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@IvyElizabeth9182 жыл бұрын
As a woman, I was once addicted to it.. I had to stop cold turkey and it’s now been close to a year. The clarity and self control is unreal! God has really carried me and through breaking my addiction to both the videos and self pleasure, I was able to get over my ex/child’s father and heal from a lot of prior trauma. It used to be so bad that anytime I would meet someone new, I would imagine them in the act of s*x. I can’t even believe I’m typing this, but hopefully my testimony can help others in the position I used to be in. Also, I’m wondering if it was a spirit as both of my exes had addictions to it as well. I’m just glad to be free from it. I’ve been abstinent for about 2.5 years, but free from p*rn and mast.. for almost a year. ** I had to edit this when I looked back at my journal! It’s only been about 8-9 months of no p*rn and m**tur..! **
@patwilson12572 жыл бұрын
Your transparency WILL help others. God bless you.
@maggiekabongo8432 жыл бұрын
Your testimony is amazing thank you for sharing 👏🏾👏🏾
@gracehill33442 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! I used to be addicted as well! Keep going sis!
@iJuanGutierrez2 жыл бұрын
To God be the glory sister.
@chellej.15922 жыл бұрын
I'm happy for you, sis! Often times people are made to feel bad for shirking certain s3xual proclivities and are called boring because we don't want to indulge in p0rn, 3somes and the like. Well call me boring because that stuff is a spirit that will take over your mind and soul. Stay up, sis!
@lisel.1332 жыл бұрын
Destroying Lives, marriages, and destinys...Its both men & women that need deliverance daily 😞......
Love this video uncle Tony! I struggled with porn, masturbation, strip clubs etc for YEARS. Literally almost destroyed my life. God had freed me from these things and now I’m in a relationship with a beautiful woman of God. I still have to deal with the consequences of my past but I’m confident that God will continue to heal me. I’d ask that you continue making these videos for the Kingdom. Peace and love!
@saphinawest2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@cherh2 жыл бұрын
Wow. Thanks for sharing your truth
@maryphillips36862 жыл бұрын
♥️♥️♥️
@lydiamyself1052 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@fah2322 жыл бұрын
Blessings brother🙏
@Realness4sho2 жыл бұрын
😳A Man Or Woman....Who can't/won't Control their intimate Desires is Super Duper Dangerous!!
@cresha802 жыл бұрын
I was molested at 13 and did not realize that afterwards I was dealing with all kinds of spirits of lust and sexual demons. God just recently opened my eyes and I stopped cold turkey. That addiction ruined my life in so many ways. But thank God for sending Jesus to die for my sins. God is getting me through this journey! 🙏🏾
@KayciazWorld2 жыл бұрын
I will never understand why porn is even legal. It has and will continue to destroy lives. I just hate it. And what's worse is there are kids who get caught up in it before they even have a chance to become who God has created them to be. The enemy is real and I pray that God heals as many people as he can from it.
@beefaye68612 жыл бұрын
Yes....its gross to me ....yuck...I never like male strippers at the club whn I was young....all I wanted to do was dance 😁....I don't want anyone in my life that is supporting it....I don't want thm spirits around me.
@shutit40242 жыл бұрын
I have been watching since I was 5 I have stopped though it got boring honestly
@yanikeonpurpose2 жыл бұрын
It’s legal because it’s part of the elite’s agenda. They placed it there to keep us living in our lower nature. Notice that kfc, mcdonald’s, burger king etc uses red in their logos- the colour of the lower nature. Your lower nature keeps you on a frequency of sex, security, survival, food etc… basically your animal nature. Your higher nature is your God self, where you live a life of empowerment, self sustenance, community, all is one, love etc. If y’all only knew that majority of our existence is driven by carefully coordinated systems designed to keep us slaves. Every little detail.. down to living in square houses & taking a simple shower.
@knowyourworth22132 жыл бұрын
As a woman who has watched ….. it is also destructive and the images never go away. It can ruin your life and it has a lasting impact. Glory to God for freedom of it but Lord knows how His children are impacted in the long run. I just wanted to share this because you mentioned not being able to speak on behalf of a woman. I am a woman who is completely aware of, after many mistakes, the dangers of mishandled sex and watching people in the act. God bless you. ❤️
@knowyourworth22132 жыл бұрын
@@kaleema1987 God bless you!
@jessitabonita2 жыл бұрын
Same! It also warps the minds of us who have watched on what the "perfect" body should look like (meanwhile it's mostly plastic surgery...) 😞
@trulyshanell31432 жыл бұрын
Nothing but the truth!
@Queen._sam_2 жыл бұрын
Between porn and those HIV commercials 🌈 … You can surely tell that we’re living in the last days. It’s getting out of control! We’re living in two worlds right now. There’s followers of Jesus and then there’s the world. This is really what it’s come to.
