Life Tak its fake,,u guys should be in jail by promoting something like this,,readers digest is fake ,,,unsubscribed,be carefull guys,,they dont give any prize

Wrong choice

@Sam K i totally agree with u .. but .. totally parents na banna.. this this the wrong choice na ...this vedio is not abt population...its about theire own choices ..they cant care abt population..here . .. ek ladki ya ladka apne lyf me ekdusre k sath ..rehkr sare achievements paa kar .. achi khasi kyf bitane ke bad .. ek to baccha hona chiye na..😊only onr kid..for complete family . .

Disgusting topic

@@monica-gk9nz I agree with you career hi sab kuch nahi hota modern hona chaahiye insan bt itna bhi nahi... Ek Age baad aap chaaho to bhi nahi ho paayenge... Adoption is also not easy nower day's government ke aise aise rules hai jine maanana bhi mushkil hai

Well with this video, for me marriage is become easily. Because I also that girl who don't want to be mother.

@pooja absolutely 💯

Yes

Kaaashh, aap jaiso ke maa-baap ne bhi yahi socha hota

बहुत उच्च निर्णय है आपका। हमेशा खुश व स्वस्थ रहो

Great decision👏

Same our condion . We both have married since 11 years back and decided not to have kids because of financial conditions are not good.. we can't give a good life to a child and also having various health issues.. So both we decided that not taking a burden for having child's. I love child's but my husband don't like them even.. He lived a very problematic life since childhood and he Decided if he can't give a good life to someone why we bring him or her as a child to earth. So we through mutual understanding we think we we'll earn money together and at some stage of life if we need kids we will adopt.... Otherwise our life is good and happy without it.... We are living in a modern world so now everything is our choices and in our hands..

Right.

Right

Yes

Than why a marriage to be done . .

@@javidkhusro143 Marriages don't happen just to have children.

Why all bongs loosers r leftist mentality and useless giving useless excuses.

People get married because of societal pressure, create children, again because of societal pressure. What we all need is a companionship.

@@Lisa-sg1of exactly

Sorry so say brother, but in India single man can't adopt girl child. But yeah you can adopt 2 boys. I appreciate your decision. May God bless you n ur future children.

@@cherrycherry8688 Thanks brother but I'm from Bangladesh

@@ribaswayzmancini9598 omg what , i am from Bangladesh as well . I don't get to see men here having such thoughts . Mashallah . God bless you . How do you plan to adopt ? Sorry to ask but i am so excited ! Keu toh atlist amar deshe amar moto ! ❤️

All the very best👍💯 🙂

Before I saw your comment I was thought that I'm only one👉👉 which wants to adopt a child but I'm so glad for your diccision ☺☺👍👍

Bhaad mei jaane do unko

Same,I am 15 and when I will be financially stable than I will adopt a chid and after few years one more and wanted to be a single mother

yaaa... sushmita sen did that toooo

Me too

Wow

Same mam😀😀 ..... someone is there like me😀

We think the same 😯

i think same..having breakup with my gf.. as she want kids

Exactly in logo ko vaapis school bhejo koi

Haha😂😂

🤣

😂😂😂nice one..

😂😂😂

G8... Agree...

Many men do not want children)) They leave pregnant girls or do not give a wife a chance to become mother. It is the right of a man not to become a father but it is the right of a woman to become mother, pata nahi kya karna hai is sthiti men

These things should be discussed before marriage. My spouse and I are childfree for 9 years now. There are many cf couples even in India. The comments section is so encouraging too. If you dont want children then you must find a similar person and make things clear before marriage

@@007vissa Very true. These things must be discussed before getting married. I'm glad that things are changing a little bit. But we still have a very very long way to go. Have you ever felt lucky that both you and your spouse have been able to take the decision without having either sides of the family speaking, taunting or commenting about this?

I'm 39 and child free but I live in USA so nobody judges me here

Il adoot at 26

i am 30 and didn't marry...forget about kids.....🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@@Lakshyakapila I got married at 33 years , it's no achievement as it's made out to be , you still have the same struggles and challenges in life , only if you carve out your oen identity will it give the highest satisfaction and happiness.

Your life your choice....just listen to your heart... Not other....

That's too good...

That means I have 10 more years of explaining to do.

@@technicaltreasures7297 all the best 👍😬

Good for you. I don't know know when things would get normal in India.

