NEVER BE NEEDY AGAIN/CO-DEPENDENCY CURE/LISA A ROMANO

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Lisa A. Romano Breakthrough Life Coach Inc

Жыл бұрын

#needy #codependencyrecovery #emotionalstrength In this KZfaq video, you will learn how to never be needy again! Men and women who are codependent and struggle with needing validation, come off as needy and insecure in relationships. Thinking you need someone else's validation, will fuel codependency.
My life changed when I was diagnosed with codependency and understood I was acting out of a dysfunctional needy place. As a child, I was groomed to attract toxic relationships. I was also groomed to believe it was my responsibility to people please and cater to the needs of others at my expense. Living below the veil of consciousness, I remained a needy and insecure woman, who attracted narcissistic relationships, until I had an awakening that allowed me to understand myself.
Healing from the illusions of the past will set you free and allow you to learn how to stop caring what others might think about you. In this video, you will learn the difference between healthy and unhealthy relationships. Identifying what I was doing wrong, and what I could do to help heal codependency, was one of the first steps toward gaining emotional control over my life. This lead to the developing of a 12-step breakthrough coaching program that helps cure codependence.
It is important to note, that men as well as women can exhibit codependency traits. Women can also be manipulative and narcissistic and exploit the emotional unmet needs of men. This is NOT a gender issue. If you are codependent, you are living below the veil of consciousness and as you learn more about how to heal codependency, you inevitably learn that you never had anything to prove.
Dear One, it was never you, it was only your programming.
Are you ready to heal codependency? If so, you can work with me and my Life Coaches for 12 Weeks on the inner transformation journey. Click the link to learn more.
www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp
Read about the 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program in the news
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Thank you for watching the #1 Mental Hack Ends Dysfunctional Neediness/ Help for Codependency by Lisa A. Romano
#codependency #codependencyrecovery #codependent #codependentnomore #codependencyexpert #helpforcodependency #lisaaromano #narcissist #toxicrelationships #12weekbreakthroughcoachingprogram

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@alexisyoung9484 Жыл бұрын

Another amazing video I just had this self -talk to myself this morning 😨 love this content

@debbievoss3496 6 ай бұрын

How I feel about me.

@mishmish6299 Жыл бұрын

Looking back on all of the relationships I’ve had with Narcissists, parents included, I noticed one eerie similarity between them and you hit the nail on the head Lisa. It’s the look in their eyes when you’re speaking. There’s not an ounce of empathy there, nor a hint of effort to at least try to understand you. They are sitting their judging your every word, mentally shouting at you “how dare you speak, this is my time!”. I’m still grieving the loss of energy in these conversations, but I’m happy to be out and healing myself.

@PaigeSquared Жыл бұрын

My mom. Her stare is so cold! I have an ex that would do the long stare to intimidate into submission, my mom's stare was more of a "why am I dealing with this" sort of thing, even in my darkest years.

@africanprincessmaya Жыл бұрын

That word you use ..loss of energy is so deep so deep so deep my girl ...and my God I'm I'm glad I have my youtube channel now where I talk about this. Its so sad so sad qnd here I am studying this as a graduate student in far away and my dear narc relative then told me I owe him compensation for getting myself through blood and tears and MY OWN SWEAT TO Q NEW COUNTRY. Does the entitlement and lack of empathy not hit the nerve for you guys?

@debbiekenny8171 Жыл бұрын

🌟 Thank You for explaining what I could not in words, about the eerie look etc. I see & deal with this man every day & more than once a day most of the time. Wish you the best always.

@spedteacher2773 Жыл бұрын

Yep, the stone cold look at me

@brucebearchum3702 Жыл бұрын

I agree with you. My ex-wife still has residue within me. No matter how much I tried to be a loving, caring and supportive husband and father it was never satisfying to her and eventually my children. Abandonment created a stronger individual with positive mental, emotional, physical and spiritual self-improvement. Sure I struggle through wintery times however I understand that storms pass to enjoy the world in sunny days .

@annanims7876 Жыл бұрын

Such an enlightening piece! as a child, I was criticized, mocked, mistreated, neglected, dismissed and exploited. As a result, I began to praise others to receive "less" abuse. This caused me to play small and focus on them instead of me. Being around so many predators had me in survivor/protection mode.

