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Hardly Initiated

Ай бұрын

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@prudencebrown9576 Ай бұрын

Change partners rather than change themselves now that is a word

@matthewbaines439 Ай бұрын

💯💯💯💯

@robingraham7618 Ай бұрын

You have to be able to trust where that correction comes from.

@WillGettinToIt 8 күн бұрын

If you're married, there is no excuse to not have the trust or you shouldn't have been married in the first place

@robingraham7618 8 күн бұрын

@WillGettinToIt you are correct. We tend to think trust is only about fidelity. I'm here to tell you that is only part of the conditions of trust. Trusting that you will have my back, that you won't intentionally hurt me, trust that you will protect me, trust that you will commit to the marriage nd not bounce at the first sign of trouble, trust that you will communicate your needs, trust that if I'm sick you will take care of me, trust that you will learn what motivates me or what causes me to shut down...etc. Trust is far more expansive than fidelity.

@nikamoff5835 Ай бұрын

“Change partners rather than change themselves “ Speak Pastor Flowers!…you are right some people don’t want to hold themselves accountable so divorce for some is the easy way out.

@Chichi0722 Ай бұрын

This is correct. Marriage is about growth...you get to see what you're truly made of.

@pamking5711 Ай бұрын

I love the concept of marriage but I didn't marry a person who shared that same concept. I waited but he just wouldn't mature into a man. Had to let him go.

@AnnesiaVienga Ай бұрын

Me too

@Coecoebrown Ай бұрын

Same

@KFontLab Ай бұрын

Yes… when aren’t committed to the same things it can cause lots of problems.

@mca217 6 күн бұрын

Honest question for everyone who agreed with the original comment. And it's no shade at any of you. I'm just trying to get educated on why this happens. Did you discuss these principles before marrying your former spouses?

@pamking5711 6 күн бұрын

@@mca217 Yes, those principles were discussed. But what I've learned is just because a person acknowledges doesn't mean that they agree. His actions and words did not sinq and I grew tired of finding out about them after the fact. That was no way to live.

@angelat56 Ай бұрын

So true. Lived it. I'm still working on myself. He chose to leave and not look at his flaws.

@OneNightSoiree Ай бұрын

You got this!

@MissSmalley Ай бұрын

I feel you Queen! Mine did the same thing and we haven’t spoken in 9 months. Punk Asq Nigga. My new phrase. He’s a PAN MAN !!😅

@thatgirl4160 Ай бұрын

This is factual. Husband is currently going through an identity crisis and chooses to run to family who shadows his toxic behavior instead of changing consistently. When u have a spouse that wants better for u, u either listen or regret it much later. Free will!

@MrsMovieLuvr 27 күн бұрын

Frfr marriage is full of forgiveness. Above all things have fervent love for one another because love covers a multitude of sins.

@keemamack7955 Ай бұрын

That was deep. Love that it came from a man.

@shareebell8857 28 күн бұрын

Rather, change partners than change themselves, looking at perfection and a finished product verses works and grace.. Grace Forgiveness ,Maturity, and Grace!

@prudencebrown9576 Ай бұрын

Amen . Do the work.

@erinsmith7171 11 күн бұрын

My first marriage ended because of his physical abuse and his outside child. I wasn’t going to stay in that situation. My current marriage is blossoming as we both did the work and we kept God in the marriage. There’s no abuse, no outside children, but only the love and the support that we have for each other.

@sweetcakes1509 Ай бұрын

Yassss! He nailed it👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

@sanekathomas3290 29 күн бұрын

Powerful!

@LorenaCruz-le2mz Ай бұрын

I had a friend who initially introduced me to Christianity. She met her husband in China during missionary work. He is from Texas but they moved to California and had 6 kids. I remembered that suddenly she was off. Then she told me that her husband wanted to divorce her and leave her for an affaired partner . This was their first marriage. I could tell she was heart broken but I won't ever forget when she said "he told me that God told him to divorce me". I didn't know what to say. Eventually she went through this bitter divorce but then he decided he wanted to be with her after all. But she no longer wanted to be with him. He fought the divorce even though he initiated it. I don't understand with the amount of resources available to us and the amount of help there is that the USA is still leading in divorce rates.

