The narcissist hate real people 2. hate brave people 3.hate independent visionary people 4.hate hate truth Tellers 5. hate Happy people 6.hate vulnerable people who express themselves 7.Last hate creative people connection with self Thank you for clarifying these miserable minions

They get along only with the people who allow themselves to be doormats

Boy, he chose the right woman to hate. When we met I was happy, full of creativity and started two businesses on my own. Which is to say I was self confident. I was in the best shape of my life and felt great. I know that I don’t have to tell you how much I have changed, but I was able to keep part of me intact. They do too much. Honestly I have never met a more hateful and vindictive person in all my 51 years!

I can tell you: Strong people with strong character. Independent people who can perfectly live alone. People who set boundaries and say no and people who hold them responsible for their wrong-doings. Narcissists don´t like if someone goes against them - and are more capable than them. They have to be over you - not under... Narcissists love slaves and yes-sayers.

I knew that this list would include happy people, creative people, and honest people.

People with attention deficit or adhd. It upsets their status quo because our minds are going off in multiple directions at once, seeing things from all angles, which doesn't comply with their one-way-only need for control - their way. We confuse the hell out of them!

I do resonate with the examples. Everything about me, independent, creative, love plants, happy, and able to express my emotions. I’m the black sheep of my entire family, friends have distanced themselves too. I keep healing each day.

I hate everything a narcissist stands for, May God have mercy on his poor soul. Amen

I am a singer songwriter. A creative. I was attracted to narcissists....and they are attracted to me...because it's like I am a juicy piece of fruit ripe for stealing from. If i write songs, they want to steal them. If I take time to relax around them, they try to steal my peace by coming and asking a million questions and getting into my business. The love bombing happens then they immediately go to someone else, sometimes in the same night. I refuse to sleep with them. And that pisses them off even more.

Strange How They Can't Live without People because they Need Enablers around them and those to Use and misuses yet they can Never ever manage to hold onto relationships.. unlike us Empaths..we Don't have We Don't Need people but we are magnets an most of us prefer our own company unlike them cowards and can't live without someone to use

Often the are really mean when there’s No need to be mean , it’s mind bugling

I saw through his facade very early after meeting him. I am an independent, visionary, truthful and am very much aware of my emotions. When he would go off on some sort of tangent of lies, grandiosity, non-sense, anger, I would calmly say ....God knows your heart. He's a Christian, as am I. This seemed to stop him in his tracks for a brief moment. Thankfully he's gone now and probably has hatred for me. Not sure. But for me, I chose peace, love, joy and happiness. This is how I live my life and am doing well. There are all kinds of people in the world. When I see through them, even if I don't know them, and some with narcissistic traits or hatred or being nasty, I just think to myself, .thankfully...God knows your heart.

If you're being targeted by narcs and flying monkeys, you're probably doing many things right or positive that triggers their jealousy and insecurity. Stay true to yourself and continue to shine bright.

Everything you've said is true! Im a very creative person. Bit by bit i pick up my things. Steal is exactly what those do. Every idea of someone else they steal. Joy stealing the worst. Thanks Dainish 🙏🏼❤

The worst thing I've witnessed from narcissistic people is them getting to a great job position and then making people feel less than them. And with their job position they attract new supply everywhere making the discard easier so it leaves the regular people feeling used, betrayed and a sense of not being good enough to be friends with. One said to me "I'm just at a different place in life" while continuing to do the same thing they were doing when they turned 21- 10 years later.

“Evil cannot create anything new, they can only corrupt and ruin what good forces have invented or made.” JRR Tolkien.

7:02 💯. They hate people who are content with their life or are happy despite their circumstances. They try to ruin their small joys of life and make them feel horrible about their life.

😂 Excellent intro 😂 . Also spot on. Once you know this you’ll never worry about how they feel about you ..

I'm a combination of those type of people that narcissistic people hate and my mom is the narcissist that has been putting my daughter and I through hell or at least trying and we have taken your tips and hints and she is reacting exactly how you said. Thank you and you are awesome and very understanding and we are grateful for all of your help.

Thank you! You are so right on! They hate themselves and hate me for being joyfyl, positive, happy and creative. They are mean, nasty, rude and want to take everything you have especially your joy for life. Gotta get out of that place asap.

