5 Signs You Don't Love Yourself
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Күн бұрынHave you ever found it hard to take a step back and evaluate how much you love yourself? Here are a few markers to help determine if you may need to increase the self-love in your life:
If you struggle to love yourself and need some tips, watch this video: • How To Practice Self Love
Writer: Kristina Orrego
Script Editor: Morgan Franz
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Annie Wu
KZfaq Manager: Cindy Cheong
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@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
As the year is coming to end, what are you thinking about?
@ilovegunilsm 2 жыл бұрын
sleeping.
@kuniizuu 2 жыл бұрын
Idk..- Probally some love.
@stace3217 2 жыл бұрын
Spending time with my family and friends on the new year :’)
@your.l0cal._.sleepyhead449 2 жыл бұрын
I LOVE YOU VIDEOS
@sukunabiggestfan 2 жыл бұрын
Sleeping. Its literally 12 am
@tsucake 2 жыл бұрын
1. You feel bad when you take time for yourself 2. You keep falling for toxic people 3. You apologize for things even when you don’t need to 4. You beat yourself over your past failures and mistakes 5. You second guess yourself and struggle to trust your own intuition
@gamer22ftw 2 жыл бұрын
"4. You beat yourself over your past failures and mistakes" Your god damn right.
@Sky_Dragon_OwO 2 жыл бұрын
Oh, I really don't love myself. I never did.
@Minorin_Chan 2 жыл бұрын
I guess i don't love myself . Not some new news
@yourfavoritespartan8841 2 жыл бұрын
This hurts to hear, because my girlfriend has all of these behavioral traits, and as someone who completely and emphatically. I am afraid that this difference is separating us and it won't last much longer
@dishakaira1683 2 жыл бұрын
Had all these qualities. Hopefully past them now. And hope the same for everyone too❤️
@ranieldicardo 2 жыл бұрын
The fact I clicked so fast in the notification means something.
@bribri5716 2 жыл бұрын
this made me cry .-.
@zoldyck9117 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@TruBass82 2 жыл бұрын
That’s the 6th reason
@Rpic551 2 жыл бұрын
@cyika bruh wtf. This Channel is to help people
@deathlyhallows1206 2 жыл бұрын
Same lol
@D.M.S. 2 жыл бұрын
I always have to say to me "You need the time, you deserve it." "Your decision is good, commit to it. Even if it is not, at least you made one."
@CircumcisionIsChildAbuse 2 жыл бұрын
>stares at chalky heart candy< What is this feeling..WUV?! It both angers and infuriates me!!
@Deadcheese12 2 жыл бұрын
That second one, I feel is definitely crucial to helping yourself feel adequate and worthy (even though I believe we're all inherently worthy of all good things) and helps to build responsibility and practice accountability. It's helped me a lot to be mindful of this and just say "f*** it" and go with a decision (one I've thought of and considered, among others) and deal with the outcome as it may come.
@Natymxca 2 жыл бұрын
I think I have depression, and I do say sorry a lot and feel just bad at things like I'm a piece of shit at everything and I think its because of child trauma
@OperationIce 2 жыл бұрын
@@Natymxca I feel the same way I tend to say sorry a lot also. I also feel like people talk shit about me it’s a fear of mine sometimes it fears me so much I’ll ask a co worker of mine that i trust a lot if they ever hear anything rather than me probably just blowing it off and not caring what people think about me it’s a long process to get through. Especially since I’ve been going through a breakup for the past 4 months with a girl I was so ready to commit the rest of my life to when we were dating for about 9 1/2 months. It’s very damaging it hurts to just even talk about it.
@CircumcisionIsChildAbuse 2 жыл бұрын
@@Natymxca If the world was ending tomorrow, who would you go to or call first?
@kat-he2rj 2 жыл бұрын
1. You feel bad when you take time out for yourself 0:45 2. You keep falling for toxic people 1:30 3. You apologize for things even when you don't need to 2:15 4. You beat yourself up over past failures and mistakes 3:10 5. You second guess yourself and struggle to follow your own intuition 4:05
@noonegirl 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@c_dorado 2 жыл бұрын
I think there's another big sign of lack of self-love: "You don't take care of yourself": why aren't you taking proper care of your health, your nutrition, your emotional well-being? Love is an action. Let's take care of ourselves as we would take care of a loved one.
