Newborn Q&A: Postpartum Recovery, Breastfeeding vs Bottle Feeding, Life with a Newborn and Toddler

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Newborn Q&A to talk about all thinks postpartum recovery, breastfeeding vs bottle feeding and life with a newborn and a toddler!
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00:00 - intro
02:25 - birth / recovery
10:03 - going from 1 to 2
20:10 - breast / bottle feeding
28:29 - newborn essentials
30:28 - advice for new mums
32:46 - outro
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@HomeWithShan Жыл бұрын

Hope you enjoy tonight’s video and having a lovely evening 🫶🏼

@nuna1306 Жыл бұрын

I love how raw this is. You don't make it out like everything is sunshine and daisy's, you tell us how it is and I think that is the MOST important thing for anyone in a similar situation. Knowing that it will be hard, but it is possible and there can be joy in those hard moment is so amazing. You're such a great creator and mama.

@sgordon92 Жыл бұрын

My wife is due in a few weeks and from the early days we've watched your content together to plan what to buy, and expect. Been a great help, thanks. All the best to your family.

@amythorogood Жыл бұрын

Lovely to see you back Shan - take everything at your own pace as the weeks and months go on - so looking forward to continue to follow your journey ! You are Looking so well and delighted to meet your gorgeous little bub! X

@SianEmilyy98 Жыл бұрын

Just wanted to say I honestly appreciate your honesty in this video so much!!!! Feel like it’s so rare when content creators are this raw and honest so I really appreciate it. You look like you’re radiating with love and seem so confident in yourself, it’s so lovely to see! You’re smashing it mama❤

@TiffyPlays Жыл бұрын

Currently 19 weeks pregnant with my first baby and I loved watching this video. You look fab and I want to thank you for being so informative even if you are super tired ☺️. Sounds like you’re smashing it 🙌☺️

@chloeprender Жыл бұрын

Loved this :) the issue you were talking about with formula supplementation is commonly called ‘the top-up trap’, where you give formula because you’re worried about supply, but because baby isn’t at the breast then your supply does actually dip… so you give more formula & it gets worse & worse. Pumping if she’s having a bottle is def the best thing to do, especially as prolactin is highest at night so evening/night feeds are the most important to maintain supply in the early months x

@mirandathomas8888 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely love your honesty here Shan, you are doing so well. I am a few weeks ahead of you on this journey and have a 2 year old and a 9 week old and it is HARD. But we can do hard things! Sending you so much love, and thank you for sharing your journey xxx

@leah38521 11 ай бұрын

Keep going what you’re doing is amazing.

@caitlinjarvis2608 Жыл бұрын

Can’t wait to watch! Congratulations ❤❤❤

@jacquelineyoung5027 Жыл бұрын

3 and a half months until my 2nd baby will be here , and I’m so so so scared , and this has just gave me so much more comfort❤️ Honestly thank you for your complete honesty I love how real and raw you are 🥰❤️

@josmith2159 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations! So nice to watch this. It’s my due date today and I’m already worried about the juggle of having a newborn, an almost 3yo toddler and a husband working away… so it’s nice to know I won’t be the only one struggling and that someone else understands the juggle 😂 xx

@laurenbee602 Жыл бұрын

I’m two weeks away from having my first baby! Your videos have been so helpful throughout pregnancy - thank you!❤

@elenamason7596 Жыл бұрын

You’re doing fantastic Shan, such an amazing mama💙🩷

@charlottemcquaide2949 Жыл бұрын

Oh Shan I loved this, thank you. Massive congratulations on baby girl. I love her name so much it’s beautiful xx

@allthingsmumlifeUK 11 ай бұрын

Great advice! 💓💗 this is very true! Everything in this life is a phase so try not to get too stressed 💓 hugs to all the new mums as it is an emotional stage!! 💗

@joicejoseph6562 Жыл бұрын

Was looking forward to seeing you both. I can totally relate with the difficult Toddler stage.

