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The world is cruel. Both of them seem really sweet and I hope the one on the left learns that she is beautiful even if society is against her.

I like how the the popular girl tells the girl with the glasses to stand up for herself and validates her feelings and how the girl with glasses is so honest and able to admit to her past views that were wrong about popular people, it was such a cute interaction between 2 young ladies , the way they both got angry for each other when hearing the others struggles was so cute

I wish the translations captured more of the nuances!!! at 10:45 yunjin says something more along the lines of "but where are there other people as cool as you?" or "but your coolness is one of a kind" rather than just "I respect you" and at 10:47, instead of "you're brave, which is an aspect that is hard to achieve" she says "you have an aura that can't even be bought with money, truly". I know it may not seem like a big deal, but I want non-Koreans to understand just how intentional and specific she was with her compliments. There are a few other instances of translations that miss the mark, but I specifically wanted to highlight these because I feel like a lot of meaning was missed.

both spectrums have their issues but I only really noticed them when i at one point was on both sides. growing up “unattractive” and then becoming “attractive” while still in school really shows you the shift in people’s attitudes towards you. it’s insane

what sucks is that i'm not even ugly, nor pretty, just somewhere in the middle. not bullied, but also not treated very nicely, just ignored. as an introvert, it's so hard making friends because of it.

I was so impressed by the girl with glasses right after she started talking. Her tone, her words, and the way she describes her own life story is so calm and steady. She’s such an eloquent person and I deeply respect her mindset and attitude. Jiahn I want to tell you that you are a wonderful person and I believe you will become successful in anywhere. Wish you the best on your actress journey!

My heart breaks watching this because I could relate to Ji Ahn a lot. I was never bullied but always ignored. Guys won't even talk to me and girls think I'm not cool enough to hang out with them. I'm 24 and never made a friend and I realised(too late) that the people whom I thought were my 'friends'.. they were just taking advantage of me for their academics. And the worst part is that, my mother, sister and relatives were the ones who hurt me the most

A close friend of mine can be categorised as a popular girl. We're in university and she's very well known by juniors and seniors. Guys approach her a lot and girls always ask her for her beauty tips. And I assumed she never had any problems making friends until she opened up to me one day. About how some girls would call her a "pick me" and that's because guys would always ask her out, it fueled the anger of other girls even more. I was surprised when she voiced her concern because it seemed like everyone adores her. What I'm trying to say is that this world is harsh to everyone. For as long as you breathe, you will never be liked by everyone.

As someone who "glowed up", I've come to find it hard to make genuine platonic friends with guys and to not secretly question their motives sometimes. When I was younger, I didn't really care about who was looking at me because I felt fairly average looking and invisible, but now I can totally relate to Yujin's point about purposefully avoiding spaces with too many men. I thought I would love getting stared at a lot, but now it's just creepy and instantly triggers my fight or flight response.

as someone on the "pretty girl" spectrum i always found it so hard to make deep connections with people because i always felt they treated me nicely but weren't sincere about it, it felt very shallow specially knowing that my "girl friends" talked behind my back that i should use makeup in secret, that i was a pick me and snobbish, because the boys they liked confessed to me.. and I'm a lesbian so that part was extra hard for me. i tried so hard to not be very feminine despite being kind of delicate and fem looking, especially when i was younger, i tried to make boys hate me by turning them down coldly so my friends would like me, it never worked so i started going out more with "guy friends" but at some point they'd confess to me and i would turn them down and they'd never look at me or talk to me again. it always felt lonely, as if people only talked to me out of their own interest, not because they actually liked me. also i got so paranoid about proving myself, because people would always say things are easy for me and that i received a better treatment because im "pretty" so even if i did accomplish something or did anything cool they would belittle my accomplishments as "pretty privilege". anyway, if anyone reads this, i hope you reflect and know that at the end of the day we are all struggling in our own ways. so really just be kind and don't waste your energy with people that aren't worth it, do what would make u proud of yourself always!!

It's sad how Jiahn immediatly puts herself below Yujin. How she's happy to meet such a pretty girl, happy to receive a compliment from a pretty girl. I hope she can become someone who respects herself. Yujin does seem like a nice girl but I think she still doesn't really understand how lucky she is to have been born like that. How terrible is the human race to treat one person like an animal and another like a royal just based on their appearance. Especially Korea's society is honestly pitiful.

