I agree it is superficial and patronizing.

@@TheWraith7 I am. Provided they are intelligent and adventurous and are good to me.

Your mom sounds like a Salty Dawg 🤣 but perhaps a wise woman. I thought my stomach fell out when Dr. Grande said, and I quote: "Superficial charm is the only kind of appeal necessary to manipulate certain people. Some people find themselves unable to evaluate the more profound qualities of personality. They always remain on the surface. From their perspective Chris is one of the best people." 🔨 nailed it

Hah! She's a smart lady. I am generally nauseated by charming men who think they're gods gift to everyone... ppl like this always have something to hide. If youre lucky its just that they know they are incredibly uninteresting, self centered, never satisfied, or lack a strong moral center. But in uglier instances theyre trying to deflect from their complete lack of empathy, or desire to ever do a single thing unless it pays off for them. Charming ppl do that bc they DONT want you to see the real them. I always have been drawn to dudes that are kind, tho still edgy & assertive, either slightly awkward or an outsider or different somehow, and of course intelligent. I admire ppl who know who they are, will stand up & go against the crowd, especially about matters of character. I spent yrs single, & I terminated a handful of relationships between 6 months& 1 year of dating, even with guys I really liked, after discovering a serious moral failing that I couldn't unsee, nor tolerate in a life partner, rather than delay the inevitable.

Very smart your Mom was. The ability to distinguish between charming vs kind-hearted can save a woman’s life.

Excellent video and final statement especially useful.

Ha, no...heeding advice doesn't happen until you're around 60.

In my 40 years of life experience, I have found several things to be universally true about humans. This is one of those truths.

Yes yes yes. Truth.

Yes yes yes. Truth.

Lmfao.......

Just turn it into a thing. "Should we drive across the country in three days just to see that artist's last show?” or, “Are you going to be able to finish that paper before tomorrow? ” “Better cocaine than sorry.” ;)

Yes! If there is little responsibility there is also little loyalty or true commitment!

I agree - in a friend's with benefits relationship one person is generally hoping or believing it is, or will become, something more substantial. But I'm not sure why you're taking the perps characterisation of the relationship at face value. Given his duplicitous character he may well have not shared how he viewed the relationship with Kelly.

In my experience, friends with benefits has been great! Not everyone thinks an adult intimate relationship is dependent on a marriage commitment relationship.

@@sixthsenseamelia4695 - How old are you?

All my fwb has gone great. Respectful

Chris let the society down

@@KatherineLaura6564 Obviously this girl had a risky lifestyle but no matter how messy was her life,she didn't deserve to be murdered. You should point the finger at the killer and not the victim.

Most girls that like to party and do coke are exactly the girls that guys with no intentions go after. Normally they are the girls that disappear when you run out of entertainment money.

Same, I am afraid to inquire what peoples sex life is like. The choking thing is disturbing.

Agree! I just had some obsessive weird female decide to manipulate by talking about a completely different topic on a vid on KZfaq. I responded that I was sticking to the topic and her comments suggested she didn't have a good general knowledge of modern history on the subject and it could be helpful to learn and wished her merry Christmas. Apparently she was baiting me to prove I'm a bitch. She actually admitted that. Like - ???? SO weird! What is wrong with people?

Don’t go to bars also, so many people end up dead after leaving a bar

Yeah, nothing like a risk free and miserable life... It's a sarcasm because this kind of negative toughts are understandable but ridiculous. I wish you all to work on that and meet the right people to live a secure and eventfull life.

@@Koozomec for making ridiculous choices people have been murdered. Better safe than sorry...

Haha I hadn't even noticed the succulents!

@@jimc.goodfellas226 They lurk in the background, silently judging the audience! 😀

Alright everyone hope you're hungry as I am 😋

🤣🤣🤣

He grows succulents better than beards.

Correct 'you're' usage. I cry now.

Charm frequently fake, and rarely lasts, yet it's hard to miss it's demonstrable effectiveness in enabling cynical people to get what they want from others in a variety of situations.

And yet those are just words. Words repeated over and over again in the comment section here, along with two other phrases that seem to be almost ...programmed... ...why am I responding

I commented on another thread that I've found some things to be common truths about life. "Drugs always make things worse." Like how many times have you seen a hard-working, self-made executive or highly successful entrepreneur, or NASA scientist say, "Yes. I have been fortunate in life. I've worked very, very hard to reach this point. Thank God for meth. I never would've gotten here without smoking meth 4 times a day for 30 years."

@@MeganVictoriaKearns many doctors take meth

@@MeganVictoriaKearns most men are low lives. Money and power reveal their true nature. As for women who like to be their slaves, no sympathy.

@@MeganVictoriaKearns Lol. Just Caroline Ellison and look how she turned out.

​@@puketinmoarliek994 found the methhead

They say some people are easy to love. New Jersey is easy to fault! Those of us who have lived in the tri state area ( me in NY for fifty years) tease about New Jersey but really don't mean harm! But maybe Dr. Grande has a grudge? 🤔🤗

I think it’s his secret obsession with pumping his own gasoline.

