Advice: Do not move until you both know, without fail, where you want to be. Don't move out of boredom, because your children love their home.

Please think very carefully about moving, make certain you are willing to move away from family etc and what you have. The last thing you want is to go through moving only to find out in 6, 9 or 12 months or so that it's really not as great as you remember and want to move back again. Also don't move for friends, friends will come and go, family is forever. you can always catch up with friends. love you guys

Please dont move out of boredom or stress! You have both been through a tremendous amount of stress with Derek's knee surgeries. Give it a while to calm down and then make any big decisions.

Said in the sweetest way…go to counseling before big/important decisions of any kind are made. ❤

I agree with some other comments about remaining in one place to give the kids stability. I honestly don't get why anyone would spend all that money to build a new amazing house then want to move shortly afterwards. Instead of constantly uprooting their whole lives Id suggest investing in where you are.

WOW, Derik YOU just made so much sense when you said “why do we obsess about going to all of these other places that are not in the United States”? My sweet husband ALWAYS says the same! SO much BEAUTY right here in the United States. 🇺🇸 … thank you for the reminder ❣️❣️❣️❣️

My husband and I were in that area a few years ago, the landscapes and ocean are gorgeous, Hearst Castle is amazing, loved Cambria! Speaking about moving, I just want to say that as a child growing up, I would have loved living in one house, being in the same school district for all my school years, having the same friends and neighbors, plus having grandparents, cousins, etc. nearby. My mom was divorced, and we moved around a lot, which was not happy. Once children start school, they do so well with stability and routines for meals, homework, bath time and bedtime. Travel and vacations can happen during holidays or their summer break. Wherever you live, I hope your kids will get the best education possible-it’s so important in life!

Slow down. Heal. Be present. Give things some time. Dont rush the decision.

I would seriously think long and hard about selling your house especially in this economy. Everything is costing double what it used to and then to move to Hawaii one of the most expensive places in the United States. Just remember your home provides stability for your children and the fact that they are growing up around there grandparents only furthers that and the help once they start school will be invaluable.

I lived in Hawaii for 14 years. These are important years for your small babies and they deserve to grow up with their family, cousins and grandma & grandpa. Also, your kids will have a very hard time when they get older and going to school. Trust me…. I just hope you really think about it before moving back to Hawaii and think about your kids and your families ….. These precious moments with your kids and family members you can’t get back! Good luck! 🍀 ❤

I think Derek's surgeries were very stressful on your relationship and now you both need healing, not just his knees 😢 Perhaps even some grief or couples counseling...You both are such awesome young people and I hope your marriage can withstand the storms you've had...I believe that if you truly love one another you can withstand the test of time, with help from a 3rd party 🙏💞🤗

I traveled a lot and children needs stability. It will affect them as they get older. They need to experience day-to-day living and have a place to feel like home. They need to establish strong friendships and the older they get the more difficult it’s going to be for them so whatever you decide, think about being in this place for another 10 years or more some people live in homes their entire life and leave it to the kids if they want it but they have memories. It’s harder for the kids to make new friends if they’re being moved around a lot and have a negative impact.

Wasn’t the frequent theft a big reason why you didn’t like living in Hawaii?

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You live in a beautiful part of the world. Be thankful for that, your house and family around you. Friends are not family. Go to Hawaii on holiday. It will still be there.

Cambria is my favorite place in California. It’s so mystical and magical. ❤ it’s never too hot or too cold average temp is 75. The views are the best you could ask for.

You want to sell your house that you have just built??? 😮

I’m 54, a grandmother. Love both of the Beeston families. I’ve come to the conclusion that you need to be wherever you are the best version of yourself. There are pros & cons to everything in life. Our significant other, children, family, friends, neighbors, self…need us to be the very best version of ourselves. Some may say location is not a factor, but it is. Find your place & (here comes the cliche…but no! It’s true) live, laugh, & love. ❤️