I would love to see a kdrama that has a bigger girl as the lead! Bigger girls are also beautiful and smart, full of personality! Having one as a lead and main character in a drama might take away the stigma of not being thin to be considered worthy in society.

It's sad because both of these people in these times, are both very heavily stereotyped. They both seem like such genuine and sweet people, and I hope that they're having a great time.

i love their interaction so much. i love how they are able to empathize with each other. theyre zo adorable 🥺

한국어로 된 댓글은 죄다 악플인 반면에 영어로 된 댓글은 응원댓글이라는게... 참 우리나라 사람들 ㅡㅡ

The experiences of popular and unpopular girls at school can vary significantly. Here are some general differences that may exist, although it's important to note that individual experiences can differ greatly: 1. Social interactions: Popular girls often have a larger social circle and may find it easier to make friends. They may receive more attention and positive feedback from peers, which can boost their self-esteem. Unpopular girls, on the other hand, may struggle with social interactions, finding it harder to fit in or make friends. They might face social isolation or bullying, which can have a negative impact on their self-confidence. 2. Peer acceptance: Popular girls generally receive more acceptance and validation from their peers, leading to a greater sense of belonging. They may be invited to social events, parties, or other gatherings, allowing them to participate in a wide range of activities. Unpopular girls, however, may feel excluded or left out, experiencing a sense of rejection or being marginalized by their peers. 3. Influence and leadership: Popular girls may have more influence within their social groups. Their opinions and choices might be more readily accepted and followed by others. They may also have opportunities to assume leadership positions, such as being elected as a class representative or involved in student organizations. Unpopular girls often have limited influence or recognition, which can make it harder for them to have their voices heard or make an impact. 4. Self-perception: Popular girls may develop a stronger sense of self-worth due to positive feedback and validation from others. They might feel more confident, attractive, and socially competent. Unpopular girls, on the other hand, may struggle with self-esteem issues and negative self-perception, often comparing themselves to their popular counterparts and feeling inadequate. 5. Academic performance: While popularity does not necessarily determine academic performance, popular girls might have more access to resources and support systems, as well as better connections with classmates and teachers, which can positively impact their education. Unpopular girls may face additional challenges in terms of academic motivation or lack of support, which could affect their performance. It's important to remember that these are general observations, and individual experiences can differ greatly within each group. Additionally, popularity can be subjective and may change over time as social dynamics evolve. Each person's experience is unique, and factors such as personality, interests, and personal circumstances also play a significant role in shaping their school experiences.

As someone who is apparently in the "not pretty" category and my friend being the popular girl, here's what I've noticed: Pretty people have a much easier time making friends. Even if she doesn't bother talking to them, they come everyday to talk to her. Whereas girls like me have to sacrifice a lot for friends to actually like them. Honestly people just use me for notes and academics. I've been openly commented upon by people calling me ugly to my face. And, people with actually good personalities are ignored and importance is given to the pretty girls. A lot of guys propose to her and they would come to me and talk about how she was perfect and incredible. The worst part is that I actually liked a few of them but they would talk like that. They would gift her flowers and chocolate boxes and even gold jewelry. She'd reject them, but accepts the gifts anyways. I try not to be jealous.. but it's not so easy.

In high school, I always belonged to the popular group because I was considered "pretty" or attractive enough to be part of it. I had the best grades in my class, but no one ever bullied me because of that. I made some great friendships, some of which I still have to this day. I was actively involved in the volleyball team and went out to parties quite often. However, I couldn't help but feel quite lonely when surrounded by people; regardless of them being my friends, I didn't share the same interests or topics with them. Despite being in the popular group, I was always more quiet and focused on my studies. I enjoyed reading a lot of fantasy books and playing video games (I have older siblings, and it was always my entertainment at home), but I hid that side of me to avoid seeming weird. In my physics class, there was a boy who was always picked on and alone; even the day I greeted him for the first time, he thought I was mocking him. Slowly, we became very good friends because I finally got to know someone who shared my interests. He introduced me to his group of friends from other schools and their gaming sessions. I remember those weekends as the best in my life. On Fridays, we would get together to play board games or go to a laser tag arena, and on Saturdays, I would go party with my other group of "popular" friends. A few years ago, he told me something that I still remember to this day. He said that without me, he might not have made it out of high school alive. He doesn't know that unintentionally, he also saved me and allowed me to be who I am without any shame. We are still best friends! If someone is reading this, please remember to be kind. We don't know what others are going through. Let go of your stereotypes because it gives you the opportunity to meet wonderful people

