PLEASE STOP WEARING THESE 3 THINGS AT ANY AGE

PLEASE STOP WEARING THESE 3 THINGS AT ANY AGE | Nikol Johnson

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@marysteven3004 4 ай бұрын

I am 70 years old. When I was a young woman, I became a medical esthetician, At 37, I went to nursing school and became a nurse, much to the chagrin and derogatory comments from my family (except for my husband and children- they encouraged me). At 45, I went to graduate school and became an Acute Care Nurse Practitioner specializing in wound care, as skin was always my passion. When I was about 50, I decided to earn my doctoral degree- I have never regretted the decision to spend the time, money, or whatever on my education, even though my family (mother, father, sister, brother-in-law) were nay-sayers to everything. If you let the opinions of others influence your life, you will never achieve your dreams- go for it!

@patriciarees3776 4 ай бұрын

I was raised hearing, "What will people think?" I have always felt judged by others and usually focused on the possible negative rather than the positive. I have allowed this to limit me everywhere in my life. I shall try very hard in 2024 to push this thought from my beliefs and allow my true self to be unafraid to shine and trust that it is OK not to be absolutely perfect all of the time. Thank you for this video, Nikol.

@alineroberts 4 ай бұрын

This brought tears to my eyes. My gosh...it was like hearing my Mother's voice telling me what was negative rather than positive in me. It does color the rest of your life and prevents you from dreaming and hoping.

@Anikanoteven 4 ай бұрын

Oh yes, that was a constant refrain, and add to that, “aren’t you ashamed of yourself” and the constant comparison refrains, “why aren’t you more like…fill in the blank, my friends, my cousins. There was nothing that I could ever do that was acknowledged, never mind praised.

@jacquiwinter6282 4 ай бұрын

No more. ❤️‍🩹

@emmar3035 2 ай бұрын

Me too..that kept me from doing and wearing a lot of things.

@willsx2 4 ай бұрын

The guilt of the past really spoke to me and is a good reminder. As we age, of course we rack up lots of mistakes in our past that we regret and have a lot of " what ifs" - the chance we were too scared to take, the relationship we let go for stupid reasons, the time we wasted, etc. I need to remember to rephrase this to "look what you have accomplished", "what else can I do to continue growing and finding meaningful joy" so that I look forward to each day with confidence and a good attitude.

@Rositasparks 4 ай бұрын

Beautifully stated ❤

@carmenmiller5701 4 ай бұрын

Thank you, your comment truly resonated with me and almost brought me to tears for reminding me of all I have accomplished in my 78 years! ❤

@user-re5km4cx2x 4 ай бұрын

What is the gorgeous eye shadow you are wearing

@fitnessoverfifty-suncoastfit 4 ай бұрын

That point spoke to me too! Thanks for your well stated comment :)

@conniebreines1725 4 ай бұрын

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@resident7385 4 ай бұрын

I have so many regrets... some I caused and some others caused. I seriously am going to bury them and move on. Thank you!

@leslieevans5688 4 ай бұрын

This really hit home!!. As a 65 young gal I decided about 10 years ago to dress to make me feel happy! Quirky, boho, conservative, loud, sultry, especially with my accessories! Thanks to you I've learned how to bring out the best of face to match each of these styles without being gaudy. I'm known to my friend as being eclectic and other ladies tell me they wish they could be like that but am afraid they wouldn't be able to pull it off like me. I tell them its not a matter of pulling it off but whether the like the way it makes them feel. I wear everything with confidence because it makes me feel happy! Feeling pretty at 65 doesn't always happen. But when I wear my silk kaftan with my rhinestone platform sandals I'm very , very happy!!

@user-xk3ej6jd5h 3 ай бұрын

Your comment hit home to me I'm 70 was married to a man that insisted I wore black and I was covered up all the time. Now I wear what I like and for the first time in my life I feel sexy and beautiful. I don't care what others might think and you know what I've been told how great I look and young I look. I've even dipped my toes into online dating and found it's the 46 year olds that found me attractive each one has told me that I have changed their attitude towards older women and won't be bias in the future. Getting older was something I dreaded but it's turned out to be the best time of my life because I've found who I am and want to be not what someone else thinks I should be.