@virginiasantillanes3917 Жыл бұрын

I had same type of experience. I appreciate your courage to share. I'm so glad we have Lisa helping us. Blessings to you 🙏💕🌻💛

@ketherwhale6126 Жыл бұрын

Yes. Why were there so many unconscious and mean predators out there? Especially, when you’re a child? You can’t blame the child for falling into victimhood.

@annanims7876 Жыл бұрын

@@ketherwhale6126 Sadly, I fear predators will always be around. And, unfortunately many predators sense the neglect, pain and sadness of children and they use it to prey on them.

@betsyrossispissedoff4259 6 ай бұрын

Sending you big hugs! It takes a toll that some of us don't realize until later in life! Just wanted got to know you're not alone

@michellek2946 Жыл бұрын

When you said that “most people are not going to understand you” that hit me. I’m always trying to get people to understand how I feel and it is so heartbreaking and frustrating. To understand myself AND to not care if someone does or doesn’t get me is really really hard and painful. That’s the work that needs to be done for me

@virginiasantillanes3917 Жыл бұрын

Yes I can relate and I appreciate you sharing. Blessings to you 🌻💛💕

@wellnesspathforme6236 Жыл бұрын

Most people are trapped so deep in their own emotional state they simply have no energy to worry about anyone else. Stop eating the metallic iron filings in processed foods. I believe there is a tie between iron overload in the nervous system and Fe-ar based nervous system and mental states. The very foundation of narcissism is Fe-ar.

@justjosie8963 Жыл бұрын

Me too.

@amarbyrd2520 Жыл бұрын

As much as well-meaning and qualified counselors and therapists practically yell at us to "GET SUPPORT TO LEAVE" -- what I don't understand (and I don’t think they do either) is how we're supposed to get that support when literally nobody understands what we're going through and will gaslight and bully us till we back down and stop asking!! 😢

@tubesurf17 Жыл бұрын

codependency = recovery time 4 u?,tanks!!!

@pgdarling301 Жыл бұрын

I feel sad knowing that my experience has also been the experience of many. I am also happy that we found a place to learn, grow, do better, and be supported. Thank you Lisa!

@ahermitslife3684 Жыл бұрын

Such good timing. This is just what I needed today. I have been feeling very much like a broken, used toy. Also I keep trying with my mother mostly because i have empathy for her but I've had to stop talking to her. I'm going to be 55 and she still thinks that she needs to tell me how I should live. I have to accept that I will never have her approval and stop letting her trigger me and pull me back into the mire.

@SS-jw9mm Жыл бұрын

I can relate to you. I am going to be 54 myself and my mother does the same. Born with both narc parents and married one too for past 25 years. I try to separate myself from everyone but keep falling back to the need of being loved.If I avoid them i feel the void and a sense of unknown fear and when I talk to them I feel worse.

@kili8459 Жыл бұрын

Good luck to you both!

@jilli813 21 күн бұрын

@@SS-jw9mm I relate so much! 😍

@desire4liberation Жыл бұрын

I was always the victim. Accepting my role in relationships over the years is tough, but now I am able to travel the road to recovery. The most difficult is what I did to my son :(

@klyn9619 Жыл бұрын

Forgive yourself and move forward! You NOW know the difference and can too help many in need.. 💕

@linneaxue427 Жыл бұрын

Same. Forgiving yourself is 1st and foremost, then you can move forward. 🕊

@SusanaXpeace2u Жыл бұрын

I would forgive my mum instantly if she had a genuine epiphany. Well, I say forgive like it's me that's not talking to her! It's the other way around, silent treatment going on three years now because I will not submit with compliance to her narrative that she is perfect and I'm mad, bad and sad. But it would be a clean slate looking to the future if only I saw some hint of an epiphany. I hope you and your son can build your relationship going forward.

