So calm and soothing ☺️

I like the pillow talk series because I can imagine all of us just in a sleepover discussing these things. _psh_ Only my friends don't even seem to like to talk about these things.

I love how you answered the friendship question. Friendships are fleeting. I have two friends that I've had for the last 4 years, but I rarely ever see them. Once I finished high school, it was like all the friendships I had, disappeared. Now I'm 22, and I don't mind being alone.

I agree friendship is fleeting, I've had soooo many friends that I've always thought would last forever but once you look back you suddenly realize at a point of time that they might not be your closest friends anymore but that doesn't mean you don't still love them. Everyone moves on and has breakthroughs from time to time, because everyone grows and changes

I completely agree with what you said about time healing everything. Love you, Mish :)

Yes! I love your Pillow Talks, Michelle! I must say that I do agree so much with your perspective on friendships. :) You always give the best advice! :)

Really loved this video. You are wise, mature, well informed and realistic. I see people saying, follow your heart, only do what you love etc. kind of statement everywhere. The truth is nothing can get more unrealistic than this statement. Not everyone can afford to do their dream job... it doesn't work out like that. So thanks for saying it. Getting closer to your dream through passion or job is more effective solution than just repeating a generic statement like follow your heart...

more business advice, Michelle! It's the best and such a huge inspiration!

You're like the sister I've never had but always wanted

I tend to be a very positive, happy person & I hope it shines through my life, my KZfaq & through my vibes but whenever I watch these videos of yours I always self-reflect & feel the need to be an even better person for the world. Thanks for always making me want to be better Michelle :)

I rarely comment on videos, but I feel compelled to tell you that you are adorable. You deserve all the good in you your life. Keep it up!

I truly LOVE her wise perspective on friendships- that they are fleeting. It's not like a high school mindset "omg my bestie 4ever!!!" Even 15-30 years is not forever and is fleeting when you look at the long journey of a soul and its many lives. I think she grew up a nomad just like me so it shapes her outlook on life. Nomads who are spiritually inclined would probably align with this view. It's not to say that fleeting means friendship for just a few days and you dump the person. Ultimately if we look beyond the physical world, we are individual souls who grow on our own path and oftentimes even longtime friends might be growing in another way to follow their own spiritual journey. Perhaps some soul connections are "forever", I do not know about that (no one can really claim to know or have have experienced "forever", it's an emotional word in this case), but perhaps that only one that is truly forever is the divine relationship with the self and with God or divine energy or the ultimate source of creation and love (whatever name you want to label it as). People in this day and age have become codependent and want to attach their self worth on how long they've had this certain best friend or how many friends they have, etc. Friends are wonderful, yes but we also have to consider the perspective of how friendships might be affected by someone who became wealthy and famous like Michelle Phan. Maybe she experienced people who left her life out of jealousy, etc. and she knows that side of things and most of us don't. She has more wisdom in that sense. Maybe your so called friends of 15 years would get jealous and leave or become different towards you if you became Rich and famous! Can you guarantee 100% that they will not? Your best friend and best connection in life should be yourself and the divine and those who will come along will do their thing for however long the friendship is meant to last and then you let go when the time is over.

Favourite kind of video ever！ Michelle Phan is sooooo nice😭😭

M I S H! i love you AND i feel like you're literally MY SISTER ! *you're such an amazing inspiration*

Your advice is always so full of wisdom and sincerity! Plus I just love the way you speak, it's always been so soothing :) lots of love!

I love what you said about how people usually find fault in others more then finding good. I feel like too many people these days choose to go with, and fully believe, the first impression or thought of another. That can change how you look at someone, how you love someone, and how you treat them. If you keep an open mind about others, and choose to see goodness in them, it becomes so much easier to love everyone.

Friendship is fleeting? Honey I have had friends for 15+ years....It's relationships that are fleeting until you find the right one. Boyfriends come and go but friendships are forever. If you believe friendship is fleeting its probably because you just aren't a good friend.

i love watching your pillow talks! even after years and years on youtube you stay genuine :)

inspiration ignites passion - Jealousy ignites insecurity. Love it! So true :)

Hmmm... Some friendships are fleeting, but i think true friendships lasts forever. I have 3 friends whom I am close to for 15 years. Not in proximity, not that we meet all the time and do fun stuff together. We can be apart for months and suddenly when any of us needs help, they are the ones whom I can trust, and vice versa. Give each other space, and when the friendship stays in your time of need, those are true friends.