@africansister 2 ай бұрын

46 men 😊 be wise cos most of them may want your money

@pambrianscalendar3204 4 ай бұрын

#3 Stop wearing the weight of other people's opinions spoke to me. I'm 64 and have come to realize that other people's opinion of what retirement looks like doesn't fit me. It's taken me 5 years to figure this out. So, I'm headed in a direction different from the people around me and making my own path defining what retirement looks like to me. And thanks to your channel, I'm looking (and feeling) pretty damn amazing doing it. Thank you!

@cherylweber8406 4 ай бұрын

WOW, what an inspirational video and advice. Retired 68yo woman, RN for 43 years. We would have a seminar about thinking about our death, and what would be important like 1 year, 6 months, weeks or days before our deaths, sure did give you a different perspective on what was important. My Dad would ask me when I would complain of regret or a mistake I made: "Did I learn something? Then it shouldn't be a mistake or regret, we are only human, not perfect!"

@margareth1504 3 ай бұрын

Thats so lovely of your Dad, what a good Dad. I think he has a beautiful understanding of how to contribute with true value for you.

@mebelle473 4 ай бұрын

The guilt of the past hit me hard TY❤❤

@amysmiles9751 4 ай бұрын

Absolutely what I needed to hear today. After listening to all the self-help stuff, I said to myself one day," Why do I need to fix myself?"

@xoxjelloxox 4 ай бұрын

I find it difficult to differentiate between fixing self and self improvement. Tips?

@janiceherod2739 4 ай бұрын

I needed to hear this video. I've felt a bit guilty for my decision of letting my hair go gray last year because I'm 74 and my boyfriend is 55. But he'll just have to live with this "old lady" because I'm doing this for myself, nobody else! Tired of coloring and tired of seeing my white roots. You're my inspiration Nikol and I watch each of your videos as soon as posted. Thank you!

@lydiapicano8806 4 ай бұрын

Janiceherod, if you're 74 and have a 55 yr old boyfriend you should be holding a class.. I'm sure your gray looks fabulous. ❤

@sarahmott8876 4 ай бұрын

I'm 71 and my husband is 55. I colour my hair because the salt n pepper grey would be draining to my (redheaded) complexion. I'll know when it's time.

@lydiapicano8806 4 ай бұрын

@@sarahmott8876 I get it, there is no right or wrong answer. You do what's right for you. You must be a very pretty woman to have such a young husband.

@janiceherod2739 4 ай бұрын

I changed my picture on KZfaq so you can see my hair - only 5 months grown out but I had foils done when I decided to let it grow to help blend in my roots.@@lydiapicano8806

@azillliasmith2734 25 күн бұрын

@@lydiapicano8806that made me laugh and I totally agree ❤😊

@kcloveonaleash 4 ай бұрын

True, true, true 😢 The past is the past....why can't I live by that statement? Thank you Nikol

@geolassx5755 4 ай бұрын

Whenever I go out, I always find somebody to compliment, especially the elderly. You'd be surprised to see the light in their eyes. I love to do this with older women. It's like you acknowledge their existence. I tell then to play it forward. It's my random act of kindness for the day.

@cam_2022 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for posting this. I resonated with the past. For me, it has to do with past narcissistic abuse. I always blame myself for not making the right choices. I need to stop

@trishbech9082 4 ай бұрын

That healing takes time! Give yourself grace. Please know, as a fellow narc survivor, I learned that many bad choices were done under such great manipulation that the person or situation I thought I was dealing with was not true, or my sense of what was normal, was not normal! Many times I was simply in the dark and in survival mode. I know better now, so I do better, giving myself permission to live a healthier life and have a healthier future. ❤

@tenshikim2013 4 ай бұрын

JUST NEED TO SAY..."THANK YOU" I TRULY NEEDED THESE REMINDERS!

@LSTEdD1 4 ай бұрын

All three, great advice!💃🏻 I am taking an art class in NYC and going to a writing retreat in France in April! (Not to boast ... it’s after 50 years of working in education!)

