OUR INVISIBLE ILLNESS... How we deal with Endometriosis ...
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4 жыл бұрынOvaries, cramps and periods, ... we’re talking about talking about it all and hopefully it helps you feel less alone. xo's ~ Tati
ENDOMETRIOSIS AWARENESS
The month of March brings women, families and medical communities together for Endometriosis Awareness Month. During this time, millions of people all over the world honor this month to recognize the 176 million women who suffer from this disease.
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@ginnyharrison8138 4 жыл бұрын
Ladies, never accept "it's all in your head". I heard that for 4 yrs before being diagnosed.
@lottkroese9601 4 жыл бұрын
same here for around 8 years they kept telling me it was normal... You really have to be your own advocate.
@kennedyreed8689 4 жыл бұрын
Same! It’s been 3 years for me.
@anileda1116 4 жыл бұрын
I heard that since age 12, was diagnosed until I was 34 (year ago )
@chloegoesoutside2755 4 жыл бұрын
1000% with you. Fight to be heard, and do not let them make you think nothing is wrong!
@shariwelch8760 4 жыл бұрын
@Nina No it isn't, it's literally not in your head.
@talklikeahick2u877 4 жыл бұрын
My gyn is a good friend of mine HOWEVER he once told me “nothing can hurt that bad”🤬 THEN, he came into radiology (where I worked) and was crying with a kidney stone. I leaned over and said “nothing can hurt that bad”👿 His attitude towards women’s pain changed that day😆
@josiedavidson2776 4 жыл бұрын
And that is why Sensitivity training in health care is so important !!
@nightwindswings 4 жыл бұрын
TalkLikeAHick2U I had a doctor who when I asked him to tell my boyfriend that yes I do have pain during sex, laughed at me and he told him that there is no reason for me to have pain. Needless to say it was my last visit to him
@meganmcdonald1171 4 жыл бұрын
I read an article that pain meds and so much more are not tested on female hormones. That certain Pain meds don’t even work on certain hormone levels. I don’t have Endo but I do have extremely adverse menstrual effects compounded by migraines. I got my period when I was 10.5 and thought I was dying. I would consistently miss 1-2 days of school, my flow was so heavy I would literally bleed through nighttime pads in an hour. I’ve gone through labour and I’d rather do that(40hrs straight back contractions-I had the epidural, and I had 1-2 degree tears) than have another period again.
@crystalsumralldeguire6523 4 жыл бұрын
I've had kidney stones for years and I always have several embedded within my kidneys that are routinely monitored. I can't tell you how many doctors and nurses have said to me, "But they're only really small." I finally asked one of them, "Have YOU ever passed a kidney stone?" Of course she hadn't, so I told her not to tell me a 5mm stone is "small" until she's passed one.
@fletcherxdesign 4 жыл бұрын
TalkLikeAHick2U 🙌🏼🙌🏼
@corinne8700 4 жыл бұрын
Being a canadian and having universal health coverage, I mean saved my life for so many different reasons. Health is wealth.
@infinite_verve 4 жыл бұрын
Health coverage only covers (some of) the cost here, and we pay for that medical via taxes (it is not "free"). Also, SUPER important: just because we have 'universal healthcare' it does not mean that Canada has Universally wonderful, responsible, ethical, trustworthy, caring, non-arrogant, wise, compassionate, safe doctors (or healthcare workers). As Canadians we need to be more truthful about what health coverage means (and what it does not include). We also need to listen that not everyone has the same experiences within Canada; it can vary wildly, and needs serious attention. We also have many other services (like the College of Physicians and Surgeons- which is supposed to be a safety net for patients to report to), but they are in no way a trustworthy, ethical, sound-running group. Additionally, I had a full hysterectomy (hystereckingme) to address PCOS, and Endo (after having years of multiple surgeries to 'fix' the cysts/endo, and manage the pain)... The hysterectomy fixed that pain, but came with a host of other serious issues that have been debilitating, and depressing.
@stormystormiest 4 жыл бұрын
Physio chiro Is not covered, people suffering cause they can't pay...in canada not everything have benefits
@bjguz930 4 жыл бұрын
@@infinite_verve I wish people in America knew and realized this!!! All these people who are trying to get free healthcare by voting in a crazy socialist president are thinking it's gonna be a free for all when it comes to medical care and college! Nothing in this world is really FREE!!!!!! how can people be so naive?! 😥😥😥
@teresachapman205 4 жыл бұрын
@@bjguz930 TRUTH. You end up waiting so long to get in and be seen by the doctor/specialist, a plethora of other problems develop by the time you finally see them.
@bjguz930 4 жыл бұрын
@@teresachapman205 my goodness, that's such a scary thought! 😥😥
@crasslasscrochet4721 4 жыл бұрын
When Tati cries about health insurance; I also cry about health insurance.
@teamene9034 4 жыл бұрын
Vote don't cry!!! Vote don't cry!!! Vote don't cry!!! Vote don't cry!!! Vote don't cry!!!
@lizisasleep 4 жыл бұрын
Same.
@clairelangevine927 4 жыл бұрын
Crass Lass Crochet vote for health insurance!!
@Momofukudoodoowindu 4 жыл бұрын
Bernie 2020, we need Medicare for all
@Ash-ef9bw 4 жыл бұрын
As a student nurse wanting to specialise I gynaecology, hearing someone with this much of an audience talking about a hidden illness like this is amazing 💞💞 Thank you for sharing this Tati!
@Annie-jm1ox 4 жыл бұрын
Goodluck with the job.
@vleek07 4 жыл бұрын
Good luck with nursing. Such an important field to go into. Appreciate you!
@Ash-ef9bw 4 жыл бұрын
@@mynamnr3457 also one of the most rewarding 😃
@Ash-ef9bw 4 жыл бұрын
@@Annie-jm1ox thank you! X
@Ash-ef9bw 4 жыл бұрын
@@vleek07 thank you! X
@crystalsmith1910 4 жыл бұрын
When Erika started talking about how they wouldn’t let her go home I teared up- I could feel that pain and embarrassment. I’m so sorry that happened 💔💔💔
@razz7898 4 жыл бұрын
As a high school junior I realized I had started during psychology and I tried to let my male teacher know I needed to use the restroom, seriously and he was like why. He wouldn't stop when I kept saying I needed to use the bathroom. Like...finally I said, I'm going to bleed all over if you don't let me go. Then he acted all embarrassed and was like "gosh too much". Yeah bro, it's too much.
@NotAdultingToday 4 жыл бұрын
I'm floored by that. If a kid feel like they need to go home, call their parent.
@oldhollywoodangels 4 жыл бұрын
people need to take this very seriously
@valariealred3357 4 жыл бұрын
Crystal Smith I feel this so much I was in 4th grade and it use to happen all the time because I would just bleed soooo much. I finally got in birth control my freshman year of high school and that has helped some. But I’m 23 now and still not diagnosed
@monanana-04 4 жыл бұрын
@@razz7898omigosh, that is so wrong. I'm so sorry, girl.
@prickhead 4 жыл бұрын
Queen Tati drying her tears with her blendiful is iconic, btw.
