I feel sad for him.

@@luke144 yeah me too

He definitely did! I always think you'll meet the right person when you least expect it. Sometimes looking too hard doesn't work out, but he's a young bloke who is as red blooded as most young men so... 😉

Amen! He’s young and lovely and will attract the right woman if he’s patient.

@@ChooseCompassion no doubt!

I would say he has lived it.

AMEN.

1. Bros before ho's. ;) 2. Never sleep with anyone crazier than yourself.

How did he get that drunk if thats true???😂

He needs somebody who is kind and not jaded by the world.

Dima is so sweet and earnest; handsome too! He is a shining Soul with a heart of gold. I'd be surprised if he doesn't have his own following of admirers by now. I doubt he'll stay single for long. Clearly, it is not his destiny to be alone. I hope he chooses well, and finds someone pure of heart, who both deserves and appreciates him.

@the Katt - AMEN 🙏🏼 from another ‘Babushka’ (Grandmother) in Western Canada 🇨🇦

🌬🌿🌺 I couldn't agree with you more. Sounds like she was just looking for FREE BOOZE & thought he was desperate! He Deserves Better than this Drunk chick! 🌺Kat from Toronto

Good advice💪🏻👍

Some ppl need a companion to do these things with, I did. I married at 20 and have had successful marriage for 20 years. My husband was like minded. So we’ve grown together. 😘

We are all raising him huh

I agree with everything you say, although as a young guy I'm sure he gets frustrated just rubbing himself off.

I totally agree

Actually nothing to cry about, he should celebrate that this trash woman revealed her nature right away. Usually they take some time. Just hold any flowers for the next one until she gets to be known better.

I think he already knows how that is since his parents drank. He’s a jewel of a guy in my book. Tender hearts hurt easily. ❤️

yeah, relationships are complicated People need to work on their own lives and make sure they’ve gotten themselves well sorted out before bringing in the stress a boyfriend or girlfriend can bring

She was not suitable for Dima. Everyone has to be super careful in these new relationships. They can sink like ships and leave you shipwrecked or even drown you. Everyone is at risk, Dima is not alone, it was very fortunate that he didn't have to waste anymore time, emotional investment and money on flowers and alcohol for this fraud. When an honest person and a liar meet their relationship snaps. We all have to learn these painful lessons. Then it takes time to recover from the nasty shock. Look on it as a blessing in disguise. God has something better in store for Dima.

I think he and Lesha need to get together. They seem to be about the same age and going out together would be good for them as they work towards a better life. Love from NYC ❤️

I love your controlled and detailed writing style. May I ask if your primary language is not English? I normally don't see primary English speakers write in this way, so I am curious to know if that is the case or not. And that is not to say your writing is wrong at all; it's very good! Just that people normally don't write in such a clear and descriptive way.

Dima you are a true gentleman 👏 ❤️

maybe it was the gypsies

@@beldengi in what video does he do that mate ?

​@@beldengi genuinely one of the worst statements I've ever read on the internet

@@NapoleonBlownapart404 look for it. It is there.

@@beldengi Evil liar.

He is definitely a pure soul, he needs a sensitive girl !

Great wisdom.

Yes. The hypocrisy was strong with this one. She divorced her husband because he was a drinker. Yet she is a drinker herself, and a wild one at that.

I’m really glad to see that Dima obviously has his head screwed on straight despite having bad role models and dealing with many physical challenges! Luckily he has had great resources within and he’s probably had some supportive role models in some neighbours and/or fellow villagers, which combined has lead to him becoming this surprisingly well adjusted young man Dima seems to be despite his bad start on life… Very glad to see how he handled this unfortunate situation, great to just chalk it up to being lesson #1 in his new course: Adult Life 101. His mark? A+ 👏👏👏💓💞❤️💞💓

He knows Vasya is a good trustworthy person who only wants to help him. Seems like a very selfless person. I hope your channel gets massive

Dude should of laughed at her and walked away. She didn't deserve his or Sergei time. She just got divorced. Last thing on her mind is anyone else's feelings. Should grieve a divorce before dating and taking your crap out on other people. Not a way to live. She still drinking her ex away.. She not in a happy place herself. Divorce sucks

I'm sure he isn't going to miss her to say the least

lol! 🤣

You can have me instead

@@fahadfaraj6474 Bruh cringe xd

Wise advice. Like attracts like. These men must feel themselves worthy of someone more “adequate” than the women they grew up with.

It's so true. Anyone remember the Watts case ? she said she was at the lowest point of her life when she met Chris. Didn't even want to date. I think he would be better off waiting but it's hard for a young man. The best we can do is give our advice and hope for the best.

this law of attraction is just a way of making it the person's own fault when things go wrong ...same as a child born to extremely abusive parents chose to be born to these parents ....its BS....but it gives society the excuse it needs to never help anyone. that said its good advice for them to focus on themselves ...i just think its time we moved away from this law of attraction ..positivity bull crap

Very very wise words. All the best to you!

