1. Grow in your relationship with God. 2. Do your forgiveness work. 3. Reconcile your pain. 4. Complete your relationship with yourself. 5. Discipline yourself sexually. 6. Become familiar with your own future.

*Heal betrayal by being self-loyal. *Heal rejection by self acceptance. *Heal abandonment by self love. *Heal humiliation by self respect. *Heal injustice by forgiveness.

I really love the song

Most people are lost by the world 🌎 things

I have healed a lot and thought I was ready to open myself up to courtship but after listening to this, I’ve realized I have more healing to do in the area of forgiveness. Thank you Pastor

I ALWAYS get so much from your messages...I cry and thank God because I know I am getting so much better in understanding myself as it relates to relationships....realizing I've had too many "situationships". I am working on healing and understanding so much more about me and doing the work on me instead of wishing I had a husband. I always say I can't find anyone to date. But I guess God does not want that for me at this time. He wants me to concentrate and spend time with him! So I can be made whole and then he can send me my husband...even at the mature age of 64 yrs old. It's not too late 😊 Thank you RC Blake's for always bringing a powerful, heartfelt message.

Thats so true. People out here sleeping around like its the norm Thats why i stay in my bible. 63 years old

Hello Bishop, my name is Alex reaching out from Uganda. I justed to appreciate you for fathering us. I honour you and your lovely wife, Lisa, for responding to call of God to serve us in this way. I have learnt alot. I am not yet married and thanks to your mentorship, I am looking forward to it.

Pastor Blake u r leaving me speechless because u r hitting a homerun with me...I have been trying to fill a void for years and afterwards I was still empty on the inside..thank very much for this sermon

Bro you really be preaching every video. You drop so many nuggets and confirmations. I know these videos are geared towards women but as a straight man I can understand everything.

I was at work 6 days ago a clinic with my two female coworkers in the lunch room. I walked in and said my hips were tight and one girl said you really need to get laid and the other one suggested I buy a dill doe and tie my legs behind my bed post. It was so vulgar the words were emotionally violent and I had to report the incident. Most women I work with are immoral and having sex all over the place, with drug addicts and their all in toxic relationships. I asked God to help me find something else and to protect me from such a low vibration work place.

1 Grow Spiritually and be in a position that brings Glory to God Genesis "Ref" Adam relationship with God" *Get your relationship with God In Place Mathew 11_28 Proverbs 3, 5_6 2 Do your Forgiveness Work "You cannot be bitter n happy at the same time.." Mathew 5 , 23 -25 Hebrews 12 -1 3, Reconcile your Pain Proverbs 28-13 5 RULES OF HUMANITY *Betrayal *Rejection *Abandonment *Humiliations *Injustice Hebrews 12 ;15 4 Complete you relationship with your self Gen 2:7 5.Discipline your self Sexually 6. Become Familiar With your Own Future

HELLO FAMILY! Please share this for us tonight and please LIKE. Welcome 🙏🏽

When you pursue your future - your KING 👑 will pursue you. AMEN 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

Abstinence has become increasingly easier. By His grace, I don’t have soul ties. As a single lady, in this dating climate, the desire and temptation is nonexistent. I’m about building my relationship with God and focusing on self improvement. I’m not interested in dating right now. Unless it’s a solo date ☺️

Wow this is exactly what I was talking to God about this week🙏🏾 thank you Lord for yet another confirmation ❤

You can not be bitter and happy at the same time🗣️📣

45:30 Yes yes yes and yes! IF you are not disciplined sexually BEFORE marriage chances are you will NOT be disciplined sexually AFTER marriage. God gave us boundaries for sex for a reason, a good reason. It’s for our own PROTECTION. It’s not bondage……. No no no it’s actually FREEDOM.

He hit the nail on the head with this one. For those who come across this video, please have the ears to hear. Lay down your fleshly senses and open the heart of your Spirit. Sooo good. Most of us women, MISS this part or dont even know this is the missing piece.

Thank you 🙌for the information to the many single women looking for love, I truly believe that only a man can teach women about men 💪 just listening to your teaching us women how we should conduct ourselves as women and holding men accountable on how they should treat us as women and not to accept anything less than our value 💪 Using the example of your 27 year marriage to your wife Lisa is inspiring ❤️ I appreciate your hard work and dedication from a biblical point 🙌 Thankful to you and Lisa 🌹

This is going to be another great message from the Lord

Thank you so much for being here to share this with us. There is a timing as God wants. Today I told the man I was dating that I loved him but there is no room in my life for nonsense. He can keep sowing his oats. I will remember that God wants me to have someone not perfect but faithful.

Right on time❤

Absolutely FANTASTIC! All the most important foundations of relationship and life on the whole! I used to follow you in UK, now I live in Poland, I am good Catholic, but I still enjoy listening to you. God speaks through you and you speak so much truth, because you are a man of God! It shows that we all should be with God and only being with God makes us wise, good humans and guides us to live our lives in Truth. Let God bless you and the work you do.