unpopular does not mean bad, popularity has many factors such as speaking in public or to foreigners, easy to get along with foreigners, can adjust attitude to the atmosphere of the environment, and many other things that make a person popular in the environment around him

High school was a very miserable time for me. I didn’t have many friends and for the few friends that I had, there were times in which we had conflicting schedules during school hours and so I would be by myself a lot. And ofc a few of them would talk badly about me behind my back. It was very easy for me to befriend male classmates but it came to a certain point in which I couldn’t be close to them either. Female classmates would slutshame me for talking to their crushes and they thought that I was stealing their crushes. So that caused even more isolation. One instance was when a female classmate took a picture of me sitting next to a male classmate and captioned it: “I feel so bad for him”. A few people who I thought were my friends laughed at it. On a positive note, a lot of people called her a bully and told her to take the post down. I ended up threatening to tell school administrators if she didn’t delete the post. She ended up apologizing and deleting the post but it still damaged me. I didn’t know what I did to offend her in the first place…I always complimented her on her outfit and makeup.

추천 영상으로 떠서 봤는데 두 사람 각각 너무 올곧게 자란... 좋은 애들이다...ㅜㅜ 내 학창시절은 이도저도 아닌 편이었어서 그다지 내 경험과 연관지어지는 건 아니지만 스펙트럼의 양극단에 있다고 할 수 있는 아이들이 외부적인 noise만 없으면 이렇게나 잘 맞을 수 있고, (주로 외모에 관한) 선입견 하에서 손쉽게 카테고리화되는 게 아니라 개개인으로서 주목받을 때 이렇게 반짝거리는 면모들을 드러낼 수 있다는 사실을 보여준다는 게 참 좋다

두 분 다 정말 성격이 좋으신 게 보여서 보기 좋네요... 어쩜 저리 말을 예쁘게 하고 예쁜 생각들을 가졌을까...

It feels nice that they both understood each other's struggles. Both are such sweet girls. I love how the girl on the left got so excited everytime the other girl complimented her. ❤

i also think it is important to note that beauty doesnt always mean popularity. there are some people who are very pretty but not popular because they dont know how to "act". It is honestly an art to get what you want out of a group of people. Moreover, I have a different experience with popularity. I am very popular with certain groups of people but ont with others. I think it is to do with language, interests and different academic backgrounds. Some of them respect me a lot and the others don't respect me at all!

I wish all popular kids could be like Yujin, she seems nice. Also, poor Jiahn

this is world, this is sociality, this is human. I love how they’re being comfortable each other

This channel can fix this title. The girl is not ugly, and they don't deserve to have her on this video if they can't respect her while she is taking her time for them.

very great to see from both ends of the spectrum. I personally think they seem both very kind people, they both are brave talking about such personal issues with such honesty. I find it honestly a bit sad when people only see a pretty person just as being someone pretty, like that would be their only character trait. not all people who don't fit in strict beauty norms are kind and not all pretty people are mean and silly. I wish both of them success and true friends

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so glad the title changed because I was so shocked when I got a notification from the channel and it called the other girl ugly. I just so happy that the girl learned to be open to herself and learned some self-love as well🥰🥰

