TONY GASKINS on Choosing a PERFECT Partner, FAKE Relationship Coaches & Womanizers

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Hardly Initiated

Hardly Initiated

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🕘 Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction
1:07 Ty & Ryan Bought On Highly Requested Guest TONY GASKINS
2:35 How To Decide Who Should You Learn From? Tony Shares His Simply Rule
11:18 The New "Drug Dealers": How Some Men Exploit Female Insecurities
18:23 Men's BIGGEST LIE: Painting Misery as Happiness in Dating
29:10 Tony Reveals: The ULTIMATE Test of a Man's Loyalty And Character
41:50 Shocking Truth: Can a "Good Woman" Disrespect Her Man?
55:13 The 3B Rule: Tony's SECRET Formula for Relationship Readiness
1:07:05 BARE BASICS: Tony's Radical Method to Find Your True Self
1:20:57 How To Prepare Yourself For The Spiritual Warfare?

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@HardlyInitiated
@HardlyInitiated 23 күн бұрын
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@rtmclean2763
@rtmclean2763 9 ай бұрын
🎉Finally a man with high integrity faithfully married real family man will share his thoughts. Hopefully Tony's voice will bring more enlightenment and guidance into what seems like relationship darkness and confusion. Thank you for bringing Mr. Gaskins to your platform. ❤🎉
@pamelacallahan6156
@pamelacallahan6156 9 ай бұрын
Love Tony ❤ I have followed him since 2013. I've grown so much from learning from him
@gapeach7814
@gapeach7814 9 ай бұрын
@@pamelacallahan6156Same
@joycewatt8289
@joycewatt8289 9 ай бұрын
I second that! Ditto🔥
@gabriellew.4847
@gabriellew.4847 9 ай бұрын
Finally is right! Whole lot of Black men talking loud and draggin' black women, and our young minds don't need to hear that from men that are not married to a black woman, never was or want to be married to a black woman! Tyler Perry Jason Black
@stephanieb7490
@stephanieb7490 9 ай бұрын
Amen!!! They often don’t have high character guests. They usually are cursing or saying something that doesn’t align with God. Just my opinion. OPINION. Lol
@Morethana_conqueror
@Morethana_conqueror 8 ай бұрын
This was powerful. I have been married 13 years and my husband told me this as well, he said I’m not scared of you if I cheat , he said I’m scared of what God will do to me if I do! Thank you for this confirmation!
@rosahurd6620
@rosahurd6620 8 ай бұрын
Hello sister, with you beating skin! We as wives can take that on. I have always said that! In my earlier years, my mind was not in the right space, but then I said that for the wrong reason / motive. Now it's for the right
@rosahurd6620
@rosahurd6620 8 ай бұрын
Typo beautiful skin
@Victoria-qk3mu
@Victoria-qk3mu 8 ай бұрын
Sis Wow
@God-Love-Freedom
@God-Love-Freedom 7 ай бұрын
That should be same for both husband and wife. God is #1.
@mrsc1742
@mrsc1742 7 ай бұрын
You are blessed to have a hisband with that mindset. Girl, stay in prayer & don't give the enemy an inch of opening!!!
@guap8391
@guap8391 8 ай бұрын
This brother exposed everything about me & most men it’s refreshing to know someone genuinely cares for men to give us the actual truth! Very special podcast guys🙏🏾💯
@tobealady.4490
@tobealady.4490 6 ай бұрын
Absolutely beautiful podcast. I’m sharing this with all my guy friends.
@nicholaprofitt
@nicholaprofitt 6 ай бұрын
I salute you for identifying and standing in your truth. I appreciate the accountability.... blessing 🙏
@json4061
@json4061 4 ай бұрын
💪🏾💪🏾
@Momo_Mo781
@Momo_Mo781 7 ай бұрын
Wow, Tony is a child of God - it's evident - he is unashamed of the Gospel and tells fresh testimonies all the time - Jesus is actively working in his daily life. God bless your ministry Tony Gaskins!!
@ShaBella509
@ShaBella509 8 ай бұрын
"A man's character is his currency" Preach 🙌🏾 love this message Tony Gaskins is the TRUTH!
@zionlegacy7777
@zionlegacy7777 8 ай бұрын
Exactly 100% I've had men with Audi's, Porsches, Etc try to get with me. I'm not looking at the "C"ar I'm looking at the "C"haracter! I got all 4 B's with some added i.e. the brilliance...the brain, the brand, the body, and the beauty! The beauty of holiness like King David said. I'm not just talking about outward beauty, I'm talking about inward beauty too. Also I've never been into Gucci Bags and Rolls-Royces, I ain't that type of woman, that's majority average women. About 2 years ago I made a mini rap called "G" God gave me Gemstones not Gucci, so when you see me in the first "G" ya' know who put them on me! 😏👏💎👑 (Full Version) A Short Poem Entitled "G" God made "G"emstones NOT "G"ucci, So when you see me in the first "G" Just know who put them on me, lol "I wear what's God-made first "G", they wear what's man-made "G"ucci I guess that's what I get for being holy, shining for the Most High's glory. #Royalty 👑 #Isaiah54:12
@Caramel_Queen504
@Caramel_Queen504 8 ай бұрын
​@@zionlegacy7777💯 💯
@Christina-rz7zw
@Christina-rz7zw 8 ай бұрын
But Tyler Perry said the same thing and y’all wasn’t having it 😂
@ShaBella509
@ShaBella509 8 ай бұрын
@@Christina-rz7zw Who is y'all? 👀
@Christina-rz7zw
@Christina-rz7zw 8 ай бұрын
@@ShaBella509whoever received the message as crazy as hell that a women should accept a man who can only pay the light bill if he treats you well and supports you other ways
@leticiajackson2237
@leticiajackson2237 9 ай бұрын
Cheating is like the lowest you can go. Cheating makes YOU look despicable and uncontrollable. Not make you a good man or woman. You actually degrade yourself.