@tasha1123455 11 ай бұрын

I didn't know a newborn could wake up only 2 times a night! You're very lucky!! I was up like all night with my newborn 😆 enjoy the extra sleep!! Xx

@sallymurnaghan4254 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely relateable on every level, thank you. X

@rachxxxx Жыл бұрын

Shan!! shes beautiful ❤ you look so well im glad everyone is ok and George is getting stuck in!! Take care flower xxxxxx

@runinthedark 2 ай бұрын

It was so refreshing to hear someones experience who exclusively bottle fed first baby and tried breastfeeding the second. Im in the exact same boat and have not found any one talking about this! I was worried it would be a complete nightmare but im glad il be able to give it a try with a bit more confidence x

@GeeAnnJackson Жыл бұрын

When I was breast feeding my now 18 month old the Hakka was a massive life saver didn't have to pull out a electronic pump. Also helps increase supply and big bonus can use it if you get clogged ducts

@raquelrush4910 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations Shan. She really is George's double. You are looking amazing and by that I mean happy, healthy and glowing. So pleased for you. Glad breastfeeding is going well for you. I breastfed for a year and 3 months and you have given me a new tip for next time. Pump when your partner is feeding. I did it at the wrong times early on and struggled with an oversupply for quite a while so thanks for sharing. She is beautiful 😍 x x

@liltazdevil1 Жыл бұрын

You are not alone with the light nights!! My 2 and a half year old is exactly the same at bedtimes!!!

@gemmabarry1975 Жыл бұрын

Night time dryness is hormonal And often comes way after day time dryness. There’s no harm in just focusing on day time training and leaving night time till later. It will come naturally, if he’s still wetting the bed he’s not ready. My friends daughter is 5 and still has a pull up for bed

@soniafowler7689 Жыл бұрын

Yes my 4 and 5 year old boys still wear a pull up for night time. Some mornings they wake up dry others not. My eldest had to wear one until he was around 8 or so as he often would wet the bed in the night while he was asleep. He grew out of it so I’m confident my other 2 will as well.

@meredithxdesign Жыл бұрын

Hope your first week on your own goes well!

@shahrzadvos4376 Жыл бұрын

The best advice ever!

@leah38521 11 ай бұрын

Ash is leaving the army! I’m so happy for you all I know this will be a big help for you.

@mariajosepalma9383 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations! 🎉

@craftie_girl Жыл бұрын

Congratulations and thank you for this video, you are absolutely glowing. I'm 1 week pp with a 6 year old and trying to adjust going from 1-2. Feel more anxious this time round like I'm gonna miss something.

@abbiedancer6294 Жыл бұрын

I combi fed - as long as you either do a 2am feed or pump your supply should stay this is the most important feed of the day! So combi feed should work so if you need a rest in the day or before bed 😊xx

@rachaelslittlelife415 Жыл бұрын

It’s always blooming raining and dull anyway this summer so bring on the darkness at 5pm, my toddler woke up after an hour at 8pm the other day and said ‘Mummy, I had a nice sleep’ 😅 Sounds like you’re doing amazing! x

@abzgail20 Жыл бұрын

I remember being terrified of my partner going back to work too but honestly, after a 2 weeks on your own it's easier coz you get into your own flow.

@vickykirabo1333 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations Shan. 🎉❤

@dianeh7620 Жыл бұрын

Ahh Shan you're looking so so well... motherhood clearly suits you! You can see the happiness radiating from you, so happy and excited for you... thankyou for sharing your story with us and taking us along with you!! X

@lucyashtonjewellery8440 Жыл бұрын

Looking gorgeous ❤❤ you are amazing! you look soo happy ☺ xx

@abbiestidard1578 Жыл бұрын

Gorgeous baby girl ❤ congratulations x

@rhondasevick4257 Жыл бұрын

Some advice about toddlers. When my toddlers screamed at me I would tell them that it was not nice, and if they want something, they must use their inside voice. It helps with the stress for both of you.

@sabine46 Жыл бұрын

Juggling a toddler and newborn is crazy. Don't feel sorry for accidentally shouting. I've done it too lately (specially today, now she's hitting her 6 week sleep regression and I'm on my own while husband works) and it made me feel so sad. Like you said, we are only human! Everytime my girl cries, my son wants to scream louder. Every time shes near, he feels the need to scream or make loud noices. And sometimes I've just had enough and snap! It's been a wild ride! And funny that, my son is suddenly more cuddly too! Hang in there! ❤ We got this!

@TheXdarkfairy Жыл бұрын

Congratulations Shan! You're doing such an amazing job, it's been wonderful to watch your journey ❤ also delighted that Ash is leaving the army and will be home during the week. Is he changing to a new job? 😊

@wendybirkett9219 11 ай бұрын

Your breastfeeding group sounds amazing! I had my baby during covid so didn’t have any of that! Hope you manage to make a decision you’re happy with. It’s so conflicting.

