Nick Cave opens up about how he dealt with grief and the loss of his son Arthur who died aged 15.

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Nick Cave opens up about how he dealt with grief and the loss of his son Arthur who died aged 15.
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@natalierozean5989
@natalierozean5989 3 ай бұрын
Jesus Nick. “If I did not talk about it, I would turn inward on myself. I would harden.” All these years of therapy trying to understand why nothing phases me. Wondering why I can’t cry. Why I’m “dead inside”. All these years being told by one therapist to another that “I had to harden, so I could do my job. (EMS and the hospital trauma team) Years of feeling soulless. Years of feeling hollow. Years of feeling like a monster. Not a single shrink or medical doc could help me w the emptiness.,Then here comes Nick. Within 20 seconds has made me understand why I feel like I do. Within 20 seconds allowed me to feel like a human being again. And within 20 seconds has allowed me to cry again. Bless you Nick. I hope you know just how much you mean to your fans. You are not only brilliant in the creative sense. Your words off stage have undoubtedly rescued many people’s soul. Bless you.,
@kimmurphy8297
@kimmurphy8297 3 ай бұрын
Lying attention seeker
@mikebasketball11
@mikebasketball11 3 ай бұрын
Your actions have undoubtedly rescued many people's souls too. Bless you too mate. Hope you're feeling better - I used to struggle with extremely acute anxiety, and it's completely gone now for me. Never give up.
@brianjury4508
@brianjury4508 2 ай бұрын
Thank God for Nick . You do matter. Welcome home.
@maffel9397
@maffel9397 2 ай бұрын
All the love to you and huge respect and adoration for all that you do. I'm so pleased you found some relief here. Nick certainly has a way to express and reform the chaotic thoughts of many of us ❤
@FrithonaHrududu02127
@FrithonaHrududu02127 2 ай бұрын
Poor guy lost Two kids. My wife died and it ROCKED me. I can't imagine.
@dmitritelvanni4068
@dmitritelvanni4068 Жыл бұрын
Ive met very few people who know of the raw talent that is nick cave. But those who have, love you dearly sir. Cant imagine what that kind of pain would be like. Thank you for surviving it. Idk if id be able to.
@mistydevillier2197
@mistydevillier2197 7 ай бұрын
Ooohh, I've been a fan for over 30 years. Avalanche.!!
@joseantoniogalante897
@joseantoniogalante897 6 ай бұрын
You think so? I guess you're right, but it seems unbelievable, how this consumate Artist has been working for decades at a level of Artistry and Honesty otherwise unheard of, how much is this Man, admired by other Musicians, whenever i talk about him, i refer to him as: The Supreme Pontiff... I've seen him perform live, "many" times, and it never seems to be enough, just outstanding, ever since, The Birthday Party... This Man does not know how to fail, one is awestruck by his performance, and obvious Talent, for me it's like a Religious experience...
@FrithonaHrududu02127
@FrithonaHrududu02127 2 ай бұрын
Losing not just one son, but TWO?!? My heart goes out to him.
@FrithonaHrududu02127
@FrithonaHrududu02127 2 ай бұрын
Im a fan of the Birthday Party, never so much the Bad Seeds but my wife died right between the deaths of his two sons like it's like dead center and it kind of opened me back up to his music the guy really is a fucking genius I can't imagine what the guy has gone through and his entire family is going through losing my wife rocks me to my core but losing two children I cannot imagine
@TiberiusWallace
@TiberiusWallace 4 ай бұрын
Nick is such a beautiful soul.
@TiberiusWallace
@TiberiusWallace 4 ай бұрын
@@Matthias_Fischer You seem nice.
@TiberiusWallace
@TiberiusWallace 4 ай бұрын
@@Matthias_Fischer So to be clear you're trawling through videos of musicians and likely people you don't like to tell everyone you don't like them for...... why?
@cwise09
@cwise09 7 ай бұрын
im only 14 and nick caves music has been a big impact on my life, my favourite song of all time is into my arms and ive loved that song since before i can remember so seeing this bought tears to my eyes i love nick ❤
@michelemarie180
@michelemarie180 5 ай бұрын
❤❤❤ I love it when the youth has good taste because most do not
@CraftyXan
@CraftyXan 3 ай бұрын
I'm 14 too
@boiledelephant
@boiledelephant Ай бұрын
This is a great thing about going to Bad Seeds gigs, you see like four generations of people there. I'm 30s, discovered them in my teens, via people 30 years my elders.
