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Exactly!!! It’s so irritating hearing defendants cry… about being harassed!

Absolutely! I would be pissed too. Shes an adult not a child.

I think he would've called her out on it.

Yes you are absolutely right

i do think they could have gone at least half on his credit card bill

Some people come into money and conveniently forget that they owe others money. My sister in law owed us over a grand and when she got a blessing she started flexing on social media and when she got called out on it she claimed she spent it all. We were never given a dime. Shameful when situations like these have to come to litigation but it’s the only way some people will learn 😢

I mean technically she did give him half of the funeral costs when she gave him the $3500.

No, you’re not

Where did they say she got that much at

She is! Let’s be clear, he’s not your father

You nailed it. Poor character.

100%

Especially since she basically admitted afterwards

You are so right . She's a very shallow person and ungrateful. There's a lot of other questions we could ask about this situation such as why didn't her mother have a life insurance policy? Even though her mother had a relationship with this man he was not her husband and she is not her daughter. And after all is said and done she comes into $50,000 does not think that she needs to compensate this man for his kindness? How DESPICABLE and EVIL 😡

I Agree

Her mom would be ashamed how selfish the daughter is.... When she ain't anything special.

But, that’s not like anything she said. I wouldn’t lay around with a man for 15 yrs that didn’t want to marry me and be responsible for me I responsible for him. I don’t understand why ppl play like that. I’m all of nothing. No matter what age I wouldn’t play. Especially if I am a women raising two girls. I do feel for the girls. I blame the mom for picking a guy who wouldn’t go the whole way with her and leaving the young girl to clean it all up.

Exactly. It’s the right thing to do, even if he never asked her for the money. He was there when she needed the money and is so ungrateful. He lost her mother, too. Disrespectful behavior!

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I don’t think so because her voice didn’t change when she spoke to Doug

I agree !!!!!

Right!!!

Is it because she's fat or because she's black that you don't think her sweet voice is real? Your statement says more about you than her.

Omg I was thinking the same thing!!! Talking soft for sympathy...

yes

There should have been a separate burial plan or life insurance policy to cover the funeral. If he had ever married her (after 2 decades of being a couple), it would be expected that he, as her husband, paid for the funeral. Period.

@@chevysmith6723I think you’re missing that if he had married her, the estate would have gone to him and not the children. He would have obviously used the estate to pay for the funeral costs. That’s what usually happens; as the judge said, funeral expenses usually come out of the estate.

@@chevysmith6723burial costs come out of the estate. That’s the purpose of a will and absent one, the estate may go through probate to first ensure all remaining debts are settled and then distributed as appropriate by law

whats sickening to me is he was enaggaed to their mother for 3 yrs and had been her man for 15 years and yet he Contributed ZERO TO HER FUNERAL..NIOTHING. yes he loaned them money but he wanted every dime back. that man has no morals. most people if its your loved one or partner in life you would poay something. he could have said yal paid me back almost 4,000 so i'll let the 2,000 go as my contribution to the woman i loved funeral instead of taking her teenagers to ciurt. judge million said morally he should have paid something its horrible that he wont but i cant make him. you call him a good man..geez he couldnt even help bury hsi woman

@@luv4ever101 If what you say is true- you have a point but it sounds like she was freeloading and the funeral was just the tip of her entitled iceberg. I bet he raised and paid for her since she was 5- like she said. Neither of us really knows. I say good for him- too many men are suckers. She wanted to live for free and not pay a dime for anything. I have a problem with that. He is likely retired and broke and she is sitting on $50k. Do you rely on a man to fund your life too? You seem to be projecting just a bit.

​@@luv4ever101in all reality I would just be very Frank with this statement just because he was engaged to her doesn't mean he has to put down a dime of his money he still loan the money it doesn't matter if he got that money back that still shows the kindness of his heart if someone still loves you money that shows a lot including if you don't know if that person still needs their money back regardless to pay bills or whatever that's another thing third of all she still has family and her family is supposed to pay if she is not married to nobody she was not married to that man yet therefore her family pays for her stuff they did not do that he did he made donations he been raising that girl she wasn't getting no rent to him and you want to come after him no I'm not having that because in my head that that's a bad image of your personality

