No More Frozen Pizzas: Patricia Jenkins v Arthur Jenkins

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Жыл бұрын

Patricia says her Arthur is stingy with his money and prioritizes his motorcycle before her. Arthur says his wife is a shopaholic and doesn’t trust her with a joint bank account!
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@2ABECKLES Жыл бұрын

She’s the true definition of it’s get finer with age cause ain’t no wayyyyyyyyy she’s 58😍

@rosahurd6620 Жыл бұрын

Babbbyy I was thinking the same. If gets finer with wine was a person.

@yemedemure414 Жыл бұрын

If you take of yourself it’s possible. Im almost 50 ❤❤

@keyeviondavis9647 Жыл бұрын

Look at how she walks down the hallway, yes she is those old joints are always a dead give- away, unless they are addressed in a massage that is combined with a Ben-Gay or Icy Hot, rubdown, Lidocaine patches are also wonderful for older adults with arthritic joints, I'm 57 and deal with very aggressive arthritis , so I know exactly what it looks like when , I see it but she is still a treasure, in spite of all that not to mention I'm so proud of her and the weight loss, that takes heart and dedication if he allows her too walk, he is a true fool , IMO 💯

@TheNyakaat Жыл бұрын

They both look younger than their ages

@getsomemoney2433 Жыл бұрын

That Black don't crack baby. He gone punching the air when somebody else making her happy.

@janashockley8263 Жыл бұрын

He ain’t proud of her, he is jealous of her 🤦🏽‍♀️

@gailsmith836 Жыл бұрын

Right when the judge says, you have to be proud of her, he didn’t look proud.

@shanicea.7100 Жыл бұрын

Literally

@blessed8351 Жыл бұрын

That same thought ran across my mind too

@marieperez3796 2 ай бұрын

👏👏👏. Said the same . Nails it . Jealous.

@HeauxlisticLux Жыл бұрын

He misses her low self esteem... she hasn't fully grown into herself. I hope she recognizes her worth before she wastes the rest of her days with this dust ball

@lifeofjazz6944 Жыл бұрын

Lol not dust ball 😂😂

@viviancoleman8109 Ай бұрын

@@lifeofjazz6944🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙏🏽🙏🏽

@lindawilliams7845 16 күн бұрын

😂😂😂

@danielleaustin2292 Жыл бұрын

The wife is SO gorgeous! I hope they can work out their issues. He needs to grow, not just exist in his marriage.

@rons.6683 Жыл бұрын

Yes I am on her team.

@malekkushimuzik3580 Жыл бұрын

She has a fake face on.

@nickallen4997 11 ай бұрын

Oh they are still together😂😂😂😂😂

@jo-annbastings Жыл бұрын

The lady is 58 years old?!? WOW!! She looks at least 15 to 20 years younger! She is gorgeous!

@opulence_prime Жыл бұрын

She sounds 68 and speaks in run on sentences.

@Matt_bechillin 8 ай бұрын

@@opulence_prime. Wowwww a woman hating on a woman

@sweetsweet81 Жыл бұрын

He was comfortable with her being heavier because she was content with whatever life he provided. Now that she's lost the weight and wants new adventures, he's not happy with it. He doesn't like change at all.

@yahira6928 Жыл бұрын

💯Agreed

@CJ-jx1xw Жыл бұрын

I thought the same thing when it was stated she was heavier. She was probably without a voice then and he was happy about that. I'm glad she has her voice.

@God-Love-Freedom Жыл бұрын

Most dudes know when a woman keeps her looks up, she has options. A lot of men don’t want to be challenged to improve in their relationship. But that’s how we become better people.

@Lynnette561 Жыл бұрын

He don’t want to fix things he wants everything to remain the same comfortable way it’s always been. He’s not gonna realize how serious she was until she leaves. Then it’s too late. Wake up people and put some importance on your partners happiness.

@MegaLadylove2012 Жыл бұрын

He’s a user too. Men like him really piss me off. Wat good is a man who hells very little financially. She hated in there wayyyyyyyyyy too long

@Barbiekell-86 Жыл бұрын

True

@user-jj6dj3hs9t Жыл бұрын

He better stop being so selfish before she leave him & level up! She is down to earth & beautiful

@jaesimpson425 Жыл бұрын

To be fair 90’s was best era to grow up in 😂

@NDB82 Жыл бұрын

AGREED!

