If anyone in your entourage ever says “It’s my wedding” or “it’s my dress” or “it’s my day” Do NOT bring them with you!

If the cousin acts like this on camera, imagine what she's like in person.

WHY on earth did she bring her cousin with her!? She's a monster!

'A smallish wedding with about 100-120 people' Me now realising my future wedding is just going to be a gathering 😂😂

Wow, the cousin Elsa was something else. When she said "it's my wedding" I was furious. No, hun, it's the bride and groom's wedding and Ysela's wedding dress. Ysela was far more patient with her than I would have been. I liked her choice of dress, very pretty.

Randy should've locked the cousin in that room. 😂😂😂

"Don't even show Mike"..wow, she thinks her opinion is more important that both the bride and groom's. How controlling and self-centered!

Randy and the team are so professional. Personally I don't know how I would keep my composure when dealing with such people.

That cousin needs to realize that it's not her wedding and she's just there for moral support and not to hijack the appointment

I believe the cousin is an extreme narcissist. All that belies the fact that she is very insecure and wants/needs attention. Best wishes to the bride.

That cousin was disgusting…… no one cares what you think!! The Bride looked BEAUTIFUL!!

Cousin proudly says, “This is her dress; we found it”. 🤯. Her behaviour and attitude throughout the appointment were terrible and she took partial credit for the final choice - even though she didn’t choose it - and she criticized a design element on the lower bodice. 🙄

I can't even finish watching this, the hateful, immature, jealous cousin OMG!

This Elsa needs to ❄️Let it Go❄️. If I saw the dressing room door open while I was changing, I would’ve panicked.

Easy to see why the cousin isn't planning her own wedding.

If this were my wedding I would have barred that cousin from being a part of it a loooong time ago. How toxic and gross

She needs to get that cousin out of her business/marriage and that cousin needs to get her own life, she’s team too much, and will cause problems in her marriage because she has no life, smh!

The Cousin was so jealous of the Bride. She needs therapy.

Randy and the consultant were so angry at that cousin. God bless them for their patience.

I like the dress she chose, I do think the beaded belt was in a weird place, but I can see the cousin not being associated with them anymore after they get fed up with her.

Nah. “Your marriage, my wedding?” Nah.

First bride: Oooo. The cousin is the franchise’s ultimate control freak. Bless the gorgeous bride.

Does anyone else get the feeling that Elsa is super jealous of her cousin, Ysela & it almost feels like she wants Ysela's fiance for herself in a weird twisted way. At any point, Elsa is a nightmare. I truly think that people who act like this have mental issues that need to be addressed, like shock therapy or something. The whole time, it was like watching a spoiled 5 year old running around & pouting over not getting her way, it was quite embarrassing to even watch. And the fiance.....oh my Lord! Good luck, you're going to need all you can get with these two!

Ysela was SUCH a sweetheart. She was so happy about every dress she tried on. Was really sad...

What pissed me off her running like a for year old down the hall yelling for Randy and she said he was trashing them, he never mentioned anyone's name. Somebody needs to put her in her place

The bride's cousin needs to step way back, and have several seats. It's not her wedding. Better yet the bride needs to cancel everything and find someone who will respect her want and desires.

The second mom is a queen when she's talking about that first dress. One of the first things she says is how happy her daughter looks in the dress and people rarely seem to care about that on this show.

Overbearing is an understatement. She should have stayed home.

It breaks my heart that “plus size” women are so forced to hate their bodies and how they always focus how they don’t have dresses for them. Everyone deserves to feel beautiful!

honestly i hate the drop waist i don’t think it flatters her body at all but i’m glad she’s happy

First appointment: cousin would be kicked out

That cousin! She's still going through the "terrible two's"!

When I went shopping for my wedding dress I knew exactly what I wanted and went by myself. The sales lady wanted me to try on different styles and I clearly told her I wanted to stick to what I wanted! No way in hell will I ever ask any one’s opinion when I know what my style is.

I would’ve kicked that cousin out of the store and being involved in the planning. She’s terrible.

The bride looked beautiful in HER choice.

The bride is so sweet and radiantly beautiful. I'm surprised she has such a close relationship with a person like that.

Wear what you love. No one else's opinion matters since you are the one who is wearing the gown

get that Cousin out of there!!! no just no wow even if she is familie its a no

WHY would she bring such a negative nancy?!!

The position of the belt was actually a bit weird 😒

Why bring such PPL to the appointment?

Omg tell Elsa sit down shhhh and play your role 🙄

I like the one that the BRIDE picked for herself. Should have left cousin at home

Wow. Ysela chose so well : the taffeta : ohhhh yes : so beautiful on her : elegant, statuesque and regal. Ysela is a real fashion-fabulous princess. 💖💖💖

Oh wow throwing it back to season 1!! My how the times have changed. Randy aged so nicely too since the beginning

The dress is beautiful on her! I wish people weren't so body conscious. There is beauty in the majority of people, whatever their size or shape!