@@MOAB-UT sounded like her mom was the person who paid for everything in their relationship. when he did do something for the mom he made an itemized list for even minor stuff like putting 420 gas in the car. yes he made the list cuz the daughter knew he was freeloading so he actually made a list. IF IN 15 YRS U CAN RECALL EACHG TIME U PUT 2 bucks in the car and it fits in one paragraph that tells u who had the money. so th emom raised and paid for her kids. but the fact that he was there for 15 yrs and then suddenly wants to charge the teens is horrific. who does that? . hes a loser and jerk thats what the judge basically said so but then told her legally he can be a jerk. judge was saying that and looking at him cuz she wanted to see if he had a heart or would donate at least something to the funeral of the women he was with for 15 yrs. judge does that sometimes and the person wud sometimes say "im gonna drop that part of the suit". not this guy. if u noticed the man kept saying i helped her by getting her to sell her house etc. it was all about her money. he made the mom move in cuz he knew there wud be a payout but she ended up dying. i cant imagine being with someone like him who wudnt help my teens i mean at least donate a few hundred. if it were the other way around i wud help his kids pay, not loan but help pay.

@@luv4ever101 I picked up on that too- her money but if he was really that bad, why did she stick around him all that time? There are usually 3 sides to every story- his, the mothers and the daughters. They all seem like mostly decent people but these two both seem cheap. Daughter was trying to freeload- sorry. She is not his daughter- he does not owe her anything technically. No- he is not a generous type but that is not a crime which is why the judge had to technically side with him- even if she did not like him. He is not very likeable but she also needs to grow up and pay her own way in life. Over the years I am sure he paid for a lot of her stuff. In 15 years he only wants costs for a funeral that she promised at the time to pay for...and she is sitting on $50k. I am more on his side- sorry. You probably relate more to her. Do you have people pay for you- is that what love means to you? Learn to pay your own way- over time, he will get tired of it, trust me. It never ends well. You need to develop your own skills and earn a living as a strong, independant woman...or not. It's your life but I am older and know how things go.

I’ve been married to my husband 13 and together 15yrs. I had a daughter in a prior relationship. I was very young. The difference here is I married and my husband has raised (my) our daughter with me as his daughter and with our children together all as one. Women need to stop laying with men for 15 yrs with no real commitment. Especially a mother raising two daughters! I think it’s shitty all around, but the mom let this happen.

The mum was lucky that the guy took her on with her illness, then he took on her kids. Here is a case where neither the mum nor kids brought anything to the table. This is how good guys get treated all over the world. I am not interested in any woman, unless she can reciprocate with things of equal value.

@@naturalanimals8902 I’m sure you can find a good man

Unfortunately, you are 100% correct.

Exactly!!!

Because she lived with him since she 5 years old and he pretty much raised her, maybe that’s why.

@@amal8631ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm that doesn’t excuse you from your debts…I would never skip out on a loan to my mom or dad “because they raised me” 🤦

Because she wasn't paying rent.

​@@amal8631if you listen to 5:13 it sounds like her mother moved in with him when she was 19, not that she lived with him her whole life. At the beginning of the video he also mentions that she moved in with him and it sounds more recent than that they were cohabitating since the girl was 5.

Step dad basically dad HELLLOOO

Exactly!!!

Defendant looks tacky… with that tattoo across her chest! 🤷‍♀️

And those 19 yr olds shouldn’t have stormed beaches

This younger generation are a bunch of entitled cream puffs

"Remember when 19 year olds were storming the beaches at Normandy" ...now they're storming the buffet at Golden Corral.

Exactly…. And, the judge is falling for it!

This is precisely all I could focus on and it is infuriating! 😡

Us women can see it & know better. That’s exactly what I thought listening to her pity plea.

Very selfish!! That is mother!!

Exactly!! I just don’t understand how people can “ date “ that long . If they were married the daughter wouldn’t have got a dime . That marriage license carries A LOT of weight !!! I’ve saw people that have built a life together then when one dies they walk away with nothing !!

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Hell no!! Thats was supposed to be his wife!!! He needs to take care of that

Never let a woman move into your house and never lend a woman money.

That's up to the parents/homeowners if they want to charge their kids rent.

Right I live with my mom I pay 250 in rent plus the internet

When me and my sister were teenagers and we both got jobs in a fast food place, we gave my parents 10% of our paychecks. Our parents just wanted to teach us responsibilities, and now that I look back on it, I am thankful. Not to say that parents who don’t do that are bad parents, every families dynamic are different.

There are no common law marriages anymore.

He allowed her daughter to continue to live with him. That's good for something. Besides, her insurance and estate is for funeral expenses.

​@@clwilson7318 exactly!