@crystalreyes210 4 жыл бұрын
As a woman who deals with PCOS, I love to hear “Famous” people talk about all there issues! I wish you both the best! We love you 😻
@jessicasoares3734 4 жыл бұрын
I too have PCOS and it's always discouraging to hear stuff about having this condition. But end of the day, we gotta fight for life 🙂🤷♀️
@crystalreyes210 4 жыл бұрын
Jessica Soares For sure. I couldn’t agree more
@Momofukudoodoowindu 4 жыл бұрын
I have it too, I have a feeling I cant get pregnant.
@jessicasoares3734 4 жыл бұрын
@@Momofukudoodoowindu that's usually what they say... but my cousin sis had PCOS, but after marriage, she was able to have kids and her periods cycle was regular after that
@GracewithHumility 4 жыл бұрын
pessimistic college student I personally know someone who has PCOS and was able to give birth to 4 kids. You can still get pregnant despite what Drs. say ❤️🌹.
@krististroschein4908 4 жыл бұрын
And mother's , PLEASE listen to your daughters. My mom never understood my agony ,even after coming home with pink shorts covered in blood. Your school story does happen,& it's incrediby hard.
@jenniferdelgado2834 4 жыл бұрын
Hugs babe! 😭 I don't have Endo I have Lyme disease, but what a big difference it is when someone you love believes you!
@kassandra_the_bunny_lover 4 жыл бұрын
My mom (and nobody else) never believed me, this was so hard for me :/
@nadiagonzalezbarranca4239 4 жыл бұрын
Kristi Stroschein my mom wouldn’t believe me and didn’t want me to go on BC cause she thought that I was going to use it for other purposes. I finally pushed for it and got what I needed but it was incredibly difficult.
@shariwelch8760 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for saying that. No one ever believed me, not even mom.
@ellesextraaccount3497 4 жыл бұрын
It's because of the lack of education, everyone believes the symptoms of menstruation are static across the board for everyone, and that anyone who is totally floored by their experience with menstruation because of Endo or other reasons is reacting dramatically to the same symptoms as a regular menstrual experience. It's infuriating the most to be NOT BELIEVED by other WOMEN 💔
@madisonkrull9339 4 жыл бұрын
The first time I noticed I wasn’t having a “normal” period was in 8th grade and I asked to go to the nurse because I had really bad cramps. My teacher told me no because the nurse wasn’t there (my school couldn’t pay the nurse to come in everyday) and to go sit down but my cramps went down to my upper legs and I couldn’t sit in the chair so I had to go lay in the back of the classroom...only one person came to check on me and found a blanket for me. When I finally had some strength to get back up I was so dizzy and nauseous I almost passed out. A lot of kids in the class laughed at me because I had mascara running down my face :/ they never let me go home or at least get medicine. Thank you for posting this. There needs to be more awareness
@lady_stog 4 жыл бұрын
This is horrible! I'm so sorry you had to go through this... :/ Hugs!!
@jordantaylor1231 4 жыл бұрын
That is so cruel! So sorry you had to go through that. Periods are bad enough as it is!
@sentosesay7952 4 жыл бұрын
Madison Krull awwwe I’m so sorry that happend to u
@LUKE-og5fm 4 жыл бұрын
When I hear horror stories like this, I realize going to an all-girls school was the best thing ever. 😥
@bun2738 4 жыл бұрын
oh that’s horrible. just be glad it’s over right? i hope ur getting better!! ❤️❤️
@biancamchugh7609 4 жыл бұрын
Don’t let doctors tell you that you’re just “constipated”. That was all I heard for years before finally being diagnosed by my godsend of an OB. Was such a relief to finally know I wasn’t “crazy” or making it up. Cried tears of joy just knowing that, even though I’m in constant pain every single day. Stay strong ladies!
@shiramitai201 4 жыл бұрын
What did you do though? Did it help being diagnosed? Cause I am and I still need help
@soft.nd.golden 7 ай бұрын
Yes i belive I have endo and I got many pelvic exams and wellness exams and they always say I am all good snd everhthing looks beautiful. But I am so convinced I have endo because when I turned 30 (im abotu to be 31) my body started feeling differently... I feel swollen inside and constipated and during ovulation I feel my ovaries inside of me.. I have never been pregnant and I'm married and not on birth control... I get my period every month but my cycle is like 35 days long. ... I am convinced that I have endo and everyone around me just says oh its normal. I have a referral for a pelvic ultrasound so we will see.
@mirandaholsted 4 жыл бұрын
I love how much Erika is a part of your channel now. This was such an important video. Thank you.
@billtaylor2822 4 жыл бұрын
Tati, my wife suffered for years. Her Dr. in LA did exploratory surgery and then recommended Dr Redwine in. Bend OR. After 5 hours of arthroscopic surgery, she went home in two days and never had pain or issues again. She turned 66 today.
@mrscluedo7597 4 жыл бұрын
Bill Taylor Dr Redwine is very good, as well as Pr Possover.
@torif1girl454 4 жыл бұрын
Bill Taylor I am Australian and even I have heard of him all the way down here! He must be pretty special- good luck xo
@MarleneRamirez93 4 жыл бұрын
We should call these types of videos “Makeup Therapy Sessions.” Because that’s what these videos are for me 😊❤️❤️❤️
@severianna9 4 жыл бұрын
Marlene Ramirez same 👏🏼 same 👏🏼 same 👏🏼
@icystorm9968 4 жыл бұрын
"There's tension, there's tightness, there was pain in my eyes" I FELT THAT.
@DianerBananers 4 жыл бұрын
Nurse Erika really is a refreshing drink o water, love her energy
@samanthalong1517 4 жыл бұрын
TATI: Wiping tears with her Blendiful.
@karmenletourneau9574 4 жыл бұрын
Made me cry
@JessieLee_ 4 жыл бұрын
Samantha Long I cried as well 😢
@leahcampos7564 4 жыл бұрын
You both should start a foundation for endo!!! You’re a huge voice with a great message. Especially in the month of March part of halo proceeds could go to research or even women who are struggling to pay for doctor visits. I would definitely support that 🥰💕
@amyschultz7103 4 жыл бұрын
Leah Campos that’s a fantastic idea.
@carmenweber8587 4 жыл бұрын
This would be amazing
@CatNdivisi 4 жыл бұрын
Leah Campos I would buy everything!!
@amandalawrence9709 4 жыл бұрын
AMEN! There are so many women who can use this support system and won't feel so alone struggling.
@mirandasanchez823 4 жыл бұрын
Lol chill they don’t care that much
@spookywitch 4 жыл бұрын
I also suffer from Endo! I had to have a full hysterectomy including my ovaries at 24. It threw me into menopause and my body has never been the same. I now have lupus, hashimoto's thyroid and ulcerative colitis. I feel your pain all too well. We are fighters!!! Sending you all my good vibes!!!💜🖤💜🖤🙌🙌🙌
@maria92085 4 жыл бұрын
I was also 24 going on 25 when I had my hysterectomy but they left my ovaries but now I'm mid 30s I've been experiencing pain again but I cant go through another surgery.
@katherinespencer6236 3 жыл бұрын
Maria, I’m so sorry you are going through that. The ovaries produce a lot of the hormones that cause/enhance endo- this is why mine were removed. Otherwise, the lesions would simply return. I hope you are able to one day get them removed or find a regimen that helps you! Sending love and support ❤️
@asturks 4 жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed with stage iv endometriosis after 6 years of seeing doctors. So many years spent trying to get pregnant being told I just had severe cramps. So happy that this disease is finally getting recognized so other women can get checked!
