As you get older you learn to stop caring about what others think of you, you realise life is too short

*"Do not fear having no friends. Fear having bad friends”* ~My life taught lesson

I have spent so much time thinking about what others are thinking. Now I understand what a waste of time it was.

"You must be concerned what is the quality of your mind. Don't worry about the quality and content of other people's minds. Exploring other people minds is not worth it." Sadhguru "If you concern yourself of what should happen in your mind, your life will improve. If you concern what he may be thinking , what she may be thinking , you will go crazy " Sadhguru

This came to me at a time I really needed it.

if somebody laughs, you can join and laugh, you''ll make a friend. sadhguru

Exactly what my parents told me don't worry about what other people think and say about you along with think for yourself don't change who you are to try and fit in with the crowd... You just have to be true to yourself.

It's liberating to realize that the opinions of others do not define us, and that true fulfillment comes from being true to ourselves. Sadhguru's teachings remind us to focus on self-awareness and personal growth rather than seeking approval from others. I'm grateful for the insights shared in this video, as they serve as a powerful reminder to break free from the chains of fear and live a life guided by our own values and dreams.

"Other people's opinion about you doesn't have to become your reality !" - Les Brown.

I am so happy and lucky that this man has come into my life... when i need him the most! Namasté.

Wisdom that helps us survive in the society. Pranam Sadhguru🙏

You are absolutely right Dont think about anyone And dont compair ur self to others also ❤

"Instead of crying about all these things, might as well we laugh what to do" 😂🙏❤

Don't forget, "we are mortal", we don't have to waste time about the question : " what people think about me" 🙏🏽

If you think its ridicule - dont do it.. If you think its worth doing.. why care what others think..

Cry about it or laugh about it. Its upto us. So true.

There is no right or wrong thing, so it's ok to be a fool, everyone is in some way. 🌼

So I'm still only concerned with my vaasana, but today i learned that that includes my mind and what i choose to think about 🙏🏻 Much Love Sadhguru Team! 💖

How about instead of assuming ppl are silently negatively judging you.. assume that ppl are thinking of you in a positive way 🥰

Correct, Nobody has time to think about someone and pass judgement ❤

The manager of the ice rink 😂 Thanks for the message, I wish I could have listened to this in my childhood, I would have not waste so many years. Balanced education and fair informations are so decisive in a life perspective.

I will never EVER worry about what others think. 🙏

People are abusing me behind me and trying to disturb me when I do aum chatting or talking about spritulity this helped me 🙏

Thank you sadguru it's an amazing truth, the more we expect good judgement from others more and more we get bad experience.. instead we should try to be true to ourselves and follow our true instinct... Namaskaram...

I have a hard time with this... hopefully it'll help me... haven't seen it yet...so excited to watch and see what wisdom Sadhguru brings us

Where I live (small village) people have the greatest ability of telling others what they think about them and their actions. 😅😅 And above all, to classify it as 'this is bad' and 'this is good'. We don't need to read minds.... People just throw their limitations on you and walk away. "Very good" for spiritual growth or "very bad" when most people take these limitations as their own. 😂😂😂😂😢😢😢 I try to smile and love them as they are, but I cultivate ridiculous ways since I was a child. 😂😂 So, if I don't fall down. I go out in pyjamas.... Now I am on with sadhguru and yoga 😮😊❤😂😂 they don't have to tell me. They think I am nuts they look at me with half smile or some ask with interest. Funny place 🎉🎉😊🙏🏽 ❤️ ❤️

I stop worrying what people talk about me,or judge me,i continue my way.Sadguru 🙏🙏🙏

Only the opinion of yourself and God matters, about you. No one else matters. 😊

He says thank you and when does he get to see you, hes gonna be giving you the biggest hug when he does finally get to see you

Never worry abt what other ppl think. Pranam Sadhguru

Before Sadhguru i was bothering alot with stuff like this, after innerengineering those kinds of things become so insignificant, now i can laugh at most stuff that use to bother me.

All my life i have struggled with this and sadhguru gsve the perfect answer❤

Tq sadhguru...

Superb guruji ☺

Thnq sadguru for rudraksha diksha

Thankyou guruji 🙏🌺🙏

Thanks much

Thank you Sadguru 🙏

Thank you

This too shall pass. 🙏

thank you

Shambho❣️🙏🏼

Thankyou sadhguru

Needed This video .Thank You sadhguru.Lots of love from Nepal❤❤

Sadhguru 😊❤

Naman Guruji 🙏🙏🙏

Truly said 🎉

Thank you Bigger Sadhguru

🙏 brother!❤

🔥 That’s great, Sadhguru! I completely agree🤗

What a beautiful message ❤

This is the first time I've seen you wearing a mala, Kyabje. ❤

NAMASKARAM SADHGURU 🙏🏾🪷🙏🏾🕉️🦚

That was just wow❤

Ty,, GIVING THEM POWER, use that on YOURSELF❤

You're great Guru

HEAVENlow sir. Much love ❤

🌲Sadhguru🌳🌿🌸🌹🙏

❤Thats Right...ThAnk You ❣💟👀😘

Shambho

Its all in mind

Meditation and meditative music can be powerful tools for helping us let go of worrying about what others think. By quieting the mind and turning inward, we can gain a greater sense of self-awareness and self-acceptance, which can in turn reduce our need for external validation. Meditative music can further enhance this process by providing a calming and grounding backdrop that can help us stay focused and present. With regular practice, meditation and meditative music can help us cultivate a deeper sense of inner peace and confidence that allows us to be more comfortable in our own skin, regardless of what others may think

Such a great video 🥹

absolutely!

