Awesome! I'm glad my it's all worked out for you. Now as what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/oNCigtOpxpPbln0.html and kzfaq.info/get/bejne/rJ-did2Zl7S6cZc.html or from a more recent advice here as well: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Y7WhjNyQqdeyepc.html AND kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bs2TaJaE367WkZc.html All the best! :-)

Hey brad. You're amazing.. Thanks for the videos very informative, i really appreciate. God bless you

@@sirugonze Is it real bro!?? I'm following from today does it really works!?

That is awesome! Congrats! :-)

Aww I appreciate the support. If it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t done so yet, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it, too! :-)

I suggest you employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here (I think you're already doing it): y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jtWegNd9q9WUYGQ.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!

Employ the 30-day "no contact" rule first. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ipqDrZl1zr22o4U.html Though make sure you follow the tips here as well: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/rs2CY5aDyLucnas.html AND some recent tips here: y2u.be/FLeP1eRCkCk Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). This would also help guide you on what to do after the "no contact" rule: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/eKeYgNWe3Jm3nac.html Anyway there are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html

Same here mate, it's very difficult. I think I've blown it by being over needy and I doubt no contact will work.

@@droflivelifedid you do the no contact rule? What’s the update?

Perspective is everything. The message really is to use your head and not let emotions overrule you. Value and love yourself first so you won't let anyone overstep your boundaries like you did the last time.

You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can use some help, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it!

You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can use some help, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it!

Getting back with an ex can take weeks/months to years. It's different for everyone. Thanks for dropping by!

Heya, Nick! Thanks for dropping by! :-)

I really hate to burst your bubble here but let her finish whatever unfinished business she has with this ex. Sorry, but there's not much you can do at this point, especially if your relationship only lasted a short while and more so if she's seemingly (subconsciously or not) used you as a rebound, for your ex to jump back too quickly with him. Good luck and I hope you find the right woman for you soon!

Glad you like it! Thanks for the support… please like and subscribe if you haven’t already: kzfaq.info”

It's up to you. I always say to focus on yourself first. Just try to make sure you maximize what you can within this 30-day period such as healing yourself, enjoying your own company, as well as spending time to see where it all went wrong, but only when you start to feel better, so be sure to take time to grieve first and feel the loss and cry all you want but then make an effort to pick yourself up first. Remember, you can't pick someone up (to be back in a relationship with you) if you're also feeling down yourself. Now is the time for self love. So give yourself the time and attention you need to heal first, all right? Make sure you watch my other vids too for more tips on what to do next. Good luck!

It's actually one of the things I've already discussed here: y2u.be/hlikXIfMYN8 You're not breaking any rules if you greet an ex on their birthday as long as you do it right. So yes, can send your ex a birthday greeting on his/her birthday, just make it quick and direct to the point, end the conversation first too because you're busy (and I'm sure your ex is, too) -- it helps if you really are, so hang out with friends, learn a new skill, etc. Also avoid drama like the plague and don’t get into an argument with your ex at any cost. Be sure to check out my other videos in order not to miss any important tips on the steps to take to get an ex back. Here's a quick infograph to help you out: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bbCkoLmTqdHGnKs.html

As tough as it may be, it's always best to come to terms with the breakup and the fact that you're both single now. You doing the "no contact" rule neither prevents nor encourages your ex to go with someone new. In other words there's really nothing you can do to keep your ex from getting with someone new if they want to. So it boils down to two options, really. 1. Employ no contact and keep your dignity while respecting your ex's decision to breakup (why push yourself to someone who doesn't want you?) or Option 2: Do not do no contact and be pathetic. I always advise people to choose option 1 but really, which option you choose is ultimately up to you.

He may want a break or it's leading to a breakup. Watch this first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/h7Z6o9V72syRmYk.html

Defuse the argument and talk about something else. All you can do is acknowledge the role you played in it and then move on to other topics, choose a fun one. I don't think zodiac signs have anything to do with it. There's other factors to be considered though but that's for another topic. If you want to discuss it, I would have to know more about the situation before I jump the gun ,so consider signing up for my coaching program but if you just want to find out what your chances are, take the quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!