@HibahMirza 4 жыл бұрын
I’m a medical student and I definitely think endometriosis is something that needs to be talked about a lot more so thank you so much for using ur platform so spread awareness! 😌❤️love ur videos x
@Tati 4 жыл бұрын
Hibah Mirza 😘❤️❤️❤️
@nise5281 4 жыл бұрын
And this is just ONE of the very painful female medical issues women face!!
@shezamalik7918 4 жыл бұрын
This what two educated, humble women are supposed to do to the communities! Thankyou for this!
@user-jc8py7dw7r 4 жыл бұрын
Tati isn’t educated. Good grief, pull your head out.
@undomiel152003 4 жыл бұрын
@@user-jc8py7dw7r She might not be educated, but as someone who has suffered from endo for years, you would have to agree she probably knows a whole lot more than the average person, wouldn't you say?
@lux.illuminaughty 4 жыл бұрын
There definitely needs to be more discussion about invisible disorders. I've had migraines all my life, diagnosed by my pediatrician at 4, and I *still* hear "it's all in your head" and "oh, a headache?" 38 years later.
@laurensears1971 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad people are starting to talk about it! I've been struggling with endo for years and have never felt like I've really been able to talk about it, so I'm happy that it's starting to change!
@maishaprice2982 4 жыл бұрын
Honestly when she mentioned the health insurance part that’s what I’m struggling with right now. I need to go to the doctor for everything , but I can’t cause it’s soo expensive.
@janewright8249 4 жыл бұрын
maisha price vote!!! Vote blue!!
@aleksandra3368 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for you guys. I just can't image my daily life without free healthcare :(
@bellajenna87 4 жыл бұрын
@@aleksandra3368 it really sucks. even if you have insurance it's still expensive.
@katarzynas5220 4 жыл бұрын
Move to europe 🇪🇺
@jadenjoestar3927 4 жыл бұрын
I know! I feel so bad for my parents because my medical supplies are expensive and one day I'm scared that we won't be able to afford it anymore
@elizabethcsample 4 жыл бұрын
as a woman with pcos, i really appreciate when women share their experiences and speak out against double standards. reproductive health is never discussed enough and that’s why so many women are suffering. love you tati 💖
@charlee5759 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a fellow Cyster...sending positive vibes
@sabrinasalazar6440 4 жыл бұрын
I’m a Cyster as well... positive vibes to both of you!
@MiChJeSu22 4 жыл бұрын
i suffered with pcos for 12(?) years... wasn’t until 3 months ago that i finally got diagnosed. i was in agony and my periods were super irregular. i never knew i wasn’t “normal” because no one told me. i’m so happy to see more awareness on the subject. although it’s still seriously lacking
@leila771 4 жыл бұрын
Hey cysters
@kayliwalker8504 4 жыл бұрын
Same here. Hey girls 😊
@danielledelledonne696 4 жыл бұрын
When I hear these stories about health care in the States I feel very fortunate to live in Canada. We might have to wait for specialists etc but we never have to worry how to pay for it. We are fortunate. Many people who live here complain about wait times etc but have no idea what it must be like to not have it or have to worry about paying the bill. Hoping all the best for you always Tati!! 💕
@nicolewilson7290 4 жыл бұрын
The amount of times that I was called a drug seeker and accused of being a drug addict is just ridiculous. When I had all the classic symptoms of endometriosis. I went to so many doctors, so many ER visits, so many specialists and it took me finally researching enough to find out about endometriosis on my own. Then when I went into the doctors they confirmed it. They made me feel like such an awful person.
@cursewords 4 жыл бұрын
When she brought up the insurance issue I felt that. I’m in college and pay $200 a month and when I go to treatment for my condition it’s still $80 out of pocket per session. Ridiculous. Students should be insured. Not everyone is going to have parents with good insurance that they can stay under until their 26. Education is expensive and Students face the choice between health and degree every day.
@muselil1440 4 жыл бұрын
This makes me feeling even more grateful for living in a country with a free education-system and universal healthcare. Sure, our taxes are high, but I never had to make the choice between education, doctors or food. And now I pay my taxes, so others don’t have to make that choice either in this country.
@sophia-gk3pw 4 жыл бұрын
Sara Kelly that last sentence got me
@shamelisrosariopena7224 4 жыл бұрын
@@muselil1440 where you from?
@muselil1440 4 жыл бұрын
Shamelis Rosario I live in Denmark, Europe. The country with the highest taxes 😉
@braedynbratina231 4 жыл бұрын
True and not everyone has parent that let them stay on their insurance either.
@abigailrose5837 4 жыл бұрын
Tati, Erika, this has me in tears. I’m that girl in her twenties you were describing. I’m working close to full time and also in school full time. I’m drowning in credit card debt (from a family emergency), student loans, and living week to week. I’m consistently struggling with menstrual pain and uterine issues and I cannot figure out what’s going on. I’ve tried going to several different doctors and there’s no help. I’m also terrified of getting into more debt. Just today I went in to my campus clinic and had a horrible experience with a doctor basically dismissing all of my symptoms. When you told me, “you aren’t crazy, and you’re not a bad person for trying to survive,” I literally burst into tears. I’ve been needing to hear that for so long. I feel like I’m going crazy, and it’s all in my head. Thank you so much for making me feel seen. 💕
@Vocalinds 4 жыл бұрын
Praying for you. ❤
@paolatbk3907 4 жыл бұрын
Have you seen an nook dr?
@laurenr5095 4 жыл бұрын
You're amazing and you can overcome anything. Take baby steps one day at a time. Praying for you.
@undomiel152003 4 жыл бұрын
Have you tried Planned Parenthood, contrary to what so many nincompoops believe, they do care for other gynecological problems, including endometriosis. Payment goes according to what you can afford, by the way.
@kkb7586 4 жыл бұрын
Abigail Rose hang in there! I’m finally starting to see the light at the end of the debt tunnel. Love to you
@isobelhigginsmusic 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this, Tati. I have been struggling with endometriosis symptoms since 13 and was diagnosed at 17. It still causes massive disruption to my everyday life, especially with my education and mental health! However it's so comforting to hear other women, especially those with a huge platform like yours, confronting and talking about the situation! Thank you for your personal tips in managing the condition, I can't wait to try some of them out! xo
@nicolepiantadosi 4 жыл бұрын
This video is incredible and exactly what the world needs to see! I have Endometriosis and have been in pain since I was 12 but was only diagnosed in 2017. It’s a hard battle but you can definitely overcome and get through it. It’s amazing to talk about it, be apart of Facebook support groups and find a doctor that ACTUALLY listens. I’m from Australia and thankfully our medical system is pretty good (I have private health) but it’s still expensive and time consuming. Girls, we need to stick together, offer support to each other and understand we are all going through struggles. 💛💛💛⭐️
@emmadelbono838 4 жыл бұрын
It hit hard when you talked about the cost of medical help and have to choose between your survival or your health. I just didn't think about it since I can be hospitalized and not have to pay a single cent. Where you born make really a difference
@jessicasanchez-cd3bl 4 жыл бұрын
Emma del bono where she lives*
@jae_hee_hee 4 жыл бұрын
So where are you born? 🧐
@yararufina4548 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah right? I live in Brazil and I don't have to pay for anything, even emergency surgeries. It should be normal everywhere
@khaos1999 4 жыл бұрын
It does make a difference, this country is fine with lower middle class dying
@melissamayhaps8990 4 жыл бұрын
It costs like $1000 for an ambulance ride... 😶
@lpete0120 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you, For making this video. Having Endo can be so lonely and you can feel so misunderstood. I was young when my Endo first became an issue and it took YEARS to find a doctor who took me seriously and more importantly took my symptoms seriously. Finally after trying hormones, Lupron, and several other treatments my Endo had become too aggressive and I had a hysterectomy. While it was sad and took time for me to grieve that loss, I know it was the healthiest choice I could have made. Thank you for using your platform and bringing awareness to a devistatingly under talked about disease! You are changing lives with this!