@DushaunKing
@DushaunKing 8 ай бұрын
Females only say this cause y’all don’t want to be cheated 😂 it’s bad but not as nearly as bad as females make it. I don’t cheat and actually got cheated on and I don’t think it’s that damn serious.
@mahogenystl
@mahogenystl 7 ай бұрын
Exactly!!!! I agree
@TomikaKelly
@TomikaKelly 7 ай бұрын
Agreed! There are no 2nd chances after cheating.
@JMarie-th8xe
@JMarie-th8xe 8 ай бұрын
"Every single human, is human. Don't put any human on a pedestal." So very true. This has been very helpful to me.
@1KingAramis
@1KingAramis 3 ай бұрын
Thank-You Tony for reminding me the importance of cultivating Love for my wife. ❤ Blessed with 7 good Years of marriage. 🙏🏾 The marathon of becoming the best husband I can be continues! 💯
@lala5061
@lala5061 16 күн бұрын
I am proud of u and I pray u continue to become better for your wife so u can continue to lead your family 🙌🏽 A healthy family is beautiful, beautiful memories...give that to your family stay strong 💪🏽 🙏🏽
@ThirdEyeWize
@ThirdEyeWize 14 күн бұрын
Lucky lady 😉
@Dr.Elaine1
@Dr.Elaine1 9 ай бұрын
“Marriage is a job you cannot retire from.” TG 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@truh_von_tay
@truh_von_tay 8 ай бұрын
That last 2 minutes he snapped. I was a loser who got overlooked. I’m married three years as of last Tuesday & still want that validation cuz i didn’t get it from my mom. My wife adores me & for years i didn’t know why. I had so much rage & confusion due to social programming. She was not my preference but she met standards i didn’t even know i had wanted or needed. Men…DO THE WORK. It is our responsibility, privilege, and duty to become our best versions of ourselves to uplift our spouse; family; and everyone around us. I love you but God loves you more. 🤙🏾🤟🏾
@83ttaylor
@83ttaylor 8 ай бұрын
Much respect💪🏾
@truh_von_tay
@truh_von_tay 8 ай бұрын
@@83ttaylor thank you.
@tsionmesfin4889
@tsionmesfin4889 8 ай бұрын
dang your wife deserves better. hope she finds it.
@deliteful1991
@deliteful1991 8 ай бұрын
@@tsionmesfin4889 I gasped. Men really do settle. Have mercy.
@nikki7168
@nikki7168 8 ай бұрын
What is meant by "she was not preference but she met standards"? Can you elaborate? thanks 🦋
@siriusblack3770
@siriusblack3770 8 ай бұрын
I’ve never dated a man who was spiritually aware of himself internally or emotionally connected to himself. I have waited to meet this type of man but I have yet to encounter one. And I think that’s the struggle for many women.
@celiaferreira2028
@celiaferreira2028 26 күн бұрын
Words are powerful. I Luke your spirituality in this message is why I replied. Words to be used in having, in present& or in the future. Look back at your message e.g. "never" Keep working on you, you on the right track...Words are powerful
@Itsbabyj1
@Itsbabyj1 8 ай бұрын
Wow this was beautiful
@kishapereice
@kishapereice 8 ай бұрын
Yesssss
@rayjoseph2086
@rayjoseph2086 8 ай бұрын
This was beautiful ❤❤❤ I thank God for this show..
@torchisahall6915
@torchisahall6915 8 ай бұрын
Tony learn to be humble. His humility is honest. He doesn't care if man judge him. He just doesn't want God to judge him in sin. To God be the glory. Keep it going Tony. 1 Love young brother ❤❤
@nzingahoney
@nzingahoney 7 ай бұрын
Yes it was❤
@renatelewis538
@renatelewis538 7 ай бұрын
He is probably faking it.
@joyceparker5626
@joyceparker5626 9 ай бұрын
I’m overjoyed that these young men had the wisdom to invite Tony to the show. I hope other podcasters will follow suit. Tony is changing the narrative regarding relationships. Our community desperately needs to hear what Tony has to say. I’m so proud of him!
@AJweathersby
@AJweathersby 8 ай бұрын
Wisdom? Changing the narrative? This podcast was an hour and a half of saying “When men do wrong by women, it’s men’s fault. When women do wrong by men, it’s men’s fault.” Same decade-old pandering thats been done to death by dudes like Derrick Jaxn, Steve Harvey, Jamal Bryant, and the countless other “relationship gurus” that male audiences don’t acknowledge or respect. Tony says it himself: His following is 94% women, this channel’s following is 70% women, and their main appeal to female audiences is being an object of desire to their followers rather than actually helping them achieve meaningful results with the general male population. They don’t want the attention of men. They go out of their way to avoid interacting with platforms and content creators that have actual male audiences. That’s not a coincidence.
@DushaunKing
@DushaunKing 8 ай бұрын
@@AJweathersbyexactly what I’m thinking 🤦🏿‍♂️. It’s crazy cause I actually tried to hear him out but naw this not it…. And how is he changing the narrative 🤔. Then he preaching religion like the majority of the listeners practice that shit come on.
