I love that you want to look natural on camera and not have the skin smooth filter on. Love a natural queen 💗💗

A big part of staying tidy is having enough storage and for everything to have a place. It stops you feeling overwhelmed by tidying because you know where everything is meant to go.

“I’m sick to death of myself” relatable😂😂😂😂😂

I relate too much to this😭

I just love how you wanted to get rid of the blurring filter on your camera

Skinny dip are collating with the best influencers atm

The face mask was like a Mrs Doubtfire moment when the cream drops off his face into the social service ladies coffee 🤣 “one lump or two” 🤣 x

Omg jade and Norma in the thumbnail!! Love it

Hey Soph! Please be kind to yourself, it's hard to keep things organised! I've been such a messy person ever since I was young but I've recently gotten into the habit of maintaining my room and my space by doing it regularly. I do a proper clean every Sunday and throughout the week I'll just make sure to put things away any time I've used them, right after I've taken them out as that way nothing piles up. It takes 10-20 minutes after each activity but it's much more convenient than leaving it all for one day or even letting it pile up because that's when it can get really overwhelming. It can be a little difficult to get the hang of it at first but once you're consistent with it I promise it makes such a difference! I hope this helps, sending you love❤️

pinky looked so cute running up the stairs ♥️

You are so lucky to be on a zoom with Jade Thirwall! That must have been incredible

My daughter had the same issue of not seeing the mess. The thing we came up with was making sure everything in her space had an organized spot it should be put in, we got her extra fabric bins, desk organizers, etc. We also figured out that if she picks a specific time each day to do a 10 minute clean, she picked after dinner, then the mess doesn't get overwhelming. Making lists of what to clean daily, weekly, monthly, etc. also helps keep her from getting overwhelmed.

My anxiety makes me do the exact same things with keeping clean/tidy. Your brain is so anxious and focusing on other things we don't notice it until it actually becomes something to be anxious about!

you’re so kind, thoughtful and pretty inside and out! we’re going through a tough time right now and that’s ok! i hope anyone who’s reading this knows that they are loved and deserves so much! i’m always here if anyone needs to talk! have a great day angels! ❤️

I can relate sooo much about being a messy person and want to have things tidy but can't really manage it. I have always been that person, since I was a child. My mom used to help me tidy, not doing it for me but just help me get started and she always said "It's too overwhelming for you, that's why you can't manage it on your own and ends up with you sitting on the floor doing nothing about it". And when I found out I have ADD, I was about 20 years old, it all made so much sense about the cleaning problem. I have medicin that helps me get the energy to get things going but I've been off those for a time now and what I've felt that has helped the most is starting a routine that is I tidy for 10min everyday :)

You on the Jade call is so relatable and then Pinky proving herself a member of the family 🤣😍 too perfect!

Definitely not just you Soph with the mess thing. You won't see this, but something that's helped me is having a daily checklist which has (amongst other things) "keep my room tidy" on it - it just forces me everyday to look at my room and say, is it tidy? If it is then that's good and I can leave it, if it's not then it's only a small amount of mess (as it's only accumulated over one day) so I can tidy it up quickly and then I don't procrastinate about tidying it up - I've been doing this since Christmas and so far it's worked really really well, my room has stayed much tidier and it's involved a lot less hassle/stress 💗💗

HAVE A GREAT DAY EVERYONE! ❤️

Don't worry about being messy Soph. Nobody's house is clean 24/7. I am exactly the same though I leave stuff too long and then get overwhelmed so leave it longer then it's just too much to cope with and I'm 29! But I also feel amazing after when it's all done too. And my fave haribos are the foamy ones.

Omg. The mess thing. Yes. I am exactly like this, it cause me alot of upset and anger towards myself. Nice to know that other people feel this too x