Any wishes to be together are tempered by memories of disrespectful treatment.

Hey Charm ❤ Lot of love & praises to you ❤ I broke up with my ex a year ago..I've come across your video lot sooner.but made lots of mistakes as I've kind of habit of repeating mistakes even after realising..this year Feb we had a big fight after that I've unfriended & unfollowed her from every social media. But even after that she texted me two different times after that we started reconnecting slowly. Feeling so much confidence & gained lot of knowledge on how dynamics of a relationship works. We met once had a good time..& started reconnecting hope we'll be back together soon..

You say goodbye to them .. Nothing less Nothing more

I did say to him tho, I know who I am and what I bring/brought to the table- what I offer is my character, that’s not replaceable 😊

Don't even talk to them they are not worth any effort The wrong person has to leave for the right person to arrive

Good Vid buddy…👏👏

If it’s meant to be, it will not pass. This is a mantra that helped me tremendously.

Hey Brad. My ex dumped me 3 months ago after 4 months of relationships. I did NC for only 14 days, and then I kept messaging him for about 3 months. We even met once, but he told me that we were "too different". Is it too late to go no contact?

His peace was just reminding me over and over we are done but I never asked

A lot of things happen in the 6 months he blocked me, he came back to make “peace” but didn’t say anything besides I just want to be at peace with you. Like I said I made the mistake n got emotional. . He Cleary said we will never get back together and our story is over, he wants me to be happy,‘move on and gives me his blessings towards someone new, and I can’t say the same back to him… I guess now I just have to stand my ground and let him come towards me

Wish I seen this before I made all these mistakes 😢

Hey brad after approx 30 days of no contact with my ex , I decided to send him a random snap and soon after he saw the snap, he too sent me a snap of him with his younger brother being in the game zone, a few days ago also he sent me two snaps but i didn't say anything to them and then he stopped sending me snaps but now this happened . What does it mean?

Lol well that's me screwed I have done all of these and im well in the friends zone, we have a picnic this sat with our children as she wants to show them we can get on as co parents, probably a really bad idea.

My ex was a scammer. I don't want him back.

Lol. Yep broke all these suggestions. Oh well, it's good now. Let her go. No need for that FA

If you are engaging with “attraction” identified people….there will never be safety with this personality or character. Seek commitment identified people. Character and integrity. Not carnal.

What if they won't talk to you and you have an infant child together? Don't break no contact right? I just want to see my child. I don't want her

Hey, Coach. So, I broke no contact at 34 days. I got so fixated on attachment styles that I figured with her attachment style, it would be worth a try... so I took a chance. "Hey, "V", just wondering how you're doing, how's(her daughter)? How's school going?" Verbatim. She messaged back an hour later saying it was so nice to hear from me. We texted back and forth the last few days. I kept my messages to the point and "one step behind". Tonight, she came out to my place and we had, what I think, a wonderful conversation. There was no relationship talk. Little hints from her end here and there but I tried my best to "skip over" past relationship issues. 3 hours later, as she was leaving, she hugged me.... tightly. Even as I tried to let go, she held on. She opened the door and looked at me and said, "I don't know what would make you think I wouldn't want to see you." I pulled her back inside, held her hand and explained that I understood why she felt she had to break things off. I didn't show her respect where it was due and this breakup has really opened my eyes to my part in why our relationship failed. She said she believed that things had to end the way they did and I agreed(appeared to, at least). I then walked her to her car, said goodbye and suggested another meet up soon. She agreed without hesitation. I kept getting the old "eye contact-kiss me" feeling from her, but I held back. I want to write to her and tell her I had a great time but instincts told me to go no contact directly after the break up so I'll follow the same and not write to her. My heart is pounding in my chest, Coach. What do I do now? I'll be damned if I should have kissed her!😅

I did no contact for 30 days ,,, he texted back i replied . The next day he texted again i rrplied , he took one day and replied the next day ,, i told him not to text back what shall i do

How long should I go on a break that wants no contact..

You think asking them to meet and talk after a year of NC while they are in another relationship (serious or rebound) is a bad idea? I already begged and did every possible thing wrong that was possible. Even took a flight to her town for 10 days straight. She straight up avoided me. I'm thinking to go again to see her brother and done other of her friends. I know you will not reply but any help would help me.

Oh no ive done these things 😢

Just don't do mental and emotional acrobatics. Playing games, forcing yourself to be someone else is nonsensical. Breakups have very good reasons. To understand them first, getting your inner balance back are much more helpful...

how often do I have to text her after my no contact ends, like if I text her today so how long should I wait to start up another conversation with her. What should be the ideal day gap between conversations and how much time should I give to this rekindling phase to for sure know that if I ask her out to meet me (not a date of course, but a simple friendly meeting) she wont deny.