It took me a good few years after high school to admit I was bullied. I was a shy quiet stereotypical Asian girl only at school. A place where I couldn’t be myself. A place where I was a major people pleaser that let people take advantage of my kindness. The boys woth call and whisper my name but they never replied when I answered. They just giggled. I told them to stop many times but they wouldn’t. One took a photo of me and sent it in the boys snapchat group or something and I felt so insecure and self conscious. I burst out in tears in the class after. I told one of the girls what happened and a counselor came and asked if I was being bullied. I refused to believe they were bullying me. Because I thought I trying my best to fit in so why would they choose me to bully? I never did anything to them or anyone. I just went my own way. It was not physical or verbal bullying So I just thought of it as teasing. I would feel like everyone was judging every move I made. When I would go home , I’d run to my room and cry. I had a 100% attendance record at school 😂 until I made so many excuses to skip school that final year. All the girl friends were fake and only came to me when they needed me. So I didn’t attend graduation and cut everyone off after I finished school. I don’t regret anything. Now I’m 23 and I realized I only need my few close friends in my life :) I’m done with pleasing everyone and I’m super selective about who I consider my friend! I finally prioritize myself and make boundaries. Im telling you boundaries is so important. Don’t let anyone disrespect your boundaries.

so eye opening.. their interaction was done very well and i’m glad this didn’t go wrong because execution is so important 😭 both very kind hearted souls

So nice to watch two amazing ladies that are very respectful to one another and truly interested in hearing each others stories 🥰 this taught me that popularity in school doesn’t really matter as much as people might think and there are struggles to both. Instead, focus on being a good person and being authentic to who you are. ❤

omg this is the coolest video i’ve seen this year 😭 i’m so happy that you embraced both sides.

I’m fat myself but my best friend is thin and pretty. I don’t mean regular pretty either I mean unfairly pretty. She has long blonde hair and blue eyes and a great facial structure, she could seriously be a model. I always wondered why she even kept me around. You know how girls get in a friendship but it’s secretly a competition? It was never like that with her, she never tried to make me feel bad because of my appearance. In fact she said she doesn’t know why I even think like that at all and that she loves me and she thinks god brought me to be friends with her and she doesn’t know what she’d do without me. I was a little shocked at this…but I felt the same. We’ve been best friends for 10 years now, she calls me her sister. I don’t live in the same place anymore, I moved far away but every month we call and talk and sometimes we even get a plane ticket to visit each other. It really doesn’t matter how you look, you can find a really amazing friend.

I agree that painful experiences really shape someone up, but I also believe no one deserve to get bullied or harrassed over anything.

I can't believe people asked Yujin's friend why she was hanging out with her if she didn't wear makeup and didn't get along with males. And that broke their friendship because she probably felt insecure. I can't believe how cruel this world can be. I told myself so many times that those kdrama stories where probably exaggerated and there couldn't exist people who make others suffer so badly. But I just wanted to make me believe that. I hope that, if anyone reads this, remind themselves that you don't have to stop being friends with someone bc someone tells you you're not good enough. So sad

I agree with Yujin, Jiahn managed to stay positive and cheerful despite of what happened to her, that is impressive.

For anyone struggling with not being popular in school. It gets better! It took me so so long to find a group of friends who actually understood me and included me in plans. I was unpopular and very unconfident in grade school and even into high school/college. But once I grew into myself and became more confident being just me, people liked me more and more. Younger me would not believe how older me could turn out

“ugly girl”… bye she’s not ugly

They both seem really nice and kind.

Damn she be living the k drama life, truth be told I match the society’s general beauty standards to a good extent but I’ve always been ignored, not taken seriously and just straight up disrespected. Last year I started to appreciate myself instead of seeking appreciation. Yah, I prefer jeans but atleast I can breathe in my clothing and move however I want. Now my grades are back to normal, I’ve been putting more effort into sports and life is feeling amazing.

10:23 I relate to her so much, mostly because of that specific part. I was never scared of sexual harassment because I didn’t really think about it too much, but ever since I was about 15 I’ve gotten harassed by not only strangers but also people I knew since I was little. I became really conscious about by environment ever since and I get super suspicious with adult men especially, where it reaches a point of some kind of paranoia. I’m really sorry for feeling like that towards random people who haven’t done anything to me but I can’t help it since it’s unfortunately become such a frequent part of my life.

im glad they met eachother, they seem like if they would easily be friends for life

I’ve been bullied and have experienced trauma from men too, so I could deeply relate to both of them. I’m glad they had such a lovely conversation and could connect with each other 💖 This makes me want to try to make more friends 😂

It was so nice that right away, Yujin immediately looked passed physical appearance and see someone for who they are on the inside. Both of them are beautiful. It’s sad that Jiahn is discriminated against. Beauty is beyond skin deep.

