This is going to sound really weird but I love how human the both of you are. You are so relatable. I genuinely learn so much from you because you are not far removed from reality. Your conversations are not fluffy or superficial. I think I will be coming back to so many of these instalments in the future for wisdom. ✨
@dollymartina98532 жыл бұрын
So, true most youtubers are not relatable, they are the gems of KZfaq
@sexydiva76362 жыл бұрын
So apt👌
@godandglam96362 жыл бұрын
I SOOO AGREEE!!!!! I LOOOOVVVVEEE YOU MAKHS!!!!!
@pewalina34842 жыл бұрын
One thing about The Makhs. 1.they are going to be transparent. 2. They are going to talk about the most uncomfortable but NECESSARY topics.. love this about you❤❤❤
@sexydiva76362 жыл бұрын
One of the many reasons why I'm stucked on their channel.
@itsEQS2 жыл бұрын
I just love what Lerato is saying, when God withholds something from us - it's never to harm or hurt us. He always wants to give us the abundance when we are ready to receive and manage what He has entrusted us with. If we can be trusted with the little that we have, He can trust us with much more.
@luyandaduba74612 жыл бұрын
Amen ❤
@MMP_Productions2 жыл бұрын
This is what a relationship/marriage led by God looks and sounds like for me. Thank you for your wisdom guys. May God continue to increase you. ❤❤❤🔥🔥🙏🙏🙏🙏
@kundaikoti97012 жыл бұрын
The private school situation is real. My parents used to remind me time and again that we can all afford for you to be there but we cannot all afford the lifestyle that is expected there.
@zee_zondi2 жыл бұрын
Love this!
@swazi47692 жыл бұрын
So true
@crm56162 жыл бұрын
I loooooove this
@swazi47692 жыл бұрын
My husband and I made a choice in the type of lifestyle we want for ourselves and our future kids and the one thing we remain resolute with is to stay away from environments that will put pressure on us, be it family, schools, friends, church and the likes. We are human and we may find ourselves diverting from the goal, so being aware of our surroundings is also very crucial. Men hardly have the pressure that women feel. Eish we have self inflicted pressure maan and I found myself loosing focus, until husband brought me back to my lane and the Holy Spirit. God worked on me shame and I'm happy now.
@nthabilu2 жыл бұрын
👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽
@gracehlatshwayo27892 жыл бұрын
I can relate🌷
@kundaikoti97012 жыл бұрын
Dear future spouse, the season of financial challenges could be a refining process for US. Keeping the end goal in mind will be key
@lelimomohlomi88612 жыл бұрын
Its Phetola always saying "I love what you saying" for me; imagine dishing out wisdom and your bae is outhere loving what you saying.........can I get married already!!! yall are good kannete
@modileshikoane81742 жыл бұрын
Small compliments actually go a long way, I also love those.... don't have to get a huge achievement to get a compliment, small gestures coumt
@Lee982 жыл бұрын
Like , I love them
@blessjoy2 жыл бұрын
He sold his car,I honestly think that is the most romantic thing ever. What a sacrifice hle!!!
@TheMakhs2 жыл бұрын
True, for a young 22 year old man, that’s huge. 🤗♥️
@Phiwokuhleqha2 жыл бұрын
Selling his car to pay for lobola was not a red flag hleng bathong 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@leratomatlala97162 жыл бұрын
And he loves cars we later found out, hai it is very romantic
@tidodlamini2 жыл бұрын
If These 2 Think Imma Listen To Them Speak For An Hour?! They're Right! 🤗🤍 Can't Wait For The Wisdom That'll Be Shared Here.
@VhugalaHaweM2 жыл бұрын
I cant believe Mrs Makhs got retrenched and in the midst of it all she started pouring out so much of herself on Yoitube . Talk about finding purpose in the storm. if you may Mrs Makhs , may you kindly share that journey with us. ♥️
@VhugalaHaweM2 жыл бұрын
"we dont depend on jobs / projects and careers for provision/ sustainability. we believe that God is the provider,God gives us sustainability. God gives us the wisdom to create wealth"
@eunicetsebe56272 жыл бұрын
🙏 amen
@sarahletsoalo96682 жыл бұрын
Indeed, amen 🙌🏾
@seithatintumelangsetswanap26392 жыл бұрын
This statement restored my faith 💕😇
@meesheeli91072 жыл бұрын
These people are just so warm and it's heart melting😣❤.
