I learned more about my cycle from carys than I did in school

I tried for 5 years had IVF no pregnancy, my Dr said that I needed to except that I probably wouldn't have children and to fill my life with other things (a heartbreaking comment) so I then just stop obsessing and ovulating tests, etc etc, then something made me buy a pregnancy test, I was pregnant, GP said miracle child wouldn't have anymore, started to feel nauseous, was pregnant again , have 2 beautiful daughters, 21 & 18, so never give up but taking the pressure off I definitely believe it helps, good luck to everyone, congratulations to Cary's and James X ❤

Not pregnant nor trying to conceive but found this video so interesting and your openness is greatly appreciated! 😊 PS: I'm a big fan of the long, sit down videos😍

Me & my husband have been TTC for 6 years. It's heartbreaking. So I feel your pain you had every month.

Omg guys please please do a 'EVERYTHING MY DOG TOUCHES WE BUY' Challenge for Mila in pets at home 😂😭😭 Thanks for the TTC vid! Glad it wasn't awkward but super interesting 🥰🥰

I can not get over how grown up these two are. As a young couple they seem to just know how/what to say and explain what they are talking about, and be very informative to help others, regardless of what they are discussing Sex, Pregnancy, House Buying... whatever it is James and Carys are the best at helping and answering questions, even ones that haven't been asked. Their parents must be really proud of their Son and Daughter (in-laws). Really looking forward to following their Pregnancy and home renovation progress and of course "meeting" baby Whitticker when he or she arrives xxx

“Doing it lots and lots and lots”😂😂😂 aw too funny

TTC for almost 4 years now. Every month of not being pregnant is heartbreaking.. So glad you got the baby you so badly wanted, its nice to see you so genuinely grateful and not taking it for granted ❤️

This is really informing. As a student midwife, it’s not really our job role to educate people on this kind of thing. I know briefly obviously the anatomy and physiology of ovulation/hormones, but didn’t know about the little things that can make a difference. It’s nice to hear it in a non-clinical way and how people actually react to this kind of information, like yourselves. I loooved this video, very helpful for lots of different people! 💗💗

As a 21 year old girl (and I’m not in a relationship nor trying to get pregnant), this was such an amazing video to watch, I think this video will stay in my mind for the future when the day comes when I do want to TTC, and so thank you so much for that. Honestly James and Carys you are both so amazingly open and I love it and I am thankful for how much you’ll be helping people with this video ❤️

I'm not struggling to conceive, nor am I even trying to conceive - nowhere near 😂 however, I KNOW this video is going to help SO many people!

Im 15 , i do not plan on getting pregnant for the next 10 + years ..... but i cannot miss a james & carys video ❤️ love you both and can’t wait to watch your journey x

I’m a sonography student and I’m also trying to conceive. On ultrasound you can see when you’re about to ovulate and once you already have. I have the ability to scan myself everyday so add that on top of everything Carys was doing. 😫 I feel you Carys.

What’s amazing is you guys went through the whole journey, and no matter how much of a struggle it was. This NEVER came across on camera and hats off to you. You are so strong carys, you guys wanted this so so much and you’ve finally done it. Can’t wait to watch the rest of the pregnancy journey even though I’m insanely jealous because I’m so so broody lololol love you xx

I absolutely love how involved James is with the process. Its interesting my husband and I got pregnant the first month with our first kid, first month with our second, and 2 entire years to conceive our 3rd we even had miscarried our twins the month before we got pregnant the 3rd time. You are so amazing, and I LOVE that you made this video thank you so much for taking the time to do this.

