Ngugi, please bring tata wa Murio, Carol, so she can explain to us why a man marries a second wife. Is it because the first wife didn’t bring 100% Murio, or what’s the problem? This is a question I expected you to ask this man. Are women different kwa bedroom? Please have a follow up show. 🚮

Another question you needed to ask: What security does the 2nd wife have? 1st wife has a marriage certificate, and this is her house. 2nd wife does not have a marriage certificate, and does not own a house or any property, because she hands over her paychecks to the man. Would would prevent her from being kicked out one day, especially if mzee dies first? 😏

@@blessedwachera7133 I can respond to your question. UMARAYA! Nothing else.

@@joyfrance565 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

​@@joyfrance565😂😂😂 kabisa

Wacha kamzae kakufe😂😂it will demathew her

This guy Muchoki was my teacher in primary school. What a nightmare he was. He used to whip us mercilessly, for even the most trivial of mistakes in class, add the occasional verbal abuse. Imagine as a 13 year old kid and your biggest bully in school is your teacher. Some of us whom he mostly picked on--the ones not in his list of favourites--used to tremble in fear when he came in to class. I was one of those he liked picking on and he absolutely degraded the little self-esteem I had at the time. And that is not all; he used to hit on young women and fellow teachers in school while being married. Ofcourse as the bully and fear-inspiring man he is, he brainwashed his family into accepting a second wife. I'm not going to dive into all the details but let me just say this guy is a massive red flag and full of crap.

True 😢

True true narcissistic n colonialist

The first wife is the owner of this house,,second according the Bible,,is there to interfear to first married

Well said. If he really meant well, he could have built the second wife her own empire.

😂😂😂😂😂kemea my sista hii ni ujinga wa hali ya juu

Amen✌️

Amen and amen

😂😂😂😂

Amen Amen

Amen 🙏🏽

Amen 🙌

Lol...wearing a polygamy coat!!!

Amen Amen

Amen! Amen

I like your comment coz you're very wise

Very true

The body language😢

Tiga wigwikira Ngài Maundu ma Ngoma....Akireta wa tatu na nne mutajua hamujui....Shetani akifunguliwa anakuja na wajukuu...

Yes the body language

True aky ata Mungu alikua na sababu ya kuumbia Adam one wife anajua mioyo yetu

While love may be the biggest reason people marry, it's not the only one. In general, people make the commitment to spend their lives together for more than a single reason. Every couple chooses to commit to marriage because it serves their needs and supports their values and dreams.

Njoki products ya mpango wa kando

Working in several Muslim countries have proved men as young as 30 live well and longer in polygynous family. Most of those complaining r selfish and controlling!

I noticed the same

He doesn't want at all to be closer to the first wife

My observations too..afadhali amuite mama flani* she's struggling even blow-dry ya nywele ni tall order😢😢😢..may we never experience this kind of humiliation and betrayal

@@edithwachirah5273 true,how on earth can a man control my hard earned money,in the name of marriage.....

Was keen hapo pia weuh

Hii ni ujinga kwanza aniite *uyu* naweza muua in the worst manner possible

Yes we love you Mrs muchoki...she was a good teacher.. Lesson learned kuwa mzuri c opinion

Mrs muchoki was my teacher too

I really dont understand why men are trying to lie to us that they are champions of marrying two wives. My late dad had two wives, but there was no peace in both homes. What is happening, the first wife is forced to accept the plan or she will be sidelined 😢. I will never be anyone's second, always first or never. Period!!

My homescience teacher humble as always

Wacha nishidwe

Depression.

Good

Mûndû ûrîa ûikaraga na gîkeno haha no ûcio ûikaraga ta mûthamaki. 😏

The sitting itself can tell the story!!! Men are very selfish and they don’t care who they hurt!!! Njoki you’re a Hippocrate and very selfish too!!! The marriage covenant is till death do us apart!!!! Njoki you’re death period 🙏

@@waridim9249 Imagine when he is in one woman’s bed, the other one sleeps alone, thinking about what is going on in the other bedroom, and yet she is married. ☹

Second wife.. how . giving salary to her husband...niokotwe gekomba

Hapo Kuna shinda huyu mwanaume ni dictator

This man is using this ladies and mostly the second one!! They have better job than him and again living in the same house , how ?? I can advice the second one to get her own house and her account alone.He is using you and I think the first wife knows what is cooking .be careful not to be the loser please. Thanks.

