My Oldest Daughter Had a Breakdown and Confessed That Her Mom (My Wife) Had Parentified Her into ...

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22 күн бұрын

My wife (F48) has been cheating on me (M41) while neglecting our three children - waiting to file for divorce but scared I won't get my children (Aggravating_Pen948 in r/Infidelity)
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@brianbarber5401 20 күн бұрын

Threatening to kill herself? Sounds like a self correcting problem.

@vaseline69 20 күн бұрын

yup, my answer would be "don't make a mess"

@Notoriouscj1 20 күн бұрын

I thought the same thing

@douglasluiz2225 20 күн бұрын

I would ask to a moment to get plastic to the floor so it dont get dirty

@buttholesurfer3213 20 күн бұрын

“Longways for results, wh*re”

@ihatepeopleyes9492 20 күн бұрын

Yep. She needs to do what she says.

@thelittlelady1679 20 күн бұрын

Wow, what an abusive, neglectful, horrible person. She’s so narcissistic she would never take her own life. Get away from her and leave her to her selfishness.

@runawaypacman 18 күн бұрын

I agree this story sounds like Another Reddit killing story I watched from a KZfaq video That ended up with the wife killing all 3 of the kids once they got a divorce just to get back at him.😢

@MegaHarvickFan29 20 күн бұрын

Wow, May is a real piece of work. Get away from her, get your daughters away from her and get them therapy ASAP. Don't look back! Regardless of how long the affair has been going on, the decade long parental neglect is grounds enough for the divorce.

@MayankKumar-bl2dy 20 күн бұрын

Well he is Hella Stupid for doing so at least he should have told his side of them Family this Woman will definitely try to put the blame of him and Make herself the Victim and you know how gender eQuAlItY is around the world

@legiontepes3474 20 күн бұрын

I'm sorry for the girls. Op is so stupid it hurts.

@danacarter9147 20 күн бұрын

Same here.

@runawaypacman 18 күн бұрын

😒 I agree OP is dumb. Why on earth would he confront a child abuser/cheater. 😟 You cannot move recklessly around a child abusers Because they are the type of people that will end up killing the child just to get back at you; you have to move smart and have proof that they're an abuser before you divorce that way the court won't give them full custody And not give them an opportunity to kill the kids.

@STAYATINYARMYSIN 20 күн бұрын

Lily is 14 Abby is 12 and June is 10 I’m pretty sure the judge would want to hear them out before making a ruling

@lisaclark7810 20 күн бұрын

Bring up the fact that you're leaving her, but record it but have an officer in the house hidden when she threatens to end her life again so he can get her help and would help you get custody of the kids

@garystewart2355 20 күн бұрын

Why would you care if she killed herself?

@harleyquinn5774 20 күн бұрын

Years of emotional investment into their relationship. That’s not easy for everyone to cut ties from in a nano-second. Especially while in shock from learning the truth about a spouse/partner’s infidelity.

@LordMondegrene 20 күн бұрын

ONE MEAL A DAY? I had to push the cats aside to eat THEIR food. Good times...

@paxthehedgehog7760 20 күн бұрын

I hope you post the update as soon as it comes out, I hope Op can get his children away from this women. I had an ex friend who pulled something like this with her husband and ruined his life making sure he would never see his kids again hence why she is not my friend anymore.

@dieselszalmahuszar 20 күн бұрын

OP was an idiot. Cheaters are usually narcisistic people who love themself too much and think they deserve more outside the relationship. She would NEVER took her own life. What I'd have said to her in that situation is "Okay, go ahead, no alimony and or custody battle, we will never ever be together anyways so... Alive or dead makes no difference. And your fingerprints on the knife only so you can't frame me either." Am I wrong? Cold? Maybe, but I am right, she would never hurt herself. But the look on her face and the realisation would be priceless. After that record everything in case she want to frame her husband. That's it

@sanicinapanic4264 20 күн бұрын

You’re thinking far too linear frankly cheaters don’t have to be narcissist that’s just an easier way to dissociate yourself from them. You have to take in mind. OP loved may also take in mind the kids if OP had said that every time they would think they wouldn’t think about there “cheating ex” they would think about the mother of their children the person they loved