@AJweathersby
@AJweathersby 8 ай бұрын
@@DushaunKing Most people are religious. That part is fine. But the truly abhorrent part about Tony Gaskins is how he knowingly lies about the teachings of the Bible while presenting himself to be a biblical person. His entire gimmick is saying that men are given explicit orders from God on how they should treat their wives, and that the way women treat men is simply a byproduct of how good a man treats her. That is *NOT* a biblically sound belief. The Bible gives explicit instructions to both men and women about how they should treat each other in relationships, under no exceptions or conditions, and holds women to a clear standard of accountability just like it does men. No true follower of God’s word would tell a woman that it’s anyone’s responsibility but her own to be a good wife to a man. Tony is teaching false biblical doctrine and calling himself a man of God, while self-admitting to “used to” being the kind of man he claims to protect women from. Just like Derrick Jaxn. Just Steve Harvey. Just like Jamal Bryant. Just like all these false prophets who proclaim to be helping lead women to both God and better relationships with men, while doing the exact opposite in all actuality.
@blackbutterfye
@blackbutterfye 8 ай бұрын
@@AJweathersby Sorry, it’s clear you didn’t watch this whole thing into entirety and heard what you wanted. It’s clear you already had an opinion about him before even watching entirely. The Bible gives specific instructions for men and women in MARRIAGE. That is what he spoke about mostly, not relationships. And you didn’t specify how Tony is doing the opposite giving advice to women with bettering relationships with men. He straight up said that he tells women that they are delusional and clearly explained his approach throughly starting 11 minutes in and how his approach is different from other podcasters. He explained how the new podcasters are causing division between men & women. Those same male podcasters don’t even speak anything biblical at all! Kevin Samuels was an excellent example that he used. Another great example he used later was a girl and her father comparing the father to Clark Kent. The father will no longer be a Superman as the girl gets older but will have to reveal his real identity. Tony has never hid the real him about his past with women, his personal life with his wife and kids. That’s the biggest difference with the men you mentioned.
@AJweathersby
@AJweathersby 8 ай бұрын
@@blackbutterfye It’s clear to me that you’re already dead set on defending him and have no interest at examining him with a critical eye. But even so, I’ll still point out all the problems with what he’s saying. 1) Tony actually did well as explaining it himself, and I’m not sure how consciously aware he was of it: most of the appeal that male relationship podcasters like him have to women is that they present themselves as the kind of men women want, and listen to him because they like to imagine themselves as one day being with him. A man being a former player, cheater, womanizer, and now proclaiming to be a God fearing husband is right in line with most female fantasies about men. ‘Relationship experts’ like him are effectively the male equivalent of cam girls. They sell a dream. It doesn’t matter if their advice actually works on men, because women are watching to fantasize about the ideal man on the screen, not to confront the unideal realities of men in general. 2) He mentions how these other men’s podcasts are causing division. He’s a hypocrite of the worst degree for saying that, because he causes division. So much so, that no men listen to him. 94% female audience. His criticism of Kevin Samuels content in particular was that it made him start side-eyeing his wife, and judging her worth to him. That’s exactly what Tony tells women to do, and why men don’t care for people like him. And he half-references and perverts Biblical scripture to support these sort of views. 3) You say he gives advice to women. I disagree. He hardly gives any actionable advice or mentions anything in the way of self-improvement and making oneself more valuable/desirable to men. Quite the opposite, he mostly tells women that it’s men’s responsibility to see value in a woman as they are. Again, completely unbiblical and just generally bad advice, that he defends with deliberate half-readings and perversion of the the scripture.
@empress1081
@empress1081 8 ай бұрын
Tony Gaskins & Pastor R.C Blakes are the ONLY two men I listen to and take ADVICE from!🙏🏽❤️ Phewwww, always PROFOUND gems from Tony...Just coming out of a relationship that Tony literally advised me to leave years ago, but I've finally walked away... This interview came right on time for me🙏🏽❤️
@Twister_numba24
@Twister_numba24 8 ай бұрын
YES!!!! Following Tony and Bishop RC Blakes platforms have CHANGED MY LIFE!!! I used to listen to Stephan Speaks, but it started to occur to me that how can this man who's never been married, really be a real relationship coach??!!
@empress1081
@empress1081 8 ай бұрын
@Twister_numba24 🎯🎯 Exactly! I actually went to high school with Stephan; he's always been great with giving advice from back then, but we're in our 40s now, and no marriage yet? Especially since he's really a good guy from what I remember... it does give me pause about taking his insight🤷🏽‍♀️
@Twister_numba24
@Twister_numba24 8 ай бұрын
⁠@@empress1081Wow!!!! Aint that something!???!! out of all the men that I've dated the three 3 men that have never been married; all three of them had mommy issues. There's definitely something going on with someone after a certain age if he does not want to be married as a male.
@empress1081
@empress1081 8 ай бұрын
@@Twister_numba24 Facts!🎯
@CurvyKeto
@CurvyKeto 8 ай бұрын
​@@empress1081you can have an image of being a good man in the public dont mean behind close doors they are.
@imandalton4227
@imandalton4227 8 ай бұрын
Tony is a wonderful example for all men because he's been the player and is now living as a good husband and can relate to both. He breaks down the mindsets of both as well.
@MsNatasha24
@MsNatasha24 8 ай бұрын
This is the BEST CONVERSATION that I have EVER heard on this platform! God bless you gentleman for your humility and learning stance throughout this video! It was so pleasant to see black men talk about real challenges facing our world at large and to receive such a righteous message! God bless Tony, keep doing God's work!
@tamaramichelle4326
@tamaramichelle4326 9 ай бұрын
Now this is content! A man who walks the walk and talks the talk and still working to remain whole! It don’t get no better than this!
@brownbabecc
@brownbabecc 8 ай бұрын
I enjoyed watching this podcast with Tony Gaskins!
