I try my best to be a good daughter but still my mother compares me to the other girls. It feels like I'll never be enough.

I get so much Anxiety and depression for being compared to others.

This is how i feel why cant my mom hear me pls mom hear me

So true people like to campare others and that really hurts

While listening to this Im crying why? Because I never heard to my parents saying Im proud of you having high grades or proud of you being honored student I always hear why you are not ggod as your sister or sometimes my Mom saying Look at the other kids they have dream they always do everything look what they are doing why you're not like them Everytime every day I always hear it and sometimes I just want to die cause I feel that im not enough to be her son

I felt this on a personal level. Like everything I wanted to say to my mum.

"Please don't compare me, I'm me " But sometimes being me isn't good enough for her 😓

When someone compares you to others just ignore them. Let them waste their time. I have been through this a lot. At first it hurted me lot but now I ignore them.

Sometimes.. People hurt us and say we did wrong. We start thinking about the words they use. About what they say. And feel not good enough. And feel useless Worthless A mess Ugly. The most hurtful word (to me) ugly.. I've heard it for so long I can't even love myself anymore. Ahh. I miss the old days when nobody was hurting us and tears weren't normal to us,when there was joy,happiness,and smiles.

I wish I could say this to the people who always compare me with someone else, thanks for the video luv

The last line..simply awesome..it touched 💫❣

I always get compared so i just cry secretly every night but i cant do it anymore i have no one to talk to

having both depression and anxiety is like having Multiple Personality you don't know who's the real you

Thank you for being my voice

Moral lesson: Do your best to be yourself that you are very special in a different way from others.

My Grandpa compares me to everyone all the time😭😭😭😭😭 She be like: Why can’t you be more like her, she studies day and night unlike you......why can’t you be more graceful like her etc I really Hate Myself!!!

I love Mum so much but she always compares me to other girls no matter how hard I try to do enough. it's always not enough. I've told her once that she were hurting me and putting me down by doing so and that compliment was better than nagging but nothing changed. When I was just 17 years old, I already mastered four languages. I speak French, Spanish, Arabic and ofc English fluently and have been studying Korean for about four years now. I do amazing paintings. I write poems and stories not only in English. I play guitar and write songs. I do photography and have many more talents. I'm not showing off guys but just so you know, Mum keeps comparing me to other girls who don't have half what I do just because I'm an introvert, weirdo who wears baggy jumpers and loves to hide in my room and don't know how to have fun like other girls, or do make up like them or to spend my money on clothes and silly stuff rather than books and painting tools. I feel now like everything I do is not enough. never have been enough. When I like someone, the thought of not being enough for them strikes me immediately. I've been diagnosed with depression like a month ago. You know how terrible it is. I haven't told Mum though, nor did she notice because I've always been that introvert. I am not looking for a lost love, a dream job, or a miracle. Some appreciation from mama would be so nice. Thank you so much for your poem. it really hit home. :")

I just wanna say, thank you 😊 for making these poems.

It's hard to stop comparing yourself with others too

Every person has their own personality and place ,but that’s good to be a past

So beautiful. You made me cry. Very beautiful

Watching your videos calms me down

Wow dude, so true, another amazing poetry, spoken from the heart, keep it up, you really help me out alot, so thank you.....🙂

I am not going to talk about my experience or make people feel sorry for me because I'm thankful for him showing me what love isn't because he was someone I thought I had forever with but I dont, I never did, and I wish I wouldn't have fallen over my own two feet for him

"Please do not compare me" I'm me 💞

My self-esteem goes all the way to hell when I get compared

I needed to hear this for my own sake

This hits harder because I have a twin brother and I don't even like him or want to talk to him but people keep seeing me as just somebody's sister. I don't feel like I'm my own person. It hurts me a lot and when I ask them to stop doing it, they just laugh it off and tell me I'm lucky to have a twin.

Being an identical twin, Iam constantly comparing how I act to how my sister acts. I know it's not healthy but I just see her get on so well with other people and I just feel so confused.