@rosahurd6620 Жыл бұрын

Hell Yeah°°°!!!!

@Ms.Poullard Жыл бұрын

😆

@moodmusic2495 Жыл бұрын

Definitely

@terry4161 Жыл бұрын

The decade of no social media. Glad to be the last generation to live it.

@smittynumba9310 Жыл бұрын

He’s jealous of her simple & plain. He is stuck in his ways & instead of trying. To adapt with her like so many women end up doing for their men, he just wants to make her miserable and be difficult at every turn hoping she falls back to the past her! That woman looks amazing!!!

@zara198522 Жыл бұрын

Can't even concentrate on the case yet! I'm still trying to get past her age...58 years old! She looks good!!!

@saturnladee110 Жыл бұрын

He is all about himself and he wants her to be ok with that. I hope she finds a TRUE partner

@God-Love-Freedom Жыл бұрын

Me too.

@TruthBringer. Жыл бұрын

Lol

@kattiethomas4687 6 ай бұрын

Stuck in the past

@kattiethomas4687 6 ай бұрын

He has no learning experience

@kattiethomas4687 6 ай бұрын

This man is a narcissist 😢😢

@robbbietheim2096 Жыл бұрын

I had began having serious Judge Star withdrawal syndrome, welcome back "" Divorce Court"" ❤

@roxannecarter4201 Жыл бұрын

You are not alone.

@mfieldssogood Жыл бұрын

Me three 😢

@jallowjerry9452 Жыл бұрын

@@mfieldssogood You gorgeous. You available to be taken?

@cwyounger7306 Жыл бұрын

I keep coming back and looking for her episodes.

@brooklyndecember Жыл бұрын

Same here! And to think I snickered when they announced Star was taking the reigns. She's proving a lot of folks wrong. Glad to.see it!

@deborahsparks2199 Жыл бұрын

Any man that thinks paying just the mortgage and letting his wife be responsible for all the other bills, the kids and any emergencies and having to work two jobs to pay all that is so self centered: divorce his a$$ immediately.

@MegaLadylove2012 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely! This is major problem. She should have been divorced his azz

@yahira6928 Жыл бұрын

This is a great lesson, trying to keep the peace yet allowing a spouse to be selfish ain't gonna work long term

@God-Love-Freedom Жыл бұрын

On top of that he’s not a friend to her. He doesn’t want family time. He only wants to ride and eat unhealthy food.

@susiesolangesimpson2828 Жыл бұрын

I’m getting annoyed with these new episodes being posted once every couple of weeks on here. What happened to every day??????

@jaesimpson425 Жыл бұрын

Exactly!!! uploads were faithfully at 7est m-f. Then it went to whenever time of the day. Now once ever two weeks. Definitely the person who uploads Changed

@sharonshulby2445 Жыл бұрын

IMO, married couples need 3 accounts, his, hers and ours. She's Beautiful!

@greenqueen2673 Жыл бұрын

She's a young 58 and he's an old 58. I don't see them coming together.

@rickylwmsable Жыл бұрын

Man, Judge Star is an awesome judge and give very great advice!

@minae9935 Жыл бұрын

It seems like he’s gotten complacent. He better step it up before she gets to stepping

@God-Love-Freedom Жыл бұрын

He’s trying to control the power dynamic in the relationship. And he’s a lazy husband. Doesn’t work that much. Only wants to eat junk food. Doesn’t want to spend time with his family. Doesn’t want to pay for his child’s medical procedure.

@islandgirlruby2750 Жыл бұрын

58 ain’t never looked so good

@biblosantral Жыл бұрын

Here on this show was where I learned that every 7 years ppl change for better or worse, I think the courthouse should have married folks come back every 7 years and do an exam to determine if they should continue their union or revoke it, I'm almost 2 years in and it feels like 20 years what I've learned so far is just because you're married it don't mean you're gonna love each other everyday for the rest of your life, you may find it to be a struggle sometimes to even like each other but what's always gonna motivate you to stay is the values that each person brings into each other's life.