@autumnweldon7314 4 жыл бұрын
Can I please ask you a few questions about your hysterectomy? My doctor and I are talking about it due to my endo.
@Cat-zt2zw 4 жыл бұрын
Lindsy Peterson I’m so sorry you went through that. Luckily when I was diagnosed with it at 17 my mom was a L&D nurse and knew who to send me to. Luckily my dr was a pioneer in endometriosis and was the first dr to ever do the laparoscopy surgeon. He was incredibly understanding and treated his endo patients with such respect. I always feel so terrible for you girls who have to go years without being taken seriously.
@Sjarambula 4 жыл бұрын
Autumn Cone I’ve had a hysterectomy as well so if she doesn’t answer your questions, I can!
@autumnweldon7314 4 жыл бұрын
@@Sjarambula Thank you so much. Did you keep your ovaries? Did your body start going through menopause?
@lpete0120 4 жыл бұрын
@@autumnweldon7314 of course!
@gretaskolaut1167 4 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, stop I'm holding back tears and I'm only 9 minutes in. For the first time EVER I finally feel understood and like I'm not alone. Thank you Tati and nurse Ericka, your journey is more than make up. I hope you see that! Love you so so much!
@MariaT95211 4 жыл бұрын
Tati, you are an amazing, strong, and considerate woman. The more I watch you the more my respect grows. With all of the crap people put you through publicly or privately I honestly think you are amazing. You are a role model and a wonderful woman. Stay strong no matter what. Lots of love from Romania!
@karimacmackers6564 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad you’re speaking about this. I have endometriosis, stage 4, it’s so severe that it’s on my diaphragm and possibly in my lungs. I wish people understood how bad it can be. Girls, it’s NOT normal to be debilitated by your periods.
@JulStar13 4 жыл бұрын
Karimac Mackers this. It’s not “just cramps” when you’re vomiting from one end and pouring blood from the other.
@beatrizpozos7384 4 жыл бұрын
look at the second comment on this video plz
@lorrilewis2178 4 жыл бұрын
Anything that affects your ability to live your life, needs to be evaluated.
@shanburgess8961 4 жыл бұрын
❤️
@sophiecaldwell2650 4 жыл бұрын
Sending my love x
@coraimatoro8821 4 жыл бұрын
People: "Oh you must be 3 months pregnant... what's the name?" Me: "Endometriosis."
@nikki1932 4 жыл бұрын
they think you're only three months pregnant but yet have a name already? 🤨
@claudiahaineault 4 жыл бұрын
Nikol Stowell i knew the boy and girl name of my baby 2 weeks after finding out i was pregnant 🤷🏼♀️
@haydeed1 4 жыл бұрын
Most of my life until 30 post hysterectomy.
@nicolebohochik9018 4 жыл бұрын
I had a woman yesterday ask when I'm due. 🙄
@madelinematthews1503 4 жыл бұрын
I STARTED TEARING UP ONCE YOU MENTIONED INSURANCE ❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽
@daisyvon7383 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for using your platform to talk about women's health! I have PCOS and my best friend has Endo, somedays the only comfort through the pain is talking to eachother about it
@katharness2797 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve always tried to describe it as “a flaming sword through my stomach and back” and hearing Erica say “burning piece of metal” just shocked me. I’ve never heard someone describe it like me
@ST-fw5iq 4 жыл бұрын
Same. I say burning metal and flaming rubberbands pulling on all my parts and bowels.
@sarahgortler2738 4 жыл бұрын
Kat Harness I started having symptoms recently and it felt exactly like that I always say it feels like a burning stabbing
@katharness2797 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry you’re having to go through this, I wouldn’t wish it on anyone ❤️
@kyokor6307 4 жыл бұрын
I usually explain it as Blackberry vines wrapped around my organs like a boa constrictor, and they're on fire. I think I picked that because it's something people can somewhat imagine. If they've ever been caught on a vine or in a bush they can recall that, and then I tell them to take that pain and put it in their stomach and intestines that have a hot pain like when a sunburn is slapped. I've tried the hot metal and not many get it, but when I've explained it like that I've had more people truly get it and take the pain seriously. I actually had a coworker once who would check on "How tight" my vines were every now and then.
@eromarapaoma 4 жыл бұрын
Just Two weeks ago me and a female friend tried to describe our male friend how cramps were like and she described It as a hot needle scraping her insides....I thought It was odd as I've never felt them like that....thanks to your comment going to tell her that she should go to the doctor since she thinks she just has a terrible period.
@user-ju9ed7yb7k 4 жыл бұрын
I'm reading this from Spain, luckily we have every single medical thing for free, and it's really sad to see people out there who are in such financial problems because of health, it's insane, it shouldn't be like that anywhere in the world. It's HEALTH it's selling ours lives.
@ElifNurMuhammad 4 жыл бұрын
Wow let me move to Spain 😁
@Alexii18 4 жыл бұрын
Yep, this America.
@sinlobo84 4 жыл бұрын
Still it's hella hard to get diagnosed, all my sisters have endo and polycystic ovaries, but they've been patronized, labelled as hypochondriac and so on... Here in Spain too, so yeah, it's great that it's free (don't get me wrong) but whats the use of it if they won't treat you?
@laya1901 4 жыл бұрын
I'm from Spain too🙋🏻♀️
@kendra8646 4 жыл бұрын
I'm from NZ and we have free healthcare too. I count my lucky stars everyday I didn't have to pay for anything as it would have made the whole thing so much worse!!
@jennifergonzalez367 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for speaking on this. Ive dealt with Endo since I was `16 and went undiagnosed for many years. I teared up watching this video. Thank you for using your platform to bring light to an "invisible illness".
@KT-ed1ud 4 жыл бұрын
So glad you are speaking out on this subject. As someone who has 2 diseases in my spine & an auto immune disorder, pain is present every day-being tired, organs hurting, bloating.... Balance is so spot on! Balancing what goes into your body is so helpful. Hats off to you Tati- y'all are amazing for shedding light on this illness.
@badarock177 4 жыл бұрын
I have pcos and two benign tumour in my uterus. I never had children, I'm forty and I have horrible cramps and migraines, but no one takes me seriously because "it's normal, women stuff". I just keep it to myself, but when I'm in serious pain I still have to hear that I'm beig "crabby", even under stressful work. My husband doesn't judge me or say nasty things, but other people just act like I'm a bitter woman. Which is not true, I'm a nice loving person, but sometimes under tons of pain I just can't keep a big smile all the time.
