I was abused. Broken collar bone and ribs. Black eyes and bruises all over. All those heal but the hurtful words never go away.
@user-yq7yg1lp7w8 ай бұрын
I definately can relate to this comment! 24/7 "fucking worthless bitch or cunt" as I supported him 100%. He "borrowed th3 money -$15000+ from me. I made side by side payments for 7 months... bought every bit of food snuff beer and his other bad habits. His clothes, blankets and sheets and towels and washcloths. All baby and cleaning wipes paper plates bowls silverware cups cooking items etc I paid for shingles and tar paper to roof the building as the ceiling leaks and bleach to kill the black mold in the walls the ceiling attic etc new waterproof flooring and paint and tons of cleaning supplies. I paid for all his fuel for farming and logging and paid 1269.00 for a logging permit I paid for EVERYTHING... and he has not paid for a single can of pop for me. This was supposed to ALL be a loan... I have yet to see any sort of attempt to pay me back and it's been a year. I was in a leg cast and broken finger from abuse. Have completely destroyed 2 pairs of prescription glasses that were smashed into my face then stomped on on the floorr... he drilled into my head that Noone likes me including any of his friends, my friends and especially my own family. An entire 15 months of this and he makes me want to just die. But he won't win. In 3 weeks I'm leaving for Las Vegas without him. He won't get another penny out of me... even if his life depends on it! I'm just DONE!!!
@CatherineLawe7 ай бұрын
I feel this I almost died a month ago
@Sammy-br3rn6 ай бұрын
You are important
@user-js6qf5up6s5 ай бұрын
How Are U all doing today? I Hope that you all Are okay . Remember that you have the power to heal! ❤ i believe everyone deserves love . Peace be with U all May the universe bless U all
@staceymacdonald20303 ай бұрын
Your right I hope your okay now
@samannthamathews15778 ай бұрын
3 years ago I went though domestic violence, I was bashed and lost my kids in my care still fighting them to come home I hate it
@cognitiveconnectionss8 ай бұрын
I’ll be keeping you in my prayers I’m so sorry your going through that, i can relate 😔
@Cherrybombbullies8 ай бұрын
❤
@flyflyaway20247 ай бұрын
I'm a survivor of DV with diagnosed PTSD. Thank you for this song its beautiful and resignates so much! I could listen to it all day ❤ #id rather have nobody then someone like you! Amen 🙏 1year out and will happily be on my own forever
@Uraveragepersonwithtics7 ай бұрын
I was abused when I was 9 by my ex. He always hit me and nearly broke my arm. I always had bruises up and down my body from him. I no longer talk to him anymore and when I do its just texting now. I'm glad to finally have a song I can relate to❤ ty
@emilybeck59439 ай бұрын
Never going back amen 🙏 I was In abuse relationship 9 years ago. God save me!! God is good 🙏 🙏🙏🙏 never going back to old me god broke those chains. Pray for anyone in that struggle have hope hang on god change your life he did with mine!! All glory goes to you god amen 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏🪽🪽🪽
@hychuofficial3379 ай бұрын
God is so good, isn't he? I'm proud of you Woman of God that you've made it this far. God bless you and your journey!! 🙏🙏✝️
@emilybeck59439 ай бұрын
Yes our god is good🙌
@Bigweiner19 ай бұрын
Amen
@lindathao63038 ай бұрын
@@hychuofficial337❤this so deep
@lalapena7668 ай бұрын
Thank you for this song i was a victim of domestic violence but i am now a survivor i will never go back
@hychuofficial3378 ай бұрын
Amen! To God be the glory 🙏
@lucyellard39348 ай бұрын
Me I am a surveyor to. Always remember that you are beautiful and amazing and always remember your worth. 😊❤
@lucyellard39348 ай бұрын
Its takes so much strength to get over being in a abused relationship. Sometimes it's hard to get away from the one that thinks it's OK to put his hands on a woman. Unless you have Bern through something like that then NO ONE WONT EVER UNDERSTAND OR NO HOW IT FEELS TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP RIP FOR THE WOMAN THAT DIDT THAT WERE KILLED BY A BF OR HUSBAND❤❤❤❤
@melaniemoore3148 ай бұрын
I relate to this so much. This is my story. I told my husband the same exact things you say in this song. I found it because my husband sent it to me. He was on the run from the law because I finally called them last Friday. It hasn't even been a week. I can still feel the bruises he left last Friday. They haven't healed yet. He was running to Texas and a perfect stranger showed him this song and disappeared. He showed it to me. I've had it on repeat all day. Thank you. You hit the nail right on the head with this song.
