Talk about the irony

Yup. She literally killed their unborn child, and he just tried to move on. I’m pro choice, but doing that shit without the father’s input is vile and atrocious.

@@SnerMerNer I am not pro life but anti abortion. I just don't think you should go around killing babies because you made a bad decision. Not even just a woman thing but a man thing. I worked with a guy that talked to several women into having abortions. I am not sure if all of them where his but the dude was up to nine abortions. I mean for all that is holy wear a freaking condom. That's a whole different thing. But it's ridiculous to me that you expect him to be ok with losing his child over a mere accusation but she can't get over a date after a breakup. Like he owes her time to process when she didn't give him time to double check that he actually cheated. Then on top of it all, funny how she never intended to end the relationship until she was sure he cheated. Truth is that she most likely was on the fence for whatever reason on having kids. They were both irresponsible on how they were intimate. A little accusation was good enough to have an abortion. When she discovered he didn't cheat, she didn't intend to let him know what she did but then felt too guilty when he proposed to her that quick after the abortion. She expected to cry and confess and him to be upset and forgive so she can go on living and enjoying life without regrets and guilt but it didn't play out how she wanted. So now she was ok with him sleeping with another woman and happy to have his babies right away if it means she doesn't lose her perfect relationship. Now she is willing to compromise. It's me me me me. They all have the same logic. All about me and I and myself. I honestly wouldn't be surprised if she actually cheated and didn't know who is the father. That's probably the thing that makes most sense. I cheated or was thinking about monkey branching but he offered marriage and a wedding so now I regret it. The whole thing took a week to ruin a perfect relationship.

That’s Reddit for u lol it’s full of terminally online weirdos😂

@@WheresTheMoneyLebowski Sadly that's not reddit but just the current environment. I follow a channel and every now and then they get a personal submission. Guy: I am not taking her back because she cheated. Friend of the girlfriend: You should take her back and if she cheated on you it's because it's your fault for not satisfying her and that means you need to work on yourself and your relationship. Guy: hold that thought and goes and brings back a list of the people girlfriend cheated on him with which included their marital status and what they did and when and where "it was the girlfriend fetish" and hands it over to the friend. Friend is reading. Guy: points out the name of her husband and says I guess we both need to improve and work on ourselves. Friend: that effing B, can't believe she did that to me. It's the usual double standards. It's more common now a days because there are more trashy people around. Can you even tell me how many people you know that have been married for over thirty years with zero infidelity and affair babies running around? People don't know how to be in a good relationship. Part of it is to stay away from toxic people with the wrong morals and values. I bet you several of their friends don't have the right morals and values.

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Exactly, her body her choice does not free her from consequences for her choices

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Period

She got what she wanted, but she lost what she had.

fr, and whats also so insanely sad is that the "friend" really went as far as to trying to convince the gf to abort her damn baby just so she could have the OP instead.. cruel world

What happened is indeed a red flag-people rarely change and a wise man pays attention. And it’s also up to OP when he wants to start dating again-it’s none of his ex-girl friend’s business. Her friends saying he’s an AH for dating too soon is ridiculous.

If you’re too childish to talk to your partner about a serious allegation before making life changing decisions, you’re too childish to be a mom and a wife. So ultimately, in a round about way, she did the right thing.

That is the mindset...just words, no proof. No evidence. No getting story from the other side. She just took her word for it and ran with it.

@@a_paradoxfunction4156 I'll admit that he shouldn't even start dating that fast. However, it worked out cuz that girl was also cheating. Let's see how feminists defend that behavior.

It explains why she keeps fucking asking him to take her back. She can't take no for an answer 💀

Yuuup

Some people process loss differently.

I think it was more for the girl he moved onto. Cause OP would’ve sen her as a “rebound” so early on.

Because some people have this fantasy idea that after a breakup, you still owe your former partner something.

​@SnowyWolborg Great point, Snowy! There's a big difference between breaking up and being on break.

His life his choice. As long as he does not cheat.

As someone who has been cheated on multiple times in the past, my first reaction would probably be to believe it ngl. I'd likely do a ton of verification before making any big decisions, but I'd probably looking to verify what I "know" to be true. It's not the logical/smart thing, but it is the "natural" response.

is this a movie reference? movie name?

