You did a great job, grandma. I'm glad you stand up to defend yourself.

Too many nyabs forget that they also have a mother they love very much. Your MIL may not be YOUR mother but she is your spouse's & your in law's mother.

Tus niam pog no ua tau zoo kawg ..

Your daughter in law is like that because your son allowed her to do it. Your son is to blame also. But I'm happy you stood your ground. I'm sorry you had to endure what you did, I could never imagine hurting my mother in law.

My advice to the younger generation is ...... Once you are married, move out. Stop living with your parents. Now that's a responsible grown up person. The reason why you're married is to start a new marriage journey together. And if you chose to have kid(s), take care of your own kid(s), put your kid(s) in day care. Stop using your parents. And for the parents, let your child fly, stop holding them back. Let them experience reality. This will avoid all the dramas!

Damn, 4 years in prison. Lost of career, school debt and a felon. Over 20 chickens! Life lesson learned I hope. I’m sure the Nyab has regrets but now she’ll learn the hard way. It is what it is!

No matter how bad of a argument never raised your hands on anyone Period!

Good job, mom. Now you daughter-in-law learns a good lesson.

Finally, a story where Justice is served. I heard a lot of stories like this go unreported. Make her suffer now, don't let her repeat her behavior to others especially since she's an RN. Ugh. Protect yourself at all costs grandma

This is the reason why she is not married until she’s in her 30s. No one can’t handle her craziness.

Being a daughter in law and a Mother in law is the hardest job.

I love this story....yes...finally...justice serve. Nia tub dev ua tsis tau txiv. Ntuj aw Cas cov tub ua tsis tau txiv li.

My sister said to all my nyabs “I love my mother in law the way I want my mom to be love by you”.

What part of physical abuse do you all don't get that you want to hear the daughter in laws side? It doesn't matter if you're a saint, the minute you physically abuse an elderly you're in the wrong and unacceptable behavior period!

I’m so tired of people acting like hearing the DIL side of the story justifies her actions!

I agreed Amen🙏

To the son. Please don't choose this woman over your mom. Love your mom.

Koj tus nyab muab koj li nqaij pov tseg, ho kuv tus niam poj muab kuv li nqaij pov tseg. Tu siab kawg

My blood was boiling while listening. Idk how a nyab can hate their MIL so much. Geesh! So glad the MIL stood up for herself and justice was served 👍

I have seen snotty Hmong RNs that are just in for the money and not because they have the passion to care for people. This girl got exactly what she deserved. I hope the son will move on and don't waste his time waiting for a criminal.

What a disgrace to the healthcare system. By the time she’s abusing the Mother-in-law, she’s been abusing most, if not all her patients. Have no sympathy for her violent behavior. She’s definitely in the wrong career field! I always wished for a good Mother-in-law like you. Never let one person ruin or change you.

Koj ua tau yog kawg lawm mog.

Good job grandma! I hate elder abusers.

Zoo tshaj plaws li yuav tau khaws cim cia

I am glad you reported her for abuse and she lost her job as a nurse. I would hate to know what she did to her patients when she was working. You probably did all the patients a favor by putting her in prison. Sadly, your son has NO balls and brain. I don’t care, if you lay hands on my parents, you are going to jail and signing divorce papers!

I usually want to hear the nyab's side of the story but not this one because the nyab got locked up. That's already proof that this nyab is evil. Nyab deserved it. As much as you do not agree with someone, it still gives you no right to hit them.

For the RN, if you treat your mnl this way, I wonder how you treat your patients? Imagine her as your mothers/ fathers/ siblings/ family nurse? 😮

Nrog tu siab kawg li tus viv ncaus aw cas peb txoj kev ua niam pog ces yeej tsis ntxim hlub rau cov nyab li os nyab ces hlub niam tais yawm txiv xwb os vim nyab tias niam pog qias neeg no os tub siab kawg viv ncaus aw

She's such a gangster 😆 doing the unthinkable and lose everything. Is it worth it? Want to hear the DIL side also lol...

Grandma, give their children back to them!! You have already done enough for your son. It's time for you to finally enjoy yourself with friends and go to places. Your son is a wimp, and your nyab is his problem. Let them learn on their own time so they can appreciate life and you as a mil. Good luck!