@queentasha53648 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. I was in a 5yr relationship that was domestic violence to me and his own child and SA to me. As a survivor I will never go back or put me or my child though that ever again. I am stronger now than I was then but I pray every day my daughter doesn't go through this
@veroniquevella34907 ай бұрын
This is relatable and thank you for raising some awareness, we need this song for more awareness. I've been a victim for 9 months started when i was 17 yrs till 18yrs. When even my family tried to make me aware that he is a bad guy but i ignored since i 'loved him' (since thats not love by treating me like that since probably I was blinded by love ) but thankfully I am with my family, and taking care for my health.❤❤❤❤❤❤
@MartinSteenBurmeister-rn3id8 ай бұрын
Hard lesson to learn, but i am never gonna sacrifice my health and love, cause someone cant love and wants alot of attention outside the relationship. Selflove, selfrespect and boundaries to toxic people.
@user-fd8lx5cx6n9 ай бұрын
I go through emotional abuse where everything is my fault
@hychuofficial3379 ай бұрын
I would to pray for you brother! Please reach out @Hy_chu_official
@Liz_knowsbest229 ай бұрын
As do I, but it's life. We just have to learn to live day by day and find our own happiness within ourselves
@hychuofficial3378 ай бұрын
There is healing, I know it's tough sometimes. Please get into contact with me on instagram @Hy_chu_official
@lucyellard39348 ай бұрын
Always remember your worth xxx
@user-uq9mt1tp9h8 ай бұрын
I feel there
@Floridahomegrowngirl8 ай бұрын
Thank you for the song one of my friends sent it to me awhile back and I just listened to it and honestly I have been through domestic abuse bruises, cuts and even nearly lost my life trying to do the right thing when I was with my abuser
@hychuofficial3378 ай бұрын
I'm so proud of you for holding on. I'm sorry you were treated wrong... more proof as to why God is the only one that can truly love you unconditionally 🙏 @Hy_chu_official we would love you to pray with you, or be your encouragement. God bless you queen
@analicialachance508 ай бұрын
Feel u so much I didn't think I would make it out alive but I did and I'm so thankful over 3 years free now my x destroyed everything about the person I once was still putting fragments back together but I'm so proud of the woman I am today struggle with ptsd and all the trauma I went through but every day I keep going I'm sorry you or anyone had to go through that it's a long road to come back from just know your life matters everything that came out of there mouth was a lie and u will make it through u are a warrior
@Floridahomegrowngirl8 ай бұрын
@@hychuofficial337 I'd greatly appreciate it thank you rn I actually help others who have been through what I have here where I'm at
@Floridahomegrowngirl8 ай бұрын
@@analicialachance50 no one deserves it and I'm glad you have come so far and I would also like to thank you for the encouraging words I appreciate it ☺️ and I have ptsd as well as anxiety and major depressive disorder from everything that happened to me and despite it I'm trying to help others here in my hometown as well as others around the world
@rosewright61988 ай бұрын
Wow. I just found you after listening to Jaktekz new song. I've felt that. Incredible.
@suevrabel2228 ай бұрын
It's about time someone created a song like this❤❤❤
@hychuofficial3378 ай бұрын
Tired of the truth not being told! 💯🫶🙏
@angelwolf39208 ай бұрын
@@hychuofficial337 you should team up Sky Dxddy.....