@evelynarroyo5432 4 жыл бұрын
Badá Rock stay strong ❤️
@dreamermtz8819 4 жыл бұрын
I had horrible cramps that I went to urgent care and all the doc said was "Honestly some women just get cramps just because" Shrugged his shoulders and walked out. I was speechless
@luluparadise8630 4 жыл бұрын
Aww I'm so sorry you have to go through this 🥺
@NeyaLoupGarou 4 жыл бұрын
Are you serious? I do not get those people. It is not normal, and migraines - people say: it is like you have just have a headache, take some pils - they do not undestand that it does not work and migraines are like a new torture you can do literally nothing. I have to admit that my cramps does not hurt so I can not understand you perfectly, but I have a cyst near my neck and my back are often in pain because it pushes to the nerve, my parents were like it is nothing, you should not watch yourself so much, I have pain too and have to go to the work and we think you have it because you exercise. The point is that people do not understand and think it is just pain, you are just woman, you are supposed to be in pain and feel stressed and be in tears, be overwhelmed by everything, yelling a lot because of nothing... and so on. And I must say: No, it is not normal! You have my support. Try to find out if there is anything what helps you to feel better at least a little bit. And of course you can stare at those people like: you are the next one... And pease do not listen to them. I am sorry that you have to go through this.
@raevanesveld9757 4 жыл бұрын
I hated to do it but my total hysterectomy was life changing.
@MonieHemmings 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for speaking out about Endo❤️ when I was 17 I was diagnosed with Endo and I was still in a lot of pain months after the surgery and the doctor told my mom I was faking it to skip school and need to see a councilor. She told him "no she needs a better doctor" and hung up
@brittgroenensteijn8008 4 жыл бұрын
Your mom is a real one
@jess-tu6jc 4 жыл бұрын
Your mom is a badass for being your advocate and you are so lucky to have her ❣
@saralee5183 4 жыл бұрын
Bless you ladies for sharing your truth ❤️. I have an undiagnosed/ unknown auto immune disease that I've been fighting since I was a young child. I feel that patients need to share their experience so that we all know we are not alone. Many people leave you in the dust as friends because they don't understand what we go through, but it isn't their fault as it takes a super hero to live with disease. Keep on the super path and keep doing what your doing ladies 💜💜💜
@abbeyw1569 4 жыл бұрын
I love the way Erika looks at Tati when she talks and vice Versa. You can see how much they admire each other. ❤️
@makeupmaniamama 4 жыл бұрын
I really find it deplorable that one of the richest country's in the world does not have some type of universal health care to take care of their citizens. I could not imagine having to pick between eating for the month or a doctor's appointment or a trip to the ER. I could not fathom the loneliness a person must feel, dealing with illness and feeling like they had nowhere to turn.
@redpandasmile 4 жыл бұрын
Well said.
@pawwaww5022 4 жыл бұрын
It feels like I'm seeing 2 Tati in 1 video HAHA. who's with me? 😂
@raisa_cherry33 4 жыл бұрын
Me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤
@kaylabeard8901 4 жыл бұрын
Omg yes I was so confused from a glance at the screenshot lmao I thought it was two tatis 😂
@tazzel10 4 жыл бұрын
I know they’re both so beautiful
@baileyb7552 4 жыл бұрын
I suffer from fibromyalgia everyday. Thank you for shedding a light on invisible illnesses 🙏🏻
@Dascia2 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. I've got Poly Cystic, Endometriosis and dysplasia. NO one talks about it out loud and it's great to hear folks like you and Halsey talk about your issues. Thank you for making yourself vulnerable and sharing.
@mommajay9113 4 жыл бұрын
I am 42. I was misdiagnosed until I was in my late 30's. By the time I was diagnosed with endometriosis, there was no hope for me to get pregnant. That window would have been small many years earlier. Unfortunately the doctors here only cared about weight and thought that was the one and only thing affecting me. Me and a lot of other women I know. By the time I was in a place of wanting a child, the specialist said sorry there's nothing I can do. I was devastated and angry for years. Now I've made my peace with it. Technology and education about endometriosis has increased, as well as public awareness since I was fighting with the doctors here. Tati and Erica, thank you so much for opening your personal struggles to your audience. I can't imagine how hard it must be to talk about all of these issues, but please know how much it means to me and to women all over the world.
@starlinguk 4 жыл бұрын
I'm "lucky". I have post-partum endo, meaning it started after my pregnancy. So I was able to have one child. Then I became infertile.
@dornita1516 4 жыл бұрын
I had endo all my life and didn’t know it and didn’t know anything about. I was told I had PCOS. In July of 2019 I went to the ER for stomach pain and was diagnosed with stage 2 endo cancer. I have no children. I am a new subie I love your Chanel and content.
@palomaAlmendra2 4 жыл бұрын
Dornita Herndon oh my goodness I hope you’re okay and getting all the help that you need. ❤️ sending positivity your way !
@sohasalahuddin 4 жыл бұрын
praying for you
@ritwikaghosh5025 4 жыл бұрын
Sending you more love and hugs ♥️🙏
@kellyv4595 4 жыл бұрын
I’m really sorry you had to experience this! Endo and endo cancer are not the same btw, just so you know!
@katrinalynn5093 4 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry you had to go through endo cancer, stay strong, you got this! But just so you know, your doctor wasn't wrong about the PCOS diagnosis.. PCOS can be a leading factor in the development of endo cancer.. Endo cancer and endometriosis are not related! But either way stay strong and keep fighting for your health!
@clairehaywood6512 4 жыл бұрын
I'm still shocked by the difference in health care systems between the USA and Australia where I live! I'm so grateful to the Medicare system. xoxo
@Cocolagaffe18 3 жыл бұрын
I'm French and although our system is heavily flawed, I'm still deeply and forever grateful for healthcare...
@ggracedixon 4 жыл бұрын
I was dismissed for over 10 years before finally being diagnosed with endometriosis and PCOS.
@alicepallavicini4832 4 жыл бұрын
Tati: *gets emotional* *proceeds to dab her tears with her blendiful* That's when I knew she REALLY loves the blendiful!
@sundaymondayinfo 4 жыл бұрын
no
@hafsahsaeed5567 4 жыл бұрын
Suzanne van Haaster what do u mean by no?
@biggestbraty 4 жыл бұрын
We need more women like you with a huge audience to reach the women whose doctors are failing them. I was one of those women and youtube helped get me through when my doctor kept telling me I was dramatic and it was all in my head. THANK GOD i went to the ER and they referred me to a gynecologist!!! The doctors who all turned me away have NEVER apologized for doubting me even after seeing the results for themselves. Anyway, thank you ladies because i truly beleive we need to keep sharing our stories ❤
@PaigeandCinder 4 жыл бұрын
I have self diagnosed myself with Endo, and have finally found a doctor who will listen. Thank you for sharing your stories, and for helping spread awareness! There truly are times when I feel alone, but I know that there are always ways to change my outlook. God bless! ❤️
@Kay-jk5dz 4 жыл бұрын
This is so informative and comforting to know other woman go through these issues. I just had ovarian cysts rupture and didn’t go in to the doctor because of the cost, even though I was doubled over in pain. Thanks for opening up and being so honest.