Zoo kawg li os phooj yws kuv tuaj saib koj dua thiab os phooj yws

Paub kawg os, cov Nyab phem yeej phem kawg os. Cov niam pog phem los yeej phem kawg thiab os

Niag nyab maum dev !!! Niag tub txiv dev!!! Lwm hnub neb cov yuav ua rau neb thiab...

My question is why didn't the son tell his mom that his wife threw out the 20 chickens? It's not like he didn't ask his mom to go butcher them for his wife. Sad that his mom had to find out the way she did. Also, why didn't he step in when his wife was beating his mom? I know sometimes altercations happens so fast you don't have time to react, but it sounds like this went on for at least a minute or 2 at minimum. Then he proceeds to tell his mom to not tell the authorities it was his wife who abused her!🤦🏻‍♀️ And the list goes on....

Bad Daugther in law; however, As a father , I blame the son first. He needs to be a man and a fair mature man ( mentally and physically) not physically only. I hope they can move on, there is no fixing in this relationship now .

Many cases was the wife’s mom who courageous her to do all this bad things to the husband parents..

Zookawg

Zaj dab neeg no hai tau tu siab tshaj plwas mi viv ncaus aww 😭😭😭😭😭

HOORAY GRAMDMA U DID IT.

Txaus tu siab kawg li o

Wow, 👏 so glad she’s jailed for her cruelty. auntie I hope u won’t accept her apology when she released from jail. Be careful a Nurse can poison u.

so sad i don’t have a good mother in law look like this story you very nice mother in law grandma don’t feel sad let her go and love yourself grandma 👵🏻 😊

There's probably more to this story. Mother in law and daughter in law are oil and water.

Feel better May!

Tej zaum ib txhia niam pog yeej ntxim2 mag nyuaj thiab os.

Tu me viv ncaus aw Koj ua li ko yog tshaj plaw lawm os mog

Xav tau ib tug niam pog zoo li Koj os

Peb twb pom cov ua g tau ua siab phem npaum no twb npam npam lawm os zoo li tu no thiab ce haj yam npam sai os hmoob aws kev npam nyob qis qis os

Qhov tsis yog ntawm zaj neej neeg no ces peb tsis txhob cheem tej tub nyab ua lawv yuav mus nyob lawv es koj pheej tsis kam na qhov no yog niam phog yog tus txaum vim hlub koj tus tub dhau ces ua teeb meem rau lwm tus lawm xwb.

I wished I have a nam puj zoo le this one.

Wow yog vim li cas naw

If the Nyab is so scared of infectious diseases, why go into a profession where infectious diseases is part of the daily biohazards/risks?! I wouldn’t trust a RN who doesn’t seem to know crap about infectious diseases.

Koj yog niam pog ua li mas raug kuv siab kawg

nej cov uas hais tia tim niam pog e tseem pom tu nyab no zoo thiab ce tu ntawv yeej yog cov uas coj zoo ib yam li tu nyab no thiab tiag

Koj zaj neej neeg no tej zaum kuj tsis yog 100% tej zaum niam pog txw tub es nyab thiaj ntau paub.

I think it’s best that people just don’t live with in laws anymore. The husbands have to understand from both sides, his mom and wife just can’t live together. This all could’ve been avoided if only they moved out to live on their own. I understand financial struggles are a potential issue, but come on people just live on your own!

Cov nyab tam sim no ces yeej siab tawv li no nawb lawv aw...

It’s sad hearing of this story. I was very young when I got married to my ex. My MIL and I started off loving each other but my ex was not a good husband and when she sided with him a lot, we fell apart. It’s been 20 years, my ex MIL passed away a few years ago…..I miss her.

Nyab nyob teb chawm meskas no tus chaws hlub niam pog thiab txiv yawg lo muaj tus tsis hlub los muaj yog lis tsis tswg nyog peb pob ib pob nyiaj mus yuav ib tus nyab lawm yog lawm xav nyob ua kes ua niam txiv ces cias lawm nyob lawm lawg xwb. Vim peb muaj tsheej pab tub los lawm thiag txiv tuaj lawm yeej kiaj lawm lawm tsis nrog niam txiv nyob hlo lis os tsheej xyoo twb tsis mus saib xyuas niam txiv zoo lis lawm yeej tsis muaj niam yus lawm los nyob2 ces lawm cias lis tshwg swg los ua neeg lawm xwb os.