@tammylauber4224 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for this video! My thoughts are completely in-line with yours. It’s like you were in my head!! My word for 2024 is, CHANGE. My internal change. Chasing me and finding out all about me, physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. I realize I’ve been expecting external validation, whether my job, my husband, or my kids, or my friends. When all along all I needed to do was make me happy, take care of me and everyone else in my life would become an enrichment of that fulfillment. Im 61 & I wish I would have told my 36 yr old self this. However, this glorious event happens when you age, you learn that you just don’t care. I don’t mean you become a less caring person, I mean you are able to let go of so many insecurities & grief you’ve caused yourself for years! You don’t care about all of that & instead begin to focus on yourself, which should have been our focus all along. We are warriors, we are strong, and we are more than capable!!!🥰

@cherylkavanagh3387 4 ай бұрын

Such wise words. Life is short, you cannot change the past, so do not waste time on those regrets. Take what you have learned and find joy in your life now. Tomorrow is not promised. ❤

@ellenweigold4408 4 ай бұрын

Such great advice. For me it's the pressure. As a Pastor's wife there is alot of pressure. Looking good behaving a certain way. People like to dump on you. Etc. So thank you for this.

@ramonagutierrez1671 4 ай бұрын

Thank you darling, it’s true that actitud of you towards seniors it’s so sweet and a blessing! Yes, we sometimes feel like we are “invisible”, thank you !🙏❤️🙏❤️

@jenA9026 3 ай бұрын

Gosh, I literally could not think of a harder role for a woman!! It'd be like being the eternal First Lady. And yet, First Ladies only have to do 8 years max, and they have staff! Is the pressure coming from you, your husband, or the congregation? Maybe all three in different ways? Personally, I'd love the pastor's wife to fracture the mold of "the Pastor's Wife". Wishing you strength and creativity in how you apply Nikol's suggestions in your life ❤

@marciadavis6330 4 ай бұрын

I turned 70 last October and it has taken me this long to figure this part out. You directly hit the spot ON’ for me and I’m sure many more. Brilliant you put your time into something that hits home!! Love this video 💫⭐️

@celiauzarski2064 4 ай бұрын

Hi Nikol, it is so refreshing to hear an attractive woman encouraging others to shine as you do. We are hard on ourselves, yet, there you are telling us not to dwell on mistakes, but learn and do better. No letting past errors define who we are now. There are so few women nudging us to put ourselves out there and be the people we are meant to be. It was a something that everyone needed to start the new year.😊

@Joy80JJ 4 ай бұрын

This is your best video by far. I'm in my 60's & I totally agree with your 3. It took me pretty much all of my 50's to realize I don't give a f*ck...and to stop stressing about everybody else....and do what pleases me & what makes me happy/healthy. YOU DO YOU LADIES!!

@abarbaradorsey3713 4 ай бұрын

It makes it easier to enjoy others when you do t have to worry about their thoughts!

@lindacgrace2973 4 ай бұрын

"Don't wear the guilt of the past" resonated with me because I do that literally. I was in pretty sorry shape for a while; but I dug myself out from under more than a quarter million dollars in debt, published a book, and lost over 200 pounds. I have taste, I know what works on me, but I default to cheap yoga pants and t-shirts because my appearance hasn't caught up with the new me, yet. What's sad is how many of my friends and family are HORRIFIED that I want to spend money on myself and buy new clothes. Apparently, they think that buying a couple of nice new pairs of jeans and a few tops will do the trick and I have been advised, repeatedly, not to buy a complete versatile capsule wardrobe. Heaven forbid that I should be presentable or - gasp, perish the thought - chic. I've always been the fat dumpy one and nobody can deal with me wanting to look good. I'm glued to your content because you empower me to express myself in the best possible way. I love your channel and need your message! Thank you, this was very timely for me.

@NikolJohnson 4 ай бұрын

Listen to yourself and do what’s right for your life ❤️🔥

@tgardenchicken1780 4 ай бұрын

You are enough--you have allowed your wonderful self out--recognize her! We need you here in the world. Let your light shine--you will never know the encouragement your example gave to someone around you. Your value is amazing and special.