@@rosemarykirubi3167 I agree with you. And the second one does not have a marriage certificate. If things go south, she has no legal grounds to claim anything.

He is talking too much, something is wrong 😢😢😢

@@Dee_the_blessed1 Maybe his head is not right. 👹

I don’t see wisdom, I see low self esteem.

The man is a dictator she had no objection but to go with the husband's decision, according to her statement

​@@blessedwachera7133 Ûguo nîguo kûrî, without doubt!

Gaka gatheeee nigathenge,the first wife got disappointed and that man has no respect .l respect madam teacher....she is wise and this man should not cerebrate

onanie kwanza hawezi kaa kwangu wanaume ni mafisi na hawaokokangi never

She doesn’t look happy at all. This is some madness

Very true, she's in deep thoughts

True

Great advice to the young and pretty lady. She doesn’t even have security in this home. First wife has a marriage certificate, and this house is hers, so she can easily throw Njoki out one day, if this kamzee goes to heaven.

He depends on the women's salary. Educated women being brainwashed and used

Waambie tuliona wa kina demathew

@teresiamaina umebonga👌

Heri huyu anajulikana,labda bwanako Ako na watatu😅

Aki sure.....I feel for the 1st wife

Ako hio nayo sio poa

Ikr... I wouldn't even look at him twice

True

I agree 💯. Not a person who helped you. No no no no.

Say that again

Her good heart was taken advantage of by her philandering husband.

Is that what you call good heart? 😭😭😭 She's bleeding inside

​@@njambiann7870 even her face,voice tells it very well of her hidden unhappiness

@njambiann,kwani wewe ni wetu,ata Mimi naitwa Anne njambi wanjohi

She is not happy you can tel frm her face

Very true ,,,,,😊😅

Huyu Mzee ni mkora

True..she looks very unhappy! Polygamy is a demon!

​@@rosemaryjoseph9414Give us a Bible verse?

Huyu Mzee ana kiherehere Sana na majivuno alafu mbona anakaribia gacungua saaana.God forbide

mimi ndio nilimuchukia kitambo....maringo nyiiiingi for what...juu ya kumarry daughter agemate wife...

Na ngugi akasema we do not judge. Nikii murata wahinyia ciene ogwo nahauishi nao? You don't know them,id want to ask if you know your husband too well bfor knowing their story too well

@@reinsky9772 Everybody has an opinion and i have given mine. As you you, you have said what others have said and supported the "threesome". That's your opinion too na ni sawa. Hata wale saba wameni-thumbs-up are expressing their opinion na ni sawa. Any problem? Reke twarie na tuge uria turona.

@@intyrystyn do you live in that house?

Agnes Wanjau, yours is the brainiest analysis I have encountered in all social media over the last ten years...

U can hear he talks much making sure he controls the talk

Walae sahiyo bibi wako na job kubwa kumshinda... N kama n wao hujilisha... Ju huyu hawawezi wote wawili😢

Ni kikuyu dictators

Imagine the embarrassment she went through

100% 👏👏👏

its a sad story for me, na Ngugi kindly allow us to judge as we are also being judged 😂😂😂

Never judge but I like the openess in this man's heart he's not a hypocrite

Authoritative husband

I agree with you she seems not happy at all

The big problem here is that sharing of house. Angejengea bibi mdogo kwake

True ata wa demathew saa hii ni 🔥

​@@gracekaranu9110true

When the man's die, second wife atakipata like carol demathew,how she stated on regretting bn a second wife

My CRE teacher too

But she made a tepid decision of sticking around. The husband knew she is.old snd would never go anywhere. He diminished her chances of getting a partner by dragging along for years..then bringing a new one...men are heartless....and the young wife.is enjoying all the labor....if we here deaths happenings its out of poor choices people are making

​@@rosemaryrosy7836gtgg🎉🤓🕶️🕶️🕶️🕶️🕶️🕶️🕶️🕶️🕶️🕶️🕶️🕶️🕶️🕶️🕶️🕶️🪟🙏😊

I feared to say this,had not seen your comment.according to the work explained the 1st wife does alot of house chaos...salute to the 1st wife

I have seen another video similar to this,they also live in the same house and they're young. The first wife was dark and the second was light skin. The first wife wasn't looking happy she was so much like in this case. I'm not judging coz I'm light skin na watu huku nje they assume lazima niko na mtu na niko single. Nikipatana na mtu wa wenyewe ani dickmatize pia ntakosaje kuwa 2nd kama 1st amekubali. I'm not sure if i would be happy though I'll feel like i ruined the 1st wife's happiness.