If Elsa wants straps on a gown she needs to wait until she gets married. Then the gown will be all about her.

I’m sorry but what a selfish jerk that cousin is. WE found the dress? No, you didn’t find ANYTHING but fault in every dress including the one she bought. Gee I wonder why you’re not engaged with such a charming personality 🤮

Wow. The cousin is obnoxious.

Elsa is named appropriately..... freezing all the good feelings, destroying the appointment as best she can, so jealous and green with envy Kermet would look pale. Maybe cousin and fiancee should get together, and Ysela can find better. HOWEVER!!! SYTTD is FINALLY doing plus size brides!! They must've finally noticed the popularity of Jo & Al

Honestly, I must ask: Where in the h*** do these rude, aggressive people come from??? Do they NOT know what it means to be polite?? Geeessh. 🤐

Elsa needs to get her own groom! And search for her own dress. 🤬🤬🤬🤬

Maid of honor is too outspoken. She can try on dresses alone. The marriage is not about looks/how you dress. She needs to say no input any more and just find the dress she likes. She was good looking in both dresses she had. Friends may not realize there are only a few dresses that maybe right/available.

Randy looks so young😭

If Elsa was with me, I would kick her to the Lobby. I CAN'T!!!

This is exactly why I went alone. If I had brought my MIL, she would have criticized everything. As it was, being an older bride, I chose a bridal hat with a veil attached and she threw a hissy. My mother accepted all that I liked. And when we picked out my mom's dress, the first one was her! Don't ever bring a bossy person. Their role is to spoil your happiness.

I know it's an older re-run, but holy Hannah. That cousin is a train wreck.

I went by myself to make selections. Returned the next day to try them all on with my fiancee. He loved every one of them. Honestly, he was just enjoying the experience.

Elsa is someone that knows they’ll never be loved and experience marriage so she’s trying to follow her dream and plan a wedding through Ysela.

Elsa is more like a maid of dishonor than a maid of honor

That woman will be a nightmare for the entire wedding prep, the day, and will she be around running your married life too? Hold her away my dear, this isn't stopping any time soon.

"It is her marriage, but it's MY wedding." **Alarm sirens intensify to 100%** This harpy should've been kicked out of the appointment the second she said THAT! Having said that, the fiance is just as bad. The reasons for not bringing them to your dress appointment aren't just superstitious, a lot of the time.

Does that fiance realize he's gonna have two wives! Lol.

I am always amazed at how much patience Randy shows. He's such a kind hearted guy. Thank goodness he's there for these brides!

While my daughter was hunting for a dress, I gave my opinion only when asked. I was not opinionated and disagreeable, I only wanted my daughter to try a ball gown at the beginning, just because and once I saw it I said okay I got the little girl dream dress out of my system. Ask the salesperson to get the dresses my daughter wanted. I cried when she cried and said she was in love with the dress. When it comes to the bride, it’s their dress, wedding and only her opinion matters.

Poor Randy and Jessica! , I give y'all props for the silliness you have to put up with, Golly. Y'all handled them all with patience and grace! 😉. I do have to say that I wonder what the cousin's deal is? Is she not married? No boyfriend? , She's a pretty young lady , but she is coming across with a desperate need to live vicariously through her cousin. The bride looks lovely. I pray she learns to speak up for herself more, with her groom also.

Wow. I love this show, I used to watch it all the time. I love seeing all of the beautiful dresses, I think every one of them is a work of art. I may not think every dress looks good on every girl, but I do believe there is a dress out there for every bride. I watch these girls try on these dresses that cost thousands of dollars, and chuckle when I think how I handed several yards of ivory embroidered sheer crepe and satin and a butterick pattern to a friend of mine who was a talented seamstress and said, 'this is what I want.' I married in the outdoors in the afternoon, had a knee length wedding dress and a big hat instead of a veil, and still look at those pictures and am amazed how good I looked...and it cost less than $250.00. My shoes were the most expensive part of the outfit. I wouldn't change a thing...except maybe for the husband...haha. Marriage didn't work out, but God works in mysterious ways, now married to my second husband for 27 years....🙂

Its funny how a wedding of 120 ppl max is considered small

"I've had stalkers but not like this before" "I'm such a stalker :D" I really feel like she was proud to do that.... That's awful, all of this is awful...

The cousin needs to get her own wedding

It cracks me up when anyone, other than the bride says what “we” want.

it’s so so sad how almost all the bigger women on this show (that i’ve seen) are so self hating towards their bodies😞.

Sometimes I wonder if the producer meets these people first and sets the whole thing up. Like, “we need a wild episode, so act this way.”

I feel sorry for a bride who doesn't yet have the maturity to know her own style and make her own decisions about her wedding dress. And to bring the fiance to get his approval? Too controlling. The whole episode made me cringe.