I'm just speculating, but, I think since Dr Grande is located in Delaware, perhaps he escaped there from New Jersey at an earlier point in his life. Delawareans do seem to be pretty much the complete opposite of New Jerseyites. Maybe it's like a rivalry kind a thing.

I'm coming to the conclusion that Dr Grande isn't getting backhanders from the Jersey Tourism Board.

@@simonw1313 🤣

Lol it’s not that bad I have been there. Just fun to make fun of.

There was a lot more evidence on the special I saw on it - there was so much that needs to happen to actually charge him.

I think the more damning evidence is the video and the fact that security footage showed her entering his building but never leaving.

It takes years to train a dog like that (I’m a professional dog trainer) and hitting on something cannot be a mistake. If the dog signals, it’s a hit. The noise and behavior of the dog is not subtle. If the dog hits they let everyone in earshot know. And they get super excited. I agree that body cam footage should be on every cop everywhere every moment they’re doing police work, but if we rule out malice, there is no possibility for a mistake with a certified cadaver dog. It is a very specific odor that can’t be replicated by anything else except what it is. And several independent people certify a dog. They go to constant training and certifications, etc. so the dog and handler are very competent. I train dogs to alert to low blood sugar. Their sense of smell is astounding. Currently dogs are being trained to sniff cancer on hospital patients. Some scents are easier to confuse but a dead human being is really quite a specific collection of smells that cannot be replicated by any other dead animal. That said- malice is always a concern! If only we could teach dogs to alert to psychopaths. I actually think they can detect some dangerous people, but since we don’t know how some dogs seem to know when a person is a garbage person we can’t actually train them to replicate it on command. Wouldn’t that be so cool, though? 😂 I’ve known several dogs that always knew before I did that a particular person was dangerous. My personal theory is that it’s in subtle body language. But you never know-maybe evil has a smell? 😂 And then of course there are less sensitive dogs that would make friends with a serial killer 😂

@@lostandfound5145 There is always the possibility for a mistake when it comes to humans interpreting behaviour of an animal. To suggest otherwise is absurd.

@@SamS-uv2ql yes, that would be an absurd statement to make. Never would I make such an idiotic statement. Clearly either you’re intentionally strawmanning me here, or you lack critical thinking and reading comprehension skills. I try not to assume malice, but sometimes people make that difficult.

Maybe not a challenge, so much as quality advice.

@@lemonstealinghorsdoeuvre ... AND, ... if you think that's Oohh sooo HiLaRioUS 🤣 you should DEFINITELY watch " Teacher dies after being tased 6 times - Dr. Grande " 😳

@@2Bad4YOUuu was that tonight's video? I feel like I have seen that moron so many times that maybe I saw DrGrande do a video on him. I don't know where you think I said it was hilarious or even humorous. I'd rather do cocaine than feel sorry, and I don't know how someone would choose feeling sorry. My interpretation is "better safe than sorry" means it's better to practice a safe behavior than to do something you will regret, and I'd much rather do cocaine than something I would regret. Honestly, why are you sending me this?

@@2Bad4YOUuu nope, it's one of his critiques where he listens to other people's breakdowns and does little actual research and he leaves out large portions of actual issues impacting the situation.

I've thought the same. There's presumably limited information about some of these murderers though, you have to be a pretty notorious killer for people to bother looking into your background.

This is a very thoughtful comment! I agree that true crime watching needs to be balanced with healthy, hopeful activities that reset the world image from those dark realms! Hope the holidays help!

@@bthomson 😊

I go hug a loved one or pet ❤

Good point

Delaware is pretty polluted too. Have you ever been to there?

Oh YES! That would be priceless!

Hi Rejane. - How lucky do I feel that I do not know any people like all of these people! The world is not as dark as true crime would have us believe! But we certainly get warnings and instruction. Hope your holiday season and that of all on this channel is fun and safe!🎄🎆🎁🎉

@@bthomson Hi Judy! 😃 It’s truly unimaginable the things people are willing to do in order to satisfy their own needs. I also wish you very happy holidays with your loved ones!!✨🎁✨

Hi Dr. Grande. Happy Holidays to you & your family. Keep your videos rolling & on point as usual kind & calming. Peace on earth, love, Janine Smiley🙂😀😏😍😘🎄🎁🎁🎋🙂🆒️💯❕🎋🎉🎊🎀🏡🎈🚗🚘

Google.

@@awkwardautistic Are you suggesting that Dr Grande relies on Google to get his pronunciations correct? Perhaps you are correct, but if so, only emphasises his pursuit of excellence.

@@venderstrat I know that's what I do if I'm not sure about the pronunciation of something lol

@@awkwardautistic I listen to a host of true crime podcasts, many of which are hosted by citizens of the USA. The extent to which they butcher the English language is very confronting.

He even pronounces places in Louisiana correctly. THAT is impressive.

👏🏾❗️.. Luv alll the humorous & witty commenters ❣️

I think he’s from Delaware

*I'm GLad, that of ALL 6-yr. OLds in London, that 50% are NOT White!!!*

Dr Grande I apologize for misspelling your name

Hydroxycloricine

it is more than that.. in then end; think the whole sequence through bud