I can relate to both of them.. Until Middle School I used to have baby fat and wasn't considered that pretty and I was a nerd (still am).. Ppl used to not treat me nicely, especially the popular ones. They only came to me to either tease me or when they wanted something..But after I hit puberty my baby fat reduced, I started taking care of myself like skincare which I didnt do before and I started looking "pretty".. Ppl started treating me differently even though I hadnt changed much internally.. Thats when I understood Pretty privilege.. I changed schools in high school and started experiencing the stuff the girl on the right said.. I became popular, I got confessions for a lot of guys, girls wanted to be frnds with me... The same guys who teased me in middle school now wanted to "be frnds" and confessed to me.. I couldnt believe how drastic my experiences were.. I am in clg rn and it still sometimes difficult to process stuff like this..

i love how they’re just having such an honest conversation about their experiences

I understand the standards of “Beauty” for Korea. But she’s not even ugly…

I feel this. I was popular at school, had something traumatic happen outside of school then got bullied pretty badly at school/home so I’ve lived both sides of this. I’m not sure if bullying differs from where I live and Korea but from what I’ve seen in kdramas it’s very similar. I hope that both of them are happy and living their best lives

aww this conversation has my heart its so refreshing!!

I think both of you are beautiful and nice in your own way. I love how both of you cheer each other up even though you both are not friends or anything. I love these kinds of contents. I hate how people judge one by their appearance or size.

Ji Ahn, no matter what society calls you or how it sees you, the real ones will keep you and stay with you no matter what. And keep protecting your kind and gentle big heart. Yujin, it's not your fault if society expects a lot from you and if other people won't take you seriously just because you had a little bit of a better life than them. You are living the best you can and as humble as possible. Life is unfair. That's why it's fair for everyone. How you take it is always your choice. Don't let other people steal that power from you.

i sincerely think they are both beautiful and they seem so kind! i hope life goes well for them

This is an interesting interview. I can relate so much to both as I've been in both ends of the spectrum, growing up unpopular and the girl with the "four eyes" during high school to suddenly popular in college. Unfortunately I feel once a child is made to feel lesser than others among peers, their self confidence doesn't really recover even if they have a glow up. Even now I still feel like I'm not good enough for many things because of how my past experiences has shaped me 😕

Both are beautiful in their own way 😭❤️

i relate to Ji Ahn the most. i am someone who has been bullied all my life bc of how i look, when she told the story of how her teacher was telling her things it reminded me of something i went through. I am originally from Mexico but now live in the US and when i came to study as a young child my teacher prohibited anyone from talking to me. I was only in first grade and didn’t understand the language much so i only thought that ppl didn’t talk to me bc i was a different race. funny thing is that many people in my class spoke spanish but they didn’t want to get in trouble. I was only told about this when one of my classmates mom had come clean and apologized for not talking to me sooner. I have had a rougher school life i am still only very young but i have always been bullied bc of my image too. Guys don’t tend to talk to me bc i am not the best looking girl.

It’s so hard watching my younger siblings go through some teenage struggles and feeling hopeless in how I can help them. All we can do is tell our kids we love them and how wonderful they are not because of how they look, but simply because they’re themselves ❤

지안아! 고등학교 동창이야 요즘 여기저기에서 네 얼굴을 많이 볼 수 있어서 좋아 고등학교 생활 내내 밝은 모습만 보고 너의 리더십에 감탄하다 이 영상을 보니 생각보다 넌 우리가 모르는 아픔이 많았구나 그런 아픔이 있는 줄은 아예 모를 정도로 항상 분위기 잘 끌어올려주고 남들 잘 돕고 그랬다는 게 정말 대단하다 어린 나이인데도 그렇게 어른스러운 모습만을 보여줬다는 게 놀라워 개인적으로 연락하기엔 애매해서 댓글로 남기지만 언젠간 이 댓글 보고 네가 누군가에겐 정말 긍정적인 영향만을 미치는 좋은 존재라는 걸 알았음 해 이지안 배우 파이팅! 늘 응원할게

