't really make for a good citizen and person in general

@Definitelynotrilona Ай бұрын

@@theenglishartist3794 ohh thank you so much for expanding!

@pickle_axxis1521 Ай бұрын

Bot, stop giving these bots attention

@DMSProduktions Ай бұрын

STOP THE BOT, CAN'T STOP THE BOT!

@nrsimmons178 Ай бұрын

As soon as he said "Wanted to own the libs..." I laughed immediately! His advice is spot on, and y'all are absolutely adorable! 🥰

@juliannewright9164 Ай бұрын

What is the libs? 😂

@jayladuncan2854 Ай бұрын

@@juliannewright9164 liberals

@t-revstastetube8900 Ай бұрын

I almost typed the same thing word for word until I saw your comment 😂

@x.kuruma Ай бұрын

He is such a mood

@itsnotjustaboulder Ай бұрын

i thought they were liberal since they follow neoliberalism/capitalism and are for freedom and individuality n crap💀 also sad existence if you get joy from those "owning sjw!!" ive had that phase for a long time and it was out of misery

@caity_bear_570 Ай бұрын

Brett's smile when he's talking is so cute 😭🫶🏻

@YoutubeKing2772 Ай бұрын

I know right 😭

@caity_bear_570 19 күн бұрын

@TaifuXanGaming Womp womp

@JSGaming0327 15 күн бұрын

Yesss I know right!!! They are so perfect together!! 😭😭😭🫠🫠🫠🫶🫶🫶❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕

@JSGaming0327 15 күн бұрын

@@caity_bear_570HAHAHA!!! My friend Dalton says that all the time. 🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️

@galaxyred7 9 күн бұрын

@TaifuXanGamingok lib

@hopperskid381 Ай бұрын

You guys are so adorable fr😭😭

@jaysea2969 Ай бұрын

cue the fan edits lol

@josephinefranklin1324 Ай бұрын

Love the avengers music when her husband makes an appearance on FT 👏👏👏 They are too cute 🫶🥰 Also I love how they are both brutally honest together 😂

@ScarletSaysBaba Ай бұрын

Boi.

@manuelm5664 19 күн бұрын

honesty is best policy!

@NoOne-nv6fj Ай бұрын

You can tell they just get each other. It’s simple and straightforward. Keep that energy

@DMSProduktions Ай бұрын

MANY people NEVER find that sadly!

@DMSProduktions 21 күн бұрын

@TaifuXanGaming * Citation required *

@DMSProduktions 21 күн бұрын

@TaifuXanGaming You're such a CYNIC! How long have YOU been married?

@chrisb7726 16 күн бұрын

@TaifuXanGaming who pissed in your corn flakes bud

@JoshuaOdionson Ай бұрын

I think some of the most frustrating advide comes from people who got married to someone they met in school growing up, or someone they met in college in one of their classes. No duh you ran into someone, you were around a lot of people all the time. When you're out of school or in your 30s or later, those social circles get incredibly smaller. Ive had other guys my age, in their 30s, say that theyre glad theyre already married because they have no idea how theyd find someone now, but they think its cool to just give me cliche advice. "Just go out and do things" yeah, I know. A lot easier said than done for that to actually work.

@AJPM802 Ай бұрын

Facts. Pursuing what you're passionate about is good advice only in so far as that dedication bleeds over into other areas of life and goes toward what makes you interesting. If your hobbies are stereotypically masculine or feminine good luck finding someone directly that way. Also most hobbies and jobs have very little if anything to do with what's actually important in marriage. Would much rather have someone with the same core values and mission who just says "oh, cool, that's nice" about what I do for fun than someone who simply likes the same things and the rest is a crapshoot.

@LovingLifeasEmma Ай бұрын

It's definitely harder when you're not in school. But don't give up because it also happens all the time! Met my husband as an adult and I really did have to go out of my comfort zone and consistently get out in order for us to meet, but we did!

@manubishe Ай бұрын

Easier said than done? Being an adult gives you freedom to both choose what, and to what extent. Do a bit of everything? Go juggle Drilling that one subject? Guess what, there will be others doing either that, or stuff in the vicinity. If you aren't isolated in your schedule (doing night shifts and/or in a far off place), big chances you'll be in a place adjacent to your passion.

@ER-pc3dx Ай бұрын

Talk to everyone, everywhere you go. Smile. Make eye contact. Put your intention into the world and then let it go. If you focus on what you don’t have you will just find ways to continue not having it. Go watch David Bayer. I wish you luck.

@christiansaravia7865 Ай бұрын

They’re kinda right though you literally just have to get out and do things and talk to people. If that’s hard for you then that’s a you problem and you need to work on it or just find a way to be happy while single I guess

@callie09 Ай бұрын

her face when he’s talking is everything edit: didn’t expect there to be a war in the replies on this

@meghanhunter982 Ай бұрын

I said that in my head as her eyes melted! It was so cute

@Corneliaa Ай бұрын

Not enough to take his last name though

@beccas4146 Ай бұрын

@@Corneliaathey’re married

@Corneliaa Ай бұрын

@@beccas4146 OK once again. She didn't take his name. Or still using her own name publicly. So she's not as conservative as she pretends to be.

@LacieAnimations Ай бұрын

@@CorneliaaShe doesn’t have to change every social media she has to her new last name. Her name is part of her brand. Privately she might’ve, but who really cares? 💀

@mercyihebuzor7220 Ай бұрын

We finally see how Brett's husband looks like! Great advice btw. I always found people making "I'm single" all there is to know about them has always been desperate imo. Im so happy to know y'all agree

@moon66487 Ай бұрын

Is always the people who aren't alone telling single people to not be vocal about their feelings. Like, 💩 yeah. I'm desperate because going through depression all by yourself is a heck of a task.