@desire4liberation Жыл бұрын

@@SusanaXpeace2u Thanks Susan. My son and I are very close and love each other. My errors primarily doing everything to 'protect' him which prevented him from life's lessons. Allowing him to fail is how I went wrong. I have not had relationship with my mom for 10ish yrs. I only spoke to her this month on the phone a few times. She is blissful it seems in her dementia and insists we build a relationship. I'm not sure how to proceed. I wished my whole life for her to have an epiphany... an apology...never came

@Lttnggo123 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, Lisa. Exactly what I needed to hear today. I have been beating myself up because I think I've offended, repulsed, even frightened people with my attempts to connect and communicate, with behavior that maybe was inappropriate somehow: off-topic, obnoxious, crude, spaced-out, inconsiderate, boundaryless, desparate, you name it. Everytime I hear the word "fawning" I cringe, because of something I may have done to win approval. Thank you for helping me keep the focus on myself and not assuming that people are put off by my behavior, and for helping me to reparent and love myself today.

@MagsChase1229 Жыл бұрын

Rowan, try to do something that you really enjoy. Get good at it and perhaps share. Focus on your happiness from that activity. Your focus will become happier and freeing. You may start helping others, life will get better and better. Keep structure / a schedule on a daily basis. This keeps one focus on the good, happy things in life.

@danielle2502 Жыл бұрын

Amazing woman for sharing and being vulnerable to your audience so that we can heal too. Honestly your videos have saved me, and I really appreciate your dedication into the work you do in helping others.

@crunchypickles99 Жыл бұрын

This is where I'm stuck right now. Finally out of the toxic relationship, but WHO AM I??? I'm scared, and honestly, very resistant and LAZY about recovering. I want a quick fix but I know there isn't one.

@pgdarling301 Жыл бұрын

Stay the course, don't fall back into that relationship you will be fine!

@crunchypickles99 Жыл бұрын

@@pgdarling301 No chance there! Been out since October 2022 baby!!! Sweet freedom! 😁

@pgdarling301 Жыл бұрын

@@crunchypickles99 🎉🎉💃

@MK-cc5ve Жыл бұрын

Remarkable insight. I’ve recovered from CPTSD, and meditation is what realigned my brain to think straight. My amygdala had been enlarged and meditation (30 min a day minimum) was the key to shrinking the over active amygdala. I learned this through therapy for CPTSD.

@StarMarASMR Жыл бұрын

I've watched 100s of hours of your videos, etc. You simply get it and I greatly appreciate you.

@lisaaromano1 Жыл бұрын

Glad you like them!

@racheltuttle7757 Жыл бұрын

I never comment, but I am a recovering codependent. I was in a relationship with a narcissist, end am now in a relationship with someone who is healthy… I am always projecting and waiting for the other shoe to drop and waiting for his love to be conditional… this was super helpful to remind myself where I came from and where I am going and how far I’ve already come. Your meditations and messages were a part of what saved me from that relationship almost three years ago- I had no idea how messy things had gotten for me and how I was on autopilot. It don’t remember what initially helped me find you, but I do remember it was a narcissist video. At the time, my ex was calling me the narcissist. Now, remembering that, I am genuinely shocked at how far I’ve come in my own healing. I revisited your content as I saw it come up on my page and have been struggling with my worthiness- something made me want to hear your voice, so I listened…. After that video, I see how much I am projecting on my current (and wonderful) partner…. I deserve to stop doing that. This man does not like to kick me when I’m down, he wants only to love me for me… and thanks to your content, I am going forward with much more awareness of that AND a tool to take with me to fight the urge to revert to my bad habits. I’m a work in progress, it’s ok. Thank you Lisa.

@kittthompson 3 сағат бұрын

Hi, I’d love to hear how you’re doing 1 year on? My dad is a narcissist and recovered alcoholic. I’ve only dated people who cheat, lie, have addictions, and who never see me. The last relationship I had absolutely wounded me emotionally. I do want to meet someone but I’m absolutely terrified as I know my compass is wayyy off.

@phyllisneal8687 Жыл бұрын

I married my MOTHER! My husband is "Mom!"