@sinkingslowlywithasmile8 ай бұрын
Rabbit hole brought me here and im glad. New sub. Thank you from a Survivor
@sashachizzoni4135 ай бұрын
I'm a domestic violence survivor of 17 years I love this song ❤❤❤
@ShelbyRoberts-n4tАй бұрын
This is the first time I heard the song. It hit me hard.
@athenasimmers19867 ай бұрын
Yeah… 😞💔 so hard to say goodbye…😢
@tonymarinotm198 ай бұрын
It's easier said than done but if we expect God to forgive us can we need to forgive each other because the devil wants us to hate and to live with that resentment to the day that we die and Fry. So we need to let go and let God. Easier said than done. LET GO AND LET GOD!
@Luvs19718 ай бұрын
Amen .. I’m blessed thank you for letting me go there are different types of abusive, he cheated , lied .. Freedom I have now .. 🙏
@meganfunk34057 ай бұрын
I was abused by my baby daddy and it was constant pain I still deal with flashbacks and nightmares on a daily and nightly basis
@hychuofficial3377 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry you went through this. I encourage you to follow us and be apart of our community @Hy_chu_official We love you, and no matter what you went through. God loves you and wants to build a relationship with you 🙏
@lisastanley65018 ай бұрын
Ive been thier and always went back i was yong and stupid then but the last time i said i never go back and i didy he was a liser and abuser 😢 thank u this is great
@heatherlaymon81488 ай бұрын
I just pray truth be said not hald back and respected and worth as much as I know I am
@j.young.official10 ай бұрын
Awesome message 🙏🏼🙌🏼 and of course love the song itself
@natashamorrow16438 ай бұрын
Great song
@MikaelaJoArroyo8 ай бұрын
Thank you for this 🖤
@missybair73285 ай бұрын
Love this!!
@user-wl2bz3qh4j8 ай бұрын
Great song thank you
@OhhMyLena4 ай бұрын
damn... when a song hits home...
@staceymacdonald20305 ай бұрын
This song is accurate it gets worse the longer you stay and it can be hard to leave because you feel your heart is with that person it's called having a trauma bond
@AlysaMarieDawson-bs3zu8 ай бұрын
I really needed this song, thank you
@hychuofficial3378 ай бұрын
To God be the glory fr 🙏🙏
@janinetill812910 ай бұрын
Yes, keep sharing and keep the word going 👍
@whitneykedzierski26059 ай бұрын
The lyrics to this are amazing
@Jessie-xb6jp8 ай бұрын
I wasn't only in a physically abusive relationship it was also mentally and emotionally as a freshman in highschool
@hychuofficial3378 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry. That's tough queen. Please follow me @Hy_chu_official
@hychuofficial3378 ай бұрын
We would love to support you and pray with you! God wanted you to see this for a reason. Let him heal your heart
@user-oc3or2ow6x4 күн бұрын
I love how you involve God
@mrpln81939 ай бұрын
Keep sharing
@traceyrokahr78378 ай бұрын
I am proud person become 12 years on from dv marriage my life is best it can be without him God save my life god 🙏 is amazing amen
@kikigoodworth68889 ай бұрын
Domestic is not only hitting but grab or sexual abuse. Thank you for sharing. My exes where physical abusive
@hychuofficial3379 ай бұрын
I'm sorry for the experience queen. I pray complete healing sis. Thank u for sharing and being bold 🙏
@kikigoodworth68889 ай бұрын
@@hychuofficial337 thank you. God gave me a great man.