@DefeatLust Ай бұрын

@@moon66487 You're acting as if they were born into a relationship. Perhaps listening to what got them into a successful relationship is more important than your victim mentality? Just a suggestion, of course.

@seanmurray5095 Ай бұрын

I mean I'm not interested in dating at all goals are my calling

@moon66487 Ай бұрын

@@DefeatLust having a loving caring family, does are relationships. Listening to them? Have you ever heard then speak? "Oh he's/she's a clever part in my support network". I don't need to hear how their company helped each other to better up. Is almost as if you didn't read my comment. "Than your victim mentality" how exactly? How do I have a "victim mentality" for saying is always the people who have a support network telling those who don't how great is to not be alone? Where there is the victimhood? Because that's an objective truth. You know 💩 about me to be saying, this or that. Shut up instead of running your mouth.

@mikebrase5161 Ай бұрын

@@moon66487so bringing someone else down is the goal?

@michaelward5302 Ай бұрын

You two are still in the honeymoon stage of your relationship. May you still feel this way after 10, 20 or even 40 years. I wish you both the very best.

@sitka49 Ай бұрын

yeah, but it doesn't - throw a few years,and couple kids into the mix. - Sometime the old idiom can really apply to marriage - "the road to hell is paved with good intentions." The difference between what someone intends do, and there outcome of their actions.

@michaelward5302 Ай бұрын

@@sitka49 You will never be invited to any of my special events because you would give the worst toasts. "To the delusional couple. You didn't really think that it would be happily ever after, did you?"

@sitka49 Ай бұрын

@@michaelward5302 expect the worst and hope for the best? Say first marriages it's 25% 30% that divorce that's how much the disease extinguishes, but how many more does it maim? ( perspective - just think if covid 25 to 30% of population?) And some just don't divorce for various reasons, but are living as roommates. 20% to 25% of marriages are sexless ,and those are possibly the ones that are staying together.

@lizc.214 Ай бұрын

@@sitka49I understand what you're saying and it's pretty sad that a lot of marriages end in divorce, but the most unfortunate in my opinion would be living like roomates. I'm glad to see that my parents are flourishing in their marriage; they'll be celebrating 40 years this year and they still hold hands and look at each other lovingly, so I know for a fact that a beautiful, healthy and loving marriage is absolutely possible!

@sitka49 Ай бұрын

@@lizc.214 I understand the roommate situation - that would be hell - and there is maybe a time to pull that pin on the relationship, But i do think its gone to where people know (too easy of an out?), and don't try or give it enough time

@HeroSword_P Ай бұрын

Aww that ending was adorable 🥺

@aliciamoulton6876 Ай бұрын

Sometimes a person can be doing all the right things and it just takes time to find the right person. Doing things you enjoy and trying to find people doing and valuing the same things is good advice - but it still can take time and doesn't always seem to work out that way. When you are single for many years, you have to balance keeping a place open for a person in your life and actively doing things to find someone while going on with your life and not waiting around. You have to balance some grief of not having a loving relationship without shutting off your emotions of wanting a loving relationship so that you can be open to it when it comes. That's often not easy. Much love to everyone "chronically single" and working through these challenges to find their person! ❤❤❤

@NikosM112 15 күн бұрын

The fact I have to go through all that just to attract women while all they have to do is just exist to get men. Sorry, I'll rather give up permanently.

@aliciamoulton6876 15 күн бұрын

@NikosM112 Men and women both often have to go through all these things. I was speaking from my own experience, and I am a woman who has not gotten married yet and who has been single for many years. If you're a religious person - I don't fully know why some of us have to wait so long to find our person and why others don't but I know God is aware of us.

@NikosM112 15 күн бұрын

@@aliciamoulton6876 God doesn't exist. Keep coping. Life is based off of luck even if you are trying your best. I gave up. I'll spend my life on other things rather than wasting time and money on dates with women who have a shopping list of men.

@aliciamoulton6876 15 күн бұрын

@NikosM112 I completely respect that you can see things differently (which is why I prefaced the part of my prior comment about God with "if you are a religious person"). But as for me, I have had so many experiences that have shown to me that God does exist and is involved in my life and of those who seek him. And so I choose to have faith in him. There is a lot of luck in life and a lot that is not fair. By believing in God, I don't believe that everything is scripted or meant to be. But there can be great growth and redeeming value that can come out of difficult things and through the process of listening to your intuition (including the times when you need rest and a break), making decisions, having courage, etc. Everyone needs to decide the best ways to use their time and energy. I wish you all the best!

@KeithOlson Ай бұрын

As someone pushing sixty who has been through the worst and is now learning to do my best, the advice I would give is to set your goal to learn to be the best partner you can be as you research what healthy relationships look like, then keep your eyes open for someone who is on the same journey. Neither of you will be perfect, but, as long as you are both seeking to perfect yourselves, you will have a training partner for life.

@overcomingthat2728 Ай бұрын

The sparkle in your eyes while talking to him is just so sweet❤

@TheMSS1977 Ай бұрын

Your face tells it all. Happiness, contentment. And everything else. Congratulations!

@YasminMahnaz 26 күн бұрын

They just got married . Relax.. everyone is happy in beginning..