Great thinking and I want to do like this also 👍

arghya mittal true

I agree 🔥🔥🔥🔥

I agree

Agree ..

What a social evolution?. Love, marriage, sex and children are the inseparable elements of the set called life. Now one by one they are made separable becoming free single element sets . That is the West / ultramodern thinking of love marriage sex children are separate. One can love a person marry another sex with some other else children with some one else.

Par kuch log hain jo kahenge ki agar tum bhikari bhi ho, aur tumhe do waqt ka khana nahi milta, fir bhi tumhe bacche paida karna chahiye!😌

Thank God Suhas, atleast some one commented this!!!!

Exactly u r ryt..... India has to much population.....and we are not saving it any thing for our upcoming generation 😊😊

@Pankaj Das thats the whole point of the comment buddy

Kids means kids one or two...not a cricket team...it's emotional feelings...

@@ujjalkantikar2127 Yaha yeh log ek nhi kr rhe or tjhe ckt team ki padi hain

👍

Tell your parents or friends after getting married and soon you will be considered as gay or lesbian.

@@thelhl2612 Gesbian

Omit one more step, consider all gals your sister n all boys brother.... no love,no marriage, no kids,be happy.

Why is a marriage needed by them?

Exactly

Right ,,,. Getting a child after marriage should not be a compulsion ,,,,

Yup but I could see some of the sasu maas sry male sasu maas in the comment section so yes such ppl do exist in real.life.😔

Kehdeti apne baccho pr dhyan do... in neighbours ka alag hi drama chalta hai..

Logon ka to jeevan me yahi kam h ... Jiski shadi nahi hui uski shadi ka theka lo..are ye ladki bahut badi ho gai h iski shadi karwao ... Are ye ladke ki shadi karwao and after marriage are bacche paida karo bina uske life adhuri h bull shit all these things

More power to you sister...🧡

Salute u .. be happy .. I also have a 4 year old cute princess . We had her after 7 yrs of our marriage.. we all are very happy

Vaibhav Goel I’m very happy for you and your hubby... I’m unfortunately this still does happen in many parts of the country where people have not been educated well enough.... But these happen know and then and it’s most difficult choice when you have to leave your partner...

gurudeseyesubai.org/mystery-of-parenthood/

@Harleen PUREWAL ummhh actually a female has the sex chromosome xx whereas male has a xy chromosome and sex gametes has single choromosome which on further with the fusion turns in pairs the female gamete ova or egg has x choromosome in it whereas the sperm has either x or y chromosome like 1:1 in the semen so the probability of decision of gender of the baby is 1/2 and that's totally depend on father if his x chromosome sperm is faster than his y chromosome 😂😂 it would be a beautiful baby girl ❤️❤️❤️ and if the sperm with y chromosome fused with the egg it will be a baby boy🔥🔥🔥 Xx- female Xy- male 😌😌😌 I hope you get it

I think you should consider ond

@@Raviviishwakarma What's ond my dear? ✨😃

@Nareshkumar boina yeah I'm all up for adoption but I would first want to have my own kids.💗🧿

​@@SaiyanNainoKiBhashaSamjheNa it will still be a suffering for them because the world is a tough school

@@888acendinghigher01 ummm sufferring how's that?

Even I am facing these situations, married for 1yr

Exactly

👍

Rightly said

Right man

I'm not agree with it.. but u know, in both d genders, only we girls have blessed with a woomb in which we can grow a new life n not d men.. n trust me, u'll not get this awesome feeling(pregnant phase) in any other things in d world.. so we can say, it is just a other meaning of d same.. but of course, becoming pregnant is individual's choice

Nooo...

I absolutely support you..Because if this is soo then why a single mother is taunted by the society

Noo

@@patilpv Having a career requires more work than getting pregnant. Just saying. And it depends. People say these things cause they are living in a box.