@bitchyivyonvideo
@bitchyivyonvideo 25 күн бұрын
hey, i'm 17 now but I discovered Nick when I was 14 too, he's amazing and such a soul. im so glad there are people my age-ish that relate to that level of work :)
@joycesky5041
@joycesky5041 3 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. I myself have lost 2 children so I know your pain.🌹
@robertwalsh5754
@robertwalsh5754 Ай бұрын
I'm so sorry for your losses. I have myself lost a son.
@Argenbiz
@Argenbiz Жыл бұрын
We keep our candles burning, Nick. Be at peace!
@S_J_banana
@S_J_banana 11 ай бұрын
So sad that he lost 2 of his sons 😢
@ML6103
@ML6103 9 ай бұрын
He lost his father in a car accident around the age of 20, I think. A lot of tragedy in his life.
@baabaabaa-yp2jh
@baabaabaa-yp2jh 8 ай бұрын
Father, son.. talented bandmates & mates, it comes with the package l spose!?! I still listen to Boys Next Door & the Birthday Party... they were kids (as was l).. But talented flowed from them all.. Rowland wrote Shivers at 16!!! That's be enough for some bands...some!
@ko0974
@ko0974 7 ай бұрын
And now his close friend Shane
@fmcm7715
@fmcm7715 7 ай бұрын
@@ko0974yes but in fairness Shane was lucky to make it to the age he did.
@ML6103
@ML6103 7 ай бұрын
@@ko0974 I'm sad for Nick that he lost a friend in Shane. But it's really quite amazing that Shane made it so far. I thought he'd be dead 20 years ago, the way he lived. RIP.
@v-town1980
@v-town1980 5 ай бұрын
You can see a ton of pain in those eyes. God bless him.❤
@yohanaruiz8567
@yohanaruiz8567 4 ай бұрын
He is a poet of pain and a superhero! His eyes, his eyes!!!
@KH-rt3ef
@KH-rt3ef 6 ай бұрын
A real unrehearsed and reachable soul is so present in him - I love that so much about this man. Neither of us can articulate what he manages to render with his art, but we meet each other so clearly in perfect ways that transcend words. I sense the immensity of pressure he feels, in rendering that. But he navigates it like an artisan. He is a tremendous human being, and I love him. And I hope he sees this, and knows he is truly loved.
@gravityfreaksmusic
@gravityfreaksmusic 5 ай бұрын
Beautifully put!
@rosac805
@rosac805 3 ай бұрын
I played into my arms on my drive to my baby sisters funeral .. it's so beautiful.. it makes me cry every time I hear it.. she was only 36yrs.. I hate cancer.. 😭
@veganwinter
@veganwinter 5 ай бұрын
Nick cave got me through life as a teen. I'm 44 now and I'm forever thankful for his music. I'm so sorry for his loss but he is so inspiring about how to move forward in life but never forgetting. Talking is so important. Thank you Mr Cave.
@BassMatt1972
@BassMatt1972 7 ай бұрын
This man means SO MUCH to so many people, for so many things.. We keep our candles burning..
@wayasaunooke3424
@wayasaunooke3424 9 ай бұрын
I truly love this man. What a gift he is to us all, even when he carries such pain ❤
@86crud
@86crud 7 ай бұрын
My girl died at 35. It’s a struggle but I’m doing it. Had she died as a teenager, it would have killed me. I don’t think I would have stayed here.
@nicolekryniski6117
@nicolekryniski6117 9 ай бұрын
there is nothing more tragic than when a parent has to bury their child, of any age. you have an incredible voice, Nick. Thank you for sharing your talent 💕
@ericbruyn
@ericbruyn Жыл бұрын
Very intelligent man 👍
@dapunk5598
@dapunk5598 8 ай бұрын
How's that ? He's just a wanker who adds biblical references to his songs to make himself look profound.
@tylerduke7657
@tylerduke7657 Жыл бұрын
Just a lowly American southerner here… you are an artist sir!! Here we think a man can’t tell a story in song unless he’s lost something, my friend you tell a thousand stories thank you
@ML6103
@ML6103 9 ай бұрын
Wow that is quite profound. You can't tell a story in song unless you've lost something. I think that will stick in my mind for some time
@sourxtimes
@sourxtimes 2 ай бұрын
Love him. Been reading his Red Hand Files newsletters for years now. His words have gotten through some hard times 🖤
@jevgenijskolpakovs6027
@jevgenijskolpakovs6027 Жыл бұрын
Can't hold myself not to cry
@angge4261
@angge4261 9 ай бұрын
Life can be so very cruel. Due to where my life is, and at 55 with a 9yo, if he died, I would kill myself. He is my hope. I am thankful for people like Nick Cave.