@TheMSS1977 26 күн бұрын

@@YasminMahnaz takes work to keep it going. And it's not all gold dust and rainbows ( original rainbows )

@Rachel-xg7hs Ай бұрын

As the chronically single friend, I’m grateful for all the years I’ve had to observe what went wrong in my friends’ various relationships. Doesn’t mean I’ll find the right one on the first try, but I might avoid some huge mistakes by learning from others.

@TheYoyogelato Ай бұрын

Awww the way she said “I love you” is so sweet and gentle. You know they’re in love 🥹💓

@xxr2386 20 күн бұрын

The sexual tension between my car and a tree just reached it's peak

@TheJoeschmoe777 9 күн бұрын

Why tho lol

@guacamole7496 Ай бұрын

The actual advice is: Be tall and handsome. If you can't, get rich.

@swegboy0238 Ай бұрын

If you're medium-short, poor and like to stay indoors, like me, then work on an education or a career as well as yourself. Working out(rarely weightlifting, mostly body weight), broadening my interests, exploring the political spectrum, and studying to apply to a trade school to restart my career in a field that interests me, all helped to build my character, and now I have a short queen who's fallen in love with my personality, drive, and chivalry. We met on a dating site because I didn't want to have to go outside and hit up bars and things, but using dating sites was some of the most damaging things my self-esteem has gone through. It was torture to get rejected and ghosted for months on end, but once I finally got into talks with this girl we quickly started to talk about what we wanted from a relationship, and the rest is history. The trick is to not be a draining person to be around. Become content in your lifestyle or change it so you can be content with it, and either you will come across someone, or you will have to make small excursions to put yourself out there. Being miserable is not attractive.

@robert4you 24 күн бұрын

Tall, handsome AND rich is also a great combination... ;-)

@027betz 20 күн бұрын

my husband was/is broke and short when I met him. The right one will see past the superficial.

@Skegfromcraigslist 20 күн бұрын

GOT EM

@Msow32 20 күн бұрын

the amount of men in college who told me they were homeless and met their gf's who gave them the money to go to college... is a lot. They were def not tall and handsome either. But they were nice.

@cordialpsycho Ай бұрын

Yaaaaaaaaay!!!😂🎉🥰 So happy Alex finally made an appearance on your show. You two are so cute. ❤❤❤❤❤

@isenewotheophilus6485 25 күн бұрын

yeah, let's go get him for stealing her

@dawndemanda 20 күн бұрын

Your hubby is adorable and you guys are so sweet! May you have a lifetime of happiness, even in the midst of any challenges!

@NikkiPhillippi Ай бұрын

This whole thing was amazing 👏🏻🥹😭

@Muhon86 28 күн бұрын

I’ve never described myself as chronically single, that’s a bit much. Appreciate the advice. I don’t think it’s bad advice but I will say that sometimes you can do “all the above” and you still don’t find anyone. I’ve been single a long time, never been the person to make it my identity, I’m apart of groups where I do what I love, been open to relationships and dating with intent…..still single 🤷🏾‍♀️ Yall are cute so cute! Btw

@amandaturner4991 22 күн бұрын

I think that's kind of the point. If you say you're chronically single and make that your identity, then you're going to stay single because it's who you are.. I think your situation is different because you're NOT calling yourself chronically single and it seems as though you're actively pursuing a relationship. And, if you want a relationship and are doing the work to find one, you're eventually going to get it. Be patient. It will happen. I wish you so much luck in your journey! Also, yes, Brett and her husband are absolutely adorbs! ☺️☺️

@OxyCleanForYourBrain 22 күн бұрын

65,000,000 abortions since R v W which erased all the children they would have had, not to mention the massive rise of infertility (which is by design). We are in the midst of a population collapse - wouldn’t hurt to have an open mind to finding a spouse overseas.

@thewolfex1 15 күн бұрын

@@amandaturner4991I’m sorry but I feel like you missed the overall point of the comment, and it’s unfortunately the reason people get sick of hearing the same advice of “Improve yourself as person, someone will come.”, which obviously isn’t quite what Brett, her husband, or you or saying, but it’s something that needs to be addressed. Sometimes you really can be doing everything correctly, whether its appealing to what the other gender or your sexual preference wants, or improving yourself so you’re a whole person. You can still wind up alone despite that. Dr.K from HealthyGamerGG put it in a “correct” light. Yes these things and advices tend to work best compared to some others, but it doesn’t mean following it will result in someone finding their other and until collectively everyone can admit that there could actually be fundamentally nothing wrong with someone and they could still be single throughout their life regardless, I don’t know how well the advice can truly be applied.

@marcaveli7791 Ай бұрын

That is the best advice I've heard in a long time. People follow passion, and they are attracted to people who live passionately

@supremelordoftheuniverse5449 Ай бұрын

What if their passion is to find a significant other?

@charitysketches Ай бұрын

Thisss

@keziaburrows3554 Ай бұрын

@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449 while that is admirable, focusing purely on that leaves little room for anything else. Like Alex said, finding hobbies and places that you're passionate about is a great starting point to meet new people who may be similar to you and share your values. Clubs for hobbies, gyms, church, special events, etc. Good luck!!

@kristijan8518 Ай бұрын

So by this rule if someone doesn't have passions they deserve to be single forever? Despite being an overall good person. Very good message.

@marcaveli7791 Ай бұрын

@@kristijan8518 who in this world is not passionate about anything?

@isaacchillman11 Ай бұрын

Brett with the terrible pov lmaoooo

@samanthaorologio6866 Ай бұрын

😂😂😂 I kept thinking the same thing the twelve times it replayed while I was watering plants and then I realized he’s literally doing the exact same thing lmao. Which is even funnier.