​@@divyanshsahainaah it's a meme from another story from telltales

@@divyanshsahai there is a classic reddit story where OPs parents tried to tell him to give the house he just bought to his golden child brother, his evil SIL, and his 5, soon to be 5 kids. Through every update until the extended family got involved, they kept screaming "why can't you just do it for Dan!"

​@@samanthadetgen5041four kids. Dan found out his wife cheated on him and the fifth baby isn't his. He divorced her and got his name legally removed from the birth certificate. His ex-wife and her ap tried to sue for money but that didn't end well for the both of them.

Nice guy

Imo he moved on pretty quickly but that's just me, people move on their own pace

If the PI did find anything, she would have shown it, so I'm guessing she didn't even wait for the PI to come to a conclusion

@@amazingdoorbob5458The story says the abortion happened right after hiring the investigator.

She said that she hired the PI and took the pill in the meantime. She got the abortion before even waiting for the results

​@@NeoCreo1also lied to her parents about talking to op about being pregnant. She never told him, didn't talk to him about it and made a choice by herself

Private Investigators AKA legalized stalking.

You are generally right, but your listed reasons to get an abortion don't matter.

Your boyfriend was wrong. He gave away something that wasn't his to give. That art piece was for your mother. Lying to his mother was awful. You OP , are better off.

i feel bad for the bf's mom because she lost a nice daughter in law just because her cappy son cannot think for anything

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Dude is making $400k in investments right out of high school and not coming from a rich family. What I've learned from these stories is that if you want to have a successful kid, treat them like 💩.

If they’re married then both partners have a say and all it takes is one to prevent an abortion. If not married then it’s up to the gal only.

​@@darth3911 She did it behind his back with no proof of him cheating.

@@darth3911 That's the funny thing. When you make a decision all on your own , you ultimately have to bear the consequences alone. Even if they weren't married, this was still his child and he's going to have feelings about this surprise abortion. By listening to her friends, Jas played herself.

​@@darth3911If this were the case where the man doesn't have the presence or agency, yeah. But this is her fiance with whom she was considering and actively discussing children. And it was a decision made unilaterally based on a rumor she didnt even confirm. She just pulled the trigger at the first sign of trouble behind his back and then figured she could sweep up the mess later.

She is not the only reason the baby was created and the father has a right to keep it.......

Yea that my problem with abortions, and people have no morality or sense of responsibility, and what you said in your comment.

@@enriqueperezarce5485 thank you

@@enriqueperezarce5485 thank you

Both are morally wrong and selfish

Did you have a stroke writing that?

Isn't it funny that it's "her body her choice" but also "...takes two to tango?"

Uhh if she gets an abortion then there is no birth certificate lol. Logic my man. If youre mad about it being legal for your partner to have an abortion, would you rather it were illegal and you have to deal with the fact years later that she never wanted your kid? I just dont see the upside of banning it. Also what if the partner is abusive, or what if she is just not in the best state health wise and doesnt want to commit to labor at the moment? Seems like it must be legal to avoid fucking people's lives up, which is common sense for the importance of bodily autonomy. I mean seriously, imagine you went to a doctor asking for a medical procedure and they told you that it's illegal for them to do! Thats total bullshit, if you really think you need to control your partner to that point you should get some help and that is not judgement at all I am 100% serious

​@gabbylee3385 Women are just as capable of baby trapping men as men are to women, there are women who lie about being on birth control in order to get pregnant on purpose and force men into fatherhood. Funny how "equality" only seems to go one way.

​@gabbylee3385 Women are just as capable of forcing men into parenthood as men are to women, there are women who lie about being on birth control in order to get pregnant on purpose, there have been instances where men have been SA'd and been forced to pay child support to their assaulters. How exactly is that fair?

​​@gabbylee3385 Nobody has an issue with abortion for medical reasons, people take issues with women using it as birth control, or to spite their boyfriends or husbands, also women are just as capable of baby trapping men, if a woman can pick and choose whether to be parents men should have the same rights, equality goes two ways.