@StitchedandStyledbyZo2 жыл бұрын
"I am allowed to live a different life" ❤
@tebohomosuoe-tsietsi5962 жыл бұрын
This conversation is so deep guys. I just saw the stats from the WHO, which show that SA is in the top two countries with the highest suicide rate, and men are the most affected. The idea that men should be providers is so outdated and is quite frankly a false presentation of our world today. We need to normalise the role of women as co-providers, and not shame men or put pressure on them when they are unable to provide, temporarily. Unemployment is the reality of both men and women. Your conversations are thought-provoking. Edit (I comment as I listen 🤣)...you guys are spot-on, on being aligned, and managing your desires.
@peacenation93382 жыл бұрын
I was about to comment on the suicide stats and saw yours instead. As a man, I can tell you that it is SOO REAL!!! Worse part, we are 'supposed' to be strong and not talk about it lest we are seen as weaklings. Growing up I never understood why seemingly healthy men in my community committed suicide. I foolishly use to judge them but now I have a sober understanding of what some them went through. Losing your ability to provide and have the person you love walk out on you as a result is really traumatic.
@peacenation93382 жыл бұрын
I often find love leaves the chat once the man is broke, regardless of how great a partner they are. The fact that your wife stayed with you speaks highly of her character. That's rare today, especially amongst young middle class black couples. You guys are blessed beyond measure and will reap the rewards of your sacrifices. Thank you for sharing your honest truth.
@tlalylemeke72402 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your vulnerability in sharing your life experiences 🥺❤
@khanyisandyoko9632 жыл бұрын
I'm so encouraged about your testimony. I'm in that season where I my faith is being streched, lost my job due to Pandemic and business is going so slow at the moment. But I'm okay because God is in control and there is a purpose from my story. I like your saying "Its okay to start afresh"
@kokimothoagae95332 жыл бұрын
25 minutes in this it got me so emotional 😭 and reminded me of my journey
@busisiwemzizi15092 жыл бұрын
Oh wow God has intended for me to hear this really. I am currently going through a start, I had to go back home and start over without a job and yesterday was one of those days, my heart was heavy listening to this podcast gave me courage and renewed my strength. Love u guys so much, I always relate to your topics even though I'm not married as yet. *side notes* Pheto's rapping skill is on another level, love the new look and feel. God bless u❤️❤️❤️
@Miss_Zimm2 жыл бұрын
trust me god is with you, trust the process.. whatever you do dont give up! you will get back on your feet aagain. life is a rollercoaster
@karabonkadimeng95762 жыл бұрын
I'm actually emotional watching this....you guys have no idea what you just did for my marriage....Thank you😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️🥰
@asekhohanabe2 жыл бұрын
I don’t think I’ve came across such a vulnerable, relatable & authentic couple on KZfaq before. I love all these uncomfortable conversations that most couples sweep under the rug. I’m learning so much, please don’t ever stop learning us
@Lee982 жыл бұрын
And these are eyy. I wanna be like them when I grow up.
@ntombimohapi17222 жыл бұрын
You're doing so well guys. Love this for you ❤
@TheMakhs2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much fam♥️♥️
@Nolthandosedibe2 жыл бұрын
Being in a season where my husband and myself are faced with having to restart, this hit hard. God bless you guys, wonderful work you are doing ❤️❤️❤️
@leratomatlala97162 жыл бұрын
Phetola can you please share your corporate/entrepreneurship story. I relate to the confused 30 something year old ....you touched on.
@kundaikoti97012 жыл бұрын
I am here, utilizing my lunch hour wisely
@ladykay40232 жыл бұрын
My wife is my flex 🙆🏼♀️🙆🏼♀️🙆🏼♀️ijooo modimo send us such people AMEN
@keneiloemyoli2 жыл бұрын
The sound is definitely better.. Thank you... I didn't want to comment on it on the other video.