@kyle1598hffgyfv Ай бұрын

TBF, he's not the pro his wife is.

@Getout634 Ай бұрын

@@kyle1598hffgyfvwhat does this mean

@lizlavoie2630 Ай бұрын

terrible angles on FaceTime is a sign of true love lol

@Mishyou33 Ай бұрын

Lmaoo I thought the same. Its like trying to video call with your parents

@760Miramar Ай бұрын

Wow that's him?! Lucky guy. He needs to be a guest on Brett off the clock. If he's ok with that.

@petrastein2531 Ай бұрын

You can find their wedding pictures on the internet. :) He reminds me of Marshall Eriksen. xD

@AleXelerate8 Ай бұрын

Why not she's lucky? hm?

@MasterInHD Ай бұрын

@@AleXelerate8Because you would expect him to be better looking because of how good looking and famous Bret is. It's nice too see Bret isn't superficial.

@xWingzTV Ай бұрын

@@MasterInHDhe’s probably loaded

@jus4000kicks 27 күн бұрын

@@xWingzTV Whether he is or not you are the one who is loaded... with crap cliche MGTOW brainwashing.

@user-bl9tg2vu6v Ай бұрын

You're a natural on camera, keep shining!

@FloydRunner2049 Ай бұрын

Pron bot. See the bio

@chumz80hd Ай бұрын

Your hubby is hilarious 🤣 The Avengers music was an adorable touch 👌

@EmeraldSullivan-si7tb Ай бұрын

You're a star, keep shining bright!

@ericmatthews9894 Ай бұрын

"Pursue the things in life that you enjoy, and you will probably find someone." I enjoy being alone.

@elaizakaguya4631 15 күн бұрын

Then you'll meet someone who also enjoys being alone and voila😂

@ericmatthews9894 15 күн бұрын

@@elaizakaguya4631 That's not how being alone works

@AGnorTheChannel Ай бұрын

I found my girlfriend through a mutual friend who thought we'd enjoy each others' company - our friend was right! And as with anything else, don't centre your identity on any one thing. Just be honest about your interests and, with luck, you'll find someone whose companionship you can enjoy.

@augiechiavuzzi4907 Ай бұрын

My identity is Warhammer for the emperor

@ShadowSoccerAddict Ай бұрын

We pray to the god emperor that Terra may not fall into chaos.

@PoseidonOversimplified Ай бұрын

FOR THE EMPIRE

@ShadowSoccerAddict Ай бұрын

@@PoseidonOversimplified Heathen! Tis for the Imperium!!

@wastrelperv 29 күн бұрын

May your passion bring you victory.

@jessicaloveridge2759 Ай бұрын

My advice… Have high standards of substance (not superficial) and never settle Work on making yourself the best you you can be And pray. I know people see this as old fashioned but taking your hopes and dreams for the future to the Lord and asking for his help really works wonders. He led me to my incredible husband.

@EvilExcalibur 29 күн бұрын

You're both adorable. And he's absolutely correct. Pursue your interests while being open to meeting new people. Not only does make it easier to find someone with a common interest but it's the perfect ice breaker.

@brandonrgarza Ай бұрын

GOSH DARNIT BRETT, and i thought i couldnt love your channel more. Your man is a gem.

@BryJovi17 Ай бұрын

I never heard the term chronically single until like a few weeks ago. Despite this, I have been single my entire life since I first started taking an interest in girls, at age 12-13, and I'm now on the edge of turning 36. It does not define me. But equally I have engaged in all sorts of things that I enjoy, but clearly I'm just too physically unattractive to women to be desired as more than a 'friend'. I've known it for some time now, but haven't really accepted it until entering my 30s. The joys of being average looking.

@yanise1625 Ай бұрын

Let me tell you something, is not about your looks. Many men who are average or not good looking at all are able to find someone. I think men who this has happened to need to work on their personality and the energy that they carry. Men who give off a manly vibe will attract more people from the opposite sex than men who give a shy, feminine, not confident vibe, regardless of their looks. Perhaps is not that you are not good looking, but the energy that you are putting out there. Are you clean, confident, social? Are you able to lead, make a woman laugh? Or maybe you are not funny, so you can't make her laugh, but are you able to make her feel safe and protected? Are you street smart? Are your testosterone levels healthy? There is so much that can affect this, so please analyze your situation and make the appropriate changes before you think it is over for you. This is coming from a woman.

@inkandcaffeine Ай бұрын

i think the "chronically single" are the ones who are making bad faith attempts at romance & then decide they have a condition lol or that it's the fault of the Women. i am a firm believer that the best marriages have the foundation of friendship (sure one of them usually has an "oh im gonna pursue this person" attitude) & that is what makes strong marriages last. at the end of the day the initial head turn attraction IS fleeting, easily chased away by personality or even just time as you age; but when you simply enjoy someone for who they are you can build a lifetime of intimacy off that because you value them as a person & actually desire to love & respect them. i think the chronically singles are the ones who only seek gain from a relationship, they dont treat it as a two way street & they're shocked that they get rejected more often than not

@sfappetrupavelandrei Ай бұрын

@yanise1625 NOOOOOOO!!!!!!! I can't find someone because I watch too many Chinese/Korean drama so I give a feminine vibe? 😅😅😅

@AgileLily Ай бұрын

@@yanise16251,000% you are so right (coming from a female)!!!!!!

