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no matter what anyone says, there's *no* excuse for cheating. it's a disgusting, heartless, and scummy thing to do. it messes with a person's heart and soul on such a deep level.

As soon as I heard the “coming home early” scenario I already knew...

I dated a girl for over 3 years. When that relationship ended it nearly broke me. Worst breakup ever (it was my first). I can’t even begin to imagine a 10 year relationship ending. Whole ass decade of your life.

Acceptance is the hardest part. Accepting that the person you thought you were going to spend the rest of your life with doesn't want the same thing, after years of commitment, is extremely difficult.

"He learned that he can actually come home early" Oh boy

Basically dont let another person be your only source of happiness. You'll just be hurt and disappointed, I promise

My ex gf of 5 years have left me 6 days ago without any closure. I find this really useful for me. Thank you 😇👍

“Did I do anything to make her cheat on me?” That’s a very flawed and dangerous way to advise people think.

No matter how many flaws someone might have, nobody deserves being cheated on.

Lesson of the story: Dont make your girl the center of your life.

Morale of the story: Keep moving forward, until the very end.

This video actually changed my life. I cried uncontrollably after watching this video knowing that I reacted like Ben. But later, I continued to work on myself (although I still have a long way to go) and with that momentum eventually ended up going abroad to San Francisco (which feels like Jeff travelling to Italy). Thank you!!!

Just broke up with my girlfriend Time to get rich.

27 year old guy here. Just got left by my gf of 6 years. Had proposal plans and all. It can and will happen to you if you aren't careful, and even the careful ones will still get left somehow. It's life.

Never trust anyone...Being in a "serious" relationship is like giving someone a gun and telling them not to fire it. They will though. Just have fun and never get attached.

Hello everyone, I dont know if someone will ever watch this video and this comment, but I’d like to share my little story: I’m 18 and, about a year ago, me and my ex-girlfriend broke up after 1,5 beautiful years together. Now we dont talk anymore, even if we are in the same group of friends, and it still hurts to see her laughing with someone else while I’m everyday asking to myself what did I do wrong in our relationship. Also I dont anymore feel part of my historical group I’ve been hanging out with for 10+ years. I feel alone, anyway I’m trying to work hard and to study in order to enter university and to work as a personal trainer in the meantime (meanwhile I see other people having fun at the sea in Instagram stories), and I’m confident about my future, I’m sure I will meet other people and friends and re-build my life. Sorry for my bad english, have a good day

Apparently KZfaq decided we are all watching this today

Bruh if you lose interest in someone then the least you can do is tell them... not cheat on them...tf. And you don't need to change yourself for anyone.

I love this and I think it's really important. Uplifting yourself when you are alone after a breakup is THE MOST important thing ever!

I can’t thank you enough for this. It’s such a great lesson to learn. Going through what those two are going through but I want to be like the latter guy and view this as something that happened for me and not to me. You have a new subscriber!

My wife of 4 years cheated on me last thursday. I found out today... from the man's wife. This helped. Thankyou.

This just popped up in everybody’s recommendations

I saw this video almost exactly 2 years ago after a "break up"......now after another "break up"....here we go again.... we are animals of habit....

When they give you the “I need space, we need a break, or we are different people right.” They have already found someone else. Wish them the worst in their life and move on.

We were both happy for 6 years until she talked about her future plans and I realized... I wasnt even part of it.

The best revenge is to be a better version of yourself

I watched this video when it came out 3 years ago and thought this would never happen to me. Guess what? It did and I am happy to say that 4 months since the breakup I have done things that Jeff in the video did and it gives me hope that I will come out of this on the other side as a better man!

I am watching this video on day 1 of my breakup. This story relates to me so much because of the three ultimate words: “I’m sorry”. She said that her feeling has changed and she doesn’t want to do this anymore, which is equivalent to her not attracted to me anymore. I am still in deep pain and that’s why I’m taking a sick leave today to go out with my family, who has always been super supportive to me. But I will not blame her about how she ruined my life. She can break up with me and that’s what she can do, but how I respond to that is what I can control, and I will control it so that instead of letting this ruin my life, I will use this as an opportunity to finally get out of my comfort zone and be who I really want to be - a motivated young man who will live a better and brighter life with a more beautiful and positive woman

Moral : If you're single, nobody can break you 😁

People... just don't cheat on your partner, have respect for them and above all for yourself. If you feel like you're losing attraction to your partner just leave, end the relationship with a respectful conversation between you two.

"I wanted to give her everything" see, that's what happens when you value others over yourself. Be ruthless, remind them they live of you.

“It is in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped.” "Decision is the ultimate power".

My girlfriend leaving me for another guy was the best thing that ever happened to me. Got in shape, healthier, happier and have a job i love. When you hit rock bottom its only one way to go.

Knew where this was going the moment I heard "He learned he can actually come home early".

This is actually true. After i broke up with my girlfriend, i was devastated. So i started working on my side hustle to make more money so i can distract myself. It was heartbreaking, but i know it’s a blessing in disguise

13 years of what I thought was perfect marriage. Just found out she had been living a double life with another man the entire time. It's an unreal kind of pain

PLOT TWIST : Jeff is the man whos on the bed with Ben's girlfriend.