@lindacgrace2973 4 ай бұрын

@@tgardenchicken1780 🥰Thank you.

@lindacgrace2973 4 ай бұрын

@@NikolJohnson God bless you Nikol - you're doing me a world of good!

@lindacgrace2973 4 ай бұрын

@@vicpart2 Happy it helped you out. 🙂

@lisaschroedel9252 4 ай бұрын

I love this Nikol. Thank you! So many women need this encouragement. I agree, the time is now. I have found that scheduling time for those things we enjoy gives us something to look forward to. I’ve been struggling to find time for my art and even normal beauty routines since my hubby retired. It has taken a year or so for us both to adjust, but we’re getting there. I finally explained to him that ladies don’t just roll out of bed, throw on some wrinkled clothes and go out out for the day. So he said, okay, how long do you need? No pressure there as he stood outside the door waiting. Omg! 😂 Just for an FYI we have been married for 41 years and I worked in the beauty industry for years. My hubby was gone a lot with his work, and after talking to him for a bit I realized that he thought that he had to go out for breakfast, it had just become such a habit for him over the years. We took a tour of the kitchen and I showed him where all the food was and even told him it was okay to ask me to make breakfast when he wants some eggs. Cracking up here. Communication is so important. This post is perfect, every day is a gift from God, tomorrow is not promised, so there is no time like the present for an internal makeover. Be honest, be grateful, be loving and gentle toward yourself and one another. Let go of past hurts, enjoy the small blessings in each day, looking forward because as the saying goes, “The best is yet to come!” Remember ladies, no matter the age, every person is valuable and beautiful in God’s eyes, and he’s not done with us yet! 🎉

@NikolJohnson 4 ай бұрын

Wonderful thank you for sharing

@biggyziggy5777 4 ай бұрын

My Mum has always told me … “ Don’t worry what people think of you “ … because they don’t !! … they are to wrapped up in their lives to worry about you !! 😊

@user-qu6py9wf6i 4 ай бұрын

Thank you Nikol. It’s so good to hear this again, although you presented it in a fresh way. Sometimes when it’s hard to let go of the guilt from the past, I ask myself”what would life be like if I was WILLING to just imagine not wearing the guilt?” Being willing to imagine or to try is sometimes the baby step that helps me really do it. It can be quite freeing. There is joy too. Thanks again. Linda from California

@gayschaye4600 4 ай бұрын

Nikol, thank you! I love how you succinctly and kindly broke it down. I saw this right after a friend was talking about worrying less. He now says to himself “it’ll be ok, things work out for me” .. which plays into your positivity goals. Just thought I’d share since I’ve said it about a dozen times in one day 😂 Now when I say it I’ll picture your slide of your 3 Tips. Thanks again!!!!

@susanphend2189 4 ай бұрын

All three speak to me. Thanks so much for an excellent video, Nikol.

@kathygee6270 4 ай бұрын

I carry alot of coulda shoulda and woulda! Unfortunately, I relate to everything you said! And, Thank You for your encouraging words ....your beautiful outwardly and most of all inwardly, and it shows Through your face ,joy, contentment, and love . I found you by accident on the internet and I'm so glad I did. Please keep doing what you do best. Encouraging ,Inspiring , Teaching, and Loving others through your Beautiful Style and your Wonderful Words! 😊🤗

@caroleklopschinski9516 4 ай бұрын

Loved this video...I've just turned 77 and its interesting how we do change as we get older. Things that use to bother me or I felt pressured to do I've just let go of. I try to live each day for that day , because it could well be, and not judge or try to influence others. Keep up the good work Nikol! Aging is a blessing from God and we need to do it in the best way we can.

@aparajitasingh400 4 ай бұрын

So aptly described. Thank you.

@rhondamcloughlin3773 4 ай бұрын

Great content. As a retired woman of 61, my first few years were totally occupied by a volunteer position. I’ve moved on and need to really figure out me. Your messages resonated with my desire to start the process.