@scorpion9063 2 жыл бұрын
Eating problems, parents problems, low self esteem, etc My reasons for forgetting about myself
@perpetuallyfavored201 2 жыл бұрын
Aaaaaamen
@Jack-ny4vu 2 жыл бұрын
I’m having issues with personal hygiene and self care and it all feels too hard to shower wash my face brush my teeth and wear clean clothes
@ravenstillwaters5195 2 жыл бұрын
@@Jack-ny4vu Your so brave to Express and share this, your not alone I'm a therapist and know for certain that most of my clients struggle with this. You deserve to nurture yourself because you are worthy.
@lruisi01 2 жыл бұрын
Your Comment is Exactly what I'm questioning about myself. Thank posting your comment.
@emilie_doudou 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like she read in my mind. She exactly pointed out all my struggles and exactly said the words I need to hear. The one point which I really didn't realize is the way I feel so egoistic when I take care of myself. I feel like I should help someone else, or study and I'm just procrastinating... and sometimes, when I see myself in the mirror and I actually like my face, I'm like "no non, you're being selfish, stop always think about yourself and you don't actually look good anyways, you're just in a good mood today..."
@rosebudg 2 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@yolopolo8810 2 жыл бұрын
It be like that
@YusufSuryaGemilang 2 жыл бұрын
So damn true
@bettymoser4323 2 жыл бұрын
I so understand.
@stardust942 2 жыл бұрын
Literally me
@Broken024 2 жыл бұрын
"The whole reason we hate ourselves is because we can only see the parts we hate. I think it's only when someone says they love you, that's when you're able to start loving yourself, I think when someone accepts you, that's when you start feeling like you can forgive yourself a little and start to love yourself" Fruit Basket anime - Yuki Soma
@supermonk3y07 2 жыл бұрын
a lot of people go live their lives without ever being loved. Well unless you mean like your mom, dad, siblings, grandparents etc.
@MugwumptheGrand 2 жыл бұрын
I was going to say this isn't right, but I think it is upon further reflection. I had no self love when I left home, but when people praised me for doing an excellent job, being quick on my feet and staying strong when stuff happens, I started to realize that yes, I am actually a competent, strong and intelligent person. And it wouldn't have happened had others never said that to me. My self confidence took a massive boost and I was able to start healing from my past. Even if it isn't love, honest praise of others and yourself goes a long ways.
@iamavoidtrippergutterslush666 2 жыл бұрын
If your not happy with yourself, you'll never be happy....
@dial522 2 жыл бұрын
I hate when people complement me, I feel like they are mocking me, like they're playing games and I cannot find the clarity to believe it, I just go harder on myself after someone says good things about me
@supermonk3y07 2 жыл бұрын
@@dial522 are you a girl?
@GibranEscobell 2 жыл бұрын
*TIMESTAMPS comment to keep them up.* 0:45 = You feel bad when you take time out 1:30 = You keep falling for toxic people. 2:15 = You apologize for things even when you don't need to. 3:10 = You beat yourself up over past failures and mistakes. 4:01 = You second guess yourself and struggle to follow your own intuition. To the person reading this, the man sign that you do not love yourself "enough" is the story you keep telling yourself everyday as to why you are not good enough or under deserving, it does not matter who you are, you are a valuable person, the moment you change what you tell yourself every day, that is the moment you will begin to embrace a whole new person and life.
@Marwa-xg8ds 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the time stamps, But I might not love myself bc once in a football match I did something stupid and my teammates kept blaming me
@Marwa-xg8ds 2 жыл бұрын
And I keep hating myself for that lol
@GibranEscobell 2 жыл бұрын
@@Marwa-xg8ds It is normal to mess up sometimes, but that does not define you, your past mistakes should not define your future.
@minerxen 2 жыл бұрын
I have to second guess myself because my intuition is EXTREMELY sharp. Like I am always almost (tragic I know) correct.
@Bookwormtalksabout 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@dantepepper 2 жыл бұрын
Life is too short to waste your time on people who don’t respect, appreciate, and value you
@muhashevliw8111 2 жыл бұрын
Number 4 is the most real reason to make someone hate themselves , failures and past things you are not proud of .
@herexcellency4304 2 жыл бұрын
i struggled with self loathing my entire 22 years and I have no friends at all. so i wanted to make myself my own companion by learning how to love myself no matter what, and trust me it's the best thing I've achieved. loving yourself don't make your life sunshine and rainbows but it make it less heavy and more tolerable, that compassion you give yourself is what always keep you going. I know this is not easy but please learn how to love yourselves little by little cuz no one will love u more than yourself.