@BryJovi17 Ай бұрын

@@inkandcaffeine good theory, but got any stats or evidence to back that up? As a guy that has tried dating apps on and off for about 10 years, I've been on about TWO dates from them in total, not for lack of trying or having some basic common sense and understanding that any relationship entered into involves compromise and sacrifice. I even had to drive 3 hours to get to the most recent date I had in February, and if that isn't sacrifice then I don't know what is. Women only swipe right (like) a guy's profile in 2 to 5% of times, meaning for every 100 men they look at they are only interested in the look of 2-5 and not interested in 95-98 of them!!! For men however it's more balanced and between 40-60% of women's profiles that men are interested in, pretty much equal to a normal distribution of attractiveness, where factually speaking the majority of people, regardless of gender, are 'average' looking. When women are considering their shopping lists for men, and choosing the ones to go on dates with their selection narrows to just 1 to 2% of all the men they've come across after they've had the conversations. But do still feel that it's about bad faith, despite me having swiped on over 100,000 women at this point 👌🏼

@RaeBehrs Ай бұрын

Brett! As much as I love your work and it brings a smile to my face, I hope that someday soon you get the babies and homestead you want and are able to finish out your contract to stay home to raise them right and home educate! May God bless your union!

@christianaguiare544 Ай бұрын

Careful, we don’t want to be those guys at a wedding

@RaeBehrs Ай бұрын

@christianaguiare544 I said some day! She talks about wanting babies all the time lol

@christianaguiare544 Ай бұрын

@@RaeBehrs Fair point

@Roguesaiyan1 19 күн бұрын

That was so heartwarning , i finally found a couple who actually love eachother

@markjob6354 Ай бұрын

*People who are happily married forget very quickly what it was like to be single. Criticizing chronically single people is just like blaming the victim and rubbing salt into their wounds. This is the second tragedy of the involuntarily celebrate - To have to live with the horrible, often unfair and generally insensitive comments of others who do not really get where these people are at. Your smug and condescending comments are not appreciated !*

@NikosM112 15 күн бұрын

Ikr. This comment section are a bunch of ignorant folks. They know nothing. Living in a whole different reality.

@wolfie54321 13 күн бұрын

Yep, his first idea was the best advice, don't try to give advice, lol.

@omenhdtv7760 Ай бұрын

Handsome bastard, Eternal happiness and glory to you both

@DMSProduktions Ай бұрын

Hey, Brett's NO slouch either!

@omenhdtv7760 Ай бұрын

@@DMSProduktions i’d never cheat on my wife but that goes without saying

@DMSProduktions Ай бұрын

@@omenhdtv7760 NICE couple! Good on them! (Unlike WE plebs!)

@GBONESLY 6 күн бұрын

I’m glad you’ve found someone that can make you happy Brett. I hope I can find someone out there.

@GBONESLY 6 күн бұрын

Not that I’ve been looking, it’s been 6 years since my last relationship. I guess I just found it hard to open up to anyone else. It’s been so long and my heart is cold. I’ll die on the battlefield for my country. That’s where I’ll get recognized. Good luck to everyone on there journey, whatever struggle. I can’t guarantee that you got it this time but maybe the next time, or if you try extra hard this time and push past yourself then you can do anything. And don’t believe what the haters have to say. I know I may have been one myself from time to time. But… who cares.. who’s reading this book 😮

@hodyahayish9178 28 күн бұрын

The way her voice changes at softens when she talks to him is so adorable

@RCCrawlerz209 Ай бұрын

Like....I'm single af! Lol but I don't associate myself as "chronically" single....like.....wtf is that?! 😂

@priscillajimenez27 Ай бұрын

Same 😅

@RollCallAnnette55 Ай бұрын

I don't know

@mafiadan Ай бұрын

I get I fit that label, but why bother when I can just live my life with joy in a church community.

@lgmmrm Ай бұрын

@@mafiadanI can’t even do that because my church doesn’t care, has trash theology, and I can’t leave because I keep getting guilt tripped because no one else will learn the sound or ever care.

@AgileLily Ай бұрын

@@lgmmrmOnce you’re old enough you CAN! 🙂 Read the Bible for yourself, I believe in you 🙏🏼🥰✝️

@Artem2034 Ай бұрын

That's also something that I heard from a friend of mine and I think that's the best advice you will ever get. If you want to find someone, just live your life. Do what you love and along the way you'll find people who are compatible with you. They might become your friends group or something more, who knows.

@YasminMahnaz 26 күн бұрын

It's garbage advice..pursue your interests, developers skills, keep going out.. not just dates I mean group activities... join club if sports of social, meet up groups.. you then find what you want write it down and hunt for that person. Some pppl have years on years to grow up or waste.. guys can, girls can't.. choose wisely.. but your mate won't appear out of no where.. he even went out to find someone in places he thought was good place to find girl.. garbage advice he gives, you do need to look and you do need to have skills.

@Artem2034 26 күн бұрын

@@YasminMahnaz I literally wrote the same thing, just in general.

@r.designs 27 күн бұрын

He’s so right!!! I was told my whole life I was nobody without being married, but I’m 31 have never had a steady boyfriend (just dated). I’m to the point that if God wills it then I am happy & if He does not then I am still joyful because my worth is not based on whether or not I’m married 🥹💚 there’s a peace that comes with that! 😊

@ed_Skynight Ай бұрын

The man, the myth, the legend that is Mr…cooper? I have no idea how they did the name thing. Either way that’s solid advice, find someone with common interests, you aren’t going to find them cooped at in your room.