@86crud
@86crud 7 ай бұрын
I think I would too, if my daughter had died at a young age. She died at 35, and I’ve managed to have gratitude for those 35 years.
@user-xr6mh4ut3q
@user-xr6mh4ut3q 6 ай бұрын
I owe so much to this man and his art, and I'm so thankful for him surviving and living through this terrible loss. His music has helped me save myself in many ways, it helped me find beauty in the darkest of days
@janetbrown8828
@janetbrown8828 Ай бұрын
Please know how much all of us felt your loss. When I lost my husband, I knew my grief wasn't normal. He had a mental illness that I've only come to understand after the fact & everything was so wrapped up in it before he died, I was numb. Your music saved me & continues to save me again & again. Thank you & God bless you and your family.
@friendlykiwi384
@friendlykiwi384 7 ай бұрын
Great that he can articulate this. A genius on so many levels, but a human still…..
@milosvillem6438
@milosvillem6438 7 ай бұрын
An amazing person and singer. I'm sorry
@derekbos4404
@derekbos4404 4 күн бұрын
I lost my only son, only child, when he was just 4 years old. Because I am not a celebrity, nobody wants to talk about it any more. Hearing Nick talk about his experience is cathartic and oddly comforting. He is exactly right, I changed completely 😮😮❤❤
@pookachu64
@pookachu64 3 ай бұрын
The pizza scene in his film just kill’s me now. Him so happy with his baby boys.
@jeroendesterke9739
@jeroendesterke9739 2 ай бұрын
Soon after the death of his son, I saw Nick at Ebbsfleet train station in the UK checking in with his manager. I walked up to him and thanked him for his beautiful music. 'Thanks, mate!" was his reply. :-D
@captaintrips8651
@captaintrips8651 10 ай бұрын
I (fortunately) haven’t had too much drama in my life, but listening to Nick and Warren always brings tears to my eyes. Such powerful music with zero vocals.
@twelveightyone
@twelveightyone 4 ай бұрын
Respect to Mr. Cave and his family X
@michelehemlokhexwhite4310
@michelehemlokhexwhite4310 10 ай бұрын
We loves ya, Nick. I'll never forget being double booked at Metropolis studio with you for a few days, and we shared the studio and hung out. I have a tattoo on my ankle you doodled on me one night after a gig, which i treasure ❤
@baabaabaa-yp2jh
@baabaabaa-yp2jh 8 ай бұрын
KING INK strolls into town... He sniffs around!! 1982...15 yo @ the Stage Door pub...still one of the best gigs lve been to!! You can never guess what life dishes up mate...lost a son mself, stay strong Nick!
@shereenbarber
@shereenbarber 27 күн бұрын
I’m so very sorry about what happened to your sons. I wish you the very best to you, your wife and loved ones.
@HappyBirthday0707
@HappyBirthday0707 Ай бұрын
An unspeakable tragedy. It speaks volumes to his emotional intelligence and character that he was able to continue with his life in any form after what happened. A deeply principled and intelligent man, and a hugely gifted artist. We’re lucky to have him and I wish him the best in the face of the tragedies he’s had to deal with in his life.
@arsonravengarcia8370
@arsonravengarcia8370 Ай бұрын
I love you Nick..I lost my nephew just recently..he was like a son to me..your music keeps me from pulling the trigger
@norajaneg
@norajaneg 3 ай бұрын
Great job moving THROUGH it. It’s the only way. God bless you ❤
@Nostro_Babybeleater
@Nostro_Babybeleater 29 күн бұрын
I'm obsessed with this man's music since Peaky blinders, his music is my biggest inspiration for making my own music and art, and is played daily on my phone. It's heartbraking to hear him talk about that. I'm sending hugs to all of the parents who lost their children. May they rest in peace.