@ashleighwood1513 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations Shan! I’ve been a follower since you were pregnant with George. So happy for you x

@lindanewton1142 Жыл бұрын

You look so well , baby is gorgeous ❤ congratulations to all of you ❤ also love her name ❤ x

@sarahplant3603 Жыл бұрын

I’m currently 40 weeks about to go 1-2! I also loved the newborn stage 0-1 that’s what I’m most nervous about this time! X

@lornaashford4197 Жыл бұрын

You were a bit ahead of me in your pregnancy, but I ended up giving birth before you and I was a week early and you went overdue 😆. I’m currently breastfeeding too, but as he won’t feed from me (had tongue tie which has now been done but got used to bottles) I’m having to pump and feed which is so time consuming and gets me down some days - very close to just formula feeding! What a relief that ash is leaving the army, so you will have the support when you need it. Which let’s face it, is much needed! Your looking really well xx

@dammyo.9652 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations 🎉 ❤

@hayleysway9518 Жыл бұрын

Wow your potty training when you’ve just had a baby 😮 that’s tough hon!! My 3 year old is potty trained during the day but Going to wait till we have moved house and settled till we do night potty training so she will be closer to 4 years old to do that. You have got ALOT on your plate Shan - the biggest of hugs hon ❤

@hsellors Жыл бұрын

You're smashing it!! That advice is perfect and you absolutely have to live in the moment, take every day as it comes. Does George squawk? 😂 Rio (32m) does this whenever he wants anything, when we're at home, at playgroup, whether its just that he wants a green car and not a blue one 🫠 he just squawks and YELLS mamamamamamam at me. The worst is when I'm nursing Ava (15m) because he'll then clamber up like a zombie attack 🤪 Last year in the NB phase was definitely the hardest. Having two toddlers now is NUTS..but looking back, the whole of last summer I was just a hormonal mess. I think it took 6m to adjust and only now 15m pp am I starting to feel like me again. Able to go out for the day without children, getting back into my personal interest, feeling like Holly and not just a Mum. Its always important to take 5-10 minutes a day to yourself, when you can, to just have time to breath. Another lifeline for me, is a local play cafe. It's 2 massive play areas with a safe garden, cafe and always other mums there to share experiences with. We have a membership so go unlimited times, and so several times a week we go there. I feel much more confident in myself and my own body after speaking and getting to know so many other mums 😊

@amberbenton2704 Жыл бұрын

I’m 9 months in and have a 3 year old to and I have found when oldest is feeling left out and needs your attention talk to the baby like you do to your eldest, I.e. “oh halle, George wants mommy to play with him now, let sit you here with a toy whilst I play with him and you can watch” or use the same words you say to George when needing to breastfeed etc to halle when you are giving George attention… Those toddler tantrums are tough whilst dealing with a baby, well done, you’re doing amazing! ❤

@abzgail20 Жыл бұрын

I was the opposite, found it much easier going from 1-2 than 0-1. I was going through a lot mentally though first time around and didn't have that 2nd time.

@audrey-jane Жыл бұрын

Hi Shan, love your video. My newborn is nearly 5 weeks and struggled to latch on the breast. However, I’ve had the best of both worlds as I’m currently exclusively pumping using a hospital pump (purchase a good electric one if possible), baby gets my breast milk but it’s given with a bottle. I love it, I highly recommend to any women on here to pump, you can see what they have and still get the benefits of breastmilk. Baby seems very content and only wakes once in the night. Good luck to all the ladies and partners on here ❤️❤️❤️

@emilyhaynes4158 Жыл бұрын

Hey love your video. Congratulations on baby no 2. I am planning baby no 7 and was wondering do you have an discount codes for the najell carrier or sleep carrier?