@ReflexShow 2 жыл бұрын
May I ask how? (:
@senfayy 2 жыл бұрын
I know someone who loves me more than i could ever love myself, so bro don't confuse people
@animechildofgod1580 2 жыл бұрын
It's okay to have no friends,but I can always be your friend,I know that you're A complete stranger,but you're still an amazing and beautiful person,I just know It!UwU!😋❤
@sixbren2158 2 жыл бұрын
Yep. I can understand the self-loathing part. I kept beating myself up because of my past mistakes, but eventually, I realized I had to try pushing myself hard to become a better person so that I don't make the same mistakes again. Deciding to pick myself up and push myself harder made me feel so much better :)
@theprotagonist926 2 жыл бұрын
22 years self loathing?Bruh.
@kbee8517 2 жыл бұрын
What sucks is that a lack of self-love can and often stems from an abusive childhood in which you either got blamed for things and were constantly guilt-tripped, or being held accountable for things outside of your control. Ofc it can come from many more examples, but nothing gets you to the lowest low of self-esteem than an abusive family.
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Understanding the narrative of our childhood is the first step to healing from it!
@reddragonlegacy 2 жыл бұрын
Definitely struggling with self-love. Always struggled with low self-esteem. Being the youngest and smallest of 5, introverted, HSP and growing up constantly being asked "why can't you be like your brothers?" or "So and So is doing this, why aren't you?" and questions like that can take their toll a bit
@CircumcisionIsChildAbuse 2 жыл бұрын
Have you managed to forgive them? Understand why they said it and that it might not have been intentionally aimed to hurt you? Even the most horrible human behavior becomes a tragedy if you uncover enough of the events that lead up to it.
@thunderblossom8114 2 жыл бұрын
Can be the same if you’re eldest. I have one sibling and know she’s the favorite. I have no resentment towards her
@Wittyx 2 жыл бұрын
Take it one day at a time. I hope you find comfort in knowing that you're not alone in how you feel. Your feelings are valid, and taking time to do things that bring you comfort is too.
@jdbruiser 2 жыл бұрын
If the people in your environment belittle you then you should get out of that situation. Perhaps you struggle with low-self esteem because the people you live and associate yourself with make you feel that way. You need to be around people who represent the best parts of who you are.
@pavanguru5174 2 жыл бұрын
This is hard!! You cannot be compared to other. You are different and that's great! In our society, we tend to valorise extroverted people because they seems to take action, but we dont see all the work an introverted is doing because its inside. We may not look like it, but introverted work a lot on themself because we are inside ourself if I can say so.
@ToniWellons 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve struggled with the fear of failure, low self esteem, lack of self love for years and still struggle today. Believing in myself and my abilities has been difficult because I constantly over analyze and second guess myself because I feel like anything I do is never good enough and that I should be much more. Being insecure is real 😔
@SC20_ 2 жыл бұрын
I feel you! I hope it gets better for both of us!
@AwesomeLaggy 2 жыл бұрын
I feel this🥺🥺🥺
@ciaratambongco8406 2 жыл бұрын
same..
@Tweetyresm 2 жыл бұрын
Same... imposter syndrome is a mf
@foxyloon 2 жыл бұрын
I've struggled with every point made in this video. It's taken a lot of work on my part, but I'm on the path of learning to love and be more accepting of myself. If there's anything to take away from my experience, is that perfectionism is a very unhealthy mindset to have. There's nothing wrong with striving for better, but it becomes detrimental when your inner critic is constantly picking apart every little thing you do or have done in the past.
@JRob594 2 жыл бұрын
My biggest problem is trying to live up to everybody's impossible expectations of me it seems like I can't do anything right no matter how hard I try
@warmthsplash3795 2 жыл бұрын
Your videos always help me when I’m going through problems . Love your videos, keep it up!
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
We're happy to help :) Did you relate to this video?
@MenacingVegito 2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go thanks for help I use to watch in 2020 but I 9 now my first video to watch this fake friend in your channel
@MenacingVegito 2 жыл бұрын
@@kathybarry2765 getting school to end this a hard time
@joban4963 2 жыл бұрын
I spent my whole childhood being told I was selfish while almost never actually getting my needs met. Got this sort of thing drilled into me
@yesha3306 2 жыл бұрын
As a person who is insecure this video help alot!. I've told myself I was going to lose weight, and I didn't I blame myself, for not being right for him. I will always punish myself for things I didn't do right. I don't do it often now ty for posting this❤
@Kyumifun 2 жыл бұрын
Keep trying then. It's better than punishing yourself over a failed promise.
