My Mother only bought a gift for my son, excluding my daughter. AITAH for leaving before she can...

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16 күн бұрын

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@ketienne1021 14 күн бұрын

Usually I can't stand the "get both of them a gifts" because the birthdays are months apart. Hower OP is right because the birthdays are days apart.

@ayaanjahanzeb9994 14 күн бұрын

That is heartbreaking to hear. I hope your daughter finds a more loving company to surround herself in ❤

@Steph.Robinson 14 күн бұрын

She's only 5 so she's got plenty of time. It's just unfair when parents treat their grandkids differently

@Appi_13 2 күн бұрын

U guys realise this is fake?

@Svenisreallyhot 21 сағат бұрын

@@Appi_13it might just be and it might not

@barbaraharris7602 14 күн бұрын

I had this problem with family also. I just told them if they won’t give gifts to all the children. They can’t give gifts to any of them. (Note: all of my children are with the same father.)

@pleasantserenity9648 14 күн бұрын

My mom is the same way with my niece and two nephews. She’ll get my niece’s hair done, dresses, shoes etc. and get my nephews MAYBE a pair of pjs..maybe. We brought it up to her before and she just says “it’s just girl time, and girls need more attention”. My nephews are both autistic so they don’t pick up on this, but if they weren’t I just know they’ll be able to read the room and be heartbroken that grandma doesn’t pay attention to them ☹️

@miaironstone6783 14 күн бұрын

Sometimes people who dont notice things are taken advantage of in the sense that people try to "get one over on them" or try less for them because they won't catch the absence. Which is really awful.

@ILovePanta123 13 күн бұрын

There is a high chance they do pick up on ot bit can't express it. Autistic people are more likely to pick up that they aren't loved as much as others. Autistic people actually focus and pay attention to small things. It's irks them and they can't ignore it. But they also can't express it and just keep to themselves

@hazel9490 14 күн бұрын

1:00 for those coming from the short.

@daltonlholland3294 14 күн бұрын

Nta she is toxic

@macieholifield4312 13 күн бұрын

00:55 for those coming from shorts

@patricfriberg2678 14 күн бұрын

the fact that op has not confronted his mother earlier makes him an AH. "it was noticable but not enough to confront her" IF IT IS NOTICABLE IT IS MORE THAN ENOUGH!!! if you even have to make excuses to the children that is more than enough to not only confront her but cut her out of your lives. and tell everyone, maybe in a public facebook post, the reason why you are cutting contact so that she cant turn it around on you and say you are depriving her of her grandchildren, because shure as hell she will portray herself as a saint to BOTH!

@nope-qp2sm 14 күн бұрын

She probably thought it was no big deal since they were too little. She should've addressed it sooner, but it's better than never.

@Nah14978 14 күн бұрын

Nuh uh yapper

@daniellemitchell3118 13 күн бұрын

I don't think the OP is TAH. His mother seened careful enough that it wouldn't be automatically detected. But when his daughter noticed enough to say something, then he put his foot down. He is not I t to be blamed his mother is TAH.

@patricfriberg2678 12 күн бұрын

@@daniellemitchell3118 he didnt put his foot down as soon as the daughter noticed, he said "i am tired of having to make up excuses to my daughter" meaning he has made excuses quite a few times

@RiverSongBlackstarr 2 күн бұрын

Sounds to me like OP's mom favors the males over the females. Honestly, OP really needs to confront his mother over the blatant favoritism.

@IJPAILJIMIAIOD 13 күн бұрын

nta, but you should’ve stopped it way earlier

@daniellemitchell3118 13 күн бұрын

It wasn't as flagrant early on. It could be explained away or even justified. When the little girl said something. He knew he had to do something. She's only 5, and was able to see the differences. So he took a bigger step. I don't think that he never called his mother out. I think that her answers were just acceptable enough.

@Espeonwolf 12 күн бұрын

Why did you wait so long to bring this up?

@ednakravitz2738 13 күн бұрын

First she said that your daughter didn’t notice it yet because she’s too young now you’re saying she’s coming to you and crying about grandma loving her less your mom is bad enough you don’t have to be dramatic we’re on your side

@daniellemitchell3118 13 күн бұрын

Huh? That's a moot point. This has been going on several years and has worsened as time went on.

@Jasmineahmed-w7u 13 күн бұрын

Yta

@Mia.997 13 күн бұрын

Nta if even your daughter notices it and she’s only five its a problem. Your husband is also an AH for letting it continue on withought saying you need to have a sit down conversation abt her behavior twords the kid’s and give her the ultimatum of treating both your kids fairly or going nc thats My take

@Scout844 13 күн бұрын

Maybe a hot take but YTA it sounds like she tried to accommodate for your daughter by going to target or ordering off Amazon or even going out of her way to get something early in the morning that you shot down so what else did you want her to do? Sounds like your making a big deal over nothing and just don’t want to talk to your mom anymore

@Ghostie_Blur 13 күн бұрын

You have a good opinion but the thing is it’s the thought she got a gift for the son knowing that the daughter’s birthday is only like four days away when she wont see her and the fact the son would have a personalised gift that she chose and picked out for him the daughter would have something random out of target or Amazon

@daniellemitchell3118 13 күн бұрын

@@Ghostie_BlurThat part. The totally missed the point.

@Ghostie_Blur 9 күн бұрын

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@Ghostie_Blur 9 күн бұрын

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