@thedarkemissary Ай бұрын

At the same time, I wouldn't say dating coworkers is good advice either. He's lucky they worked out. Not everyone does. And then, you gotta get a new job.

@Benny_M_1922 Ай бұрын

@@thedarkemissary exactly. That's why I dated my secretary and I fired her Just kidding 😂😂

@Parker-- Ай бұрын

"Find someone." That's useless advice. Also, the idea of asking a married child to give advice to the chronically single is like taking free throw advice from Shaq.

@peachy_tea33 Ай бұрын

I now know what Brett Cooper’s husband looks like lol. I’ll apply this advice thr day I start dating, I’m a little bit too young rn. I’m only becoming a freshman this school year.

@JohnGramer06 Ай бұрын

I'm a junior in high school. I've never dated and I don't plan to anytime soon. I have close female friends but I'm not investing in a relationship yet.

@kaylahowell4094 Ай бұрын

Very wise. 😊

@NCO1426 Ай бұрын

@@JohnGramer06same here

@inkandcaffeine Ай бұрын

to the youngins in this thread; dating apps are not a great way to actually find people. it is important to know someone decently well before you engage in any sort of romance so that if you two decide to part ways it's easier to think straight. so many of my friends who have messy breakups are because they can ONLY associate that person with romance not any other qualities or personality traits. also his advice is true; if you want someone you will enjoy spending forever with, you will find them doing things you already like! my husband & i met through mutual friends because we were all very relaxed & outdoorsy in college as opposed to the people who needed substances to have fun, for as much 'work' as it takes to communicate well in intimate relationships, its infinitely easier when you have the foundation of friendship not just quick romance. wish you all the best, dont let the internet make you think there's no one out there for you😉

@krazyfoo10 Ай бұрын

@@inkandcaffeine well said 👍🤝

@michellechouinard4958 12 күн бұрын

You guys own the verbal fry when you're chatting with each other... lol. His advice is excellent. He seems like a keeper, Brett.

@clevinjack1129 29 күн бұрын

This advice makes me feel so warm and so happy. Thank you

@mysticseraph2213 Ай бұрын

OMG, this is so adorable! You're both perfect for each other, and I"m so glad you met each other. Keep owning them libs! 😂

@thomasbsteve Ай бұрын

I've been single my whole life. I never described myself as chronically single. Now that I'm 43, I don't want to be in a relationship or married. You just have to mourn the life you can't have and move on. You can live a meaningful life without being married.

@NikosM112 15 күн бұрын

I'm 26 and in the same boat. I don't see myself even kissing a woman ever. Some of us weren't born with the gift to attract women or even be in a relationship.

@colleenlam4505 27 күн бұрын

Alex is so dad coded and I love it! 😂

@sometimequilter7048 26 күн бұрын

Your eyes sparkling so bright when you talk to him.

@tothepoint2519 Ай бұрын

Best advice I've ever heard, actually. Just focus on your life, and talk to people outside, as a guy, rejection is normal. Have the abundance mindset and understand your value. You'll eventually find someone compatible.

@Veo87 Ай бұрын

Interesting. They seemed to say at the beginning that they didn't want to give any cliched advice, but then they gave cliched advice.

@JohnTyler-oh5rs Ай бұрын

Yes, they did. This was just "Be yourself" with extra steps.

@IntrepidIanRinon Ай бұрын

...and is Brett smiling from ear to ear the whole time. SO cute!

@CaseyAngelicaHardy Ай бұрын

Idk what I was expecting her husband to be like, but her husband seems super chill and not too serious. They’re adorable together.

@logantidwell7698 Ай бұрын

Single is the state I'm in, its not my entire identity

@priscillajimenez27 Ай бұрын

Same

@lilsqueezie Ай бұрын

Yeah after being in some long relationships I've been single for several years. At first I didn't like it but now I kind of prefer it. I had good times while it lasted and now I'm too tired to worry about chick's feelings or them cheating lol.

@enfynet Ай бұрын

@@lilsqueeziethe dating pool has pee in it

@babygeneral1985 Ай бұрын

I love seeing happy couples,God Bless You 2

@sarvin4471 Ай бұрын

Honestly what he said is so good to hear! He said he probably wouldn't have wanted to hear anything. Cause his whole mentality was defined by "I'm always gonna be single" and if that's what you wanna believe, you will be closed off to good advice.

@I_Love_Starla Ай бұрын

He should be in the vids more often, dude has a lot of wisdom for us young men. He married one of the most respected woman of all time.

@piqachu Ай бұрын

Off topic but I like the cardigain

@Hannah-ec2xg 14 күн бұрын

Making anything your whole identity is dangerous territory Just remember BE. YOUR. SELF. it will never fail you even if it feels like it ‼️

@TRADITIONALwife84 28 күн бұрын

I just love you both. I am so so glad you found each other and great advice by the way thank you, Alex.

@anibal5845 Ай бұрын

Godspeed and all the best to the two of ya!

@MGN_73 Ай бұрын

This interaction was so sweet. I love you both! ❤

@robertovillarrealjr.7894 Ай бұрын

Y’all guys need to have lots of beautiful babies. I hope and wish you happiness and joy.

@jaredraymond7154 11 күн бұрын

I love how it says "SOURCE: HUSBAND" 😂😂 that made my day

@KicksandVests Ай бұрын

I love how in her video call all he can see is her beautiful forehead 😂 cracks me up, too cute!

@meljohns7146 Ай бұрын

Yall are too adorable❤😊

@TheBrbonich 27 күн бұрын

That is the cutest clip ever!