Its like throwing something out. Its yours and ya own it until ya put it on the curb soon as its on the curb its no longer private property. Same with semen soon as its in a girl its no longer the man's. Bro choose to throw it away in there. If a baby shows up cuz of it even if he doesnt want to. He gotta pay for said baby cuz dumbass throw his seed in a woman instead of a trash can or down the drain like a smart man. Dont want kids get snipped 100x easier than for woman to get snipped. Or wear a condom not a cheap one and put it on properly cuz not putting it on properly is why they tear. Men got more control over if a baby happens cuz during sex its their shit that gets sprayed everywhere. Also a woman cant kill a kid thsts outside her body. only when its inside she got a say in what happens and only for a limited time abortions cant happen after like 3 months or something. Then the woman is just baby incubator until it comes out hoping the baby doesnt kill her during the pregency or delivery. See naunce and detail shit no one talks about or thinks about anymore.

You're completely misrepresenting prochoice and making it seem like a complete binary proposition. Reasonable people in a relationship communicate. A woman should have the option and the relationship should have consequences if it even exists if it's not a mutual decision.

@@Nonono7226 Pro-choice advocates believe in the "my body, my choice" principle but fail to fully embrace the associated responsibilities and consequences. There seems to be an imbalance where women demand authority over their bodies without shouldering the responsibility, while expecting men to bear all the obligations and repercussions if they do not want the child. Notably, pro-choice groups have not contested men being required to pay child support for children they did not wish to have.

I think you’re doing too much here. You can be pro choice for circumstances such as in^est, rope, violent environment to bring baby to, danger to mom or baby, baby will have bad quality of life due to disorders or diseases found before birth, or baby isn’t expected to last long after birth. Not evrything is as black and white as you think.

@@Nonono7226Um no pro choice believe that women should be able to abort without the approval of their partner. They also achieved getting this into law in many countries which is way above whole section of pro life are literally people who just want a say in their own offsprings abortion.

No. It was for her Mom. He did that to his Mom, which she was sad about because she's a good person, but letting him get away with anything was the wrong way to handle any of this

Nothing wrong with pro choice. You aren't the one risking death, disability or just trauma you never heal from by growing someone inside you. Doing it without discussion and for petty reasons is gross though

You must not be an adult. He isnt mad that she aborted the baby, as he said her body her choice, but she didnt think to console him with the information. Not only that but the reason she got an abortion was because one of her friends randomly said he had cheated and the gf automatically believed her and aborted the baby before even getting actual evidence proving he was cheating. Anyone with any self respect would drop the relationship. But op didnt scream, hit her, or spouted insults her way. He broke up with her and left the relationship

And how do you have the right to say he would be a terrible father even after watching the video? You must not have

You literally explained why he wouldn't be bad father and why he isnt an ah in your exact comment. You've literally created an oxymoron in 1 paragraph

As soon as bearing a baby is just as dangerous and painful for men as it is for women, sure.

@@rachelmap100 this is a ridiculous argument. We are not in the 1800s. My body my choice --> Abortion is easily accessible to all women in the western world. My life, my choice --> Men should have the right to abort legally his kid (aka resigning of his duties / rights) if he does not feel ready to be a father.

@gabbylee3385 this is also a ridiculous argument. Men should not be forced to have an operation to decide on their paternity.

@@adude661 "Abortion is easily accessible to all women in the western world." LOL. How to tell me you don't pay attention to women's rights without saying, "I don't pay attention to women's rights."

@@adude661 No, see. That wouldnt work. Men have to be responsible when fathering children otherwise we will have millions more starving kids and much much more crime accordingly. Both parents have to be responsible unless they lose custody, but the mother has added responsibilities of risking her health and going through labor. So there will never be a situation where the mother could abandon the father with the child before the birth, however the reverse is not uncommon. And in those situations, the mother and child are fucked over by the selfish man because of his actions, so he should totally take responsibility that is just common sense. However if they decide not to have the kid then neither takes responsibility, which is an only Option if abortion is legal! Look freedom is supposed to be the whole point of this country right? Pretty ironic if you ask me

Take it up with the constitution. This is supposed to be the land of the free. Dont like it, leave

He doesn't have the right to know? It takes two to tango

No she decided to be sneaky that’s why he’s so mad about it.

@@NouveauView I'm saying I don't think he's pro choice.

@@AnimeGamer501st And? Whether or not he is he had a right know, she didn't magic herself pregnant.

@@NouveauView I mean yeah. Like that's not the argument I was making.