You're welcome! Apply the tips on my guide as best as you can, all right? Although I don't have to remind you that distance plays a role here when it comes to the re-attraction phase so just try to keep it cool and have a clear mind of things. Definitely start with giving her space and apply the tips on my vids. The pandemic isn't helping as well but to take off focus on what we can't change, watch/review and apply the pointers here as well: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fbeJZ7FhmdvapHU.html AND kzfaq.info/get/bejne/a9SWirV7t9jScac.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

Thanks Brad. Applied all the techniques on your guide. After 2 weeks of no contact she couldn't stand it anymore and came back

@@jhondyshanecamerino7249 Lucky chicken lol

Thanks for watching! :-)

It looks like she's might confused if she's going back and forth here, so give it time. You both need clarity. That kind of behaviour coming from your ex is somewhat expected after a breakup. That's why you ought to give it enough time where there's totally no contact between you and your ex for at least 30 days. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed or weird signals. Watch this: y2u.be/siApAVtx8zE This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Z9F6ZNyT2qyteHk.html

You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can use some help, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it!

Thanks, man. Don't forget to check out my other videos or check out my 2.0 Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com/ so you'll know what to do next after the 30-day "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bbCkoLmTqdHGnKs.html Best of luck!

An on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!

It's good and that's rare. Usually one or both people still have lingering feelings from each other -- usually it's the dumpee -- and friendship isn't really something that could work out in the long run. But hey if it works for you both, that's really nice! Happy for you!

Let go of stuff you can't control especially that's stuff your ex did. Continue on as planned but keep these things in mind. Good luck!

I think the videos too old for him to reply to you. But in my opinion the best thing to do is to become the person they will fall in love with. Act like you don’t care. Love your best life and show them you don’t need them to make you happy. Once they see that you are happy and the right person that you made yourself into, they will probably come crawling back

Try to play your cards right first. This vid should hopefully help you see things clearly about the importance of the "no contact" rule as well as the common challenges and how to overcome them: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jbxyY8Kdm5a3oIE.html Feel free to check out my other vids as well, especially this which should give you an idea on how to go about this: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bbCkoLmTqdHGnKs.html For a complete, step-by-step procedure though, consider getting my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!

Yes, apply any of the texting tips that best suit your situation. Just remember the principles and don't be needy. Good luck!

Hey man, thanks for your interest in my coaching program! Please contact my support team to get some help, at support.exfactorguide.com

It will. However, an on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!

Sorry to hear that...but belated happy birthday! As to blocking your ex, I advise against it. I just noticed a bunch of people having some problems reaching out later on because they've either deleted their ex, blocked (especially everywhere) or unfriended them, which creates an unnecessary dilemma really, if you ask me. The only reason why I suggest NOT to unfollow/block or delete an ex (that you want to get back with) is because you can, in fact, leverage social media to your advantage. Here's how: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/epd3o7VmsqfUgZ8.html

We don't work together but sometimes we use the same bus to work and I just found out that he unfriended me on Facebook ups

Don't avoid him. Just plan things accordingly somehow. Do limited contact instead and keep any limited conversation you have strictly work related if you cross paths. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fbqaeKR4r724pXU.html AND kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mqqKpdF_zZ6wf5s.html

Thank you so much I really appreciate,will let u know after NC period how it went thnx.

Sorry to hear that. Most breakups feel like a blindside so I'm sure you're not alone there. So try to stay strong and stop forcing things. Okay? Try to have self discipline and remember, love should never be forced. Otherwise it becomes an obsession, so be very careful of going that route. If your ex dumped you and showed you he doesn't want to be in your life at the moment, you ought to respect that, okay? For most dumpees that is the case. It doesn't mean that will be the case forever but at the moment, it surely is, so respect your ex's need for space and have some self discipline. Focus on yourself instead. Okay? This vid is for you: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jbxyY8Kdm5a3oIE.html

Sorry to hear that. The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fbeJZ7FhmdvapHU.html AND kzfaq.info/get/bejne/a9SWirV7t9jScac.html

Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but if there is no way to reach your ex even after months or years since the breakup, it might be game over. Discussed that here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fLZojNB216uzh2w.html But if the breakup has only been barely a month, then you ought to chill since this is the time to employ the much repeated tips on my videos: 30-day "no contact" rule!