@yesha3306 2 жыл бұрын
@@Kyumifun ty❤
@yesha3306 2 жыл бұрын
@@kathybarry2765 you are so sweet I can't 🥺❤
@saramariasdotter3681 2 жыл бұрын
@@kathybarry2765 Thanks for your advice You're not just sweet - you're damn right! ! ❤️🤗
@kimmiet.8962 2 жыл бұрын
Don’t say I will “always”. You need help saying things in past tense. Change your mindset. You need to be right for you no one else. We all have insecurities, but don’t relish in failures. Get a life and support coach. Keep watching these.
@loneyhearts 2 жыл бұрын
I am learning self-love. I know it has been problematic for me. I stopped bringing toxic people into my life, searching for good friends. Coming from a toxic environment of narcissistic people, I chose a different path. Life doesn't always teach you it's best lessons, but recognizing it and staying true to yourself helps you through it. We are the most loved people, we need to love ourselves. Spend time with yourself. Your best friend should be you.
@threekeysmusic 2 жыл бұрын
I’m slowly learning to love myself more. It is taking some time but I’m definitely trying!
@justmegumi34 2 жыл бұрын
If u’re having this problem just remember that u’re special and u’re important and most importantly u’re loved u shouldn’t hate urself and u should be proud of who u r don’t let others pull u down
@Kyumifun 2 жыл бұрын
I'm already at the point where comments like this do not work on me 💀
@justmegumi34 2 жыл бұрын
@@Kyumifun Well do u mind telling me why u hate urself?
@bettymoser4323 2 жыл бұрын
You are suppose to tell tell yourself that you are loved, but it feels good when someone tells you, even someone you don't know. Thank you The entire population of Australia.
@Kokkofish 2 жыл бұрын
@@Kyumifun lol same
@justmegumi34 2 жыл бұрын
@@bettymoser4323 Lol did u just thank an entire country
@ZeeS07 2 жыл бұрын
I can relate to all five of them I've realised it a while ago I used to think I'll never be good enough So now, I'm trying to understand myself, accepting the way I am and I've stopped trying to be perfect.
@downhomesunset 2 жыл бұрын
You are perfect because you are special. You don’t need to show your perfection to everyone. Just knowing you are will make you shine!
@meelsg 2 жыл бұрын
points made: 1. you feel bad when you take time out for yourself 2. you keep falling for toxic people 3. you apologise when you don’t need to 4. you beat yourself up over past mistakes 5. you second guess yourself and struggle to trust your own intuition
@dreamtoonfamily 2 жыл бұрын
Hey, you. whoever’s reading this, this is your sign. everything’s gonna be okay. you did not come this far to give up. I believe in you ❤️ Stay connected 🙏🙏🙏
@proudblink27 2 жыл бұрын
You can't stop me loving myself 💜 Love yourself!
@nixx4820 2 жыл бұрын
Tf happen in this reply section
@reeses_unicorn 2 жыл бұрын
I see you're an ARMY, too? :) ❤️
@nakshatramusic21 2 жыл бұрын
💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
@wwhjinssisteruknow2254 2 жыл бұрын
@@reeses_unicorn yeah army ✨
@raayla__ 2 жыл бұрын
Armys are everywhere💜🍻
@reaperX779 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Psych2go, I have been struggling with my SAD and I have to say this, your videos are helping me identify and get my thought patterns into the right track.
@BingoRazar 2 жыл бұрын
@cyika you guys are ruthless have some sympathy for this guy
@stardust942 2 жыл бұрын
I have SAD my whole life and i know how hard it is to live every single day with the suffering inside. I am glad you are getting in the right track. You are so strong and I wish you an amazing life:)
@downhomesunset 2 жыл бұрын
@@stardust942 it really sucks having SAD. Worse when you live where it’s -40 for a lot of the winter!
@stardust942 2 жыл бұрын
@@downhomesunset oh i am so sorry. It must be really hard for you. Please take care❤
@stupidbread 6 ай бұрын
empathy>>sympathy
@thechancellor- 2 жыл бұрын
To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, your dream is not dead. Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. You’re more than a conqueror. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤️. Find yourself.
@umayanganee4645 2 жыл бұрын
I think when I discovered the love yourself series is when I realised that I needed to start loving myself💜
@CircumcisionIsChildAbuse 2 жыл бұрын
Your comment reminded me of South Park. When butters asks his dad why he was having wet dreams, he said it was all his happy feelings lol
@HannahRainbow88 2 жыл бұрын
As a recovering perfectionist I can tell you that starting something imperfectly is always better than perfectly doing nothing. You have to learn to REFRAME situations as if advising/cheering on a friend. Eg hey that's great you've started a new project instead of saying what do you mean you haven't completed this perfectly yet? ... Hope that's helpful :)
@Ibukisenpai 2 жыл бұрын
I like this a lot, thanks Hannah, I would like to add the expectation level we put on us while doing something on the first place, that paralyzed the s***t out of me. Setting high expectations leads to unsatisfaction when you don't achieve your goals, and in fact that is something we can't control. So it is better totake things less seriously, enjoy the process, have fun while doing and don't overthink the result.
