Why not if you can when kids are off around work find different things kids can to and then maybe you do things take in turns what you do with then keeping then happy and then you take interest in that they like and then emily can do something with her mum why you and boys rest and other way round and then another time boys and you do something together, make so you all get rest time etc and you as parents do things kids love also giving you and your good lady time out house with different kids and same at home also