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Wait a few days a make sure you aren't being needy. You're on the right track, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bbCkoLmTqdHGnKs.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com

Go through it with little to no expectations. Why? Because you really do need to put all that focus back to yourself first. You ought to enjoy life being single before being in a position to win back an ex. You want a relationship, not need it.

@@BradBrowning Thank you for your reply

It means you both need space, like 99.9% of breakups do. So I suggest you employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jtWegNd9q9WUYGQ.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!

Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jtWegNd9q9WUYGQ.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/eKeYgNWe3Jm3nac.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html Good luck!

Try to do the opposite of the "no contact" rule and see if your ex is receptive to contact. If your ex isn't, then it's very important to give it time to let whatever anger there is between you two, especially from your ex's side, subside. Sometimes it takes a month but oftentimes it takes longer or shorter depending on the situation. You simply cannot rush this. An apology is in order, too. These may help: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/p9R1ZJxjy7uvqH0.html AND kzfaq.info/get/bejne/nJZ2a9Rjrq_LpHk.html

If he's truly a narcissist, you might want to think twice before trying to get him back, because even if you can change his mind, you can't change his personality, especially if he has a narcissistic personality disorder. It's a mental illness that should be looked into by a medical professional. The best you can do is to encourage him to seek help. Now if you aren't sure whether he really is one and/or how to best handle the situation, consider signing up for my coaching program so I can look into this with you and what's really happening that you may be too close to see or have an outside perspective on. Best of luck!

Unless it's something your ex owes you, I suggest you steer clear of it.

No contact is still your best bet. You may have to extend it to a month or so. Play your cards right and notice the world of difference that this can make. Stick to the "no contact" rule this time for at least 30 days. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ipqDrZl1zr22o4U.html AND the importance of silence after the breakup here: y2u.be/zw0ChuXCEmw and in the meantime, this is the principle you ought to follow: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/e8ySmrho25ayqWg.html A situation with an ex is often fragile, so you'd really want to omit, if not minimize these mistakes. Start with the 30-day straight "no contact rule. It’s one step forward, two steps backward with an ex & there are no unlimited chances with them, so if you can do it right moving forward, then do so. Check out my guide so you won't end up making the same mistakes. Good luck!

Sorry to hear that. I know it's a shock to you but trust me, the best thing to do right now is to accept the breakup, so employ the 30-day "no contact" rule first. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ipqDrZl1zr22o4U.html Though make sure you follow the tips here as well: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/rs2CY5aDyLucnas.html AND some recent tips here: y2u.be/FLeP1eRCkCk Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). This would also help guide you on what to do after the "no contact" rule: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/eKeYgNWe3Jm3nac.html Anyway there are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html

@@BradBrowning Thank you so much for your help 💜

Consider moving on from this, especially if it was just a fling to either you or your short-term ex. Sorry bit there may not be anything to rebuild here if that's the case because there wasn't any long term bonding or attraction that naturally develops in long term or serious relationships, especially if things got bad between you real quick because of the mistakes. On the brighter side, here's how the "no contact" rule will work for you, though: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/as2hopeDz9e5oKM.html

@@BradBrowning I moved on from her

Just do it one time before it gets old. Best of luck!

Assess the risks first if it's all worth it. Remember, meeting up when you're both not ready will only alienate your ex further, and that's best case scenario. Worst case scenario will land you a spot in the dreaded friendzone. Watch this first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/gOCSZJubnMCxgHk.html but if you're both ready, watch this video on how to tell as well as how tips for you on tipping the odds to your favor: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/m7CAetWc2rfSnWQ.html Best of luck!

@@MyDarkStar451 how are you going with it?

@@rodneyc9892 pretty much losing my mind because i don't get her signals anymore. At least we are not staying together or seeing eachother for over a month, and the talking stopped only a week ago...

It's a different set of rules if you live together. If you still live with your ex, then do limited contact with your ex where you only discuss the essentials only. Acting like you're still together is really a bad idea for you since it lets you stay in denial when you've already broken up, and that's not good. Apply the tips here, too to help you out further: y2u.be/STL7ru4uSQk AND y2u.be/GTjEAGJWTuA I know it's hard, but lots of folks have managed to follow the tips and succeeded. So if they can do it, then so can you! Good luck and be strong!