@kaitlynbrogan4754 4 жыл бұрын
i clicked so fast, i’m so glad she is bringing awareness to this. all love and support to you both.
@lalamakeuprehab 4 жыл бұрын
Ooo gurll, I got my period in 6th grade too and mine was very heavy and we had to keep our pads in the nurses office bathroom, so I had to change mine almost every hour and she had the nerve to say “ you don’t need to change it every hour, stop coming in so often.” And it sucked. I was now embarrassed and scared to go in there. It was awful!
@denia1594 4 жыл бұрын
WTF? You where not allowed to keep it in your school bag? Why? What kind of nurse was that? I would have asked if you are OK and recommended to see a gyn. I have pcos and totally understand the struggle of extreme heavy flows...
@samithprinklez1093 4 жыл бұрын
@@denia1594 the school I attended when I started my period, we weren't allowed to carry bags between classes. Had to go to our lockers for anything. It sucked regardless of periods, but was definitely made worse for it. Bled through clothes on multiple occasions. It was awful
@josefinjohansson6346 4 жыл бұрын
@@samithprinklez1093 That is awful to hear, sending all my love wherever you are in life
@Sarah-zk4je 4 жыл бұрын
It's amazing that this was published the day of my excision surgery. I'm so happy to see you talking about this and raising awareness about endometriosis. I lived for years without a diagnosis or support systems when I was in pain. Thank you for putting this out there! Unfortunately I have to go back and get another surgery in 3 to 9 months, but I'm already in shock that somehow recovering from being cut into is less painful than my previous flare ups.
@stephaniestark8022 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for posting this. This whole video touched me... I have fibromyalgia, I’ve struggled HORRIBLY with inflammation, I’ve struggled with insurance. I have two small children and the struggle is real. I love you so much for posting this. Thank you thank you thank you
@emmametos6301 4 жыл бұрын
Watching this and sobbing while nursing my own searing endo pain. I'm exhausted and bloated and I finally feel understood. Thank you for sharing.
@karmenletourneau9574 4 жыл бұрын
Praying for you
@cissikk628 4 жыл бұрын
Sending love ❤️❤️❤️
@catk4289 4 жыл бұрын
I know this all too well, you’re not alone. Sending love and healing.
@starlinguk 4 жыл бұрын
The bloating is just the worse, basically needing maternity pants during your period is just wrong. But it's made me think. They should make "period pants". Not panties, pants. Ones that stretch in the right places but still look good.
@celestisian 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry 😭💖 I know how you feel. Praying you make it through! That’s all we hope in those really bad moments
@hannahjean731 4 жыл бұрын
Yes girl!!! Louder!! Thank you!! I have endo (stage 4) and only after 7years of infertility, pain, surgery, Fallopian tube removal, and rounds of IVF I have a wonderful brilliant miracle of a daughter. I still suffer from endo. Anyways long term fan and supporting you in this journey ❤️♥️🌈
@paulagonzalez1721 4 жыл бұрын
You two have such a beautiful relationship. Love it! Thank you for sharing about this topic. The more it is talked about, the better.
@luvdance0810 4 жыл бұрын
I love and appreciate this video. Thank you for using your platform to bring awareness to this terrible, painful, and invisible illness. I hope this brings the awareness endometriosis and it’s victims deserve! It’s such a rough subject and so hard to talk to people about, and you guys captured it perfectly. I’ll be getting surgery in 3 weeks and I’ve never felt more relief or fear in my life. Thank you for sharing your stories.
@julystargaryen9452 4 жыл бұрын
I am so glad that I live in a country where periods and everything surrounding it isn't a taboo. And omg... The American healthcare system is insane... who had the idea to make survival a business. It's horrible.
@humayrahpatel2855 4 жыл бұрын
Julys Targaryen same here. I’m so grateful for the NHS and I pray nothing happens to it, especially after hearing a lot of people saying they can’t afford health bills
@sonia6534 4 жыл бұрын
Where are you from? & can you give a brief about your healthcare system. How does it work?
@mariya.s1406 4 жыл бұрын
sonia valencia I live in Canada and our health care is free but since it’s free, we pay higher taxes then the USA does.
@Megsluvshippos 4 жыл бұрын
I live in New Zealand and we have a funded health system too, literally cannot imagine not being able to get help when you need it so badly... 😥
@teamene9034 4 жыл бұрын
Americans - please please please vote!!! It's literally the only way to ever fix this
@valeriedunning4153 4 жыл бұрын
My daughter had Endo surgery at 22. We are blessed she has a wonderful smart Dr.. 4 months later she was diagnosed with stage 3 triple negative breast cancer. She is fighting hard.
@drina4706 4 жыл бұрын
GOD bless her! She will get better! Stay strong!!!
@ashmcdazzled 4 жыл бұрын
valerie dunning Praying for your daughter!
@valeriedunning4153 4 жыл бұрын
@@ashmcdazzled thank you , Ashley McNair.
@valeriedunning4153 4 жыл бұрын
@@drina4706 I'm leaving it in God's loving hands. Thank you,Drina.
@iamtomatotato 4 жыл бұрын
I am so so sorry. Stay strong!
@getbrighter1440 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Tati and Erika! I have never commented on a youtube video in my life, but I wanted you to know how much this video means to me. Growing up I always just accepted that I just had "bad" cramps, even though they were bad enough to make me sob, vomit, and pass out. I knew something about my pain was different, but my family didn't have insurance so I never asked to see a doctor. I didn't even know what endo was until I was diagnosed last year (after 16 years of just "toughing it out"). Your advice, understanding, and openness has helped me realize I need to take control to help myself and given me a starting point. I've loved you Tati for years and love Erika (and all your sisters) in every video of you together!
@lithopheliax61x5 4 жыл бұрын
I love that you brought up the health insurance and also that you make sure as a company owner that your employees are taken care of! you go, girl!
@DhanakNMalik 4 жыл бұрын
My aunt was told she had IBS for the longest time ever while she actually had Ovarian Cancer and it was diagnosed so late that she passed away within a year..it has been 6 yrs now and it is really a very painful thing to happen to anyone Sending Love and Best-Wishes to both of you from Pakistan
@ShannonsJourney 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so very sorry for your loss.🙏😔😭 how horrific!
@karmenletourneau9574 4 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss, such a sad tragedy loss hun.
@jenrich111 4 жыл бұрын
Women's health awareness is important. I'm so sorry your family member was not given a proper investigation and diagnosis. Love to you from Australia💕 🤗🇦🇺💕
@MikaHasan 4 жыл бұрын
May Allah SWT bless her soul and make the hard times easy for you!
@ZarQK 4 жыл бұрын
I am so so sorry to hear this. May Allah ease your pain, Aameen. ❤
@maddieh7 4 жыл бұрын
I had to make the decision to have a full hysterectomy last year at 23 because of my severe case of Endometriosis, Adenomyosis, and PCOS. I want to thank you for sharing your stories and bringing awareness to Endo. I related to this so much and I know so many other women can too. Love you Tati!
@Flotsgirl13 4 жыл бұрын
I had one last September. I have no regrets. Wish I’d had the option sooner.
@maddieh7 4 жыл бұрын
Christina Swindell couldn’t agree more!