@pamking5711 Ай бұрын

Your friend's husband is a liar because God would not tell him that, he's a very selfish immature little boy because real men don't move like him, and all in all he's just a flake not to be taken seriously in any capacity. The U.S. has more marriage counselors, therapist, preachers and pastors, life coaches then most while fewer people here are getting married and the divorce rate still on the rise. Crazy!!

@shayemoore Ай бұрын

Good for her for respecting herself. If a man cheats, he has to go.

@paigenicholespeaks6172 Ай бұрын

America is leading in divorce because many marriages so not have God in it and many of the marriages were not marriages God put together. Women also don't need men in order to survive in America, unlike most other countries. Women can make a decent living all on their own. America is also a country that is founded in rebellion. Because of that rebellion, rebellion being a ruling principality in the Spirit, it's natural for the people to be rebellious towards the ways of God.

@MsExit_ Ай бұрын

I don’t believe in staying married until death do us part because we do not always make the right choice in choosing a partner.

@Nicole-wp1ye Ай бұрын

If God chose that partner, then sure...till death do us part What God put together let no man put asunder. We have to pray to God for a partner and then wait until He sends the person. Then we leave our family and cleave to that person and the 2 shall become 1.

@WillGettinToIt 8 күн бұрын

First of all if you didn't come from a 2 parent household where your parents were deeply rooted in the Word of God then you have no business getting married in the first place. Marriage is about duty, honor, respect not happiness. You have no idea how to stay married if you didn't come from it. Unless you see it then you don't understand the duty, tge honor, the respect, the forgiveness and grace it takes. Both of you are going to make a lot of mistakes. Do you have the wherewithal to see it thru. Marriage is a hard job and not supposed to be easy because it's bringing a woman and man together and we're different in every single way. The way to stay married is to just stay in it and pray for each other everyday, keeping God first. But if you truly don't believe in married then you should be ok with never having a commitment from a man. The only true commitment IS Marriage.

@brookebellamy9864 Ай бұрын

As a 1 year newlywed this nothing but straight facts

@therelationshipzonet.r.z.2258 10 күн бұрын

Finished products are oftentimes unfinished, but people lie and deny.

@joyinjesus4064 11 сағат бұрын

So True !!! Pastor Flowers always bringing that 🔥🔥🔥

@GRenee-xl6xp Ай бұрын

And some people divorce because God actually told them to not stay unequally yoked to an abuser who is trying to unalive them.

@srecreates Ай бұрын

dat part!

@williegreen3052 Ай бұрын

God gives you freewill, it was you that made that choice don't blame god.

@Coecoebrown Ай бұрын

@@williegreen3052 🤦🏾‍♀️ God repeatedly told people of the Bible to flee from certain danger and He still does it today.

@danilaroche1156 13 күн бұрын

Yes. My ex-husband nearly killed me. He was a Satanist. FR. I used to think it was wrong to divorce but God told me to let him go.

@jalisazari9387 Ай бұрын

Amen. This is good.

@roaming1996 Ай бұрын

Oooo this one hit, 💎💎💎

@debragaston5617 Ай бұрын

Mike drop

@kathycoates4333 Ай бұрын

Facts all those parts 💯 💯💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@edanablocker4248 27 күн бұрын

Preach

@judithstevens4323 23 күн бұрын

TRUTH❗💯💯🎯🎯❗❗

@Kadina8515 Ай бұрын

Facts! The perfection in the dating world and good forgiver in marriage... truth.

@samanthalianacole2386 Ай бұрын

We gotta be bout that work work ❤️

@sherrymalloy2376 19 күн бұрын

Love his ministry 🙌🏾

@devanysneed2326 Ай бұрын

Yep 💯 Facts That's So Good 👏🏾🔥👏🏾🔥👏🏾🔥

@OneNightSoiree Ай бұрын

true!