I would not be surprise if she end up ruining her marriage - what a nightmare that woman is

OMG THAT COUSIN NEEDS HER EARS BOXED!!!

The bride's first mistake was not laying down The rules! By telling them ahead of time the type of gown she wanted how she wanted it to fit her body and the way she wanted to feel on her wedding day!! Particularly on her wedding day the groom does not get to say I want this I want that by right he's only supposed to see it on the wedding day I don't care if this is marriage number 34 his opinion is to be silent!

That cousin needs to GO. Yikes!! Poor bride!!!

No. WE did not find it. The assistant found the dress while you were following Randy. Which was good. Gave the bride opportunity to pick her own dress.

This cousin is delusional. The bride should elope to Las Vegas!

There should be a sing at all bridal shops that says “it’s the bride’s day, no one else’s”

Watching that I am so glad that I went dress shopping all by myself.

This is what makes weddings hell on earth

Cousin needs to be kicked out of both the store AND the wedding...sheesh honey, it's definitely NOT your wedding!

WHY?? WHY do women insist on bringing narcissists with them? The women entrap themselves. Why because they love the drama, too. Sick of the whining! STOP with the people pleasing! Leave these "me, me, me", "I, I, I" narcissists at home. I have compassion for the employees. Don't know they do it.

This is why bridal shops should have someone to be a loud advocate for the bride to give her confidence to speak up for herself

She'd be out of my wedding in a snap.

Dang! I used to watch this show as a way to mindlessly wind down before I went off to bed. And recently there were a few gentle shows with lovely bring along people. Kleinfelds has obviously recently AND finally begun to respond to the “plus size” bride; there is quite a market for these women with the same level of $$$ to spend. I realize the shows are highly scripted. And the morning meeting is hopelessly contrived. Curvy Brides and Gok vastly exceed the SYTTD ethos. The brides are front and center and the clients are always sustained by their experiences. Al and Jo in Curvy Brides are not to be missed. Gok and Lucy and the fox in the snow episode will make your heart sing and will remind you of the good in the world. I promise you that you will never forget this episode.

5 min in i already wanted to tell elsa off.............i would have sent her back home...........

Know your roll cuz...... sit down, shut up & be supportive

Elsa is just a downright disrespectful, narcissistic, rude person, who is only interested in pleasing herself. She has no feelings, or empathy for anyone else. I have always been an outspoken person, who has no problem speaking the truth. Many People have said, They wish They could be like me, but are to afraid, to say what is the truth, but I also understand the difference, between hurting someone’s feelings, and speaking out unnecessarily, about things that they are aware of, and certainly do not need to be reminded of, like maybe having a weight problem, or a few extra pounds, or giving them, a unbiased opinion, on how a dress looks, that They’ve tried on, and They really like, and perhaps, I might not like quite as much. Some times, to be a DECENT, or kind hearted human being, People have to consider the other person’s feelings, before making a decision to voice their true feelings, and hurt someone emotionally😰 Words cut deep, and once they are spoken, They can Never be taken back, the damage is irrefutably done forever 🥺😩🥵😱🤷‍♀️ THINK 🤔, BEFORE YOU SPEAK 🗣. Once those words leave your lips, You can Not retrieve them.🥵❌☠️‼️ It is Not a game, some People have been so affected by “Words” they’ve committed suicide. None of us, have any control over what anyone else may do. However, what We All do have control over, is how we, act, speak, and how we interact, and how we, treat All People. If We are Respectful, Positive, Truthful, Caring💕, and Compassionate too Everyone with whom we interact with, then that is how other people will treat You in return, and You won’t have any Negativity in your life. The Truth is “We Reap What We Sow” “ We Get, What We Give”😃 So If You continue to put out Positivity into the World, then That is what You Will get back in Return😅❤️🥰🙏🏽 Stay FABULOUS, and Be Beautifully Blessed 💕

Here we go with "its not your wedding " 🙄 like back off cousin!

Elsa needs to go back to the snow cave.

If I'd ever go dress shopping, I'd take my mom, my grandma and my best friend. Because I know they're super supportive and would respect my opinion.

Why would you want someone like that to be in your wedding party? Like it's supposed to be filled with peoppe who love YOU and want to support YOU!! Not steal your wedding because they know there's nobody who would put up with their bridezilla shit

I feel like the cousin is one of those people who is gonna make her cousin's wedding day be all about her, rather the bride, I feel sorry for the bride

Her cousin is a piece of work!! I honestly don't think I could stand to be around her pushy bossy all about me self. Im glad the bride went with her heart.

Elsa needs to go home! People forget it's the brides day! Over bearing selfish rude pompous friends or family need to stay away😡😡😡

Danielle’s dress fit her so beautifully it did all the right things for her body!!! so happy for her!! love her family to so supportive of her and what she choose!

Why do so many of these brides let their family members and friends push them around so much? Any feedback and opinions should be done with the utmost respect so you don't ruin her day. It's their day and their decision, end of story.