Ye sahi h

What rubbish globle population decline ho rahi hai or india ki population decline ho rahi hai Japan jase hal karna hai kya har couple ko 2 bacche to hone hi chaiya

नहीं करने चाहीए बच्चे

Uss type k mentality k log bacche paida karne k ilawa aur ata hi kya hain? Ye log mahilao ko baccha paida karne ka machine samajh rakkhe hain. Agar unka ma banna ka iccha bhi nahi hai to zabardasti rape kardo😠😡 Unhe to zabardasti k ilawa aur ata hi kya hain? Mahilao o samman karna to dur ki baat. Behen tum thik se rehna. Tumhare liye pray karungi ki tum uss situation se nikal sako🥺

True,a couple can lead a happy n fulfilling life even without a baby,having a baby isn't the only way to being happy in a marriage,people should respect the choice of being child free

True

No because they didn't love children..It's true and after 40s when they are old they they crave for baby ... Govt must make a rule where people like this can't adopt baby ... Because they flade form responsibility and they had to live alone.for ever

@@abhijnankhamrui7514 it is not escaping from taking responsibility. It is just like that they are not ready or capable of taking such a big responsibility. And we should not just give a birth to a baby for escaping from loneliness or a just to have someone who will look after us. Age is just a number and they can adopt a baby at the whatever time they want.. It's their life let them decide.. And having baby lately is not a crime.

Yes If you don't have baby you can engage yourselves in adultery.

@@rameezgaming3773 ma ya kehna chahti ho ka maa baap hamara liya kaam krty ha hmari hr kwahish pori krty ha lqn hm unhe old age home

escapism is always a choice

@@rameezgaming3773 toh maat ao na duniya mein? india ki population is huge, even china's population rise has slowed down. india is proving that they can't sustain so many people, so why criticize people who don't want to be parents?

@@neham2056 what a dumb excuse, if young generation will not come. World will be stuck in old age mentality, it is young generation who bring changes in society who are there to break the norms of society and make new path. If every person stops giving life to new babies, than our world can never grow. Population needed to be control by reducing babies not by not having babies. That's why we need young people. Knowledge deficient people like you will take world to an end. Problem with you people is that you people run from responsibilities that's why you are far from practicality and are knowledge deficient. At least ist have knowledge about nature rules .

Kon se duniya main ji rahe ho ye over population ka rona band karo china ki population decline ho rahi hai or government request kar rahi hai bacche kar lo bacche kar lo kyu china main 1 child policy ka bad population is declining ab waha 2 child policy hai india main bhi couple bacche nahi kar rahe Or shadi bhi nahi kar rahe ye pata nahi kon sa bhoot unke sar par savar hai karna hai to office ka mahol Or husband in laws ka mindset change karo kyuki bacche pata kon nahi kar jinke pas pasand hai agar husband wife dono job karte hai women ka liya maternity leave bhi hote hai or ye decline population short term ka liya sunne main acche lagta hai long term main iske bhot jyada disadvantage hai

Again sir, as you pointed out, it is a matter of choice.. some want babies. Some Don't

Who crave for babies,they should go for adoption

@Arun King it's right not compulsion both are different, no one can force you to do something which you don't want to do.

@@ketansoni4464 yes I completely agree with u

I don't want babies

haan choice hein madam but choice karna hi hoga kuch time baad

@@Uthkarsh7575 kuch time baad bhi choice karna hi nai hai toh kya kare?🙄

@@abbyyy1668 We should always be positive in life so why not make a positive choice!?hehe

You should consider one cause it is bond Of Al thing's

Don't marry and spoiled other family stay at your parents home

Priya sorry to say changes always doesn’t everytime works.we know that having baby is parent choice but nowadays people r making choices for personal pleasures example is live in realitionship.im is in korea here 45per youth didn’t get married it has caused serious problems they r just living to enjoying their lives some years later people will have to search for Korean speices so it’s not only about parents choice it’s acutually a social responsibility if we don’t complete our responsibilities than its better to be animal than human.from the ancient times our ancestors have performed it as their responsibility after finishing this they go to search for moksha.

@@nischalgiri2215 Hi, thx for ur comments. Every power comes with an responsibility. India is going to b in most populated Nation list. Right now v don't stand a chance to say that we will find it difficult to find our Indian species. However, right to choose is basic. If a person doesn't want that responsibility y shod v insist in creating an amazing life which isn't wanted by its creator? Why we wanna strain that person who isn't in first place even ready to be a Parent? Just bcoz some things are followed doesn't mean it's right. Earlier people didn't had choice nor they wanted to b something or Travel or explore the other side. Now there r choices. So y this fear of being Extinct? It's the animals who fear to be extinct at hands of Human .