@catherinebrown7578 Жыл бұрын

This will be me come November. My little girl will be 2yrs 8m when my boy is born so I'm going to be in the same position. I'm also going to try breastfeeding this time but I'm considering combi feeding to try and ease the pressure but I'm just going to go with the flow once he's here. You look fab aswell, I looked dead for about a year and a half after my first lol xx

@mainmarie1 Жыл бұрын

Do you think George is best without a nap? I'm dreading when my toddler drops nap he has one nap but always before 3pm and in bed by 8.30 and loves sleep xxxx

@laurayoung1107 Жыл бұрын

What do you do when Hallie is sleeping and you need the toilet or just nip to the kitchen to get a drink when George is about. I have a wee nest lounger but my wee one will be just turned 2 when baby 2 arrives and I worry if she's in a moses basket or a lounge thing that toddler might touch baby or try pick up baby etc when I'm not watching

@1988laurennicole Жыл бұрын

Total agree harder going to multiple children rather than 0-1. We have recently had #3 and oh my goodness that has been a shock to the system! We have a 10 and 6 year age gap with the older 2 and our baby but it’s still been such a hard transition. It’s like your life gets flipped upside down again like 0-1 but with the combination of having 2 older children to ferry around to school, hobbies, homework etc etc etc. 🤣

@Tariachan Жыл бұрын

Best advice someone gave me is to still give your baby one bottle regularly, e.g. once a day. I have so many friends whose babies took a bottle fine at 4 weeks but not anymore at 6 or 8 weeks.

@xjessii89x Жыл бұрын

Breastfeeding is tough! Every day i said i was going to give up that week, but after a few months things got better, so if times get tough id always say perservere if you can (though it obviously doesnt matter if you truly want to stop) as im so glad i did, i stopped at 1 year only because i was going back to work. But it was so much easier than bottle feeding once we were a few months in (sounds like its going well for you already though) i expressed and bottlefed too though as its nice to have a break and does make life easier if they'll accept a bottle 😊 Also a pro of breastfeeding for us, was thats its free 😆

@Hollie789 11 ай бұрын

Congratulations ❤ I’m 4 weeks post partum and I feel like I’ve been hit by a truck! How do you do it?!😩😩You look fab 🥰🥰xx

@DimplefaceChloe Жыл бұрын

I felt this when I was breastfeeding like failure. I ended up with formula. It took me a while to accept it.

@zainabladak4641 Жыл бұрын

Awww Shan, you repeated hubby going away so many times, you must be of course feeling anxious, sending you all the love, praying it gets easier for you to handle ❤

@dammyo.9652 Жыл бұрын

Where did you say the najell affiliate was? 😢😅

@mrsg3460 Жыл бұрын

My 3rd is 17 months and he is mostly breastfed but at night he has formula and if he wakes in the night my husband will make a bottle while I breastfeed as I've never been able to pump. He nearly stopped breast feeding around 3/4 months as he was having more bottles in the day but it flipped to just a bedtime one. I co fed my girls but they stopped breast before 6 months and the stress I went through with it was a nightmare.

@anasafa7951 11 ай бұрын

Does first size is necessary or 0-3 months dress size is fine?

@lauriebrown7940 Жыл бұрын

Can you post a video about her name. I love her name!!

@natashaplatts3216 Жыл бұрын

❤❤

@marthasmusings5133 Жыл бұрын

I'm pregnant with #2 now and I'm so excited for the snuggles with 2 babies in bed! Is your husband's working away situation going to change any time in the future? Can't imagine how challenging it would be!

@HomeWithShan Жыл бұрын

Congratulations lovely 🥹 Thankfully it will be changing from September but until then, he’s away Monday-Friday 😭xxx

@marthasmusings5133 Жыл бұрын

@@HomeWithShan Thank you! Oh wow! Hang in there. I have so much admiration for you.

@fairytaleviola Жыл бұрын

Are you sticking on the lashes each time or you have extension?

@LouiseGill-cj6bz Жыл бұрын

How is the breastfeeding going

@mollymullin6419 Жыл бұрын

The description box has time stamps, one of them is breastfeeding 😊

@newlife1599 Жыл бұрын

You are very beautiful in the video!

@kasiakasia6627 Жыл бұрын

what a pity you didn't feed her in the movie :)

@laurap8177 Жыл бұрын

Lucy Ruddle is a lactation consultant who has wrote a book called 'mixed up' all about combi feeding. Some good breastfeeding pages to follow- Lucy Webber Infant Feeding Support; Lucy Ruddle IBCLC; Feed Speak Eat (Stacey Zimmels) and also Kathryn Stagg IBCLC. X

@laurenjane6432 10 ай бұрын

I didn’t find having my son as a newborn hard either, it was so natural I loved it. I’m so glad I did it, it’s the best thing ever. I’d love to have a second but I’m on my own now. It sounds like you’re doing so well. Good luck to you xxxx