@TheMakhs2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 🎉🎉🎉 we’re only getting better♥️🤗♥️
@andybizzle43762 жыл бұрын
❤
@estherkimaru32612 жыл бұрын
Appreciate the translation 😂 Much love from Kenya
@africankenyan60892 жыл бұрын
🇰🇪❤️
@gracekabucho2 жыл бұрын
Yes...🇰🇪🇰🇪
@mwihakitabitha52552 жыл бұрын
🇰🇪🇰🇪
@kokimothoagae95332 жыл бұрын
Honestly how I wish there was a voice recorder when you want to comment this instalment was just everything it was emotional 😭,it was giving hope, it was encouraging, it was motivating its was everything thank you guys for the great content, thank you , may God richly bless you and your territory ❤️
@La__simonne2 жыл бұрын
You guys are bearing fruit and its so beautiful to watch. In the future, can you please bring some single people and have conversation. I think that would also be nice for us single christian people. Thank you. Lots of love
@MartinVirgo-kz5wm4 ай бұрын
I'm a 28 year old single guy and I am so happy I have found this channel ❤ I literally cry everytime I watch your videos😭 I am learning a lot from you guys for the present preparing for the future .💕
@siyamamkelanompula-msomi16162 жыл бұрын
This installment was such an eye opener for me especially the part on starting over
@dancinginthepurplereign41262 жыл бұрын
Same
@Phiwokuhleqha2 жыл бұрын
Dear Pheto Please continue with your vernac. Love and sincerely, Y’all’s fan 🤎
@nothandomkhonta78992 жыл бұрын
Love love hearing her speak venarc....her sense of humour👌👌👌
@nothandomkhonta78992 жыл бұрын
Love love hearing her speak venarc....her sense of humour👌👌👌
@sinothandosirunu2 жыл бұрын
Looking forward to the wedding cost topic💃
@keithdube30812 жыл бұрын
I can relate, that was the best period to reflect your manhood. Must have been hard, it's even still hard to hear but, we can only connect the dots going backwards. Big up mans 💪...
@vuyokazimaselana87602 жыл бұрын
This is so refreshing, this is so meaningful!! It is so great to see a young black couple talk about real life experiences that are not Instagram picture perfect. Conversations that remind us that not everything is instant, it’s all a process & the most powerful thing you kept saying is “It’s your story”. Thank you so much for this. May God continue to bless you for doing such important work.
@puseletsomolaaphene24322 жыл бұрын
Sound is perfect, well done fam. We're growing together 🥳👏🏽👏🏽🖤
@gbngcobo2 жыл бұрын
Oh wow, I keep saying that I love the couple's authenticity and honesty! I keep coming back to this channel because it just speaks life into relationships. You really do have a good thing going on here and I wish you nothing but all God's best!
@AnnstaciaK2 жыл бұрын
Hellllo dream team. Reporting from first comers
@TheMakhs2 жыл бұрын
Yaaaay!!! Thank you Kaptein♥️♥️
@nozukontsepe91262 жыл бұрын
The other day the Holy Spirit said to me: 'I don't raise cowards' I literally keep stumbling into that 'narrative'. God is such an incredible parent and I love how He sees us through. I can't emphasize enough how much I love yol❤️ all the best fam.
@RatoM.Official2 жыл бұрын
I'm running with this each time I face a moment of fear, "I don't raise cowards."
@MangyM.2 жыл бұрын
One thing about ous Pheto SHE WILL DRESS UP!!! ❤️❤️❤️😍🙌🙌❤️
@SimplyMassa2 жыл бұрын
All I'm going to say is as quick as people were to get on you about the sound in your last podcast, I want to be even quicker in saying you guys sound amazing this time around. Thank you for all that you guys do, and please never forget that you two are greatly appreciated :)
@veedunge81332 жыл бұрын
I really like this topic, so many people are going through it and not speaking about it
@mbalimusi65662 жыл бұрын
I love how relatable you guys are!. Thank you for pouring into my marriage ❤❣
@KhanyisileDlamini232 жыл бұрын
May God bless your union❤the fact that you guys have been through so much and are still together😭it can only be God
@marvelousnzitshe60392 жыл бұрын
If I could like this video 100 times 👌🏾, I relate to the story so much 😘.
@nolwazimkhwanazi8 ай бұрын
Every instalment feels so relatable.😢❤ Thank you for these ministries 🙏
@ntandolesaoana95962 жыл бұрын
This couple is so inspirational honestly ❤️🙌
@daisyduma19312 жыл бұрын
As someone who's going to be in the boat of marriage soon, I really appreciate your content and I wish I could just sit down with the 2 of you and just have a moment of learning from all this wisdom that is in you. If there's anyone who's grateful, it's definitely me 🤗👏🏽❤️
@bonolomekgoe89582 жыл бұрын
Same
@AbutiDee2 жыл бұрын
Mr Makhe sir, when wives were chosen, you woke up early. 👌 What a kind, supportive and wise wife. 🥺🙌
@mabotsechoshane2 жыл бұрын
One thing about the Makhs, they give transparency and honesty. I can imagine how much it takes to be vulnerable in front of strangers on the internet but we learn so much ❤️ God bless you guys, this is definitely your ministry and calling 🙏🏽
@Khosiedube2 жыл бұрын
Imina u-Number 1!!!!!💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾HELLO DREAM TEAM
@TheMakhs2 жыл бұрын
Yeeeesss!!!🤗🤗🤗♥️♥️♥️
@sebentilezanini10852 жыл бұрын
You two are bringing so much glory to God's plan for marriages...you're basically great evangelists for Godly marriages🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@Everybitofit2 жыл бұрын
Looking at Your wife…it always pushes me to take care of my self physically. She’s just a gorgeous woman.