Most likely not. Just give it time and do damage control, yeah? Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/heCGrNCK07eqhJ8.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/nJ2qqLucktm6o30.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bLFjq9iXqt2pdps.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com

Go to about and carry his whataspp number

Go to my about

If your ex is in the right age to make his own decisions that’s independent from their parents, then there may still be a chance. Otherwise, it's best to consider moving on from this, okay? I’m not quite sure why parents had to get involved in the first place. It's either you're both too young to date or it has something to do with culture. Understand that the choice is ultimately up to your ex on whether to fight for you or not despite the opposition going on. Good luck!

Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fbeJZ7FhmdvapHU.html AND kzfaq.info/get/bejne/a9SWirV7t9jScac.html

She needs to make up her mind, so cut off contact and do just that, yeah? Don't be manipulated by tears because trust me, you wouldn't want someone to be undecided towards you because it risks the chances of you being strung along in the long run. Always give each other the time and space needed first! Watch this: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sN1gdsumvampnas.html

She's not the one then, I'm sorry bro. That's her stupid lost... Find better who's interested in u.

You're way too focused on getting her back. Chill out a bit. If she knows you're too into her, you'd be put in the back burner for sure. Apply the tips here, too: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/areVYJdykqnUho0.html

@@robertmoore294 I agree I feel like the more space you give someone depending on the person the more freedom they get to explore other options and then they forget about you meanwhile your sitting there in pitty hurt thinking to much on trying to win back someone who's already moved on but continue to string you along instead of telling the truth flat out on how one feels they continue to make you beg gaslight you ignore you and then when you finally pull back and let them be they come running back smh I'm going through this now and its a tough pill to swallow but sometimes you gotta love you more and let the chips fall where they may and let people be great wish them well and live your life

Im in the same boat. Good question

Me too. But I live with mine and we been apart for 8 months

It will but a lot depends on his pride and if he's willing to see past the mistakes and forgive you. It's very important to give it time to let whatever anger and hurt there is between you two, especially from your ex's side, subside. Sometimes it takes a month but oftentimes it takes longer or shorter depending on the situation. You simply cannot rush this. An apology is in order, too. These may help: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/p9R1ZJxjy7uvqH0.html AND kzfaq.info/get/bejne/nJZ2a9Rjrq_LpHk.html

@@BradBrowning Thanks man

Like I said, play your cards right and notice the world of difference that this can make. Stick to the "no contact" rule this time for at least 30 days. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ipqDrZl1zr22o4U.html AND the importance of silence after the breakup here: y2u.be/zw0ChuXCEmw and in the meantime, this is the principle you ought to follow: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/e8ySmrho25ayqWg.html A situation with an ex is often fragile, so you'd really want to omit, if not minimize these mistakes. Start with the 30-day straight "no contact rule. It’s one step forward, two steps backward with an ex & there are no unlimited chances with them, so if you can do it right moving forward, then do so. Check out my guide so you won't end up making the same mistakes. Good luck!

Sorry to hear. Did anything in particular happened? An on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!

When a breakup happens, most of the time this means he has lost attraction for you, hence, it's a bad move to be friends with him. You need to cut off contact for at least 30 days first. Silence is key and here's why: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sN1gdsumvampnas.html If you continue being friends right away, the boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates a rebound in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch this video so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, at kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ptyPls2rzbyvcY0.html AND kzfaq.info/get/bejne/r8pmo9l_u8usmn0.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with free bonus materials for texting. Good luck!

Happy for you, man! :-) The important thing is to keep your interactions fun. This vid is for you: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/oL5-gM6myrneqqc.html

Apply the principles here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/oL5-gM6myrneqqc.html

It's too soon. If you read the guide completely or re-read it, you'll see that everything is a process and you simply can't rush it. On my guide, if you live together, you're not supposed to apply the "no contact" rule. Please just review the guide from a clearer mind to get a better perspective, all right? :-)

How long have you made her wait? I'm all for taking it slow, but if you take it too slow, she would question your intentions and would wonder if she's wasting her time with you. Anyway if you've done clearing the misunderstanding, give her space before trying again and hopefully you can give her what she's looking for by that time. Best of luck!