@overcomerbtboj2 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@annagrace11592 жыл бұрын
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽Mercy Lord
@zh14082 жыл бұрын
No lie !
@brittanyb59422 жыл бұрын
Very true!
@TestTest-ft9xh2 жыл бұрын
End of the world thinking is PTSD btw.
@millicentstollenwerck52392 жыл бұрын
As a woman it gets hard being in a relationship with a man who is addicted to those xxx movies cause he set unrealistic standards on you to become what he is addicted to.
@annagrace11592 жыл бұрын
Trust and believe that it's HIS loss
@queensun6059 Жыл бұрын
👸precisely! he started pointing out all of my "flaws that i couldn't change🙄 bcuz he sees "perfect women on p*rn🤨we broke 💔up 😪.
@amandabretch852 жыл бұрын
A person with an addiction to variety will never be satisfied with one person.
@azchanna2 жыл бұрын
Men think porn is reality 🤦🏿♀️
@beefaye68612 жыл бұрын
Its a BIG turnoff to me..... 🏃
@saffaura2 жыл бұрын
How do you even find a man today that doesn't look at porn? It's so prevalent and normalized in our society.
@goldtiger94532 жыл бұрын
I don't, I picked the habit up from boxing. It's gonna be almost impossible. I feel bad for these newer generations. Aspiring sugar babies, onlyfans pornstars. Kids developing porn addiction before social skills. Virtual reality porn is gonna be accessible in every home very soon
@queensun6059 Жыл бұрын
👸bingo!👏trying to accept being alone🙏bcuz the chances of 😔meeting a man who doesn't watch p*rn: is zero to none🤬!
@susannahkathleendouglas14522 жыл бұрын
Someone close to me is addicted to pornography. Even the persons countenance has changed and there is a darkness that surrounds this person. I continue to pray for deliverance because this is a spiritual problem.
@karamel10772 жыл бұрын
LOLLLLL
@KristieBach2 жыл бұрын
Them sexual demons ain’t nothing to mess with.
@angewinou7802 жыл бұрын
Spirit spouse no joke
@CaramelKissez2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@lashandaedwards66912 жыл бұрын
Yes an they attack you in your sleep as well
@KristieBach2 жыл бұрын
@@lashandaedwards6691 mercy
@C.3873 ай бұрын
Amen
@jessitabonita2 жыл бұрын
For fellow believers who battle this sin: Be killing sin, or sin will kill you! The Bible will keep you from sin, or sin will keep you from the Bible! Tony you have perfect timing. As a born again believer, when I've returned to this sin like "a dog returns to his own vomit": I am no longer self-satisfied as I was when I was lost/blind addicted to it... I now cry and pray to God in repentance. Some people may call it a spirit or demon, but it comes from my own wicked heart's desire for a husband and intimacy and comes from a disobedient lack of walking in the fruit of the Holy Spirit that includes self-control/discipline! When I feed lustful thoughts, I realize I haven't been feeding on God's Word as I should. Pray, fast (from food or whatever worldly thing is distracting you from God), and then study and meditate on God's Word! Read Ephesians to take up the whole armor of God! God bless Tony and everyone here for God's mercy and grace. 💛
@jessitabonita2 жыл бұрын
Brothers and sisters in Christ: I just listened to Paul's letter to the Galatians (ESV, on the Bible app) and I recommend anyone struggling with this sin to do the same- and especially meditate on Galatians 5 & 6. 😌💛
@lisel.1332 жыл бұрын
So glad to hear your testimony, its good to know your still overcoming and not giving up. Sometimes theses acts follow a dream thats continuing to play out during the day. I wake up now praying every morning now, Lord help us continue to stay prayed up.
@yatboinate77232 жыл бұрын
I’ve been fighting my addiction. It ain’t no joke, I’m 22 and single and I really do wanna stop, i feel like I’m in too deep. Even tho I don’t watch porn or mast^* *te as much as I did when I was ignorant to my doings it’s super tough to stop completely. I’m slowing losing my appetite for it.
@the_feisty_vegan_llc2 жыл бұрын
Keep moving forward!! You can do it! 🙏🏾🧿
@smoothgent10112 жыл бұрын
No fap is the way to go
@patwilson12572 жыл бұрын
Keep fighting, you will win, if you don’t quit fighting.