I’m 37 and have no interest in babies or getting pregnant or anything really pregnancy related but I’ve watched and loved everyone of your videos about your pregnancy and I just think you’re both the loveliest most down to earth couple! I love that you re just so open and honest and matter of fact about things and I could watch you guys talk about anything I think! Lol! Congratulations on the pregnancy both of you and thanks for the amazing videos :) xx

When I first fell pregnant my now fiancé shouted “YES! My swimmers work” 😂😂😂 I never thought about his feelings until that day haha xxx

I love how open you guys are about your journey, this is going to help so many people. Thank you for your open and honest content ❤️ love you both

You guys are so respectful of one another and of all your viewers, it’s so lovely to see and be a part of ❤️

This video shows every reason why I love you guys and your channel so much. So real, raw and honest, thank you for sharing your journey with us 💗💗

EVERYTHING about this video is absolutely spot on. Thank you so much for being who you are and opening up on your journey. -The understanding at the beginning that some people finding this too difficult to watch -Cary's pregnant brain moments -The real life moments of letting Mila out rather than editing it out -The devastating but spot on summary of how Cary's felt about every day of every month -The little comments like 'stop or I'll end up peeing myself" -The honesty about the taboo and stigma around this subject and infertility You guys are amazing ☺️❤️ I am loving following you on this journey and your really keeping me going through this difficult time with covid and giving me something to focus my attention on rather than giving into my anxiety Xxxx

It’s lovely that you guys can be so open about this. We were the same as you guys, it took us 6 months which isn’t a crazy amount of time and we feel so lucky. But the mental stress is like no other! A month feels like a year and every negative is just so heartbreaking. The minute I thought ‘it wasn’t meant to be’ it happened!! I was so convinced every month I was pregnant but so disheartening when I wasn’t. I was obsessed with research and pregnancy tests! Thank you for being so open and helping others talk ❤️

Absolutely bloody brilliant !! U delivered that open conversation so bloody good !! I felt emotional watching it and had tears at the end. I wish I had watched that 8 years ago on my own journey . U both delivered that so openly, honestly and beautifully. Brilliant thank you 🙏🏻😘

Been following you guys for over a year now and I’m so incredibly happy for you!!💖 You guys seem like the loveliest people and deserve the world xx

I just love how open these two are , yous two are helping so much people more than you know! Yous both are truly deserving of this wonderful life and this wonderful new life yous are going to be bringing into this world! The most genuine people from KZfaq I have ever watched and just overall amazing couple, yous both deserve all the happiness in the world! And all us supporters love yous so much❤️ I wish you so much love and happiness for your amazing new life with your wee baby❤️

It’s amazing that you guys are so open and honest about your TTC journey!❤️ thank you so much for this video, so happy for the both of you and cannot wait for more videos❤️

One of the most important videos on KZfaq, without a doubt. Thank you for sharing all of this information in such a comforting and wonderful way. A beautiful couple ❤️

Oh my, I got so much from this! Thank you!!! We are at month 5 of TTC at the moment and the struggle is real but hearing this gave me so much hope and made me realise that I am not completely crazy and alone with how consuming it is. Thank you again.

My cycle is the exact same as Carys', suuuuper irregular. And it gives me comfort to know that there are many women who have irregular cycles. Thank you for sharing all this information, I've learned so much from you Carys🥰

When I tell you I almost teared up throughout this video. I’m super excited for you guys and so grateful to have found Carys’s channel about 3 years ago. I’ve been watching you guys ever since. It’s basically a “oh James and Carys uploaded” and I stop everything I’m doing to watch with all of the ads included. Thankyou for sharing your TTC journey (I worry all the time about this because I have PCOS) and I cannot wait to see you both as parents!

It’s so easy to assume you’ll get pregnant straight away, watching this has taught me SO much! When I try to conceive in the future I’ll definitely remember this video, thank you so much guys, so happy for you and I know you’ll be the greatest parents! ❤️

I'm not pregnant or trying to conceive but I found this so interesting and informative , love these sit down videos ❤ thank you guys so much for being so open and informative ❤

Absolutely love how real and honest you are. So inspiring!

Thank you for being willing to put your story out there to help others. Love you both! I will be praying for all those TTC couples.

Can I just say WOW ❤ I’m literally in week 2 of ttc and it’s so nice to hear someone talk about exactly how I’m feeling and what I’m doing. I’ve become obsessive with googling, recording ovulation blah blah and after watching this I’m deleting all the apps and stopping the ovulation kits to just breathe! Thank you so much James and Carys for this video, I really needed it ✨

Oh my goodness your ttc journey was so much like ours! When we first had unprotected sex I was sure I was pregnant (they pretty much tell you in school that unprotected sex causes you to get pregnant so I was naive also). Eventually I got ovulation test kits and downloaded an app on my phone and found out how it all worked. It took us 5 months as well! I am 35 weeks pregnant this week, inducing at 38 weeks so our baby boy will be here soon. 😍💕 so happy and excited for you both!