@mesha0932 Ай бұрын

Wow what he said is so true about dating these days. Wow

@ParsimonyQueens 27 күн бұрын

I gotta see the full show now. 🔥

@ashleysmith8445 Ай бұрын

This was good for both parties man n woman husband and wife TO SWALLOW THEIR PRIDE TO BE SUCCESSFUL IN THEIR MARRIAGE ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@joannawofford 27 күн бұрын

FACTS

@familler7 24 күн бұрын

Wow, that is a good way to look at! People rather change partners than change themselves!

@barbarasmith1110 24 күн бұрын

Facts

@handsomebo9816 Ай бұрын

Amen

@tamikamorrisonokeleke5328 23 күн бұрын

Amen 👏👏👏 #MarriageisforGROWNUPS

@naturallyours32 Ай бұрын

He's right

@1fancychik4God Ай бұрын

He sad it! Marriage and relationships are in a terrible downfall / people not taking ownership, doing the work on themselves, and understanding how to build better lives

@ddenise8428 23 күн бұрын

Wow, who is this man??? G-d bless him greatly. Hopefully many men truly hears this message! Cuz they like to think they perfect!

@J3RRYJ Ай бұрын

🎯🔥🔥🔥✝️✝️✝️

@PumpkinPie1985 Ай бұрын

WE NEED A PART 2

@lisamcinnis6430 Ай бұрын

Testimony ❤❤❤

@sharyonharris Ай бұрын

TRUTH!!!

@OneNightSoiree Ай бұрын

agreed

@valerieh.1624 13 күн бұрын

Some people Never change, But expect their spouse to remain in a horrible marriage. Not out of love, but their not wanting to be alone.

@keiwill2911 Ай бұрын

I love this, well said.💜💜Reason why I’m going through this 2nd divorce right now.

@elainewilliams3114 Ай бұрын

Amen n preach it

@jhenellecreighton1964 Ай бұрын

I love this!!!!!!!!!

@OneNightSoiree Ай бұрын

Me too!

@greatness5154 11 күн бұрын

This is true. Question: How do you change a cheater?

@mariagreen1354 22 күн бұрын

I divorced for peace. That's a difference.

@swatinupur8090 12 күн бұрын

Change myself....

@Iam_Blossomqueen Ай бұрын

Sooo good !!❤️🙌🏾

@nikie224 Ай бұрын

So true....

@conniev.r.1097 Ай бұрын

So true 👏🏾

@theeveronicadenise Ай бұрын

Thissssssssssss!

@Mizzwurie Ай бұрын

Wow this is so true

@thyneicebowden Ай бұрын

Yep

@Shehealedtolivepodcast Ай бұрын

So true

@chanelmitchell1632 Ай бұрын

A-mennnnn!

@djcheeseproductions Ай бұрын

Right tho !

@CARIBCULTURA 4 күн бұрын

‼️

@Lesah_ Ай бұрын

💯💯💯

@PushRadio Ай бұрын

💯

@claraht.6999 Ай бұрын

I could have used this advice 25 years ago, but I made the right decision because current wife did the same 😮

@williamj.dovejr.8613 Ай бұрын

I knew my ex wife better than she knew herself, I could give her as good as she could give me in an argument. She preferred to win as opposed to being happy.

@TheBreadTalkInvestors 5 күн бұрын

What episode was this?

@randi2618 Ай бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾

@sherrylm2537 Ай бұрын

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@bashiruddinahmad408 Ай бұрын

No sex intimacy in 30 months..married 5+years..and in tough times my wife wasnt theyre for me in the last couple of years.. divorce is coming

@Dazzlin826 2 күн бұрын

Or you can change partners to change yourself

@Tempest-B Ай бұрын

That uuummm will forever be the official “that was deep in my opinion” sound. Red pill mess. 😂

@birdmanflygod Ай бұрын

Marriage is VERY one sided which is why MOST men aint signing up for it 💯 I still believe in marriage tho especially if you bring my kids into this world