@ARighteousLife2 жыл бұрын
You need deliverance by the Holy Spirit. You can't do it on your own
@ruru94002 жыл бұрын
I was addicted to it for 13yrs and it was Jesus Christ that broke the chains of bondage for me. I was in your shoes! Don't believe the lie that is in your head that you're in too deep. It's a LIE. You can be set free from anything if you really want it. There is also professional help, and if I had not been so prideful back when I was struggling and ashamed, I would have sought out help too. It's a spiritual matter, that's why it's harder to fight against it in the natural. But if you don't believe in the Lord like that please seek help from counselors for it. Google is your friend. You CAN defeat this. Thanks for being so transparent and public about it 🙂
@natasha59292 жыл бұрын
The accuracy in the message! I should not have ignored the red flags when I arrived home and my ex was viewing the videos on his phone. He claimed that he wanted me to view it with him. I took offense! This turned into me checking his phone to find that he had various videos of different types favorited on a certain website. He minimized it earlier on in our relationship, and then later on admitted to having an addiction. It definitely caused insecurities on my part. I will never subject myself to a man that engages in that type of behavior again, even if it means staying single for the remainder of my days in this physical body!
@yanikeonpurpose2 жыл бұрын
Facts 💯. But also do the work to see what is within you that attracted that kind on man into your life. For me, I carry dominance in my aura, so I tend to attract weak men (men that like to let women lead). Now I’m conscious that this is in my aura/energetic field, so I’m working on not attracting based on these signals.
@natasha59292 жыл бұрын
YANIKE ON PURPOSE I have a military background, therefore, that could have been a contributor in the dominance in my aura (I can relate). However, my ex and I met when I was 15 years of age (there is a story behind that regaring history), therefore, we pursued a relationship following reconnection based on our knowledge of one another. I am a firm believer that the blaming the victim mentality is harmful in itself. To further expound, sometimes, it is not what aura an individual emits that may attract an individual. It very well could be that an individual sees that the other is successful, has a home, great career, stability, sound mind, and a myriad of other things. Self-assessment is something that every individual should do to garner awareness, however, it is not always something within a person that attracts an individual that has significant challenges.
@CoCo-yv3hl2 жыл бұрын
This Pastor spoke about porn one Sunday at the end of his sermon. He said if you weren’t gay you will be after watching it because you’re opening up your spirit to entertain all the spirits you’re watching & the same with horror movies
@EbonyEveryDay2 жыл бұрын
He was right!
@EButta712 жыл бұрын
I believe this to be true. The extent of arousal doesn't stop.... They go further and further until you get desensitized to the images and then anything goes. Now you're on "To Catch A Predator"🤷🏿♀️ lol seriously though.
@CaramelKissez2 жыл бұрын
Makes sense
@queenofhearts11382 жыл бұрын
Do men understand that as they watching prn they looking at the man's genetalia as well? Aren't they looking at the man's peen fantasizing about being in his place? How do straight men SKIP OVER THAT PART??
@brittanyb59422 жыл бұрын
He's telling the truth!!
@Shayvideos12 жыл бұрын
I've been saying for a while now that porn has warped too many minds and too many have become desensitized.
@gracehill33442 жыл бұрын
I signed my divorce papers this week guys. The man that I married over a decade ago is UTTERLY addicted to pornography. The gross amount of lies that he uses to "cover" his addiction has reached to the heavens for me. He has done years of counseling on and off and I can't be bothered with this foolishness anymore! Pray for me that he signs the divorce papers next week. I should have paid closer attention to a dream that God gave me about him 14 years ago. It wasn't about pornoraphy but it did come true and I am paying for not heeding the warning now! Anyway, Happy New Year Yall!
@fah2322 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear but it will be ok. Blessings.
@TheHolyYogi2 жыл бұрын
So proud of you 👍🏽
@kimnguyen18542 жыл бұрын
This sounds like my bf of 9 years. I cannot wait to escape. Feel so empty inside, it's draining.
@MsAldil2 жыл бұрын
What dream
@VintageAfro912 жыл бұрын
I remember that lifetime movie that came on in the early 2000s called Human Trafficking. A lot of the men were willing to travel miles to mess with underage girls. It was sick. Great message Tony.
@shutit40242 жыл бұрын
And now sadly they’re taking boys too
@PrettyFourU12 жыл бұрын
Absolutely true !
@elizabethhennessey64372 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony - everyone else keeps telling me this is normal! I had to let my fiance go because he was addicted to "soft p*rn" on social media as well as the nasty movies. He claimed to be a Man of God but said "I'm only human and the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak" Broke my heart but I just didn't want him touching me anymore. Sad
@beefaye68612 жыл бұрын
I can imagine.....I caught my ex watchn......after that I didn't want him touchn me...I end up leavn that pervert....he said it was normal....he doing 40+ yrs now....go figure
@ejhdbegbeidishdj93582 жыл бұрын
Hugs to you, sis. Don’t let weak men hold you down any longer. 💗
@gracehill33442 жыл бұрын
Good for you! I'm glad you got out when you did! Glad you weren't a fool like me, lol!
@shutit40242 жыл бұрын
@@beefaye6861 40 years for what ? He was loose in the head to begin with
@beefaye68612 жыл бұрын
@@shutit4024 Snapped n took a friends life.... 😥
@georgiannalaurie95922 жыл бұрын
Porn does destroy a marriage
@brittanyb59422 жыл бұрын
This is very true! As a woman who struggled with this, everyday is a battlefield!