@beebeemotsumi 2 жыл бұрын
This is very true
@danas5846 2 жыл бұрын
thanks !! hope ur doing better
@nope.260 2 жыл бұрын
Oh definitely.for me the most important thing to do was getting myself busy and ignoring what other people say, including my friends whenever they dislike something that I really like or enjoy.
@ayanm1867 2 жыл бұрын
I love your animations. It’s very colorful and each character looks different in a cool way . I used to do those things but I slowly started to love myself .
@annie7580 2 жыл бұрын
your insight means a lot, ty!!☺
@oconaddify 2 жыл бұрын
I used to struggle with self love. I was born male and being praised as a handsome boy never sat well with me. I wanted to be a girl from the time I was five. But I was in denial about being trans and just sucked up male puberty. I still never loved myself nor thought I was attractive. It affected how I interacted in relationships. Eventually, after suffering a really bad heart break, I expressed to a friend that I want someone to love me. She told me I need to be able to love myself. Eventually, I realized I don’t love myself as a guy. So I began HRT and am finally living full time as a girl. For the first time in my life, I genuinely love myself.
@khruoizukowolf 2 жыл бұрын
This video speaks to me so deeply, every last one of these things are exactly what I feel, the feeling of self love is non-existent, my biggest thing is apologizing needlessly, I get told to stop apologizing only to almost instinctively do it again, I have to make the effort to stop myself, I'm in a stage of recovery for my psychological issues and self love, self esteem, anything to do with myself, I subconsciously end up pushing aside, doing things for my own time makes me feel terrible, like I need to focus on my friends rather than myself, I grt antsy and feel like I have to dive back in. You got me this time you guys.
@stayhappylittlemermaid 2 жыл бұрын
It is not how we live, but out of gratitude and love how we live for others.
@yourspace3877 2 жыл бұрын
I relate so much to this video. Thank you psych2go!
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
No problem :) How many signs did you relate to?
@tw_venter0e787 2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go all of them
@ausrine_vin 2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go 2🙃
@yourspace3877 2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go all of them
@downhomesunset 2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go All of them-I’m scared of my ex husband
@khhthuiting 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for making this video!! Resonated a lot to it! Sending love to everyone who is struggling with this!:) 💖
@montanosegaming7011 2 жыл бұрын
Just seeing a new video from this channel it means that i am going on one of the best adventures of self education
@dailydoseofmedicinee 2 жыл бұрын
Love yourself first and everything else falls into line.👍
@M1N1Munchies 2 жыл бұрын
This is perfect timing! I just started learning about self-esteem and loving yourself.
@Minorin_Chan 2 жыл бұрын
Your videos always help me on bad days . Love your videos so much !!
@tiaglassbutterfly 2 жыл бұрын
I remember watching the same topic's vid on this channel and how I literally matched with every single point almost 3 years ago. It's beautiful to look back and see how far I've grown into loving myself, I honestly never thought I would get here and I'm so grateful
@SourPop93 2 жыл бұрын
I got 4/5 I love how she has such a soft voice, it's so relaxing you know😌
@user-oi3bk7iv4d 2 жыл бұрын
thank you for making these videos I understand all types of meanings that I experience.
@xii5452 2 жыл бұрын
I love your videos so much!
@loujew8973 2 жыл бұрын
This is me, even the toxic relationships. It was an abusive ex who still to this day puts me down, nothing I do is ever right, we have kids together so I can't escape. I am taking 2022 to focus on myself and to hopefully learn to love myself again. Thank you for your videos they have helped me understand myself alot.
@SamPings 2 жыл бұрын
The first one hit me straight away. Even when I'm doing something productive, I still feel I wasn't at some point..😓😓
@fireinthefreezer 2 жыл бұрын
The fact that she knows exactly what I'm thinking in these videos..
@Angelik_ 2 жыл бұрын
Perfect timing,I'm totally learning to how to love myself too and this is kinda help me to aware to understand or manage things on this :DD
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
We hope this video helps :) How many signs did you relate to?