@@redinabloogs8477 I think you don’t understand what was said, since you agreed with the premise but criticized the label. It’s not fate or birth or choice. If a person grew up in an abusive family and has poor self esteem, they will subconsciously gravitate to the type of person they recognize from their family experience. Most likely someone just like his/her abuser. If that person improves their self esteem and realizes they deserve all the good things in life, they will gravitate, ask out, and have a better relationship with someone who isn’t a drunken abuser. Thus making a better life for themselves and their children than they had as a child. It’s not hippie BS, it’s centuries of psychological observation and study. It has just been distilled down into a hippie BS sounding idiom. “Law of attraction” “Like attracts like” “birds of a feather” “girls marry their fathers” etc. We are attracted to what is familiar and comfortable, even if it’s something painful. We only reach for what we think we deserve. Only by breaking away entirely from the bad situation as this young man has, and achieving things for himself by himself, will he gain the self esteem and courage to “reach beyond his station”, or “punch above his weight class”…you see? And he hasn’t accomplished that yet. That’s why everyone is advising him to wait before chasing girls. He might get a younger version of his mother right now, when waiting a year might get him a princess and soul mate. Also, I get the impression that he has issues with abandonment and doesn’t know how to handle them in a mature way. Many people become too clingy and overbearing when they have experienced abandonment. He needs to mature beyond that before meeting (and keeping) the girl of his dreams.

It is actually the muscles that cause this, not the bones. That is scoliosis and it is still treatable. Those vertebrae do not rotate as do the lumbar, so although it is a problem he still has good function.

Seems a good Dr to me. Hope Dima does the correct muscle exercises to improve his health.

Dina explained in the first video that he was told as a child (11 years old) they would have break his entire spine apart and realign it using steel rods, etc. needless to say it was out of the question for him to undertake that, so he never pursued help after that.

You could see the tears and hurt welling up in Dima. It's difficult to see. Honey you are going to go places and I'm not just saying that!

Break his entire spine! That would have killed him instantly. Thanks Be To GOD, who protected him when he was 11 yrs old. Sounded like a scary brutal treatment in Germany!!!. When its all because of lack of Nutritious organic food that GOD has provided for us, HIS children. My niece recovered fully from vitamins supplements n exercises. Hope Sergey could teach Dima to buy his monthly intake of vitamins supplement, n cut out coca colas, that junk addiction drink that drains the body of nutrients, no alcohol, just natural Russian healthy food like buckwheat groats for morning breakfast with dried fruits, nuts n seeds, contains loads of nutrients. Buckwheat porridge in the morning is very Strengthening for the body. The Japanese eat cold Buckwheat/soba noodles in the summer, n soba in hot soup during the cold season. Salmon n other fish n red meat for his calcium intake n some seamoss.

I found that ironic myself.....

It's worse, she said she's a nanny. How do you look after children if you're drunk or hung over ? Maybe her employer will see this. The safety of the children must come first.

@@lorimiller4301 True true didn't even think of that!

I still haven't had love find me and I'm 27 lol sometimes you're just in the wrong place forever

@@stephenguffey7225 Stephen, I was in the same place when I was 27. Now I am 56 and still "the love of my life" is not here, BUT I found Jesus and he gave everything to me that I missed: unconditional love, peace, joy and He is my first love! And you know what .. I still believe that God has the perfect man for me as I am living my best days with his supernatural guidance. Be blessed, dear Stephen!

Totally agree. Has to take his time and adjust to all the new changes in his life.. He needs a great group of friends first, and love will find it's own way. Surgery for scoliosis can transform his spinal/back issue. His height will probably increase by 3 inches after surgery.. as his spine is straightened. He's an innocent, probably excited by the future for once. Thank goodness he has Sergei to show him the way

Hello how are you doing?

Best of luck to you Heather. Onwards and upwards.

I pray your journey stays pain free, filled with happiness and love. ❤️🙏❤️

Louise L Hay used to always say that all disease starts in the mind. She wrote You Can Heal Your Life. Very good book explains every ache and how it's related to what you're thinking. She says headaches are from putting yourself down. You should never be unkind to yourself, always be a fan, a friend, a parent to yourself. Loving ourselves is the most important lesson.

@@lorimiller4301 sounds like an Interesting read. Thanks for sharing!

You guys are so kind! It's funny, when I was watching this video I remember a chiropractor making the same sort of comments about how I was all crooked, not as bad as this though. I hope Dima can get just as much mental health help as he does the physical help- self esteem and a lack of fear will do wonders.

I got dumped by lots of girls, I dumped lots of girls, it all worked out I the end. I’m living I’m my moms basement with a dancer and her daughter. Her name is Kandi.

To take advantage of someone that person has to have standards and limits.

Or.....or......You say to the girl ' It might be that I love you but first I need you to buy me a Chinese meal'.

@@Hereford1642 😂

Yeah its 90% gold diggers and hoes

Right? Ho

I actually experienced a similar situation recently. 20 yrs ago if a woman did that to me I'd for sure dunk on her one way or other .

Hello how are you doing?

wish I had a mother that told me this, bless you

LoL they're probably both still single and living at home!

@@kierj9858 why would you assume such thing? Plus there is nothing wrong with being single.

Completely agree!