No excuse for infidelity. Not happy? Leave. Never cheat. Very simple.

The thumbnail hurts because of how relatable and real it is.

I am glad this just came up randomly in my feed. Thank you!

44 year old man here. Free advice to all you youngsters, “I love you” has as much weight in a woman’s words as a helium balloon on a perfect summer day.

I never get jealous when I see my ex with someone else because my parents always taught me to give my used toys to the less fortunate. Always remember that friends 😁

I’m on Jeff’s path rn and I can tell you it gets better. It takes a lot of work and will power to overcome to pain and hurt but it will work. :)

Then their relationship was toxic, partners are supposed to be there for each other with their own independence while they grow and create an empire.

Cheating is never justified. If you lost attraction to someone, you leave them.

Are you happy now youtube? I watched it

Relationship advice: act like a sociopath, just please yourself. Have fun.

Guys just an advice from me and sorry for having a broken language, first don’t over spoil your girl never, don’t make promises, be mysterious, don’t say “i love you” too much just one a week it will make ur word heavier and has a strong fiction, if ur in a breakup don’t think abt her and if u r in a very miserable situation sometimes u have to rebound i know it is not the best moral way but u have to do it, another advice for u lovely young men, don’t u ever put anything above ur work and job ur girl is a totally different deal don’t let her affect ur job situation, love u all❤️

I’m sorry, but there is never a reason to cheat. The “what did I do to make them cheat” thing is honestly a damaging mindset. Yes, better yourself, find yourself after a break up, but don’t question what you did wrong because you did nothing wrong. You loved them, they cheated. If they didn’t want to be with you anymore then they should have left. That’s like someone asking “why did they abuse me?” Instead of seeing the abuse and growing from it and knowing how to protect themselves for it. No one is perfect and you have to work at relationships to keep it going. Being depressed and grieving are things everyone does differently. You need to know what coping mechanisms work for you. Personally, taking time for myself and realizing who I was as a person again. No person has any reason to cheat. If they are unhappy, they should have the respect for the other person and just break it off.

"what did I do to cause this?" That's a very very dangerous question. It justifies toxic behavior. It shifts the blame into the victim for the other person's decisions.

Thankyou so much for this. I can't even begin to tell you how much I needed this. (':

I watched this video like 4-5 years ago almost every other day because I was so hurt and couldn’t believe this happened to me. She started acting funny towards the end of the relationship and slowly found someone else while we still lived together and boom left me. I was hurt at the time being and thought I would never get over it. It took some years and I’m finally completely over it now but those first few months and 2 years we’re tough. I worked on my self and got fit, got into real estate and even started my KZfaq channel which has been growing and having a lot of success and is also a dream job so I have to thank her for what she did to me. My story is like Jeff…I found a mentor started working on a side business then the side business got bigger and eventually became a full time thing which gives me freedom to do what I want when I want…then even moved to another country (Colombia) and been living here since and it’s been beautiful. If I would’ve stayed with my ex I wouldn’t have done none of these amazing things. I cried almost everyday the first and maybe second year but looking back it was the best thing that could’ve happened to me…you don’t see it though at the time being. Hopefully this story inspires someone!

Basically what he wants to say is success is the best revenge

You cannot lay the blame on the person who didn't cheat. That's ridiculous. Cheating is inexcusable, if she lost attraction then she should have broken up with him first. I agree that you should move on and improve yourself but you cannot absolve the cheater of responsibility.

Guys just love urself. Focus and nourish yourself. if your partner is loyal, he/she ll stay. if not, u got u.. Stay strong.

I think most people would act like Ben. Jeff is the one we want to be.

...and Jeff died alone never trusting another woman ever again

you shouldn't blame yourself for someone cheating on you when you only did the best for your partner.

I just turned 20 early this month. Back in late April my girlfriend broke up with me because a lot of past trauma I haven't dealt with was too much for her. Really hurt because I loved her, we talked about our future in detail, and I felt I could talk to her about anything. And it has hurt but honestly no as much anymore. I go off to college in about a month. I have worked out for a few years and slowly getting the physique I always wanted. I plan to major in psychology to help people with mental health. I am so fucking excited to start the next chapter in my life.

Mitch my man you have a way with your videos that I resonate with. I love the way you articulate things in a simple but effective manner. Do you have any videos on how to beat the blues AKA mid life crisis at 43. Or alcohol addiction.

You can trust no one...in the end you will always be disappointed if you put your sense of self worth and esteem in the hands of others.

I liked the story but just FYI. If someone cheats on you, it's always going to be their fault, don't ever make anyone tell you otherwise. There's no excuse for such disgusting behaviour.

My best friend betrayed me recently... I cried 12 times in 5 days and I’m on medication that prevents me from crying.

Thank you so much man, much needed.🙏

The Most Hurt Things Is Being Forgotten By Someone You Can't Forget

A person: 'Your girlfriend cheated on you?' Jeff: 'Yes, it was one of the best things that could've happened to me.'

