Pour Minds Episode 147 - It's Me or Your Mama Hun
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2 жыл бұрынHey y’all this episode we discuss overstepping boundaries with your friends, needy men and Oedipus complex, how to attract a woman and more!
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@Amberm1997 2 жыл бұрын
One thing Lex gone do is defend Big Papa. That’s her man and she gone stick beside him
@thekaylajay3316 2 жыл бұрын
Some parents are narcissist and they need their kids to depend on them. That’s why they had kids because they knew that would be the only unconditional love they would receive in the world.
@Nunofyabizzzzz 2 жыл бұрын
If I can share this everywhere I would!!
@iamashleyyvette 2 жыл бұрын
Whew!!!!!
@Frija_the_goddess 2 жыл бұрын
This right here!!!!!
@biancashane6804 2 жыл бұрын
You can't tell your friends everything that goes on in your relationship. Just because you forgive and forget doesn't mean they will.
@dejapalmer5982 2 жыл бұрын
Lex is not your friend & I hope you watch this. Lex: Oop 🙂 Drea - 👉🏾Tell him you not his friend Lex - sorry uh I’m not your friend. Period 🤣🤣💀
@loverofallthingsbeautiful2 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@shanj2009 2 жыл бұрын
It’s Drea smiling just bc for me. Y’all are so beautiful 😊😊🍷
@okaygworl 2 жыл бұрын
I would PAY to see a “For The Love of Drea Nicole” That shit would be HILARIOUS 😂
@imanijohnson4378 2 жыл бұрын
Zeus need to get on it!! 😂
@alexajay6896 2 жыл бұрын
Sisssss! Straight jokes! And all them niggas better some money 😂👏🏾
@amaridodds 2 жыл бұрын
Zeus !!!
@ChristinaGSJ 2 жыл бұрын
I wanna close friendship like Drea and Lex, they inspire me.
@imtheerealcoco6689 2 жыл бұрын
I say this every episode I watch! Their bond gets me every time 🥲❤️
@dejapalmer5982 2 жыл бұрын
The duet was beautiful! Give the girls their flowers. Dreaaaaaa sing that shit 🎤 it was giving what it needed to give.
@genesisrodriguez553 2 жыл бұрын
Yesss Drea what you was talking about is “emotional incest” it’s basically exactly what you said, when mothers specifically with their sons place the burden of being their emotional satisfaction or their own little personal need to feel wanted! It’s really not ok. 🙁
@mauricebrooks8502 2 жыл бұрын
30:00 Lex:" I don't want a man or need a man to take care of me. " Drea:😖😕🥺 LMAO. Had me dying. 🤣🤣
@ThatChickKim 2 жыл бұрын
Drea couldn't relate to that LOL!
@2008akir 2 жыл бұрын
Shhh y’all seen Tiffany haddish kept wearing that dress no problems i def wear a outfit a few times
@spokenminds0932 2 жыл бұрын
See ya'll they compliment each other. Lex is going to joke and make you laugh and Drea is going to make you learn what the F8ck an oedipus complex is LMAO... Bomb episode.
@Goldenxbih 2 жыл бұрын
Okayyyy😂😂😂
@kkswagg4833 2 жыл бұрын
Na Lex out the gate has me in tears talking about buying 14 more rompers and rocking the wig for 3 months 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@aleon3000 2 жыл бұрын
My mother taught me, and my siblings how to take care of ourselves. I was the oldest and she worked at night. Our dad's were not around. She taught me how to do the clothes, and how to fry a egg(litterally) then said now your can take care of your self. Don't need to depend on no one. Shit I was trying to cut grass and get a job when I was 13 to help out. She just had shitty choices in men. I told her to just be a lesbian for real.
@Izzy__123 2 жыл бұрын
"Whatchu doin" 😭😭😭😭 LEX P MAKES ME SO HAPPY LMFAO
@amberwatlington5642 2 жыл бұрын
"Conversations with substance" - yes Drea!!!!