" the original that you constantly refer to or mistake me for " hit me so hard I'm in tears 😭😭💔

No matter how hard I tried I'll never be my mother's favourite for her my siblings are god gifted

Being compared to others hurt the most tbh.

Please, don't compare me and my twin. It hurts me a lot

My situation was similar, not exactly the same. But this hit home because I was just feeling really compared

Beautiful

I Hate Myself To Much...😢😢Always Compareing me 😢

You are so sweet,, when i was hearing your voice, i feel that this is my voice

My parents compares me to my neighbor.. They constantly flex my neighbor than flex me so.. Damn, my neighbor lucky.

My mom always compares me with other students that are better than me I have nothing to do but cry

you have a heart touching voice

damm :c thats pretty true and sad

I somehow being compare a lot to my others cousin and friend . Since then i have been develop a little jealousy , since then i compare my self to other people alot .. im depress i have anxiety when meeting other people .. i want to stop but my brain don’t allowed

Very apt

hurts.

This is what I feel like when people compare me to my brother

my beloved

Say direct to who you want to say everything don’t keep it

Hey don’t get disturbed no matter who comes no matter what ? you have your place that is for sure I can say this is life

Never ever let no one make you there second choose youre better then that youre unisue youre one of a kind do if you feel that way youre not a moth youre a beatiful butterfly so if youre not happy with who youre with grab them wings and fly away youll see one day youll truely find someone who will truely love you and for who you are 🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋

my pillow known me better then others

You are the original one silly , there was never original one I just told you that because I could never be with you or any one else, but God only. You are the butterfly my best friend.

It's too early to compare ourselves.

I'm crying

I'll smile n make the world shine for you just to make you sleep fine n tomorrow I'll stil be right there never left your bedside till another butterfly will fly i was at my dark side but we'll rise n shine so don't you wherever i reside with respect I'll be right there to a beautiful smile n youll be alright

No no no you one of akind !!

No better don't seem possible

That would suck if you were like everybody else I don't want you to be like everybody else people just weird and trip me out are being crazy but you you call me, my soul my heart and my mind and everytime I hear your voice every time I'm with you and everytime I talk to you it's just like magic literally literally Magic in my heart and my soul

💝💝💝

My mom and dad says there proud at me but sometimes they compare me to my Couzins and its sads me cause i feel like they want me to be like my cousin..... Ugh! Its just so hard to say but i know im hurting to the words they say

My girlfriend compared me to some celebrity and everyone else did too, I told her I didn't like being compared and I'm me and she said it was a joke and I shouldn't be taking stuff to seriously but I've told her this many a times yet she keep doing it, when someone is hurt by it why would you still do it?

You're not. Definitely not a moth. You are my ideal.

Im going through this right now... My mom told me that "Bianca has her own car now" "Look at how successful she is now" "how bout you?"

I got the high honor in my class and my mom said "u only got lucky" next time get a high honor too" even tho thats what u said in my last test "next time get a high honor too"

I know that children are individuals? But I dont know what they may like to do? Theres never a comparison just the suggestion from someone who doesn't know you yet, and what you like to do? So please dont be quick to judge me? I only wants what's best for You! The stranger in a strange land, or as if I where there ,I'd need your help, ? Things are different, here ,and there only suggestion, not comparing, My kids had there faults but as an adult and there father they had my guides, and not pushy ! So give me a chance, and the respect as a adult or parent, and I will help you to grow into a fine and respected adult , in a strange land you may not know about. My kids at times had attitudes and let them make there own mistakes . But remember us adults where kids once too, and we screwed up and wish there had been someone there for us. Trial and error, I'm a good dad, but you dont know that stranger in a strange land? Ask you shall receive. Love you who ever you are or want to be, I'm a good guy! Not comparing to other fathers ? I've raised 2 grandkids that are A+ student no comparison! Just fact!! Love you kid s alot the strange parent, in a strange land I know something about. Love you who ever you are ? 💖