@mojokombue44632 жыл бұрын
This was so good! I’m not married yet so I love gaining this knowledge early! God bless you both❤️
@peterntamu97232 жыл бұрын
Beautiful story even for those couples that are recently married, that we all start from somewhere and that small beginnings must never be despised. Thank you for being truthful, transpsrent and trustworthy.
@imbalenhle_k2 жыл бұрын
I felt Lerato when he said There’s no way I went through all this for nothing, I refuse! Omggggg! I loved this video so much. God bless you both and your family, thank you so much for sharing. You don’t understand how much this spoke to me
@brigettebond60882 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this topic it's almost like God drew me to put aside what I was doing and put the Makhs on. At this stage I'm going through financial struggles like you Phetola I'm bringing in the bacon but I always say there's a reason my hubby and myself is going through all of this. So thank you for the encouragement 💕
@johannajosia50802 жыл бұрын
Most inspiring and Spirit filled. Been amazing and loving every bit of every video. Somehow we think we are the only one going through stuff until someone else shares. Watched the interview with the parents yesterday and this video just seals the deal. 💃💃💃💯 Thank you again. Appreciate your transparency and ability to share plus be open about stuff. Revelations 12:11... And they overcame by the blood of the Lamb and the word of their testimony. Love from Namibia.💕
@ttsatsa5 ай бұрын
This man lives by faith and nothing will deter him from seeing the hand of God working upon his life.
@ntokozolwethu_2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this topic. As a young man whose about to be married I am glad I watched this. My biggest lesson here is ,it's Okay to start again. Big ups Mr Makhs for putting your ego aside and riding for your family.
@noxolomalgas80742 жыл бұрын
I appreciate how honest you both are in every conversation. Even when admitting the most difficult things!!❣️
@keamogetswemodise52082 жыл бұрын
Oh gosh I have this very fragile ego but God is working through me. This must've been hard for Lerato not bringing anything to the table. In fact for both of them, but we thank God for new provision!
@ntandomalindi89692 жыл бұрын
I was going to comment on what i think of the new setup but I realised that change is so uncomfortable that sometimes we don’t critique because the new thing isn’t better but just because change is uncomfortable. This new set up does really look great!
@EvNelDee2 жыл бұрын
Guys the installment please on wedding spending
@loribee8582 жыл бұрын
That part about handing the card to Lerato beforehand so he could pay really triggered me, PTSD! 😫😂 Did that with an ex, he wasn't a good guy like Lerato. Just a user.
@dimainspire9572 жыл бұрын
I love how relatable both of you are, I have watched a couple of podcasts but you guys are bringing something fresh, le dese thata. ❤
@makgabo21652 жыл бұрын
You know 🤔we are so blessed to have you. I was never a social media person but I found KZfaq and I found you what a blessing.you can see gore you were both raised in a respectful, humble and well mannered homes. Ke leboga batswadi ba lena.
@TlalaneL2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. Finances play such an integral part in a relationship- they either make it or break. It's not always the absence of money that brings issues, it's the lack of common vision/stance on finances that does. Transparency is key and it is important to share common values within a relationship. Even for a single person, the thoughts you share apply to my life. I've learned so much from you as a couple and as individuals. Happy 11th wedding anniversary and thank you for the great content.
@remoletilenakedi38352 жыл бұрын
May God keep you both & sustain you. .. you are noth a blessing mo sechabeng🙏🙏🙏🙏
@rhinahirina40382 жыл бұрын
With love from Kenya. Very relatable and super informative too. Will definitely share this with my sons, now in there twenties not to make the same mistakes we their parents made. Discussing finances and pulling in the same direction as a couple forms a strong bond and propels growth. So very grateful to the Makhs.
@ndungeuuyuni51172 жыл бұрын
I just love these guys....you are real and transparent
@GracefulGrowth2 жыл бұрын
HEY!THIS INSTALMENTS REALLY GAVE OUT CHILLS. SO TOUCHING AND I'M GLAD YOU GUYS DID THIS.
@GomolemoKobe2 жыл бұрын
Can we please talk about how clean they always looking!!!!!
@tiisetsokobo16742 жыл бұрын
Wow I love that you are sooo "people" but more importantly Gods people. Thank you guys i believe ths helped alot of couples.
