I wish I could’ve seen the look on Jess’ face in real time when she watched Harry in Episode 8 say “I could’ve been married with 2 kids, I still would’ve folded” when Kaz was getting tempted by Christine..

I think it’s weird Jess made a fuss out of everything being said at the table when the purpose for everyone sitting at the table was to spill tea. Jess was only upset because the tea was related to her.

I don't care for Jess. I think she feels she is above certain women. That is why she was talking down to Melinda and asking her if she was proud. That was wild to me. Proud of what?

I don’t get why Jess was mad that Melinda for saying what she said in front of everyone because Jess asked her the question of what happened in front of everyone. All the girls sat down specifically to discuss what happened

23:00 If you're here for Perfect Match.

Ive been calling it since Love is Blind aired. Jess is trying real hard to be a 'girls girl" because lets be honest that's what all women are loving right now. like a 'trend' and LIB made her look real good. I think in the scene where all the girls were talking and Harry was brought up it showed Jessicas true colors. She went straight to the woman pointing her out and ended the conversation with wanting to "respect" Harry but Melinda talking about the kiss just embarassed Jessica and Jess is also known for not taking any BS with men. So her character was really tested in this scene.

I’m with Deepti, Micah is just reacting to the situation. And she is just talking to the guys, that’s the game, not actually flirting and touching and kissing the other women like him.

I think you are giving Jess way too much credit. She was extremely rude and offensive to Melinda for being honest, while handling Harry with kid gloves as he’s feeding her a crock of manure. At the very least she is not a girl’s girl at all. I even felt hints of racism. Also if Harry says her daughter’s name out loud one more time…😒

55:56 I think Jess is realizing she can't control this storyline or how people are perceiving her just bc everything Jess says and does seems rehearsed to carefully curate her image

Notice how Jess only calls herself a "girl's girl" when speaking down to other women

Is the nail issue really this huge guys? We’ve been talking nails for THREE episodes? Whhhhy?

Wow proud of Jess why? She was such a pick me with Harry. And her disrespect toward Melinda was way too much

That was on brand for Elise. She actually did that on her show too. She doesn't like when guys get too serious about her.

Am i the only one who feels like theres absolutely 0 romance bw Kaz and Micah, like since the start it looked like a forced couple who was just together to win the game?

I literally love Dominique and Xanthi they’re both so iconic

Thank you for talking about the "Let Them" theory Deeps. I never heard of it until you mentioned it and it is something I needed to hear at this point in my life ❤️

I did not like the way Jess handled the situation with Melinda. She was not as mad at Harry. She is not a girls girl, and disrespectful. The delulu was terrible. I find her calculating and they also give her good edit for sure.

LOVING Deepti’s takes lately! I appreciate Natalie’s too but she can take the show soooooooo seriously. I get it but it’s not life and death all the time

51:10 - If you want to catch the interview that Natalie is talking about with Tolu. It’s my interview over on my page. Tolu was responding to me talking about how Don did a 180 on the entire thing and how she felt in the situation.

Jess is the unexpected pick me of the year

Oh I didn't know that you guys did lives? The algorithm brought you to me. Hope you ladies are enjoying doing it this way 😃. I hope you can interview Micah, Jessica,or Harry in a future episode! (They seem to already be landing tv commercials outside the usa).

I thought maybe Holly said “they kissed?” after hearing Melinda make it known to everyone and producers cut her voice making the comment about it and played it making it seem like she witnessed it.

The word you're looking for, to describe Perfect Match is "sleazy".

So I really like the glamnetic press on’s and here are some of my tried and true tips for success: 1. I will apply the nails right before bed where I know I won’t be touching anything or applying any pressure for 8 hours. I find the glue is a lot more set by morning. It’s also really important to first clean your nails with alcohol and then press on your press ons with some good pressure and hold for like 20seconds. 2. Glamnetic sells a nail glue dissolver which I find works way better than warm soapy water. When I’m ready to take them off I bathe my nails in the dissolver and try to get under the edges, let it sit, then do the warm soapy water thing and it works great. A glamnetic set will truly stay on my hands for a week and a half for me, but the dissolver works great to get them off before then. I’ve done it even a few days after applying! Also I find the glamnetic glue is really strong and I can use my hands just fine while they are on. 😊

Nat is so real for the nail experience 😂😂😂😂

How does Jess believe that Harry wants to be a step dad when he hasn’t even met her daughter🤯?!! As a mother I would want my partner and child to meet and know each other before I’m talking about marriage. That is so irresponsible and sick - I feel sorry for that child! It’s either all fake for tv or they are both nuts!

When you let things happen and people be and behave the way that they want to behave, you actually work with not against the universe in allowing it to bring to you what is meant for you.