@lauramapani36272 жыл бұрын
Yes... So true
@tulip41692 жыл бұрын
I heard a comedian say that those persons who make those movies are cleaner (in terms of no STD’s) than the average person because they get tested so often. That statement is a clear indication of where this world is.
@shutit40242 жыл бұрын
When I use to look at it the women’s V looked all beat up and worn out same with their exit area I never believed that statement one bit
@sayamire57542 жыл бұрын
They do get tested a lot but because they do get STIs from it and need to be treated before the next round. Also you were listening to a comedian so I wouldn’t believe he was not joking
@tulip41692 жыл бұрын
@@sayamire5754 He’s a comedian but he wasn’t doing stand up. He was serious about what he saying. He truly believed what he was saying.
@openheartsavagemind64432 жыл бұрын
This video was really good, but it was such a hard pill to swallow at the same time.
@CaramelKissez2 жыл бұрын
God bless you 🙏🏽
@openheartsavagemind64432 жыл бұрын
@@CaramelKissez God bless you too. 🙏🏾
@sonyamoyler92375 ай бұрын
It's true ain't nothing like the Real thing 💯 the flesh is no good, it's the enemy's ally, you can not play with it, thank you for addressing this issue, God Bless you Sir 🙏🏽
@filmsuga922 жыл бұрын
I had an addiction to porn for years and I went cold Turkey. I believe my addiction stemmed from me being molested when I was a child, but I’ve been 8 years cold Turkey now. My ex had the same addiction including a sex addiction. His addictions almost brought back my addiction but I wasn’t gonna let that happen.
@MinieO7462 жыл бұрын
It's also a spirit
@teresaroquemore6702 жыл бұрын
So sad and ugly when it is for life creation and should be for a loving friendship in marriage
@theCW_2 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy listening to mature men like yourself, that realize and recognize issues like this are not cute or normal.
@mmommo-hx4dx2 жыл бұрын
whether you believe in sin or not, it's not gonna end well.
@kimberlyambeau63142 жыл бұрын
Tony, I really appreciate you for speaking on this. This destroyed my marriage and I had no clue that it was.
@CaramelKissez2 жыл бұрын
Bless you 🙏🏽
@kimberlyambeau63142 жыл бұрын
@@CaramelKissez Hello coach, are you a life coach? I’ve been wanting to get one. I need help. Im in therapy and I’ve done the healing but as far as going forward I’m kinda struggling.
@CaramelKissez2 жыл бұрын
@@kimberlyambeau6314 Happy Saturday, yes I am. Mymentor.life/caramellovehart You can also follow my youtube as well. Chat with you soon! Coach@caramellovehart.com 11am-7pm est
@kimberlyambeau63142 жыл бұрын
@@CaramelKissez Done, talk to you soon, thank you.
@CaramelKissez2 жыл бұрын
@@kimberlyambeau6314 my pleasure 😊
@sylviasalcedo85692 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony for keeping this topic 💯real. These spirits of perversion are not satisfied until it ultimately destroys marriages and individuals! There is no way a person can have a healthy relationship while watching this perversion. Lord, help us and deliver us.
@movingforward27112 жыл бұрын
As a women I never watched it until I met my ex. He wanted me to do all kinds of stuff I never heard of. I had to learn the hard way that he was perverted. Of course he told me it wouldn't hurt me if I knew that, but I knew it wasn't right and couldn't get into it.
@mmommo-hx4dx2 жыл бұрын
same
@shutit40242 жыл бұрын
I did some of that stuff with an ex and regret it to this day it made me feel like a cheap prostitute no offense to prostitutes though
@jam13692 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Lord, for addressing this major issue. It is so disturbing how this perversion is so prevalent. Be careful what you listen to and watch period. Holiness in love is the Way period. God bless!
@kishiamay34782 жыл бұрын
“ Her daddy was wearing dat thang out” Choked da life out dat thang. Lmao
@beefaye68612 жыл бұрын
I died twice on that 😂😂😂😂
@tiffanyjones18572 жыл бұрын
So well spoken. A man that can master himself ,can master the world.
@TheHolyYogi2 жыл бұрын
This was very well done! THANK YOU FOR TALKING TO MEN. A MAN MUST HEAR THIS MESSAGE FROM ANOTHER MAN.
@godsamazing20902 жыл бұрын
Also, as investigation discovery has shown us, porn has the potential to have ppl actually kidnapping, rapping, and/or even murdering ppl. Sometime men become necrophiliacs (ppl that sleep with dead bodies). So, yes porn/lust and desire can become dark and dangerous ( to not only you but for others too), Including a man's own child. Sad but very true.