@varshanalokesh3303 2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go all
@Angelik_ 2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go 4 of them actually that mostly related on the mistakes of the past for some reason that haunts me but I'm trying to make my self keep forward and becaming better rn (I hope I can do it)
@Angelik_ 2 жыл бұрын
@@varshanalokesh3303 Your not alone too,Almost same somehow :((
@tammy6452 2 жыл бұрын
3:35 you feel past mistakes are the equivalent of a real life danger. First time I ever actually let this sink in when it was put this way. I have probably heard it on different occasions but it didn't take hold. Keeping this appropriate to the situation is a struggle when I hear this topic. I put up walls as a kid to protect myself from chaos in my family of origin. If I made a mistake, the first assualt was emotional, if that didn't get to me, it escalated from there. We eventually fell into a pattern of me not getting dinner. I literally put those walls up to this day as if I am fighting for my life when I am in survival mode. On top of the abnormal two years there has been other issues going on that had to be dealt with. I have been in recovery for many years, I always find a new way to climb up the spiral of getting better. I just pray these walls have not cost current connections with people.
@Momin_Azam 2 жыл бұрын
This video really hit home 😔. I struggle with depression, which comes with low self-esteem and low self-love, so I related to a lot of these. Thank you for making really good videos that are educational and relatable ❤!
@ThePochiGamerPochi622 2 жыл бұрын
YOU’RE RIGHT! I HATE MYSELF! :D
@-roblemedio-485 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing unexpected by your profile :D
@Skemati 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Psych2Go. I just wanna say that. This video that you made. Has reassured me a lot that I'm not the only one going through this kind of problems and. You are probably the closes to actually understanding the struggles I deal with. Unlike other people in my life. Thank you so much
@DrJustininJapan 2 жыл бұрын
TAKING TIME FOR YOURSELF is a key aspect of building and maintaining your mental health!! 😊 ❤️ ☀️ WITHOUT HAVING TIME TO REFLECT ON YOUR OWN GROWTH, i don't think you can give fully to others .. you will always just get drained a little more every day 😔
@joban4963 2 жыл бұрын
I was always taught that giving myself any sort of consideration at all was selfish and tearing the family apart. This went all the way down to expressing an emotion my mother decided I shouldn't have. I was coerced into doing things that effectively destroyed my life, and any hint of pushback was taken as me being violent and aggressive. Apparently when I got punched in the face that was because I deserved it, but when I pulled a face that was me being intimidating and trying to manipulate people. As far as I am aware the only thing I really did 'wrong' as a child is outsmart my father, and not be the same personality as my mother who considered me to be her pet.
@yuwi.6180 2 жыл бұрын
5 signs you don't love yourself : 1. You feel bad when you take time out for yourself. 2. You keep falling for toxic people. 3. You apologize for things even when you don't need to. 4. You beat yourself up over your past failures and mistakes. 5. You second guess yourself and struggle to trust your own intuition.
@lordmaul7904 2 жыл бұрын
Ouch I've fallen for 4 out of 5. Toxic love Is one I've avoided. Thanks for the helpful Info although thanks for every video even if I am still a sad Morbid wreck. You help me Explain this state I'm in to other people
@thunderblossom8114 2 жыл бұрын
Definitely struggle with self love. Deal with depression and I’ve endured a lot alone and without support
@Blueghost136 2 жыл бұрын
This video came at the perfect time!! Was having a hard time but now I greet this day with love in my soul.
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@catatoulli 2 жыл бұрын
I actually acknowledged the fact that when I take time for atleast 20-30 minutes after an entire month or atleast after a hard week, and I spend time with myself maybe in the balcony listening to soft music on loop and looking back on everything that has happened that month/week and process it and actually ask myself how I felt about it at that time and how would l deal with it if it were present in front of me now, and how that particular problem affected me, I tend to know more about myself and each time you know more about yourself, it's a step closer to self love💜💜
@trappart9209 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, I find your practise helpful and going to try it c:
@catatoulli 2 жыл бұрын
@@trappart9209 💜
@eimandiambangan5750 2 жыл бұрын
I had all these signs 2 years ago. I never knew that I didn't love myself. But I knew that I didn't like me. 2021 is truly a remarkable year for me because I was able to achieve inner peace and truly be in love with myself. Just being able to see my growth through my journals is astonishing - from a girl who was so hard on herself and could never tell herself that she loves her to someone who believes and loves herself through and through. Grateful for ending 2021 and entering 2022 with a different outlook on myself and on life. Your channel is wonderful! Thank you for all the things you share 😊
@cmscalvert 2 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend sent this to me, because she knows these are my struggles. She is right. All of these are problems I have all the time.