@derriqueknowles9068 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this! Newly married as well and I have actually been stressing about this topic.

@biblosantral Жыл бұрын

@@derriqueknowles9068 I think we go into marriage thinking we're going to love each other faithfully everyday, and that emotions needs to exist every second in order to continue the union but I've found that it's not true, values are priorities in every relationship because at the end they will stay but if you feel hate for the person by all means you should part ways but there will be days but just know stepping outside your marriage is never a solution, surely your values will depreciate because it took time for your spouse to know and appreciate you. Be encourage

@APC-yr5fi Жыл бұрын

She has outgrown him..thats all..she healed..found herself and ready to fly..

@anrarmstr Жыл бұрын

That's a court room full of FIIIIINNNNNEEEEEEEE 60 year old people 😍🥰💅

@NRigsby7 Жыл бұрын

She looks good at 58. 👌🏾 Wild that they are the same age.

@I2AmUS Жыл бұрын

History has not been kind to the husband. He looks more like her daddy.

@selfishgirlsgofirst Жыл бұрын

I thought he was her grandaddy 🤭🤣🤣

@KeshaNotKaoir Жыл бұрын

She ain’t going nowhere and neither is he. They are too precious ❤

@sereneamani1713 Жыл бұрын

80 people liked your comment. I don't understand it. The comment "too precious". She's grown, he hasn't. He needs to make effort to educate himself. They may do like a lot couples I've witnessed. The kids will be gone and they'll live separate lives within the same house. It works for many. I don't believe in divorce except on scriptural grounds (adultery). Happiness counts also.

@KeshaNotKaoir Жыл бұрын

@@sereneamani1713 k 🤷🏽‍♀️

@ronnimartin7033 11 ай бұрын

With all due respect, I disagree. Wasn't nothing precious about this case. He was ridiculous and self-serving. If they stay together, it's because he's changed. And he isn't willing to do that!

@KeshaNotKaoir 11 ай бұрын

@@ronnimartin7033 ok 🤷🏽‍♀️

@keyeviondavis9647 Жыл бұрын

Whenever an elderly gentleman, is trying to keep a woman out of the loop, on money issues, that way, it is normally because, he may have a pretty young thing somewhere, he maybe living a double-life with, she is right to be very concerned about that, besides he has no ambition to grow in life, she has, and for him to think, she is too old for another man to find that, worthy of pursuing, IS INSANE, YOU BETTER WAKE UP QUICK, OLD MAN, BECAUSE, MEN WOULD BE LINED UP AROUND THE BLOCK, AND I WOULD BE ATTEMPTING TO BE FIRST, 😡

@cymbolichuman433 Жыл бұрын

Some people I know can't get out of the 80's. They even play the same TV show they showed you 10 years ago. As an older person, I strive to be up to date so I can relate to kids and grandkids.

@roslynhawkins1475 Жыл бұрын

I'm 45 and I'm 80's forever!!

@d820m Жыл бұрын

Hell, 80's music was a heck of a lot better than the crap posing as "music" today

@roslynhawkins1475 Жыл бұрын

@@d820m 10000% agree. I don't listen to any music made after 1989.

@d820m Жыл бұрын

@@roslynhawkins1475 heck, i've gone back to listening to old blues, early R&B, Rockabilly, Elvis and classic soul

@roslynhawkins1475 Жыл бұрын

@d820m I'm with you on that too. I love the 50's, 60's and 70's as well...everything from doo wop to disco. Real music never dies. There's nothing like hearing a song where you recognize the artist's voice because everyone had their own unique voice and style and the best part? No autotune and the songs are enduring, understandable and never glorified sex, violence and other nonsense like this manufactured crap put out these days.

@hazelmckoy4327 Жыл бұрын

They just need to communicate. They are a cute couple. He’s just set in his ways.

@beejackson2713 Жыл бұрын

Honestly, he was stuck on stupid! Every time he opened his mouth it was always what he wanted and I. He must be crazy, cuz she looks like she could stop traffic on the 405 during rush hour in Los Angeles. He better wakes the heck up! Selfish‼️

@welchless Жыл бұрын

Wrong judgment. Just because you're older, have kids, and been together for 2 decades (and the hubby gives a sweet, witty remark) doesn't mean she has to settle. With everything that was said in court, she should move on, and I hope she does. She may hurt for a little bit and go through a plethora of emotions, but I think she would come out of it stronger and meet someone who is as adventurous and loving as she is. As Judge Faith said, "Sis, don't settle."