@lindascull6327 4 ай бұрын

We the elders and the crones need to teach by example and word these three beautiful tenants so that others can live Fuller lives longer❤❤❤❤❤Thank you Nikol I love and adore you🥰😢

@landear8 4 ай бұрын

Thank you . I’m adopting these truisms . The biggest one for me is that I have held back from what I truly wanted to do because of what others might think, which boils down to lack of self confidence and being true to myself. Btw I want your lipstick. Please tell me the brand and colour.

@sharon5026 4 ай бұрын

OMG! I hope you did not ever think you weren't smart enough! I admire you in every way. Such good advice in this video.

@raenolan842 4 ай бұрын

Thanks. The one that said you don’t have to please other people or worry about what others think about me. 🥰 please do more like these encouraging us that we don’t have to keep the standards of the past of how we looked when we were young. That’s what I struggle with and you have so many encouraging words so thank you!! 🙏🏻 ❤

@angela3063 4 ай бұрын

Good advice...I sometimes regret my past but at 65 I just need to forge ahead and be authentic to myself.

@jeniferprince7690 4 ай бұрын

I'm here for All that! It's time for me to show up for myself 🕊️💐😉

@BarbaraRomano-akatropicgal55 4 ай бұрын

Very good. Beauty starts internally and guilt, pain, sadness and anger will show and mask beauty. I'm glad you did this. ❤

@trishbech9082 4 ай бұрын

Yes! Well said Nikol! ❤ Ruminating is huge for me, and well all that you had mentioned has been an ongoing struggle for years! By the grace of God, I’m slowly figuring it all out in this new chapter of my life. It’s a whole mix of freedom for the first time, feeling scared of this new approach and pattern of thinking; however, it has this horizon of excitement that I’m walking towards. I’m anticipating what lies ahead for me more than what used to make me doubt or weigh me down! ❤

@rheaanderson3643 2 ай бұрын

I'm turning 60 soon and I'm about to turn up my life, and finally finish what I started. Love this channel and content. Thank You Nikol for Inspiration.

@PolishedAfterSixtyYvette 4 ай бұрын

Wow the weight of other people’s opinions. What a wonderful phrase to hang onto. Loved this video. Thanks for sharing these wisdoms.🙏🏻😊

@user-ju3yv7rg6h 4 ай бұрын

I keep wearing the guilt of my past haunt me. I am also very hard on myself and feel like I have to try to prove myself to everyone around me. I have got to get past this and live my life. I have a wonderful life and husband and I just have to learn from my past and appreciate the here and now. This is a much needed reminder for today. I love Nikol so much

@insationableurgetolearn 4 ай бұрын

Ty, Nikol. As a professional woman who turns 66 today, I needed this. Blessings to you for following your heart to make this video for me. ~Hilary

@Managamasplymiad 4 ай бұрын

I never expected this but these are so true and just what I needed to hear! Beauty starts from within. Since I started following you a few months ago, I noticed I don't focus as much on my flaws, but my strengths and what I can do.

@rebeccatrono3376 4 ай бұрын

Brilliant use of clickbait, Nicole, I so love this video! Thank you...truly beautiful advice, beautifully presented.

@Gaeliclass 4 ай бұрын

So, so true! I'm going through a stressful time and I keep ruminating that i should have done this or that and it doesn't help. Thanks for the reminder.

@serenitypeaceandcomfort3669 4 ай бұрын

"Internal Style". I like that.

@cathywarner9263 4 ай бұрын

I have friends who are always down on themselves for some reason. I am not perfect but I don’t worry about what people think of me. I do what I want, when I want. I like your videos that help women believe in their own worth.