@thuy 2 жыл бұрын
thank u for making my song “universe” bop of the week angels!!! ❤️🔥
@dejapalmer5982 2 жыл бұрын
Let’s do this on camera. I wanna read Lex “He just sent me my tweet, The Don you funny, you know he call me The Don, hehe” Drea :Hehe 😒
@chrissyyyx6535 2 жыл бұрын
Yeaa lex responses did not sit right with me 😫
@TreyGoose 2 жыл бұрын
@@chrissyyyx6535 I mean it was a harness text and a harmless response 🤣🤣🤣its obvious that nigga watch the podcast lol so u really gone get mad at her for that weak ass shit? I think that's kinda lame to trip on that 🤣they all use to be coo. But I agree he outta pocket for spilling tea to her like she wasn't finna tell Drea🤣he slow
@MoJones9919 2 жыл бұрын
It’s my date night and y’all posted just in time❤️ with a African BDB, channeling my inner Lex P. Wish him luck 🥴
@Goldenxbih 2 жыл бұрын
Ooooo is he nigerian?
@MoJones9919 2 жыл бұрын
@@Goldenxbih he’s from The Gambia 🇬🇲 very sweet man
@NikkiKNuvo 2 жыл бұрын
44:28 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I hollered. Lex goofy asf & Drea's face dropped so fast! 😩 I love yall 😭
@PrettyPFJ 2 жыл бұрын
Drea: ".....its not lit, your mama is not lit for that!" lmfaooooooo
@brittanidavis4877 2 жыл бұрын
When Lex channels her 32 yrs old wisdom 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️
@ruthj2359 2 жыл бұрын
The "O is fucking me up (Oedipus) "u just sitting there silent??!! "U dont want to be seen??!! Lex P is "tha don" 😂😂😂
@Wazzup25 10 ай бұрын
Listening to this episode recently really makes me emotional. You could see just how close she was with her mom.
@leanahagholson9345 2 жыл бұрын
Dem editors at 85 south media don’t believe in cutting nothing out drea sound like karlous when he b tellin joe ( i believe) to delete stuff and it still make da show (as a fan I love them for it) 😂😂
@moderngoddess3444 2 жыл бұрын
Mommas raise their daughters and love their sons!
@beautyfolse4249 2 жыл бұрын
This comment should be pinned!!! 🎯
@JenDontJudge 2 жыл бұрын
To anyone in a relationship don't ever call the side bitch! You are wasting your time because she/he cannot do shit for you. The loyalty is from your partner not her/him.
@dreababbie 2 жыл бұрын
I believe everything Drea said about Big Papa!!!!…sweatin with the three piece on holdin the hookah is wild!!!!
@losworld5779 2 жыл бұрын
Y’all make my Friday’s I swear 😂
@Lmao10752 Жыл бұрын
Lmaooo Lex said “you clocking me and Garfield” Lmfaooo
@ImaniRebecca 2 жыл бұрын
What I learned about people who finally “confess” something is that they no longer want to carry that weight of guilt and betrayal. Once they share what was done they are not putting that burden on you so it’s not so heavy on them anymore
@amberlovely2892 2 жыл бұрын
Lex be talking like damn can Drea finish her sentence lol
@JVSTMVLIK 2 жыл бұрын
Think Like A Mam was kinda an ok example of Oedipus complex but the movie Baby Boy is a perfect example.
@NayahJustina22 2 жыл бұрын
New to the pod and I have been binging! Super excited for every new episode ❤️❤️❤️
@stephcrow7755 2 жыл бұрын
it’s the harmonizing for me at the end of the episode 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@kkswagg4833 2 жыл бұрын
You ladies KILLED that duet🔥🔥🔥🔥ugh the talent is just amazing 💗
@Ojoindo 2 жыл бұрын
Drea this sultry makeup look is everything !😍
@Dejavon 3 ай бұрын
I love hearing the team in the background laughing hahahahaha they can’t hold it in that’s how you know they’re both hilarious
@nohickies5873 2 жыл бұрын
I hate when I wear a fresh ass outfit and not a lot of people see me in it so I plan to wear it again somewhere else but somebody I’m with end up takin pics of me and them and post it on they social media so I gotta go ahead and get my own pics and post on my social media because they jumped the gun 🤦🏿♂️
@Nunofyabizzzzz 2 жыл бұрын
Aww Drea is so happy. It’s so cute to see y’all smile so much
@nohickies5873 2 жыл бұрын
Dreaa right tho If I wear a new outfit I’m definitely taking a picture and posting it and I’m gone wear it again after that I’m just not gone take more pictures in that outfit…
@nellytheesthi3469 Жыл бұрын
I love y’all’s friendship.