@karamlevi Жыл бұрын

That’s crazy and I get it. Keep evolving. Awareness is a big step 🎉

@justjosie8963 Жыл бұрын

😱😱😱😱😱😱 I get it. 😣

@Indy__isnt_it Жыл бұрын

I read this once, Others people opinions of us are none of our business....... It helps to recite this when needed. I grew up 3rd child after a dance prodigy and the prodigal son, after a miscarriage, I was the 2nd best after their loss. I always felt that from my mother. Her favorite question was "what's wrong with you?" There WAS but who knew, who cared, nothing done about my "wrong" I spent 55 years suffering from Celiac disease, undiagnosed or ever treated until 10 years ago. Life has preyed on me SO EASILY. AND I ALLOWED IT

@klyn9619 Жыл бұрын

You are a phenomenal example of how WE can change for the betterment of "WHO" we truly can become, NO matter what.. Thank you for giving SUCH hope and inspiration to SO MANY in need!! ✨🕊️🙏

@SusanaXpeace2u Жыл бұрын

I just can't get there. It still hurts me that my parents blame me for our estrangement because it was not my fault. I know that rationally but the part I can't seem to set aside is that they hold me responsible for not capitulating compliantly to their narrative that they are perfect and I am the mad/bad/sad.

@justjosie8963 Жыл бұрын

You CAN get there and you WILL get there! 💙 Keep watching healing videos, understanding where you are coming from and why. And give yourself the compassion that you likely have reserved only for others. 👭💛

@kerrysmook452 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely real and true, sometimes also its a feeling of not being good enough because maybe they don't smile once. That's how sensitive I am, and I am sick of it. From now on I am going to remember this video and meditate on it, I am good enough and I don't care if they don't like me. Living like this has caused me to be booked into a psychiatric ward with severe depression and generalized anxiety disorder. Its time to live my own life and take control of my mind and not let my mind control me!!! Thank You Lisa!!!! Love your content !!!!!!!!!!!

@africanprincessmaya Жыл бұрын

I'm doing a study on this if you give me a comment on my channel I'll let you guys know how to participate. Love from Canada

@URFUTUREUK 10 ай бұрын

Wow, the grooming comment just hit home about having two alcoholic parents. I'd never thought about it before, but friends have pointed this out to me about my parents. Just want to say your work is saving my life and building me back up after a lifetime of accepting abusive behaviour by my relatives.

@susannyloves Жыл бұрын

I’ll be re-listening to this video…probably several times! So much truth, wisdom, and life-changing inspiration. Thanks once again…words can’t express how incredibly grateful I am for you. 💛

@robertchilds131 Жыл бұрын

I've watched many of your videos and I just wanted to say I love you. I appreciate you. You are making a difference. I wish you the best. Please know you are having a positive influence in this world.

@lisaaromano1 Жыл бұрын

That means a lot thank you 🙏

@ean3345 Жыл бұрын

May God bless you ma'am. Always on time. It feels like a message from our God to our souls throughout you. 🙏🏾💙 Much appreciation and respect to you.

@francesw.5919 Жыл бұрын

"Narcissists idealize you NOT for you, but for them. Aren't they great because they picked you?" Ma'am, if I hadn't experienced this I would not have believed the words that are coming out of your mouth! My coworker put on her evaluation that I was her greatest accomplishment, and I thought, "Whatha' ?" This was self-glorification. OMG! She wears this personality blueprint precisely. How sweet it is to be free; people perish for the lack of knowledge (Hosea 4:6). This video was liberating for me! Thank you!!!!!

@lisaaromano1 Жыл бұрын

Glad it helped🪷

@highpriestess322 Жыл бұрын

brilliant presentation. 💚.

@janicebeauchamp61 Жыл бұрын

Beautiful truth! You teach others ti be their powerful self! Hell yes!!! I’m taking my power back more and more. Super grateful for you and your work! Healing is beautiful ❤🙏💫

@Master0fHamsters Жыл бұрын

Whoa this is breakthrough quality

@rlong8038 Жыл бұрын

This hit me very hard, it describes me completely and I'm trying to leave a narracist after 38 years. Thank you!!!

@laetitia-joy Жыл бұрын

Just what I needed to hear! Thank you Lisa, Namaste 🙏🏻✨

@LOVEtoPLAYdrums Жыл бұрын

@Lisa Romano - Thank you for making your videos~! Helps me a lot! I ended the narcs abuse cycle of 35 years on 1.9.23 safely with 2 attorneys. And reverse discarded family of origin.