@@BradBrowning We was dating for around 2 months but we have known each other for quite a while before that. I've just completed 30 days no contact

Don't bother responding. Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/kN96hdOZ3KrHkWg.html This should help guide you on what to do for the time being: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ntKZnrt6y7O9fmw.html However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/nbtygcdn1aqtfoE.html AND kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jbx2jbmiq6qqhmg.html&ab_channel=BradBrowning now when the time comes where your ex is free or is constantly contacting you, check out my other videos here in KZfaq to help you with a lot of texting tips as well as when to give up trying. Good luck!

Awesome! Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the 30-day "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bbCkoLmTqdHGnKs.html Best of luck!

Watch this first to help set your expectations: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/heCGrNCK07eqhJ8.html and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/itSKrch2rrapmZ8.html If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/b7JzZMiozKjPeYU.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html and the golden rules here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Z9F6ZNyT2qyteHk.html

It's normal and will only feel like that for a while. How long depends on you. I suggest you be open to new possibilities. The distance will always take its toll. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fbeJZ7FhmdvapHU.html AND kzfaq.info/get/bejne/a9SWirV7t9jScac.html

You should move on

Wow! I don't know about that. My clients pay me, not the other way around. :-)

Unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/m9GPZ9qh0LyaZpc.html AND kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jZ2ZdpCYrdO-YnU.html it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you during the no contact stage, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. Discussed that in full detail here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fbqaeKR4r724pXU.html So if your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses her power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mM1_epyklszFk2w.html

@@akewusholakaosaraayomide905 what is this? Lol

As to your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!

Buy time for what specifically?

Depends on what's really happening and how well you've been playing your cards, or not. If you've only talked recently, I'd say you two are friends or more appropriately, talking terms for now, but don't let that derail you, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. If you've already reconnected for a while though and your ex is pushing you deeper into that friendship hole, then that's a different story. Getting an ex back is a process. Whatever you do, make sure you don’t resort to doing the things here: y2u.be/jikW4YYC9yo Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com

Play your cards right and notice the world of difference that this can make. Stick to the "no contact" rule this time for at least 30 days. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ipqDrZl1zr22o4U.html AND the importance of silence after the breakup here: y2u.be/zw0ChuXCEmw and in the meantime, this is the principle you ought to follow: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/e8ySmrho25ayqWg.html A situation with an ex is often fragile, so you'd really want to omit, if not minimize these mistakes. Start with the 30-day straight "no contact rule. It’s one step forward, two steps backward with an ex & there are no unlimited chances with them, so if you can do it right moving forward, then do so. Check out my guide so you won't end up making the same mistakes. Good luck!

how long have you been dating?

I'm glad my it's all worked out for you. Now as what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/oNCigtOpxpPbln0.html and kzfaq.info/get/bejne/rJ-did2Zl7S6cZc.html or from a more recent advice here as well: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Y7WhjNyQqdeyepc.html AND kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bs2TaJaE367WkZc.html All the best! :-)

Sorry to hear that. While I certainly need more information to know what's going on between you two for sure, I suggest you check out more marriage-saving tips which you may find useful, check out this new channel I've dedicated solely for this purpose. Here's the link: y2u.be/dr2JTi_bCRU

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The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fbeJZ7FhmdvapHU.html AND kzfaq.info/get/bejne/a9SWirV7t9jScac.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

If you've been negligent or hadn't been spending time with her so she dumped you, then try to do the opposite of the "no contact" rule and see if your ex is receptive to contact at this point. If your ex isn't, then it's very important to give it time to let whatever anger there is between you two, especially from your ex's side, subside. Sometimes it takes a month but oftentimes it takes longer or shorter depending on the situation. You simply cannot rush this. An apology is in order, too. These may help: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/p9R1ZJxjy7uvqH0.html AND kzfaq.info/get/bejne/nJZ2a9Rjrq_LpHk.html

Watch this first to help set your expectations: y2u.be/82uUJ7kPXhE and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/b7JzZMiozKjPeYU.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working ONCE things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI and the golden rules here: y2u.be/1kJ1ybuFIHE

The same principles apply and I suggest you check out my other videos first to see if that applies to you and take what you can from it first. With your situation, though, well, not to state the obvious, but the distance is often the main culprit. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fbeJZ7FhmdvapHU.html and/or kzfaq.info/get/bejne/a9SWirV7t9jScac.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

@@BradBrowning Thank you very much!