@Classycaramel42 жыл бұрын
Whew I wish I could like this video 100 times. I also wish everyone understood how deep this is. Thank you for speaking on this subject it is so very true.
@pricilasanabria18822 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you so much for discussing this topic, you are completely right on everything…everything you have said. My son father struggles deeply with this, I personally believe and have voiced to him that he has an addiction to both porn and sex in general. I wanted him to get help because it was causing so much trouble in our relationship and our sex lives. It really is a demon after these men and women and has destroyed so many lives.
@tlashai99022 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this message Tony, this is the reason why I chose not to date for a while. I mean people make dating seem like rocket science when it’s not, all you have to do is find someone interview them and if you don’t like them then let them know and you go your separate ways no sex being involved.
@GisPondering2 жыл бұрын
GOD was protecting you as a young person against porn.
@MinieO7462 жыл бұрын
Tony, am muslim. We are taught not to shake a man's hands. I was told that the woman hand is soft and some men get aroused once they touch a women's hands. It's also common in Africa for women not to shake a man's hands.
@bellaapple21662 жыл бұрын
What about when you are working, how do you avoid shaking other men's hands? I don't like being touched at all, and I always disliked shaking hands. At work I have meetings and sometimes everyone is shaking hands. I say no now due to the pandemic but just wondering how you avoid shaking hands in a business setting?
@beefaye68612 жыл бұрын
Im all for it....dont touch me
@beefaye68612 жыл бұрын
@@bellaapple2166 I can't stand ppl to touch me either.....I thought something was wrong wit me
@brittanyb59422 жыл бұрын
Wow! I didn't know that!
@shutit40242 жыл бұрын
@@beefaye6861 I’m the same way I remembered we always had to shake this woman’s hand at school ugh I always hated it
@nikkyshamz26962 жыл бұрын
Tony out here doing the Lord's work, heavy...that part about sex not being a joke. We've seen men commit a murder suicide just cos the lady doesn't want them anymore and they will rather take her out of here then see her with another man. Women have done this too to men. Anyone disciplined in the area of sex is blessed, it can only be achieved with the help of the Holy Spirit cos the flesh is weak. Sex is spiritual and it makes sense why God permitted it only in the context of a marriage, a loving committed union btw a man and a woman ,because of the capacity it has to destroy when it is done perversely.
@flymetothemoon95412 жыл бұрын
It got worse in the pandemic with less human contact and more men at home all the time
@EButta712 жыл бұрын
💯
@phinesseriley75612 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this subject Tony ! I told myself that in this year I will have my 13 year old son watch your videos if fitting! weekly ! He need to hear this ! As a single mom I don’t really know how to 🥴 but this is GREAT kinda like the birds and bees talk .
@brittanyb59422 жыл бұрын
Yes I have a 14 yr old son so I know where you're coming from!
@irisroyal27642 жыл бұрын
I talk to my 13 year old son. He doesn't take the phone to sleep at night. And once in a week, i check his phone unexpectedly. I am married with a liberal value man. Nothing matter to him. So , I decided to take my son education in a next level . I give him a large amout of explanation to sexual, relationship, finance, education, history ,religion etc It's a difficult step but I had to stand up . You can do the same.
@Dr.Elaine12 жыл бұрын
“It creates unrealistic expectations.” “When we get accustomed to taking care of ourselves, we will never fully be able to appreciate another human.” TG
@ruru94002 жыл бұрын
I was dating a guy that I found out is addicted to it. 🥺 Really hurts my heart because he has a lot of great qualities but he's chasing a feeling and that lust dictates his behavior. It caused a lot of heartache for me. Addiction, especially that type really does ruins lives. It does ruin relationships, romantic or otherwise. I have seen and experienced the emotional pain and chaos it creates.
@tlashai99022 жыл бұрын
Sis I understand, I had an ex who wanted to have a threesome, and insinuating that I needed to be gay so he could have one. I refuse to do so, I will not jeopardize my morals and values for no man, he has someone else that’s doing that for him, but trying to hang on to me just in case that is a “no no” he’s blocked all the way around and I’m working on myself.
@ruru94002 жыл бұрын
@@tlashai9902 I'm so glad you got out of that situation and you know your value. He only wanted to de-moralize you so that you can be used, abused, and discarded when his lust ran out.
@be_you_tiful2 жыл бұрын
😔 May I ask how you find out during dating? I'm also dating a guy and I am wondering...
@jesusisking37222 жыл бұрын
@@be_you_tiful If you dating a young guy might as well ask. But as a man, I believe dating should be kept on hold. When you focus on Jesus Christ. And intimate relationship with the Lord. He will lead you to the right men for you. But sadly I believe a lot men/women have viewed or watched it. Unless the parents in their lives had godly morales and raised the upright.