I am OBSESSED with pillow talkkkkk

Qué niña más inteligente, por Dios! ♥

You are so wise, Michelle. Thank you for saying, "Friendship is not LIFE; friendship is a PART of life." That's the way I've always thought, yet a lot of people that I've known never understood that. I think that the way you said it will put it in a healthier perspective for a lot of people.

I think that Michelle has a wonderful and realistic view on all of these topics. I don't think that she is saying that every single friend is a bad one, or that no friendships last, she's just putting forward a non romanticized view, that people change and moving on doesn't always have to be a bad thing :)

She is so mature and wise, I love this series. This month I started working on my business and pursuing my passions, its scary being your own boss, but everyday I'm growing as a person. So inspiring Mish #TeamDreamers

AYE 301+ CLUB and yessss Mish I love pillow talk, this was so helpful and def keep this going! xo

It's nice knowing that when something is bothering you, there's always a pillow talk by Michelle that's got your solution ☺️ they are so positive and refreshing- Love you Michelle! 💕

Love this! I like how you said that friends are part of your life yet part of friendship is knowing when to leave. We are constantly changing all the time and we have the opportunity to gain new perspectives from individuals throughout our lives but at the same time we have a separate journey for each of us.

You are way better and give better advice than any other guidance counselor I know.

I agree. She's the sister I never had. I'm so thankful.

It's true, we all change during our lives...but a friend is the one who can really be there while you're changing...Friendship is changing together...and If you're Involved in you friend's live (as it should be) you won't even notice that change because you just live it with your friend and viceversa..

I love how wise your words are, and how calm and caring she comes across in these videos. You've touched so many people Mish

Michelle I love pillow talk very much! But it saddened me to hear that you think friendship is fleeting. I think romantic love is a lot more fleeting than friendship. I feel like people put a lot more emphasis on romantic relationships than on friendships and honnestly ..they are missing out a lot! maybe it's because i grew up loving harry potter but i am as close as ever with my friends from childhood (we all lived afterwards in different countries). but it does take work being a good friend, especially not letting pride get in the way.

Michelle's voice is so calm and soft I really like it

please continue doing pillow talks~ listening to your advice and answers to those insecurity questions are the best comfort- it's sooo different than other people. Love you Michelle :)

"friendship is not life, friendship is part of life" one of my new favorite quotes.

I love these videos because it feels like I'm there and you're giving me advice!

I like ur voice!

This video really meant a lot. I'm choosing highschool this fall and I'm having struggles about what I wanna do in the future, but this got me a little bit more positive

I hate how rudely ppl comment on here, if u dont like her than dont watch her videos! She is very inspirational & u can tell she has a good heart. Ppl like that are hard to come by in this world. Congrats on all your success Michelle Phan!!👍🏻👏🏻

I really love how your voice sounds. I'm thinking it's because of how the microphone transmits the sound, and it just works so well with these pillow talks. >u

I could honestly listen to the outro music every night before I go to sleep

This is no joke, I am literally crying I love her so much. Thank you Mish you inspire me to be a enter me. You inspire me to be my own leader, to learn, to think for myself and no one else. Thank you

I love how she doesn't beg for likes on her videos and doesn't care if anyone dislikes her videos! Michelle inspires me so much. She inspires me to be selfless, brave and try new things, kind, and not foolish. She is so inspiring and sometimes I can watch her videos over and over just because I love hearing her speak. She also has nice humor but doesn't hurt anyone by her words. Instead she puts a smile on everyone's face! She has really helpful beauty tips and is really gorgeous. Of course she's not perfect but sometimes I really wonder if she is. She is my favorite KZfaqr and if she replies to this comment I would literally explode. If your reading this comment, Michelle, I just want you to know how special you are and that you inspire so many young female like me! Have a great day, Michelle, whoever else is reading this comment

Wow, what an incredibly shallow view on friendship. If you love someone as a friend you should respect them enough to stick with them through the changes and life experiences. Like any relationship, friendship takes work and trust, but lifelong friends are more than worth it. I feel sorry that you haven't experienced this and I hope you do someday. Of course some friendships are fleeting, but the best ones are stronger than that.

*omg Mich everything you say in your videos are so wise and quote worthy!* Please make a "Best of Michelle's Sayings" or something I'd 10/10 buy AHAH

I love Pillow Talk! Please never take it away, 'cause it's so nice to have. You give great advice and I wish I could think the way you do because a lot of the time I'm always thinking negative, especially when it comes to friendships. Jealousy is ugly and I don't like it. This video opened my eyes and thank you, Mish. Much love! -Melissa

You hit the friendship question right on the nail. I'm glad I'm not the only person who has that issue with friends and being fleety. It really is a part of life, we meet people for a reason and next thing we know, they're gone. The few that stick around are the exception. My best friend of 10 years just recently stopped talking to me. No warning, no reason, just cold turkey dropped me. Yes it hurts, I wish I knew why. I've come to accept that people change and maybe it's for the better. It's true when they say if you aren't losing friends your not growing up.