@Lilxyq
@Lilxyq 6 ай бұрын
Me too❤
@beajaa1178
@beajaa1178 8 ай бұрын
Tony Gaskins is the first relationship coach I have ever listened to and it started during the pandemic. I took the three B’s Tony talked about very seriously. I went back to grad school and got my master’s. I turned one room in my house into a gym and lost weight and got healthy. Also, I did the work from within and realized I chose a person to be in my life from an unhealed perspective so, I let him go, because the relationship was not serving me. Thank you guys for bringing him on.
@kilimanjaro5537
@kilimanjaro5537 8 ай бұрын
He was the first relationship coach I started watching too and man in general. I truly believe God put his channel in my sights because the place I was in…it just had to be God 🙌🏾. And I’ve been watching him since.
@Ladiesfirst321
@Ladiesfirst321 7 ай бұрын
I love that for you 😊
@barbarasam-taiti6521
@barbarasam-taiti6521 7 ай бұрын
I didn’t want to watch this podcast initially. It was toxic. When I saw Tony, I knew they were now headed in the right direction. I appreciate the growth and wisdom seeking. It’s a beautiful thing.👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@simonedarlington739
@simonedarlington739 4 ай бұрын
Same.
@TheBurningBusch
@TheBurningBusch 7 ай бұрын
I, Pamela Busch, being the devout Christian that I am, can unequivocally say this was the BEST podcast of Hardly Initiated that I have ever listened to! Brother Tony Gaskin blessed my sanctified soul with his wise counsel! To God be all the glory! May God bless all 3 of you young men and use you for His glory!!! GRATEFUL GRATEFUL GRATEFUL 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🎯🎯🎯❤️
@sunshinegrace3293
@sunshinegrace3293 9 ай бұрын
Tony is the best coach out there. I have learned so much from him over the years listening to his videos. I appreciate his transparency and direct message.
@The_Perfect_Housewife
@The_Perfect_Housewife 9 ай бұрын
Him and @Stephanspeaks frfr
@debraafriday
@debraafriday 9 ай бұрын
The absolute best 👌 ❤
@mamatosh05
@mamatosh05 8 ай бұрын
@@The_Perfect_HousewifeYes, I was going to comment that. I listen to Stephan Speaks. He’s a good.
@sherrynelson365
@sherrynelson365 8 ай бұрын
Point blank period
@ira_herself997
@ira_herself997 8 ай бұрын
Same here.
@LadyShy29
@LadyShy29 9 ай бұрын
We definitely need a live session with Mr. Gaskins... he bring it real, raw and respectful!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@user-gk4ig9ho4f
@user-gk4ig9ho4f 7 ай бұрын
Finally somebody bringing God back to relationships!
@iamchanel_b
@iamchanel_b 8 ай бұрын
This conversation is literally a BLESSING! Tony thank you for this and continuing to impart good messages to us thru all the noise. Blessings to Tony and Sheri Gaskins.
@earphbound720
@earphbound720 8 ай бұрын
As a married woman, I can wholeheartedly agree with all that was said today. I appreciate Tony Gaskins for speaking life into the hosts and into the audience. Praise GOD for wisdom!
@TarotbyGlow
@TarotbyGlow 9 ай бұрын
Tony gonna change the energy in the room! He’s going to make you feel exposed and even a little uncomfortable! He doesn’t sugarcoat or speak that politically correct pandering cap! Bout time!!!! Bless Tribe up!! 🎉
@milahmeyamii
@milahmeyamii 9 ай бұрын
Indeed!!
@tabithamcrae147
@tabithamcrae147 6 ай бұрын
Mr.Tony is so blunt and streight to the point with it.And that's exactly how we need to hear knowledge. Thank you all for all you do.
@katsana8460
@katsana8460 8 ай бұрын
This brother is an OG and it gives me hope for my daughters that good men still exists. I don't have to pray for them to marry someone like their dad, cos I'm so loved I pray my daughters meet a higher version of their dad. Watching this gives me hope that good men still exist.
@asha4189
@asha4189 7 ай бұрын
I love that! You set the standard and they can only go up from there
@lanette4075
@lanette4075 9 ай бұрын
Tony gaskins and RC Blake's got me through some tough times...I can't wait to to tune in. ❤ loving the new desires for development within myself. There's no scarcity here, new opportunities is awaiting.
@jussjess2829
@jussjess2829 9 ай бұрын
Me too 😩😩
@Kemi116
@Kemi116 9 ай бұрын
Me too 😩🙏🏾
@OkayMsAshley
@OkayMsAshley 9 ай бұрын
I just got familiar with Mr. Blakes (Pastor).
@AngieLolaPagan
@AngieLolaPagan 9 ай бұрын
Same 🙏❤️
@veeniceaii6727
@veeniceaii6727 9 ай бұрын
Yesssss RC Blake has been so instrumental in my dating life!!! I’m hoping they’ll have him here soon
@sonjadf47
@sonjadf47 9 ай бұрын
Tony Gaskins was the very first relationship coach I watched. I’ve used some of his tactics and at 65 years old I only wish relationship coaches and KZfaq were around when I started dating. Fortunately, I had my Dad and my Mom who were also very young when they married and had my brother and I, so we kind of grew up together. So I had some pretty good coaching-my brother as well. However, I do not believe either one of us would have survived today’s dating world!
@dietralovett4013
@dietralovett4013 9 ай бұрын
@sonjad47. I agree with you. I'm in that ERA as well.
@nightswan1234
@nightswan1234 9 ай бұрын
The most intelligent, truthful and honest guess so far! 💪🏿👍🏿🔥🔥❤️
@kairosunltd130
@kairosunltd130 8 ай бұрын
He was my first too. He's awesome! I follow him everywhere 😁
@khristianralls
@khristianralls 7 ай бұрын
Whew!!! Tony ain't hold back punches. He's holding accountable our favorite rappers, speakers, preachers, and comedians. Protect this man at all cost.