Sadhguru you beauty! ❤

Nice explained

I too go through same situations where I feel what people will think.

🙏🏽❤ exactly what i needed to hear

Amazing

Very nice..what people think about us doesn't matter..some people are always critical about others..

I WISH I COULD HUG U SADHGURU, I love you so much. thx for the wise words.

Welcome.varanasi..

Namaskaram Sadhguru!🎉❤💐🙏💯

@Sadhguru Good video!

We promise that we will make ourselves fantastic & wonderful

Namaste SADHGURU!!! I'm glad for this! Following all the way from Kenya, Africa. ❤ Great analogy.

This is the fenomanal one great Sadhguru ji 🙏🏻🙏🏻

Har har mahadev

Thank you so much Sadhguru.🙏💖💖💖 Love from Brazil.

Sadhguru 🙏🔱💐🌹😇💖🥰😇

Namaskaragalu Sadhguru 👋🎈 pls come to BELAGAVI city 🙏 Lot's of love from BELAGAVI KARNATAKA 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

yes ... yes ... it is this way .. that is the best to do in live relations ... with others .. I LOVE YOU SADHDGURU ... you are my life teacher THANK YOU FROM ALL MY HEART !!!

Namaskaram 🙏 Aum Namah shivaya 🔱

Wow😊

I am receiving health , wealth happiness and peace in my life right now. I am grateful with all of my heart ❤

🙏😌shambho

Ooo mostly people are not thinking about me....really sad..but it's ok and good. THANKU

Fear of judgment and ridicule is a common experience that many people face in their lives. It can prevent us from expressing ourselves fully and living the life we want to live. Overcoming this fear requires effort and practice, but it is possible. Here are some tips: 1. Recognize that everyone experiences fear of judgment and ridicule at some point in their lives. It is a natural human emotion, and you are not alone in feeling this way. 2. Challenge your negative thoughts. Often, our fear of judgment is based on negative self-talk and assumptions about what others may think. Challenge these thoughts by asking yourself if they are based on evidence or just your own fears. 3. Build your self-confidence. The more confident you feel in yourself and your abilities, the less you will be impacted by the opinions of others. Practice self-care, set achievable goals, and celebrate your successes. 4. Surround yourself with positive and supportive people. Having a network of people who believe in you and support you can help boost your confidence and reduce your fear of judgment. 5. Practice self-compassion. Be kind and gentle with yourself, and remember to treat yourself the way you would treat a good friend. Practice self-compassion can help you prioritize your own feelings and needs over the opinions of others. Remember, overcoming fear of judgment and ridicule is a journey, and it may take time and effort. However, by practicing these tips and embracing your true self, you can find the courage to live a fuller and more authentic life.

Nice 👍

Bless the naga .may they be kind to us,especially the elements.

What Others Think Once upon a time it was announced that a dog show was to be held and the top prize was set at $1000. But this was a special show because to win the money it required all ten judges to agree on only one dog as better than all the others. So through a process of elimination it came down to selecting the best dog out of the last two - one was a Border Collie and the other was a Golden Retriever. Both were nice dogs and most of the audience wasn't able to tell there was anything special about them just by appearances. So to make them even more noticeable, the owners washed them and brushed their coats until they were shiny and smooth. They even tied colorful ribbons on them and brushed their teeth. Both dogs looked their best and they both wagged their tails and wiggled their butts when their owners would pat them on their heads. And now the big moment had arrived and the judges examined the two dogs while the proud owners stood beside their pets. The judges cast their votes and the results were in. Half of the judges liked the Border Collie and half of them preferred the Golden Retriever. And no matter how much they discussed it, neither side could convince the other to change their votes. And so the contest ended in a draw with neither dog owner collecting the $1000 prize. Once the two dog owners left the show they met outside in the parking lot to complain to each other how disappointed they were at the results. They talked about how they did so much work trying to win the approval of the judges and it was all for nothing. Then they unleashed their pets and immediately the two dogs ran off to splash and play in a nearby mud puddle. They seemed happy the show was over and they could finally have fun just being themselves again. They wagged their tails and wiggled their butts as they chased each other around in the dirty water. The moral of the story is: Your happiness doesn't require the approval of others. Do what makes you happy, and if others don't approve of your choices that's their problem, don't make it yours. As the old saying goes, you can't please everyone, so just please yourself. In this story the pet owners let the choices of others determine their happiness, but the dogs didn't care what anyone thought of them, they were happy just being dogs and doing what they loved to do. So do what makes you happy and don't worry about what others think. This is an important thing to learn in life, especially for young people who often base their own happiness on the approval of friends.

Respected sat Gurudev !koti koti pranam,i am listening of sat gurus spiritual speech daily. i am feeling so pleasure.

Namaskaram

I like the presentation method..funky music etc.. they should invest in making some music with his voice in the background..maybe our guru could be like in the top 40

Har har Mahadev

Sadhguru's videos always come at the right moment..

❤ I’m laughing so hard Thank you!!

I've learned many great lessons from this and applied them 2 myself along with a good laugh Thank u

Yeeeeeee ❤️🙏

❤❤❤❤❤RAM NARAYAN RAM RAM NARAYAN RAM ❤❤❤❤❤