I don't think friendship is fleeting at all. My girls and I have been friends for 15 years, and though we are completely different people now, we grow with each other. Sure people change but it's rare that their core morals and values do. We met on grounds based on understanding, compassion, love and laughter... And though our personalities and attitudes may have changed, we still love to laugh together, share our pains with each, etc. Same with being in a relationship. If you can say friendship is fleeting, you can say the same for relationships, because in both cases, it's a situation with two human beings that are bound to change over time. It's not about changing the person but accepting the fact that they are growing up and changing; and so are you :) it's part of life, and it's beautiful!

Love these types of videos from you. Kisses.

I love this, its very relaxing and i can see your personality more.

I agree. Everyone changes and change is good as long as you're happy. Won't be alone forever. Love these pillow talks too! Thank you!

Are you still together with Dom?

Staring at that shiny patch on Mish's face ✨

i really appreciate the mature way you are answering these questions for your younger viewers... especially about friendship... we think that it's everything (or we give it much more importance than we should) when we are younger and, while of course it's still important to us later we realize that we can still enjoy their company every now and then but they are not the center of our lives; our priorities definitely change. it sounds depressing putting it like this but i find it actually liberating! i found that i learned so much more about myself as the years passed and it's amazing =)

It always amazes me when a person who is just two years older from me achieved so much in life and watching it from my stand point I always kind od ask myself "what have I been doing all these years" but then I realize that our paths were very different and that it took you years nad years of hustling and youtube to get you to this point in life (people often neglect that and only see the now), while I was attending university and am now on the start of my career finding journey. But the one thing I learned from inspiring youtube role models such as yourself is that it's never to late to try something and as you said it's important to explore your passion in different fields to develop as a person. Really loved this talk, keep inspiring I love having such people in my life. ;) Peace and love

did anyone else laugh at "phanny clips" or was it just me

Love that sweatshirt ;)

I love how Michelle says give it a thumbs up if u enjoyed but give it a thumbs down if u didn't , she's not pushy like a lot of other youtubers . Love u mish !! 💗💗

Michelle, please continue your pillow talks. I feel inspired, calm and more secure after watching them. You are a brilliant person.

Michelle can you be my sister!?? It would be so nice to have someone like you to talk to everyday ❤️

Hello there Michelle, before I say anything. I would just like for you to know that you are absolutely beautiful. I have been looking at you for quite some years now and you are very beautiful inside and out. As I write this to you, I can only hope that you do notice my comment as I highly seek your lovely advice. Michelle, I have been terribly hurt in the past, and mostly very unhappy, and it has had such a great effect on myself, and my thoughts. For the past eleven months, I have been in a long distance relationship with this amazing guy, who I truly love deeply, and he does make me happy. But, when he's away from me. I do find myself thinking quite negatively, for example, thinking about the future, and thinking about if I will always be good enough for him, or if he will want more. We are both each other's real love and real relationship, and I cannot imagine being with anyone else. I seek your advice Mish, how can I be happy and just stop worrying. I love you. 💜

Michelle i love your pillow talks so much. these topics are ones that i actually have been stressing over recently; recently i feel very distant from my friends and I feel like I don't fit in completely... I feel so lonely nowadays but you're just like my virtual sister

Thank you for helping me establish if I was actually jealous of a person. I felt very weird and wasn't sure if I was just being jealous, that word seemed to not really fit me and how I felt or acted but I now know inspired was the word that I was looking for. Though I am insecure about this person and I had an unhealthy fascination of this person I'm slowly letting go of this feeling and now inspiring myself instead of relying on someone else to inspire me.

I want moree michelle!!! Thats greattt!!! And my question is what phone did you have? And which one is the most phone you use? :))

Is she still with Dom?

Seriously Mish, you're voice is so good to listen to. It's relaxing and charming. I can't help but wish that I can hear you on the radio doing talks and chitchats like these.

Keep at least 15 mins for pillow talk!! It's lovely. It helps others as well those who are not questioning.

Hey Mish, what happened to Trend Report :( They were really cute and stuff lol

Michelle could you tell me where your sweatshirt is from?