@kjo1986 4 жыл бұрын
I have severe PCOS have asked repeatedly for a hysterectomy. I'm 42. My insurance won't cover it unless I show up with cancerous cells be in my uterus. Etc. So I have extremely painful biopsies every 2 years. So many pcos symptoms would go away if I got a hysterectomy. But instead will give me meds for all these issues. Go figure. Having insurance isn't a guarantee either. And yes other countries may have healthcare but specialists are hard to get into let alone long waits! Ex. Canadians come down to USA to pay out of pocket for specialists because it's impossible where they live. Will die before they get in. I'm in medical field..... No system is perfect unfortunately 😕
@maddieh7 4 жыл бұрын
Kelli Dolphinlover so sorry to hear this! I couldn’t agree more. The system is extremely flawed. Wishing you the best of luck! ❤️
@jerrikachase3246 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for talking about bills and surviving. I’m going through that right now and I feel like I’m drowning. It’s so hard. I have a couple thousand in medical bills right now and I get anxiety every time my bills are going to come out of my account. I’m 22 and I feel like it’s never going to end. It feels good to have you talk about it. Somebody who I look up to and is on the other side... you give me hope. ♥️ Thank you.
@CamillaDaRocha1 4 жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed at 16, I felt alone none of my peers and even adults didn’t know what endo was. Awareness is so important, one of the reasons I made a video about my endo story. 🥰 it’s so nice watching others and hearing stories of other people with endo.
@unamcmanamon5753 4 жыл бұрын
Don’t have endo myself but the 7/9 doctors I have seen don’t have a clue what I have. So thank you for this video makes me feel like I am not alone in the struggle to find out what’s wrong with me, and for people thinking I am playing my symptoms. And for telling me that I can survive anything sometimes I honestly feel like giving up but to hear you two who have a somewhat similar story and are doing amazing makes me believe I can! Thank you Tati and Erika xx
@twasianberryy 4 жыл бұрын
Just when I thought this video couldn’t get anymore empathetic... when you started crying about not having insurance. That’s me right now. As much as I want to have surgery so I can get to the root of this disease and not have to rely on medication, I know that’s realistically not an option for me. One day I’ll be in a better place where I’ll have the financial means to finally fix my health but for now, I’ll just have to push through. But you made it, Tati. And that gives me hope. Thank you.
@Lidgoesmeow 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you both so much for opening up about this topic. You are both very strong ladies. To anyone dealing with Endo or any other illness, you've got this. DO NOT give up. Take it one day at a time.
@kellykerstetter3586 4 жыл бұрын
I can’t even thank you enough for posting this. I have been a subscriber for years and I also follow Erika and you both make me feel less alone with my endo journey.
@juliedreistadt-motz6602 4 жыл бұрын
I was young.. throwing up in school monthly from the pain, having to be driven home from work because of it, in the ER every month.. basically looked at like a pill seeker..getting in trouble at work when I was an adult for missing work.. and then finally saw an OBGYN who diagnosed me with endo. It’s awful what we have to go through just to get the diagnosis. Thank you for sharing!
@yesskaly27 4 жыл бұрын
I know is Tati’s channel, but I want to hear Erika to talk more when she comes!! ❤️❤️ thank you ladies for sharing, this is very powerful!
@akosigm 4 жыл бұрын
Witty Kaly hope she have her own channel too!
@leliakelly2082 4 жыл бұрын
TATI I AM SO EFFING PROUD OF YOU FOR OPENING UP ABOUT YOUR PERSONAL STRUGGLES!!!!! Ahhhhh! Crying and emotional watching you power through this video with Erica by your side is amazing!
@jenniferschnelker7646 4 жыл бұрын
I think this is probably your best video. Thank you for sharing your journeys. I hope you and Erica continue to videos like this!
@angieramos8649 4 жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed December 4th 2019. An emergency surgery led to my diagnosis and for me to have a 12cm mass removed on my right ovary. I was in such pain and at the time I didn’t know what it was from. Which is why I went to the ER and was told it was my gallbladder. It wasn’t. A beautiful nurse who was doing an ultrasound saw that something wasn’t right. She took matters in to her own hands and I’m glad she did. She decided to do a vaginal ultrasound and saw the mass. At the end of that surgery I was mass free but also down an ovary and Fallopian tube, I’m 30 with no children...yet. I was devastated. Then the diagnosis came. I just had a second surgery February 5th where they had to reopen all of my healing incisions for yet another cyst/mass removal and abdominal lymph node removal. It’s not something I ever thought I would have to go through but at the same time I do feel stronger and empowered to do so. I’m so happy more women are talking about this. It needs to be brought to our insurance companies and medical researchers attention. It’s not something we can help. We don’t do this to our selves. It’s not from living life a certain way. Thank you thank you. We can all help each other with communication
@banshee1133 4 жыл бұрын
angie ramos so you just knew about it when you went to ER? What are your other symptoms?
@angieramos8649 4 жыл бұрын
e Rika exactly. It wasnt even a thought in my mind that I had endo. I work as a waitress in a very busy restaurant so symptoms I was having i blamed on my job and being on my feet all night. Symptoms including, lower back pain, fatigue, pressure/inflammation in my hips and knees. I also get headaches and nausea, but again just though it was because I wasn’t drinking enough water during my shift or eating during my shift. I’m looking back now and I can see the signs. I’ve been out of work for 2 weeks now and am experiencing the same things. Now I know it was mainly endo causing these issues and not just my occupation. What threw me at first is my cycle the last few years has only lasted about 3 days. It’s a painful and heavy three but usually not any longer than that.
@lilianmoreno7317 4 жыл бұрын
That's exactly what happend two me, in my first surgery they removed the mass and most part of my left ovary and was diagnosed with Endometriosis. And an I had my second surgery after one year and it happend the same thing but now on my right ovary. And up until now still have horrible cramps.
@erin8205 4 жыл бұрын
I sincerely hope all goes well. Similar situation, but had a partial and then radical. Undiagnosed until age 37. My gynecologist thought it was a cyst that would go away. 5 years later and its grapefruit sized, full stage five endometriosis. I had a horrific bladder/urinary infection that I couldn't get rid of. A urologist sent me for an ultrasound and the tech almost fell over. I lost the tubes and 1.5 ovaries and everything the next year. I wish the best of luck!
@njanks 4 жыл бұрын
I had surgery 2 months ago which left me with 1 ovary down as well and I just turned 40 with no kids. I’m currently on birth control for 3 months then the doctor said that we can try to conceive.
@cloud__99 4 жыл бұрын
Tell me what you want but a system where you have to choose between suffering pain or bankruptcy is broken.
@moongirl8807 4 жыл бұрын
I think so too. I can't even imagine a situation like that because I live in Germany and our system is completely different. I mean it's not perfect at all and I'm not an expert but at least most people have the possibility to see a doctor and not having to worry about the price.
@tonyag69 4 жыл бұрын
That's why we have health insurance to pay for most of the cost.
@Darima2 4 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏And yet they have the audacity to call themselves the best country in the world 🙄
@QueenB-nt6ox 4 жыл бұрын
You are such an inspiration. Thank you for sharing your story more in-depth. I have never suffered with endometriosis and I found this very informing to me that there are so many women who do suffer with it. Keep sharing what’s important to you. Love you Tati!