@YourNickIsTaken 2 жыл бұрын
Self love is overrated. I can work and make GDP w/o loving myself. Usually I've got criticism for everything I do. And people have the same issue that and they don't know solutions but they criticizing mine solutions all the time. So I cut myself from society and I'm rather better alone. But there is the constant criticizm from the society. It makes impossible to love myself.
@lonewolfgamingplus379 2 жыл бұрын
Man.. you literally described my life.
@upbestsalt1551 2 жыл бұрын
How do you "cut yourself from society ?"
@YourNickIsTaken 2 жыл бұрын
@@upbestsalt1551 It is not possible to do it without the society. Because I go shopping and I go to work I use public transport. But I try to make as many things as possible by myself.
@samuelrivadenera9910 2 жыл бұрын
1.Do 2.You 3.Know 4.Who 5.Is 6.The 7.Most 8.Beautiful 9.Girl 10.In 11.The 12.World 13.Look at number 2
@Simplifried 2 жыл бұрын
* le epicly trolls in not girl *
@samanthagreen8054 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your videos. They TRULY have saved my Life. I've been triggered by MASS media in general lately. 😣😨😖😢😡😵 BUT YOUR KZfaq channel videos ALWAYS make me smile, even when I sometimes get my feelings hurt or outright disagree, lol. 😋😘 The soothing narrator VOICE, the endearing animation, the scripts and style in which you communicate ideas and concepts- learned, wise yet still relatable and easy to understand. THANK YOU!!!!!!!! 😍😎😍😎😍😎😍😎😍😎
@stilldomi Жыл бұрын
I'm glad to see that this information is so readily available in a simple format such as this, thank you
@imrishika6477 2 жыл бұрын
This is the most relatable video i have ever seen for me
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
We hope this helps :) How many signs did you relate to?
@imrishika6477 2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go almost all
@imrishika6477 2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go and one more thing is that i feel hurt , left out when i don't get attention and i often feel less productive like i am useless and i am having anxiety and burn out often what should I do 🥺
@imrishika6477 2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go i am scared and shy so i can't be my real self in front of other people it's like i am a fake person but i was not like this before
@your.l0cal._.sleepyhead449 2 жыл бұрын
Love your videos 💕I also really need to work on loving myself lol
@Ladyhoneybee606 2 жыл бұрын
You made me realise ive been hurting myself and beating myself up mentally, thank you! Ill try to do better
@h0m3st4r 2 жыл бұрын
This video points out exactly what I've been struggling with all my life.
@vintage.8288 2 жыл бұрын
0:45 = You feel bad when you take time out for yourself. 1:30 = You keep falling for toxic people. 2:15 = You apologize for things even when you don't need to. 3:10 = You beat yourself up over past failures and mistakes. 4:01 = You second guess yourself and struggle to follow your own intuition. *SENDING HUGS WHOEVER SEES MY COMMENT! KNOW YOUR WORTH. TREAT YOURSELF WITH KINDNESS LIKE HOW YOU ALSO TREAT OTHERS!* 💕
@haileytheschizo7893 2 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend is amazing she grounds me when I'm losing my grip on reality she has a family emergency to take care of or so she says she's probably cheating on me I know her type I've fell for women and men like her before
@briannadrawsstuff-4745 2 жыл бұрын
Love the content you make! :) Keep making the wonderful videos :D
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! No problem :) How many signs did you relate to?
@ImHere-4 2 жыл бұрын
I related to 4 of them
@briannadrawsstuff-4745 2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go I related to most of them. I have always had self-esteem issues, specially with my weight. I have always weighed more than most people around my age and I have been insecure about it for years to the point where even my own family starts to pick at me for it or make jokes about how much I can eat. Your videos help me get through tough times and I appreciate the positivity :)
@vivianingram7566 2 жыл бұрын
This video deserves a golden like! I doubted and struggled to love myself all the time!
@bettymoser4323 2 жыл бұрын
Number 3 and 4 really hit home, as the new year approaches, I am thinking of ways I can be more happy with myself than I am now.
@businessisboomin7252 2 жыл бұрын
Love the drawing style of this video haha
@annie7580 2 жыл бұрын
ahh thank you so much!!☺
@ReaperEnd 2 жыл бұрын
I definitely struggled with self love at one point and still do to a point. I constantly threw myself down for everything and if we go off the list (which I know isn't the universal know all for everyone) I've hit all the points at the same time for awhile. Thankfully I'm a lot better at self love now even with occasional struggles. If there was anything that I could say to people who felt the way I did, I'd say that with as hard as self love seems now it does get better eventually. If you struggle with that voice in you that's beating ya with the past mistakes and memories fight back. All those mistakes and things in the past taught lessons right?