I love how genuine you both are about this, so real I love it!❤️

This is the most raw and honest video I've watched on ttc! Thanks for being so honest! So happy for you guys x

As someone who has been/is ttc i appreciate this video so much! Youve made all my feelings feel so validated. I am so grateful for that! I think you've doing wonders for breaking that stigma! Thank you!

My story is a little sad so please read with caution! Back in 2019, I fell pregnant and didn’t have any idea. I went had my scan and found out I was 16 weeks, 1 month later we found out it was a little boy. 3 weeks later at 22 weeks and 3 days, I gave birth to a sleeping angel baby boy 💙 Fast forward to November 16th 2019, I became pregnant again but sadly lost baby at 6 weeks 2 days. It’s now a year on, my period has started up again and I’m hopeful we will be blessed with a little baby soon. I truly believe everything happens for a reason and everything will fall into place. Right now we would love another little one and we plan to just going to let things happen when it wants to happen. I really appreciate this video as it’s so helpful. Your honesty is refreshing, thank you so much Carys and James 👼🏻❤️

I just want to say I'm so incredibly grateful with your compassion towards people with infertility issues and how you captured how hard it is. Im going on 2yrs ttc and its the hardest thing I've had to deal with as a woman, but i will not give up! 😁 Love you guys ❤

I love your positivity it lifts me up❤️ keep shining your light on this world. We appreciate you

I think this was the best insight into actually how you two are as people and it was so lovely to see! X

I love that you are so open about it, and don't sugar coat it. Thank you this video helped x

Love these two❤️ I have been ttc for 4 years and still trying so I can totally relate how hard it is. This means loads☺️

I'm 5 mins in and just wanted to say my husband and I have been TTC for 4 years and last two years he's been going through kidney failure so had to put it on pause but hopefully after his transplant I can go back to my fertility specialist and go on whatever I need to get a BFP! But really appreciate the sensitivity to people trying for years and I wanna say I'm so happy for you both, it's such a blessing to have a dream come true and your baby is obviously already so loved and wanted, ye will be amazing 💗

It’s so cute and refreshing to hear someone talk openly about your sex life. I am always open about it without telling everything, and it’s nice to see someone talk about it

Thank you for this guys. You’ve made me feel far less alone. It’s such an isolating time and it’s something that should be talked about more. We are still quite early on in our TTC journey but it still feels so disappointing seeing that negative every month 🤍

Really refreshing to hear you both appreciate that you guys conceived quickly...took me 15 YEARS!!! You clearly don’t take it for granted, congrats to you both xxx

Loved watching this felt like I was involved, like James just nipping to the toilet etc felt so natural and real. And I loved hearing your story and it’s so nice to hear normal life chat ❤️

So happy for you both honestly you’re going to be the most amazing parents!🥰 the intro to this makes me both sad and happy ❤️

I was tracking everything with this pregnancy currently 9 weeks on Friday. Took 14 months of trying. My oldest took 2 tears and my 2nd took 18 months. Tracking bbt and charting can be wonderful but it's not for everyone . I am still so happy for you!!

I’m so excited to watch this thank you for sharing your journey and putting yourselves completely out there. It’s so informative to hear what different people go through. You two are amazing ❤️

Wow, I’m not trying to conceive but this has really reassured me for when I eventually do! Thanks for being so open and real 💜

This was so down to earth and so lovely to watch. I'm not TTC but watching this made it so real that one day this will be me and has definitely put things into perspective! Thank you both.

Thanks for being open and honest guys I’m sure this will help so many people out there xx

I love how open and honest you guys are!

My favourite type of videos from you guys ❤️ you’re both so entertaining and easy to listen to, I could just watch all day!