@davidmuirhead9703
@davidmuirhead9703 Ай бұрын
Poor nick ,let’s just hope he can one day recover,I’ve been through this experience and am still on edge with it
@christopherwatson5869
@christopherwatson5869 22 күн бұрын
So sorry to hear about this Nick, can’t imagine the pain and grief you’ve went through, much love from Belfast, Northern Ireland ❤️👍
@redcoat4ever323
@redcoat4ever323 8 ай бұрын
Heartbreaking
@jeffdishong4853
@jeffdishong4853 Ай бұрын
I had no idea, and ive been a fan for twenty or so years. I am feeling absolutely horrible about your loss.my condolences and sincere sympathy goes out to you and your family. Your are such an inspiration to me, and im sure millions more. It’s easy to relate to soulful sound and the real life grit in your music. We get to live in it because of your hard work and talent!! Thank you!
@angge4261
@angge4261 Ай бұрын
It crushes me that Nick is managing to work through this, because there is no way I could survive losing my only child. In such an unexpected, truly tragic way. Love, all the way. x
@maynardjohnson3313
@maynardjohnson3313 2 ай бұрын
Thanx for sharing, Nick
@NilvioAFBraga
@NilvioAFBraga 8 ай бұрын
There's nothing so sad as it..
@TSayfullin
@TSayfullin 8 ай бұрын
For me as a person who speaks another language on a daily basis, the lyrics and Nick Cave puts in his songs makes English at its utmost of the dependence of this language
@emilywalker3352
@emilywalker3352 2 ай бұрын
So heartbreaking.
@Toonces666
@Toonces666 6 ай бұрын
I just cannot imagine. Nick Cave is such an amazing human being and artist. I have so much admiration and respect for him.
@bampabampa
@bampabampa 4 ай бұрын
Heart breaking
@omygod9062
@omygod9062 5 ай бұрын
He is so talented
@neilhall8901
@neilhall8901 26 күн бұрын
I’m dealing with loss of my Son Taylor the same way I understand how you feel Nick Cave Thinking of you We don’t get over it but we do get better
@kellybaxter2558
@kellybaxter2558 18 күн бұрын
How much these words resonate with me ❤
@bobthebear1246
@bobthebear1246 Ай бұрын
It sounds like he dealt with his pain in a very healthy way. I really feel for him because of course that is every parent's worst nightmare.
@MentalPawn
@MentalPawn 24 күн бұрын
What an amazing human and artist..🙏🙌
@odanx
@odanx Ай бұрын
Heart breaking.
@DonAteo366
@DonAteo366 28 күн бұрын
Nick is a wonderful human being!
@zlrobbo9643
@zlrobbo9643 9 ай бұрын
Into my arms, O Lord, into my arms
@TTS398
@TTS398 10 ай бұрын
God bless him....❤❤❤
@amylewellyn3515
@amylewellyn3515 4 ай бұрын
Big hugs, as I can not imagine! I understand his truth!
@misterinterfuel
@misterinterfuel 10 ай бұрын
Gripping - I share a number of curious facts with Nick including our birth dates, father deaths, twin fatherhoods, and twin son names, all random coincidences. We nearly lost our son our son Aaron at birth, and since Nick and Susie’s loss of Arthur I keep close watch over our son Aaron more than ever. I cannot explain the parallels.
@irenetassie7528
@irenetassie7528 6 ай бұрын
All the love to you Nick. I can't imagine that loss. Thank you for all you've done for me in dark times
@jessicah4412
@jessicah4412 7 ай бұрын
We love you, and thank you sharing your journey and your heart with us ❤️
@davidrichardson9146
@davidrichardson9146 2 ай бұрын
This is life Nick, you're not alone
@MS-de7bb
@MS-de7bb 6 ай бұрын
Im so sorry
@ZeroFox1970
@ZeroFox1970 13 күн бұрын
One great Man . great great Man.
@irenesmeyers2762
@irenesmeyers2762 Ай бұрын
You are courageous Mr. Cave, I admire Your attitude, 🎉❤🎉
@DanielSmith-gv4kl
@DanielSmith-gv4kl 4 ай бұрын
I can't imagine that kind of loss.
@mattallengroupatREAL
@mattallengroupatREAL 14 күн бұрын
I have a 14 yr old and I cant imagine being able to carry on after that.