We both 56. Both put on weight. Saw that she used to be much larger prior to me. I still loved her and never thought one second of ever leaving her.

My eyes, my soul, my beyond, I have seen this video before, I can’t believe it. It was so beautiful

You guys gotta realize that walking the same path as Jeff can cause you to become emotionally numb. After breakup I wiped it all out of my mind and considered myself strong minded, up until I began to realize that my actions really doesn't have purpose/goal. Just straight, flat lined days of performing, not being able to sense a single thing in my life. You *need* time to grief and feel. Feelings are such things that you shouldn't consider bad; after 9 months of not crying or laughing you begin to miss the feeling of being sad along with being happy again, let me tell you that much.

My Evil Ex fiance Cheated on me and got pregnant by another man. I Spent 2 years severely depressed but I took control of my life, accepted that she was a disgusting Harlot and I finished college. Now I am a Police Officer with a degree in criminal justice. I have my own place and I am currently writing a Novel. That disgusting horrible excuse for a woman cheating on me was the best thing to ever happen to me.

10 years is a long time to wait I have been through horrible relationships finally I'm getting married with someone I love the best healer in life is to accept and move on

Definition of the saying ‘everything happens for a good reason’

1 Thing learned... being single is amazing

Jeff started smoking weed

Don't let anybody ruien your productive life merely because somebody betrayal you. Take this betrayal as a constant source of motivation and see the significant changes.being heartbroken for a longer period of time is absolutely lethal for mindset, instead of wasting time on cursing somebody we should rather become moe dedicated towards our ambitions & goals

Pure truth, everything happens for a reason, and its an oportunity to become better version of yourself 😉💪 already on that yourney 👍

Thank god. caught cheaters saves so many years in our rest of life.Never accept cheaters back in your life.

Breakups can be the best thing for you sometimes

Lmao notice how she just moves on to another man and has someone else easy while the guy spends his life single and “trying” to trick his mind into thinking he’s more happy

I'm buying a planner and going to start planning my day and work on my business and maintain a healthy diet and exercise routine.

Guys, it's never your fault if someone cheats on you. It's always their own personal decision.

My name is Ben, I have a girlfriend that I've been dating since 18, we often talk about our future and shit and we are not yet 28 or 30... I'm low key freaking out here

it is painful but not impossible to start over. thank you for this short and informative story.... just broke up with my gf.. 6 years relationship..lets see how it goes from here.

This really deserves a thumbs up!👍

Saddest part of this video is that this is in my recommendation and has been for 3 weeks.

"If someone can cheat on Beyonce, no one is safe."

A mind opening lesson. Thank you So much

This is awesome! Great work! I love your animated videos, which one do you use?

Who also had this in their recommendations?

One thing Im afraid of: Someone losing attraction/ineterest of me.

I helped a girl in all of her academics i studied her stuff even if i am of different stream . I helped her how to deal with people and so much more in short in a week i worked 30 hours for myself and 15 for her i was almost drained. At no point would she give me the space i need for my career. As a result i achieved far less than i could. Now that after 4 years i am no longer useful to her she left me, she left me when i am in the pinnacle of time where i could get the best of my career. But due to depression that followed i lost an year of my life and moreover this was a time where we would be getting into jobs here in India. I really lost the golden period of my life, i built her life she left me without even a call , didnt give me chance to say goodbye. She will most probably get into another relationship while i am left cursing my life. But this story inspired me and i am going to come here after 2-3 years. I embark on competing for the toughest competitive exam of india i will prove that people who use you will not be able to put a fullstop for you.

This video is gold. This is the exact thing i needed in this moment. I even saved it. I never did that before.

This video taught me to never come home early

It's ALWAYS WRONG to cheat. Literally, you cannot justify cheating on someone you're with, there's no way. If you feel like you're losing interest, start a discussion and TALK about it, and if that still doesn't work break up. Don't take the lazy way out so you can keep both your boyfriend/girlfriend and another side-boyfriend/girlfriend. That's selfish and just morally messed up. If it was just a breakup, of course feelings would be hurt. But eventually that would fade away. But if you walk in on your special someone banging someone else, that SHATTERS your heart. Literally, everything just shatters and freezes. Time stops, your heart beats heavy as well and life just seems darker. This feeling would've never happened if you just spoke about it and broke up formally.

Im just getting to understand that "love" in its traditional meaning doesn't really mean much, having it is absolutely great but it alone is not enough to build a life around 🖐🏿

This teaches the lesson that when life brings you down.. you always get stronger and stronger

"I just lose attraction to you" is never a justification to cheat on your significant other, if you really lose attraction, talk things out and move out, there is no point in staying with someone you are not attracted to other than to hurt yourself and the other person.

Okay KZfaq I've watched it..

I can almost relate this. I had a crush on a girl, but she got asked for homecoming and they started dating. It broke my heart and I was left in pain, sadness, and depression. That was the turning point of my life. I take that pain, sadness, and depression and use it as fuel to reconstruct and rebuild to make my life great.