@@BradBrowning I signed up for the emails yesterday!

It's coz you can't let go and/or somewhat not accepting the breakup, but I tell you now this is really necessary to more or less defuse the situation first and give your ex the time and space they need. Play your cards right and notice the world of difference that this can make. Stick to the "no contact" rule this time for at least 30 days. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ipqDrZl1zr22o4U.html AND the importance of silence after the breakup here: y2u.be/zw0ChuXCEmw and in the meantime, this is the principle you ought to follow: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/e8ySmrho25ayqWg.html A situation with an ex is often fragile, so you'd really want to omit, if not minimize these mistakes. Start with the 30-day straight "no contact rule. It’s one step forward, two steps backward with an ex & there are no unlimited chances with them, so if you can do it right moving forward, then do so. Check out my guide so you won't end up making the same mistakes. Good luck!

Unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jZ2ZdpCYrdO-YnU.html it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. Discussed that in full detail here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fbqaeKR4r724pXU.html So if your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses her power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mM1_epyklszFk2w.html

Sorry to hear that. I know it's tough but now is a good time to know yourself more and find that strength to accept the breakup and be independent of your ex. Do the dynamic "no contact" rule or limited contact. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fbqaeKR4r724pXU.html AND kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mqqKpdF_zZ6wf5s.html

Sorry your going through this. Currently going through the same. Engaged & together 20 years together. Now he’s left. We have 2 sons. Stay strong, it’s not easy!!

I'm going through the same. I made many mistakes and I handled a lot of it but ofc I made mistakes and I am working on me and considering the no contact thing but his anger means it has to be longer but we've got a kid and possibly twins on the way.

I know you love her. Otherwise you wouldn't be here trying to find a solution. However, you both need to take time to clear your head first. All right? Accept her decision to break up. You both have to process the breakup first and go through all that pain and slowly let go of the bad memories...It is a process, but this is what the "no contact" rule is for, to help both of you move forward from that pain. A reconciliation with an ex means there will be a new (thus the old relationship be considered as over) relationship between you two where the lessons of the past are taken into consideration in order to resolve it to create a better relationship in the future. Does that make sense? Give your ex time to let go of the bad memories, however, this won't happen overnight and for sure takes time, so don't rush. Follow the tips on my other vids, especially this one: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fLKVg5SWt6nPc58.html Good luck!

Unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/a7uEbJV6p5vZl6c.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : kzfaq.info/get/bejne/epd3o7VmsqfUgZ8.html Good luck!

You're on the right track, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bbCkoLmTqdHGnKs.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com

Here's this to consider: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/rsh0g9RjmL_Ffnk.html so be sure to take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz However, that kind of behaviour coming from your ex is somewhat expected after a breakup. That's why you ought to give it enough time where there's totally no contact between you and your ex for at least 30 days. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed or weird signals. Watch this: y2u.be/siApAVtx8zE This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Z9F6ZNyT2qyteHk.html

Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/heCGrNCK07eqhJ8.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/nJ2qqLucktm6o30.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bLFjq9iXqt2pdps.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com

Unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/a7uEbJV6p5vZl6c.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : kzfaq.info/get/bejne/epd3o7VmsqfUgZ8.html Good luck!

Is your ex doing it out of spite? Ignore it or unfollow her her updates if you can while you focus on yourself first because you really don't need that additional pain right now. Just try to make sure you maximize what you can within this 30-day period such as healing yourself, enjoying your own company, as well as spending time to see where it all went wrong, but only when you start to feel better, so be sure to take time to grieve first and feel the loss and cry all you want but then make an effort to pick yourself up first. Remember, you can't pick someone up (to be back in a relationship with you) if you're also feeling down yourself. Now is the time for self love. So give yourself the time and attention you need to heal first, all right? Make sure you watch my other vids too for more tips on what to do next. Good luck!

The 30-day "no contact" rule can work for you in the following ways: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sN1gdsumvampnas.html Your ex is diverting his/her attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his/her way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bbF1adGTmZPSlHU.html So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/nbtygcdn1aqtfoE.html so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control whether the rebound ends up working out or not. Watch this: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/iqiklZZlzN-aqqs.html Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA