Loving Your Spouse | ANDY STANLEY

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6 жыл бұрын

Happy couples decide they owe each other everything but are owed nothing in return. But that requires effort. Every married person makes a choice every day. That choice feels more like a reaction, so most people don’t think they have a choice at all. But they do. Happy couples make the happy choice.
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@maxygraphicdesignsenterpri6650 6 жыл бұрын

Andy's Teachings are always practical. thanks a lot.

@mrdandrea 6 жыл бұрын

I’ve read that only about 8 to 12% of married couples have elevated to this master level of a love relationship, whereby each spouse is perpetually deferring to the other’s needs, hopes, and desires.

@athensf 6 жыл бұрын

What if you see the other person having an affair, physically abuse ... etc. I can't see how 'Believe in the Best' could be the best policy, could it? These are extreme examples, but i want to know where to draw the line.

@TheDutchCODGOD 6 жыл бұрын

This applies to the areas of doubt. Example: If you walk in on a spouse who is recovering alcoholic, drinking alcohol.... you don't ignore it. Its evident there is a problem and guardrails must go up (see their guardrails series, GREAT STUFF!). But moving forward, you need to choose to believe that they can recover, and that this was the last time! Without that choose to believe, the spouse will most likely FEEL your doubt through reflected actions, and this in turn can make it more difficult for them to actually get out from under it.