@ManiAnger Жыл бұрын

Thank goodness she doesn’t look like her struggle. I hope she finds her happiness because she looks GREAT!

@MomsSelfReliance Жыл бұрын

Judge Star🌟🌹 is amazing she could give great mom advice to a daughter or son,you look stunning... I love this show!🌟

@malekabayoumdi2918 Жыл бұрын

"you know you love me". Very selfish and arrogant ! Had one like that, and he didn't think I can leave him. But I sure did bounce despite the pain

@banjo898 Жыл бұрын

Family unit is also a business unit. In our household we discussed who was best managing the money and then made joint accounts for managing our home. You have to communicate and work together to make a successful home and marriage. Married 46 years.

@ybshadyii4375 Жыл бұрын

Welcome Back Mrs. 🌟 Star.....

@MrsRens-LionessofJudah Жыл бұрын

As much as they have their issues, it is not grounds for divorce. They should not be taking each other for granted. She does have some valid points but her using 'my home' said she has some control issues.

@TruthBringer. Жыл бұрын

Exactly, you can't threaten divorce because a person doesn't want to be active like you. Ultimatums get you out the door with me real quick.

@RacieRain Жыл бұрын

Wow! She looks amazing

@tawnyt26 Жыл бұрын

20 years & y'all don't have that figured out, that should have been the first thing discussed before you get married.

@omiadi7485 Жыл бұрын

“It’s always your responsibility for the kids.” What in the world?

@adamskann Жыл бұрын

Baton Rougeeeee!!?? He ain’t changing 😂😂

@Rooted_Locs Жыл бұрын

58 aint even that old...but the rate at which these two speak is as if they're in the late 80s

@valm487 Жыл бұрын

She looks more like 38 instead of 58. She is beautiful!!!

@JazzyJeffRealTalk Жыл бұрын

I love Judge star! Lol she just overruled the plaintiff signing divorce papers because she knew she wasn’t going anywhere lol😂

@kukuakukua Жыл бұрын

Mr. Jenkins is just comfortable in his own world. Sometimes when people have been together for too long they tend to low key take each other for granted. They are two beautiful people who just need to put some spark back in their relationship

@keyeviondavis9647 Жыл бұрын

Alot of what you say makes huge sense, so I see you,and I hope you see me, but you overlooked, one important element in your, intelligent assessment on this couple, the characteristics of him, and the motorcycle, her and the weight loss, are both screaming mid-life crisis, can you see it , like I can

@kukuakukua Жыл бұрын

@@keyeviondavis9647 hahahahaha you are very right, good analysis . She is fixated on her weight and healthy diet ( not a bad thing), at 58, probably the first she's felt sexy and beautiful in a long time. See how she went from I want a divorce to beaming with smile when her husband said something flattering? In his 60's, he is equally fixated on motocycle, probably thats how he feels cool and guy guy😃 ( also not a bad thing). Definetely midlife crises. Their relation has become second fiddle.

@Zz_topp469 8 ай бұрын

Yo she called this man Mr. Krabbs 🤣🤣

@chanelhopeful5336 Жыл бұрын

He seems like he’s jealous of his wife, I hope she drops him n finds better

@skb2108 Жыл бұрын

I have to say, they’re both good-looking for almost 60.

@youngkid518 Жыл бұрын

I pray that I don’t get stuck in my ways because I understand it can happen to us men at times.

@scorpio3390 Жыл бұрын

How is she even more than 40??!! Stunning

@cedricliggins7528 Жыл бұрын

She looks great to be 58 years old

@God-Love-Freedom Жыл бұрын

Married for 26? She looks 26!! I need to get my life together…

@jennevamadison3803 Жыл бұрын

Make up and lace fronts do strange things.

@God-Love-Freedom Жыл бұрын

@@jennevamadison3803 Makeup in most cases makes women look older. Prettier yes, but older. Wigs don’t make women’s faces look younger. School is important.