@raychonmulungi75382 жыл бұрын
Always here for the wisdom and inspiration. Also looking forward to a shout out some day.😀. Much love from Ug.
@zasendlunkulumalimela49985 ай бұрын
The conversation every couple need to hear.
@stellankonyane2564 ай бұрын
Another awesome one L👌🏾💫🙏🏾🌹, sooo inspired🙏🏾
@talentlnsouthafrica73762 жыл бұрын
Phetola you are soo calm hle... I really really like you ❤ Hakoe is also calm like you I like you guys so so much
@KhanyiMsibi2 жыл бұрын
You definitely are relatable. Thank you for being transparent, I’m learning so much from your channel. God bless you and your family
@xoliledlamini53452 жыл бұрын
I love you guys and I’m addicted to your channel ♥️watching from Uk 🇬🇧
@wanda_za2 жыл бұрын
“It’s your story” love love this.
@pashukeni_2 жыл бұрын
I have never been this excited and just looking forward to The Makhs 🥺🙏🏾❤️
@lebogangbonoko84052 жыл бұрын
Gang Gang💃💃💃 We are here.
@TheMakhs2 жыл бұрын
Pakhade inside!♥️♥️
@raisibemoremi88182 жыл бұрын
Definition of real love , love u guys
@shireenvanwyk46342 жыл бұрын
This is the first time I'll be commenting but I've been watching alot of the installments and I love love love them..I just want to say thank you for speaking about things that everyone can relate to..I'm a 22 year old from Namibia and I can earnestly say that I've learned so much from the you guys..Keep being real and keep praising God❤🤞
@thandolwenkosin25502 жыл бұрын
Seeing this video today, was divine appointment. I'm officially a new subscriber. Thank you for this honest, insightful and powerful discussion. You guys are doing the Lord's work. That " take care of the now" is the gospel 🙌 Blessings
@monicanomvuyo2 жыл бұрын
🥺🥺😭😭😭guys I'm literally in tears, from good fellas (having to serve your peers) to Soweto (downgrading to live with family) I'm so humbled because those are such REAL struggles. You two are a blessing to us because you are showing us that we can come out on the other end alright. Love yall and thank you🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾so humbled❣
@thembisizani34352 жыл бұрын
Here from Buli’s channel and this conversation has been very eye opening
@Reeen4623 Жыл бұрын
Lerato on 44 minutes, you nailed it, this will help me a lot on taking my kids to private schools or not ?????? this pressures goes a long way , big up guys, I love the way your so real💢
@TeenTokwithPhophi2 жыл бұрын
Another amazing instalment from The Makhs, am not married yet but I learn so much from you guys and I am definitely taking the notes.... I felt like this relate with me. I do whatever it takes to show up for myself financially, and I don't live to impress people❤❤❤love it, love it,, love it🔥🔥🔥
@AthiniMemani2 жыл бұрын
Arg man yall are beautiful! You guys have hearts that are soo beautiful. So thankful that yall rise above all the time. 🙏🏼❤️Always my prayer after watching that God continues to help and bless yall in everything. 🤲🏾🥺❤️❤️❤️😍😍 Everything works together for the good 🤲🏾🤲🏾❤️❤️ I’ve also been an Au pair 😍☺️
@carolmbaliramutshila4332 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thank you guys for sharing openly. So much wisdom and it goes to show that God uses anything and everything to mold us and shape our character. It is beautiful to see you guys being so close when you have been tested so much. Remain grounded and beautiful as you are😇❤
@sashemiakelly43732 жыл бұрын
hello from Jamaica we are on the road to 50k isn't that beautiful. you guy are so inspirational and refreshing always a pleasure to watch i am never disappointed love you guys to the moon and black.
@AntonetteK12 жыл бұрын
You guys are amazing - so truthful and so real. I enjoy your content so much because of the truthfulness and your realness. You guys are so relatable, I love that you don't try to paint a perfect picture but the real picture. Thank you guys!
@zizibellewakenny66832 жыл бұрын
Haaay maaan you guys 😢😍your honesty and transparency 🔥❤
@TheWellnessAbbey2 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 this discussion was so edifying.
@mzikazim.95242 жыл бұрын
first time watching and wow😍
@pashukeni_2 жыл бұрын
Vulnerability is the only bridge to build connection. “Brene Brown” You guys are truly amazing. Thank God for your lives ❤️
@sincerelyano2 жыл бұрын
Grateful for your content. It's beautiful seeing a couple practice their spiritual talents and sharing them with the world. Your work is appreciated. May you grow