We don’t know two sides of the story but if you hit then you’re in the wrong. Should never hit anyone.

Gooo Grandma 👵 ❤!

To all the nyab out there who have an irritating, annoying, controlling mother in law, please leave before you ended up in jail! She is so NOT worth it or should I say, her SON is so NOT worth it. There are plenty of men out there!

tau niam pog hlub nej zoo npaum nej ca g hlub nw rov qab os

Yog kawg kuv pom mas cov nyab yeej tsis hlub cov niam pog npaum li lawv hlub lawv niam tais zoo siab qhov koj ua tau ib tug niam pog muaj peev xwm

Tus nyab poj dab yuav npam nws txoj hnub nws tuag nkiag tab shi niam tais tim koj tus tub yog xuab tshaj plaw li os

😂ua cas yuav txaus tshai ua luaj li tsis hais u tus nyab uas los nrog u nyob los tshai hos u tus ntxhais los u tshai tsam mus ua luag nyab es ho zoo li no thiab txaug tshai heev li

Cov nyab xab maim no ua tau tiag tiag

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Kuv mag kuv nyiam koj cov dab neeg nyob live tshiaj li os

Nws phem rau koj los nws tseem yus menyuam thiab lwm hnub vaj tswv mam them rov qab rau nws os. Koj hais yog lawm os tus niam pog aw. Zoo kawg nkaus li yog yus ua tiag nws tseem yuav muab koj tua thiab nawb.

Niag tub dev!

Niam tais yawm txiv tsa tsa ntxhais pob tw ces koj kawg mag qws

The problems abt theses story is… u of all hmong parents need to teach. Discipline these teen adult Hmong kids how a traditional Hmong family needs to be done. Especially for Hmong daughters. Abusing an elder parent is a no no. This nyab is a monster. Smh

What a bad son! He don't even love his mom. I hope my sons will never allow this to happen to me. I would die w a broken heart.

May COULD I finished the story for you??

Yog kawg yu tu yu twb tau nyiaj zoo tshaj lawm os mog

I’m sure there is more to the story. The older generation has other options such as the other brothers and she can live alone. Older generation don’t always have to live with son and nyab. The nyab cross the line by physically assaulting the MIL. That is beyond cruel and disrespectful. Remember not all educated people are nice, kind, loving people. There’s many nurses that shouldn’t be nurses or caretakers. You really have to have a large heart. Moral is sometimes it’s best not to live in the same house hold.

Yog niag Nyab zoo li no cas txaus ntxub ua luaj li, yuav npam nws loj au! Nws mas yuav npam txog hnub tuag yuav tuag tsis Tu siab li. Es tej qaib yus xav tias tsis huv yus kuj clean kom huv xwb , xam maj muab pov tseg thiab xam maj ntaus yus, ntxub yus , nws yuav npam os mog.

No one has the right to hit anyone!!!

Txog txij nyab ntaus ntshe niam pog tsav zoo heev li os

Koj txoj kev npam tom ntej no yog koj tus nyab tshiab no yuav tsim thiab tua koj kom koj tuag.

So satisfying.

siab phem2 nub no npam lawm tiag

Yeej muaj ib cov neeg phem2 li no kv yeej pom lawm

Oh yo pog os pog aw mloog mus mloog los ces koj los phem nkaws li koj tus nyab thiab os twb yeej paub tias lawv tsis xav nrog yus nyob lawv tsis nyiam yus ua cas pheej xav xav zov lawv tej me nyuam ua luaj os. Cia lawv mus nyob lawv yus thiaj tsis mag ntaus os ua li koj hais os tau nyab phem yuav tsum phem kom phim nyab txawm yog koj xav li ko koj thiaj mag qws los mas Tau nyab phem yuav tsum cia lawv mus nyob lawv hos. Cov niam tais hmoob aw yog nej tau nyab phem es nej yuav ua li nws hais ua phem kom phim nyab yog nej leej twg ua li nws ua ces ua zoo tsam mag qws li nws nawb txawm nyab phem los cia nws tawm tsev xwb nej thiaj tsis mag qws li nws nawb.

This MIL is not innocent. She was asking for it. Finally a Nyab that stands up for herself and gives the middle finger to Hmong culture that expects the Nyab to take care of the MIL. That is messed up!