@be_you_tiful2 жыл бұрын
@@jesusisking3722 Thank you for responding. It is a grown man and we are in the beginning stage of getting to know each other after he said he really likes me. His words so far match his intentions and I have no interest in having intimacy with him. God is leading me now and I feel like, after being single and worked on myself for 5 years and being critical about dating men, this one might be something.... but these topics really scare me 😔 dating is hard
@angewinou7802 жыл бұрын
I agree it's a door way to get a spiritual spouse. Ladies watch out I'm now free from that spirit. Thanks uncle T
@fayewearing5812 жыл бұрын
It can be as addictive as a narcotic or alcohol. Especially if it becomes the source of stability within relationships and marriage.
@jesusisking37222 жыл бұрын
Not just the brain cause from own experience you could quit for 3-4 months then go back. Gotta get a relationship with Jesus Christ and pray for help and Deliverance. And do what u gotta do to leave it alone. Like Joseph when he ran from sexual immorality.
@yolandia262 жыл бұрын
This is so true. True story I knew a guy that was in a high leadership position. It was brought to my attention he had been checking into rooms on tictok regarding big booty women. I went to him as a caring person. I said it's time for you to check in and go get help because as a person that is a prominent place this is not a good look and for the sake of your soul it's not normal. He started to me if a man can say anything to a single man about looking at women he must be gay or a punk himself. I knew than it was out of my control. As a woman and young, it's a lot that a woman carries in her womb that we don't seems to understand that matters when we opening up our womb.
@beauphomasterpiece37952 жыл бұрын
It definitely destroys lives or negativity influences .
@msjai7282 жыл бұрын
My 14 year old son is addicted to it. It worries me about his future in relationships. I've watched it before, but never addicted and never been my thing. But my heart breaks for my son.
@suzannaflores11642 жыл бұрын
Hi Tony, real talk, I found your channel years ago when I was breaking my porn addiction and seeking different outlets to learn new things. I learned about "situationships" from you and your channel helped me heal from bad choices. Thank you for this awesome video. I am clean from porn totally now. I am repairing the damage porn has done from finding it at a young age (12).
@kimwura77882 жыл бұрын
Man and woman are both effected
@ijeomaoliviaokeke99432 жыл бұрын
Differently tho
@MsChristianr2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Tony. I will have my 13 yr old watch this. I just had this conversation with my brother who is 17 about sex. He tried to convince me that he watched alot of KZfaq videos how to put on a condom and how to do it safely. Hes also addicted to marijuana. Being this is my sons uncle I'm trying my best as a single mom to instill into my 13 yr old. Hes a good kid but very gullible and my brothers words to him are gold. I have split the up physically for over 6 months now once I realized the streets had got ahold to him but they talk through the game and all that. And sometimes hear your mom talk doesn't really sink through
@lumintalocke77242 жыл бұрын
Absolutely Incredible. This video said so much! You can see online just how bad this is. Ladies so many of these same men are dating you. You have nothing coming from them but grief as Tony stated. It's clear as day. I'm am part of the Blessed Tribe. It cost 1.99 a month. If we can't give this man anything else we all can give him $24 a year for all this love that he gives us. Fyi I don't know Tony at all but what I do know is this message is straight from God and it will save your life.
@LifeCoachLi2 жыл бұрын
Such a necessary discussion TG!!! I’m grateful for your commitment to truth telling,
@lydiamyself1052 жыл бұрын
Amazing!! All facts. Hope this message goes viral.
@jasminealyssetv2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! Even in a marriage this is valid, so it’s good to hear someone speak from REALITY and facts! Amen 🙏🏽
@lb1234ify2 жыл бұрын
finding this out, and you have no idea this is going on, it can change how you feel about that person. It can hurt you in a deep place in your heart, and it makes you feel different about yourself in many ways.
@kamariasims70442 жыл бұрын
This very video is outstanding!! You are saying what should have been said a very loud long time ago. So many people were trying “new” things supposedly and did not change the game or even improve it. They just got diseases , unwanted babies, a perverted mind, failed relationships, lies. And feelings hurt. I hate porn
@beefaye68612 жыл бұрын
Right.....I always hated that mess....
@beayates62282 жыл бұрын
This is truth . God help us all. 🙏
@D1_Tactical2 жыл бұрын
Im broke busted and disgusted rn
@ashtonpatrice61372 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾
@shannonmonaallathat2 жыл бұрын
🙏🏽✝️
@brendabarba7412 жыл бұрын
But you are here… God is good and He leads us and guides us to exactly were we need to be! Many of us are recovering from being broke, busted and disgusted (men and women). Praying for you! Keep tuning in to these videos and I promise you, God will shift your life.