Thank you for your advice to pretty much everything. What you talked about was something important, and the Pillow Talk series is a great way to know what to do. I honestly adore you, and I adore these videos you make to help us. It's relaxing, calming and it helps you. I'm glad that we have someone like you here to give us advice. Thank you, love and hugs! ❤️

I love how Michelle is on a constant schedule, but leaves time for us.

Did she break up with her boyfriend?

Are her and dom broken up?

"There is no such thing as a better girl" You are so right! I LOVE YOU! 💕 How does it feel to inspire millions of people?

Hey Mich :) I love these series honestly, I feel like im talking to the sister I never had, I learn so much from them that my parents, my friends nor my brother could teach me. To everyone in the comments critisizing her about her comment on friendship please calm down. Im a person who likes to tackle problems by looking at it from different angles. I believe some friendships are worth keeping and fighting for even if you change but this perspective can be applied to a few people i know. Thanks for giving me another angle to look from. These pillow talks are the best, though i kinda wish you made it into like a 30, 45 min, hour long talks i feel like 10 minutes isnt enough. I like to sit down and talk it out for a long time I think its more comfortable and beneficial. Keep up the good work Mich!

Something looks off about her lips

DOSE ANYONE HAVE A GUN BC I REALLY NEED ONE RIGHT NOW

I Love Your Pillow Talks ! It's Like If You're An Older Sister , That I Never Had , Giving So Much Advice n Inspirational Sayings ❤️ LOVE YOU MISH !!

Honestly you have helped me soooooo much during life.either I'm sad,stressed,confused,or hurt.. You always help! So thank you!💜

dat white cheek keeps distracting me

Merci for the segment! Speaking about dating in highschool, I know that boys matter just as well as grades. I'd take being in their presence, is worth anything.

OMG like how do you come up with these answers.. you're such an inspirational person

My tip on jealousy. Don't be jealous unless your willing to do what that person did to get it.

I love your friendship advice. I adore having my friends and I wanted to follow them to their university or state or neighborhood, but I wasn't asking myself what I wanted to do. I had to let go and trust that even if I'm not seeing them daily we are always friends in spirit. If a friend is a TRUE friend, when our roads meet again, we'll have new perspectives to share.

This is the first video that i've seen of Michelle and I'm already in love with her channel, her personality is AMAZING and she's BEAUTIFUL

I agree w/ every single point you talk about. Normally these thoughts don't come to mind until you mature and learn from various life experiences, so to hear that someone thinks like me, it's nice to know that I'm not an odd one out. Very realistic and down to earth comments. Thanks for sharing.

Mish, don't stop the pillow talk! It helps me a lot! Each episode until now helps me grow a little everytime.

I love snuggling up on my bed watching Mish's pillow talks at night 😊 she gives the best advices & have such a calming & sweet voice.

Mish, I really enjoyed this. It was really heartfelt, and truly wise advice. And I love how the "environment"you make for this video is so cozy and just like I'd like to share some time with a real friend. Thank you so much for sharing your advice and thoughts with us, love you!

Michelle, you have inspired me beyond belief over the past several years. I aspire to be just as talented, innovative, and successful as your beautiful self one day. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for being such a down to earth and inspirational person. :)

This is something I needed today. Especially the jealousy parts, cause I think I have problems with. Like I overthink if my friends even want to be around me and if they wanna be around someone else I kinda take it personally. Really bad thing but I do it. Thanks Michelle! :)

I absolutely love these pillow talk videos. The only thing I don't agree on is the fleeting friendships idea, but to every man his own opinion! Other than that, your wisdom is astounding.

Michelle, thank you so much on answering two questions on jealousy and dating in high school. It has inspire me so much and made me think straight on some of my current problems. Thank you so much! Your words mean a lot You are an inspiration.

I am pretty sure that the friendship between me and my best friend will last forever. We have been in the same class for eleven years and are practically like sisters. Recently we split our ways, but every time we see each other it is just like old times! She has changed a lot since then, but she is still the same person who I love :)

Pillow talk is one of my favorite segments you do on your channel! Please continue to make more they're very inspirational!!

I think that's a very important message that, especially young girls should be taught: "There's no such thing as a 'better' girl."

Michelle, you are an inspiration. Thank you for continuing to produce quality material. I've followed your channel for years! I continue to watch your videos because I like the direction you have taken your channel. Thank you for promoting positivity. :)

Mish, this makes me feel so much better about myself. Jealousy sometimes uses up my time and now that I hear your words I feel much more confident about myself! Thanks you, Michelle xx

"Inspiration ignites passion...Jealousy ignites insecurity" tis true.....thanks Michelle Phan