@UniversalMysticsOfChrist
@UniversalMysticsOfChrist 7 ай бұрын
@46:20 Hearing him call on his father who is physically present with him, then asking him about the Bible is just beyond heartwarming to me. Now I understand why he's such a great man.
@Mindsetolympics
@Mindsetolympics 9 ай бұрын
He low key mentored these gentlemen and they interviewed him ❤
@AB4Jss
@AB4Jss 9 ай бұрын
I am a single woman in a season of waiting, and this is exactly one of the places perfect for me to learn, grow & mature. I can tell you right now that after listening to your podcast from beginning to end, I AM SO FULL AND OVERFLOWING! Thank you so much for what you do! I’m proud of you!
@cassandrabordies6173
@cassandrabordies6173 9 ай бұрын
Thank You Jesus!A God Sent Man,This is A Man Of God That Stands For The Righteousness and Truth From The Inner Man.Keep Teaching The Gospel.
@priscillajackson7343
@priscillajackson7343 8 ай бұрын
FACTS!!!!
@carshacarsha7409
@carshacarsha7409 8 ай бұрын
Check out Kingdom Single, Kingdom Woman, and Kingdom Man those 📚 by Tony Evans will bless u.
@StephanieLee85
@StephanieLee85 8 ай бұрын
Same here… this was a powerful episode. I’m so full… I’m literally about to take some time to just journal and process everything I received and continue to apply it to my life.
@cassieory2009
@cassieory2009 8 ай бұрын
All of my exes need this video... I was never perfect, and I have grown and healed tremendously. The thing was I had to lead the men I was with and save them from their own past. None of them had dad's around and not the greatest relationships with their mothers. I realized I was looking for my own past in someone else to relate to, and I thought we could heal one another. Now I know better about myself and loving myself so that I can find my true love.
@AtHomeWithNissy
@AtHomeWithNissy 8 ай бұрын
THIS IS IT RIGHT HERE!! Mr Gaskins evoked all sorts of emotions in me. I had to share the video to my teenage sons, my husband…. and now he and coworkers will be watching/listening it as well. WELL DONE GUYS!!
@Peaceful-rv1tb
@Peaceful-rv1tb 9 ай бұрын
My alarm is set! Yes, another great guest!!! 🎉
@HardlyInitiated
@HardlyInitiated 9 ай бұрын
🔥🔥
@rhongiastuckey427
@rhongiastuckey427 9 ай бұрын
Preach Men of God!!!.😇🙌🔥
@memibrowne1945
@memibrowne1945 8 ай бұрын
Typically, this show is not within my demographic range but I loved loved loved the interviews with Judge Lynn Tolyer. This interview is highly interesting as well. The interviewing style is really solid. They don't over talk the guest and leave breating room for him to speak. It's good to hear different perspectives that are well- balanced and not so far to the left or right.
@Charlotte-990
@Charlotte-990 8 ай бұрын
Priscilla Shirer...is it even possible or Rich Paul 😂
@sharonfrazier7962
@sharonfrazier7962 8 ай бұрын
@@rhongiastuckey427 pp
@melaninandaura9713
@melaninandaura9713 8 ай бұрын
Once I started watching Tony G I stopped watching everyone else. I feel like I’m having a conversation with my actual uncle whenever I listen to him. The world recognizing his level of realness and honesty actually is helping to restore my faith in humanity. Tony’s level of authenticity and integrity is VERY rarely appreciated these days. I’m sooooo happy to see this man growing in popularity. We need so many duplicates of THIS man.
@patriciapusey9777
@patriciapusey9777 8 ай бұрын
A man of integrity, Tony Gaskin & R.C. Blakes is a part of my testimony in regards to being a better woman & understanding my values & standards doesn't have to be lowered in order to be bless with a great relationship.
@tash7084
@tash7084 8 ай бұрын
This discussion was so powerful! Breath of fresh air to hear mature grown men speak on these topics. I was struggling submitting to my fiancé. He’s a godly man and a good man and I started listening to Tony and other MARRIED men online really helped me see it in a positive light and helped me understand what submission and respect means to a man versus listening to some other “fake coaches”
@Timeless522
@Timeless522 8 ай бұрын
“Bc we are prioritizing preferences, instead of understanding standards”… A lot of men won’t even give that woman who heart beats the same as his a chance bc of preferences!
@katinag6064
@katinag6064 8 ай бұрын
The heavier the anointing, the heavier the warfare
@astravf
@astravf 7 ай бұрын
Relistening to this lecture …. Thank you again TG for laying it all out. When you said your wife gets talkative when she’s at peace, I really felt it. In my last relationship, I got really quiet. I was just miserable because he excessively accused me of cheating. I loved him dearly, but his past (I guess) would not let him see me truly loving him. Unfortunately, I packed my things and left. I was so tired of trying to prove myself. He was 60, I’m 54…..smh
@shespeaks702
@shespeaks702 8 ай бұрын
That's what many people fail to recognize that we are first a Spirit before human.
@BreenyLee
@BreenyLee 8 ай бұрын
They’re not ready for Thee Tony Gaskins !!!!! So many layers to what he said, you really gotta keep up 🚀
@carlissgarrett
@carlissgarrett 9 ай бұрын
This was so good. I’m proud of you Tony Gaskins! You represented Christ well! Thank you Hardly Initiated for this episode!