Music for depression

i dont know if i even want to be “me” anymore. ive contemplated trying to act and look like the girl my mom keeps comparing me to. maybe i should 🤷🏾‍♀️

I don’t understand why my parents keep comparing me to other kids much smarter or intelligent than me they don’t understand that I’m trying my best I get it that I’m not good as them this always makes me feel like Ain’t good enough and if I decide to talk back they would say I’m disrespecting them Idk what to do I don’t have any friends when I play on the PlayStation for like just 20 min they get angry Then when I decide to talk back they get angry But I know one day they will know that they were wrong about me

When i’m stopping my self from comparing to the other but then my brother came:( he always compare his age to mine. He always said that i’m not matured enough and be like him🙁 laughs at me*

I'm overweight and I hate when people compare me with others girls faces because I'm chubby but why compare me I'm not a cheap knock off too originally girls.

People always comepare me to other barrel races like how good they are or how they never nock a barrel but it’s hard I have two horses and school

I don't hurt you, be aware of your words

I don't want you to be anybody but you this is you your poem your words you're writing no I don't want you to be anybody else I don't like people because people I are not nice they're not like that they're not like you you have caring loving heart install believe me I remember I remember your heart and remember your soul and it's still there are you feeling every single word that you're staying here

i dont like when my mother when he compare me becuse i always try my best to make him smile but he always compare me to my cousin that his saying never true i try my best but dont i always remmember to dont give up

Best massage 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

Yeah...this is true i want it tell my mom too but i can't she always copares me to my step dad's cousin i mean it hurts because she's always right perfect girl and responsible... well i am sorry if i'm not like her i'm just me because every time she compares me to her i always go to the bathroom and cry because i feel like i'm am not enough for her to be a responsible and perfect like my step dad's cousin

Not comparing but today I'm getting back to living I see I've been used as it pawn to make someone jealous that's all I'm good for that's real travesty I will be the biggest loss you ever experience this I promise you

Why does he compare me ?

😞

Babe you know how much I love you. If you new mg heart iis in your and mabe you don't think like that. And you know how much I love. As much as you want me.. Please babe I don't want you to thing like I don't care..of cause I do care about you. No one else but you. Babe I love you more than you ever know..👫💙💖💋💋💋💋💋❤

Am not depressed Am sad sometimes and i listen that ?

My parents compares me always with others🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

I didnt protect myself all my life from minga's just to end up with one,if that makes sence

I sent this to my mom but she said "Well its really not my fault why u get c for exams" ( my exam is in a week) It hurts me...

This is what happens to me

There is no camperison between anyone

My mom always compare me with my ‘perfect’ cousins and I feel like a rock,that couldn’t become a crystal.My name means crystal and a crystal that can’t be shattered,however I felt like a weak stone that can’t shine,and brake easily.Sometimes I know my mom cared about me however don’t use other people to do it,I’m not like a new apple phone that has all the updates and data.I’m not Siri and I’m not google where I just know everything,I’m just my own person.I have my doubts and worries,I also have my good traits.But you hurting me so much with words so painful,I feel I can shatter like a weak crystal or glass.I want to say these words so bad but I’m afraid,because I don’t know what your reaction might be before the finally shatter.......

DON'T YOU GET IT I DON'T WANT ANYONE ELSE ANYMORE STOP TRYING TO MAKE ME TALK TO YOU I AM NOT INTERESTED IN ANYONE ELSE 💯 GOODBYE

I want to ride my by cycle by cycle

don't bother me with your words, don't you know manners

you destroyed my only one family

Kisise compare korne ki laiok hinehi ho... Toa koi gunjaish bhi nehi

yon ang gusto ko sawa na ko sa hirap sorry

I'm not even comparative :)

Confusion You may or may not notice

I have no place in your hierarchy

can we talk ? please

All around my son's house no one else swore

my grandma just compared me to this girl who is way smarter than me... it hurts

I I'm speaking in dictation and it says haha I did not say that that was not my words my dictation was just speaking in the microphone it's riding and it writes things wrong sometimes

Ilo ve u miss you