@user-xf1fz6bt8j 4 ай бұрын

I am 67 and I have so much self confidence and I wear my clothes and that make me feel happy. I don’t care about someone else thinks. I have so much joy and happiness ❤

@mimzyc9949 4 ай бұрын

No longer caring what others think of me. When I retired I was finally able to do this. So freeing. This was such an empowering video. Thank you ❤

@elizabethsmith9777 Ай бұрын

Hi Nicol, I too am 65 and I now wear what's comfortable. I still get up each day do my hair and make up. Thank you for this.. I think we have all lived at one time wanting to be someone or something else rather than being true to yourself. We women all live looking for approval, now I don't. I have nothing to prove. I raised my daughter and she is now a fantastic mum of 4 boys whom I adore. She is happily married unfortunately my marriage did not last, which on reflection I am happy it didn't. I am more content and happy proving that you don't need a man to fulfill you. I don't care what people think about me, I am still happy and still have a kind heart, so Thank You.😊

@user-hy3bb8yf4z 4 ай бұрын

Nikol, thank you for sharing your goals. I use to worry about what everyone thought about me and then I realized the only person I had to impress was God. He wrote my name in the palm of His hand! So I am thankful for nature and raindrops, kisses from my dogs and a voice to sing. God has given everybody a special gift that we can use to further His kingdom. I am so thankful that I found a very special woman that has such a big heart for beauty in style and makeup. She works so very hard to bring us the best video’s, beauty products, and style. I hope you can slow down a bit and rest. I am enjoying just watching TV while I rest with my schnauzer in my lap. I am sixty-three. God isn’t finished with me yet on or off the couch. We all need to stop and smell those beautiful roses!

@lindaamburgey3211 4 ай бұрын

You are a beautiful person. I love your videos, your products, your wisdom on aging, and your soul. Btw. I am 71 years young.

@kellyrouse758 4 ай бұрын

All of these are so true. The guilt of the past is what affects so many of us. One I struggled with for years. But it is very liberating to just let go. It's good for the soul.

@laurielyons2284 4 ай бұрын

I am working on these too this year. I have started counseling and I told her that my goals are to stop living in the past and stop cutting myself down.

@linda7726 4 ай бұрын

Nikol…how often we forget the little things that matter! 😊 As I’ve gotten older, (in my early 70’s..its hard to type that number🫣, I realize that you have to start thinking about yourself and taking care of yourself. If you are waiting for someone else to do this, it won’t happen.

@mandiigraham1596 4 ай бұрын

Absolutely on point three. You’re at the short end of your life, how do you want to live it? Worrying about what people think of you. If they have a problem, “it is their problem” not yours. You what you want, when you want without the need for explanation to anyone. Family included. If you can’t change something don’t waste your life energy thinking about it. If I have an issue I address it calmly then let it go. If others can’t do the same, problem theirs. This applies to family as well. Sometimes they are he biggest life drainers.

@cb23501 4 ай бұрын

This is one of the best videos you've made, in my opinion. And you know what? I honestly think you can expand the target audience. The message you're speaking of in this video could benefit anyone of nearly any age. It's so very positive and I love, love, love how supportive you are with regard to all facets of health. Thank you so much for all of your messages, especially this one.

@kathyblake1275 4 ай бұрын

Lots of great advice. Do what you want to do and not caring about others opinions are two big ones. I retired five years ago primarily to help care for my mother in law who has since passed away. I’m kind of floundering for something to do for the first time in my life! Going to the gym and walking with a friend has been wonderful for my mental health!

@irismartinez5753 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for the reminders. I am trying to reinvent myself one more time and this is helpful.❤

@hilarycooper9831 4 ай бұрын

The past. Definitely hard to let go of but I’m working on it. Thank you for a great video ❤

@pattycake8272 4 ай бұрын

I was just telling myself the other day that I need to slow down, even when it comes to putting something away and not just messily putting it away. I need to slow down and every aspect of my life. thank you.

@sarahnazario843 4 ай бұрын

Thank u! Yesterday was a tough day of thoughts. Guilt, proving myself, and how do I slow down. I hit it right on the nose. I will save this in case it forget that I am happy the way I am. 😊

@mac2807 4 ай бұрын

Loved this! Such a good message with a clever spin on not wearing the baggage. :)

@beritlarsen9231 4 ай бұрын

Few years ago i said the same thing to my self l was working very hard to think differently and l think l am during very well ❤ l see me and l am shining from head to too❤ it is hard and it will take time to think in a positive way but it is so worth it ❤️ lot's of love from Sweden ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@kaygrove5281 4 ай бұрын

The weight of others opinions really hit me hard. I’ve been carrying that one around for 71 years. I’m going to work on dropping that weight this year. Thank you for making me realize what a heavy weight that is!