Precisely

You do understand that the estate funds should be covering all funeral cost and whatever is left over should be split between the family…so technically no one had to pay for the funeral and he should’ve gotten some of that 50K for being with that woman for so long but they weren’t married so he gets nothing

This kids will end up on welfare system

That’s only when they want to do something they want to do

Sorry for your loss prayers up for you!🙏🙏🙏

I think your message is powerful, and it should be a wake-up call for the many ppl who take their parents for granted. Your messages puts things in a proper perspective. I certainly wish you the best moving forward. 🙏

I think she is using the estate $ to pay for the apartment that she now has. Which is sad because if she just gave the $ she would have been there rent free at least for a couple more months

He's not their father.

I agreed why should he let off Scott free he didn’t love her or they would have married, he has no respect .

​@@paultin3302how do you know she (the deceased fiance) wasn't the one who held off on marriage. You're assuming that the guy was the one dragging his feet. What if he wanted to get married all along but she was the one who hesitated?

@@unclebrother6244 He seems to be tight fisted that’s why I think it was him, most women like security.

After 15 yr relationship I'm surprised he wasn't aware of her life insurance coverage. Not including she had serious illnesses. People need to turn off the TV, put down the phone ,back away from the computer and talk about what really matters.

I would have paid as well, but I definitely would have expected some compensation when her estate was settled. I'm sure the defendant splurging on a new car only made things worse. She should have used the money to first cover her mom's expenses.

I hope no one tattoos my name on anything but have it engraved on my headstone. Give money to charity. I don't like tattoos at all.

You Got it wrong he had his own house and also the fiancée had her own house they both sold it. He only provided that as proof that he financially provided for the fiancée and he is already burdened.

I have had to pay funeral expenses for many relatives who had insurance but not enough. Family members do not help or pay back so always get a contract or promissory note and have it notarized. The funeral directors are notary republics. Cremation is also expensive. I am not having a funeral just a grave side brief service. Too much drama and expenses for the family. I just have a realistic approach to death. These young ladies were hit with an unexpected bolder. The plantif knew every detail about the death and the daughters said very little. Strange. They were both old enough not to live with their mother and should have gone with the grandparents. 19 years the plantif was in the life of the defendant's mother then when they decided to live together the mother dies. I believe the defendant. They could have had a funeral for the exact amount of insurance, or less. The embalming and casket and burial site are the most expensive. It is all the extras that cost. Now there are laws that protect families so funeral directors can't charge outrageous prices the average BASIC funeral is$10,000.00 AND THAT IS NO EXTRA FRILLS. FAMILY AND RELATIVES COME TO SEE WHAT THEY ARE GOING TO GET. I DARE SAY THE PLANTIF HAD HIS OWN POLICY AND PROBABLY HAS ONE ON EACH GIRL. WAS HE THEIR FATHER I do believe he harassed the defendant, but he didn't have to volunteer to pay expenses they could have had a basic funeral. I dare say the mother felt she had adequate coverage and wanted her daughters to have something. She may have also felt the daughters would help the grandmother Love dies quickly when money is involved and family can be leeches. Writing from experience

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Most 19 year olds are not mature enough to handle planning a funeral and if they get any money. Rarely know how to handle or invest it. They will go through money so fast If they had. $50k insurance policy no excuse not to pay funeral expenses.

Thank you !!!! Especially after 50 years with this person ??? Come on.

@@cassandra671015 years

The guy couldn't afford it! What do you expect!? Do you expect him to pull the cash out of his ARSE!?

He sued because he didn’t have the money. He had to put the bill on a credit card. The got the cash from her estate. I see his point cause why shouldn’t the deceased money cover her final resting costs rather than him have to pay a credit card bills for years. I don’t think she would want him to be financially burdened paying that credit card forever.

very weird he basically raised them!

Or a different way u could look at it is, she didn’t love him enough to put him in her will to leave him any money from her estate, yet her daughter who got it was so selfish that she couldn’t even pay a little towards her own mothers funeral cost.

@@Angela-qq6kq True, but people are so strange when it comes to money right?

@@Angela-qq6kq Technically she did pay half, right?

The estate got 50k so it would make sense for the estate to pay it especially when the dude is going broke.

19 is just the legal age. It doesn't mean you have life skills or mentally mature. Some things you don't learn until you go through it. I agree that the girls should have paid at least half of the funeral for their Mom. But the man was in a relationship with the mother for 15 plus years and engaged for several years. So basically that was his wife whether on paper, or ceremony.🤔

19 is just 1 year removed form highschool. Rent is expensive