Ntshe twb yog koj tus niam poj cuag txw nws tus ntxhais ntxub koj thiaj npam nws tuag lawm ntag lau

I wish God could put the bad people with the bad and the good people with the goods. Life is not fair at all I hate this life

I can relate this to someone I know, on the positive note… I got one less stupid person to worry about

This is called nyab pojdab

First time ever hearing about a nyab who beat her mother in law. We only heard from one person's side but in any case, it's never right to beat someone.

Cas ntuj tsis faib tus zoo rau tus zoo, tus phem rau tus phem os…

I don’t know. 2,3 sides to this mama’s boy story. But in this country you hmoob people should not force anyone to live together forever. Because the mom did say no matter what till death do you part from the son. I don’t know.🫣

Anyone going to Oklahoma’s Hmong New Year? Meet you there!!!

Cia lwm hnub nws cov nyab mam ho xuas qws rau nws li nws xuas rau koj thiab os ib txheej yuav ua dhau ib txheej nawb

tsaws li kuv pom thiab exepement mas tub, muam, niam pog, txiv yawg lawm tsev neeg ua ib tom ua phem hom nyab yog tus uv lawm tsev neeg xwb na.

Nyuam qhuav ntxim siab phem. Bad wife

I can relate to this story. I have a Nyab who argues n hit my grandma a few times while my brother stood there and watched and couldn’t defend for her. She would argue with us and our husband and my brother would not say anything to her. Our kids would play together and her child would get hit by accident (remember these are 4-5yr old kids) instead of telling them no hitting she’ll hit our kids n take her child away. She’s been in the mental institution a few times. She try hanging herself bc my brother wouldn’t go home with her during my sisters Hmong wedding. 🤦‍♀️!!! Since then all our siblings cut him n his wife off. If he can’t control his wife when she acts up like a child then we don’t need to continue a relationship with them. To top that off she a LPN too!! Ahahaha!!! No one called the police on her bc our parents wouldn’t let. She always thinking we’re in competition with her but that just her stupidity, mental mind, n childish thinking. The reason why this Nyab in this story was able to mistreat the mother in law is bc the son allows it. If the son really loved his mother and put his foot down and man up then his wife would know not to cross that line. Glad the mother told the police and justice was served. There was nothing wrong in what the mother did! F*ck what others are saying they haven’t been in her shoes!!!

Zaj no zoo cia ua ib zaj keeb kwm rau sawvdaws ib tsoom niam pog thiab nyab tau los kawm, leej twg yuav los ua niam pog yuav tau txuag ncauj txuag lus tsis txhob xyaum ua neeg nkgaus thiaj li tsis mag nyab ntaus. Nej cov nyab los yuav tau xyaum ua ib tug zoo nyab txhob yeem ris lub koob npe zoo li ib tug poj dab, yog tsis muaj tus pog laus qias neeg ncauj ntau ntawd ces koj yeej tsis tau niaj hmo hlob koj tus txiv rab qau. Tos niam pog mag nyab ntaus li no los yog tim tus tub hnav tiab cia nyab hnav ris ces nyab thiaj li muab niam pog roj kib niam pog nqaij li no ntag tiag, tab sis ib tug nyab ntaus niam pog thiab vauv ntaus yawm txiv mas yuav tsum muaj kev khaum kev npam 100/100 txawm tsis yog hnub no los yuav yog lwm hnub, txojkev khaum kev npam yuav tsum los txog ib hnub xwb thiaj li tas. Peb tej lus sib foom yog koj tsis tau ua txhaum ces txawm foom los tsuas zoo li tus noog ya mus ya los tsis muaj chaw tsaws ces ntab nrog huab nrog cua mus lawm, tiam sis yog koj yeej tau ua txhaum lawm txawm koj yuav thov kom rov qab thim tej lus foom ntawd los thim tsis tau lawm, yam li tshob dej koj muab hliv rau hauv av lawm koj puas yawm tau rov qab los ? No ! tub thiab nyab neb ces tos rawv txojkev npam seb yuav los txog neb hnub twg hmo twg lawm xwb.

Niam pog koj twb paub tias koj tus nyab twb tsis nyiam koj cas koj tseem cia koj tus tub los nrog koj nyob thiab vim koj tus tub ua tsis tau Txiv neej tiv thaiv koj.