@cherylthompson4132 4 ай бұрын

The first one spoke to me the most. Thank you for this video. I needed to hear this.

@jamesolson7179 4 ай бұрын

I love how you get right to the point.

@christineibberson5959 4 ай бұрын

Amen, well said Nicole. 2024 is the year of 'be free, be me'. All three resonated with me.

@marie-linechislett9151 4 ай бұрын

I can resonate with all 3! I turn 60 this year and it took me many years to work on these issues. Such a wonderful feeling of freedom when you let these issues fall by the wayside. Love your video 🌟

@marilyncrowell7960 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing this inspiring video! I think we can all relate to these internal “styling” tips, but I think number three spoke to me the most. As a retired 67 year old, it seems that the opinions of others don’t weigh on me like they used to. I’m comfortable with who I am, and try to live each day with humility and kindness. It’s taken a long journey to get to this place, and I can still have not so great days. I try to embrace each day as a gift from God, and see what He has in store for me! Thank you, Nikol for helping us to stay positive with our lives!

@MicheleRovillo-pe4hj 4 ай бұрын

THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART. I NEEDED THAT!!! I ALSO SHARED THIS WITH ALL OF MY GF'S. U R MY GURU AND HERO! I AM 60YRS OLD And I bought myself a GOOD BEAUTIFUL BELT thatUpgraded my wardrobe instantly after watching one of your Videos! ALSO TY for showing me and the world just how much effort and time and energy it takes to get your hair to look as BEAUTIFUL as it does. THAT Video was an eye opener and now I spend 3x's as much time as I used to on my hair and I'm looking Better! Nicole,May the Sun Shine on your Beauty and continue to keep you Radiant!! We NEED YOU! luv, Shellee

@lynngregory393 3 ай бұрын

Thank you. Thank you. I m letting the past go. I m 70 and I have more to give. I don’t want the past to keep me down.

@JoAnnGu 4 ай бұрын

THANKYOU NIKOL I needed to hear this today. You are so right . Thank you .

@loriburklund9764 4 ай бұрын

The guilt of the past really resonated with me. I think of it more like regrets. Definitely need to work on that one. Thank you Nikol, I needed to hear this!

@netamorton4832 4 ай бұрын

I really needed to hear this today! Thank you so much Nikol!❤️

@KimKorecki-br6ju 4 ай бұрын

You are so completely correct. you have hit so spot on Thank You . Hmmmmm amazing how I have paid to much money to not even have someone bring these ideas up and here you go giving the best news I could have possibly imagined for free ❤️❤️ Thank you again for your words 😊

@rosabanks4978 4 ай бұрын

Yes! I agree 100%. Now, here's to the daily implementation of your words of Wisdom. Thanks Nikol! ❤

@melissatravels2023 4 ай бұрын

Yes to all of these!! I used to care what others thought to the point of escalating my anxiety. It’s gotten better through the years but I can definitely do better!

@kimberlybroomell1744 4 ай бұрын

Thank you, this was some good tips to go forward and put things in prospective

@marilainefontenot8220 4 ай бұрын

Guilt of the past made me tear up. I'm so bad at wearing what could have been, what I did wrong and who I may have hurt unintentionally. I have a wonderful life and I need to remember that and cherish the here and now. Loved the chat.

@lyndakoepnick953 4 ай бұрын

Love this! When you love yourself or when your in love, you glow. It is so amazing, because it is coming from feeling genuinely content. For me the thing that resonated the most is forgetting about the past. Live, Love, Laugh!

@genietillery878 4 ай бұрын

Gosh I needed to hear this. I copied this video and am going to send it to my sister. I think so many women need to hear this. I think what spoke to me the most for number 1, guilt from the past. I made so many mistakes in my life, starting from my teen years on and there are certain things I can seem to shake off. It's so ridiculous, and a total waste of time. Your right Nikol.

@charlotteberkham9810 4 ай бұрын

Perfect timing to hear this guidance TODAY. The guilt of my past...a harmful cycle.