@queenofhearts11382 жыл бұрын
😩😩😩😩
@patwilson12572 жыл бұрын
All I can say is, THANK GOD FOR DELIVERANCE🙌🏾
@meggyeggypoo2 жыл бұрын
Great video, Great content. Ive made people listen to this message. It needs to heard. 🙌🏾🙏🏾 Biggest takeaway for me is that "you must starve lust" and the distorted reality. People are not connected and in tune with others. It's ruining people, relationships, and stealing joy and contentment. In my TG voice "ya nasty" 😂
@lashawndacooper43962 жыл бұрын
Awesome video Tony!! Thanks for taking the time to talk about this in detail about the effects of p*rn/ casual sex!! It definitely hinders men and women and can keep you bound!! God bless!! 🙌🏾
@DebraJohnson2 жыл бұрын
This is a very powerful message. Praise God for sending it through you and I hope more people get to hear this, including teens because with the internet so many young people get exposed and have easy access online.
@bryannatate76342 жыл бұрын
This & bringing other people in your marriage bed (3 somes)‼️ that’s the new thing sadly 🤦🏾♀️
@ijeomaoliviaokeke99432 жыл бұрын
Spirits dont lie and what your saying has real truths behind it. I want women, especially young women like me that have been lucky enough to be shelled from early s* by good parental guidance even up into our late teens to hear my testimony. Hopefully this opens some eyes. Some Men of today are operating by spirits and are totally reprobate when it comes to their loins as Tony explained. Im 22. Lost it at 19. I've been with 2 distinct guys in my life, one was my first, then the next came after him, and they both claimed that they didnt masturbate or watch porn at all. Of course u would raise an eyebrow but seeing as I hadnt watched p either, I didn't find it too hard to believe. Mind us, these are two very good looking, 20 somethings, non virgins, with a lot of freedom and options and to add, lenient parents. Im in college and met them there too. Now the first time happened when ian decided to watch 50 shades with me. Dumb me I know, I was naive. After that, the first p video I ever saw in my life on the internet was with 'Ian'. He showed it to me casually. This is the guy who claimed never to have done any of that b4. So I end up in a soul tie with Ian. That's when i had started to build an unquenchable desire for sex. It was bizarre and i felt guilty but cudnt stop M***. I later learned that he was raped by an aunt when he was 8 and had been with women much much older than him. He was also cheating on his gf with me. I've only recently dissolved the strength of that soul tie that started at 19 and still to today im battling the lust spirit. I wish I was making it up. I don't need to go into what happened physically but u can guess. Tony hit the nail in the head and u start to wonder why is all this discharge coming out of me. Ive only been with one person. But turns out that one person is just shaking hands with EVERYyyy one. The second guy, Thomas. Tommy I met after half a year of leaving Ian (still had a soul tie though and I was trying to get over it with Tommy). He also claimed no M, no P. we also had relations early. He wasnt as loosey goosey but again this unquenchable desire for the stick!! Fast forward, I've found out that he's engaged in ecstasy, had a 3 some in the past etc. Fast forward he once is sending pics of ig models to me that he believes I cud look like, cheeks and cleavage all on display, link to their onlyfans, asked me if I have lesbian fantasies, and worst yet, he sent me p* snippets that are not me but he told me it was me so that I wud have 'self confidence' in his words. That was the last straw cuz he basically made me think I was being filmed... a guy who suppsdly doesnt watch p or m*. Not to mention, that overwhelming spirit of lust makes having s* with him irresistable, literally cudnt stop ourselves ever and I really didn't like him that much Couldn't stop thinking about Ian. My point is this. These guys may say one thing but the spirit upon them never lies. Before these boys, I didn't have sexual appetites as high as I do now. I used to think it was the nastiest thing, now I am in the process of healing my mind and in consistent spiritual warfare to maintain purity. I have had the most vile thoughts enter my head, even pictured people I respect naked, imagined what it would be like. Imagine sitting in church and ur imagining it with the youth pastor. Like a very intrusive thought. Really not my own thought but a perverted whisper of an idea that if not rejected and rejected, takes over ur belief. Demons and diseases are sexually transmitted and they are not easy to get rid of one bit. A guy I stopped relations with after 4 months (ian) had not left my mind even after 4 years. I would spend hours just replaying our s encounters in my head, not knowing I was feeding that lust even more and depriving my own focus on school. Please young ladies who still have not been totally ran through, let's be determined to stop giving these boys our most prized possessions. We are the ones losing. What Tony says is 100% true and I hope someone will be able to learn from these warnings and not the hard way. Without this channel I surely should have fallen into the rabbits hole that so many of us fall into. Blessed.