@angelafayesims1563
@angelafayesims1563 8 ай бұрын
HALLELUJAH TO THAT❤❤❤
@jnr039
@jnr039 7 ай бұрын
Bravo, Tony! I feel that this is a mandatory viewing for anyone single or married, but especially my fellow brothers and sisters in Christ. Tony should really be more popular than he is, but because he's counter cultural and spirit led. Thank you guys for this podcast.
@moyneal1065
@moyneal1065 8 ай бұрын
This is refreshing. This guy is saying exactly what I’ve been saying, hurt men out here hurting more women. This is my validation. Thank you!
@ChrisSain1
@ChrisSain1 9 ай бұрын
You guys all did a great job and should definitely strive to bring on and hear from real men, who are actually faithful, married and successful.
@veeniceaii6727
@veeniceaii6727 9 ай бұрын
I just love Tysean’s heart. All of his questions in every episode I’ve watched (and I’ve seen almost all of them since the new show) exude how much he desires to grow and be the best man his future wife can have ❤
@The_Perfect_Housewife
@The_Perfect_Housewife 9 ай бұрын
Right!!! I would marry him and live a great life in a heartbreak! Tony was not playing 😅!
@glendanesmith
@glendanesmith 9 ай бұрын
I agree
@dw9054
@dw9054 9 ай бұрын
True, I’m proud 🥹 f both of them!
@OG_Genesis216
@OG_Genesis216 9 ай бұрын
Yes, he has grown a lot. Much respect to both young men 🙏🏽✨
@filmadcamp1512
@filmadcamp1512 9 ай бұрын
@@The_Perfect_Housewife What? You would live a great life in heart break?
@Social3633
@Social3633 8 ай бұрын
Brilliant is a strong word, not to be used frivolously; however, Tony is brilliant. What a heartfelt, enlightened conversation. Thank you.
@WindowShopper22
@WindowShopper22 8 ай бұрын
Mr Tony Gaskins Sr in the audience must be very proud to live and see his son carry the mantel. A proud parent moment to see all the seeds, sacrifices, and teaching you do as a good parent has paid off. Gaskins Jr. is a blessing to the world and may God continue to bless you and your bloodline. Amen! 😇
@beautyblack6931
@beautyblack6931 8 ай бұрын
As a 51 year old woman, he is speaking the truth. I've been delusional and felt yes he will choose me. Knowingly, I wasn't his type or pushing myself because, in my mind, I thought, look at me ( my body). I had no clue I wasn't his cup of tea. Self-love is where it starts. Please keep it 💯 with yourself
@miky8913
@miky8913 8 ай бұрын
hello @beautyblack6931 hope you're doing well, would you say it made you more happier ?
@beautyblack6931
@beautyblack6931 8 ай бұрын
@miky8913 The sad part is that I'm not sure. I am more at peace.
@StephanieLee85
@StephanieLee85 8 ай бұрын
This was a powerful episode. It really gave the formula of how to be an authentic, purpose-driven Godly individual. For so long, we’ve been influenced about how to conform to culture. Many of us have strived to look like this person and that person, how to imitate people and be a copycat, but not really taught how to be authentically who God called you to be. Some of the prayers I’ve prayed for years was answered from this one episode. Through watching this, God showed me it all starts with self-awareness, self-evaluation, fully connecting to the source (God), and really having an intimate relationship with God so I can fully understand who He’s called me to be.
@SilkyStar79
@SilkyStar79 8 ай бұрын
This is thee best conversation on the internet and all need to hear...Tony is a Godsend and the 2 other gentleman are phenomenal interviewers...u can NOT deny being spiritually fed...LOVE this 🙏🏽❣️
@michelleallen274
@michelleallen274 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for having Tony Gaskin on your platform. He shared a lot of wisdom from God for the two men to practice and the world. Tony continue to be a light. Thank you, Jehovah, for loving your people and using people to reveal your wisdom for change.
@TanashaFriar
@TanashaFriar 8 ай бұрын
This was excellent! Tony Gaskins spoke life into these young men and the audience. I have followed him for years. This interview makes me feel proud. Much love!
@traciesplace
@traciesplace 8 ай бұрын
Tony brought it! Oh my goodness… the truth and honesty, wow. And you 2 MEN stood flat footed and bare to receive wisdom and constructive “critiques”. You both were brave and showed so much courage and confidence even just bringing Tony Gaskins on the platform… AWESOME! 🙌🏽🙏🏽
@kaceebenton6278
@kaceebenton6278 8 ай бұрын
I watch Tony Gaskins because he has integrity and honesty in his advice. He tells it straight from a man’s perspective. He has a beautiful wife and family that he values, and lives his life with intention. It’s a wonderful thing!! ❤❤
@ylw3489
@ylw3489 7 ай бұрын
This conversation was absolutely wonderful and needed! I've always felt the Black community won't get better until good, God-led black men start standing up instead of women. May God continue to bless you and your family Tony and use you for his glory. To the hosts, I don't watch your content but this was great and may God grant you two the desires of your heart according to his will. This was great!
@tashiareed5452
@tashiareed5452 9 ай бұрын
Yess!!! Tony needed to be on here!!! A real man of God that is married and changed his whole life!!! Thank you Jesus!!❤😂🎉🎉❤❤
@44ashley
@44ashley 8 ай бұрын
Finally on a podcast where Tony can be completely honest and true to his message.
@lizlalar
@lizlalar 8 ай бұрын
I had the same conversation about cussing before watching this show. 1:14:36 completely random but I got the confirmation from this podcast I wouldn’t normally watch. That’s how I know this was anointed. Don’t know anything about Tony Gaskins but he was on point. He shed light on so many areas. God bless you all
@aworlds1
@aworlds1 8 ай бұрын
The RELIEF I had listening to the Host acknowledge his mindset as an Ex-Red pill follower and what changed in his heart. I pray he and others will begin to see themselves through a healthier loving lens. Deconstruct social conditioning - thank You Tony Gaskin!