@dianalr8893 Жыл бұрын

Lisa, I’d like to thank you for this video. I knew I was codependent but I didn’t know how to start healing until you talked about triggers and the reason behind them. I was overweight for most of my life and Im at a healthier weight now, but growing up I was constantly criticized for it. I grew up being told to suck in my tummy and I don’t remember anyone telling me a compliment. I was taller than most kids so I wasn’t allowed to play and I had to stop trick or treating and hunting Easter eggs when I was 9. I don’t want to not like myself anymore, and you inspired me to start my healing journey

@soundscapes4619 9 ай бұрын

"Can't be any shadows, without light." Yes! That is inspirational!

@BeStillandKnow0000 Жыл бұрын

AND I'M SO PROUD OF YOU AND YOUR JOURNEY AND NOW SPEAKING AS AN EMPOWERED BEING... I CAN JUST FEEL INTO YOUR WORDS HOW WONDERFUL IT IS TO BE FREE OF THE WORRY OF WHAT WOULD OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF ME AND WILL I BE SAFE FOR IT... I CHOOSE TO REVERT MY ATTENTION BACK TO MYSELF, TO WHAT I THINK OF ME AND FEEL ABOUT ME. THANK YOU. Never knew how simple it could be, to live a wonderful life inside of yourself. 🧡

@bisschoffb Жыл бұрын

Yes! I need to focus on MY SELF!! Be loving, gentle, tender, soft to MY SELF! Identify what I feel For and About MY SELF!! I really hope this video can be the turnaround for MY SELF which I BELIEVE is a codependent SELF. THIS IS HARD WORK..my old SELF would say, but I'm WORTH it my NEW SELF would say!! Let's GO!!!

@dampergoldenrod4156 Жыл бұрын

This is a really good video you will not hear this kind of good information in any kind of therapy for some reason.

@tonia6291 Жыл бұрын

Is anyone else loving hearing her say ‘I bow to the love and the light that is absolutely in you’ ❤ I missed that from the old videos!

@deeannbrashear4346 2 ай бұрын

I have walked away from my narcissistic mother and 5 siblings in the last 6 months. I have learned my favorite sister is a covert narcissist I went to Amen Clinic March 2023 and was diagnosed with Chronic PTSD.

@laughingwolf330 Жыл бұрын

Healing this RIGHT NOW! As a Divine Feminine this has been my core wound and was just recently triggered hardcore, so I could FINALLY actually heal it. Realizing I don't just deserve to be cherished, I deserve to cherish my SELF. In fact, I deserve that first & foremost, above all else. I deserve to go the 'extra mile' for ME. My relationship with my Self is paramount, top priority. I'm reparenting my inner child and inviting her to be playful and free, to feel seen and honored by Self. I've started talking to myself about doing things 'together' - I'm taking myself out for dinner, on a date, taking myself to the store, etc. Looking at and touching my own body with wonder & appreciation as I would have done to others in the past - actually admiring every aspect of my being. Recognizing with active awareness that I really am wonderful, unique, lovely, magical. Hell, if I were me I'd be in love with me - and since I AM me, I'm letting myself be in love with the Self I AM! It's time for all my blessings to come in, and that starts with the blessing that is me - I Am a gift to my Self, and I Am Worthy of this Magnificence!!

@luzelmartinez9016 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for showing my now-future Self in recovery.

@izawaniek2568 Жыл бұрын

I love this message Lisa. It resonates with me on so many levels and I totally agree that holding on to yourself is extremely healing! Being authentic and honest about how you feel and respecting that and honouring yourself are crucial! God bless you Lisa. ❤

@aditichandrasekar3279 11 ай бұрын

I was exactly one of those people who thought hard work gets you good results. This works in studies or office, but just like you said, I transferred the concept to relationships. This does not work! Thank you so much, Lisa. For saying this out loud, for putting it so simply.

@lisaaromano1 11 ай бұрын

So happy it helped🤗

@kathyperilloux1856 Жыл бұрын

Possibly the most important Lisa video I have watched, yet! ❤️

@scottschilling7483 2 ай бұрын

We've lived it too , no more , You're words are very helpful & completely validating . Learn to give it to ourselves , now , and always , by being present . Thanks so much for your help . You communicate , Lisa , in a very different way , and on a much higher level that really reaches out and helps .