I relate to Ji ahn so much, I wasn't called out for being fat directly though but I knew that I was fat and I knew that others thought it too, I would worry about sitting next to others incase I took up too much space and made them feel squished on a bus or even during school assemblies and it doesn't help that I am very tall too. I feel like I take up so much space and its so uncomfortable for me and probably for the person I am sitting with, well its what I think. And a lot of the perfect looking people at school are always worrying that their friends or boy/girlfriends only like them for their looks while I am having to be funny to gain friends, without me being funny and disruptive all the time I would not have any friends, when I don't speak much or become quiet suddenly there's something wrong with me. I even ended my relationship with the only person I am certain I loved due to me being fat, I don't want to be with her because I am afraid she will judge me for it and I believe that she can do better than being with me. The teacher always asks me back in my middle school days to help with lifting the heavy things because I am fat she assumes I'm strong or when the skinnier girl is carrying something heavy people tell me I should do it. I think its unfair, why must I carry what she is holding just because I'm fat? she can do it herself. Is what I think to myself, I became so self conscious I never show my stomach and wear many layers so that my belly appears flat. I will begin losing weight though because I know its unhealthy and I want to feel comfortable in my own skin but I do think these actions and words will be stuck with me forever even if my weight is gone.

they’re both such beautiful people inside and out!

these girls are both so kind and understanding. i hope they become friends

Jiahn is the sweetest person ever!!! I hope to see way more of her on the channel!!! Hope she has lots of friends that love her from now on!! ❤❤❤

This is so refreshing to see. Because I'm the type of person that grew up constantly saying sorry for actions I can't control or something I know I don't need to be sorry for just existing. To see two worlds existing side by side together is like a new world where peace and happiness could possibly exist. I wish I had something like this and I honestly feel like the girl to the left feels a lot more better about herself. I wish them both nothing but the best

I loved both of them so much. They seem so sweet!❤

in high school i became friends with who i assumed was a popular girl, she always looked so cool and mysterious, everyone liked her because she was clever, extremely talented in school, and vert pretty (she still is one of the most beautiful women i have ever known), turns out she was incredibly shy and introverted and barely had any friends! i was so shocked! we bonded quickly and we have been friends for 6/7 years now. only recently i started to realise that because she is a beautiful woman, people expect her to behave a certain way and when she doesn't meet their expectations they tend to react badly, especially men. i started going to the gym with her so that she wasn't alone, she has been harassed numerous times before and she was scared to go back alone. people can be horrible. but i'm worse, touch my friend and i'll bite you.

jiahn seems like such an angel it’s crazy to me how she isn’t in a large social circle

as a person whos experienced both sides, its sooo weird knowing that there's no good in both sides. there's always going to be a negative experience huhu

aaaa i love how they talk to each other warmly through this opportunity🥹💖

I love how nice and civil they are to each other

좋은 영상이다ㅠㅠ외모로 인해 얼마나 험한 말들을 많이 하는지 똑같이 돌려줘야 기분나쁜거 아는 놈이 너무 많아

I was what you call a ‘background invisible character’ during my middle school and high school days. I never stood out, but I wasn’t shamed for the way I looked. Fortunately, I was never bullied during middle or high school and I consider myself extremely grateful for that. I find it ridiculous that I’m grateful because I shouldn’t be; it shouldn’t have come to the point where people should be feeling grateful for not being bullied, but it has. Although I do have a story that hurt me a lot back when I was 14, now I see it as a place to grow. Like I said, I wasn’t popular, but I wasn’t bullied. I had a friend group, but there was one girl who I would always hang out with along with another boy. The boy (we’ll call him D) had a crush on the girl (we’ll call her L). I knew this and she was aware too. She was pretty and I questioned multiple times why she was hanging around with me instead of hanging out with the multiple friend groups she had. I soon found out that I was being used as a ‘charity’ friend and she soon completely (and randomly) started ignoring me in favor of hanging out with a much popular girl in my class. D liked L, so as much as he would hang out with me, the minute she was in his presence, he would ditch me and hang out with her instead. Of course I had a friend group, but it wasn’t the same because one of the closest friends I had completely ignored me in favor of being popular. High school came around and I realized that being friends with someone shouldn’t feel like a chore or an obligation. If you enjoy their presence, hang out with them, if you don’t, then leave. But don’t leave without saying anything because it hurts, trust me. And if you’re going to be friends with someone, be truthful about it and don’t abandon them for popularity.