@lifewithjgee
@lifewithjgee 9 ай бұрын
Tony has been such a blessing to me over the years. So grateful for the information and advice he gives. He tells no lies out here at all. Between Tony and RC Blakes, they won’t steer you wrong. God bless you and your family Tony!
@gapeach7814
@gapeach7814 9 ай бұрын
Exactly! They're both the real deal!
@tayloralliease8013
@tayloralliease8013 8 ай бұрын
Yes , I listen to both these men every week .
@beez2013
@beez2013 8 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏
@neriah3857
@neriah3857 8 ай бұрын
R.C. Blakes is my spiritual father and Tony is my spiritual 🙏🏾 brother. I ❤️ listen to them both and I actually live the life both of them speak of. Celibate and single 6 years. One partner for over 18 years with my ex-husband. I have been single, happy, thriving, whole and heal since I walked our of my marriage in 2017.
@ravenp4664
@ravenp4664 8 ай бұрын
This was really good! God sent Tony on an assignment that day just to tell Tysean and Ryan they were chosen. God is using them. The last 7 minutes was his assignment. I started to tear up when he began to speak a prophetic word over them.
@KINGMARQB
@KINGMARQB 8 ай бұрын
This was by far the best episode to date. Thank you guys for this. Truly a blessing.
@menaj2954
@menaj2954 8 ай бұрын
Those who have followed Tony Gaskins understands his knowlege and passion. These young men gleaned to his knowlege, you could feel there curoisty and desire to learn. Blessings to all !!
@angievillegas6294
@angievillegas6294 9 ай бұрын
I am sooooo ready for this guest. I honor him and respect him dearly. Hands down.
@queenofthesouth4205
@queenofthesouth4205 9 ай бұрын
My life coach has entered the building!! "The Tony Gaskins"🎉🎉. This will be #EPIC
@user-mz3ii2cr2u
@user-mz3ii2cr2u 7 ай бұрын
Tony gaskin and Rc Blakes are the ones I gleam from cause they walk the walk and talk talk
@TheKimmyd1234
@TheKimmyd1234 8 ай бұрын
I was definitely filled up!!!! Thank you, Tony, for your wisdom🙏🏽. "Don't believe in coincidence but in evidence." Powerful!
@qscott888
@qscott888 9 ай бұрын
Absolutely happy to see that you guys brought our beloved TG on your platform.🙏🏽 He’s a true man of God and wise beyond his years.
@safwafiore
@safwafiore 9 ай бұрын
This conversation was raw and real but of course, I didn’t expect any different from Tony Gaskins. Thank you both for having the courage to be open and provide a space for Tony to speak on your platform. I am sure it may not feel good to have a mirror facing right at you with nothing but your reflection staring back, the good, bad and ugly but it’s in those moments where we can choose to heal. Painful but rewarding… May this message reach millions and cause a shift for the greater good. Bless you all and thank you for blessing me with this podcast.
@cocoakekee
@cocoakekee 7 ай бұрын
This was definitely a blessing and a complete eye opener for me. There were also a few confirmations thrown in there. Thank you Hardy Initiated for bringing Mr. Gaskins to us.
@preciouspearl781
@preciouspearl781 7 ай бұрын
Thank you all for this conversation. I wasn't ready for parenting in this day and age, wasn't ready for the onslaught of images and content that come at our children. Y'all stepped on my toes a couple of time today but its all good because just like that hot stove, the ouch make you do some thing differently.
@IAmMelissaH
@IAmMelissaH 8 ай бұрын
HE IS FULL OF WISDOM!! HE POURED!! I feel like this Podcast continues to get better and better each episode dropped. It is valuable to me and I am grateful to have come across this podcast 5 to 6 months ago.
@cj100517
@cj100517 9 ай бұрын
“Run me my check, I’m married!!” - Tony Super excited for this one!!!
@gleekskitchen
@gleekskitchen 7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for having guests like this on your show , this is what fosters growth on both ends 🙏🏽
@cocotruffles9815
@cocotruffles9815 6 ай бұрын
Thisss was SOOOO good!!! Especially when he talked about LOVE BEING CREATED! Please say it louder!!! So many people have been brainwashed into thinking sparks are supposed to fly right away etc but the truth is you create those sparks & BUILD that love connection and relationship through time & intentionality!!! So so good
@Discernmentlab
@Discernmentlab 9 ай бұрын
I don’t even have enough words for how amazing this episode was. God has anointed Tony and his wife to heal men and relationships in this culture. Please also have RC Blakes on at some point. These men are anointed for our time. God showed me he is raising up a modern-day new Sons of Issachar, and Tony is one of them. I praise God for he and his wife’s ministry and obedience to bring the truth to the table. He’s going to free a lot of men if they’re willing to learn from him.
@loriwallace-fu8ti
@loriwallace-fu8ti 9 ай бұрын
I have been following Tony for years. He is the real deal. Bring him back.
@sp4rkle81
@sp4rkle81 8 ай бұрын
Yes!
@lerandabrewer3923
@lerandabrewer3923 8 ай бұрын
Thank you!! So refreshing to see brothers going open, honest and transparent about a man's perspective
@Spanglishdee
@Spanglishdee 8 ай бұрын
Whew! "Married and faithful" that's a man who honors and respects himself every day.
@tmariewilson1486
@tmariewilson1486 9 ай бұрын
Cant wait, a few months ago I left a message on this channel and suggested Tony Gaskins!!!!
@syedagreen9978
@syedagreen9978 9 ай бұрын
Point blank periodd!