@vallang4832 6 ай бұрын

It is so freeing not caring what other people think. I have to work on giving myself grace hard. I love all your videos Lisa. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

@BeStillandKnow0000 Жыл бұрын

LISA... YOUR WORDING JUST HITS. THANK YOU.

@donnakelly2677 Жыл бұрын

Well, you described me to a tee. Thank you for giving words and meaning to all of the things that were unknown to me. I have a hard time knowing how I feel, and certainly have difficulty explaining it. I am working on not wondering what other people would do in a given situation in order to make my decisions, or what will they think of me. I am learning how to unmesh with others. Thank you, Lisa, for validating my lifelong experience around codependency and trauma. You have shined a light so that I might see my way out.

@evanowenby3541 Жыл бұрын

Thanks

@Divine_Healing_Love Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this message Lisa!❤️

@stillaweezerfan Жыл бұрын

thank you for breaking this down, thank you for walking this path and guiding us.

@jonnavennard7253 Жыл бұрын

Lisa, I cannot express my gratitude enough for your truth and knowledge. Thank you for sharing it has made me feel so understood and ready to find me!! Love and light my sister in spirit!! 🌙🧡✌🏻

@joymosley8997 Жыл бұрын

Thank you!!!! I really needed to watch this video and hear the things you said. Thanks again!

@Kim-dl5ih Жыл бұрын

That was incredibly eye opening! Thank you

@hmayala Жыл бұрын

Holy cow. This is so spot on.

@SunnyCzechD Жыл бұрын

Spot on truth and wonderful wisdom. I really appreciate you so much Lisa 🙏😊❤️

@papsk Жыл бұрын

What a great video ! You nailed it. Thank you very much. So helpful. You are very brave.

@noeliaortiz2974 Жыл бұрын

You are a blessing. Thank you!! 😊

@juliepoirier919 Жыл бұрын

I love listening to you. Thank you 🙏

@rociochavez4149 Жыл бұрын

You are God sent! Your understanding and conveyance of this very complex topics; im So glad I found your channel!❤️

@hollylorn131 Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Lisa! ❤️ 🙏

@catherinejustin1329 Жыл бұрын

Well said! Finally someone lays it out so I can understand the confusion. OK, got it!! Will have to listen to this video again.

@dewebdal6419 Жыл бұрын

Thank you very much, Lisa!

@gracehamusonde3654 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much,this was so beautiful and helpful I don’t even know the right words to say.

@ATeitter Жыл бұрын

This is so helpful, thank you so much Lisa

@kristinmichael6191 Жыл бұрын

❤ Wow! You continue to inspire me and break down these walls and truly understand who I am! Thank you for helping me love myself again! Mother 37 years old and 3 children! You are exactly what I needed in my life! So for that, I thank you! 😊

@jacksonc2737 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for your honesty and great analysis

@ashleyrawls9361 Жыл бұрын

I needed this so much today. Thank you for being so open and honest and sharing your experience and knowledge. You truly are a light ❤

@kellyhardwell7097 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your video. I was right there and thinking about them times and how I actually thought. It gives me a space and an enlightenment to deep dive back there. 😊❤

@Wanderlust246 Жыл бұрын

“I’m not ashamed of my shadows anymore” Thank you!

@johnhenrymcmahon6878 Жыл бұрын

Hi Lisa. Thank you so much for this one. You are a wonderful teacher and a great woman. God bless you there, Johnny :)

@miko-vg2fc Жыл бұрын

I had so much abandonment trauma that when I met my ex and he said he had no feelings or empathy for others it didn't show up as a MAJOR red flag. I just didn't want to be alone.

@davidarmburst803 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Lisa for all you do

@user-ng3bg7qw2d Жыл бұрын

As always you are amazingly spot on. Love your relatability and down to earth advice. On a separate note, have had you and Anthony on my heart and mind. Praying all is well and still wish you both the best always. Blessings.

@Journey2NNERPEACE 3 ай бұрын

You are outstanding, Lisa! I love your work.