You both are so beautiful and brave for telling your truth! Your personality where both so kind and open!

they are both so beautiful!!

현실적인 차이는 존재할수밖에 없다 그럼에도 포기하지말고 노력해야지 냉정해도 별수없음 세상은 공평하지않다 다만 왼쪽 친구에게 행운을 더 빌어준다

I was in an "elevator" school system, where you automatically graduated from one school to another. The structure of it was such that two single-sex schools - one female, one male - would merge into a co-ed school. While I was in the girls' school, things were okay - I had a few good friends that I liked a lot and hung out with. I slept through most of my classes but did fairly well. When we graduated into the co-ed school, however, everything changed. I'm conventionally pretty thanks to braces and contact lenses, and I also happened to make friends with very popular people within the first few days of school. I ended up becoming very high-profile very fast, and it was incredibly stressful for me. Many of my female friends stopped hanging out with me because I spent time with guys, and I got increasingly desperate to retain their friendship, which drove them away even more. I quickly lost the guy friends I had attained because they would confess to me and I would reject them. This led to a ton of bad rumors about me, mostly about me being a bitch, a player, etc. I was incredibly stressed and felt like it was me versus the world. Ironically, when I slid into depression I stopped taking care of myself, stopped doing my hair, wore glasses again - and my new "frumpy" look gave me more anonymity than before and made my life so much easier. I'm no longer depressed and put effort into my appearance again, not for external validation but because investing the energy into myself gives me confidence. Even though looking "pretty" makes me high-profile as a result, I'm also indifferent to other people outside my close circle now: the people who stuck by me through my depression. I only have two close female friends now - they're both popular, but what's important is that they were there for me and have been nothing but genuine in their friendship.

These 2 beautiful ladies deserve the best.

I relate with Yujin at 10:21 that’s the reason why I always wear oversized clothes in public

저 덩치큰여자분이 마인드 갑인거 맞음... 대부분 덩치있는여자들 자격지심있고 자존심+히스테리 부리거나 남험담하기바쁨... 지보다 예쁘면 트집잡고. 저 왼쪽여자분같이 본인 외모 콤플렉스 장점으로 발현시키거나 콤플렉스상관없이 높은자존감 얻는 경우 꽤 드물어요. 그래서 그런 드문사람들이 대단한거고

this video proves that even people considered "pretty" can also be mistreated. both people were harassed in some way, and looks can be troubling to anyone

Hearing about other people's experiences is so interesting. I just love seeing how different we are from each other, yet that doesn't stop us from making connections :) growing up I was always in between popular and unpopular. I liked getting attention but I was always considered weird. Along the way, getting called weird as a child didn't affect me when I moved schools because all of us in the school were girls and got along. But now I go to a diverse co-ed school and there's a lot of clashing of different people, and I realized coming here that I was always "weird" my whole life (Which i think is totally fine) I like fashion trends but I dress differently from people in school, I like making jokes and talking to people but I'm also shy and anxious. Idk, I just think it's so nice to see where we stand in settings like this

The conversations that they talk abt r really nice and heartwarming I really want them to make a prodcast together I would love to hear one

Jiahn is such a beautiful human being

This video once again shows us to never judge a person by their appearance... whether skinny, fat, tall, short, "pretty", "ugly" - everyone has their own struggles and stories..

They're both gentle people. I would love to be there and converse with them.