@crystalrubbie9383 2 жыл бұрын
Congrats on lex on ya first channel 🔥🔥
@27breezybri 2 жыл бұрын
Listennnn. Y’all did that song okayyyy 👏🏾
@ispeakmindless 2 жыл бұрын
The duet was hitting 🔥 today.
@D_Thompson 2 жыл бұрын
Lex these nails are giving me lifeeee🥰y’all so pretty, I love it here and y’all dropping gems hun
@MimiGeezee 2 жыл бұрын
The song!!! That was beautiful!!!! Loved the duo ❤❤❤ Drea got vocals low key!!! Go headddd!!!!
@_Tree 2 жыл бұрын
There never a dull moment with these ladies 💯💯💯💯💯
@jasminelouis2757 2 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with Drea, cheating after 2 months?! I’m gone ✌🏽
@hempressdigital 2 жыл бұрын
yes Drea I can relate with washing clothes. my dad used to wash my clothes too. College gave me the opportunity to really learn how to cook and wash.
@marie.antoinettescatering 2 жыл бұрын
I recently went back and watched all the old episodes and ya’ll always did “The Bed” too 😂😂☺️☺️☺️
@dimplesqueen 2 жыл бұрын
One of my friends does that overstepping boundaries thing. I literally had to tell her to butt out of our friends relationship (she didn't) and it turned into her and her best friend not speaking for a minute. She's gotten better, but I wish she could get how unnecessary it is to step into people's relationships.
@dejapalmer5982 2 жыл бұрын
Happy Friday Pour Crew 🥂
@nizharnee1559 2 жыл бұрын
I agree! Literally my two closest friends have bfs & i dont even communicate or follow them unless i see them in passing!
@Nunofyabizzzzz 2 жыл бұрын
And Lex is such a good friend!
@DreamWorldRugz 2 жыл бұрын
this episode is top tier
@brittanidavis4877 2 жыл бұрын
Happy Friday Ladies 🍾🥂
@_alycial18 2 жыл бұрын
They sung tht song "we cant be friends" my favorite bop!!!
@HappyHealthyHair 2 жыл бұрын
They was giving Camera angles(during the song) Honnnnmnaay!🥰 A new favorite Episode for me
@desireb_ 2 жыл бұрын
Loveeeeeeee you guys. Draya had me dead impersonating Lex’s held in burp 😂😂😂.
@andreelaj2239 2 жыл бұрын
Missed yall😩
@ChristinaGSJ 2 жыл бұрын
Love the song. Deborah Cox did what needed to do👏🏾 Rent was due!
@oneshadowlove 2 жыл бұрын
That was the best duet I've watched since Jasmine Sullivan & Ari Lennox owwww proud fan
@desthebrat1313 2 жыл бұрын
1:10:15 it’s drea closing her eyes for me while Lex was giving a description 🤣
@amaria4241 2 жыл бұрын
21:13 - YES! I recently had a "friend" tiptoe into my business with a nigga. I was confiding in her about a post in his story and before I could even finish confiding, she had messaged him about it. I addressed that quickly like girl #1 do not start going back and forth with him, he's a cornball and #2 I got all my communications handled. I was already addressing it but her jumping into it rubbed me the wrong way.
@ty-kierafreeman5790 2 жыл бұрын
She sure did! Low down
@2008akir 2 жыл бұрын
I need y’all to do more duets
@brandonpitt5567 2 жыл бұрын
“Feeling Peachy”Kodak black my bop of the week 🌹🌹😘😘🍑🤲🏾
@shadthagod8033 2 жыл бұрын
Lex and Drea always beautiful
@GardenofVenus5 Жыл бұрын
Yall Didn't have to kill that song! 🔥
@leanahagholson9345 2 жыл бұрын
Come on Drea Cox 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 best song segment by far 😂😂
@Ariana-yv2cg 2 жыл бұрын
Highlight of my Friday’s ❤️
@thatsnitah3173 2 жыл бұрын
Hey ladies! Happy belated Lex 🥳
@BiancaColacin 2 жыл бұрын
yall are so pretty, love this episode.
@BeLikeNyaTV 2 жыл бұрын
Yasss I love the singing duo D&P 😍😍😚
@Kenyonnamcdaniel 2 жыл бұрын
The camera pans are giving 90’s R&B babyyyy!!!