Ask God and He will help you if you want to heal, but it is an arduous process and it takes time and awareness (like watching these videos to figure out that it is really happening and that you are not the crazy one) and lots of inner work. narcs are evil and embrace darkness. they are full of hate and are angry so........they are ugly. the best thing of course, is to get out asap. but it isn't always easy because often we become trapped due to not knowing anything was happening at the time. I was raised by a narc, my mother, and I was told I was wrong for everything I did, for being happy or for feeling confident. I was told it was, "ego" and the message was, "you are wrong" for being beautiful and so I had no idea I was. I always hated myself due to feeling like "I was the problem" since I was not allowed to receive anything from her. "my fault" because I was told I was "bad" and "wrong" for having needs or wanting anything. I believe that this was done so it would seem like it was my fault I didn't get anything - not that she was a psycho sadistic jealous b*tch. I would back off and shut down and not bother my mother with "my needs" because I was told I didn't get anything because I was "bad". this way it became "my fault". I finally figured that out but for years I blamed myself like she did. the truth is is that they secretly do get pleasure out of your pain. I did see my mother smiling once when I was grieving the loss of my child, I looked up as I was bawling my eyes out and she was absolutely smiling an evil smile. a chill went thru me when I saw her satisfaction. I never said anything because I had no idea she was sadistic because she would always pretend to my face that I "was her favorite" to cover for what she was actually doing behind my back. I have a litany of things people told me she was telling them, even going to the police and trying to file charges against me that her husband was guilty of and that she was enabling him to do *child molesting.......decades of it. I swear. the police told me they figured she had a problem and let me go. but she tried. narcs are insane really and do not care one iota about you at all, despite their pretending to be "nice". whenever they do anything "nice" it is fake and to set you up to believe they are "on your side" so you will be disarmed and disclose things about yourself and leave yourself open. *don't fall for it. it's merely a ploy. they will copy you, they want to be you, they are competitive and jealous and they are not human in the sense of actually caring, but always thinking how they can outsmart you to take advantage and to get what they want. when you know about narcs, you can stay a step ahead and plan for this. it is what I do as I am eradicating my programming of having been raised by a narc who seriously hated me due to her extreme jealousy. that was my mother. so now I daily spend time unraveling this "curse" which is having been conditioned to believe that I was "bad" and that it wasn't her, but "my fault" because I was so "undeserving", when in actuality, she just didn't want to be bothered to care for anyone, not a baby, not a child, not you, not me, never loved anyone but only figuring out how much she could take and steal from others. or to eradicate you and your goodness. but to take what you have, be it your husband, your boyfriend, your inheritance, your beingness and all the while, "pretending to be good"............but narcs are evil, truly. God is the answer to any and all evil but we have to become aware and it is left to us to undo and eradicate the past negative programming. we have to take back our power and know that we actually do deserve to be and to have in LIFE and that we do deserve to be happy. and that we are powerful and that we don't need them. and as soon as you can - heal and leave. apologies for the lengthy response to the video.....I am going thru it and I appreciate being able to vent it. God bless all to heal, thanks Danish. spot on, as usual.

TRUTH! Thank you, Danish, for validating the journey that all black sheep face and for sharing your wisdom. Standing up to toxic narcissists & looking into into their black eyes takes guts! My N-FOO has brought me to my knees, gutted me, and aged me at twice the rate. And I thank God for giving me the strength the day I finally broke free & ran away for the sake of my dogs & me. I still experience grief & tears some days, but I keep moving forward as I continue to heal from trauma & rebuild my life... and find peace in nature, music, and the woods.

Spot on!!!! I bought my house 2 decades ago as a single mother. I taught myself how to do plumbing, painting, Woodwork, etc. My current Narc husband lives in my house. I discovered very bad wood rot under my slider where the deck Frame attached to the house. I showed him the rot and said I have to get the frame off the rotted ledger board and hope it does not rot out the sill. I immediately started the job and cut off what I needed to see how far the damage was. I saw that years ago the man who built my deck never used a ledger board / waterproof membrane/flashing ect to protect the house. Because the deck was lagged to the original exterior wood siding of the house it completely rotted it all away. Luckily my house was built well 90 years ago and had 6 layers of 2×6/8. Had only damage to a few. I had to be creative to make the deck free-standing. I did not want it lagged to the house. Holy Crap!!!! My narc husband got red in the face and red eyeballs red he saw what I did to my deck. He said he didn't understand woodwork and said I thought I was a Carpenter! He questioned and put down what tool I used for cutting! Yelling He would have used a chainsaw!! He called my father and said I ruined the deck and thought I was a genius like my son who lives in Indiana!! Wtf!?! ( He likes my son a lot )I have worked for 2 decades with my father on my house doing woodwork. I have tons of tools !! My father said I knew what I was doing! He brought in my son and insulted my father's grandson who has zero to do with the deck!!!! Why? Because my son went to College!! He hates people who went to college!! My narc husband hates me deep down because I have confidence and guts to at try to fix something! I catch him talking about me to himself on our security camera clips! This a.m he said "Get your head out of your A-hole. I created a shitshow with my deck!! He dont know I see these clips! I walked in his garage 24×24 I stained /painted /framed interior windows ect and he acts normal in a good mood "Good morning " I say F you under breath so many times a day. He wants me to make myself stupid and small so he can be tall! Little fragile insecure man with a fragile ego. I told him just that! Funny he knew I ripped out my kitchen and put a new one in by myself. Also, ripped up carpet and restored my hardwood floor. Not like I never did this stuff before!! He never said "I am sorry" in 16 years ! My Dad saw my deck today and told my Narc husband I know what I am doing!