The bragging about educating those women wasn't necessary 😳

Single men ebu kujeni mnimarry before nifike hapa. This kind of lifestyle ain't for everyone.

The fact that he calls 2nd wife "njoki" and 1st wife "uyu" speaks volumes 😢

True, no woman wants to share the man , no matter how they paint it, Period!

Why share. Men are many.

The man seems uneasy as if he's hiding or fearing reveal of something else 😮😮😮

You're right

I agree with you

Even the first wife vile she is holding herself tells it all. This is a very selfish man, na huyo second wife haki, another woman sacrifices her finances usome then you take her hubby...only God is the judge

Njoki missed it all because this man cannot nyotora her some years to come atakuwa Anakula kwa macho

@@sarahgacheru3867 Even now I don’t think she’s getting enough. Imagine being that young, and you have to be alone many nights, waiting for your “turn.” She will start looking for a Ben-10 soon.

@@blessedwachera7133the man is 55! Absurd for this young lady! This is against nature

I always assume for the first wife to accept the a cowife it’s only because she also doesn’t love the husband anymore but stays for her convenience.

@@FloKWellnessHubanyway who can stay loving such a man, waste of time

I hate this story with a passion as the guy is sugar coating this nonsense

@@Njitagwo_Shiro who wants shared intimacy if not for convinency? If the first wife has given him all he would want why have an eye, a thought for another woman.The body language from this man towards the younger woman speaks it all. First wife is always convinced through negative thoughts of “ if I don’t accept, he will still go out there or how about the properties acquired together?, how about the kids growing without a father and my parents were also polygamous. Truth be, “ I don’t love him anymore so I don’t care or I don’t feel a certain type of way when they are together.

The man is so selfish he prefers the second wife by his body language. There is nothing great about living together. God is not happy second wives side chicks have destroyed.many home period

walai tena ona vile amekaribia second wife mpaka na sema kimoyomoyo si ukalibie first wife kidogo aki😂😂😂

First wife n mawazo tu

He looks like a narcissist, and a very self-centered man. The first wife looks like amekaliwa sana, nikaa ameekwa na baridi.

Kumbe hii second wife ghasia ndio ulitangulia kuingilia familia ya waithira

The environment is toxic😢😢 1st wife she isn't glowing😢anateseka. She can't stand her son to get a 2nd wife because she has 1st end experience

Even me,

Drop that verse here

1 Corinthians 7 one man one wife , polygamy is unlawful

It's good to read and understand the Bible well and not replying in one verse. Read the same chapter verse 6 - (6 Lakini nasema hayo, kwa kutoa idhini yangu, si kwa amri)

​@@josephgikonyo1554 I want to see it too

N which Lord are u referring too??The white Jesus from Nazareth who was brot to us as Africans or our creator Ngaaii witu??We must agree first that before the European bible arrived we the Africans believed in our creator n we had a good way of living n customs.

Ur right

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂sure Siri ndani ya nduma Iko hapa

Very true I don't think if a man is too happy with his family can decide to bring a 2nd wife. Hiyo ni uongo mtupu

I also wonder

Nashangaa na venye ako mouthy

And they both have a career to pursue? Aaaai!

Nashangaa pia. Too much talking

He tricked them

Kabisa

Very unhappy..

So true she's there physically but emotionally she's not there 😢

I completely agree with you.

​@@esthermusembi2632 true there are questions he prefers to answer though not directly asked to him maoni

Very true. Alimfichia white.

@@salomekinuthia2742 Agree. He was having an affair with her, and like her, then pretended he just met her about the harambee. Giki ni githaria. 🐕

I also think so.

​@@blessedwachera7133 very true.