@aleksandarvil5718 20 күн бұрын

Story #1: OP & daughter = NTAs The World's Smallest Violins 👌🏻🎻👌🏻🎻👌🏻🎻👌🏻 for 304!Birthgiver May !!! 😂😂😂😂

@gxd9903 20 күн бұрын

@@cricket5692 you are acting like you don't know the context behind the story, if these girls were raised like this since they were 5, 3, and 1 years old, then how would they know that they can go to their father for this? The oldest daughter did bring up depression, what if she was threatened as well? The kids aren't going to say anything when the oldest talks about "ruining the family" because they thought the family could continue like that.

@develyntwocentshenderson5739 20 күн бұрын

drastic. take the kids and go the 16 hours . relocate and say it is an emergency.

@Nerdbookworm 13 күн бұрын

HOU CALL THE COPS YOU DONT STAY WITH PEOPLE THAT THREATEN THAT

@develyntwocentshenderson5739 20 күн бұрын

go ahead go ahead go ahead. please. there are professional cleanup services.

@RoseKoneko 18 күн бұрын

I’m paying attention to the story, really, but I’m mostly just learning how to make better homes in Minecraft.

@VetaRoberts-sj7sw 20 күн бұрын

Take everything and leave as fast as you can. Nta

@alfredmarcos1761 20 күн бұрын

Dude should have called 9 11 he got manipulated big time and now wife knows she needs to be more careful

@danacarter9147 20 күн бұрын

Damn. I predict that, given the STBX-WIFE May had been cheating on OP, and parentifying their oldest daughter, when May gets full custody of the girls, and then, loses custody, when social services removes the girls from her, strips her of her parental rights, The oldest daughter (Lilly), and the youngest daughter (June) will be placed with other families, through closed adoption, and the middle daughter will be bounced from one foster home to another (with no hope of adoption), and lose contact with her sisters, next, after aging out of the system, she'll stay with/marry a boy who not only cheats on her, but also abuses her, verbally, emotionally mentally, physically; hence: roughs her up so horrifically, he puts her in the hospital, traps her, and threatens to end her, if she divorces her, then, flee to another state to raise her baby in a safe home environment, and stay at a women's shelter, get her GED certificate, find a cheaper apartment, as long as it's in a safe neighborhood, work two jobs to provide for herself and her baby as a single mom, and have to rely on neighbors as her support system, because she won't have OP, any friends, or other relatives in her new state to help out, plus, her baby will never get to know his grandfather or aunts; the only family the middle and her baby will have is each other.⚠️

@vaseline69 20 күн бұрын

are you ok?

@JDubs1464 20 күн бұрын

Buddy made a whole ass parlay

@Blurgamer17 20 күн бұрын

@vaseline69 They're making a detailed, statistic-based prediction on these kids and their futures. The stats are derived from: The current state of family court granting mothers full custody by default in most cases. The current state of foster care programs separating siblings and placing them in revolving household cycles until they age out of the foster care system. The current state of fatherless children and their decisions as adults. The current state of women who stay in abusive, one-sided relationships with male partners due to a lack of knowledge on what a good relationship between man and woman looks like. (The father sets the example of caring love at home, whilst the first partner shows maternal/intimate love out of her home) The current state of single parent households and how children grow up from these homes. (Refer to the fatherless article above for the child's perspective here) The conclusion to Op's prediction is that the kids will likely grow to become little May 2.0's due to how bad divorce proceedings are for men today. This doesn't answer if they're OK or not, but it does explain their psyche analysis.

@GMWILD87 20 күн бұрын

You need help as long as the father is in their lives he can get custody it's not as archaic as it once was.

@pokerus1359 20 күн бұрын

If may loses custody then the kids will most likely be handed off to the next relative; most likely OP.

@jazzie-sanbelle99 20 күн бұрын

Wtf what kind of a mother is that those poor kiddos. Y'all need therapy seriously 🙄 i hoping 🙏 those kiddos get away from toxicity fast

@MayankKumar-bl2dy 20 күн бұрын

Another Doormat

@jayallen9198 19 күн бұрын

I’ve listened to like 20 of these kinds of stories tonight and almost all the men were doormats. It’s no wonder their wives don’t respect them. They don’t even respect themselves.