When I finally saw my elder siblings for what and who they are. I was ghosted by all of them. My parents past away and they stole everything. But I'm finally free of them. Freedom hasn't come easy

They hate creative people, wow! That's totally my ex/ my daughters father! They hate unpredictable, they can't control it! Exactly, bro!

Absolutely, true . Knowing your enemy , in detail, makes you safe , and makes you ready to counter attack.

I am creative. He took every idea, suggestion I ever gave him and did them AFTER I was discarded.

I loved people and love to help anybody who needs help ,loved to bring joy on their faces i hated sadness and feeling that nobody cares untill bad things happened and it changed my life forever

I wish i knew this 8 yrs ago. My sister drove me crazy. I had nervous break down and all i remember is a smirk on her face.I couldn't figure out why she hates me. Now i know.

omg... I always asked why he hated me so much.. deep seething hatred... "what did I ever do that was sooo wrong for you to despise me so much ? " Now, this makes total sense. tools that I wish I had back then - to protect/save my sovereignty , AND sanity.

I am a survivor,healed well. Their biggest nightmare😊

I am creative: I write poems, painting, and making jewelry. I used these to express traumas I experienced. My creativity came better after what I lived with my ex, I am also vulnerable and yes, he was telling exactly that I am too sensitive, I am overreacting. And I tell the true and hate injustice.

My ex’s first wife tried to warn me about him, as I told her now I understand and didn’t see any of this coming. Years later I can finally see him clearly, and I don’t have any clouds in my head anymore now that we aren’t together. Thank you Danish for what you say, how you say it, and your journey. I feel like you’ve given my story with this person a voice in a way I don’t think I would have ever understood fully if you weren’t here. Everything you’ve shared I’ve experienced with him. Trying not to feel guilty anymore and give myself permission to let go of it about the time I responded to it all unfavorably that one time I was cornered by him and he wouldn’t stop. This stuff is just mind blowing that someone who would just behave like this and think nothing of it. Understanding it all now helps yes, but the kids don’t deserve to suffer too.

Yes, they do a lot of damage but they will never have the victory. We have the victory in Jesus. ❤

Thanks so much. You have an amazing grasp of the disorder and talent for explaining it. I have all those traits you mentioned. Every one. This explains why when I became care free, practicing stand up comedy and doing art projects, so many bad behaviors were triggered. I couldn't understand why.... Why does my mother sneer when I tell her about experiences that bring me joy? Why does she scoff when I have to share a problem or difficulty? Why did she get so upset when I cried over my father's death bed, trying to hug him one last time? My God, she was repulsed by it, absolutely disgusted. When I was younger, and showed her my drawings, she would ask "what's it supposed to be?" Not abstract art, the most insulting thing you could say to an artist. Why would she and my father never want to talk about my admission of failures and what I was doing to correct them? Why? Well now I know. And so do YOU if you watched the video. I'm so grateful I found Danish on here. My mother would absolutely hate you on site, and after hearing you don't have an American or Canadian accent. She would pretend like she couldn't understand you even though your English is perfect. ❤

So so true especially the last one....they just can't see me happy or looking good. I have to look my worst in order to escape punishment

Creativity: Which is why they get so angry when you gray rock them or cut them off. They cant mirror you. Also, they cut you off if you dont share ideas bc they want you just to make them look good. Experiencing this now😔

I,m a Truth teller and I wonder how I ended up with narcissist,at the beginning I used to tell him that his mother didn't raise him well that why he don't respect women,he used to tell me stories and I didn't want to hear them

Wow, so very true, you have explained this illness very well!! And I thank you!!

No joke I literally chuckled out loud at the first thing he said: "narcissists hate people in general..." for some reason that just made me laugh as I instantly pictured my suspected narc family member in my mind. And he said it so seriously. I guess it was funny because it is the understatement of the year! I was ready for some profound insights and instead got "they hate people in general"😂.... but then I went on to watch the rest of the video and indeed got those profound insights I was looking for. Great video!