Just want to say I’m not trying to conceive but wow, they definitely need to teach you more about your cycle at school! I had absolutely no idea about any of this

So informative thank you for being so incredibly honest you are remarkable what a lucky little baby you are having. We need more James and carys in this world you are truly amazing 💛

2 and a half years in. It’s very difficult. I’m so pleased you managed to achieve your baby goal in 5 months... every step of the way is difficult no matter how long your journey is but thank you for realising how frustrating that news is to some of us. I love you channel, your understanding over our real ttc journey is so appreciated xx

I’m currently going through IVF; TTC and everything is such a draining thing and I’m so happy for you guys. My journey has been around 3/4 years now so hopefully this time is it❤️❤️

I love this so much. I so appreciate your honesty, openness and wonderful example and healthy communication in a relationship!!! I’m in no way trying to conceive or see that happening anytime soon but I watch these and just love the healthy relationship vibes! Lol You’re both so wonderful and I couldn’t be happier for you 💜

Currently on a ttc journey (month 3) and everything you said is exactly how my husband and I feel. Thank you for sharing your journey so openly.

❤😘 I'm so incredibly happy and excited for you both and mila to be a big sister. Our TTC journey started in May 2016 we had to postpone in September 2017.. I was in kidney failure and on a journey to start dialysis. 20months ago (Feb 2019) I was extremely lucky to receive a life changing/improving kidney transplant. I was told the day after surgery I had a belter (fantastic) of a match and in year we could potentially try for a family. We had planned to get my implant out in march but covid put a stop to that and I went into strict shielding. We are waiting to see an obstetrician to see if it's possible. I don't ovulate. Some of my anti-rejection will need to be changed. We knew at the start of out TTC journey it would be hard but we are hopefully. #kidneywarrior! 💚😘

Thank you for putting out such raw and honest content. We love you ❤️ Can’t wait to watch xx

this was such a great video! really appreciate how open and honest you both are about things like this.

Never clicked so fast... the intro itself got me so excited! I’m so happy for you guys!! ❤️❤️

We started trying in December 2019, put so much stress on the relationship after a few months. I said to partner let's take a break and start in the month we'd be safe to go on holiday (didn't know we'd cancel due to a pandemic). We started in Feb 2020 and then in March conceived, I'm currently 32+ weeks and on the final stretch..... Still feels like a dream 🥰😂 Can totally relate to a lot of the things mentioned here! 😍

it took me and my partner 1 year and half. so long, thank you for making this video; I would have loved to have a video to watch like this so I didn't feel so alone... now 3 years down the line from having our daughter we are trying for baby #2 currently on month 8 of trying. fingers crossed. so so happy for you guys. you guys are the best xxxx

I’ve been trying for 9 months. Unfortunately suffered a miscarriage in feb. It’s hard but this video has let me see a way forward so I want to personally thank the both of you for displaying this video it’s helped in ways I can’t describe. I’m so overally happy for you both i really am❤️

You both don’t know how much this will help couples,thank you❤️❤️

I'm a fairly new subscriber, started following after you announced your pregnancy! My husband and I are currently TTC our first baby and we're on our 4th month of 'really' trying - it's tough! At first, I was very chill and then I got into tracking my temperature and symptoms. Unfortunately, I've had two months back to back where I've had a chemical pregnancy which have been utterly heart-breaking but I've tried to stay positive! This video has helped me to see that I'm not alone in my worries and concerns and what will be will be! Thank you

The purest souls on KZfaq! I have really gone off KZfaq recently but absolutely love you guys and following your journey! Sending lots of love xxxxx

Sending you guys so much love, you’re both so strong for making this video and being so open and honest 🥰❤️

My parents tried for 10 years to have me. They then went down the route of IVF. They had a couple of unsuccessful rounds and my mum pretty much gave up. After the last round my mum had pretty much decided in her head that it wasn’t going to work, so she decided to go out for drinks with friends and just enjoy herself. Boom, here I am 😊

I was TTC for nearly 2 years and I was getting referred to the Gynocolist, I got to the point where I felt broken with it all, depressed, didn’t feel human. No one understood, I felt so alone. To the end I stopped doing the ovulation test, temp, tracking my days, also the vitamins I stopped. then this month I’ve got a BFP!!! I don’t know how but I’m finally pregnant I’m nearly 6 weeks! So early days but I still can’t believe it!! I’m over whelmed..