@nh255 Жыл бұрын

you have a very strong aura. this is what i needed to hear

@rceliamendez Жыл бұрын

Those two videos of you I learned a lot of myself and open my of child trauma .

@janinadello599 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Lisa. I needed this video at this emotionally draining time in my life. ❤️

@R.A.A.1980 Жыл бұрын

Fantastic video. Lisa you are a gift

@ninjaslashippie Жыл бұрын

You are continually giving me the tools to save myself. I am so grateful for your existence and experience. They really shed so much light on something no one else in my life understands.

@Nick-kf3io 10 ай бұрын

Brilliant video! I keep coming back to it every few months

@jeanniecampbell1374 Жыл бұрын

You are so good at being clear and this is because you have indeed worked on yourself ,I seem to be taking so long but I do try to observe myself ..although I do get caught off guard with charming people .

@jackiesimkin8661 Жыл бұрын

This video has helped me tremendously! Definitely a light bulb moment! I feel I have clarity for the first time in my life, and that I can now start to heal myself. Thank you so much for sharing this invaluable knowledge ❤

@janninedonnelly3597 Жыл бұрын

Amazing video. The frustration of knowing what you've saying just is not getting through to the narcissist. So draining.

@BintGumby Жыл бұрын

Another amazing video that has helped me to the next level! Thank you so much for the work you do!

@virginiasantillanes3917 Жыл бұрын

I'm so fortunate to found and listen to your valuable teachings this morning. I have heard your previous videos and have come to an awakening. Then as I'm still dealing with a person in the mist. I felt angry about not being smart enough to recognize or get out of toxic relationship. So Im experience growing pains and shifts. I'm glad you spoke to be more caring to my inner child and it is as if everything you spoke was related to me. I go forward in this day with more of your healing tools. Bless you and greatful for your valuable help. Thank you💫💛Namaste 🙏

@rubianfoglia Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your insight, I appreciate you!

@nowarm 7 ай бұрын

Thank you so much. Your explanation all make sense. 🙏

@STRONGfamVALUEZ Жыл бұрын

Appreciate you sooo much ..I'm so ready for the next part of my life

@correenmills3377 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your gifts. ❤

@Goldenheart2911 Жыл бұрын

Namaste 🙏😊❤️✨🕊️ Excellent video Lisa. I am right there with you and after everything I agree it feels 💯 great. 🤗 The healing path is grueling, humbling and eye opening, but it is 💯 worth it. 💛🎉

@malizee2264 Жыл бұрын

Lisa❤❤❤I recently finally got my sister to talk to me again! It feels amazing but then it’s showing me all the work I still have yet to do!!! Thank you for being there whenever I need you!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤

@tobyschoeneberger7126 Жыл бұрын

"What you think of me is none of my business" from an al~anon meeting. Love to all

@helentaylor8206 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Lisa for the valuable content. What you say makes so much sense. I’ve been searching for these answers for most of my life and feel so grateful to have found your channel. It manifested at the right time. You have used your traumas to transform and to inspire others to heal. Thank you so much for your help and example xx

@justjosie8963 Жыл бұрын

Me too Helen. I think we could have spent 1000hours in therapy and not have gotten the value we are getting from Lisa's videos and a few other awesome yt-bers that have been where we have been.

@lolazg Жыл бұрын

Thank you dear Lisa. this is very helpful

@janetsbff5974 Ай бұрын

Thank you, Lisa!!! You are saving my life one video and book at a time!!! 🙏🏽✨💖

@anneaires3984 Жыл бұрын

Has anyone told you how terrific you are today?? I just did!!!! Many, many thanks for your words of wisdom dear one!! So happy to have found your channel, you've helped me immensely!❤️

@julialednicky7542 Жыл бұрын

Super insightful and super helpful on my journey. So much useful information is packed in here. Listened twice & took notes. This really helps. Thanks so much✔️❤️

@re03387 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this video. This is exactly how I feel.

@user-yr6el6fw5e Жыл бұрын

We have to get to a place to observe and understand our subconscious thoughts and disconnect them from our emotional response system. The key to success in every phase in life! Lisa, thank you for this amazing, so deeply needed information!!