@memeeemee214 13 күн бұрын

I’m dying of cuteness ❤❤🥺

@TwilightSagaCullen Ай бұрын

That was so sweet! 😂💗💗💗

@gagewesterhouse9558 Ай бұрын

I'm sorry, but this is just absolutely ISHT advice. This is even worse than "JuSt Be YoUrSeLf".

@misekai6396 Ай бұрын

It is good advice for people who live in a city and are interested in things that other young people do. It's definitely not good general advice though.

@mlgmeistros4278 Ай бұрын

This is actually good advice. Life is more than relationships and sex. Take it from me, I am a 22 year old virgin. All my friends are either in serious relationships or have one night stands like on a weekly basis (one of them slept with like 8 different girls in 10 days). Sure I get annoyed at the fact it isn't happening for me. I tried online dating, I asked girls out, hell I even went on dates and they went reasonably well. But sadly, something about me just isn't attractive. I don't read people good enough, I miss signals or I see them where they aren't. Also you start to lack confidence with girls because you have no clue what you are doing while experience (at 22) is expected. But at the end of the day I am in medical school and studying to become a doctor. I look in the mirror and I like the way I look (could work out a bit and loose a little weight, but I really like how I look), I have wonderful friends and family, I am never short on money and I can do so many awsome things. And I am sure in time it will work out, and if not I'll get 2 dogs and get to be a doctor and still come home to loving housemates.

@gagewesterhouse9558 Ай бұрын

@@mlgmeistros4278 cope harder.

@mlgmeistros4278 Ай бұрын

@@gagewesterhouse9558 okey so what, you disagree? Fine make relstionships your number one priority and see how happy you become. I think all the things I names provide a lot more hapiness than either relationships or sex. If you don't, agree to disagree, no need to be disrespectful about it tough.

@mlgmeistros4278 Ай бұрын

@@gagewesterhouse9558 you really think it's more fullfilling to have sex and relationships, than build towards a succesful career and other meaningfull relationships. Your youth is about exploring yourself, devloping as a person and having fun experiences. You can do all those things without having a relationship. If you go out there and force relationships you don't actually want or wallow in your sorrow for being single while ignoring everything else in your life you will become very depressed and a very annoying person overal. Or you just assume everybody like me is a total loser anyways and lose any interest in my actual words? Because that would just make you a small minded pathetic person to be honest.

@yeshrs 19 күн бұрын

Holy shit Andy, I definitely needed this one today. Much appreciated

@athenapoe3377 Ай бұрын

You two are so adorable! ❤ Keep on smiling!

@woooooooo9061 Ай бұрын

I’ll give it a year.

@psalmsart Ай бұрын

While I agree that no one should make being single their entire identity, it can be very difficult not to dwell on that fact. I don't want to get too personal, but I have a close family member who has been wanting to be married for years and dated with intention-telling these partners exactly what she wants/needs-only to be met with men who wasted her time and turned out to be non-committal. I just feel like dating nowadays is extremely difficult and it's easy to say "just know what you want" or "try harder" when there are too many "men" nowadays who are, frankly, cowards and they are afraid of marriage and children. Anyway, just my two cents. I'm genuinely glad you guys are happy 💕

@apurplevelveteen Ай бұрын

^^^ THIS! I just got broken up with my bf of over a year 2 days ago. He lost his job and crumbled. Never picked himself up and didn't try that hard. 3+ months and he still hasn't exited out of the pity party. Didn't even try that hard in our relationship. Only so much encouragement and support a woman can give. He ended it as a temporary thing and I responded with, "Don't come back, we are done now and forever." To be quite honest, he was never ready for a serious relationship, and he has a lot of growing up to do. Didn't have to be this way. If he had put in effort to find a job and work through some communication problems between us, this wouldn't have happened. I was more than willing to stick by his side, but I can't grow him up for himself. Sucks, because I did vett and qualify. I was super careful after the breakup I had with the man before my current ex. He sold me a lie of commitment, too. Sucks when I keep ending up with weak men no matter how careful I am about vetting.

@psalmsart Ай бұрын

@@apurplevelveteen I'm so sorry to hear that :( You deserved better. It's not easy to find men who are willing to step up and be a good partner. I hope you meet the right guy soon ❤️

@apurplevelveteen Ай бұрын

@@psalmsart thank you!

@sara_sofia_1984 Ай бұрын

Women, listen to "The amazing development of men" from Alison Armstrong. Men go through different phases of development and are only ready for commitment once they reach a certain stage. There is nothing we can do about it, no way to speed things up. So the best thing we can do is learn to identify the different stages in the men we are dating and identify for ourselves if they are at a stage where they might be ready for commitment, independently of his words.

@ch42zyb0y Ай бұрын

It's a little bit off topic but at least they have dates. Most guys can't get even an answer. That's the truth. Women only date guys who don't have to settle bc they have unlimited options. Meanwhile there are good guys who can't get 1 date in years!

@helenarichard Ай бұрын

My main advice is, look more in your own neighbourhood, especially on the weekend, when people are more free and not stuck in an office. Or look at the supermarket right after commute. Then you will find the peolle of active age, out of their cages (houses and offices). Make eye contact if you are too shy to talk to them. Eye contact is so important. Really look at people instead of just walking past everyonr assuming they are all old, too young, too fat, married. You find something faster when you know what you are looking for. I have my own theory of the red car. You would think there are no red cars anymore. Well I started keeping my eyes open to them and counted 40 in one street!

@jessicabarnett8858 19 күн бұрын

Omg you two are ADORBALE ❤ congratulations

@kp9593 Ай бұрын

Hes definitely pulling way up. Good for him.