@Practitionher
@Practitionher 9 ай бұрын
BLOCCKEED is my fav
@syedagreen9978
@syedagreen9978 9 ай бұрын
Broke busted and disgusted, loose booties lol he is hilarious!
@Practitionher
@Practitionher 9 ай бұрын
@@syedagreen9978😂
@lavonnepatterson1327
@lavonnepatterson1327 9 ай бұрын
Ok! Blessed tribe check in! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@geisha7450
@geisha7450 9 ай бұрын
Peer eeh odddd
@t-town9790
@t-town9790 8 ай бұрын
Yes!!! Thanks Tony for filling the void!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾 This is phenomenal!
@irinaaguy4380
@irinaaguy4380 7 ай бұрын
WoW This conversation was pure gold! Thank you so much! I will listen again!
@TheThaiese
@TheThaiese 9 ай бұрын
I have never heard of Tony Gaskins, but based on everyone's comments, I am definitely looking forward to being introduced to him in this episode!
@Dr.Elaine1
@Dr.Elaine1 9 ай бұрын
Please binge watch his videos!!!
@lavonnepatterson1327
@lavonnepatterson1327 9 ай бұрын
He gives it to you straight!
@AngieLolaPagan
@AngieLolaPagan 9 ай бұрын
You won’t regret it ! Your life is about to change big time ! 🙏❤️
@OrganicallyYahs
@OrganicallyYahs 9 ай бұрын
Get into it! He’s the truth! Changed the course of my life literally!
@KFontLab
@KFontLab 9 ай бұрын
He is pretty cool. He gives really good guidance and information to men and women.
@cierrawefew
@cierrawefew 9 ай бұрын
I pray this message goes very far and that God protects Tony and his family while he shares this wisdom!!
@sp4rkle81
@sp4rkle81 8 ай бұрын
Same 🙏🏽
@janisahooks6989
@janisahooks6989 8 ай бұрын
This was one of the most powerful messages I have ever heard. The way Tony broke this conversation down was simple to understand and gave me much clarity. From his message, I learned more about myself and also about the man in my life currently. I can now reflect back on the men from my past and understand what the deal really was. This clearly shows the level of work needed for anyone to be a whole individual and have a successful relationship. This 1 plus hour of podcast will change the way I see myself and a man going foward. Thank you Hardly Initiated for this!!
@Missmay777
@Missmay777 7 ай бұрын
It is so refreshing to know that this man is out there dedicating his entire life to serve the lord thru building strong relationships/marriages for Christ 🙏👏🙌 thanks you God for working through this man during such a detrimental period in time where this world is trying it’s best to break down the family unit. I pray extra blessings and protection and strength on Tony Gaskins, his beautiful wife and two sons and his powerful mission on earth brought through his career. Thank you Father, Son, and the Holy Spirit!
@lisaprewitt9374
@lisaprewitt9374 8 ай бұрын
Yessssss!!!! I’ve been listening to Tony Gaskins for years, and he has helped change my life in how I look at men and relationships. This was an Extraordinary podcast!!🙏🏽🙏🏽 You saved the Best for Last!! He teaches from a biblical foundation. Thank you Tony for your honesty and transparency. God is moving on this platform in a Mighty way!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽😃👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@WinnieWalla
@WinnieWalla 9 ай бұрын
Yes to this! TG is a real one!
@9darshana
@9darshana 8 ай бұрын
Wow! That's powerful when he mentioned that even though he's a married man and knows better, after listening to Kevin Samuels for two minutes he gave his own wife the side eye. Now imagine all the men who didn't have wives, or have the knowledge, and they listened to Kevin Samuels daily. These men are broken and don't have access to women, just imagine how powerful Kevin's voice was for them. As a woman, that's very scary and sad.
@AJweathersby
@AJweathersby 3 ай бұрын
Here’s a curve ball for you. The way you described Kevin Samuels’ influence on men, imagine that Tony Gaskins has that exact influence on women, in terms of making even happily married women side-eye their husbands and influencing single women to be cynical towards, or outright hate men. And that’s the real reason why men don’t like him, or guys similar to him. But there’s hundreds of guys similar to him: Steve Harvey, Derrick Jaxn, Ace Metaphor, Chris Perry, Shumake Way, etc. So if the influence of the late Kevin Samuels scares you, imagine the day-to-day reality of men who’ve spent their entire lives listening to countless different versions of Kevin Samuels that pander to women and blame all the problems in relationships on men.
@9darshana
@9darshana 3 ай бұрын
@@AJweathersby But the men you mentioned are positive and teach love and light. Kevin Samuels hated women and was teaching women to allow men to cheat. I do Herpes and HIV research and trust me, teaching men to cheat with these viruses going around is a threat to women. He even has a video where he said most black women are ugly. He was not helpful for the community at all.
@OneGoodWoman84
@OneGoodWoman84 6 ай бұрын
This episode right here! My My My....... The facts and transparency spilled was so mind blowing 🤯
@itsicy673
@itsicy673 9 ай бұрын
Yessss!!! I’m ready for the “nuances and caveats”. This is a good intro but we have to bring Tony on live next cause he keeps it 💯
@lavonnepatterson1327
@lavonnepatterson1327 9 ай бұрын
Only the blessed tribe know about them nuances and caveats 😂😂😂
@ashleyarlese6200
@ashleyarlese6200 9 ай бұрын
I listen to Tony on a very consistent basis as he is the only coach I retain information from. The no sugar coating approach to love and relationships has brought me through some really hard times in my healing journey.
@vickiegray8881
@vickiegray8881 8 ай бұрын
Wow....This conversation was soooo powerful!! You taught us something today and brought some things to light! No lies detected!
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