I'm speechless! Bishop put it down! Real TRUTH! I'm praising God for the mindset to keep to Bishop's teachings. I don't have to feel convicted by this message! I'm engaged and my fiance and I are proud to be living celibate and holy! It's a good feeling to keep God first, honoring Him and our temples! Bless you Bishop and Lady Lisa! See you at the top!

Hello queens!

When you talked about some of us are trying to build a relationship with people to fill a void of God instead of building a relationship with God, it really hit me. I pray and read scripture. However, I have sought out the advice of people maybe more than I should have went to God first about my situations.

Hello from Iran. I found you couple of days ago. God bless you and your teachings. I am benefitting from your talks alot and learning about christianity at the same time! I am a practicing Muslim and love and respect all religions. I am in a l9ngdistance relationship going to meet him in person in a third country. He lives in Canada. Lot of stuff you talk about dating i needed to hear and i am happy it has the gods words toyour teachings as well. Thank you i can resonate with you 110 percent.

Felt blessed by this message. I can feel in my spirit and with product that I’ve grown and worked on myself fully. It took me 3 years to fully “love” myself and that showed me that everything takes time. “Self-concept”

This is so true! Being right with God gives us the discernment to see if a person is truly right for us or not. It gives us peace within ourselves even if we aren’t currently in a relationship. 😊

Thank you Bishop it was as usual a pleasure to listen to you from Africa. I am muslim yet a devoted Queen of yours. God bless you 💜💜

Again, right on time❤

I haven't listened to you for a while, so tonight the holy spirit said, listen to this message...MAN!! (with all due respect) this message was like a cool glass of water on a hot summer's day. Those pre-relationship goals hit like firey darts and landed like a jet out of the sky needing a gasoline refill. And I felt like I was on my therapist's couch.

I felt all 5 still during my separation to divorce. I’m fighting to heal and forgetting. It’s hard but I gotta let go to move on.

Omg Bishop smh…all the goals are for me but when you hit #5…that one hit different… I do enjoy sex and I tell God all the time now that I’m recently divorced that Lord you need to send me a husband bcuz I like to have sex…and I don’t want to be out here like that…I am actually going to recovery at my church tonight for this addiction…please keep me in prayer

I was always taught life will make you bitter or better, YOU CHOOSE. I wake up EVERYDAY and I praise and thank God for all my blessings. I have been thru a lot in this life but I’m at peace angry at no one and HAPPY, by God’s love and grace. I know you are a blessing to many, patiently teaching us a BETTER WAY to be, not of this world only in it. I thank you for this necessary ministry. And to all reading this comment, may God show and allow you to feel the GREATEST LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP IS with HIM 1St than ourselves. Stay Blessed

I can do it by myself, with God and his angels ❤

I enjoy this channel. I follow the Torah, and no longer identify as Christian. You are like a father mentor. 💙 May the almighty Elohim continue to bless your union.

I so agree and journaled it Bishop. For me, it means to be honest and own it. NO CONTACT, is important for me to protect my peace, keep focus, trun down the noise via covert actions and continue to self love. I want peace more than sex (I'm in no rush), money (I walk by faith) and have knowledge of healthy resources, choclates ( are all things outside of what matters) I am going to have a libarary to share Bishop. God thank you for this time with you, continue to search me Oh Lord.

Thank you so much Pastor you are really sowing spiritual healing amongst the female communities around the world. Most us fail in life completely because our fathers are absent and there is no-one to show us what we should be looking for in a life partner. Our mothers are not equipped to teach us how to conduct ourselves in relationships and life because they are also really spending their lives trying to figure it out. This pattern of being lost then continues from generation to generation. But having resources like you are providing available to us is really helping us to put things into perspective for ourselves and also aligning our lives so that we set a better example for our daughters. You are equipping us with the knowledge we need to make better life decisions and teach our daughters to do the same. Thus breaking this cycle of perversion and broken homes that woman have been leaving as an inheritance for their sons and daughters for so many generations, really because we didn't know any better. May God continue to bless your Ministry and your family for you are making an impact that will have a healing and life changing effect for generations to come.

God bless you Bishop Blakes. I just had to leave a message. This video is such a blessing. What a great spiritual work you're doing here and teaching that you're doing is profound. Practical and biblical. It is sorely needed and cuts right to the foundation of what people need. Thank you for your teaching. I have to like and share this content with so many of the young women who I encounter who need to hear this especially what you're saying about being happy and whole Please continue on and may God continue to bless you, be blessed.

Thank you for this beautiful word!! Praise Be❤

I’m currently reading: The Child in you by Stefanie Stahl it’s amazing for discovering hidden stuff and beginning the healing process

RC Blake’s boy do I wish I knew this growing up. You can be sure I share this with my 3 girls and my son!!!! Amen! You’ve saved ! ❤

Amen Bishop! Keep teaching the truth!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Yes yes yes!!! God is good!!!