I’ve never really watched a video of you but I follow you on Instagram and I just love how you two compliment each other and how polite you are to each other. James is so lovely to you, you truly seem like a great and happy couple!

James’ face when she said “you get drunk when you drink alcohol” instead of pregnant😂😂 xx

I’m a mum of two and don’t plan anymore babies but I’m soooo here for all things babies on your channel, I also wish everyone trying to conceive that you get your little miracle. As hard as it is just try not to stress too much some of the most amazing things happen in the most unexpected times 😊

This was such a gorgeous open video, I loved James’s ‘after and arm day’ 😂. I was the same and super obsessive when trying, sadly followed by a few miscarriages, I wish this video had been out there back then ❤️ your intro was so respectful to everyone’s different situations, just a lot of love for you guys x

I just wanted to say thank you so much for making this video. Myself and my husband are trying to conceive, I also have fibroids which has been causing me a lot of anxiety with infertility etc. I've been so stressed and feeling 'unworthy'. Watching this has honestly made me feel so much more normal. You both look so happy and are going to be amazing parents. You're little bub is going to be so loved ❤

Love your honesty. TTC for 8 years (unfortunately been on/off due to health problems/meds that weren't compatible with pregnany). The heartbreak each period is the same for us all..heartbreak is heartbreak 💔. Love your thinking that a period is just a fresh start. Can't wait to see your pregnancy/parenting process xx

Not close to my own TTC journey, but I love you guys so of course I’m watching all of your videos, and honestly this is so interesting & helpful for the future!! I love how transparent you are! Forever my fave couple. Congratulations to you both and thank you for sharing your journey 💗💗

This is such great advice from Carys and James. I appreciate this video so much I’ve learnt more from this video than some apps and Internet. 💕

I think I’ve watched this video 10+ times. I’m currently on my TTC journey and nobody really understands how hard it is unless you’ve been through it. My family has a history of getting pregnant in 1-2 months on average and I’m going on month 4. Thank you for sharing your journey ❤️

**is visibly crying** James- you’re crying Carys- no I’m not

Going through this atm so nice to hear that someone else researched and obsessed as much as me. It's so hard not too and can seem like your nuts 💖

so proud of you both, love you guys ❤️ you both teach me so much about loving myself and topics like these!!

really appreciate your openness with this whole process💛 so happy for you two🥰

I love the way they are doing all these videos together because I’ve seen a lot of videos where it’s just the woman. I think people forget it can be hard for the man too! You’re going to make the best parents! Congratulations xxxxx

This is the most I’ve ever felt like your true friends like I always watch and think as we’d be great friends but like this is a real chatty catch up. I’m not trying to conceive but I have definitely already had breakdowns with my boyfriend worrying that I won’t be able to get pregnant and this video has made me feel SO much better about when we eventually do start trying! As a lot of my friends don’t understand that mindset of my future family meaning so much to me already!

I hope your child watches all of your pregnancy videos when they're old enough to understand. its a beautiful thing that you guys are filming all of this! so happy for you two :)

Thank you so much for this video!!! It is litteraly so honest and shows reality and it made me feel so much less alone!! I am on my 6th month TTC in my two week wait and it did reassure me! Thank you and congratulations ❤️

I’ve been waiting for this, thank you for always being so open and honest😍😍 me and my husband have just started our TTC journey a month ago🥰🥰

I love love love how open you are about all of it!

This has helped me so much with my TTC journey. Literally felt calm for the first time in ages.THANKYOU!

It makes me so happy that you two feel comfortable to talk about things like this, and I’m sending out so much love to anyone else to is currently TTC❤️ To anyone else reading this, happy hump day😇 Half way through the week, and if you’re anything like me it’s WINE WEDNESDAY😂 I hope everyone is well, stay safe and remember to keep smiling! Lots of love, a small time KZfaqr trying to spread positivity❤️❤️

Thank you both for being so open and honest about this 💕

This video is really refreshing & a reminder to myself to not be so hard on myself when it doesn't happen. I have been trying 7 years & 5 losses, I truly sympathise with everyone on this ttc journey ❤️ Never give up xx