Dude…. Most of these guys have FuckBoy energy… even Dom now… harry is rubbing off on him. I used to like Dom, but I feel like he is regressing. You are who you surround yourself with.

You girls are so wonderful!! Natalie, I agree with all of your points! That interview with Jess dismissing Tolu was really hard to watch. It brought me back to high school when girls want to make you feel bad about yourself. Especially to all people, Tolu! An ultimate girls girl. I so agree with you. Love your takes!! You girls are a breath of fresh air.

I don’t get how no one is talking about how gross it is that Rylee was 18 and he was making all of those comments about pregnancy and stuff 🤮harry gives me the ick big time

So happy for you and your press ons! I have been living that life for years! Welcome babe. They sell $10 SHORT ones at CVS. All the glam, none of the trauma.

Wow long nails sounds like so much work! Natalie’s description was very eye opening. This just confirms that I will never have the patience to have any type of long nails. As soon as I can see the nail tip with my palms up I have to trim them.

Natalie you would be a great producer you totally get how everything works you could easily be on the side of the cast mates and care about their health while understanding when to stay out of the way for good tv etc

I feel so bad for Izzy because he was so genuine and just left saying “I don’t mind leaving because I matched with three amazing women”

Am I losing my mind? I was in the middle of watching the episode after this where you cover episode 10 with tolu and it’s gone?

I think it’s important to remember that Jess is still a real human w real feelings. I don’t think its right to say she was out of hand for being harder on Melinda than harry bc ofc she’s gonna give more chances to the guy she likes and that is manipulating her. Anyone would be mad at a girl accusing your man of doing something like that, regardless of if it was the truth or not, remember we are not all perfect. Emotions run high

I had seen “Trust” (the show Tolu was on) and Tolu was so manipulative and underhanded that it took me a long time on this show to reconcile the fun persona she now presents. Has anyone else seen that?

I listened the podcast yesterday. I’m only here to see Natalie’s press on nails 🤣

Yes! I loved the call back/ similarities brought up with how Kaz treated Micah and how Kwame treated Chelsea with Micah! Karma is a b*tch babes!

Don’t get me started on Jess… I saw a comment someone put on her Ig. About her picking Harry and what kind of example is that. Her answer was to say that Autums bank account has more money than he will ever have.. something along those lines. Money can be the devil and when people put too much focus on that, no shameless and dishonorable thing is out of reach because of money right ? Yeah, right.

44:01 I WAS CONFUSED AT THIS TOO BECAUSE…. I SPECIFICALLY REMEMBERED HER SAYING THAT WHILE WATCHING IT

I think Jess is really not a girls girl like she tries so hard to be. She got so mad at Melinda for being honest instead of being mad at Harry. I would agree with you guys when you say that Jess comes off as a little bit of a mean girl. I've always felt that energy from her tbh and it really came through at the tea spilling table.

Micah started talking to others after she was uncomfortable with what was going on with Kaz before that she was only for Kaz Kaz liked meeting all the women. And wanted to find a brand new match .

This is my first episode, and I spent an embarrassing amount of time trying to remember where I recognized y'all from 😅

I believe Melinda. I do think Harry really cares about Jess though and that is why he was puking from his bad behavior and such. I think he had a lot of guilt and is lying through his teeth because he is afraid of losing her. However, I don’t think he’s mature enough for a committed relationship. He’s still in his F-boy era. I also think Steven and Alana could win it. But I’m not counting Harry and Jess out just yet. Harry might just pull a Joey from season 1 and propose 🤷🏼‍♀️ (Gotta say, Joey had me fooled. Didn’t realize what an F boy he was as well... but after seeing his dating history...)

I get a gel manicure every 5 weeks and miss being able to scratch with my naturals, it just hits different

Natalie, you would love the press on nails from OPI in the "classic" version. My favorite are the French tips!! They are around the same length as a normal nail, so you don't have to do as much adjusting. To keep them from popping off, you need to buff your nails a bunchhh, so the glue can stick to your nail. Same concept as sanding something before putting paint on. I can get mine to last for 2 weeks, but I make sure to give my nails some time to reset after since it weakens. Personally, I do two weeks with press ons, and then 2 weeks with regular nail polish, switching back and forth through the month.

Oh boy can’t wait to see your reaction to the winners 😮

Xanthi was on The Circle, yal better do yal homework on her && the show🤣🤣

Pls add time stampssssss

WHERE ARE THESE BROWN BUTTER COOKIES?! I'm coming to Chicago next week and need them!!!!

Y’all trying to label Jess a mean girl is hilarious 😂

I wasnt a fan of Jess in LIB, and I'm even farther from that now. Harry made her look sooo dumb. She let him manipulate her every time there was an issue. That guy is disgusting btw. I do not feel bad for him at all. He's a grown man, he knows what he's doing. If he wants to sleep around, he can do that without lying and cheating on all these women. People need to just ignore him. He lives off the attention.