@kikigoodworth68889 ай бұрын
@@hychuofficial337 I have severe moderate carpal tunnel. I am 24 years old
@skylerskaggs98058 ай бұрын
I needed this and Narcist song by that one lady 💔
@skylerskaggs98058 ай бұрын
Words,some hands and controling
@lisabatty14738 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️
@RecklessQueen18 ай бұрын
I was in abusive relationship of 5 years with my children's dad he kept on saying sorry, i finally got out of it but all the triggers come back of it
@monster14289 ай бұрын
Just left a domestic situation. Always told myself he wouls never hit me. But the day came and i asked dor a divorce because i was done with him controlling my every move and all the money that came in and having to ask if i could do something or go somewhere and he hit me. I was to stunned to do anything. Now im sittinf her questioning if i had made the right choice to have the cops called and charges pressed or the divorce.
@hychuofficial3379 ай бұрын
Hey sis! I would love to pray with you and support you with my team during this time! Dm @Hy_chu_official
@AimeeWeaver9 ай бұрын
Never going back
@patriciawilliamson6938 ай бұрын
I've lost count of all the domestic violence refuges I've been in broken bones mind and soul 😢
@lisa.836 ай бұрын
❤
@melissacyr87318 ай бұрын
Survivvor 2 the fullest -n- those words are so true😢
@stephenatkinson13309 ай бұрын
Male victim here 10 years ago now and still struggling to carry on daily. Just feel down 24/7 tbh.
@hychuofficial3379 ай бұрын
I was there as well, brother. I would love to talk to you. Follow my Instagram and we'll talk, brother. Love you, there is healing for you, let's process some things 🙏 Hy_chu_official
@Vatosound8 ай бұрын
thats clean man. keep going G
@josephromano91189 ай бұрын
My hole live I've been abused abusive left out of family friends kids life's time you don't get back or have no time to do things with never take things for granted God blessed 3:13
@lahnlg8 ай бұрын
🙏🏽💯 20 years!! And it's Not Just Physical abuse!! To all Ladies who STAND THEIR GROUND, I praise you. But let's be honest here, Women can be abusing Men, maybe not as bad but if she isn't physically abusing him, she is bringing him to his lowest. I am not here for any agree to disagree replies. I'm stating the facts.
@ZtlalsangluraSanglura10 ай бұрын
👍👍👍👍
@Plantladytiff8 ай бұрын
I was abused. He abused his ex wife and now me… and both of us were the “crazy ones”
@staceygrainger76888 ай бұрын
Im a survivor i was 17 now im 28 and still suffer i just cant trust any guy because of what he did to me I'm lucky to get away but unfortunately im sure our daughter will ask questions i hate my body because of him 11 years down line now suffer with severe anxiety and severe depression all because of him but i was made out to be a liar even when i had all the proof joys of living where i am police did nothing 😞
@hychuofficial3377 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry for what you went through. Unfortunately, there are a lot of disrespectful men out there. Follow us on Instagram and be a part of healing @Hy_chu_official. God desires to heal your heart and build a close relationship with you. He loves you so much and would never hurt you 🙏🫶
@Madison01936 ай бұрын
the justice system might as well rename themselves the injustice system also the police here did nothing either (I don't have a partner but both my parents are Psychopaths)
@Madison01936 ай бұрын
my dad is a Psychopath, my mother is a Covert Narcissist Psychopath
@staceygrainger76886 ай бұрын
@Madison0193 honestly they came out and saw the damage he did to me and they went and saw him he admitted to the lot and he didn't get arrested he got away with it all my mum wanted to kill him but i told her to leave it with the police but clearly i was wrong to believe they'd do anything 😔
@Madison01936 ай бұрын
@@staceygrainger7688 Wow he admitted to what he did? And still got away? Psychopaths defend other Psychopaths FR, those cops should be fired
@kristieryan42578 ай бұрын
I was abused mentally and physically in front of my kids when they were small busted eyes , stabbed, choked, busted nose and he cheated on me all the time
@hychuofficial3377 ай бұрын
So sorry that you went through that. God truly loves you and wants to have a relationship with you. ❤ I pray you're in a better position now. And if you're not, we're always here to support and encourage you. Follow us on Instagram or reach out to us @Hy_chu_official
@Angelabanks19758 ай бұрын
Yeah me to
@LouFish-cf1yy8 ай бұрын
ReLate 😢
@kaitlincox97143 ай бұрын
😢
@user-fd8lx5cx6n9 ай бұрын
Tells all his family im a bad person but im not i literally just talk and im in the wrong
@hychuofficial3379 ай бұрын
There is healing sis! Follow me @Hy_chu_official
@RebeccaLaurent-jb7es8 ай бұрын
I just got away from physical mental and emotional abuse almost 2 years ago with my kids we kicked him out
@angiesnow11929 ай бұрын
....time after time
@heathermiller29159 ай бұрын
When will it stop,why do we want whats hurts us the most . .just daydreaming about how it shouldve been .missing what we never had
@terafeagans75998 ай бұрын
I keep asking myself this everyday. I start to wonder if it's not love anymore but obsessive want or need to be with that person.