@MayankKumar-bl2dy 19 күн бұрын

@@jayallen9198 Hard Times Create Strong Men. Strong men create Good Times. Good Times create weak men and weak men create Hard Times.brother

@vvingblade 20 күн бұрын

Man these newer videos are really falling off. I enjoyed this channel bc the stories had updates and conclusions, but recently almost none of them have had those.

@SecretVoices25 20 күн бұрын

Sry for that, I'll do better next time

@samaelangelus321 20 күн бұрын

If they don't have updates, they don't have updates.

@g6iii 20 күн бұрын

Tell the redditors to finish the stories then. There’s a finite number of “already complete” stories that exist 🤷🏿‍♀️

@user-bj8rk4rj7w 20 күн бұрын

you can't blame the channel owner for this because there are only so many completed stories on reddit

@mr.dickbutttheog2064 20 күн бұрын

I’m sorry but how is that the channel owner’s fault that the OPs haven’t updated their stories? If you wanna hear the updates so badly, then go to them and ask. If it’s not updated, then it’s not updated. The channel owner can always upload the update some other day, it’s literally not the end of the world nor is it call “falling off” 🤷‍♀️

@umagovindarajan4339 20 күн бұрын

May,june and are u August ?

@stafayeah6475 20 күн бұрын

How do you have a spouse but you're unmarried?

@FullMoonOctober 20 күн бұрын

Long-term partners that don't have a legally recognized union with a marriage license, maybe?

@stafayeah6475 20 күн бұрын

@@FullMoonOctober then they would not be considered a spouse.

@southernflight5078 19 күн бұрын

@@stafayeah6475 depends on where you live Common Law is literally almost in every state on the US.

@stafayeah6475 19 күн бұрын

@@southernflight5078 You’re referring to common law marriage. Legally they are considered married, therefore a spouse. Again how can you be a spouse if you’re unmarried.

@shells500tutubo 20 күн бұрын

Op was gone five days a week for years and is shocked that is wife is not who he thinks she is. She has a history of depression severe enough to need medication and a therapist and Op works at a job that ensures his wife is a single parent. He was very checked out of family life until he found out what was going on and now is shocked at what was happening under his nose. Yes, May is a horrible person, but he is too.

@sanicinapanic4264 20 күн бұрын

Disagree considering it was communicated multiple times if they would take the opportunity if it was OK for the extensions OP had an open line of communication and acknowledgment

@Tyukinj 20 күн бұрын

27 mins and 2 views? This is an actual bro fell off moment

@MacerXGP 20 күн бұрын

No it's not?

@InkAndPoet 20 күн бұрын

@@MacerXGPit's a joke, dude.

@MacerXGP 20 күн бұрын

@@InkAndPoet Thanks for telling me, I saw no humor in it.

@Tyukinj 20 күн бұрын

@@MacerXGP jokes can also be humorless

@Emil_LLscpfan 20 күн бұрын

@@Tyukinjwhat the point of a joke then

@alwaysright3943 20 күн бұрын

I have always found it interesting how effeminate western men sound in their writing. It’s vastly different to how different men and women sound when I read something in my own language.

@shells500tutubo 20 күн бұрын

This story may be written by a woman even though it says Op is a man and vice versa, and they are rarely true anyway.

@alwaysright3943 20 күн бұрын

Woman moment. If you had sons you would have found out way sooner. Males just have a stronger moral fiber.

@MayankKumar-bl2dy 20 күн бұрын

Your God Damn Right Bro

@Notoriouscj1 20 күн бұрын

True

@Only1199 20 күн бұрын

Not always the case.

@Blurgamer17 20 күн бұрын

@@Only1199But it is the rule.

@alwaysright3943 20 күн бұрын

@@Only1199 I’m not denying there are exceptions, but I find it much less likely that a boy would say “I didn’t tell you because I was scared” which is ridiculous. Clearly keeping her family intact (even though it would have been based on a lie) meant more to her than telling her own father the truth.