@beale.8049
@beale.8049 9 ай бұрын
Love you so Mister Nick Cave ❤
@kgothatsomaine3002
@kgothatsomaine3002 4 ай бұрын
You've gotta just keep on pushing. Keep on pushing. Push the sky away ❤️
@EsrayMassik
@EsrayMassik 6 ай бұрын
All the feels ❤ for you, and your families
@margueritemazzeo2904
@margueritemazzeo2904 7 ай бұрын
Amazing how much he looks like my past love..also named Nick .sorry that Nick Cave lived a tragic personal life.😢❤
@mantwat16
@mantwat16 Ай бұрын
I am so sorry for arther
@cartoonsandcannabis
@cartoonsandcannabis 7 ай бұрын
Respect ✊🏼 Maestro 🙏🏼 been listening to Faith Hope and Carnage you’re an inspiration
@FarKingFunny
@FarKingFunny Ай бұрын
We love you Nick...❤ your Stagger Lee will remain my favourite song always, thank you for this song and ALL your music Nick. Good luck in going forward
@thechaostrials1964
@thechaostrials1964 6 ай бұрын
He's an inspiration.
@matthiaskuhnl3817
@matthiaskuhnl3817 2 ай бұрын
Nick is an outstanding person..❤
@mary-anne7
@mary-anne7 Жыл бұрын
💔
@gandolin66
@gandolin66 8 ай бұрын
Even his answer on that heartbreaking topic reveals the melody of a melancholic song.
@Darkstar3022
@Darkstar3022 Ай бұрын
God bless you Nick
@soniabirthwright
@soniabirthwright 3 ай бұрын
Love ❤️❤️❤️ him people just ain't no good ❤❤❤my favorite song from him❤
@djquinn11
@djquinn11 3 ай бұрын
How sad, Nick is much loved by music fans all over the world, and nobody should have to bury their child.
@watch-Dominion-2018
@watch-Dominion-2018 9 ай бұрын
No parent should have to bury their child - Theoden
@seanquigley8041
@seanquigley8041 8 ай бұрын
💔💔😢😢💜
@user-zw8vr1vt8o
@user-zw8vr1vt8o 4 ай бұрын
Aw god bless ypu nick ❤
@cubeekel
@cubeekel 2 ай бұрын
Love you ❤ take care
@MarjorieCISTAC
@MarjorieCISTAC 6 ай бұрын
I send you light, just as you do with us when you Comme and sing with your band, I send you love
@davep2075
@davep2075 2 ай бұрын
I love you Nick.
@Dambister
@Dambister 5 ай бұрын
Ник , ты сделал меня человеком . Спасибо , родной! Соболезную .
@user-mp1gv6tf9n
@user-mp1gv6tf9n 3 ай бұрын
I love you dear mate. Brave warrior, Earth angel of mine❤ Angel's are riding by your side. Your my hero , if you stop, then so will I... ❤
@darranwilkins4648
@darranwilkins4648 Ай бұрын
mr cave you are awsome
@juliaandgiulie74pati72
@juliaandgiulie74pati72 Жыл бұрын
We lover you for the extraordinary Essence that lives from your (excuse for my english orribile)
@juliaandgiulie74pati72
@juliaandgiulie74pati72 Жыл бұрын
@@Maryjane-rr6yo sorry for my terrible english but the question Is " why and while Nick cave Is a extraordinary Person? I learn the message with fan ....and the rest..
@Theresa-lu2gl
@Theresa-lu2gl Жыл бұрын
it's great that you try English instead of not trying🖤🖤🖤
@juliaandgiulie74pati72
@juliaandgiulie74pati72 Жыл бұрын
@@Theresa-lu2gl grazie ❤️
@chadstokes6532
@chadstokes6532 Ай бұрын
I lost my 5yr old to a drunk driver.. we were walking on the sidewalk and a drunk driver jumped the curb and ran us over.. it killed Jayden instantly... I cannot even BEGIN to describe the pain... the emptiness you deal with every moment of everyday....
@CarmenLorenLaivar
@CarmenLorenLaivar 8 ай бұрын
que fuerte
@davidjacobs5853
@davidjacobs5853 2 ай бұрын
So brave,but true
@bethiaegeler9877
@bethiaegeler9877 10 ай бұрын
❤️
@TData-dq8gm
@TData-dq8gm 2 ай бұрын
🙏
@ellaspage9783
@ellaspage9783 5 ай бұрын
Lord rest his soul 🙏
@JamesALodge
@JamesALodge 2 ай бұрын
💜🙏
@YessBlack
@YessBlack 5 ай бұрын
And that's why Arthur Shelby is called Arthur in Peaky Blinders.
@patjryan8716
@patjryan8716 5 ай бұрын
Well done Nick
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