They look unhappy 😢😢the presence filled with still motion,this women are been used by this man, manipulating them n controling them,I feel sorry for second wife,nikama hii Mzee ili lipa chuo

😅😅

😂😂😂😂

Maybe the man and 1st wife hatched a plan to take the 2nd wives money. She is a clinical officer, so she makes more money than them (teachers). She doesn’t have a marriage certificate, while 1st wife has one. She has no security and she can be kicked out easily, especially if the man die.s. Mjinga…🤨

@@blessedwachera7133 atalilia choo

the pride of an old man.

Haku Njoki ni spoiler

I have noted that ....kujigamba ndiyo mingi

Jina Muchoki ni hatari kwa wamama wale wako na pesa 😂😂

@@edithmugure3080 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Muchoki ni hatari.

Exactly,,, saw it before in another interview

Correct

Very evident.distance between first wife n husband n husband n kachungwa.....u can c n relate

The man is a dictator it tell all

Kumbe tunaona wengi

Have noted that too

Nakuambia.......It can never be haki!!

​@@estherwangui4274very true,1st wives hu pretend they are happy but they aren't ni vile hawana choice😢

Wacha haka kaschana kazeeke God is very patient katalia msichana wake ataolewa na guka kuliko huyu bwana yao ama akuwe Lele coz roho ikifika kwa mtoto it multiply

@@WanjiruShii-jq1vl Nî tûhoere ciana ciothe maûndû mega tondû they (were born) found themselves in that set up.

He is so close to the second wife instead of being at the center

😂😂😂weh pole

Woi if huyuko happy jitoe

Allow yourself to be happy

Ngugi needs to interview those of us who grew up in polygamous families. If i had to do it again, I’d rather die.

I heard with a polygamous man eti men who choose the polygamy way are Soo selfish and self centered. Anataka TU awe akiwatumia for his own gains na ata akioa kumi lazima akuwe na sidehen.

​@blessedwachera7133 That's your experience. My grandfather had 2 wives, and it was normal for me. I love my half cousins, and I saw no negativity.

Did they share the Same house?? That’s what most of us are struggling with,,,polygamy is not new in Kenya but to have a second wife move in with the first wife is disrespectful!! I think it would not be a big issue if he had built the second wife her own house otherwise someone needs to convince me that those two women are not lovers but also need a man to sustain what they can’t sustain by themselves.

My grandmother were two wives... she warned us vividly .... yao ilikuwa machozi

Anakaaa Ruto cjui kama ni mimi naona vibaya

Exactly

​@@teresiamaina9573absolutely even the distance of seating speak volume

💯

Even the distance btwn is different weeee l cant fathom.....

Nimeona

Wow..kumbe translator do lie.

Waa a good lesson nmesoma gwakwa ndikarehe muhiki

True drama helps sometimes

Very true...Being Voiceless can bring alot of problems in your fmly.even your children needs your commands

He is doing everything for them because he is the one who controls their money. They both make more money than him. These women are really dump, with low self esteem.

nenda kaskie vibaya uko. kweraa noogle. I love this family

True she is not happy Her body language can say.

@@nancywanjiru1386 jiheshimu jinga hii. Nini iko hapa ya kufanya niskie vibaya?

@@nancywanjiru1386 wewe sura mbaya unakaa tu ovyo ndio maana hujiheshimu. What’s your reason for saying you love this family? Kondoo wewe.

Motivational speakers do practice what they preach h😂

And pretends to be a Christian

Very true....he is a dictator 😢😢

😢

Imagine when you can get your own husband. Male chauvinism and viewing women like property to bring in resources.

Imagine anawatumia vibaya anaishi maisha yake he doesn't care about their feelings he is a shelfish man

I hope he does not take their Salary to manipulate them.

@@lydiageorge6832 what else do u expect

Mzee muceneeee

Who said mzee akiwa na 2 wives hatakuwa na mpango ya kando? Kímaramarí no kimaramarí

Who said mzee akiwa na 2 wives hatakuwa na mpango ya kando? Kímaramarí no kimaramarí

Wah..umestoop low..2nd wife was also a mapango. He now has another one

A second wife began as a mpango wa kando. Hii yote ni usherati.

No wrong is better than the other

If a man cannot be faithful to his first wife, he will not be faithful to his second one, or his third one, or his fourth one…….. it doesn’t matter how many women he has, he will never be satisfied.