@VeryBeby 4 жыл бұрын
I LITERALLY just had to leave work early because of a hellacious flare-up and I saw the upload notif. Watching you talk about this from a hot bath on a day like this is surreal.
@mtganul 4 жыл бұрын
I couldn't help to burst on tears when you started talking about the struggle with insurance... I've been feeling that something is wrong with my uterus basically since I got married 4 years ago, but we don't have enough money to go with the specialist, my husband and I are trying to make it with our busines (a printing house) and I work as a kindergarten teacher -work that sadly doesn't have the best pay in my country so we can barely pay the bills and buy some groceries, mostly because we are already spending on my husband's health issues (he has two different ear conditions). Most of the time I can take it, I try to stay positive because I trust God has control over our situation, but my husband's emotional state goes up and down and I have to be his support, and Idk sometimes everything feels too heavy to carry it on my shoulders.Thank you for sharing your experience and remind me that I am not the only one with a situation like this, God bless you and your beautiful family
@holabril 4 жыл бұрын
Crystal Alvarez thanks for sharing. I'll keep you my prayers 🙌🏻
@mtganul 4 жыл бұрын
@@holabril thank you so much💕, God bless you
@Lyssidollx 4 жыл бұрын
I pray God takes that weight from your shoulders and fills it with joy & strength. What you are doing for your husband is beautiful and commendable. You are a strong, courageous wife. I myself have mental struggles due to my health issues and if it weren’t for God and the help from my partner, I wouldn’t be alive today. God Bless you💕
@palladium607 4 жыл бұрын
This made me tear up and I'm not an emotional person. I really hope you find peace and relief.
@oneishaburns9986 4 жыл бұрын
Crystal Alvarez Willl keep you in my prayers. Have faith that things will turn around for the better; stay strong! ❤️
@Paula-qj8qg 4 жыл бұрын
USA's health care system is so f'd. I just can't get it around my head how you survive.
@amandad1787 4 жыл бұрын
We barely do. But I have hope one day itll change for the good 👍
@teamene9034 4 жыл бұрын
@@amandad1787 don't hope, vote!!!
@benedettavandoni7845 4 жыл бұрын
Yup I totally agree!
@chasitypatton3843 4 жыл бұрын
That’s not true
@kaleaka76 4 жыл бұрын
You don't. You file for bankruptcy or they garnish your wages. It's royally f'd.
@stefaniemedina14 4 жыл бұрын
I do not have endo, but I did learn something from watching this video. Thank you for being open about medical struggles.
@Ju-ox8rk 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, I’ve watched a lot of your videos but never knew you had endo! Thank you for sharing Tati! I was diagnosed in 2017 and it’s so beautiful to see how people start to talk about it and make it public because it needs to be talked about !
@julsismit368 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like we are blessed in the Netherlands for such a good healthsystem.. I feel sorry to hear your story about doubting to go to a doctor (I can't even imagine to doubt something like that). You health must be the one priority and not your job.. Glad you did go to the doctor Tati!
@mygirldarby 4 жыл бұрын
That is common in America. Women are doubted and their pain is dismissed by doctors.
@nanaskin6 4 жыл бұрын
Same in the UK - the NHS is amazing tho really underfunded and understaffed.
@ginestrian 4 жыл бұрын
🤬 What a bunch of crap. Save your fairy tales about our health system for places where no other Dutch people can read them.
@Kayxxxx. 4 жыл бұрын
This doesn't go for all dutch people at all... The health care system in the Netherlands is not that great as u pretend it is
@TheMrsStepgirl 4 жыл бұрын
in Kazakhstan i have to have a second opinion or even third opinion...the healthcare system is that bad
@bellaharris4359 4 жыл бұрын
I’m an endo warrior too currently trying to conceive. It’s so hard and I empathise on another level. Sending love 💛
@keylightph 4 жыл бұрын
I hope things work out well for you ❤
@sydneywinter279 4 жыл бұрын
It will happen! Hang in there 💛 we tried for 3 years then I finally had endo. Surgery, was pregnant 4 months after.
@HeatherBray 4 жыл бұрын
Sending good vibes your way! 🙏🏻I had two failed embryo transfers, and then I had the surgery, and guess what? The next embryo took! 💙
@palladium607 4 жыл бұрын
I've had 8 surgeries now. Still no baby but I am confident they got all the endo last surgery. We keep being told now there's no reason we cant conceive and my husband checked out perfect but still....no baby.
@kelseykmua3803 4 жыл бұрын
Tati and Nurse Erika, thank you so much for making this video. This is such a touchy subject for SO MANY WOMEN and I'm so glad that you two were able to open up. HEALTH INSURANCE IS SUCH A HUGE ISSUE THAT NO ONE TALKS ABOUT!!! So thank you for bringing light to the issue, and I hope that more wonderful things come your way. You're such an inspirational role model Tati. I hope you know that❤
@charleetarleton7501 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve even dealing with this disease for 15 years and it’s so refreshing to hear people being open about this disease and the struggles that come with it. One reason why I feel so connected with Tati. Thanks girl! 👏🏻💕👏🏻
@AyaAmena 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve struggled with horrific and debilitating periods forever (I’m in my 20’s now). Can’t stand up, curled up on the floor, severe hot flashes, vomiting, excruciating pain, severe bloating, fatigue, skipping class, calling off work, having to schedule my life around my expected period date each month... Every time I just get told to take ibuprofen. I came across an article last year where, for the first time ever, I read that this is NOT normal and it really changed my perspective. The fact that this gets so easily brushed off is disturbing. I don’t know whether I have endo but I’ve been suspecting it. I mean what the heck else could cause this? It’s just discouraging that it is difficult to diagnose endometriosis without doing surgery. Thank you for talking about this.
@heatherboette930 4 жыл бұрын
same!!!
@kristenzeitler7605 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve had endo my whole life. It was found by accident during a different surgery. Quickly explained all my pain. I had three laparoscopies that did nothing before finding a specialist that knew what she was doing. That specialist did surgery and it helped immensely. She also told me there was a good chance I wouldn’t be able to have children. I have a beautiful daughter. Never give up hope.❤️
@kaceykitterman1161 4 жыл бұрын
Did you have to do any special things to get pregnant? I have had 4 laparoscopic surgeries and my appendix removed because endo was on it and I keep having miscarriages! They told me after this last surgery that the next time they are just removing everything - I’ll be 30 in April and I still haven’t gotten my precious baby....I was so super happy and beyond excited when I found out I was pregnant this last oct but I lost it thanksgiving week and I have just been devastated ever since! Any advice?
@dayanamoreno7470 4 жыл бұрын
Tati, you are amazing and the fact that you both spoke up about such an important topic gives me hope that one day there will be better treatment for endometriosis and that women everywhere will be able to have a voice. Thank you so so much!
@alexiavincent6684 4 жыл бұрын
tati. thank you so much for addressing the insurance issue... i didn't have insurance for years and fighting it out at home was so hard. there were so many times that i wanted to go to the doctor, whether it was for my acne or a genuine sickness or even one time when i probably needed stitches and couldn't afford it. thank you for showing your viewers that you have experienced this and have come out on top where you are now. you are an inspiration to so many ❤️
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