@veevee4461 6 ай бұрын

@@jennevamadison3803 LOOL

@justtracy7175 Жыл бұрын

Their problems can be fixed. This is not worth a divorce. 26 years of marriage girl BYE!!!🤦🏾‍♀️ They can work that out!! I hope they work it out.🙏🏾

@kerrywhite5253 Жыл бұрын

It takes 2 to work it out. Too many people place HISTORY OVER HAPPINESS. She's supposed to suffer just because of the time. That's settling. Everyone has different limits.

@mariajon6423 Жыл бұрын

@@kerrywhite5253 100% who want to die unhappy for 26 damn years smh

@kimaleycreese28 Жыл бұрын

26 years don't mean nothing. Little problems become big problems

@fournomore Жыл бұрын

Mrs. Jenkins is THE prime example of you have to step out of your comfort zone to grow but he doesn’t want to even stick his big toe over his comfort zone and would be okay not doing so for the remainder of his years. It seems like he’s holding her back not just a little, but much more than she even realizes, from experiencing so many things and growing as a woman. It makes me sad for her. For them. I don’t think he doesn’t love her, I just think he is the epitome of a stick in the mud… or even in the cement 😅 This couple is the one that would divorce and then when he finally realizes it all, if she hasn’t moved on, would get re-married!!

@khaysugah85 Жыл бұрын

He doesn’t treasure her and he has no spark for life

@debfletcherwins6488 Ай бұрын

But he rides a motorcycle.

@bevonyoutubetv4333 Жыл бұрын

A motorcycle 🏍️🏍️ is important but he should spend time with family and give her more money

@gailsmith836 Жыл бұрын

I feel like it’s become too important.

@frankamye4251 Жыл бұрын

Naaaah! She's fine for her age but won't go nowhere. Old brother knows she might be rebellious but tired as hell.😂😂😂

@izinspired7455 Жыл бұрын

They both look really good for their age

@sexymama1966 Жыл бұрын

February sweeps... Divorce Court is back on!

@ronnimartin7033 11 ай бұрын

He isn't going to change. Even JStar says that when people show you who they are believe them.

@angelphilbert Жыл бұрын

She has made a lot of young women check their looks. She is the theory and practical behind "Black don't crack."

@bevybabydoll9414 Ай бұрын

HE'S JEALOUS AS HELL! TRYING TO SABOTAGE HER! INSECURE AND WANT HER TO BE UNHAPPY, UNHEALTHY AND STUCK. MOVE ON SIS

@blackout9519 Жыл бұрын

If she doesn't want him - then whatever lol lol

@ANGELAKCLAY Жыл бұрын

BOY BYE

@bevonyoutubetv4333 Жыл бұрын

I agree account should be separate all the time join account is a no no not in theses day and age

@catherinewhitman8333 3 ай бұрын

why cant they compromise???? No relationship ends up well when you make everyone do everything your way!! She sounds VERY controlling!

@AntwanTaylor-ju1ho 29 күн бұрын

The Lady And MC Lyte Look Alike And I Thought She Was A Youngster

@browngoddess5340 Жыл бұрын

I commend her on her weightloss. If she let herself go and stop trying he would be in there complaining that she is lazy. He need to stop acting like a great grandpa and put her on the back of that motorcycle and have fun.

@MiguelDLewis Жыл бұрын

1 Timothy 5:8 says, "if any provide not for his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel." All he needs to do is provide for his wife and kids even if it means sacrificing his motorcycle. Judge Star said it perfectly. The absolute worst thing a man can do is have his wife provide for him financially.

@doubled5927 Жыл бұрын

Mrs Jenkins ready to be single so she can mingle😂. She sounds reasonable, I hope everything works out for them

@keith7189 Жыл бұрын

Wow no yepping at the top of their lungs, no frowning, no veins at the forehead. They deserve this marriage Mr Jenkins just need to compromise and rearrange his priorities

@oohjazzydiva Жыл бұрын

The wife is gorgeous, a man will snap her up real quick. The husband better get it together before it's too late.