Priya have you ever read bhagwat gita where Krishna says whole universe is with in me.he had told the responsibility of human.ur nd my intelligence never reaches even in his foot.dont think iam a fool i have done msc.but i have also read our holy scriptures they have much better knowledge than us.dont dare think that they r stupid nd u r super human this little peice of land which I r living Nd body ur enjoying is also the part of this land whom the creator created its all his grace my only saying is man is created to live not only for himself.this actually is a opportunity to live for every spices.this vedio emphasis to end nature rule even the animal r performing without complain so I said better to be human .i don’t want to indulge in discussing these things.such things push me to react.even the dashrath doesn’t want baby but he was forced to have baby by god nd god himself descended in the earth.i don’t think Iam superior than god if you think so than u may do whatever u can.my humble request to you don’t judge the book by its cover.first read the scriptures Nd our culture than judge it where the woman’s r taken as god Iam not against being modern I don’t think god is also against it but being a pseudo modern is dangerous I am sure u ll not understand it because ur ideas r influenced by these vedios.sorry I replied to you nowadays because of super humans it’s better to keep quiet than to make them understand.remind it Iam not only msc holder but good grip in our culture.

@@nischalgiri2215 if God Exist let him decide n punish, y r u getting involved in doing so? Ur reaction shows what ur r n I feel no need to prove my point on someone who has close mind. There is no point to prove. U trust on God n do too but I believe God is in me as m one of his creator too. If God has choice to b unmarried if God has Flaws to b angry n To react Humans to! If v still don't judge a God when he's single or indulges in affair though he's married Y r u n me judging his creation? U keep ur thoughts to itself n me to mine until a Human is Harming someone for pleasure n to drive happiness for himself I don't think there is anything wrong. Plz put ur thoughts and aggression n prayers on better things like Stopping Rape n Abuse. Thx

@@preethipaniker I Agree with nishal girl not with you. Not because what all you said on seeing this video but what you said about God. You talked about God affairs etc. See , without studying ved and all how can you say God do this and do that and so human beings. No , do you even know about God . Whatever you see in t.v serials and social media about God is not always true but sometimes it is manipulated . You can only know God by studying ved , Upanishads , Geeta etc however it is tough to understand language of these holy text as it is not easy to understand even nature . So therefore we should not discard social norms , social customs because these things could resist you taking pleasure of life for short time but would prove blessings in the disguise in the long run. When you would become mature and experienced person you won't agree with your present thought.

Other concepts could be great but this concept is bakwaas. Their patents should have thought like this so that those bullshits would not born to bring this shitty idea in the society.

Because we chose see these kind of topics which is sensible otherwise many peoples are not looking for this they needs shitty topics. So asked liquor shop has more crowd than milk shop.

Exactly

😂 right

I just hate mimi's voice....it's soooooo irritating...I just hate her voice

@@indianindian3636 so don't listen na...

Remember you clicked the video first

India Mai be Matlab ki baate bohot aam hai..... Yaad nahi jab koi relative paise dete hai to hum bolte hai... " Arrey nahi nahi bhaisaab... Paiso ki Kya jaroorat hai!!! Humare liye to apke ashirwadd hi bohot hai!!!! .... Aur thodi der Tak drama chalega aur fir paise le lenge!! Sab formality hai sahb!!!

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Bhai bahut himmat chahiye hoti hai. Agar tumhare maa baap ne bhi aisa hi socha hota na, to kabhi dharti par aate bhi nhi. 😡😡😡😡

Exactly

@Sam K its ur thinking. But everytime its not about we r happy with each other so we dnt need baby. Lots of couples cant give birth due to some disorder in their body but they crave. Im not saying that u should give birth but at least one can adopt a child and give the child a better life. Giving happiness is the beautiful feeling rather being happy with own life. And if parenthood is really a choice then i dnt think the video maker himself would be born today. So its useless to debate on parenthood choice or compulsion.

@Sam K everybody cant afford.. many middle class persons cant afford this treatment.

@Sam K and population control doesnt mean u should not give birth. Its how people should control their reproduction number having one baby is totally fine not a burden on earth. And raising an abondoned child is much more graceful and powerful than saying i dnt want to be mother coz my life is perfect and im happy.

@Sam K listen ur thinking is urs. And mine is mine. So dnt argue with me. U do urs choice and i will do mine.