@Mr._Martinez Ай бұрын

Is he? What makes you say that.

@Omen465 Ай бұрын

I'm waaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyy up I feel blessed

@Corneliaa Ай бұрын

She didn't even take his name though

@kp9593 Ай бұрын

@@Corneliaa are you basing it on her stage name. If she didnt thats messed up. Red flag

@kevinouellette5316 Ай бұрын

They are kids. 10 years they will be divorced. Not my wish but I'd bet money on it. Especially in her profession.

@thomashornstein7085 Ай бұрын

He's right. I hate it when people who already have gfs/wives/husbands/bfs tell me that it'll happen to me and try to encourage me. I know they mean well, but it just fills me with bitterness and hopelessness, because yea, they got hitched, but will that truly happen to me?

@farmgal77 Ай бұрын

Do you really want it to happen to you? Marriage ain't the be all and end all

@snoozerm Ай бұрын

you guys are actually so cute together, great advice too!

@thomasmurray3920 29 күн бұрын

You two are so cute, as well as smart and grounded. ❤️

@poeticlovee Ай бұрын

I never heard of the term “chronically single”.

@priscillajimenez27 Ай бұрын

Me either

@miraj5569 Ай бұрын

It's stupid as heck. As if being single is an illness.

@chanmanthegreat1429 Ай бұрын

@@miraj5569 it is definitely an illness. One that consumes you and destroys you. down to the bone.

@pauldiego9888 Ай бұрын

i’ve been a leader in children’s and youth ministries for over 15 years and still haven’t found someone

@sfappetrupavelandrei Ай бұрын

The reality is that God has a plan for each of us. And for some of us His plan is to use us as single persons. I'm in my late 30s and I wanted so much to have someone. But for different reasons, I'm still single and I feel that this is God's will with me. So I need to entrust my entire life to Him and try to become the best of me for Him.

@pauldiego9888 Ай бұрын

@@sfappetrupavelandrei yeah, i get that, i’m 42, i am grateful for everything He has blessed me with, i find much joy in serving for His glory, but that loneliness continues to be a thorn in my side

@JohnTyler-oh5rs Ай бұрын

Might be time to reconsider whether the god you think you're serving actually cares, or even exists. Why continue to serve a god that says "It is not good for man to be alone," but then traps you in the very state he defined as "not good"? What possible explanation for that could there be? I could come up with only three possibilities: he is cruel, he is incompetent, or he is nonexistent. My faith essentially ended with this question, as none of those possible explanations seemed worth supporting. Perhaps you've seen some reason to continue to do so, but I didn't.

@tonylombardi4661 Ай бұрын

Nice to see Brett happy, smile, and laugh. She's an impressive young woman and an outstanding role model.

@HearMeOut.JustAThought 17 күн бұрын

'Seek first the Kingdom of God and all other things will be given to you'. That's what I will tell my kids!

@matthewjohnston1400 Ай бұрын

Wholesome

@daisyp1670 Ай бұрын

brett cooper being the Forehead of Security ❤😂

@keziaburrows3554 Ай бұрын

I understood that reference 😂

@shadowqueen8042 Ай бұрын

There's more to us than 'significant others'. How refreshingggfg

@Crangaso Ай бұрын

God Bless & he's right. Your mental state & attitude make you appealing or not. Always bemoaning being single will perpetuate it.

@hunterlavish Ай бұрын

A lot of people say "I'm just going to work on myself" without really knowing what that means. I remember in 5th grade I had a defining moment when I stopped worrying about why I wasn't popular etc and instead observed why others WERE popular - they had qualities that made people want to get to know them. I decided to "become someone I would want to hangout with". I learned guitar (already played piano), learned popular songs on piano instead of just what I was doing in lessons. Started singing (was horrible) then songwriting - eventually got the point of playing gigs in Nashville even. I learned and studied topics that interested me (ancient history and physics topics etc). I started working out with my dad once I was old enough (insurance) to go to his work gym. I worked on my humor too, I like stand-up but I became more analytical of comedians timing and wordplay etc. It's blended into my songwriting as well. Life became so much easier by 7th and 8th grade though (very early on in the process) and just kept getting easier. I never felt like a victim or like things were just unfair. I'm 30 now and I feel like I've been coasting through life since graduating college (that was the last real time I needed to buckle down and grind - study for grades etc). The irony of it is - if you become someone you want to be around (through hard work and intentional actions) then you will rarely feel lonely even when you are alone. The PLUS side is that you attract people to you with very little effort. Hope this maybe helps some younger people struggling with the same thoughts.

@Beachy21 Ай бұрын

Surprised you've no commentary on Trump tbh... this dating advice just seems like drivel...

@jharrisbrooks Ай бұрын

That was the cutest clip ever! You can tell that they adore each other.

@ashb2404 Ай бұрын

Her eyes look so dreamy as she talks to him... ❤️

@Rosefire_15Official Ай бұрын

YOOOO IT'S BRETT'S HUSBAND

@meleebrawler6462 Ай бұрын

Funny, I’m exactly where Alex was not too long ago.

@Jo_Wardy Ай бұрын

Oh don't think your special copying him

@YukiKunikida 25 күн бұрын

And that, THAT is how real love looks like! You married a wise man, you're a lucky one! Wish you the best ❤

@loganmichael2491 9 күн бұрын

Best thing i could tell you as someone who is happily single right now: don't rush into a relationship. Being single is a blessing in disguise for you to enjoy you. The right one will eventually come to you.