@readyalways1414 2 жыл бұрын
You young women are definitely GORGEOUS
@beautyfolse4249 2 жыл бұрын
Lex facial expression @15:34 took me tf outtt🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@amberwatlington5642 2 жыл бұрын
Lmao! My mom did my laundry (and still does when I go home for an extended period of time) so I understand Drea being confused early in college 🤣🤣 When Lex brought up Steve Harvey 🤣🤣🤣. She had flashbacks of that dream. Hahahaha
@amandar8699 2 жыл бұрын
Same! I didn’t know how to wash clothes so my mom washed mine all freshmen year and my dad gave me an allowance 😩
@Lawrence_Femi_Ikenna_Odedina 2 жыл бұрын
@@amandar8699 you didn't know how to wash clothes?
@amandar8699 2 жыл бұрын
@@Lawrence_Femi_Ikenna_Odedina nope I didn’t know whether to use hot/cold water for what colors, etc. My mom always did the laundry 😩
@Lawrence_Femi_Ikenna_Odedina 2 жыл бұрын
@@amandar8699 lol I feel you bro. Reminds me of when I accidently washed my colors with bleach.😂😂
@JaneeBarbre 2 жыл бұрын
Lex... lmaoooo "Whatchu doing?" I am on the floor
@MonsieurNoir_ 2 жыл бұрын
I’m on the floor!!! 😅😂🤣😂 The Don- He gotta a little mouth piece on em. He know how to talk to me a lil bit Dreaaa- What is he sayin? The Don- WYD Dreaaa- I know you f*ckin lyin!! I’m Dead. ☠️😅🤣😂 Love y’all Queens!! Thanks for another 🔥 episode per usual. Until next week. Cheers!! 🥂
@indigo4961 2 жыл бұрын
Yessir I know did episode gon hit like everytime
@kelvineddington4794 2 жыл бұрын
Mane I love yal, that duet at the end tho.. Who's Drea vocal coach 🤣🤣🤣
@Frija_the_goddess 2 жыл бұрын
You a real one for this drea 🙌🙌🙌🙌❤❤❤❤
@serendipity1273 2 жыл бұрын
Been waiting all daaaaay
@barelybasic7730 2 жыл бұрын
I love these women!
@becomingtaija 2 жыл бұрын
NOT DORITO CRUMBS. Drea your funny af . Great episode PER usual. Love you ladiesssssss
@itsmelissa7752 11 ай бұрын
I love y’all 😂❤
@ohthatskeyah 2 жыл бұрын
another great episode 🤣❤️ ! y’all look Good’T
@Nasiera 2 жыл бұрын
This episode had me crying real tears dude😂😂😂😂 omg
@1sssifah10 2 жыл бұрын
My ex used to do this. But with him contacting my family. People who didn't know him or want to know him. 🤦🤦
@amandar8699 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with Drea. These are MY friends. I be having to tell my fiancé this cuz he think my friends is his friends 😒
@brittanysummerlin-azeez8439 2 жыл бұрын
I’m hollering at Drea talking about Big Papa “he be wearing dad hats and smoking hookah” 😂😂😭😭😭😭😂. #realtears
@deejames7031 2 жыл бұрын
Yalllll got me up in this parTment singing my a$$ OFF😂😂...yall did that! Great episode ladies.❤😂🎵
@tremayneslater3703 2 жыл бұрын
Drea was sangingggg damn
@zearlmanningjr1864 2 жыл бұрын
Loving the song
@CaribbeMa11 2 жыл бұрын
Dreya, your hair looks lovely.
@nikknakk24 2 жыл бұрын
ok hear me out...a pour minds dating show on Zeus. that would be really cute
@Diamondshiness 2 жыл бұрын
Bayyyybeeeeeyyyyyy lex is cutting tf up with them new nails 😂
@Chickadi12 2 жыл бұрын
I like you ladies! You remind of me and my bestie and the conversations we would have while sipping our drinks… Good times 🤸🏽♂️🍸 My guy said Lex P sound like Shuga from Next Friday 😆
@tierralangley3511 2 жыл бұрын
Lex I love you even more now we share the same name 😍 Drea is hilarious without even trying 😂 every time she say ‘you got me fucked up’ I get so tickled
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