@terafeagans75998 ай бұрын
Especially with kids involved.
@jensden64488 ай бұрын
😔
@AngelOlivo-yv3kl8 ай бұрын
Two years ago I went thru back back dv from two different guy now I'm happy engaged ready for loved knowing he knows I want love b he patient with me
@katelynbrown-nn1hz9 ай бұрын
Been in a abuse relationship it took my lil boy ..
@zchronic55518 ай бұрын
I'm currently serving probation for beening a domestic violent partner when I got caught up they nailed me with assault with weapon felony can carry 21 & a half years in state pin but got deferred sentence and 3 years on probation with no mess ups than I can get off at a year and a half I'm almost at my two year mark I got almost a year left I did mess up again by doing drugs and drinking on probation so I have to serve the whole three years. If I mess up anymore I go to state pin
@zchronic55518 ай бұрын
I originally caught the charge because I was drinking and doing drugs
@hychuofficial3378 ай бұрын
Hit me up brotha! God loves u, I'm grateful your not booked the rest of your life. There is forgiveness fam. Me and my team would love to pray with u 🙏 909-677-3187 @Hy_chu_official
@heatherlaymon81488 ай бұрын
I'd rather be hit,then memional torment and I'd rather someone fight for me with me over me and feel like someone will ever love me as much as I do them unconditional but I know I have that with my kids or at least I hope so at least them and my family
@user-ft7re8ex4w6 ай бұрын
I'm in abusive relationship he so controlling toward me
@joecloutier87348 ай бұрын
I was by my dad but his house so I was blamed for reacting
@Stardancer778 ай бұрын
Dealing with PTSD because of abuse honestly i dont want to wake up tomorrow i have so many scars physical and mental i just want to die in my sleep cos then its not my fault for leaving mum
@krystalleonard67338 ай бұрын
I feel the same way but you have to fight! Don’t let them do this to you! I know it’s hard. I have the physical and mental scars too but we can get back to a happier self and learn to love ourself again. Please reach out for help! Too many lives are lost because of suicide and lack of self worth. You mean more to people than you realize. We are not a burden we are human and need help finding ourselves again. There are people who care you just have to look and ask for help ❤
@hychuofficial3378 ай бұрын
Please contact me! Queen, you are worth so much. I know it's a tough season. But please know it's not forever. You are needed here. God truly loves you, give me a call or follow me. Me and my team would love to pray with you 🙏🫶 909-677-3187 @Hy_chu_official
@Stardancer778 ай бұрын
@hychuofficial337 God abandoned me a long time ago im happy that u still have God in ur life but for me God is gone.
@patriciawilliamson6938 ай бұрын
had 2 baby's beat out of me that I had to watch suffer and die then had to Bury 😢
@bigred__tee10499 ай бұрын
Collab
@hychuofficial3379 ай бұрын
Follow me @Hy_chu_official
@Tayia-zs8oj8 ай бұрын
31 days
@hychuofficial3378 ай бұрын
???
@Tayia-zs8oj8 ай бұрын
@hychuofficial337 31 days since I left my abuser well now 32