@Sarah-ez6qo 2 жыл бұрын
Thank for this… it really hit me hard… thank you so much for every video you post. Your constant loving videos help me so much❤️. Healing is hard and reaching out is even harder. What your doing on this channel is amazing and I hope you know how helpful you are to me and sooo many other! Thank you for what you are doing.
@rosemary_garden175 2 жыл бұрын
I love your videos it has made me think more about myself thank you for being like a therapist to everyone around here that loves your Chanel
@bastionsea2829 2 жыл бұрын
When I'm doing 'nothing' I feel bad, but when I'm taking time for myself, I feel fine It's quite a distinction
@sam-nf4vi 2 жыл бұрын
Be being insecure This channel:
@Unknown-kg9tg 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you once again I have been going threw sad times and problems now and I always watch your vids to help me a little because I don’t talk with my parents about this kind of stuff
@elijah1494 2 жыл бұрын
Your content always help me with stuff Im going through in my life and I want to thank you for that
@kittykatja5143 2 жыл бұрын
Ugh…self love. The enemy of all perfectionists’ heart.
@aruza_alone 2 жыл бұрын
Ikr?
@justsmile4610 2 жыл бұрын
💜as an army, I always love myself 🎶🎶you can't stop me loving myself🎶🎶
@jedfuentes3305 2 жыл бұрын
Watching ur videos is the best time to watch to start a new life next year.
@shimmy1366 2 жыл бұрын
i knew this is for me definitely… the two essential components of confidence is having self trust and self respect… still learning to love myself have been struggling with self love since i was 20… but i’m still learning up till now i’m 26.. and i do see a little progress in me but still i want to reach a point where i feel so comfortable being alone and doesn’t envy when people around me having partners
@wolfie-_-ranger7932 2 жыл бұрын
I still have a lack of self love, but I’m learning how to be a little more selfish about my health. But I’ll tell you the experience with not loving yourself. Looking back at it, you really don’t care for yourself, you don’t care what happens to yourself, so you try to help others as much as you can while you secretly suffer. There’s also a fear of anything you say or do will make people judge you, and for me, I didn’t want to be judged the wrong way. In the end, it was because my friends were selfless to me that I actually learned how much I was pleading for help. And for others who lack self love, don’t be afraid to embrace who you are.
@Vega.voices 2 жыл бұрын
I‘m so glad you are making those videos. Thank you!
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
No problem :) How many signs did you resonate with?
@Vega.voices 2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go Kind of all of them but there are other reasons why I feel that way too
@Vega.voices 2 жыл бұрын
@H*T content😍 delete that right now please. This is a channel for mental health.
@QnM-Psychology 2 жыл бұрын
💯🌟💚Summary💯🌟💚: 1. You feel bad when you take time out for yourself. 2. You keep falling for Toxic People. 3. You keep apologizing for things you don't need to. 4. You beat yourself up for past failures and mistakes. 5. You second-guess yourself and struggle to follow your own intuition!
@QnM-Psychology 2 жыл бұрын
Have a nice day guys!
@cameragirlwithheels2940 2 жыл бұрын
thank you so much, this is totally me and this is great because i watched it on 1st january and started to love my self from this year
@justaguy1738 2 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate that you can make 2 videos daily, that's amazing. Keep it up 👍
@belle7591 2 жыл бұрын
RIGHT in the FEELS! Thanks...
@drinasun6984 2 жыл бұрын
I had all of these things in my past, but I'm doing better now. I love myself more now.
@Shay_TheUnpopularOpinion_ 2 жыл бұрын
This was hard to hear but I am so so grateful to have clicked on this video!!♥️
@adriel_yt781 2 жыл бұрын
THIS IS AMAZING
@Cramzy 2 жыл бұрын
You help me with my issues thank you very much for spreading this information that helps me a loot
@bluescale9667 2 жыл бұрын
I use to lack self love for the longest but I am doing better now and I love this video
@nate2759 2 жыл бұрын
This means I’m definitely starting to love myself as I used to do all these things but now only a couple. Being compassionate to yourself instead of beating yourself up is strong one that I’ve learnt, it’s really changed my life for the better.
@Rose-gy1cc 2 жыл бұрын
Yes. I’m tired of saying sorry. It’s something I do too much. I’ve been through all of this but am taking more time to care for me. It’s just self love is viewed as being lazy in my home.
@cherylsmith4826 2 жыл бұрын
I sorry for your home situation. It's difficult enough to figure out how to overcome the things you realize about yourself but to not have any support is heavy. Stay strong & realize you are special- I send you strength
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