@carolynjo25782 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your honesty… I have also struggled… and found that the mental struggle is much worse then the act!!! The act seemed easy to get into …but years to get out… I have learned the hard lessons… I pray for your continued freedom, deliverance, and growth…. The more we die to the flesh daily, the more we look like Christ… I couldn’t look at people for years, without sexual thoughts… but never give up… there is true freedom… and your life will continue to change.. the more we go after Christ… God bless you sis
@lauramapani36272 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this. This is deep. And Thanks for opening up. The soul ties are so deep. They don't just leave you. Even when you leave. You learn to live your live without them. And in time other things start to matter more. Tony's BBB (Brain Brand Body) formula has helped me a lot. Occasionally I will still feel a tug on my heart or have a dream about the guy but it's not unmanageable. ONE day at a time
@khaotic82 жыл бұрын
For a while i was addicted to masterbation and i would justify it by telling myself that at least im not out having sex with different men. I took time to reevaluate my life and was able to overcome that feeling and lust. Now i just focus on bettering myself in other ways like education. What helped me was wayching everyone else who were consumed by sex ans realizing im no different just bcuz its masterbation. I didnt want to be like them, and it helped me get rid of the addiction really fast. I feel empowered by not doing it anymore and not needing it too. Just wished there was alot of people in my generation like that. Im 22, and sex is in everything these days.
@Shayvideos12 жыл бұрын
"Hangela "🤣🤣🤣🤣
@lesliesmart45952 жыл бұрын
I agree what kept me away from porn is knowing people who battled addiction to it. Very scary details they shared with me. Which kept me away from it. P.S. I met a nice guy but dude had issues. He masturbated at least 4 to 5 times in a day. It made me 😷 sick. I asked him did he not think it's was to much left him alone.
@annagrace11592 жыл бұрын
These are impulse control issues that manifest in the physical...
@brittanyb59422 жыл бұрын
Excellent message Tony! I wish I could like and share a million times!!
@ZfenProductions2 жыл бұрын
Not all the way loose 😂😂😂 Tony you’re too much. God bless u and your family ❤️
@necolemiller27962 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony true man of God
@eac-guy7272 Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately a lot of couples as well are partaking in it as they say it keeps the passion alive
@marishajames35812 жыл бұрын
The message is coming through wonderfully but you are so funny i find myself laughing so much. Either way, I'm learning so much.
@christineporter99142 жыл бұрын
Me too Sis
@overcomerbtboj2 жыл бұрын
Yes the subject matter is so serious but tony making us laugh 😆
@EButta712 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this, I believe this to be true. Pornography is way too accessible and in many ways the extent of arousal doesn't stop....you can easily go further and further down a rabbit hole looking for new ways to be stimulated as you continue to get desensitized to the images and then anything goes. Next thing you know, you're on "To Catch A Predator"🤷🏿♀️ lol seriously though. Get it under control.
@PeaceBeStill-2 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@wakeup72892 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this video I think it will help many people in this world. I used to struggle with watching the movies but the more I got closer to god he's help me get pass it .I realize it came from childhood finding magazine's and walking in on my parent's as a little kid . put god first he will help and deliver you from the battle of sins amen he loves us
@kingsagenda2 жыл бұрын
Show this video to your teenagers!!
@marisela1142 жыл бұрын
I pray over this and hope it reaches many people lost in this…. Life style
@reinaquisha94182 жыл бұрын
This is an excellent teaching ✨
@teresaroquemore6702 жыл бұрын
Amen to the faking and yes it is real that people ain’t checking each other and oh yes the soul ties
@nursewilson1362 жыл бұрын
Very powerful message
@elizabethodunlami2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for saying this out loud. I pray that this video goes viral. Everyone needs to hear this. 🙏🏾
@zealbell78172 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you talk about this…. This was great and I always said you are comedian
@lorigovi7182 жыл бұрын
This video is 💯. Thankful for the TRUTH that Tony speaks.
@ericawilliams10762 жыл бұрын
So many people needed to hear this thnk u so much for this video
@keelycrawford86222 жыл бұрын
Thank u for being real and giving it to us how God is downloading into u‼️🙌🏽🙏🏽❤️
@lizalopez15942 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your consistency 🎉🎉 you're like a father to me🙏🏽
@valarielavalis91762 жыл бұрын
Very good talk Tony. You are so right.
@iamcoachcourtney-letstalka49062 жыл бұрын
This is a huge issue, thank you for continuing to address the negative effects. I never considered the negative effects of this until you talked about it. Healing in process! 🙏🏽🙏🏽
@ltaylor17712 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony for being obedient to your purpose. ALL PRAISES TO THE MOST HIGH.
@silentdreams24152 жыл бұрын
Be blessed Sir!
@msniki71032 жыл бұрын
Continued... Although I have never had issues attracting a man, I became extremely self conscious of my body and felt substandard as I foolishly compared myself with the fantasy, the women in the video. To this day, his respect for women is really low, I couldn't stay with him. About a year ago, my daughter was upset and shouted at her dad about all she'd witness with him and his addiction to porn. To date, he is alone and I feel bad for him, but I know that's the main reason he's not had a "successful"connection with another woman.