Bryton is so argumentative😂

I'll have to look into the "Let Them" idea of handling situations because i dont really know very much about it but it seems like it could potentially lead to being a doormat.

51:35 had to stop here to find the interview... I found that one second actually bc there's atleast one more interview where Jess treats Tolú like a bully. I didn't catch the interaction between Jess and Micah I saw Jess turn around and touch Tolù to tell her to quiet down! And I noticed more Jess and Xanthi's energy even the way they were sitting

56:21 Hard disagree!!! I was way more invested in Micah and Kaz's storyline and wished I had more Tolù this drop 57:05 GIRL noooo

The nail story is too funny 🤣🤣🤣 Id do the same thing.

We all know Harry was wrong. Did Melinda know Harry and Jess were matched? If so, it was pretty shady for Melinda to be egging him on for a kiss and flirting.

You should make an episode about married at first sight

I listened to this episode yesterday on Spotify... I just knew I had to come here for the comments 😊👏💛

49:11 I DO NOTTTT UNDERSTAND HOW THEYRE FOLDING FOR HARRY

I think it’s so disappointing to hear nats perspective on the micha situation.. it’s almost like she validating Kaz actions just because micha talked to 1 man when Kaz was doing it through out ever episode.

For those who don’t know how to wipe with long nails for one you wrap your hand nicely and you don’t use your nails to wipe you use your fingers. Same for typing and anything else. You bend your fingers differently back instead of forwards I guess for wiping

Y'all will hate the finale. I did.

Hey girls… did you see season 4 of LIB Brazil has episodes up? What a mess already!

52:17 im never going away from this pod! I didnt like how Micha and Jess treated Tolu. Feels like Jess has a superiority complex

Y is deepti taking up for Jess… who cares if she was struggling💀 she KNEW..

I use press ons but I get short ones, or I trim down the longer ones. Long nails are a death sentence IMO!

Second comment!! 🥰 I loove coming here and feeling like i'm talking to my besties (i know you are) lol. watching yall from Perú 💞

I am on a calorie deficit also! I know you can reach your goals! ❤

Deepti doesn’t get to talk as much…wish she could be more long winded without getting interrupted or feel like she has to hurry.. idk just my observation on a few of the episodes

I actually believe Netflix set it up so that Melinda intentionally lied about the Harry kiss as a test to their relationship. Final episode tomorrow. Let's wait and see

I wanna see this other interview that was done! Anyone have a link?

I think Xanthi is a bit more flirty and fun than they give her credit for. Also no one wants to see you on reality TV if you think you're too good to talk to anyone. Xanthi didn't come off that way at all. I also think you would have seen another side of her if she would have actually matched with someone long term.

Please start adding timestamps

You know it's a trashy show when they make them sleep in the same bed on day 1 and it could be a different person every night.

Love this podcast

You mentioned that there won’t be a reunion for PM2. Why not???

Lmao the first 5 minutes is crazy

Wait I didn't know this was live!

Elys’ decision definitely wasn’t producer pushed. She did the exact same in her first show😂smfh. She didn’t deserve Justin lol. U can say She just wanted to stay in the villa too. …actually… didn’t she say that?😂.. a couple times😭..

Bring Christine in on the podcast!!!

Just trim them to the size of your nail!! That is what I do

W Melinda. L Jess, L Harry

That’s why we used water in the bathroom 🙏🏼🙏🏼

51:31 JESS WAS SUCHHH A MEAN GIRL TO TOLU!!! She’s no “girl’s girl” for real, she’s a pick me.

I don't think Jess was being a mean girl. The whole house was noticing how Melinda was going super hard to get camera time. Even on her date and in her confessional she said she was gonna go hard to break people up.

Kaz was definitely giving Micha I’ll trade you for a corn chip. If an attractive girl even blinked in his direction he was ready to leave Micha hanging

Aquarius queens ruleeeee

I think Micah tried hard to get a better edit to move away from the mean girl edit on LIB. I think Jess really got concerned about how she looked on tv, rightfully so but then why go on reality tv. Elys likes Elys.

Girls, BIDET BIDET BIDET!!!

People still wipe? Get a bidet! Life changer

Is this live?

THAN YOUU

50:36 BUT THATS NOT VERY LADY LIKE OF JESS 🤣 that’s where it gets stupid. .. I do not agree with Jess’ comments at all

Elys was annoying. Justin did nothing wrong💀

Why don´t you comment LIB Brazil?

😝once again… yall need timestamps plz

If Melinda is right or wrong she reacted horribly in the situation she did not need to describe what happened the way she did it’s like she’s proud of what happened and how she messed with someones relationship she could’ve told Jess privately but she just wanted a reaction from everyone