Thank you for all your podcasts. After 17 years, I’ve come to realize the destruction to me being married to such an individual. I’m a creative, strong and independent woman who is now trying to live and enjoy life. I pray for enlightenment and strength to move forward. Thank you for your insights.

Thank you good man! It really helps to be reminded of these. My own internal veils covering my abuse are falling away each day. Currently in therapy and going through EMDR. Its hard going back there and even harder dealing with what comes out after, but, despite the pain and emotions of torture, it is for "My greater good" Thank you again for helping me and everyone else who is lucky enough to find you! Continued success in Being you Danish ❤🎉✨👊

I have literally experienced every one that you mentioned ... with my wife and also my mother. Thanks for talking about these topics that I didn't understand until they were pointed out.

I guess I do a bit of all of this with my family because I now realize I do get singled out by telling the truth by them.

Everything you said is absolutely true. Thank you. Your channel is a blessing. I hope you feel blessed. I pray for our souls to have peace. 🌹 And may peace be ours always. 🙏 More and more peace. 🙏

Everything you say is so true! Thank you for confirming and validating my experience, thoughts and emotions. This is exactly my experience. Everything you said. Thank you so much

I am creative, honest, vulnerable, happy and hopefully everything that makes them run. I am a social worker that empathizes for a living.

Love your voice and the message is clear and helpful ❤❤

Thank bro. Now I know how to deal a narcissistic person. And I feel much better than before. All credit goes to you

Oh you nailed it again Danish!!! If they can’t have it then they will destroy it, cars, homes, family heirlooms, and any other possessions that are important to you they will steal from you in a heartbeat also BEWARE people especially Empathetic ones of us we seem to attract them like magnets ❤️❤️❤️to all 🌹🐈🐈🧛‍♀️

Wow such a brilliant video. So spot on. Thank you Danish, not only are you at the top of your game but you are such an authentic, genuine, kind and empathic person with integrity and great force from your intelligence. You restore my faith in humanity

Thanks Due to ur information, i realized how to handle this type of illness. I am really enjoying life. 18 year's drama .

He asked me why I always found fault in him and I told him his behaviour is what makes me hold him accountable for his actions. He gave me uti and didn't want me questioning him about it and when I did, he denied it because deep down they're stray dogs and he was the only person I slept with

They are murderers of life

Thank you for your truths.. honesty & revelations. The pain is real.

thank you, Danish

What's so tragic is them not being themselves. My sister copies and tries to sabotage ideas. She's in her 60s and has wasted many decades watching me, competing, comparing with me, lying and stealing. So glad for your site.

Nothing could be truer. Recent events that have been painful are enlightened by these ideas. Any truth that takes away my pain for a moment is embraced by me.

Almost all of them Still, at age 64 I am only starting over again I still hypervigilan, hypersensitive, very reactive, and I have HUGE trust issues even with myself. Thank you, Danish

What you said is absolutely correct. I am going through such a situation in my relationship 😢

Hi Danish, As a someone who has grown up with a covert narcissist mother your videos really hit the nail on the head with your observations. I would love it if you could do a video on how adult children of narcissistic parents can manage the situation in a south asian cultural context because as you must know "walking away" is not a possibility. Even if you can live separately many times the responsibility both financial & otherwise is still expected to be borne by the child. This is so hardcoded into our DNA as south asians its crazy. Your perspective will be much appreciated. Thank you!

Help! I'm all of it. I have learned a lot now. Thank you!

You are really knowledgeable about these annoying narcissists . I continually study this because there are sooooo many of them Another word for them is miserable F's

I am all of those things. No wonder I attract narcissists like moths to a flame. In fact I've experienced everything you described that narcs do to people who are authentic, honest, creative, etc. I could tell you stories about these evil people that would turn your hair white mid sentence. Yikes!

I am a writer. Soon after I started my career my husband began to devaluating me on completely different things and when I had my first success he discarded me for new supply. Because he said all the time how great it was that I was writing it really took me by surprise.

A common thread I have seen and experienced with hostile narcisstic female bosses is that they ALL hated their mother and had never resolved that relationship all the way into adulthood. Therefore, there seemed to be a lot of projecting as it didn't take much for them to get triggered. Those 7 attributes you described triggers them!

Lovely.... excellent.... so relatable on the hindsight

I am the happy one. Always made the best of the worst. It drove him crazy. He could not understand why I was still happy under the circomstances he created. I was also creative enough to find a way to keep my positive way to look at live.I loved coocking and my garden. I made my own clothes and knitted my sweaters. Always looked for doing things I loved. I was convinced that one day, all would change, and my life would get better. It did, but only after the divorce.

This guy is great. He is spot on!