In a society where adults and even teachers bully a child, you cannot prevent children or teenagers from bullying someone. In the end, You can't teach an old dog new tricks.

both are so pretty

"I envy you" "I respect you" : the most brutal interaction 💀

this kind of wholesome content>>>>>>>>>

i hope they can keep in touch and be close friends because it, they’re both so sweet

다 하나같이 사랑스럽고 그나이때만 볼수있는 귀여움이 묻어나는 사람들인데

It must be hard for Jiahn to keep that cuz she said she never told anyone before. She's so brave and so cool that finally can shares it with Yujin. I'm so proud of her❤

as someone who grew up unattractive to become stereotypically attractive now , my experiences with people as well as situations changed on a dramatic scale.....which is kinda upsetting. Earlier no one really took initiative to talk and even elders showed partiality in most of opportunities. The only way i coped is getting always 💯 in academics. Even if they neglected me in ways , i was quite known around for my academic achievements. And my friends, who liked me for me , still support and hang around me. But this situation changed the opposite in my college now. I'm now one of the popular girls who became famous for looks. People acknowledge me now. My presence makes an impact. In conversations, people listen till u finish, especially guys. Always someone looking at u whether a boy or girl....in a creepy way. Everyone approached me and wanted something from me.....like taking advantage of my popularity to hang around me so they get recognized....but not in the intention of being my friend. Boys are the worst....they enter as friends but after a few days or months....they confess.....when u reject....they spread really bad rumors about you. Girls always gossip about my sense of dressing and everything. The people i first thought r my friends talked behind my back. Till now, i haven't found a genuine friend in college to trust, although I'm always surrounded by people. The funny part is.....im the most introverted person u will ever find but i realized now i always have some company....even if i don't talk.....they make efforts to talk, which was not the case when i was younger....which is sad. Even professors notice me, especially male ones, and grade me higher, now n then try to engage in conversations with me......which is absolutely disgusting, but i get opposite reactions from female professors who subtlety bully me. If you ask me which is better......i would say both has its pros and cons......but personally for me when i was unattractive even though i was not noticed much ....i had a peaceful life with full of genuine people around to love me. This comment is purely based on my personal experience . I wasn't trying to hurt anyone with this information. I just want to tell people.... becoming pretty will not end all your life struggles .....everything has their own issues . And pretty girl are not always mean and most of the rumors about them wouldn't be true. And DON'T reply to this comment.

Both girls are absolutely beautiful, inside out

as someone whom people around me categorized as pretty, I also experienced the same concern as Yujin. I got SA-ed when I was young by older man and since then I can't really go outside by myself because every time I see older man that I don't know personally, I would be very afraid of the possibility that something like that could happen again to me. I wouldn't deny that this look privileged me in some ways and I'm grateful to be this way, but I just want to say that being "pretty" also comes with disadvantages. personally, I'm always afraid to voice this opinion because people would say something along the lines, "but at least you're pretty" or "just be grateful that you're pretty" and those words shaped my mindset into thinking that all of my achievement is possible because I'm pretty and I can't never be "less pretty" or else I would be reduced into nothing. I know this mindset is stupid but I can't help it. I found myself crying even when I looked fine because I was supposed to be "the pretty girl". I also can't say anything about my insecurities because people would tell me that I was fishing for compliments. I didn't mean anything like that. I was just sharing about my insecurities like when they told me theirs. (so why is it valid if it's theirs but mine is not?) I'm not trying to be ungrateful, really. I understand that it must be hard for them to go through such experiences so I always tried to emphatize and listen to their concerns. but why did I feel that being "pretty" stripped me of any right to have my own concern and insecurities? I want to be heard too. I truly didn't want to sound ungrateful, I'm sorry if anything I typed gave such impression. I didn't mean it like that. this opinion does not mean that I disregard people who had received the same treatment as Jiahn since I also loathe how people could be so cruel and discriminate people only by looks. me being grateful for privilege that I got also does not necessarily mean that I want the "pretty" to forever have this privilege. I don't mind losing this privilege if it means equality in how people would treat each other regardless of their looks. I hope there will be days when things like "the pretty" and "the not-pretty" would perish and people could live their life comfortably. I'm sorry if the words that I typed offended anyone and if it's too long (I'm too afraid to voice this offline lmao). please, always be happy whenever and wherever you are!

both the girls are soo sweet!!

This video is so amazing and such a great source of reflection ❤

Everyone is beautiful, but not everyone know how to appreciate every kind of beauty...

Love this video. I'm sure it was a huge eye opener for both. I love that they're both supporting each other while telling their own story. I think this is wonderful for people to see the other side of things. I hope they both succeed!