@louisechristie7100 3 ай бұрын

0:55 . Morning. I agree, shake all the nonsense off. I shook all that stuff off when I hit 40...it was such a relief. Since then I've lived my life my way & only care if my mum or best mates think I'm off the mark!😂❤. I am happy inside & out! My No1. You do not need anyone's approval but your own! Happy Sunday all. The sun is shining so going to Tatton for a route march!! Lx

@evahamrick4197 4 ай бұрын

Excellent video. 'Stop wearing the guilt of the past'. A heavy load for many of us. But, all we have is today and shouldn't waste it on 'what could have been'. A battle I've been struggling with myself about a relationship from 50 yr ago. Crazy! Moving on.

@buyunostore 4 ай бұрын

This is why I'm a big fan you get into the root of things. Great advice. I'm at the point where I'm living in the moment. The past is the past. All lessons. No need for external approval. from others. Self validation is where its at. and yes work life balance is important too. Keep up the spiritual wisdom Nikol I'm always here for it. Love & Light

@MeredithHenning 4 ай бұрын

All good points!! Life is definitely what you make it, I have survived breast cancer and know that everyday is a gift!! Love your positive vibe and style, TFS xoxo

@molliemae5555 4 ай бұрын

Omg I’ve always just watched her shorts. I love her voice! ❤

@user-ts4nz4dh7u 4 ай бұрын

This is not what I expected but absolutely needed! Thank you for your continued positivity and reminder that our strength and beauty are from the inside❤

@abarbaradorsey3713 4 ай бұрын

Patricia, same, my grandma was born in the 1800s. It was all about reputation in the new world back then. Our parents guarded and protected us. I guess today we should relate to image building opportunities, our society has allowed us freedom and it’s up to us to make that work! Go for it.

@sherbear7317 4 ай бұрын

I love this! I really needed to hear this today, and your timing is perfect. Thank you for lifting all of us up and being a thought catalyst ❤️

@sussannekeith5676 4 ай бұрын

I have been wearing the “ guilt of the past for years”…. It’s aging me. Great video Nicole ❤

@stephanieevans4519 4 ай бұрын

This is wise and fantastic advice! Not carrying the weight of other people's expectations really spoke to me. Thank you so much Nikol🙏💝

@lynnb1941 4 ай бұрын

Wow, thank you so much for this video. What you said is so very important to take away. Before lockdown I was in a very stressful job, that was making me ill, but i was terrified to stop. Lockdown made me realise that I could have a gearshift, redefine who I was, reacquaint with myself. I now work in a far less stressful environment, earning enough to help put my 2 children through college with the occasional small treat too. I care more about myself, my darling family, my time and my impact on those around me. I basically did what you are talking about in the video and I feel empowerment! Thank you for expressing these thoughts so eloquently ❤

@kathybest741 4 ай бұрын

YES!!! For much of my young time, we had a relative, an alcoholic, of my mother's who lived with us from time to time, and criticized us terribly for anything she could, even if it was a reach. Even now, some 45 years after she died, I'm still getting flashes of things that made no sense--because they didn't have anything to do with the situation at hand. I can see objectively how stupid they were, but will probably be working on dealing with it emotionally for a long time.

@luciareece4088 4 ай бұрын

I Definitely needed to hear this. They are principles that I need to apply to my life especially to stop wearing the weight of others opinions. Thank you for the positivity you give

@triciabyrne7761 4 ай бұрын

Love these, Nikol❣ You are so right. Thank you for putting these positive ideas out there. 💚💛🧡

@ISing2 4 ай бұрын

❤ so true. I can't tell you how much I needed this reminder ❤

@Bvirgo21 4 ай бұрын

YOU ARE AMAZING !!!! Thank you so well said!

@jasminestewart710 4 ай бұрын

Thank you! I needed to hear this this morning.

@dannmurray1199 4 ай бұрын

Bravo on the plot twist! 👏 Thank you for such encouraging positive points....not only are you smart, beautiful, stylish and classy, you are caring toward other women. Such a heart of gold...we love you Nikol! 😊❤