Thank you, Danish❤

Amazing!!!!! You are so Good Danish!!!! Truely this is the case w/ me… over and over and over I tried to Self soothe by trying to better y self and overlook and just be quiet… and continue in my joyful fun personality creating unique programs and enjoying loving people. He just got worse…. More mean… more indignant… more accusatory, and I became Scared, but tried not to show it. I would go to my knees and just pray soooo hard! Then God would give me strength to “go forward, be yourself!” It just got worse… I have been the Targeted black sheep wife from his cult family. When I exposed them all to my husband…. He exploded that I was the big problem… then abuse me and DISCARDED ME… like a piece of trash, after 26 years 12:50 of marriage!

You are a great teacher on narcissism Danish!

OMy, 😕 I consider myself an artist. And our daughter also. He Did always say he envied our artistic ability . I'm speechless at the moment. That's haunting. Thank you for your video💜

My gosh … this is absolutely bang on! I cannot say how correctly you have described the amazing qualities that all narcissists hate to their core. And they are ready to do anything , lie, steal or fool you ( the target) to get the life and these qualities into them. They steal them one by one , without any shame or remorse . My only big question is - after going through narcissistic abuse , how does one reintegrate one’s suppressed sides?

I love your channel. You speak such truth.

Great video!

Everything you said on the video is (1000) percent true. I have experienced this with my mother. Everything you said, I went through all of it. Sad but true 👍🏾.

Love the "Hawaii Five Oh" hair! wow! 😆 Always great content Danish!

Thank you very informative.

Excellent awareness respected speaker.🎉

I don’t take myself too seriously, nor anyone else. I do feel fake people very fast and will crack jokes to their face. I don’t care, they get pissed so fast😂 I’m a truth teller as well, no fear no filter.

This one video is like THE NARCISSIST HAD BOOK! ALL THIẞ IS AND HAS HAPPENED 2ME. THANKS AGAIN SOOO MUCH!!!

Thank you very much.

You are absolutely correct

I appreciate this video alot.

This video comes in time.. your content is so helpful. I have been sharing your videos to soo many so people become aware of narcissism. I have too many flying monkeys around. 🐒 😅 On a serious note this is difficult to deal with. Please do pray for me.

I'm actually dealing with that right now. Sad it's really True. REALITY and FACTS/TRUTH 👍🏻✌🏻 YUP 👍🏻.

Thank you!❤

Excellent video, I've experienced almost all the above, unfortunately...

I have ability in all 7 types and I have felt over time how he acted weirdly in several different situations, but I didn’t think about him as not being the same kind of person like me 😢💔

i was all of it. I remember my ex told me he hates me when I managed to sort out some issues with lighting in the bathroom. It was really not easy and he had spent ages trying , but failed and than I tryied and after few attempts I managed to fix it and he was sure I will fail too).

As a black sheep scape goat truth teller this is so accurate i knew who my narcissistic mother was and seen her flaws i just didn't have the right words as a child but i do now and i have to quickly leave this toxic environment

My mother and everyone in her family Hated me. Now I take their hatred as a compliment. I found more peace and acceptance of myself after learning of that Narcissistic family. I now understand I didn't deserve the hatred that was heaped on me all of those times.

You nailed it, 💯

You said it all

Great video! Once again! I would say this though. Narcissism is on the spectrum of all people. Much like autism .it is a spectrum. We are all on that scale some way to some degree. The worst thing an enemy can do is turn you into them. If these people hate and write off people then we should acknowledge their flaws and help them overcome their mental illness. I really do acknowledge genuine people and when I spot one I comment how real and genuine they are. People who are real or genuine are immature and need guidance . I don't think its ever a good idea to abandon anyone that you may have once loved and invested in. In way abandoning them is showing a characteristic in ones own self. Love believes all things, love bears all things, love believes in everyone . Christ died for us all , we are not to judge another, there is no sin in love. Don't let a callused person determine your fate

I experienced this all my young life.. I had to learn to go underground because I would have been battered to death. A child just cannot grasp why a parent would do that…& blames themselves. I knew the truth…

you are amazing my guy

Maybe the narcissist is just a young soul, feeling so self important that they are even alive. One of my greatest teachers told me that people are like stars in the sky, some are young, emerging stars; some are middle-aged; and some are old stars. It would be wonderful to see 8 billion people become enlightened at once, but nature is just not that way. When you detect a narcissist, they probably won’t learn until life throws them intense lessons, and it’s not often from you. Best to stay neutral around them, and understand that they are young souls who don’t know any better. it’s OK not to be around them. Even if they are close family members.

Hi Bashir,You are awesome,all points match with me.I faced such person..and I have made them sad.I won l.