@highlander666 Жыл бұрын

I have a problem with him calling a motorcycle a "motorbike"😅

@RainWalking Жыл бұрын

She claims she is innocent and then buy buys buys more clothes over the years. Collects them, instead of giving away what she does not wear.

@God-Love-Freedom Жыл бұрын

She has to buy new clothes after losing all that weight. Each 15-20 pounds increments lost = new clothes. Why is that so hard to understand? Doesn’t he want a pretty wife?

@RainWalking Жыл бұрын

@@God-Love-Freedom a fair point and then I ask this. Seeing what you say is true. Then why keep clothes that do not fit then? Instead of giving them to someone else. Can you explain that?

@God-Love-Freedom Жыл бұрын

@@RainWalking Where in the video did it say she kept her obese-sized clothes?

@RainWalking Жыл бұрын

@@God-Love-Freedom she has the clothes she brought overtime. So that is before and after her change. Or you making out that she brought them all after her weight loss? If so, she spends a lot of money on clothes.

@God-Love-Freedom Жыл бұрын

@@RainWalking Where in the video did it say she still had her obese-sized clothes. I listened again and couldn’t find it.

@lindawilliams7845 16 күн бұрын

She is proof its gets greater later. Girl go live your best life

@timothyferrell4347 Жыл бұрын

She took them papers 😂😂😂 18:41

@ameegbotee6837 Жыл бұрын

I love me some Judge Star🤗

@jeanettematthews7677 Жыл бұрын

He better chill,,, she looks good! she gonna get her a new man :)

@adrianajimenez4342 Жыл бұрын

1996 I was in the college swim team, good times! 🏊‍♀️

@orlandomorales1881 Жыл бұрын

If I was him, I'd divorced that woman

@nickallen4997 11 ай бұрын

That's my parents lmao 😂😂😂😂

@dalagamble3164 Жыл бұрын

The wife is so gorgeous.

@brendagiller1920 17 күн бұрын

Ohh no he's not right he needs to pay half on all bills except for their own car payment

@ginalynpinero1605 Жыл бұрын

Hey Judge Star watching u here in the Philippines🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@blackout9519 Жыл бұрын

Hey Philippines

@daimonmarioperez9501 Жыл бұрын

Ms. Jones was absolutely correct. The wife just wants to see some positive change in the marriage. For better, not for the worse. At this point Homie. It's cheaper to keep her ...

@whatsthetruth_review Жыл бұрын

All the hiccups in their marriage isn't his fault. I do agree that after she lost all that weight her ego got really big and now she wants to leave him over any little inconvenience or disagreement. They both need to be more understanding and be willing to put in more effort in creating a harmonious relationship with each other.

@Christy__M Жыл бұрын

Yes, someone else who gets it!

@charlesanderson8335 Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@jeffmiller9798 Жыл бұрын

Facts

@gailsmith836 Жыл бұрын

I don’t think she’s gotten a big ego. She cares about herself and her happiness. She wants him to be happy with her but he’s stuck in his ways.

@lisaflagg3922 Жыл бұрын

Lady leave that good man alone. He aint messing around. Just do you

@wa6137 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations to Mrs Jenkins for making a healthier life choice!!!😊😊😊👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿As for Mr Jenkins he is a country bumpkin and he was happy when she was overweight. Mrs Jenkins run fast as you can Mr Jenkins is ignorant and he will not change!!!!!😡🤬🤬😡

@TruthBringer. Жыл бұрын

He need to let her go, because she can't threaten with divorce to get things her way. They growing apart, find someone that like you how you are.

@minkki5656 Жыл бұрын

I just don't think what she said warranted a divorce. I could be wrong. They both look good. If he would just sit down with her and communicate, and understand her more better, hopefully their marriage can be saved. Good luck to them.

@gailsmith836 Жыл бұрын

He could be frustrating. He’s difficult and seems to like being in his own world.

@user-so6qh1ou9o 8 ай бұрын

As someone who recently started riding a motorcycle, I can say that it definitely occupies a lot of your thoughts and desires. I’ll be hanging out with my friends and will be thinking “ damn I could be riding my bike instead.” But to counter that: 1) I just started riding so I’m in the honeymoon stage but he’s been riding for 7 years; and 2) I’m single with no kids so I can obsess over riding unlike him.