Thank you again for all teaching! Love the analogy of the pair of shoes 🙌

Your first point has been my prayer for myself for the past few months and especially on today!! And for you to speak on it tonight is confirmation in itself!!! Thank you for this word!

5 Wounds of the soul Rejection Abandonment Humiliation Betrayal Injustice

So Refreshing and very special and grateful to God sharing truths .

Pastor (Lady Lisa) This was a another powerful production!!! Thank you!❤❤

Wow! How do you know who belongs in your life, if you don't know where you're going.

God bless you and keep you and your family! Thank you for this awesome message.

This is wisdom right here!!! Thank you Bishop🙏🏾

Thank you Bishop RC for this message 🙏🏾. It spoke volumes to my soul ❤. God bless you and your family.

Wonderful message! Thank you

Thank you - I can barely make it through the entirety of this message because you are dropping so many gems that I keep ‘rewinding’. Thank you🤓

Golden wisdom shared with love. Thank you for your guidance to queens as well as kings.

I have difficulty knowing the difference between red flags vs. triggers I have from past relationships. I believe I have forgiven, but then I come across someone who shows patterns of behavior that are similar to someone who has been proven to be deceptive and untrustworthy .

This’s so good! God bless you! Thank you for this message!🙏🏽❤

This, by far, is the absolute best relationship advise.

AMEN🙏 Thank you Pastor Blake’s for this video

Wonderful conversation - thank you so much

Thank you Pastor Blakes for this powerful teaching more grace and auction upon you 🙏🏽

Thank you for that awesome teaching Bishop Blakes!

This segment is gold.

I’m focusing on completing myself at this point and time in my life and Thank You for confirmation that I Am on the positive path!!!

I truly needed this in this season of my life. I am going to apply this message to my life. Thank you

Thank you for this teaching tonight! So good!

Thank you 🙏

Divine timing on this subject for me…God’s timing and Thank You for your Heaven sent sage advice Pastor Blakes❣️🙏🏽✨🙏🏽

I recently found your channel, and I love it. Thank you for sharing your wonderful wisdom. I appreciate you. It's been very helpful for my growth. Peace and Blessings to you and all the beautiful souls out there 🙏💙🩵🕊

Thank you for this awesome message, Pastor Blake's. This message is definitely anointed🙌🏽

❤ thank you Bishop Blakes for your raw truth. I needed to hear this.

Powerful power filled messages🙏🏾🙌🏾💛blessGod and all of us for the deliverance 💞🙏🏾✨🙌🏾

🗣️ OOOOOOOWEEEE this pop popped me all upside my HEAD...thank you thank you Pastor BLAKES🔥🔥

This was so rich, and God's timing is always perfect. Thank you.

Thank u Bishop RC for this powerfull teaching!

This whole message was well received. I am so thankful for the wisdom you provide us with. May God continue to bless you to do his work.🙏🏽

Thank you so much for this message. It is timely and valuable to me!

Thank you beautiful soul 🤍🕯️ faith move mountains 🏔️ love and light to you all 🙏

Thank you God bless you and Lisa

Thank you for this information. I can say that all of these 5 Goals I have been working on and has been truly blessed in all of my relationships. Thank you again and God bless you.

Thank you Bishop for your is rich wisdom!!

This is pure gold ❤

Such a powerful sermon ❤

Praise God Pastor Blakes...congratulations God is so Good ..

Has to be my favorite relationship coach!! The way you are unapologetic about the place of God in our lives is so inspiring, only because i already know that to be so true. Outside of God there is literally nothingness. So glad i bumped into your content.

Thanks for the wisdom.

I love you RC Blake’s Family! This video showed me I’m on the right track !! God bless you all

Thank you so much. May God continue to use you mightily. May God bless you exceedingly abundantly all the days of your life .

Your right God will give you everything need 🙏 in his time ❤❤

I had to give up dating for now. My relationship was interfering with my relationship with God Almighty. I gave it up, to focus on my relationships with God!

Thank you

This was an amazing teaching Pastor Blakes. I always look forward to Monday's night teaching. Thank you 🙏🏾❤🔥

Great message! This one spoke to me directly this evening! 💯🙌🏻🙌🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🥰

You have me shouting Bishop ! Praise God for using you

Thank you so much for this amazing lesson. I needed this message, it spoke directly to me. You have been so impactful and encouraging. I truly thank God for you. Bless you and Lisa⚜️

Saying hi from Colombia. Thanks all for your help and wisdom. May God you and your family good health and years full of blessings and helping others. Gracias!

THANK YOU JESUS CHRIST FOR THY WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT ! ❤🙏🏼😔

This is excellent. Such a great roadmap to doing my own self work. Thank you!!❤